‘Stop looking for a man for what he’ll give to you. And look for a man for what he will sacrifice for you.’ Yes ❤️🙏🏽

"Kids would rather be from a broken home than live in a broken home"... I felt that real hard 💯

The moment I understood that I never lacked a father because my Heavenly Father came through EVERYTIME I understood that i lacked nothing. Of course I wanted my actual dad to get it together but I was 28 years old when I put that together and I'm so thankful for that. Jesus is so good! 🙌🏾

“The person that finds real peace and joy is the person that can sit somewhere by himself and be alright with that”

Watching how all these beautiful women feel bad for being treated bad just makes me want to be a better man than I am

I freind of mine was engaged young and she wanted to live alone and find herself. Her fiancé was fine with that and waited for her . They have been married forever and are very happy. If he loves you he will wait and respect you.

Children would rather be in broken families with their mom smiling than in unhappy homes,thanks Uncle Steve 😁

This whole segment is so necessary! I pray these ladies and everyone who comes across this clip receive God's love, healing, peace, joy, encouragement, wholeness, and strength 💖

Your heavenly father is always there!! A big Amen ❣️

“It’s not about what a man can give you, it’s about what that man is willing to sacrifice for you.”

The first girl looks like she about to cry … she looks so hurt … i hope she finds healing and stay strong ❤️

Steve needs to do a show about mothers who were not there for there daughters!! My mother was a horrible mom! Thank God ! I had my Dad!! He was always there for me!!

Sometimes the break up is the blessing ; it’s exactly what we needed! I concur

Kids rather come from a broke home than to be in a broken home.... exactly my words for YEARS!! ❤

Separated my abusive husband in 2018 and filed for divorce in 2019, and it was finalized in 2020. He ran off and was dating the day after I left him, and I chose not to date and focus on my kids. Learned a lot about myself doing that.

So true...the lady in a 12 year relationship...your children will be happier coming out of a broken home than staying in one.

Something I try to practice is not to have relationships with people that don’t show they want a relationship with me. That goes for friends, family and men.

Watching uncle Steve teaches me a lot in life. I thank God for uncle Steve in our generation. He gives us (young ladies) some knowledge of what is going on out there and how to set our priorities right. Stay blessed Uncle, The Daddy to all young women without a father.

I miss Steve Harvey's talk show! He knows how to help women & gives great advice! We need more of his talk shows like this! Never will understand why this show went off the air! Please bring it back ASAP! We love you Steve Harvey!

I met my dad as a teenager and we had some good time together then he disappeared shortly after. When I was in my late 20s (unmarried ), I started yearning for him and I had relocated to another country and didn't know how to get hold of him. I was very sad about it and there's this one day when I was crying and praying and got in a foetal position on the floor crying. A gentleman I knew called me to their family home and told me that as he was praying, he saw me while praying and narrated the foetal position and he said God told him to tell me that He (God) was my father. Since then, I believed that and I've never looked back. I started my healing journey and I've been very okay without my dad in my life and have never desired even to look for him. That's almost 20 years ago.

You can't imagine the courage, the motivation, confidence and inspiration I have got from this video. Thanks Mr. Harvey, the world could use a million of You...we need more of your kind. God bless you 🙏

"stop looking for a man for what he'll do for you, look for a man for what he can sacrifice for you"

Thank you Steve for being respectful towards women and wanting to help us! I wish that all men were respectful towards women and didn’t see us as pleasure and entertainment.

Hey Steve I really love your show, I’m a 28yrs old lady from Nigeria.... I come from a poor background from the hood and lost my daddy at very tender age was 4yrs when death took my father and have been without a man in my life ever since then, I wake up hit the street to make sure to put food on the table for my mum and siblings 🥲 in the Nutshell Steve I’m a big fan ❤️.

Love yourself before you try loving others

That’s right Steve, your Heavenly Father is always there🙏🏼 Amen!

"The person that finds real peace and joy is the person that can sit somewhere by his self and be alright with that" 🗣️wise words Mr Harvey

I did that with a therapist and got a chance to discuss my daddy issues. It really helped.

I'm loving every minute and second of this show right here. God is using him to speak to all of these beautiful women. If this was me on here I would've already been crying looking a mess because this is a very touchy subject for me and I'm a very emotional person I cry over everything lol. May God continue to bless them all 🙏🏽 🙌🏽❤️🥰 much love God bless.

