There is nothing beautiful like dating a person that tell you about the little details of their life. Like they are just open about all things. It creates a strong bond and intimacy. And there is nothing boring like asking someone what you have been upto and they respond with "just doing errands".
@CITAMChurchOnline5 ай бұрын
You're spot on! When someone shares the small stuff about their life, it builds a strong connection. It's like they're inviting you into their world, making you feel close to them. But when someone's vague about what they're up to, it can feel kinda dull. It's the openness and sharing that really make dating exciting and special.
@JoylineJJ5 ай бұрын
Well well well now I have another prayer point I am adding to the list concerning marriage.
@derrickwere62255 ай бұрын
"Natoka kufanya ma 1,2,3 alafu we will meet later." It will take me time to really EACH time to give details. This is beyond manliness. I can say what is necessary. If my spouse wants details of every other activity, the lady has insecurity issues to handle. Suspense plays a good role to some extent.
@CITAMChurchOnline5 ай бұрын
I understand wanting to keep some things private, but being open with your partner helps build trust. It's okay to share just what's needed, but it's also important to consider their feelings and find a balance that works for both of you.
@BENJAMINONDENG-qi2mi5 ай бұрын
I can say it's a challenge though to be open about my lives in a relationship cause manze the society I'm from is hard to tell my background cause whe , it's crazy so it's hard to even tell my partner this is how my life was & is but may God give me a partner that won't condemn me for my openness but if I find a lady who's easy with me like even my other side of life that's the one for me cause nobody's perfect.
@CITAMChurchOnline5 ай бұрын
Finding a partner who accepts and understands your background and experiences, without judgment, is a blessing worth waiting for.
@BENJAMINONDENG-qi2mi5 ай бұрын
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@benjaminondeng32105 ай бұрын
Openness is important in a relationship .
@CITAMChurchOnline5 ай бұрын
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@BENJAMINONDENG-qi2mi5 ай бұрын
It's true, relationships nowadays is fake . Most of our peer group as guys don't want to be open with the girl cause there's allot of crazy stuff in our lives but again some girl also makes it hard for us to be real cause they also don't tell us about their lives , so it cut both ways that we're trained to keep secrets to each other by society . But it's hard being truthful but I know marriage exposes us for real, we can hide in relationships but in marriage is the only DCI that'll show our real lives . So for me I think committing ni ngumu cause our society loves to condemn us once they see our flaws & past. So its the mean society, the judgment & all that which makes us hide stuff. But yeah I rather have a genuine lady in a relationship cause if we lie now to each other dating how will our marriage last. Truthful ones last in relationships that makes it stable in marriage . Communication for me in relationship must be real, if she's real with me I'll be real cause it cut 2 ways but if she isnt real hiding stuff there's no way I'm committing to her. But if she's open then I'll be real with her.
@CITAMChurchOnline5 ай бұрын
As much as society may pressure us to hide our flaws and past, honesty and openness are crucial for building a strong and lasting relationship. It's admirable that you value genuine communication and seek a partner who shares that commitment. Remember, a healthy relationship is built on trust and understanding, and being truthful with each other from the beginning sets a solid foundation for the future. Encourage open dialogue with your partner, and together, navigate through challenges with transparency and mutual respect. Trust in God's guidance as you seek a relationship built on authenticity and love.
@BENJAMINONDENG-qi2mi5 ай бұрын
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@christineannette72345 ай бұрын
If something happens in the middle of your 123 that you did not mention then it might not only affect you who feels "it is none of your business" but also the people around you which includes your partner.