AMEN 2 THAT!!! What planet are these people from? 🤦🏽‍♀️

This is genius. No party unless you stay together. In this day and age getting married isn't a celebration, STAYING married is!

That's exactly what my husband and I did! Got married at the courthouse and this year we hit our 5yr mark. Planning our ceremony for our family and friends now❤

We got married in our backyard with just select family. Literally just 6 people lol. Don’t want to waste money on a wedding. we were together for over 10 years before we got married.

@@elvickRULES We had a civil wedding and our parents paid for a celebration dinner afterwards. We were saving to pay for our first house. Both sets of parents gifted us the deposit for the house we found. I was in tears of happiness and gratitude.

I totally agree

So true, they divorce before they can finish paying for the wedding and rings😅

I'm not sure why more people do not understand this FACT of life. Amazing.

Seriously! The secondhand embarrassment is real for these defendants 😂😂

Weddings are a complete waste of time and money. No reason to pay money simply for "her day" when do we go into debt for "his day"?

Not all the time. I have family member that doesn’t receive as much money like he should

@@yakira333 you have a family member that doesn’t receive money or you have a family member who doesn’t receive as much money as he believes he should because there’s a difference.

Depends on how disabled the military says he is.

@@jamieleigh3481 regardless if he’s 10%, 30% or 100%, it’s a check.

Yes we had a friend who served in both the Vietnam war and Korean wars he got two checks from veterans affairs may he rest in peace now

Exactly. Why isn't the Plaintiff suing her son as well?

Also being disabled doesn’t always mean unable to work

I don’t think people understand how much disabled vets actually get per month either. It’s several thousands a month. Sure, for some that’s not a lot to live off of but it’s still more than many others who don’t get paid from the VA or offered health care at all. Just because shy is a disabled vet does not mean he doesn’t have money. From the sounds of it, he seems like he knows how to get money and who to go to when he needs it without being held responsible for paying it back. The plaintiffs are being used by him and then taking it out on this woman cause she realized she didn’t want to be with his slimy self lol

​@@crystalshaw8744miss, he wasn't her son.🤦‍♂️

@@stevelozano9523which makes it even weirder on their part to not hold him accountable as well. They just don’t want to soil the relationship with the guy.

Seriously! Idk how people in the comments aren’t seeing right through the older couple. They were just trying to go after her when it was all HIM!

@@mirandafarleigh2154 they’re both awful imo Wanting a wedding when they clearly cannot afford it 😂

He probably did con his family . And also these fools who are no relation to him.

​@@channel69gorlworldnews66Yeah, cuz wanting a nicer wedding than your means (which is normal, duh wake up, some people have both sets of parents pay for the wedding soooo) that makes you "awful" 😂😂😂 Yet, when someone utters one measly 3 letter F-word word about your extra chin(s) in a random comment section, you tearfully file a report with KZfaq and try to get the person who said it fired from their job lmao.. do words matter or don't they? Some classic "rules for thee, but not for me" type shit.

Not all

Dishonorable discharge, but should be able to get SSI disability.

Eventually they might get money

Disabled vets GETS A LOTTA $ females wanna latch onto them big time because of it and they are allowed to work a certain % of the time I know a vet who didn't even serve for very long in Iraqi freedom and was medically discharged he gets upwards of $3500/30daya he has full medical etc Disabled vets get $ based on their injuries

Not necessarily. Saying he is a "disabled vet" doesn't tell the nature of his disability or how he became disabled.

I really understand the significance of your words, and I genuinely want to find happiness too. I have a partner, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; my love for her is strong. I miss her a lot, and I'm fully committed to bringing her back. We've explored different ways, like therapy, to mend things.

Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

I'm thankful for this guidance. I'll immediately start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.

Plaintiff tried it 🤣😂🤣

She tried SO hard not to say "he's like a son" 😂

@@michelledusek1839 She is probably worried he might try harder to get more money out of them if she called him son. His claim of being a disabled vet with no money coming in is probably starting to wear thin even though she won't admit it.

Yep! The lady actually seemed nice but the end interview made me see their true colors.

Yes but she has lovely shy 🙈

Riddle: How can you tell which people had a low cost wedding? Answer: Don't worry, they'll tell you any chance they get.

@@kimricautumn6918 of course you know why people spend ridiculous amounts on a wedding to get divorced a few yrs later or in debt out the wazoo becaue of it, or take out loans just to pay for it. It’s laughable.

@@kimricautumn6918aww someone’s jealous they’ve never gotten married 😂

I bought mine at Walmart and got married at the courthouse. Cheapest mistake I ever made. Ex is the expensive mistake 😂

haha

How do you know....?

I think it's a joke. ​@@cnwil4594

😂😂😂

HMMMMMM SOUNDS LIKE CHEETO MAN 🧀🍊 .....🤣🤣😂😂😂

@godsareforcrazies The defendant was going to take out her own credit card to do it. The plaintiffs seem to think this Shy guy can do no wrong. He’s a liar and so is the female plaintiff.