At this point in my life, I'm where you're at Steve. I have had about 3 "adult" conversation with my father to try to figure out 'WHY'. I have a pretty clear perspective of the type of man that he is and I have decided that in this chapter of my life I do not require communication with him. This does not make me any less of a person. I will be 30 years old in a few months. I am healthy, joyful, educated, and thriving while living on my own in LA. I can attribute much of my success to my diligent mom, my grandparents and my Heavenly Father. I am more than enough. 💜

I loved that Steve kept bringing our Heavenly Father into the conversation. He really will and is with you when no one else is. The One who makes the impossible possible. If you haven’t already, give Him a try. God bless you all ❤️

Thank you my Heavely Father for loving me🙏🙏

These women are really beautiful and they seem very nice and humble, that's a shame that they keep running into the or have bad men. We men are not perfect but us good guys are willing to at least work on a relationship and fix the problems that way we keep the spark

Love yourself first! You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself first. Keep God in the midst of your life 🙏🏾

Message to Stormy: Some things you have to accept in life. Like, who gave birth to you, and who raised you. Who abused you. You don’t have to accept the abuse, but you must acknowledge it happened, to heal. And look at who you believe to be responsible. Sometimes it's not the people around who are responsible. They are simply picking up the pieces. Trying to cover the abuser. And if they are doing that, then, they are to blame as well. •But the main thing I want to tell you is that you are beautiful. And I know you know that. Pimples, or weight, or hair, have nothing to do with the woman you become. The choices you make as a woman are what define you in your lifestyle. •You can choose to be like the women you’ve seen. Or you can choose to be something else. And whatever you choose, its okay. It's your life. •And by now you know that the choices you make, also come with repercussions. So keep that in mind. •One thing I learned, early on, about myself, stormy, is that I didn’t like confinement, bail, or vicious cycles of domestic problems. •So every decision I make in my life keeps me free from those things. Because for me, those are the things that a lady should not have to endure. •As far as you having a failed marriage, or a bad marriage. Stop trying to define it. It just didn’t work. Be okay with that answer. Think like a woman, and stop keeping Tally of how many times you have to restart. •One thing I have found in life is that everyday is a new and fresh start, if you are blessed. And if starting over brings you down, you will be down all your life. Just ask the artist around you. The only reason they are “famous” is because they are always making adjustments and restarting. •And in relationships, it doesn’t seem that, is what is going on. People are restarting. But it is. Either you restart in your love, on a daily basis, with the same person, or you realize why you need to remove yourself, and start over with another. •So starting over can't be the issue. Because starting over is a part of life. Not a part of your history that makes you a “bad person”, “Negligent person”, or “irresponsible”. •Starting over sometimes, means you are healthy. It means you saw danger, and you averted it. You loved yourself, you moved to a healthier place in life. How can managing your health be bad? •The thing is you just don’t want to end wrong, or start wrong. You never want to damage another on your way out. Or you're coming in. •But you always want to make sure your life, is what you want it to be. But make a rule never to sacrifice the health, safety, or peace of another to achieve that. •Dog or be dogged, should never be the mentality of a lady. So don’t let it be your mentality. Dress like you want. Wash like you want. Sex like you want. Eat like you want. Work like you want. House like you want. But remember each choice you make, has some level of consequence that comes with it. •Decide who you are, and become the best you you can be. There is no right or wrong answer, unless you have a moral book, judging you, and holding you accountable to a standard, you have chosen for yourself. •And one more thing, trying to understand the line by line, of why it didn’t work, is okay. But thinking that using the changed answer on another man, won't. So understand it, but don’t obsess. Usually when you see one roach, there are ten thousand behind it, hiding. So one problem, is not just one problem. It’s a series of issues, that are hidden, in both of you.

When I hear her talking about her father tears pass through ma eye coz I hv non of them and all ma trust is in God and every thing I ask God first loveu all

Ink hasn’t even dried on the papers yet and she’s already in a new situation. Great advice Steve. 🙏🏾 Take some time for YOU. People are so scared to know themselves.

Steve be speaking some crazy truths.

Man this was therapeutic! And also when she said '5' that was an IMMEDIATE response. She didn't waste no time saying that, which is a pretty good indication (and her friend also telling her) that she needs to leave him. I have daddy issues myself and also come from a very broken home. Your kids can definitely tell when you're unhappy. You're not doing them a favor by keeping a clearly toxic and dysfunctional family dynamic together. Society's idea is to raise you kids with both parents, stay married and live happily ever after..but you're not happy. And if you're not happy, deep down, your kids aren't either. So what's the point? You're NEVER alone in this life and like Steve said, you ALWAYS have God. Do what you need to do to be happy because when you're truly happy and at peace, your kids will be too ❤️

I love you Mr Steve! "Kids will rather be from a broken home than live in a broken home".

Thank you so much for what you said at the ending uncle Steve " You were not created by your father, but by your heavenly father" thank you so much, very saving a life here From Congo Brazzaville, in central Africa

How true Steve's words are. What a great man. No matter how far we live, our problems are the same.

