Stop Being Too Nice to Everyone

Stop Being Too Nice to Everyone | A Buddhist Story

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🧠 Discover the surprising downsides of kindness and learn four Buddhist strategies to protect yourself.
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🧐 Question for You:
Have you ever felt taken advantage of because of your kindness? How did you handle it?
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⌛ Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction
00:44 - Unrealistic Expectations
01:41 - True Worth
02:36 - Neglecting Priorities
03:43 - Setting Boundaries
04:28 - Identifying Genuine Help
05:21- Attracting the Right People
06:17- Avoiding Addictive Behaviors
07:17- Handling Skepticism
08:23- Strategies to Protect Yourself
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In this video, we explore the unexpected downsides of being overly kind and generous. While kindness is a virtue, excessive kindness can lead to emotional distress, exhaustion, and being taken advantage of. We delve into how unrealistic expectations can harm our well-being and the importance of maintaining a balanced approach to generosity.
Through the lens of Buddhist teachings, we discuss the significance of self-worth and setting boundaries. True worth comes from sensible actions and balanced giving, which help prevent harmful habits and emotional burnout. We also highlight the need to prioritize self-care and not neglect our own needs while helping others.
Lastly, we provide practical strategies to protect yourself from being taken advantage of, including paying attention to your feelings, learning to say no, prioritizing your own needs, and avoiding energy-draining individuals. These tips, inspired by Buddhist principles, aim to help you maintain a healthy balance and a fulfilling life.
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@InspiraZen. 7 күн бұрын

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@Betterversion09 6 ай бұрын

If your currently scrolling through the comments while listening to these affirmations, I want you to know that whatever you may be going through now, won't last forever and you will find the light at the end of the tunnel. Be Positive and Motivated and Be blessed and more power to you and more love for this affirmations and Be Positive

@Manike-ub2nw 6 ай бұрын

I used to give until I was exhausted. Then I took some time out to think about what I was doing wrong. I realised that I can give enough to make myself and others happy, say 'no' more often and spend a lot of lone time so that I can get to know myself and make friends with myself. This sermon resonates with that. Thank you for the insight 🙏

@janicemedio7821 6 ай бұрын

this is so me yesterday I realized that to myself I'm too kind but when I needed them they're not there for me...my partner keep telling me not too much kind coz at the end it's me who's going to get hurt...

@fillenasleeby5008 6 ай бұрын

So true

@InspiraZen. 6 ай бұрын

Thank You 😊

@franniea 6 ай бұрын

Theres definitely a calm strategy focus on positive navigation in life

@ursobeautiful3980 6 ай бұрын

Omg i loved this so much. I loved the energy of it. So beautiful and peaceful!

@InspiraZen. 6 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@buddhaexhumed9922 Ай бұрын

Very educative. I love your videos. Please allow me to interrupt. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic. I just wanted to impart this information to you.