Stop Being Soft to Everyone | A Buddhist Story

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🧠 Understanding the balance between compassion and discernment in Buddhist teachings.
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00:00 - Introduction
00:44 - The Profound Teachings of Gautam Buddha
01:25 - The Four Noble Truths
04:10 - The Middle Way and Setting Boundaries
05:29 - The Parable of the Raft
08:07 - The Parable of the Mustard Seed
09:29 - The Art of Skillful Means
11:00 - Embracing Impermanence
12:24 - Mindfulness and Self-Compassion
13:20 - Cultivating Equanimity
14:28 - Conclusion
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In this video, we delve into the nuanced teachings of Gautam Buddha on the importance of balancing compassion with discernment. While kindness and gentleness are often emphasized in human interactions, Buddhism teaches us that there are times when it is essential to go beyond gentleness. This exploration provides a deep understanding of Buddha's Four Noble Truths and how they relate to the idea of not being gentle with everyone.
We begin by discussing the fundamental principles of Buddhism, including the Four Noble Truths and the Eightfold Path. These teachings highlight the nature of suffering and the path to overcoming it, emphasizing the need to address the root causes of suffering rather than merely alleviating symptoms through excessive gentleness. The concept of the Middle Way is central to this discussion, illustrating the balance between compassion and setting necessary boundaries.
The video also explores powerful Buddhist parables, such as the parables of the raft and the mustard seed, which offer profound insights into when to apply gentleness and when to embrace a more discerning approach. By understanding the impermanence of emotions and relationships, and through the practice of mindfulness and self-compassion, we learn how to cultivate equanimity and respond with wisdom in all our interactions. This balanced approach is key to achieving true compassion and inner peace.
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@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 14 күн бұрын
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@Betterversion09
@Betterversion09 7 ай бұрын
For those reading this right now, remember, you cannot get well in the same environment that made you ill. Hope this helps you today.
@danjeltv
@danjeltv 7 ай бұрын
❤👌🏽
@spaceman513
@spaceman513 7 ай бұрын
Yes, it did
@steadyeddie7
@steadyeddie7 7 ай бұрын
You can if you believe in yourself. What other's think of you is none of your business, THE BUDDHA
@bestinspirationsbyushaiyer3655
@bestinspirationsbyushaiyer3655 7 ай бұрын
Absolutely true.....
@randygoff2563
@randygoff2563 7 ай бұрын
Brilliant and so necessary. Excessive gentleness can be perceived as permission; a reaction that allows continuing delusion. That is not compassion. That can’t help and I would contend is cruel to others while encouraging arrogance in self.
@katlehomacholo9986
@katlehomacholo9986 7 ай бұрын
This video resonates with me.... I hate how my gentleness always places me in a position to be used 😭😭😭😭
@pariscooper9081
@pariscooper9081 7 ай бұрын
Another way of seeing it is that you’re useful if you ever feel useless look back on the times you were used . You have utility. You’re a resource! 😊
@PersisP
@PersisP 7 ай бұрын
not perse, it's probs more your attachement or your genteleness is actually fear of being authentic and part of a fawn response. You can see the truth just as clearly and walk away gently, thete is no opposition there, just the willingness to see and have your sense of fullfillment within enough to walk
@amandacarrion8383
@amandacarrion8383 6 ай бұрын
Very true.
@AwakeningAscendancy135
@AwakeningAscendancy135 5 ай бұрын
*The wisdom of Buddhism is like a guiding light in my life. 🕊 It's about embracing the present moment and spreading kindness. 💖*
@bhaviniparmar9756
@bhaviniparmar9756 6 ай бұрын
We are taught to always be kind to everyone and end up being taken advantage of at times, but this teaching is so powerful! Thankyou again for the wisdom!
@akeuc5770
@akeuc5770 7 ай бұрын
Don't mistake my kindness as weakness🙌
@wandalee5010
@wandalee5010 7 ай бұрын
Amen!!! You’ll see my “not kind side!” 💃💥💃
@PersisP
@PersisP 7 ай бұрын
thats. ot what that means. It means you are not codependent and will walk away when someone treat you badly. Lashing out in return is just losing yourself in the drama and letting it pervert your purity of heart. It is weakness of heart while it might look impressive on the outside, its a lack of inner strength. Of course you can assert, but when yiu become agressive, other then to save a life, you just let outside negativity alter who you are
@IamaiIsmo
@IamaiIsmo 6 ай бұрын
Mistook your weakness for kindness now what you gonna do?
