When a woman is jogging, or running with a ponytail and her hair bounces back-and-forth. When a woman moves her hair out of her face after she looked down, When a woman is polite, cordial and act with Grace towards other people. That’s all I’ve got right now.

I've done the backwards baseball cap and the forward baseball cap experiment for many months, and the results are: NOBODY pays attention to me LOLOL :D

Nose ring = turn off.

the usual disclaimer applies - none of these things are attractive in themselves women are just reminiscing about/imagining a guy they already like with these things. when men say they like sun dresses they're thinking of the early 20s hot blonde christian girl not some flabby 50 y/o. straight women are attracted to large masculine bodies that indicate health/strength/dominance and straight men are attracted to feminine bodies that exhibit signs of health/reproductive capacity. accessories aren't going to turn a 'no' into a 'yes'.

1. What I like to call the “target run outfit”. Usually a messy ponytail, leggings, and a hoodie/shirt. There’s something about being able to be hot even while being nonchalant about it. 2. Similar to the lower back touch, when in close proximity in a crowded space,her hugging my arm. 3. Answering the phone after the first ring 😂

My ex dressed well, stylishly without affectation. She is from Hawaii, had taken hula as a girl, and was very feminine. One thing I love to see women do is throw their heads back and laugh heartily, naturally and without thought. Women who are naturally feminine move like cats and are a joy to watch; it's poetry in motion. Regarding this video: it's just a joy and heartwarming to hear ANY woman speak well or admiringly of men these days. It's a breath of fresh air. Keep up the good work, Courtney. Much appreciated.

I actually like how honest and funny the girl at the start is. Honesty even if weird at times is attractive as a quality to me. The nicely innocent and fun video is great in a sea of negativity that the internet can sometimes be.

Weirdly-specific-things about women that I find attractive: -When they get excited about holding a baby -When they cry about happy things -When they laugh (and it doesn't sound like a pterodactyl or a Mack truck - this can be real hit-or-miss) -When they sit on a couch/chair with their legs curled up to the side

You being married to the watch guy somehow makes total sense. That's awesome

being strange is my middle name🫡

As a military man, I would say the backwards baseball cap says you are in Special Operations building a trench. But a forward-facing baseball cap means you are a special operator on Mission. There is a Delta Force feel with a forward cap. It is also used to protect your identity. A backwards cap means you are not in combat.

As they say, "People are strange, when you're a stranger"

I've known about the shuffling cards one for a while. It makes you look like the coolest guy in the room when you can effortlessly shuffle cards.

No nose rings, ladies.

Love a girl who can take the piss out of herself and have a laugh. Love a girl who listens with their eyes and locks their gaze on you. Love a girl who dresses modestly, shows that she has self esteem and doesn't need the attention. Love a girl who laughs at my stupid Dad jokes. Thanks for the Vid Courtney. It was very refreshing to hear, as us blokes can be quite oblivious to the suttle hints.

I don’t wear ball caps but if I did, I would never wear them backwards because you’re (Courtney) the classy type of girl I want to attract.

as a man i dont really get many compliments, however I still remember the first I ever got. I posted on my Instagram as a story a selfie of me wearing a cap backwards, my crush at the time replied saying she really liked my style with the cap and it suits me a lot. That was like 7-8 years ago, I still think about it to this day.

The reality is, women probably won't notice these details if they don't find the guy handsome from the get go. But when you find someone hot, anything they do can potentially be sexy lol. Card shuffling, yes, never realized how hot that is until now!

I love how you keep mentioning your husband and the fondness in your voice when you do

To quote from one of many Heath Ledger's legendary lines from The Dark Knight: "Let's put a smile on that face..."

Woman here. None of these would make or break my feelings about a guy but my personal opinion is as follows… Things I like: - The hands - The back-touch (but only if I’m already really comfortable with him-otherwise the shiver up my spine is not a good one) - The watch is alright; it doesn’t do much for me though Things I don’t like: - The backwards cap I don’t care about the other two

Women with long hair always looks for me more beautiful, than those with short hair. Just my humble opinion.

