Steve Found the Man Who STOOD HER UP, TWICE ✌🏾

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Ай бұрын

She thought it was love at first sight, until the guy stood her up twice! Well, Steve wanted to get to the bottom of his terrible dating behavior, she he found him!! #steveharvey #dating
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@YouTubehandl3333 Ай бұрын

Don’t let a man tell you he doesn’t want you, twice !! 😭

@azgreenbeauty2258 Ай бұрын

That is true, is very hard for women to understand real men only real men understand real men. The lady has pass the test. She is a wife material

@brialau Ай бұрын

This the ONE !!!!!!!

@TheMegatron673 Ай бұрын

Women do it all the time. This is what they refer to as "The chase".

@elite.matchmaker Ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯

@Madamnutmeg Ай бұрын

She's too thirsty

@nonololo491 Ай бұрын

I wouldn’t trust a man who just broke up with another lady , he is just not ready!

@williamcarter9066 Ай бұрын

It’s called rebounding!!

@nellykh1900 Ай бұрын

I was in such relationship and he was just comparing with his ex and l had no choice but to end it.

@sylviarosario6503 Ай бұрын

@nellykh That’s because you have self respect. Something this young lady clearly lacks.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Ай бұрын

@@nellykh1900Yes, exes should stay in the past. You should never mention them again in your current relationship at all, unless it was necessary to a bare minimum.

@raheemjones3237 Ай бұрын

I broke up with a 2 year relationship and found my wife 3 months later.. married 14 years..

@d.maximus1836 Ай бұрын

As a man, I can say this with all honesty & integrity....Girl run for the hills!!!

@jasmynrenee6143 Ай бұрын

For real!! He has a lot of growing up to do.

@bobbrown3827 Ай бұрын

100% for sure... as a guy as well. Seem like a manipulating person with Narc tendencies.

@fionay2014 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂 I don't know why these beautiful ladies give these guys the time of day

@miimosa679 29 күн бұрын

Thank you, THANK YOU! That's what I said... it don't feel right... he don't "feel" right.

@ms.t3039 27 күн бұрын

The guys are even reading him to filth! When guys break bro code you know he’s a sleaze.

@tammya5403 Ай бұрын

She’s too pretty for all this, RUN GIRL

@jzwalz51robin45 Ай бұрын

...meh....

@bstech9358 Ай бұрын

She's average at best!

@opulence_prime Ай бұрын

@@bstech9358and he’s below average.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Ай бұрын

@@bstech9358I think she is ok. But it should be more than looks.

@Jess-hf9me Ай бұрын

@@rogersanchez9635 Keep that "for a black girl" off this video. It's racist, inaccurate, and disrespectful.

@Jessendlesslove Ай бұрын

Rejection is Gods protection! Run!!!!

@rickyshinobi2303 Ай бұрын

Preach on Preacher!

@simonezuri8303 Ай бұрын

Truth! God's protection! ✨

@humblejb8600 Ай бұрын

Got that right run

@DaniD-zy2rl 26 күн бұрын

Yes my aunt always say this!!

@jkelley8173 3 күн бұрын

I gots to use this one👌🏿

@tammya5403 Ай бұрын

RUN GIRL RUN, he’s not even paying for this 3rd “date” Steve is!🙄

@Njeri79 Ай бұрын

Damn skippy! And he didn’t fly himself out either 😂

@liverpool4883 Ай бұрын

Run girl

@princesst1149 Ай бұрын

He hadn’t paid for not one date, Steve flew him out and if we’re being honest I think he came for Steve and the cameras but definitely not for her. What can this man show you there with Steve that he hadn’t shown you when you travelled across the country to see him?

@inezwilliams6862 Ай бұрын

He should have given her money back. He is a joker

@godmadesam Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@CrystalDatingCoach Ай бұрын

Ladies stop looking for CLOSURE! Not investing is closure!

@EJBZ1 Ай бұрын

Yeah, like closure from what? It's done!

@phayla35 Ай бұрын

This!

@simonezuri8303 Ай бұрын

"Not investing is closure!". Well said!

@plannotelist Ай бұрын

I don’t get it, did they date? Or just go on dates. Whyyy is she looking for closure if it was just some dates.

@hawihawi9260 Ай бұрын

Take your L and move on...

@Ready4ChangeRU Ай бұрын

Not sure if y’all caught this. In the text he said it wasn’t a relationship (the reason he stood her up the first time). It was someone he was “talking” to. But when he on the stage sitting beside her, he said it was because of the “relationship”. That man was taken and is probably still emotionally unavailable. I wonder if the other woman is his child’s mother, which makes even more sense.

@chillfluencer Ай бұрын

"emotionally unavailable" ... or is it that he isn't a available to get manipulated emotionally...😉

@robertandkristinhall5006 Ай бұрын

Baby momma drama 100 percent

@deb1920 Ай бұрын

@@chillfluencer He's the only one who has been manipulative thus far.

