When your husband wants to leave you, it's extremely painful because
You still love him. You were thinking you'd be together for a lifetime.
You've been counting on it.
You've shared your life up to this point.
Maybe you have children together and you can't imagine why on the world doesn't he want to be with me anymore? Why have I done something wrong? Can I not compete? Compare?
I mean, what's going on here?
Well, in this short video, I certainly can't tell you all the things that your husband may be thinking, but I can tell you that there's hope even if he's adamant that he wants to leave you.
I'm Dr. Joe beam with Marriage Helper international. I've been working with marriages for more than a quarter of a century. And the vast majority of those marriages have been marriages in crisis and major trouble.
We've had a pretty good success rate, but it's not 100%. I can't tell you I'll give you the magic words or the magic formula. And if you just do what I say, everything's going to be hunky Dory from now on, because I won't lie to you.
But I can give you some suggestions that if you do these things, you dramatically increase the likelihood of saving a marriage, putting it back together, making it good again, as we've been able to help thousands to do.
Now, again, I can't explain it all in a very few minutes right here, but let me give you 3 very important things to not do. And 3 very important things that you should do if indeed, you still love your husband and you want to try to put this marriage back together, okay? Here's the first thing not to do
You don't panic. Even
He looks at you and says, I don't want to be with you anymore. I'm not in love with you anymore. I want to be with somebody else. I want to be someplace else and says those things. And I know they hurt tremendously to hear,
Try to think of it this way. Well, that's the way he feels today.
Not necessarily the way he's going to feel next month, next quarter, next year. In other words, the fact that he feels that now and is saying that to you now is what he believes to be his reality, but he's not thinking beyond right now. Now he may think he is. He may be thinking he's planning his whole future ahead, and it's not going to involve you. But trust me if he's telling you this is in all likelihood because of what he feels at the moment. And one thing about life is always true and that's this
Emotions change.
So please don't panic. He fell into love. Do once he can fall in love with you again, even if he thinks that's impossible. And even if you think that
Possible, so don't panic, calm down. There's a way out of this, not again
Guaranteed way, but a pretty sure way. And we'll help you follow that path. We call it the love path and we'll show you how to help him develop a love for you. Again, as you strengthen your love for him, again, I'm not guaranteeing him 100% because people make their own decisions you do as does your husband. But I'm telling you, this system has been very powerful and work for so many thousands over the years. Now here's the second thing not to do. Don't focus on saving the relationship. I know that sounds contradictory. Doesn't it? What, what don't focus on setting the relationship. That's why I actually turned this video on. I want to know how to do that, but you see
Desperate thoughts, often lead to desperate actions. And when you're focused, I'm trying to save the marriage. You'll wind up making some unwise decisions. You're going to do some things because the emotions are pushing you that are not smart things to do. You're going to leave off doing some things you should do because your emotions are going in the other direction.
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