stop hiding & start doing things (feeling lost in your twenties)

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sophie rosam

sophie rosam

Ай бұрын

stop hiding & start doing things (feeling lost in your twenties)
i dont have much words i feel like the video speaks for itself haha a video about how i dont know what im doing so thank you if you watched and if you are feeling any type of similar way im right here with you guys!
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@rosieannemarie
@rosieannemarie Ай бұрын
so good to see someone in the same sort of head space as me. you're such an inspiration and i wish you all the best
@sophierosam
@sophierosam Ай бұрын
ah thank you so much, sometimes it can feel like you're the only one feeling like this so I'm glad others can resonate, much love!!
@quokka2726
@quokka2726 24 күн бұрын
i heard this thing that said to have three constant things in your life, no matter what age you are: something that trains you physically (gym/sport/yoga etc), something that trains your brain (for example don't stop learning even after finishing higher education), and something that allows you to relax and have fun!
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 22 күн бұрын
I'm going to live by this forever now omg thank you for sharing❤
@imadmed-kj4ud
@imadmed-kj4ud 29 күн бұрын
omg i'm in the same mindset as you i'm 22yo and i feel like i've been living on autopilot mode for 5years basically just studying in college or else i'm in my room to rest ; i rarely made memories or met new people nor learned new hobbies or anything ... but its been a few months that i've had this "wake up moment" and i'm still trying to figuring it out and taking small steps towards what i want to be/have in my twenties. cool video ❤ keep these coming !
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 26 күн бұрын
ahh!! we are in this together
@mvuyiso_buyana
@mvuyiso_buyana 25 күн бұрын
Same always at uni or in my room, it's only now recently I forced myself to make plans and save money for those plans lmao
@sadafs6632
@sadafs6632 25 күн бұрын
SAME !!!!!
@marianazzz1
@marianazzz1 20 күн бұрын
wow didn’t know someone felt the exact same way as me
@SincerelyGwendolyn
@SincerelyGwendolyn 20 күн бұрын
SAMEEEE
@callmeluis555
@callmeluis555 Ай бұрын
this really resonated. i feel like especially during the summer i do the same stuff every single day and it drains me knowing im wasting time. your voice is so soothing
@sophierosam
@sophierosam Ай бұрын
aw thank you! It's such a weird thing like I don't know whether to say sorry you are feeling the same or whether that's a good thing hahah, at least we are self aware I feel like that's the biggest step to actually realise and then we can decide what we want to do from there, we are in control of our lives🫶🏼🫶🏼
@AnaSerroGomes
@AnaSerroGomes 20 күн бұрын
I never read something that described so precisely my life right now as the phrases on the beggining of this video. I feel like I'm trapped in a cycle of perfectionism and ambition that paralyses me and makes it too scary to figure out where to start... feels good to see we're not alone
@Witch.of.the.bog.
@Witch.of.the.bog. 15 күн бұрын
I live by the quote "Only leave for tomorrow what you're willing to die having left undone"
@analisaogari9149
@analisaogari9149 25 күн бұрын
Hi! I'm not sure if you've ever heard about the book 'Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway' by Susan Jeffers. It helps you identify what is holding you back and provides steps to overcome it. It motivated one of my friends to do her first solo trip. Hope this helps :)
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 22 күн бұрын
Ah thank you so much for sharing I'm going to get this book now!!❤❤
@eznedeak
@eznedeak 18 күн бұрын
I'm about to turn 20 tomorrow. This video resonated with me because I am scared to do a lot of things. My mind is constantly racing with things I want to do and get better at, but I am so comfortable where I am now that I don't want to do anything about it. Videos like these give me that bit of motivation to get started. Thankyou for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Keep going. Bless your beautiful soul
@allisavenue
@allisavenue 19 күн бұрын
I’m 29 & I feel the same. Your video made me feel normal and seen, thank you!