I love the honesty of the first girl

This is a very good platform for those women who are living a difficult life because men thanks Steve

When you feel like something is wrong then something is wrong

Steve Harvey, you are a very wise and intelligent man. I enjoy your show always. God bless you

I love Steve's encouraging words!!, it helped me today!!!!🙏🏼🙌🏽❤️👏🏼😊

If only there was love than hate in the world... too many failed relationships leaving ppl destroyed

Steve is right! I will not remain in a relationship or marriage unhappy. Period

I love how down to earth Steve is. He is no psychologist but he just makes sense and especially with this, he is able to offer a male perspective. I no longer talk with my dad and my two older sisters and two younger brothers were raised by our mother after she and my father divorced when I was nine. It still amazes me to see the differences between me and my sisters with how we turned out. My oldest sister really held onto the faith we were raised in, living by the bible as much as she could and she is still together with her very first boyfriend. The second sister was the complete opposite. She was that very insecure type who would attract jerks who'd only go for the booty call and no commitment. Seriously, all of them were just plain creepy and give me those stares when she would bring them home (after all, I was basically a six year younger and skinnier version than my sister). She ended up married to the last jerk and now she is in the midst of a huge divorce where the guy has even threatened harming their kids if she won't come back to him. I was more left in between. I went out more than my oldest sister, but I did not date every guy that approached me like my other sister. My mother always taught me to stand up for myself if a guy did anything I did not want or like and this was something I emitted. If a guy bothered me I gave him one fair warning and if he wouldn't stop I'd punch him in the face. Simple as that. Before my now husband I have had 3 boyfriends and only the last of those was more serious (the other two were just me and them figuring out the definision of a relationship and simply not being compatible). I never put up with any jerk-behaviors from guys and all of the men I know among my husband and I's mutual friends are extremely respectful and kind.

Praised be to God! To God be the Glory!

THAT BEAUTIFUL QUEEN 28 YEAR OLD QUEEN IN THAT BLUE DRESS TOUCHED MY HEART. WHATEVER MAN HAS DONE HER WRONG DIDN'T SEE THE BLESSING THAT GOD PLACED IN HIS MIDST. I PRAY GOD WOULD BLESS ME WITH A BEAUTIFUL QUEEN LIKE HER.

I had 4 children by 3 men And I had to learn about what is to be a mother to my children And let them go and I am loving what God has blessed me too take care of my children and my self and now I'm am 60 years old And looking forward to getting a hubby

Wow Steve!! Wow Steve!!. You're teaching such valuable great life lessons to all of us. Making so much sense Sir. Thanks for this medium you have provided. Love and appreciate you so so much. Blessings always 🙏🙏💕👊

"50% is a F at all schools!" 12 yrs. You are so beautiful mom of 3. All of the ladies are amazing but my heart is aching for this momma. You are not alone sister.

4:44 the person that finds real peace and joy is a person that can sit somewhere by hisself and be allright with that (c) steve ... thats golden !

Well said Mr steve, God is our father, be yourself, bring out your own personality

Love this!! This is so needed!! To the young lady that is getting into another relationship without closing the door of the last relationship I pray she see things clearly and re-evaluate her life. Some good advice came her way just hope she takes heed!!

I LOVE that Steve talks about God throughout his conversations unapologetically. Thank you Steve 🙏🏽 Highly Favored. Your Heavenly Father IS ALWAYS THERE . YES HE IS.

I wish i had Steve on TV, these short clips on KZfaq are killing me. I need the whole thing

You must work on yourself before jumping into another relationship. Date yourself, understand your deep rooted issues, discover yourself and become self aware. This was the best thing I could have ever learned. My biological father is a narc and he lived a double life between my mother as his now wife for many years. I longed for my fathers love and the moment I opened up to it, he stole from me and our last conversation he hung up on me. I cried, but my personal relationship with my father in heaven kept me through this. Had that happened before my deliverance I would have never been the same. Here I am today with an amazing husband who genuinely loves me and the 3 children I came with. I love me! I am love! I produce what I have not been given. I don't need a man, my man is a bonus too who I already am! I wrote a book called releasing the enemy from within! Release ladies!!!!!💪🏾🥰❤️🙌🏽

Please bring it back Steve, this show is amazing. We need more of your great advice 🙏! Thank you.

KIDS WOULD RATHER BE FROM A BROKEN HOME THAN LIVE IN A BROKEN HOME!!! Baby that is the GOSPEL!!