@williamcarter9066 Ай бұрын

All that weak man had to do is explain himself however that’s not how cowards roll!!

@williamcarter9066 Ай бұрын

@@chillfluencer U mean you’re alone and even Sally and her 4 sisters wish they weren’t attached to you from birth 😂😂😂😂

@NH-tb2sm Ай бұрын

I'm disappointed in Steve. Why would he want her to be with a guy like this?

@rinabitoni3746 Ай бұрын

Producers told him to do it, lol... basically, building up a fairy tale story for the viewers. It's TV!

@andresingley4592 Ай бұрын

Right this is crazy

@andresingley4592 Ай бұрын

He’s setting her up to get hurt

@ninawestlake5005 Ай бұрын

Disappointed in Steve? Is he responsible for her? I am disappointed in her. Is she a puppet on a string? I think not. And a man being public about his feelings for you isn't always all that glitters.

@Xx-po1fu Ай бұрын

She is an adult, it's her choice as to whether she dates this man

@JoyceMelton Ай бұрын

When a person shows you who they are believed them

@PositivitySpeaks101 Ай бұрын

Please believe them because you can’t change them!!!

@savillewilliams Ай бұрын

The scars...the scars 😅😅😅

@Lijah578 Ай бұрын

Pleeeeaaasseeeee believe them!

@ElleRichElle-oq5wn Ай бұрын

Learned that long ago!!

@wordlifefactory1656 Ай бұрын

THISSSSAAAA!

@meghanwilliams4295 Ай бұрын

Confusion means NO. Ladies...you really gotta stop being this cute, sweet, and adorable...you have to treat them how they treat you. DON'T LET NOBODY PLAY IN YOUR FACE....Period. Also, he's a little dusty.

@luggerphilippe8409 Ай бұрын

I hear you but in his defense that age from 27-30 can be a big transition for men because there leaving that whole running around life and trying to figure out what being a stable man in a relationship means..not all men, that's if they haven't learned to settle down yet..

@Nia-vc7mp Ай бұрын

@@luggerphilippe8409stop giving excuses

@ninawestlake5005 Ай бұрын

Yes. Dusty vibes. No decent man ever forgets his wallet. You dubble and tripple check if your image and the woman you're taking out are worthy to you. No excuses here.

@luggerphilippe8409 Ай бұрын

@@Nia-vc7mp How did you get an excuse out of that?🤔 An excuse would have been "oh maybe he stood her up because blah blah blah".. what I offer was an explanation to why men around those ages are having a difficult time making up there minds because in this society people tell you to have fun in your twenties when in reality you only confuse yourself by dating so much, that when it's time to make a good decision with a good woman it can be hard because you spent so much time playing games that you can't see a good thing when it's in your face..It's clear to see that this is what's happening with him because he is approaching his 30s and wants to be a better man, well I can see it cause I'm a man..an excuse is different from an explanation to a madness..

@luggerphilippe8409 Ай бұрын

@@Nia-vc7mp kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hJZ4p5uC0MqyoIk.htmlsi=U14TIplbbHHL15P9

@deestevens2883 Ай бұрын

Forget the closure...dude said and done enough.

@KolaAlade-li5db Ай бұрын

Gave him too much room to play with her mind. He can tell you're vulnerable. But he was kind enough not to take advantage of you, but play a few games. Let this go. There is a lot he is hiding.

@clarencebland4861 Ай бұрын

Not take advantage! That’s the part she left out…he made her go “unhh” which is why she gave him a third chance lol!

@wordlifefactory1656 Ай бұрын

Well expressed, that latitude or wiggle room to play with the mind is no joke, once done. NO JOKE.

@gothicyid Ай бұрын

Dude isnt mature enough to man up

@plousia Ай бұрын

Exactly. He's young, immature, and never was taught how to treat a woman

@opulence_prime Ай бұрын

@@plousiahe’s 27 and lame. Hopefully he outgrows being a liar.

@trudy-annsmall9600 Ай бұрын

So true...boy bye

@trudy-annsmall9600 Ай бұрын

@@opulence_primeand manipulator

@laplusbelle7982 Ай бұрын

And she’s de Lu Lu, already has all this “fantasy” in her head about this dude and ignoring All of the red flags…smh

@conqueror03 Ай бұрын

He told her up front he's messing with another chick, that should have been the end of it, next!

@simonezuri8303 Ай бұрын

Yeah! Next!

@poisonivy6477 Ай бұрын

im convinced that a lot of situations women get themselves into is because they don't leave soon enough...

@R0404 Ай бұрын

I mean you can't expect everyone you meet to not be talking to anybody when you meet them. He was honest about talking to somebody else and said he'd break it off......but then he didn't

@user-ze9wx2ym3d Ай бұрын

@@poisonivy6477 also because don't listen.

@simonezuri8303 Ай бұрын

@@R0404 True. I met a guy a few years ago and he was chatting to someone but still wanted to see me to "get to know" me. I stopped communicating with him as he was not available at the time. He made contact with me again after a veryyy long time. You are so right, most people are in relationships or even married when we meet them for the first time.