@josieeeee_l
@josieeeee_l 26 күн бұрын
i love this, and girl i feel you! keep your head up we'll figure it out
@terenaworld
@terenaworld 29 күн бұрын
loved all these shots, i love your storytelling!
@jujules450
@jujules450 3 күн бұрын
This video came up on my recommended and it came at a perfect time. It’s exactly how I feel right now. I’ve been staying at home ever since I dropped out of college. Every day feels the same and it got boring at one point. I think I just need to give myself that push to do things because who else is going to do it for me? I’m so glad I came across this video. Hopefully this motivates me to do the things I’m afraid of doing. ❤️
@namaah554
@namaah554 27 күн бұрын
Hi, thank you for posting this, it felt so comforting to watch !
@SleepySlophie
@SleepySlophie 9 күн бұрын
You are so brave for making the decision to put yourself out there! It’s such a hard step, and it’s so scary, but you sound like you’re really starting to feel free. So happy for you 🫶🫶🫶
@Jiminsboost
@Jiminsboost 19 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video and also yes being in your 20s sometimes we do feel lost or even lonely cause we are navigating life basically on our own. But getting out of our comfort zone is a start.
@nataliechen382
@nataliechen382 25 күн бұрын
I’m 23 and going through the same thing! Really glad I found your video, sending love and light🤍✨
@haannaahh
@haannaahh 17 күн бұрын
I’m getting out of my comfort zone and meeting someone new today. This video came up on my home page and I found it so comforting. Thank you 🩷
@nataliiatotka
@nataliiatotka 21 күн бұрын
This is so nice. The title got me. I’m currently extremely anxious, cause I’m running a marathon in a couple of hours and I still feel cringe doing things alone…even though I’ve been doing things by myself for a long long time. And I currently got rid of almost all toxic people from my life, somehow those were all my friends 😅 and it’s a bit hard when you don’t have like minded people around you 😢
@sydneyodle
@sydneyodle 17 күн бұрын
really love this video
@zoeharrington9834
@zoeharrington9834 Ай бұрын
i look forward to your vids sm! loved this
@vnillacndle
@vnillacndle Ай бұрын
loveddd this!! i've been in the same mood and i'm excited to try new things as well as scared. and money being a limit of course. but i'll get to do something nice soon :) btw i loved the idea of the list before x age! it's always yearly but that way feels better
@breannagabbidon1022
@breannagabbidon1022 2 күн бұрын
I truly wish your words will not return to you void and your aspirations will manifest in the most auspicious ways imaginable. Sending love & hope!🙏🏽❤️
@Maandarynka
@Maandarynka 29 күн бұрын
The film is soo beautifully edited ❤ Colors and light are magic !!!
@vale4364
@vale4364 11 күн бұрын
i relate so much to you, especially the "not being out there" part and the "fear of starting things i'm not already good at" part, i love that there's more people wanting to change their life little by little, makes me feel lees alone and less crazy lol
@blaykewolf
@blaykewolf Ай бұрын
I loooove the coziness of this video ! It felt safe 🤭
@helenaojuel
@helenaojuel 29 күн бұрын
i've never felt so seen, I loved your vídeo ❤❤❤
@Maria-zv3hn
@Maria-zv3hn 29 күн бұрын
Wow this really resonated with me!! We will get through this
@sjkalice
@sjkalice Ай бұрын
ahm hi, sadly I feel quite the same now that im almost on my twenties. Sometimes I go for a walk in Lisbon, where I live, and feel a bit better seeing the amount of diferent people that lives day by day diferently. Maybe I recommend you to visit Portugal, like why not. I still find calm and inspiration to do art sometimes, you cant get tired of here :]
@Mia-sb1bb
@Mia-sb1bb 2 күн бұрын
i'm turning 20 in about a month and i have also been isolating myself for so long. i always envisaged how my life would go and it hasn't gone that way which has lead to a lot of sadness and self resentment. that ends now. thank you for this video
@victoriadandrea3850
@victoriadandrea3850 29 күн бұрын
I feel this so much. After watching this I feel so inspired and I also want to be your friend. I love your style, the dark bob, cargos with sambas, sitting at the window of a coffee shop - such a cute look! Subscribing rn
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 26 күн бұрын
aw thank you so much!!!