Love this shows .....from Botswana Africa 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼

I love Steve Harvey, I wish he was my father 😢😢

In a situationship for 13yrs, 2kids, 2 miscarriages and 1 abortion later...what I feel for my man is resentment, anger and regret, I can't get out cos am financially tied up... Just like the last woman everyday I wake up, I feel like am in prison 😔😔😔

Kids will rather be from a broken home than to live in a broken home 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

👏👏 after that breakup she really needs to find herself before jumping into another one.True 100%

@steveHarvey #STEVETVshow I'm having serious mental health issues lately, have Cancer and a whole lot of other health issues but lately I listen to you at night before falling asleep and throughout the day, you make me smile and take away some of those mental health issues... I'd just like to say THANK YOU for being you!! 👌❤️

I'm in tears.. Thank you uncle steve. ❤️

Ladies please pay attention to Steve's every word! Words of wisdom! Purpose can't die........ God created each and every one of you for a purpose! Am praying for you all.

You're like daddy I never had, watching your editions had thought me more than I could ever imagine.

You are such a generational blessing. Thanks for yielding yourself to living a purposeful life

This is healing!!! God bless you, Steve!

"Stop collecting red flags"🔥

I feel the pain for the mom w 12 years relationship 😭😭😭😭

I follow your channel from a persecuted country, some of you have not heard of it. It is Libya in North Africa. When I watch the problems of women and listen to your advice and how you deal and listen to their problems, I find myself as if you are talking about my problem and I feel as if you are giving advice and solutions to me. Thank you very much, Mr. Steve Harvey, for raising topics of interest to women in any spot from Earth😊😍

The person who finds real peace and joy is one who sits back all by themselves and they are alright

Uncle Harvey. U are a blessing to show so many women how to correct their situations and the better way to be for just them without having to rely on a man. U can have the best man in the world & tragedy strikes. Then u have to be able to stand on your own 2 feet, provide for your children & teach them by example. God had a plan for your life & I think it was so rough in the beginning to strengthen you and give you wisdom to teach all of us. Bless u sir & ur family. I wish u many more years of health and the desire to keep teaching w/o preaching. I believe that that is the style that attract so many in your audience and take your advice to heart. I thank you for all u have instilled in me. Kind regards, Ani

God speaks through Steve🙏🏽❤️

This is a good one. I feel so sorry for the lady with the supporting friend. She is hurting bad. She need to take the step of faith. JMO

I did not have a father that connected emotionally with me. I loved my father, I could not trust him. I knew that whoever or whatever I wanted to be in a his world had little to do with my parents and more to do with who I choose to be, as a stable and healthy woman. And that has carried me into being a positive and loving individual. Love yourself first.😊

A lot of men doubt Mr. Harvey because he tells the honest truth. He is the 👌

You always put the truth on the ground ❤️🔥🔥

I think the respect and the appreciation in the relationship is key👍🏻

I totally agree with that statement. Kids would rather be in a broken home than to live in a broken home.. my sister and I would always recommend my parents to stay away as much as possible. And didnt mind them being separated, all blessings given as long as they were happy and we can have some peace 😅

That is right. Am 55yrs old. I started dating at 42yrs old, nver married, no kids, and I just came out of a relationship lately, and am givg time to me for me to have joy in being me.

I love and respect Mr. Steve. He is so natural. So imperfectly perfect! Thank you sir.

Joy lives within..i felt that thank you steve.🥺

Wow so many men are so out of it to hurt all these beautiful women. Steve said it all perfectly. My father in heaven raised me up. I know no other joy and happiness than the one he offered. Nothing compares to him. What is missing in all these men is God the father to deliver them from all these addictions and bondage. Then they will learn how to treat their Brides like God treats the church.

I pray for these wonderful ladies. May God give you courage and fortitude to know that you’re priceless.

Come on uncle Steve! Yes God makes no mistakes he put my mother and dad to produce me! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

Thank you Uncle Steve and may God strengthen these wonderful ladies

Steve ismart,byeey dad died four years ago,and what a blessing it was,and is to have know.him,so was,sorry he is gone,forever missing u,daddy

Fun and Joy 😂yes indeed Steve, bringing Brotha yes 🙌 Amen 🙏🏿.

Steve is God-sent. Thank you for your wisdom and for directing hurting people in the Right Direction. God bless you

I think the most important character in choosing a partner is firstly find a man or woman who have faith in our Lord Jesus. God fearing couple has God guiding them all the while.

Love u Steve I love that I had 24years of being unhappy I finally left my kids are happy with out their dad

My son came to me when he was in the twelfth grade and told me when he graduates he was going in the military and that he didn’t want to leave me and his sister there with his dad and he asked me to please leave dad and I left. After I left I realized that I had left a lot sooner. But my son helped me to open my eyes.

12 years! As a man, I’d love to hear from her man has to say, why he has stayed for 12 years with a woman he doesn’t want to nourish. Seeing tear up was heart breaking.