"just because you did all that and still ended up with a deceiver does not mean that you didn't do the work". Wow. I realise now that I have been feeling shame because I was so proud of how much I healed and still got tricked by a narcissist AGAIN. Time for some self compassion. Love your post as usual

This Aquarian age is NOT playing and is exposing it ALL

Also this situation just shows how sometimes the divine will allow you to get into situations to show where you are actually at. So many people have a a belief of where they are at on their journey that doesn’t necessarily align with reality

Accountability is a biatch but so worth it in the end.

I know WHO and WHAT you're talking about. Classy of you not to name names. It's good to see you continuously going and speaking truth to power, Kayla! Your videos have carried me for some years. Thank you for being a vessel of authenticity.

Man, I had such a negative image of myself to allow all that pain but there was no handbook for the shit I survived. You are so right about wishing the best for an ex… they need a prayer.

I completely agree with you and I tell my business all the time- no shame gurl ❤

Oh…not me knowing who it is 😳. I went with my gut with this one! I always had the urge to turn him off, when that happens I know its someone that probably won’t be for me (ooor might do something to disappoint me in a way, later down the road).

I didn’t even slow down to see the red flags… I finally saw them but way too late so do the work and take the time to get to know yourself and your partner or you will get to know things in a new way.

Thank you Kayla! Well said 👏🏽🫶🏽

Sometimes we have to do just that...use our discernment. The picture we shape and craft may not always be the case but we also have to know that we crafted that. When people show you that they just don't meet your needs or expectations, sometimes you just have to remove yourself because it's for you too. I don't fall into easy disappointment anymore. Sometimes you have to recognize yourself and be proud of where you are. I'm at a place now when I see what I don't want I make the decision to move and it's OK. Sometimes you have to breathe and process because not everyone will value the way you value yourself. ❤

Kayla always been a real one 🤞

I watched your journey, that which you blessed us with on the Vlog..so real, raw, full of hope and love and loving in the moment allowing the moments flow through that weren't so happy yet sticking together as a family and team through it all. I respect you and your journey. Gods anointing is all over you🌷🪽🌷

Thank you! 🙏🏾

Thank you ❤️

41:56-42:02 Tickled me, thank you for this beautiful video & message, Kayla.

Rite nothing is always perfect. We have to discern that. You can't gave a cault mindset. There are things that's shown to you daily. Whether words out the mouth and action. Sometimes the words are an account for itself. People will tell you what they are about whether what they don't do or will. If a person constantly states they will only move when they want to or except others time and not remove themselves from what they want to do then you have to take hed of that too. Sometimes we wait around because we believe and want what we want. Signs are all around us. That's in simple conversation. If your dealing with people who are fully self absorbed and shows that early on then you have to understand what you want to except and take from that. We have to love ourselves and sometimes what we want does not always add up to the actual expectation luvs.

He will reap what he sowed

Your confidence & authenticity is a beautiful reflection. 🪞🥹🥹🥹🥹 I’ve been subscribed for a few years but never been so aligned and in tune as I am now. 👁️ Mostly because I have more free time w my toddlers now!🤭 I’m gonna have to go back and watch some of your vlogs! 🩷🥲

You crack me up 😂

Thank you for this message 🙏🏾❤️

9:00 this part 👌

Is that a filter making that rainbow aura effect?

Therapy didn’t work for me.

I think I have graduated fs

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