@TootieTootie Ай бұрын

If a man stood you up TWICE, why would you care beyond that?? Be for real. Some women are too desperate for a man’s attention. 🙄

@cephasmee6456 3 күн бұрын

oh shut up, women do this to good men everyday. Give him a damn chance.

@GMacII Ай бұрын

This is LEGENDARY _breadcrumbing_ on his part.

@jules3048 Ай бұрын

I’m interested how this turned out cause I really think he was just at the show for a free trip and meal tbh.

@annecelestin8534 Ай бұрын

What he’s done was wrong, but to suggest he’s at the show for a free trip and meal is beyond ridiculous. Remember they met in Vegas that means he can afford a trip and meal without help from Steave Harvey. People did bad things but there’s no reason to lower someone standard

@angiebutler227 Ай бұрын

@annecelestin8534 , yes, they met in Vegas, but you don't know if he paid for that trip. Maybe he "borrowed money" from the other woman he was playing around with. We don't know. Maybe the groom paid for his dudes. Some people have money to fly their bridesmaids, or groomsmen. But what we do know is, he claimed to have left his wallet at home. "No honest grown man would do this." Only men who lie and play games plan a date, get all dressed up, but "conveniently" forgets his wallet. I don't put it passed him that he wanted a free trip to the Steve Harvey show. Why not? This gives him an opportunity to be on TV, look good, and try to charm everyone.

@jules3048 Ай бұрын

@@angiebutler227 thank you!

@annecelestin8534 Ай бұрын

@@angiebutler227 it seems you didn’t listen when people are talking because Steve said he is the one who tracked him down after he learned of the story. The way you are talking seems you know a lot about this man 🧍‍♂️ life other than what you saw on the show. That’s the world 🌎 of social media

@opulence_prime Ай бұрын

Probably to spite the other girl.

@commonsensecorner7275 Ай бұрын

No, No, Nope!!! Too many RED FLAGS… 🙅🏽‍♀️

@CandiceStraker Ай бұрын

Exactly to many

@87Lohan 17 күн бұрын

Sounds married to me

@joel9909 15 күн бұрын

show me the actual red flags

@037deejay 2 күн бұрын

RIGHT. That she is ignoring on purpose. Laugh now cry later.🤷🏽

@amaj_lex Ай бұрын

So he basically went on another free date lmao

@nurseshaemen Ай бұрын

😁

@lg_ada2695 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@Dezwrr Ай бұрын

real talk 💀

@Summer_li53 4 күн бұрын

Then go say ohh to Steve paying

@amaj_lex Күн бұрын

@@Summer_li53 lmao right.

@lindsaybartels6251 Ай бұрын

“I left my wallet at home” Uuhh How is this still an excuse? I never bring a wallet. You can pay with your phone

@Ready4ChangeRU Ай бұрын

Exactly! I said the same thing. I have Apple wallet.

@babypicassoeisenstein Ай бұрын

true but not everyone has it. I don't have it.

@kwilson4125 Ай бұрын

@lindsaybartels6251She can’t fly in and out of town dictating his schedule and that he takes her out. She needs to calm down her masculine, aggressive energy. When he is ready, they can plan TOGETHER or he will come to her. Her feeling enamored but talking stern is confusing.

@sooome9294 Ай бұрын

He could not pay for it or he could not have the charges show up on the notification, because the "other" relationship would have found out. Not sure at the moment it was even his card.

@AT-zl6dk Ай бұрын

Yep too many option to pay now a days. Zelle, cash app, wallet, pay pal, Venmo Also he said talking to and now it was a relationship. I have questions about this child of him. Age of the child and if there is coparenting issues.

@user-zx5xw4yw2e Ай бұрын

She's sooooo desperate. Bless her heart.

@mtgfa12 Ай бұрын

Absolutely true. I just don't get why women allow themselves to be played so often.

@i.can.sew.anythingchic3295 Ай бұрын

I’m was never interested in a man that I liked …only a man that jumps through hoops for me…

@yota8325 Ай бұрын

@i.can.sew.anythingchic3295 a man jumping through hoops is also desperate

@whatthe3504 Ай бұрын

@@mtgfa12 cause she is in denial about what her options are.she really thinks a 27 yr old is going to take her serious she might not be even able to have kids definitely wont in a few years. shouldnt be just hooking up with dudes probably why she isnt married already not dating with intention besides having fun.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Ай бұрын

@@i.can.sew.anythingchic3295Sorry but if I were a man, I would never jump through any hoops for a woman. If they make you do that, they are not worth it.

@marywillis8372 Ай бұрын

"He's just not into you."