As if this woman isn't a complete grifter

A son who didn’t visit her once after she broke her ankle 7 places

A son who states he is a disabled vet, but claims he has no money coming in.

Yes, but maybe they're going after the one they think might actually pay.

@Greenmachine79 A hero doesn't stiff their "parents", being a DV doesn't automatically make one a hero if they behave like a deadbeat afterwards. 🤔

@@686JMexactly. Shy is a scammer, imo, not a hero.

Because he’s a disabled veteran with no job that’s why

why else did they make credit cards other than for people to spend money they dont have

Think of a credit card like a payday loan. The money to pay down the credit card should be there in 2-3 weeks. Shy didn't have, say, $1000.000 to $1400.00 coming in anytime soon. ​@bjvu9460

What world do you live in? More than half of people who get married need to borrow money via loans or credit. It’s like telling people not to borrow money for college or a home or a car. It’s not a practical expectation in 2024.

Yeah those parents shouldn't have given their card for their son to use carte blanche.

Don't start a new marriage in debt.

Wedding "essentials"? Weddings are NOT essential. It's a huge waste of money. No real reason for the ceremonial ritual.

And a $1.3k dress?? For a short, short marriage between two broke childish goofs🤪😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

I thought i was the only one who got annoyed with that. Plus it felt like she was trying to make an excuse for her "son" not visiting her.

Almost everyone has a cell phone these days

"parents"

I was thinking the same thing, like what changes exactly? Is it because they were not living together, why should making it official change anything? Unless they were both pretending and just wanted to be married for superficial reasons.

I have seen this phenomenon so many times that it doesn't surprise me anymore. People say that it's just a paper but there's something about that paper. Couples with children, living together for lot of years and soon as they say I do, it's over. It goes downhill from there.

I think failing relationships try to save it by getting married or having kids. Rather than accept the relationship doesn’t work they try to take it to (in their minds) the next level. Maybe then it will work. But that’s obviously goofy.

After my wedding, my husband and I were driving home and he turned to me and said with a big grin, “I don’t have to put on an act anymore.” We were divorced a year and 2 weeks later. Can’t get a divorce in Texas when your pregnant or it would’ve been over sooner. He lied about his ability to conceive so the pregnancy was a shock for me.

@@S.K.Smith-Green What??? I'm so sorry 😞

It's absolutely insane. I would be embarrassed

People use gofundme often for it

They didn't sue him and he's no longer married to the young lady. Why would he be there, given all that?

It is a special day. You have to spends big money.

She's kind of an ole bat 😮

The plaintiff claims Shy is a disabled vet with "no money coming in". Yeah right.

Nah, the old couple just wanted to stick the ex with everything. If they only sued for half or sued both of them jointly, then yea, she'd be evil but imagine having an ex run off with all your money then the old couple he borrowed it from only comes after you while they're treating him like a saint. HE has the money and she had to take him to court for her half but yea, blame the women because he's a failure I guess.

​@@Fribee83Agreed. Thank you. He's probably a mama's boy.

She’s over it.

​@@Fribee83Exactly!

Oh please. You’re mad she’s happy that a bum is out of her life? 😂

Somehow i thought they said Shiloh not Shy*

But shy is so sexy

Deep, nasty bigots

They're both responsible if in fact the defendant was also a part of the initial phone call as the plaintiff claimed. But the defendant said she wasn't part of it, that it all went through Shy and he's the one who gave her the information and therefore the permission (as HE had been given authority by the plaintiff) to pay for the venue. I tend to think that the judge felt it was unfair they were going after only the defendant for the full amount especially when the plaintiff kept shaking her head even as she heard the judgment from the divorce court Judge, that SHY had actually run off with the money and not the other way around as he claimed to the plaintiffs. So he had money they could pursue from him too, but they showed they just didn't want to because they clearly favor him. Which is irritating. So I think the judge latched on to any piece of proof that could conceivably show that the defendant was telling the truth, that she was not part of the initial phone call, and let her off the hook so the plaintiffs can go after con man Shy instead.

10+ years "quick" in this case

that's a good question and yeah it seemed like Milian out of the gate was harsher on plaintiffs and easier on defendant...let a lot of things slide with cutesie that she usually drills down on

Well benefit of the doubt needs to be given. How do we know due to his injuries he has as a disabled vet is why he didn't attend. To me we can't speak on the groom as yes he didn't appear, and I guess legally they should be suing him, instead of the bride/defendant, but I doubt they will even do that as the plaintiff's are adamant he's indisposed/they can't have the gall to pressure him like that so idk.

The defendants did too. The mom stopped her daughter and said “this way”. Like maybe that was the correct way out for Covid