@madisonrendallll
@madisonrendallll 27 күн бұрын
this was beautiful thank you for sharing
@bykremi
@bykremi Ай бұрын
loved the video! can't wait to see more from you x
@evelynarquette
@evelynarquette 19 күн бұрын
I’m a kiwi who just this year moved to the EU. I’m 29, and couldn’t do it the first time because COVID locked everything down and then got into a rhythm of day to day in a job etc. I just wanted to comment because it’s truly never, ever too late to do the big move, to change your life, to work towards something greater than you’ve experienced before. Save some money if you can as it removes the stress of travelling broke (Have done that too! Much prefer not stressing about having to change bad accomodation, or double book myself etc). Be kind to yourself, you are so so incredibly young, and have so many opportunities ahead of you!
@CYND3RGIRL
@CYND3RGIRL 27 күн бұрын
the part with talking out to someone about said things that were stuck up inside the head and you finally clear up to them and got the courage to tell them about your stuff - either they talk down, talk nicely or whatevers but its all the same -i stop doing it, thats why i dont want to talk about stuff like that with anyone else anymore..
@sacha5446
@sacha5446 12 күн бұрын
You’re so cute! You remind me of me a lot (I’m 26) we got this! Sending you blessings and good vibes 🩷🩷🩷
@le4ndr4wils0n
@le4ndr4wils0n 13 күн бұрын
really resonated with this video, loveeee
@taraprentice
@taraprentice 25 күн бұрын
you're a boss sophie!! love this so much ❤
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 22 күн бұрын
fancy seeing you here queen!!! thank you so much means a lot ❤❤
@esapov
@esapov 23 күн бұрын
felt this 🫂
@adele1996
@adele1996 29 күн бұрын
So relateable! Thank you for being honest! I took a big leap a few months ago because I was desperate for change and growth. And i finally did it! Got accepted to an elite Master program in Amsterdam. Change and growth is possible, we just need to start. Small steps everyday will put you in big positions in life!❤❤❤ you got this!!!!!
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 26 күн бұрын
wow I am so proud of you that is amazing and inspiring to me!!
@elenatea
@elenatea Ай бұрын
so proud of you! i feel like you have come so far just in 2024!! loved this vid
@sophierosam
@sophierosam Ай бұрын
ahhh freakin love you, means so much!!! I will live through your Italy summer so I hope you'll be vlogging hehehe
@katwai
@katwai Ай бұрын
love this xxx
@dugumumu
@dugumumu 15 күн бұрын
I had my drivers ed teacher told me that he sees "so much in me but" I've put myself into a box. I don't want to step out of my box it's safe and comfortable. But I know I need to change life is so boring. He says that getting your driver's license is going to open so many doors. Although I haven't experience that just yet give me a few more weeks and maybe I'll hit the road alone.
@umoggie
@umoggie 28 күн бұрын
Love this so much
@maceheath
@maceheath Ай бұрын
i kind of needed this
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 26 күн бұрын
hugs
@pnkbee
@pnkbee 13 күн бұрын
this video spoke to me ❤
@14suryashi
@14suryashi 29 күн бұрын
The title made me subscribe lol ❤
@dreamvillian6964
@dreamvillian6964 Ай бұрын
Girl im so proud of you!! im on the same journey (from London too) as you and im trying to push myself and try new things! just know arent alone
@sophierosam
@sophierosam Ай бұрын
ahhh we got this!
@marvinyounice
@marvinyounice Ай бұрын
thank you for sharing this it's so nice to know I'm not alone. let's chase our dreams and meet our goals together
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 26 күн бұрын
we've got this!!!