@blackwidor Ай бұрын

Should have set him up with a therapist

@Kizzyfran Ай бұрын

lol

@MrsB320 Ай бұрын

She needs the therapist 😢 THIS IS SOMETHING 😮😢

@FirstnameFaith Ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@trudy-annsmall9600 Ай бұрын

Good comment😂😂

@Indigogirl523 Ай бұрын

Or set her up with a date with someone else!

@roses4me451 Ай бұрын

"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on ME." There is NO way a woman should be "chasing" or "begging" a man for love & attention. "When people show you who they are the FIRST TIME; believe them." (Dr. Maya Angelou) There are too many fish in the sea to be casting your net in the same spot ladies. It is very immature of him to "stand her up" TWICE if it wasn't an emergency. It shows signs of immaturity. In time, GOD will send the person who is right for you in your life.

@shinasmith1958 Ай бұрын

Right ! I hope she is able to read your comment on this one ☝️

@misstab2869 Ай бұрын

Yes, and didn't Steve say don't let a man tell you twice he don't want you? Steve just helped to set her up to be told tols 3 times. He's grown, and he's standing her up and saying he left his wallet? Heck, no, he still will not do her right!!!!! Sorry, she's going to be disappointed again. A man knows if he wants you or not,and when he does, he b goes out of his way from the beginning to show you. you.

@azgreenbeauty2258 Ай бұрын

Women can not understand real men, only real men understand real men, uncle Steve does. The lady pass the test. She is a wife material

@cjlovick Ай бұрын

I didn't see her beg at all.

@v.c.b.1755 14 күн бұрын

Amen... and don't wait until you're 50+ years old to learn and practice/apply to this your precious life! ✨️

@moy16ful Ай бұрын

Letting a 27 year old drag you all because he’s tall is crazy.

@EnthusiasticCave-uj1kv 22 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@Summer_li53 4 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@1GLDNLDY Ай бұрын

I stopped @ 2:48 to say that this man of drivel makes my skin crawl. He is WAY TOO MESSY from the start. She's bright and beautiful. Keep moving, sweetie. Love will find you.

@hb5399 Ай бұрын

I agree he's really messy. She found something in him though and didn't want to let go. But her body language when he came out was sort of negative. I don't think this worked out for her.

@novelmaker5071 Ай бұрын

Please run! He’s no good!!

@simonezuri8303 Ай бұрын

Yeah! True love will find you!

@bihsaidwhatnow2392 Ай бұрын

My granny said, "Put your track shoes on and RUN from that "boi" like Sha'carri Richardson with a quickness!!!"

@draymondrob4818 Ай бұрын

I'm not a woman - but in her shoes, I would want some questions answered before trying again. Steve is talking about him showing her who he is... he did that already and stood her up twice. All of a sudden he is just going to change and become someone else? I wouldn't be buying into that right away.

@shalanathomas7751 5 күн бұрын

Correct 👏🏾

@digthewarmth Ай бұрын

Nah, I can't date a man who responds to me with "I didn't know it was that serious." You're not going to invalidate my feelings, especially after you show up with no wallet of all things. He's not a kind person.

@Wrightn221 Ай бұрын

Girl run! When someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them.

@plousia Ай бұрын

This poor lady is setting herself up for a long time of heartbreak. Hanging on hoping he'll finally be what she wants him to be while he's just a smooth-talking immature boy-man who uses his good looks to get what he wants from naive women.

@colew680 Ай бұрын

Girl you’re a Rebound chick!! He was in relationship the entire time. He was playing mind game s

@tim62103 Ай бұрын

😂😂it be funny playing women

@colew680 Ай бұрын

@@tim62103 yeah until karma slaps you in the face 🤭

@nonya8193 Ай бұрын

@@tim62103 Its gonna be real funny when you rotting away in that nursing home all alone. 😂😂😂

@Wanderer25 Ай бұрын

@@colew680 So does that karma also apply to women who always have a backup dude on standby, or monkey branch from one relationship before ending the other?

@colew680 Ай бұрын

@@Wanderer25 yes it’s called narcissism. Just like the dude in the video. He wanted her as back up supply while he was still in relationship with his girlfriend. He had no intentions of telling her truth; however his actions were clear when he stood her up on multiple occasions. Any man or woman who can’t be alone after break up and don’t ; take their time to heal before pursuing another relationship are insecure and narcissistic. They rather have multiple supplies to fall back on rather than being alone. People like this always end up alone in the end.

@love2sing20 Ай бұрын

I’m sitting here watching this and all I’m thinking is this guy is giving narcissistic behavior and I would say run girl, run!

@sh1659 Ай бұрын

EXACTLY!😬🤢🤮😫

@shooshad3198 Ай бұрын

That’s what I see tooo 😥😥😥

@ingridreim3205 Ай бұрын

She should let him wait and not show up. She wasted already too much time. He doesn't deserve her nor a second/third chance.

@ingridreim3205 Ай бұрын

Right, it would be typical for a narcissist to show up only when Steve invites him to confess (pretend) true love in public on TV😮

@vuyojoy1816 Ай бұрын

THANK YOU!!!! I knew I wasn't the only one!