@tmybnsn7699
@tmybnsn7699 5 ай бұрын
@@PersisPThis is true in a way but there’s situations in life where being too passive won’t save your life or lead for a better future for your people. There’s a time for peace and a time to push back righteously for peace.
@ggates5371
@ggates5371 5 ай бұрын
Although this video wasn't what I was expecting, it's nice to see an approach to Buddhism that's not all “sunshine and rainbows.”
@amolpawar3186
@amolpawar3186 7 ай бұрын
It is really going to change my life. For the whole of my life I was excessively soft with everyone but unfortunately they took disadvantage of my nature. This story is immensely inspiring. Thank you for sharing. ❤
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@rachel112263
@rachel112263 7 ай бұрын
Sometimes the only way to successfully set boundaries after using all appropriate methods of skillful means requires the use of being harsh. This will ensure the person finally realizes your boundaries which are, at this point, impenetrable.
@PersisP
@PersisP 7 ай бұрын
the only boundrie you need is the willingness to walk away and maybe protect yourself with immediate danger. Someone needing endless/agressive reminders of your boundries usually dont care about how you feel
@emmasoulvibes
@emmasoulvibes 7 ай бұрын
Self Compassion is Key - thanks for the reminder x
@kingmo565
@kingmo565 4 ай бұрын
Especially true for the simps! Stop being a simp to women.
@iamdeeplyrooted
@iamdeeplyrooted 6 ай бұрын
I am grateful for a great lessons! Sharing a lesson (formular) from my zen teachers so we can apply to solve life problems 1. Listening 2. Understanding = love 3. knowledge 4. Logical or rational 5. Wisdom 6. Compassion 7. Courage
@angeladallimore8079
@angeladallimore8079 7 ай бұрын
Wise words ,However it's hard to change your nature ,Sometimes you need to put a hard shell on your back ,certainly in today's world ,As people see your kindness for weakness
@h.r.kustagi6884
@h.r.kustagi6884 6 ай бұрын
I too agree
@noona9369
@noona9369 7 ай бұрын
Buddhist teachings is so practical. How one can apply in every situation, everyday. Such great wisdom that brings PEACE in today's chaotic world.
@LetDeepCricK0
@LetDeepCricK0 5 ай бұрын
Bhai Mera bhi ak channel hai mai bhi inspirational, motivation, life lesson etc related video upload korta hu thora visit korke ou... "Krishna's Motivation"
@awarenessavenues
@awarenessavenues 7 ай бұрын
Enlightenment is not a hoax but a profound journey of self-discovery and realization. It goes beyond the teachings of gurus and scriptures; it's about using our senses and intelligence to fathom the true essence of enlightenment and engage in transformative practices. The path requires mastering the understanding of oneself, delving deep into personal growth and introspection. Only when we have a comprehensive grasp of our own being can we extend our learning to others and the vast universe. True enlightenment, in my belief, stems from the harmonious balance of self-awareness and a holistic comprehension of the world around us. It's an arduous but rewarding endeavor that transcends mere teachings, leading to a state of profound wisdom and inner peace. In Buddhism, the path to enlightenment is often long, but each act of compassion propels us forward across lifetimes. Like Milarepa, who achieved the rare feat, our journey continues with every small, impactful kindness.
@jillpaull2206
@jillpaull2206 7 ай бұрын
I need to listen to this every day. Trying to defend myself from judgement and thinking less of myself for not convincing the perpretrator that he needs to respect me. Seems to happen when Im least expecting it. From my own son. I dont want to talk to him ever again. Again. Thank you for thia video. I will overcome my fears and live my life like someone left the gate open.
@suesmith9665
@suesmith9665 7 ай бұрын
Chinese budist/I say dont let western changes way of thoughts in your own private pool of ones own journey. Be soft enough to bend and not hard enough to break.
@marialaurabarbato8049
@marialaurabarbato8049 6 ай бұрын
Thank you
@MindfulExplorations-op7bg
@MindfulExplorations-op7bg 7 ай бұрын
I see Buddhism as more a philosophy than a religion.