@akshitabisht2048
@akshitabisht2048 28 күн бұрын
I absolutely love this video. Thank you, Sophie, for being so honest and making progress. I am grateful that I stumbled upon this video of yours. I will take it as a sign! 💫 Also can you please tell what website you were using for the vision board? Looking forward to more videos!
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 26 күн бұрын
Aw thank you so much that means a lot, sometimes I get nervous sharing these things but it's nice to know there are other people who can relate! I get my photos from Pinterest then use canva for my vision boards, I usually like to make mine as my phone background so I search up phone wallpaper templates to get the right size and then just add my pics on there:)
@fanil.t.
@fanil.t. Ай бұрын
i love love LOVE the book u r reading
@sophierosam
@sophierosam Ай бұрын
I kind of always go into reading my books without knowing what to expect and I'm so pleasantly surprised with it!! Definitely need to read more books written by her 🤓
@GabriellaSitarra
@GabriellaSitarra 22 күн бұрын
I feel like i was meant to see this, I’ve been wanting to pursue youtube so much but i have no ideas and want to post content i feel proud of
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 22 күн бұрын
I felt the same way until I just started posting in January, and to be honest I almost didn't post this video which is crazy because it's the one that's done the best so far for me, so you just never know !!
@marydavis2312
@marydavis2312 25 күн бұрын
its...strange seeing how I feel so alone/lonely feeling like this yet sooo many of us are feeling the same way. My life is not stagnant, and Im trying my best each day, but somehow despite knowing what I want to accomplish, I feel a sense of being lost. I don't know who I am anymore, and I dont know how that happened.... I'm just 20 and my whole teens I was living my best days (in hindisght) and I knew myself, I'm not sure how this situation came to be, I'm just hoping to be out of it soon
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 22 күн бұрын
we're in this together ❤ I feel that sometimes even just knowing, being self aware and being able to reflect is big enough in itself to start moving on, it's always a journey finding who we are and is so ever-changing, someone I went to primary school with once said to me 'you've changed' but they meant it in a bad way and I was thinking well I really hope I have changed because I want to constantly evolve and be a better person. Sending you love!
@alicjawiatr9111
@alicjawiatr9111 18 күн бұрын
literally same girl, I hope you will succeed! keeping my figers crossed for you, bisous bisous ~ Ala
@momo-sn8ee
@momo-sn8ee 2 күн бұрын
Heyy you should try landing space to make vision boards , it has so many cool features
@kszesiu7
@kszesiu7 15 күн бұрын
Remember the text below: That's actually so true. Once you keep your plans to yourself, everything you planned and manifested seems to come along way easier and clearer than if you say it to someone. It seems like you somehow create this obligation and then overthink about your possible failure. I guess that's how it feels sometimes. Anyways, good luck. Move to Edinburgh - the air is much cleaner."
@Chaewonders
@Chaewonders 27 күн бұрын
love this video so much ❤ thank you sophie from brissy
@Daisyhstone
@Daisyhstone 27 күн бұрын
Hey girl, what is it you film on? Been meaning to ask for a lil while now, it seems really small and compact, rather good for filming in public? Or am I tripping🤣 sounds so ideal xxx
@SunnySteph
@SunnySteph 14 күн бұрын
not the first few seconds calling me out! HAHA
@willowbyrnes
@willowbyrnes Ай бұрын
Hey! What camera are you using? I’m really enjoying the fisheye look x
@SofieBakstad
@SofieBakstad 29 күн бұрын
Which camera do you use for filming? Looks soooo good!!
@julietaperazza
@julietaperazza 11 күн бұрын
loved this, what camera do you use?
@caitlin2475
@caitlin2475 25 күн бұрын
wow the resonated with me so much, had a very recent change in my mindset on how i’ve treated myself and the patterns i’ve fallen into over the last few years and also living in edinburgh, going through all of the same things. this was perfect timing 🥲 immediate sub and follow 💘
@tessas02
@tessas02 Ай бұрын
i’ll get my drivers’ licence after summer break i promise!!! u called me out
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 26 күн бұрын
I believe in you !