@xFNikki Ай бұрын

If you having problems by date 2. RUN!

@teresamarie7460 Ай бұрын

You don't need "closure" after one week. 😂

@PONDU111 Ай бұрын

I see her body language she’s still deeply infatuated by him. Ladies never like a man more than he likes you. Act stoic until he shows and proves himself to you and keep his promises. Me personally after the 2nd times he blew me off I’ll block him everywhere for zero chance to talk to him or hear the bull he got to say. I would have moved on already! But she’s young, she’ll learn with age and maturity.

@simonezuri8303 Ай бұрын

Well said! No third chance!

@clarencebland4861 Ай бұрын

A third chance!! Dude must’ve marinated that fish like a MFer! He’s got license to kill lol!

@PONDU111 Ай бұрын

@@clarencebland4861 So right 😂😂

@ankank2990 Ай бұрын

He has a kid, run for your life. They always go back to their baby mom.

@AllThingsSoul Ай бұрын

He's in love with someone else, who doesn't love him. That's why he's wishy-washy. All he did was accept an all-expense paid trip to the show, which paid for his flight and hotel. I would not have accepted another date with him because all he's going to do, is try to get her to his "free" hotel room. She asked if he would bring his wallet instead of asking if he was still dating someone else. She should move on. If he's really in love with her, they'll come back together because he won't let her go so easily. He's infatuated with her because she's beautiful. His heart is either broken or somewhere else.

@TheVenomSquad007 Ай бұрын

Say it again for the people in the back row! ‘Cause they couldn’t hear ya!💯

@Fawn0001 Ай бұрын

@@TheVenomSquad007 100 Girl! This guy is broke and dusty and she needs to move on!

@gforcewindswinds291 Ай бұрын

He's a player. Didn't hand her the money he OWED her with interest. I had a Bruce Kelley like this - 24 years of his playing, lying, lying about divorce, lying about travel - still owes me thousands of dollars for paying for his daughter's school loans...he said he would pay it when on full retirement - that happened several years ago. SHE should RUN.

@tessouiddir Ай бұрын

Are they still together ?

@ankank2990 Ай бұрын

He’s in love with his baby moms… he even said he had issues with his quote on quote “family” concerning his kid. He still considers his baby mom family. That goes to show he’s invested and will never take a female serious

@sooome9294 Ай бұрын

Run, girl, run, no 90 days, believe him the first time he tells you who he is. He is not what you need. Watch and see. Now that he has gone public with it he will be on his best behavior, when he thinks you are "hooked" his true self will start to show. It is easy to be "good" for a short time, not in the long run. Run, girl, run. Trust your own instinct, don't listen to anyone and I mean anyone, no matter how famous or how much peer pressure is on you. Have someone you trust 100% be accountable to on a daily/hourly basis for the next 90 days and listen to the voice and not the feelings. The feeling will leave, the excitement will leave, and the true personality will come through in time. Run, girl, run.

@paulf144 Ай бұрын

He must have knocked that out the box at some point because you can't tell me there aren't men in her vicinity that she can date.

@CoffeeCrazy Ай бұрын

That’s the part that is left out!!

@clarencebland4861 Ай бұрын

Probably did

@clarencebland4861 Ай бұрын

We saw the smile and the hug…dude might be knockin that thang out right this minute!

@MrsB320 Ай бұрын

This girl is CRAZY!

@andresingley4592 Ай бұрын

Right. And a nice guy she probably would ignore.

@staywell7217 Ай бұрын

This young lady can do so,so, so, so much better! Please permanently shut down this foolishness. Nothing to be confused about.

@blondeegirl00 Ай бұрын

He's just a Boi. She's a stunner. Reach for the ✨

@soydansogukcesme470 Ай бұрын

as if she is not a young lady.. she is also not that mature.. they go both well togheter. stop acting as if she is a god.. she is a bit dressed up .. come back to reality

@TwilaGardner Ай бұрын

@@soydansogukcesme470 are you ok?

@TheChande Ай бұрын

“… i’ve never felt this way about anyone else before…” Bruh 😅

@SB-tc2jr Ай бұрын

For real... C'mon Bruh! Stop It !!! Stop it right now !!! 🛑

@plousia Ай бұрын

My brother once said that to one of my good friends before ghosting her

@SB-tc2jr Ай бұрын

@@plousiaSMDH - just whhhyyy do they do that !!!

@shalanathomas7751 5 күн бұрын

Exactly 🙄

@Exhaling1 Ай бұрын

I have learned closure is overrated. She wants consistency.... he has been.... his actions are speaking louder than his words. They haven't even dated.

@sierushest1991 Ай бұрын

Love is one hell of a drug.😢 sad sad sad. I pray she finds her peace and dignity.

@jetradaniels9528 Ай бұрын

People always say not to ghost or block. Sometimes, that's all people deserve, even when the connection is undeniable. Clean up your stuff.

