I'll never forget my psychopathology professor saying that matches aren't made in heaven; they're made in the unconscious..

Thank you Steve and Sue! More of these please 🙏🏻😊

Keep talking please people, love this kind of conversation

Thank you I am a Pisces and my husband is Pisces to. We have been married 64 years in July.

Thank you for these lovely chats.

sue,thank you for sharing and how you came to 'know thyself' ....helpful to hear other journeys similar to one's own. thank you.

Saturn in the 7th here, and you are completely right about the attraction to partners older in your youth and younger later on. Fits me completely!

I have Pluto in Virgo in the 7th. You just described my personality ! I am profoundly , deeply in love with myself … freedom from the bondage of self is SWEET ! Don’t give up. Keep striving. Many Blessings to you from Sonoma County, CA . Thank you both for this lovely lil tea chat! 💙🪬💙 #SteveJudd

Wow! I am a 1954 cancer rising Virgo. In my late 50s I came to a similar point of being happy on my own.. being done with relationships. Thanks for sharing so wisely.

Fascinating! I never knew the 7th house holds so much information.

Chiron in the seventh house here, 45 yrs of my life my love relationships have been trauma one after another. I currently feel like im working internally through the whole lot, its very emotional.venus, mars and pluto in libra 12th house, libra rising, Virgo sun

Love these folk xxx thank you xxx

Pluto in 7th - spot on. Agree 100% with the Golden rule of relationships 💖💖💖

Love you two doing these together. I agree Steve on the 7th house sign, but for me it seems to be Pisces Sun and not the other placement too much. Like Pisces moon…. No, they go MIA and I don’t like that. My boss is a Pisces Sun and Mercury and we get on great!!! His NN sits with my NN and Pluto in my 2nd house. Also, my ex boyfriend (on and off 7 years) his Saturn is in Pisces which is his 3 house but in my 7th in synastry and he is 14 years older than me. I’m a Virgo rising so Cap in the 5th, I have always been drawn to older anyway.

Fantastic show you two! Loved it!!! Bravo.👏🏽 ❤

Omg I loved this please please please do more of these relationship based astrology so interesting ❤❤❤ thankyou 🙏🏼😀✨❤️

Yay I look forward to your chats! I have the sun & chiron in my Aries 7th house! I was 26 before I met my life partner. I knew I wanted someone capable who didn't expect their dinner on the table every night....thankfully he's a Taurus Sun chef!! 😂 I have a Cap moon in my 4th house and when younger I had a lot of Aries sun friends but now I'm in my 50's, my best female friends are Cap sun ladies!!

Thank you both love these ❤

Extremely helpful and interesting. Thank you so much, both of you. 🌸

My dad’s 29 degree sun in Aquarius squares my pluto in scorpio exact. Very psychologically abusive man. As soon as I saw that aspect between our charts when I got into astrology, a light bulb switched on in my brain. It made me realise the abuse he put me through. He’s no longer in my life and I feel so much lighter ❤ In other news, soon after I cut my father off, I almost dated a man whose sun in Leo exactly squared my pluto. When I saw that, I said nope and ran away very fast! 😂

Really enjoyed this!! Thank you both! ❤❤

Thank you so much to you both. More chats like these please!!! ✨️💜✨️

I have moon conjunct chiron and vesta in Taurus in 7th = constant constant constant working on feelings in myself and others wounds neglect abandonment love work bosses friends strangers teachers always connecting to others empathetic towards the most broken in the room to unconditionally understand

Thank you for your amazing insights. ❤💕⭐️

You guys have the ease of flow❤ best ever team. I've watched other's with you Steve, all great, but you and Sue have that flow energy in spades. Wonder what you both have in the 7th house? ❤❤❤❤❤❤

these chats are always fascinating thank you

such a fantastic and informative conversation of this theme, thanks for diving into it! I have Pluto in my 7th house of Leo (I do, indeed, enjoy Leos!), it is the most connected planet in my chart... in grand trine with Mars and Venus, and sextiling Jupiter and Neptune.... I definitely have no time or energy for superficial stuff, and have always been concerned with how people use or abuse power! And you are so right about first needing to be in healthy relationship with ones self/Self before healthy 7th house relationships can unfold.