@eventhorizon8753
@eventhorizon8753 24 күн бұрын
Heyy I love your mood and videos!! I want you to upload more videos !!! 🙏🏼 From korea.🙂‍↕️
@fantastisapop
@fantastisapop Ай бұрын
you are absolutely beautiful
@sophierosam
@sophierosam Ай бұрын
omg stop it you are !!!
@n.ee.h
@n.ee.h 21 күн бұрын
Actually same!
@SeraChylle
@SeraChylle 10 күн бұрын
I'm 25 and I'm from the Philippines 🇵🇭 and I would love to live in a nice country like Canada or somewhere in Europe. Currently sending applications Rn. I've felt really lost in my 20s specially during the pandemic.
@joki6987
@joki6987 11 күн бұрын
hallo, I have the same problem right now, when I am along I thing maybe it's time doing something different when I saw this video I realized it's not tomorrow or next week is rightnow!!!! sorry my English not good 😌
@sheena9837
@sheena9837 27 күн бұрын
Same
@iisobellatimms
@iisobellatimms 8 күн бұрын
Hi what camera do you use!!??? Xxxxxx
@bbylobo
@bbylobo 26 күн бұрын
hello. i really struggle with driving, i've been delaying finishing my driving license for years now. it as to be now.
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 26 күн бұрын
aww! I had such a hard time with lessons I found driving really stressful but if it makes you feel any better as soon as I got my license and started driving on my own I felt so much more confident and it's now my favourite thing ever! you got this
@katwai
@katwai Ай бұрын
also what park is that in edi?? it’s Gorgeous
@sophierosam
@sophierosam Ай бұрын
it's a private gardens in town that I have keys for because I live in the area, I can't hack the public parks here as soon as the sun comes out they're all packed so I am grateful for this quiet escape hahah
@mouadbaalla5331
@mouadbaalla5331 Ай бұрын
if you need video editor I here to help
@wilhelminamcrae
@wilhelminamcrae Ай бұрын
Where is your fish eye camera from?
@sophierosam
@sophierosam Ай бұрын
It's vintage unfortunately!!:/
@TRUETOILETTENPAPIER
@TRUETOILETTENPAPIER 13 күн бұрын
can i ask what brand the blue parachute pants are? 👉👈
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 13 күн бұрын
ahh sure they are the Baum Und Pferdgarten Nasra cotton cargo pants 🫶🏼🫶🏼
@izabelaniepokoj410
@izabelaniepokoj410 13 күн бұрын
Where are your sunglasses from ?
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 13 күн бұрын
dmy studios! the Valentina frames
@Designswithshree
@Designswithshree 29 күн бұрын
Hey friend! Do you want an intro, outro, banner, thumbnail?
@z_0._c
@z_0._c 17 күн бұрын
Where is the park ? 😳
@sophierosam
@sophierosam 17 күн бұрын
It's a private gardens in Edinburgh so only people with keys can get in!
@butlayf-dy2sj
@butlayf-dy2sj 21 сағат бұрын
Why styled like Our generation though ?
@sunbaked.coconut
@sunbaked.coconut 19 сағат бұрын
Huh?
@vidadeisabella
@vidadeisabella 29 күн бұрын
i feel exactly the same right now & this is motivating me to change things around, we’ve got this! 🫶
@QaZzFilms
@QaZzFilms 15 күн бұрын
0:04 "what a nice tues-" 😂 in all seriousness, the "autopilot mode" just like @imadmed-kj4ud call it; its the percieveness of lack of meaning of life: which is a fairly tough answer itself ntg lie, its the XXI century and were being totally pushed in a high-stress world, more than lack of meaning its being stressed of not doing well enough i think. Lots of love to everyone reading this
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