@pappathyrackan5006
@pappathyrackan5006 4 ай бұрын
This story has taught me to go through life accepting how to live abalanced life ❤ Thank you
@ZenInsights-vp8nb
@ZenInsights-vp8nb 7 ай бұрын
"Thank you for the sharing. It's so inspiring. 🙏👍 "
@marydoccuvi9871
@marydoccuvi9871 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 2 ай бұрын
You’re welcome 😊
@Manike-ub2nw
@Manike-ub2nw 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I have been wanting to change my habit of being too gentle. It makes me angry with myself. I have to develop equanimity to help myself in this situation. Namo buddhaya 🙏
@Cuckoo_Lane
@Cuckoo_Lane 6 ай бұрын
But maybe that is who you are. You can’t change your nature.
@roscioocasio4385
@roscioocasio4385 2 ай бұрын
Namasté! 🕉️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🕉️❤❤❤💐🕉️
@starros1
@starros1 7 ай бұрын
Beautifully presented. May it light the way for our New Humanity.
@NK-jx7oc
@NK-jx7oc 2 ай бұрын
This video has changed my life in a way I cannot explain. Thank you for teaching the importance of the middles way and not clinging to the rigidity of being overly gentle. It’s so important to be authentic while being compassionate
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 2 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@stephenbrazil6552
@stephenbrazil6552 6 ай бұрын
Resonatingly profound. Thank you
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@motivemystic
@motivemystic 4 ай бұрын
Wow, this Buddhist story really spoke to me. It reminded me of the importance of not being afraid to stand up for yourself and not let others take advantage of your kindness. It's so easy to get caught up in being "soft" to everyone, but this story inspires me to find a balance between being compassionate and asserting boundaries. Thank you for sharing this enlightening video!
@storyBuddhas
@storyBuddhas 5 ай бұрын
"This video made me smile and appreciate the beauty of life around me."
@LetDeepCricK0
@LetDeepCricK0 5 ай бұрын
Sir Mera bhi ak channel hai mai bhi inspirational, motivation, life lesson etc related video upload korta hu thora visit korke ou... "Krishna's Motivation"
@Bijou_248
@Bijou_248 7 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤🙏 This is my new daily aspirational reading - to reflect, ponder and meditate upon. Namaste ✨🌌🕊️
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@LetDeepCricK0
@LetDeepCricK0 5 ай бұрын
Sir Mera bhi ak channel hai mai bhi inspirational, motivation, life lesson etc related video upload korta hu thora visit korke ou... "Krishna's Motivation"
@SadhanaPol-vz2rm
@SadhanaPol-vz2rm 5 ай бұрын
Thankyou.
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 5 ай бұрын
You're welcome
@soulhealingquotes
@soulhealingquotes 6 ай бұрын
It is your determination and persistence that will make you a successful person.. Good job and all the BEST to you.
@beamnelson
@beamnelson 6 ай бұрын
It's profound to learn Excessive Compassion = Enabling (that's crippling the person to be stuck in their ruts). Also, that's divine confirmation to emphasize that one can't heal in the place where they got sick, to begin with! God, please expand my horizon & equip me with insights to see my stop line + confidence to execute healthy boundaries. In Yeshua's Name , I pray. 🛐 Amen!🙏
@jparsit
@jparsit 7 ай бұрын
The West politicians need the East lessons to make world peace. BEAUTIFUL PRESENTATION.
@luckytau6331
@luckytau6331 7 ай бұрын
You may say that again n again n again n again! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Loving Buddha teachings!🙏
@RRaavs
@RRaavs 7 ай бұрын
Thankyou Pls share more stories about Buddha
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 7 ай бұрын
We sure will share more stories. Thank You for listening 🙏
@YaSminCreaTes
@YaSminCreaTes 3 ай бұрын
This has been my true weakness all my life as a result I have totally isolated myself from people and after the passing of my daughter very recently my boundaries had been totally broken as I was at my weakest point in my life Now I get extremely panicked when being talked to plus most of the talk I am not interested in. I really need to address this issue. Thank you so muchhh
@StimParavane
@StimParavane 3 ай бұрын
I am so sorry to hear that your daughter has passed away.
