There is nothing beautiful like dating a person that tell you about the little details of their life. Like they are just open about all things. It creates a strong bond and intimacy. And there is nothing boring like asking someone what you have been upto and they respond with "just doing errands".

Well well well now I have another prayer point I am adding to the list concerning marriage.

"Natoka kufanya ma 1,2,3 alafu we will meet later." It will take me time to really EACH time to give details. This is beyond manliness. I can say what is necessary. If my spouse wants details of every other activity, the lady has insecurity issues to handle. Suspense plays a good role to some extent.

I can say it's a challenge though to be open about my lives in a relationship cause manze the society I'm from is hard to tell my background cause whe , it's crazy so it's hard to even tell my partner this is how my life was & is but may God give me a partner that won't condemn me for my openness but if I find a lady who's easy with me like even my other side of life that's the one for me cause nobody's perfect.

Openness is important in a relationship .

It's true, relationships nowadays is fake . Most of our peer group as guys don't want to be open with the girl cause there's allot of crazy stuff in our lives but again some girl also makes it hard for us to be real cause they also don't tell us about their lives , so it cut both ways that we're trained to keep secrets to each other by society . But it's hard being truthful but I know marriage exposes us for real, we can hide in relationships but in marriage is the only DCI that'll show our real lives . So for me I think committing ni ngumu cause our society loves to condemn us once they see our flaws & past. So its the mean society, the judgment & all that which makes us hide stuff. But yeah I rather have a genuine lady in a relationship cause if we lie now to each other dating how will our marriage last. Truthful ones last in relationships that makes it stable in marriage . Communication for me in relationship must be real, if she's real with me I'll be real cause it cut 2 ways but if she isnt real hiding stuff there's no way I'm committing to her. But if she's open then I'll be real with her.

If something happens in the middle of your 123 that you did not mention then it might not only affect you who feels "it is none of your business" but also the people around you which includes your partner.