Pluto in the 7th here. You were very spot on!!! 😊

Great time listening to you two. Thank you!

Love this! You two have good energy together.

Thank you very much to both of you !

Brilliant conversation & learnings here, thank you both ❤

Yeah, Steve, the love of my life has Pluto in Libra and I- moon in Aries, our relationship couldn't stand the test of time :( But it was karmic, with his North Node conjunct my South Node and Saturn in Scorpio. Thanks for that video! I learned a lot!

Thank you Sue and Steve ❤

Great information. loved it could listen to ye chat all night, thank you both, much love 🇮🇪💞

Love this! ✨ 💕 More please 🙏

Excellent content, more of this would be fabulous, thank you both 🙏♥️

Thanks Steve and Sue!! I really enjoyed this!! Love this so very much!!❤❤❤🎉 Thank you!

Thank you both! 😊

I adore you channel

Thank you Steve and Sue, I love your conversations, way to short The Golden Rule, how true Greetings from Florida US 🌴

❤'d it. I'm so grateful for your talks.

Excellent guys thank you both💝

Love both of your wisdom and the easy chemistry between you two!

Excellent conversation, so insightful! 💗

😊👍👍 I THOROUGHLY ENJOYED this ! A BIG *THANK YOU* to EACH of you, Sue🤗💖 & Steve🤗💖 for sharing!

Thank you Sue & Steve; very helpful!

This was an eye opener of a conversation as well as confirmation of my current situation. Thank you both 🙏✨ My partner is 10 years younger than myself. His Pluto conjuncts my Venus in Libra and sextiles my Sagittarius ASC/Moon/SN conjunction where his Neptune sits conjunct. My Virgo Sun/Uranus/Pluto conjunction is opposed by his Venus which also conjuncts my Saturn/Chiron in Pisces. His Sun/Mercury conjunction in Aries makes a trine to my Sagittarius conjunction whilst his Aries Moon/Chiron conjunction trines my Mercury in Leo. Our Mars’ are in exact trine from Cancer (him) to Scorpio (me). He is a man-child due to a lot of mental health issues. I love him deeply for how hard he works to overcome his disabilities as well as for teaching me how to be in a relationship. At the same time he repels me with his behaviour and my energy levels are constantly exhausted. I find meditation regularly helps ground me.

Loved this one!❤

Love this episode. It was so imformative.❤

So clear, many insights. Thanks so much! I have my Moon conjunct Pluto and Mercury in the 7th

I love you two together you make the unfathomable somewhat safe and simplistic somehow thank you ❤🎉❤😊😅😮😂😊

please discuss being born on a lunar eclipse...i dont find much info about this...what does it mean...thanx so much

Flow with the Go - Steve Judd :)

Thank you, very informative. X

really illuminating.

Sun in the 7th house here. Pisces on the descendant. There’s been a running theme in my life of falling into toxic relationships with people who are either narcissistic or have substance abuse issues (or both) and losing identity in those relationships before waking up and extracting myself only to repeat the cycle 😅 I’ve finally moved through the veil after 40 years on the planet and have recognised my patterns. I’m now okay with being single and have stopped putting relationships on a pedestal

Thank you Sue n Steve. Very interesting discussion. Will you please when time talk about the half of the wheel with no planets for example: 6,7,8,9,10,11 empty houses? Thank you.