@Mr._Johns_Productions
@Mr._Johns_Productions 7 ай бұрын
Great Saturday morning start
@Osman-bp6js
@Osman-bp6js 6 ай бұрын
Admirable values of of his teaching on how to conduct our life wisely in dealing with others.Tq.for sharing valuable moral strength in personal development
@amdeko
@amdeko 6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤ i needed this😢😢😢
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 ай бұрын
Glad it helped you!
@enji_artista
@enji_artista 7 ай бұрын
Hi there, community. I came across this video a few days ago. I was looking for answers due to way I have been feeling and thinking. My love life is not the best, and meeting a new person gives me anxiety. Anxiety for not corresponding to her, anxiety for losing her, anxiety if I will be target of another cheating experience. I'm almost 30 and feel disappointed that I couldn't get my feeling on track. This video is a relief. And soon, my life would probably continue as it is now. The reason I'm writing this is to raise awareness and unity. I'm not alone, and for those who can help give us a hand. Thank you.
@akeuc5770
@akeuc5770 7 ай бұрын
Sounds like you dodhed a bullet with your ex. Life will only get better. Everyday is a blessing🙌
@thomasraven2024
@thomasraven2024 12 күн бұрын
Anxiety is a clinging to what could be and not receiving it, depression is clinging to what has happened and how it was. You got to be here, right now, and stop thinking about the what could be or what has been. Just be you and to hell with the consequences.
@stevewiencek1354
@stevewiencek1354 7 ай бұрын
While the words here try to point to something, it really leaves everything up to interpretation. Saying "it's wise to set boundaries" it doesn't say which boundaries, when, how much? I don't deny that setting boundaries can help my "well-being"....but how do I decide what is truly necessary and what is just me avoiding things I don't like? Being kind, gentle and compassionate are all practices. If we decline to face situations, we forfeit the practice in difficult times where it might be of most use if we have the courage.
@Cuckoo_Lane
@Cuckoo_Lane 6 ай бұрын
If we focus on the root cause of most of our suffering and become our true selves, those things happen naturally.
@kathrynphillips3710
@kathrynphillips3710 7 ай бұрын
this was so enlightening ❤🙏❤ Thankyou 🙏
@user-ds2lk6tg7x
@user-ds2lk6tg7x 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for the wisdom please share more
@yeetoner8431
@yeetoner8431 7 ай бұрын
This seems to be a GPT generated script with the prompt being something along the lines of "Write some ways in which Buddhism isnt just about being "soft" to others. Thats why the narrative isnt allignining with the title. GPT just cant reconcile "who should a good Buddhist be hard on?" with the actual teachings of the Buddha. Thats actually really beautiful if you think about it :)
@lucbedard7564
@lucbedard7564 6 ай бұрын
I've never learn about Buddhist and yet i've been learnning those skill without know it exisit. it must been an natural for me in my domain, I've been self taught since i was 14 in 1976. don't ask me how i knew this
@StimParavane
@StimParavane 3 ай бұрын
You are recognising the teachings that you studied in a previous life.
@user-xm5px5if1d
@user-xm5px5if1d Ай бұрын
Can’t believe this
@prathapuramabhiram
@prathapuramabhiram 7 ай бұрын
This is a great channel I regularly follow...
@buddhistinsight
@buddhistinsight 6 ай бұрын
Namo Buddhaya🙏
@masterchief8042
@masterchief8042 7 ай бұрын
Randy Orton is Awesome!!!
@lep8622
@lep8622 7 ай бұрын
Tuff Love 💪🏾
@user-tv5hg4zh3p
@user-tv5hg4zh3p 7 ай бұрын
Don't be soft to those who are hard on me . Bad influence is the start of a bad tomorrow. Live today like it's the only day and tomorrow will be given to us to choose what we will do we with it.
@user-jo9kz5sq1z
@user-jo9kz5sq1z 5 ай бұрын
Agree, not be hard and unkind to everyone. being nice you do get walked on by others. But we like people being nice to us don't we?
@ms.steveygolden1118
@ms.steveygolden1118 7 ай бұрын
Informative ♥ Good research tool's
@arjunataylor
@arjunataylor 6 ай бұрын
Or as Krishnamurti put it “It’s no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.” It’s seems that Buddha had the same predicament as Jesus, using words to describe the indescribable. The level of education in those days was marginal and literacy was relatively low, so it’s a blessing that much of this wisdom survived.