@SpaceMel00 Ай бұрын

He's got no accountability at this point. She needs to hold back. But I fear that won't happen.

@babypicassoeisenstein Ай бұрын

'i'm gonna let you go out on me' - so STEVE is paying? Right, that doesn't fix the problem then does it? He's still not paying his way.

@Wonderer888 Ай бұрын

I think he just wanted content for his show because Steve is a mature man and he knows that young boy is no good for this girl.

@simonezuri8303 Ай бұрын

True. Still not paying his way.

@Princessfrmalmighty Ай бұрын

I would not have cared he stood her up twice.

@AllThingsSoul Ай бұрын

His heart is either somewhere else or broken. Stop focusing on looks and look at his character. He's not the one.

@hawaiianrussian1047 Ай бұрын

I swear does Steve somehow only find the same old scenarios on his dating segment that just seems to pander to women 🤔😏😂 Steve’s always been pandering to women on his show for ages 😂😂😂

@Princessfrmalmighty Ай бұрын

@AllThingsSoul right that was my point.

@lexsc2dc Ай бұрын

He is a father. Girl….run like hell🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️. He probably has baby mama drama. You will be the third wheel. Don’t settle!! You’re beautiful and a HANDSOME man without drama is out there.

@RealLadi228 Ай бұрын

Closure from what? Nothing gained😭

@Wonderer888 Ай бұрын

The disrespect, inconsistency, being attached to another woman still and then the fast paced proclamation of love were enough reason for closure. Her blocking him should’ve been closure, his poor communication skills were another, his poor emotional control (him being angry about his baby mama and taking it out on her) was another. She’s had all the reasons why she should’ve walk away from this but I guess sometimes we as women want to learn the harsh way before we strength our boundaries.

@RealLadi228 Ай бұрын

@@Wonderer888 It's so sad our family structure has taken such a hit the lack of fathers, mentors within the community it hurts on so many levels. Women are willing to lower their standards to have any connection or they've decided it's normal to go through so much garbage to get to some type of relationship this is crazy... I was watching and listening in disbelief obviously both people are broken from whatever and we already know where that will go before it begins...just SAD 😭

@RealLadi228 Ай бұрын

@@Wonderer888 🎯

@RealLadi228 Ай бұрын

@@Wonderer888 She's already letting him know he can do anything and she'll be right there, how can he ever grow up or respect her in any relationship... It's time to heal time to evolve we're not out here keeping the same broken narratives generation to generation I pray that people wake up or stay single and find a purpose to help elevate our children and assist our elders.

@Breezy333 Ай бұрын

She doesn’t need closure her ego just got bruised women need to learn how to stop being so emotionally attached to every damn man they meet. Grow some damn skin she looks desperate af

@babypicassoeisenstein Ай бұрын

It doesn't matter what is going on with him - he chose not to communicate and he is actually hiding some very important stuff like his temper issues. He said he's also a father as if that somehow justifies his reasons to be angry.

@tonye.5410 Ай бұрын

Humans get angry, are you human? I am sure you've done worse things. Stop being self righteous.

@angiela3439 Ай бұрын

Booooo👎🏾I wouldn't trust him. He is either really immature or a liar... he's not ready.

@sheilan6959 Ай бұрын

Why would Uncle Steve encourage this? I'm embarrassed for this girl, she deserves better.

@Wonderer888 Ай бұрын

But clearly she doesn’t yet see that deserves better because she’s clearly still infatuated by him regardless of his poor behaviour before they even start dating.

@Eiramilah Ай бұрын

yeah, he usually doesn't do this. Even the audience is not impressed.

@sade_8637 Ай бұрын

Yes and he’s not all that!😫

@Eiramilah Ай бұрын

@@sade_8637 he looks immature too

@sade_8637 Ай бұрын

@@Eiramilah Agreed! He’s a grown boy. She’s beautiful and seems to have a genuine heart.

@MsHJones Ай бұрын

Wow, she is really patient... can't wait for an update

@user-bn4gb5io7q Ай бұрын

The way how she told Steve, “thank you” for paying for their date say it all for me…..she don’t trust him😂😂😂😂 can you blame her 🙄

@Wonderer888 Ай бұрын

Which is one of the reasons she shouldn’t even entertain this. If the trust is shaky so is the foundation of their connection.

@andreajones886 Ай бұрын

John ain't shxt,bruh!🙄 #boybye✌🏿

@MyWayWendy Ай бұрын

Sometimes loves comes into your life when you, least expected and it leaves when you most needed it.

@kimr5479 Ай бұрын

He's 27, that says it all, he's not ready I hope he doesn't disappoint her again but I see it coming!