❤ Sending love to those who have been abused ❤ ❤ I think that our Birth Charts are like the blue print for ourselves. They will show challenging aspects of our personalities, it's not showing us if we'll be abused in our lives. But our Birth Charts can show us how to get back on track in our lives after we've survived abuse. So that we can recognise abusers and don't have relationships with them and we can then recognise positive relationships and live that way to the betterment of ourselves, others and this planet that we're born on ❤

This was fascinating! My Chiron in my 7th has been challenging. As you say, I’ve worked on myself so much. I’m not a therapist but I do often find myself counseling others in relationships. I also have Pluto on my ascendant, opposite my 7th in Pisces.

❤ Thank you Steve and Sue ❤ I've absorbed lots of information from your video ❤ I thoroughly enjoyed your conversation and inspiration about astrology pertaining to Relationships.. professional, casual, romantic, platonic, educational, etc ❤

Greetings from Brazil! Tks🙏🏼🙏🏼😘

Woooo this was a good one 🤯✨🧡 I have Pluto in the 7th at 4 degrees, explains the intensity of literally everything 😆 Saturn is also in the later degrees of the 7th

Jupiter in the 7th. How many husbands do I get😂

Thanks so much

I’m surprised at how much of what you said about Pluto in 7th I could relate to, even tho I don’t have that placement! 😅 However, my Jupiter in Gemini 7th is in a T-square with Pluto/Uranus(Virgo 11th) and Sun/Saturn/Chiron in (Pisces 5th)… my take is that Jupiter both challenges and exacerbates the opposition… The Jupiter is also the apex of a Yod (Cap Moon 3rd and Scorpio Neptune 12th). Hard to know which pattern does what. Both of my committed relationships have brought up a lot of repressed childhood trauma which has been rather difficult for everybody. Post menopause now, and have no interest in a sexual partnership, and not even keen to live with anyone. Though deep connection, trust, friendship and intimate communication are immensely valued and welcome.

I have Sun in the 7th along with Mercury. My Sun trines my Moon, which is conjunct Pluto. I have a history of being abused and dominated in personal relationships. It started with my parents and has continued. Pluto is currently conjunct my Sun and I have to say the worm has turned! No more Mr Nice Guy.

leo sun with rising Gemini here. I know LOTS of ppl, many with close connections - I yet have to come across a Sagittarius in any of the many important relationships in my life. I seem to continuously stumble across and most deeply resonate with Cancerians, Pisces and Taurus 🤔

I have aquarius in my 7th house and my fiance is an aquarius rising. I'm a Leo rising and his 7th house is in Leo. I do feel like we're soulmates. 😊

Thank you.

I had to laugh when I heard the archetypal/stereotypical behaviors of Libra/Pisces or a Neptune in relationships, being a Pisces sun and moon, Libra rising myself. We do tend to sacrifice for everyone else’s happiness and swear we won’t complain about it or escape through not so healthy things at times!

I have Sun and Venus 1H in Gemini. I’m a 29 Taurus rising. Scorpio ruled 7H. Neptune in Sag 7H house opposite Venus. Tbh I trust easily…because I’m trustworthy. I don’t expect anything I myself don’t give. I trust words and actions…so yes when that changes of course I feel let down…b/c I wouldn’t have done you that way…you know? That said, I have leaned to have better boundaries. Anyways love this discussion would love to see more of this!💜

You're a virgo rising like me! Cool, that's why I resonate with you Steve. TY to you both, this was so interesting

Since a lot of viewers seem to be asking questions, I might try as well: the only aspects between mine and my partner's luminaries are... quintiles, with an exact one between the Suns. I remember Steve mentioning that he takes quintiles and quincunxes into consideration, but I hardly ever see minor aspects discussed in terms of synastry. What kind of energy would it suggest? 🤔

You talk about synastry and aspects between someone's Saturn or Pluto and the other person's personal planets, but is there anything you can or would say about Saturn and Pluto aspecting between partners? or in a composite chart even? I'm specifically curious about his Saturn and my Pluto squaring one another (in his 9th house Saturn in Cancer squares my Libra Pluto in his 11th, with them falling in my 6th and 9th houses if that adds anything). And although any insight is greatly appreciated, your reply won't make or break our connection lol. We have plenty of other wonderful and equally awful aspects to keep our connection interesting and hard to call 😆💚 Keep these up you two! Loving these podcasts!!!