@kristantianri6596
@kristantianri6596 6 ай бұрын
Thankyou at this moment I desperately needed to hear this thankyou ❤🎉
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful
@user-tb7rw6lp4o
@user-tb7rw6lp4o 7 ай бұрын
True!
@tracypattin3746
@tracypattin3746 7 ай бұрын
Wonderful! I love your narration.
@Cuckoo_Lane
@Cuckoo_Lane 6 ай бұрын
AI is amazing!
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoy it!
@nilanthamaczilan2145
@nilanthamaczilan2145 7 ай бұрын
Very valuable lessons with many more things to get. May you accumulate much merits.
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 ай бұрын
Many many thanks
@paulemerson4476
@paulemerson4476 7 ай бұрын
The teachings of this brother, not the religion that was formulated by man's opinion of what he said, just like we see in the many denominations of Christianity. Helping me on the path to meeting God Himself.
@ClirimGola
@ClirimGola 7 ай бұрын
You are the god of your self,
@jazziejae1609
@jazziejae1609 6 ай бұрын
I enjoyed this ❤
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 ай бұрын
Thank You for listening 🙏
@joeycredible
@joeycredible 6 ай бұрын
Listen at the end of the voice narration... "Around ooose...open heeerts" 😂 This video is so valuable. But I'm reminded about balance with levity.
@janahabalasundaram3480
@janahabalasundaram3480 7 ай бұрын
Very well explained Too honest person always been humited.. Honesty never wins why
@PersisP
@PersisP 7 ай бұрын
it does but its very threatening to many, thats why they lash out. Its not personal
@thomasraven2024
@thomasraven2024 12 күн бұрын
Have lies won? At least if you honest, you can fail with dignity.
@zzz5829
@zzz5829 7 ай бұрын
This is chatgpt for sure
@MariaTCosta-kz5ry
@MariaTCosta-kz5ry 7 ай бұрын
I do not wish to be part of any religious denomination. However I enjoy such cultures.
@sushamapethkar483
@sushamapethkar483 7 ай бұрын
These are the teachings of Hindu philosophy!!
@Journey_Sparks
@Journey_Sparks 6 ай бұрын
nice
@InspiraZen.
@InspiraZen. 6 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@andrewbryant6495
@andrewbryant6495 6 ай бұрын
Sometimes, it is better to not think.
@StimParavane
@StimParavane 3 ай бұрын
Yes, most of the time.
@gildalaroya5319
@gildalaroya5319 6 ай бұрын
Baha’i Teachings is a revival of the Buddhist Principles! Meaning, the fundamental Divine Teachings are renewed in This Day in the One Cause of God, in His new sent Manifestation - Baha’u’llah (The Glory of God)…. eternal in the past and eternal in the future! Yabaha ‘ul-abha!
@sugerlipsxjamiewright4170
@sugerlipsxjamiewright4170 6 ай бұрын
You are more than foolish if you take My kindness for a weakness . In reality And I believe that it's is your own loss if you do so. Sadly I don't have to wish Bad on Anyone because I don't believe it to be necessary . nor warranted . It Not something I need in order to achieve peace. I Just do Me . And that is to be happy whenever possible . I don't allow others to determine my approach. By I'll feelings . To me it piontless to let them gain the upper hand on how you best portray yourself and your heart.
@jingerhaley5886
@jingerhaley5886 7 ай бұрын
@user-mm3zn9ty8y
@user-mm3zn9ty8y 7 ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@nimmy6468
@nimmy6468 6 ай бұрын
Yes we were taught by so called society being humble and kind was considered good and end up being thrashed up by these people 😢
@heerosanosyuy1173
@heerosanosyuy1173 7 ай бұрын
That which resists is slowly eroded by the running waters
@jayasathyajai5037
@jayasathyajai5037 7 ай бұрын
Wisdom n enlightenment 6.31am india
@juliafisher5844
@juliafisher5844 7 ай бұрын
Each person is unique ie there will be a' holes lol .. treat accordingly!@
@arezakkhoshmilan5793
@arezakkhoshmilan5793 7 ай бұрын
🌺🙏🌺
@DevInvest
@DevInvest 7 ай бұрын
🙇🏻‍♂️🙏🏻🍁
@user-og7db8hx2g
@user-og7db8hx2g 7 ай бұрын
👍🙏
@nomanalamgir8160
@nomanalamgir8160 7 ай бұрын
Amazing Video which Voice over AI do u use?
