I didn't go to grad school because I didn't see anything going on in the field I graduated from. Might go back for Computer Science or something my company will pay me for.

I am in grass school right now. I am getting my masters and Social and I am honestly thinking about dropping out this module. I already finished the first module and they put me on academic probation so I’m like I can’t deal with this they expect us to have a 3.0 or higher through the whole entire town where grad school but how is that even possible? The coursework is difficult, and really my undergrad program was a little difficult but I understand the material most of the stuff I learned in undergrad they don’t prepare you for what you need to know in grad school so grad school is like a foreign language to me and so I’m trying to stick it out for my parents isnot sticking it out for me because I hate my my grad school experience like I hate it online so you know that’s cool and all but I’m struggling so I really want to drop out and pursue my degree and miscommunication because that’s the degree I really wanted to go with, but my dad wanted me to do Social work

girl i wanna be your friend :D you are so relatable

Hello! 👋 I am sharing the reasons why I decided to drop out of graduate school as a form of closure for myself. This was not an easy decision, but I wanted to give my dreams a chance, and graduate school just isn't the right fit for me. I began my master's degree in 2019 because I didn't have a job yet, and I felt a bit lost since I graduated in 2017. It was my choice to take a break before applying to companies, but I think HR was puzzled as to why I didn't immediately look for work, affecting their hiring decisions. I reviewed and took the Civil Service Exam in hopes of working for the government, but unfortunately, I did not pass. At this point, I felt lost as most of my friends had stable jobs, and I lacked work experience. After thinking about it, I decided to pursue a master's degree to give myself an edge in the competitive job market and to have a productive use of my time while job hunting. From 2019 to 2020, I completed my first-year subjects. I made unexpected genuine friends despite having classes only on Saturdays. Because of one friend, I even landed my first job, albeit part-time. It was crucial for gaining experience to put on my resume. I also met my husband in grad school. Although we were in different programs, we saw each other on campus, and I happened to know a student he knew. Then the pandemic hit, and my friends and I decided to pause our master's studies because we didn't want to do online classes. During this time, I got married and secured my first full-time job. Last year (2022), three out of five of us (the girls, the guys didn't return to school) enrolled again, accepting that virtual classes were now the norm. This semester was our last with remaining subjects. After that, there would be practicum (OJT), comprehensive examinations, and a thesis, or in my case, a non-thesis track. One of my female friends couldn't afford to enroll, even though we only needed to finish one subject, and she had completed all other requirements. I finished all my subjects this month (December 2023), totaling 36 units. However, I knew from the start of this semester that it would be my last as a grad school student. Financially, I could manage, but I was finding it challenging because I was paying my tuition. It's not just a mindset issue; we were all exhausted trying to balance work, academics, and personal lives. I reached a point where I was just waiting to fail so I could stop grad school. I also realized that I didn't belong in academia; they have a certain mold, and if you don't fit, they criticize you for it. Again, I feel lost because for the longest time, I thought this was what I wanted. I tied my self-worth to completing my master's program. At the same time, my husband envisions both of us working at the school where he currently works. I appreciate being included in his plans, but it's his dream for us, not necessarily a part of my personal goals. I know coming to terms with not finishing my master's will be a long and difficult journey, but my goals have changed, and I've known my true passion for a long time. I can even do what I love as a part-time job and earn additional income from it. The most fulfilling part is doing something I love and that truly makes me happy, something I worked hard for and prayed for a long time before achieving my dream. I'm excited and happy to have more time for it, but honestly, a part of me is also sad that I didn't get a diploma after investing so much time and effort in grad school. I know quitting doesn't mean I'm a failure. My loved ones, especially my mother and friends, have been very supportive. They even called me 'brave.' As they say, it's more difficult to walk away from something. My mom also says life is too short to be unhappy, and I haven't been happy in grad school for a long time. I guess this is my goodbye message to a version of myself I thought I wanted to be. If you've made it to the end of this, thank you for taking the time to listen to my story. I hope you will have the courage to know when to quit and pursue what truly makes you happy. ✨

Lol what you explained resonated with writing/research in my physics classes it was wild and would get roasted.

I too didn't finish college. My first year was dedicated to partying; although I made pretty good grades. My second year I dedicated myself fully to the curriculum. I had a blast actually! I went to a college that had, for the most part, leftists professors with socialist leanings. I found I too would be labeled as such, during that year. Very engaging and thought provoking shit went down that year! My third year was, to my astonishment, regurgitation of American propaganda type stuff. I can't explain it, but it all made me realize the futility of sitting in those class rooms. What I had learned in that second year was that engagement and exchange of ideas should be a typical thing OUTSIDE of the class. Why put 'learning' in a box, was my thinking. That regurgitation I mentioned during my third year was an attempt to classify and identify' boxes' for the most part. I was like, "This is bullshit." So I quit with being indoctrinated at how to be a real live hypocrite. I lean neither left nor right. I lean into what IS RIGHT. And I grew comfortable into this with a campus faaaar out of sight.

Great video. Thank you for sharing.

Great said, Jada! The relationship between science and academia is like the relationship between faith and cult. So, no regrets. I’m sure you thrive now.

I’m dropping out of grad school as well

i went to a specialized art H.S. and every art class (Architecture, Photography/film, AP Art, fashion) was all the same, i think what the professors want to see/hear is passion, purpose, meaning when you talk about your work. when they know the motivation for the creative direction your going in they can advise on how they see you could amplify your message with your work. ultimately if you don't enjoy that specific kind of feedback on your work and defending your art its best you put your creative energy elsewhere