@tishmonikemassey3781 Ай бұрын

Its a money thing...He cant afford her...Instead of being honest or coming up with cheaper alternatives he blames everything else

@jewelsafire6844 Ай бұрын

Respectfully, an idea of someone is dangerous/unhealthy. It prevents us from seeing who they actually are or their circumstance. In his case, he may have too much going on and is NOT ready for something meaningful (at that time). But wanting what he wants, won't admit to that. And yes, she as well. As usual, it is up to us to discern this for ourselves.🙏🏽

@jimreadey4837 Ай бұрын

I agree. His words of "apology" weren't nearly as good as she thinks they were -- they were jumbled and somewhat nonsensical. She can feel that a part of him _wants_ her very badly... but that does not portend a healthy relationship. Whatever happened in Vegas probably should have stayed there...

@ashesly Ай бұрын

No… this isn’t it.

@sallysson Ай бұрын

This dude rubs me the wrong way. He seems mad immature for the vibe she's putting out there. The only grown man that leaves his wallet anywhere is one who knows having it won't make a difference.

@adj5767 Ай бұрын

Poor girl. She's not getting over this anytime soon. Two chances are fine. A third?? You're asking for messy emotional baggage.

@babypicassoeisenstein Ай бұрын

I really hate that line 'i've never felt this way about anyone before'. Such a stupid line and guys use it a lot. You had a child with a woman and didn't feel that way about her? How irresponsible must you be?

@amaj_lex Ай бұрын

That's something I would never understand.

@sooome9294 Ай бұрын

There are so many red flags you could have a parade with it.

@AnimalLover-dw2wu Ай бұрын

Confused means no. We're no a match, sir.

@JamieModelvsDirector Ай бұрын

I stopped caring about closure but took 36 years to get there.

@agbajeemmanuel9139 Ай бұрын

You gonna bring your wallet? 😂😂😂😂

@SB-tc2jr Ай бұрын

He better bring two so he can reimburse her for the first date !!!! (side eye)

@SB-tc2jr Ай бұрын

@@user-pm6wy3vu9j 😅

@shelynaemerald4676 Ай бұрын

THIS is gaslighting! His texts. He also seems like a major manipulator who "likes" her well enough to keep her hanging on while he juggles her on the side with his other women. Smart lady! I love how she handled the situation.

@Blodia1990 Ай бұрын

Bingo. He is a narcissist

@RandomMcRandomness Ай бұрын

He's all talk & that's all she needs to know. 🤷‍♀️🙄

@hayleymariemills Ай бұрын

ANYONE KNOW HOW IT WORKED OUT? My guess is he pretended to be everything she wanted while on Steve's dime on this date but it went back to being shady after the show.

@Ubhntu3789 Ай бұрын

Why would Steve do this to her? He tells women to have high standards all the time.

@robertkwonnacott504 Ай бұрын

Wow she is absolutely beautiful ❤💐❤️💐 wow just absolutely beautiful and I'm sorry but who The H leaves a wallet at home Seriously. That's a red flag right there . My dad always tells me to never leave your wallet at home 🏡 always carry with at all times she definitely deserves someone better than this idiot 🤦

@Kizzyfran Ай бұрын

You’re very wise and I’m glad that you see her worth! He has red flags waving all over the place !

@robertkwonnacott504 Ай бұрын

@@Kizzyfran thank you 😊 absolutely 💯 I know right

@jollymollyramram9702 Ай бұрын

She’s the type who believes in fairytale relationships and for that she will get played if she doesn’t work on that, because she really doesn’t see this man clearly. Should’ve moved on the first time - he’s not going to change. People rarely do without having worked on themselves. For me he’s giving off major narcissistic vibes.

@Wonderer888 Ай бұрын

She’s getting there but slowly. The fact that she had already blocked him shows she’s learning to walk away despite her feelings. Maybe she needs this wasted time to tighten her boundaries after this hopefully she won’t let another time waster play in her face.

@gloryakiepper7918 Ай бұрын

Run don't walk awayv

@Tha_HeauxHealer Ай бұрын

Wives get chosen. Steve panders to his female audience… and I’m sure this woman is still single

@wc3362 Ай бұрын

If she had to put this dudes business out there on national TV, then that guy did the right thing not cuffing her.

@MrsB320 Ай бұрын

10:23 he already did 😢 he showed her he he was … his esteem is low

@lacey0822 Ай бұрын

How long ago was this?? We need updates!

@AllThingsSoul Ай бұрын

I can guess the update. He tried to get her to his free hotel room, paid for by the Steve Harvey Show, and nothing more. He's not serious. He's in love with someone else who doesn't love him back.

@AT-zl6dk Ай бұрын

Bingo

@sunshineellivic2858 Ай бұрын

Blocking him was closure when we think we are already in love we don’t want to have our eyes open to the red flags then there will be baby mama drama you’re young and beautiful maybe childless why not wait for the next best man to treat you right way to much already and so many excuses in such a short time remains me of the narcissist I meet same behavior

@jooniper93 Ай бұрын

3:24 that white dude😂😂

@babypicassoeisenstein Ай бұрын

he's weird. what is he doing with his face?