@stevenlafleur8474
@stevenlafleur8474 7 ай бұрын
Definitely NOT an AI voice. Sorry 😞
@VickiYJones
@VickiYJones 7 ай бұрын
👍
@riyazkhan9338
@riyazkhan9338 7 ай бұрын
TELLING
@anonimofied
@anonimofied 4 ай бұрын
@0:13 Gotham city buddha
@akeuc5770
@akeuc5770 7 ай бұрын
The only way is Buddhism🙌
@maluty904_
@maluty904_ 6 ай бұрын
Are we able to ask about something we need education on?
@user-xm5px5if1d
@user-xm5px5if1d Ай бұрын
T 13:07
@shardavajjhala5075
@shardavajjhala5075 7 ай бұрын
Very hard to implement
@Iguana2289
@Iguana2289 7 ай бұрын
How to be hard and not to be gentle ?
@padmanabhapade5887
@padmanabhapade5887 7 ай бұрын
Is it Buddhism and Zen are same ?
@sebastianwrites
@sebastianwrites 7 ай бұрын
Well, I've tried this, and found the middle way, tried to help... but some people will not even respect the fact you have an alternative opinion. I'm finding women, and met some women I really admire, but others are really very abusive, and as I said won't even accept a difference of an opinion. I've just come out of prison, refused bail, which is why I went to prison and was hunger and water strike because I'm tired of the false allegations of such bullying women. And to be honest, I 'still' don't feel like I've done enough to change things.
@Cuckoo_Lane
@Cuckoo_Lane 6 ай бұрын
What do you need to change?
@sebastianwrites
@sebastianwrites 6 ай бұрын
To not be judged unfairly, and not just unfairly, people's efforts to do the right should be recognised@@Cuckoo_Lane. Certainly, they shouldn't be criminalised, and a man judged on his gender rather than the merit of his character and what he is trying to achieve?
@patjackson1775
@patjackson1775 6 ай бұрын
How do I balance in the middle way living with a narcissist and their flying monkeys
@christinalubumad
@christinalubumad 7 ай бұрын
😂 Thank you for whatever you called teaching , teach . Talking nice doesn’t mean I’m soft or hard . What happened to your thinking or your thoughts. Do you have headaches cuz you keep repeat the same thing . Take some medicine to clear yourself 😂❤✌️
@motivate2mind
@motivate2mind 7 ай бұрын
🙏❤️🪷🪷🪷❤️🙏🌎
@hithere748
@hithere748 7 ай бұрын
So don't be gentle be compassionate?
@Cuckoo_Lane
@Cuckoo_Lane 6 ай бұрын
Depends on the person. Just do what feels right to you without giving too much of yourself away in the process.
@raigikidsvideo1559
@raigikidsvideo1559 7 ай бұрын
Budia born in Nepal not a India.
@SecretSage01
@SecretSage01 7 ай бұрын
What form of Buddhism is this? Not Theravada...would Theravadins approve? I would say practice meditation on the four limitless states (love, compassion, rejoicing, equanimity) and don't care about being soft or hard care about the joy and bliss within yourself that destroys the concern of being hard or soft...enlightenment is the highest enjoyment, bliss, and freedom...think of a memory when you were very happy were you concerned with being hard or soft? What if you could always be happy all the time?
@steadyeddie7
@steadyeddie7 7 ай бұрын
I don't believe the Buddha would approve of so many materialistic advertisements.
@Slk223
@Slk223 7 ай бұрын
If you never had shit in this life, desire less
@kasper-jw2441
@kasper-jw2441 4 ай бұрын
i tell my self. dont mistake this for being direct. it doesnt work.
@lalee2009
@lalee2009 6 ай бұрын
It is Very misleading to "encourage" non-gentleness. & according to comments here, they've been misled.😢 Be Gentle Always in addition to discernment, wisdom etc. People pleasers & those who've yet to deal w/ their "attachments" may find, not being gentle to everyone, a fake easing of their internal stress. But it's not wholly healthy.
@Synchronicety
@Synchronicety 2 ай бұрын
honesty can be missused. If i hear english i warned.
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