well that was another good chit chat, hope to get my chart done soon Steve,,,,,,.:)

Thank you both great job! I must agree with Sue, however, Aquarius with Libra/Scorpio cusp rising. Leo has. not been my favorite sign either, except for my niece, who of course is perfect! lol Blessings 💕☮ BigSur/nepenthe/susan

When the unconscious has been through spiritual rebirth, matches are made in heaven because they become one and the same thing.

I am a virgo rising. My bestest pal since i was 10 is a big skinny piscean. Yip we are easy with each other. Soul mates. Our men are the spare wheels. X

Thank you I have really enjoyed all of your conversations but this one was a little bit too shallow for me. Really important topics were left out completely that I think are so important and interesting when talking about relationships and chart reading. 😊

Hello thanks amazing chat! I am Pisces sun and Gemini Rising- Ive always had not so good relationships with Virgo and Sagittarius. Is there a reason to that in one’s chart?

i have my sun in 7th house and what you said steve is spot on at least in my experience

Jupiter/Uranus conjuction @ 29/27 degrees Cancer 7th H & S.Node/ Vesta 5 degrees Cancer 7th H...Pluto in Leo 8th H

Pff... I have the same rising as Steve. I am one of the loneliest people intimacy wise. That's why I did and still do so much work on this area. To keep myself in balance. And support others too. But my 7th is emtpy.

Interesting discussion. Saturn, the lord of the 7h, sits in the 8h conj Ketu, like my own company. Enormous respect for older people. Jupiter 9h trine Neptune is 10 degrees, the tightest aspect in the horoscope (no addictions). My relationship is with the Almighty first and foremost. Pluto conj Mercury and Uranus in Virgo, no superficial people.

thanks you - such a great partnership :)

The love of my life and I have our Moons in Pisces. 😊

Saturn in 7th house in Taurus, got married in my mid twenties to man my same age, I can't figure out how it works for me, I was married for 23 years but now divorced, maybe I can have stability in later life

Thank you so much for helping me understand my Chiron in the 7th house ❤

HI! I am trying to find in the comments if anyone asked about a sun/saturn opposition ? I believe you mentioned it and I think you mentioned it's not so great...But wouldn't it pull the two together like glue?

Hahaha 100% correct on Uranus in the 7th. I have Uranus in scorpio in the 7th and mars in Virgo in the 5th. No F-ing way can i do a traditional relationship. Friends with benefits is the only way i can stay interested. Plus having saturn and venus within 4 degree conjunction in the 4th doesnt help.

Thank you for this. So I’m curious, what would you say about someone who has nothing in the seventh house as well as nothing in the 10th and 11th Scorpio son with Gemini rising and moon. But I’m curious about that no planets in the seventh house. Thank you

I have Virgo rising sun Scorpio co j newmoon libra 2nd house

What happens if you have no planets in the 7th house

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I'm Virgo rising and really struggle to connect with Pisces. They have been Pisces Sun, not rising. I'm Sag Sun. I have Moon, Venus, Mars and Mercury in Scorpio, but always feel like I'm on a different wavelength to most of the Pisces people I have known (lots of them).

Interesting - at 60, I haven't even dated for over 35 years but have Pluto conj Uranus in 7th house Virgo (4 deg orb) and square Mars

Alright alright …. Saturn both in Aquarius , moons in Aries , and cancer suns 😮😅 What would be your advice !?

Hi Steve

I am 29 degree Leo Rising, 29 degree Mars in Aquarius 7th. I don’t have any Aquarius friends except on Facebook….astrologers. I have Juno in Pisces in the 7th I get along with Pisces best.