@SB-tc2jr Ай бұрын

LMAO - I missed it the first time... hilarious 🤣🤣🤣

@wordlifefactory1656 Ай бұрын

Confusion does mean NO. Well expressed.

@toherfocus4642 Ай бұрын

He’s not that interested because grown men communicate he was full of excuses.

@hawaiianrussian1047 Ай бұрын

Ok…grown women do the same to men all the time wtf? Lol

@SB-tc2jr Ай бұрын

You are totally correct, he's not!

@davidherrera6911 Ай бұрын

She is absolutely gorgeous. He doesn’t deserve her.

@mamborena Ай бұрын

An undeserving man will always get an attractive woman if she's desperate.

@llnn0011 Ай бұрын

No man that really wants you would ever miss a chance to see you/spend time with you.

@4OR-Designs Ай бұрын

what if you were at a co-workers funeral and you end up talking to a guy at the funeral that you liked. You later find out that the funeral was for the sister, of the guy you found interest in. Should he man up and be trying to give all his time to you?

@toietmoi10312345123 Ай бұрын

I love to see it this way. LOVE is always the best?! Love is the winner! Thank you uncle Steve!❤

@PauloLeonard-ol5oo Ай бұрын

This is the reason why I can't stop loving Uncle Steve.👏.

@askronnii7506 Ай бұрын

Tanny is a victim to herself!! I get so tired of this world being quick to jump on the side of the woman. She's a pretty girl but I think that a lot of times, we as women, give too much value into the external, fake hair, nails, surgeries, etc. and not enough to better understanding that it's not the outside that is broken, it's the inside! When we respond in a manner that confirms that bad behavior is OK, then we become victims to ourselves, he is too weak to have the power to do that! That spirit of brokenness has a stronger pull, than a pretty face. His spirit knew what he was doing when he "left" his wallet. I have no doubt he had it on him and his assumption/test of her response was on point, "she's gonna pay." That gave him more information about her than the dress she wore. Girl please! Focus on internal self, what you have control over, being better inside and then out. You are beautiful, you got this, now!

@4OR-Designs Ай бұрын

I... really hear what you're saying on that. However, I am sure Steve has heard both sides of their stories. Both of their lives may be a little messy. My thoughts are also against this, seeing it from a limited view. I do know this, if they do both have monsters in their closets, it's better to face the monsters together, than it is to face the monsters alone. That of course restating.... they are fighting the monsters together.

@kayk2899 10 күн бұрын

@@4OR-DesignsI can understand if they were already in a relationship and made a choice to work on their monsters together but in this case they barely knew each other. How about they work on their monsters individually and when they are healed enough to pursue a relationship then do so. The young lady gives off desperate vibes.

@4OR-Designs 10 күн бұрын

@kayk2899 Every survival preparation channel on KZfaq will tell you not to be a lone wolf in crisis. Most people in the US are living life in a crisis. It's a small part of the population that is not living in a crisis.

@beatriceowusuachaw6210 Ай бұрын

Respect your self

@tanakamlambo1296 4 күн бұрын

Steve did her dirty! She needs to RUN!

@patboatman966 13 күн бұрын

Gurl,you need to run as fast as you can run from that dude.😂😂😂

@janetmccarty7559 Ай бұрын

Mr. Harvey, from the start of your show your facial expression rarely changed. You had a look of WOW! This young lady is for real. WOW! And then the date comes out and again you had a look of disbelief when you were listening to him. By the way Mr. Harvey, you are a good listener, I fall short in that category. I love how you connect to your audience. I'm just going on your facial expression and your voice. You were not your happy, funny, relaxed guy. You didn't look or sound like you were in to it. Can't say I blame you, if thats what you felt, Wishing you a good year❤

@babypicassoeisenstein Ай бұрын

'allow him to show you who he really is' -well he cannot do that now can he steve since YOU'RE PAYING FOR HIM. So all that can happen on the date is he will smooth talk and they'll kiss. He won't show anything because YOU HAVE ENABLED HIM, Steve. What is going to be able to show when you've paid for everything? Also, his priorities are all wrong anyway. Mate - YOU HAVE A CHILD. BE WITH YOUR CHILD.

@SB-tc2jr Ай бұрын

Yeah, what was Uncle Steve talm bout! He ALREADY showed her !!!! Dang!

@jonnyseablue6911 Ай бұрын

How you go from blocking to Steve Harvey 😂😂😂some women are unbearable

@Handle18880 Ай бұрын

I blame Steve for even allowing this. Flying him out and comping a night out on the town doesn’t mean he’s stepping up, he’s just an opportunist. It’s better to be very unforgiving with men who have made no effort, no investment and show no integrity. Where are they now? Nowhere I bet. 😙

@Exhaling1 Ай бұрын

This is what mean talk about..... he showed you who he was and you still giving him a chance. He's ok looking. He's broke. He flaked on you so he lies, respectful, and you showed him that you don't have boundaries. He doesn't have to chase you.... uncle Steve is senile for this.