I find it really attractive when a woman naturally displays very classy and elegant mannerisms. It shows confidence, sophistication, self-acceptance and like she'll be able to provide a stimulating and intellectual conversation, but that's just me.

No bc the gentle lower back touch was oddly specific but 1000000% SPOT ON 👏🏼

😂😂Your instant look toward the camera when you 100% agree with the point

The baseball cap thing only works if the guy is ALREADY attractive. The cap is simply an accessory and it doesn't make the guy. This is a fact.

I had no idea you were Teddy's wife, been a viewer of his KZfaq channel for a while, very informative young man and seems an all round good guy, I stumbled on to your channel recently also very good thank you both for excellent contents, congratulations to you both and all the best for your future together , you seem well matched in my opinion.

Courtney, thank you for your videos. I enjoy them and I'm an old married guy trying to stay relevant for my wife's sake. I'm really old fashioned so I can't think of anything "weird" that is attractive to me. I like when a woman is sweet, kind, and a little shy as opposed to "sassy". I like it when they feel the need to fix my collar or straighten my tie. As mentioned earlier by someone else, I love it when a woman is running with a ponytail and it is bouncing. Very feminine. I love it when they wear bright colors and clothes that look very soft but also relatively modest (not showing too much skin but enough to be interesting). Maybe this is weird: When they are wearing a neckless and they pull it up to their mouth and sort of toy with it in their mouth. I assume this draws my attention to their mouth. Oh, I do like when a woman is really passionate about talking about something and her facial expressions are very pronounced and emotional (in a positive way). That energy is very attractive to me. Pretty normal stuff I guess.

I enjoy watching videos for self-improvement thank you Courtney Ryan This is a a big help appreciate the upload

I mean lets be honest, first thing first: be handsome looking, the Rest is history 😂😂😂

I love when a woman processes information in a positive way.

Things that women do: I knew a girl who had taken ballet for many years in her youth. Now in her late twenties, when she was waiting in line or otherwise bored, without thinking about it she would do these little toe stands and go in and out of a ballerina pose. It was a quirky little habit she had that was absolutely adorable!

The way my wife explained the lower back touch to me is that, when i would put my hand on her lower back it made her feel like i was guiding her. If i did it on her upper back it makes her feel like I'm rushing/pushing her. She did say that she loves it when i put my hands on her hips. Don't do that to a stranger though.

I need to get back to wearing watches. I went through a watch phase right out of college, and lots of women at the office complimented them. As for weird things women do that I find attractive, a FORWARD baseball cap with the ponytail pulled through the back makes me weak 😂

When women put their hair up into a pony tail or undoing a braid/ pony tail and doing the hair head scratch and flip afterwards. ( shows confidence and pure femininity at its peak).

Hi Courtney! I am finally fully healed from my breakup from my now ex-fianceé. It took months to do so, but I did. I feel free, I feel out from under a giant black cloud. Going forward, if a girl asks me about calling or dating her, I’ll go for it. It’s such a feeling of joy and happiness, having broken free from the pain and heartbreak for the last time.

There is something to the card shuffling thing! My dad taught me how to shuffle cards when I was a kid!! And whenever I shuffle, women and men tend to be wowed by it, like "where did you learn to shuffle cards like that"?!?😮

I agree with everything you said in this video. As for your being slightly embarrassed at your enjoying a man shuffling cards, BUSTED!!! 😂😂😂😂😂👍

When I use to wear a baseball cap, it was mainly because of my hair was messy and didn't get a haircut. The only times I turned the cap backwards was because when riding bike or on a moped, the cap won't get blown off by the wind. Or, I have it backwards just to help cover the back of my neck area from the sun.

Things I find attractive in women: 1) Blushing. Modesty is so attractive 2) A stifled laugh. A good sense of humor and self-control 3) Saying thank you. A little bit of appreciation goes a long way

a vast majority of the women i have had relationships with claimed that they loved my dancing. my ex wife still insists that was the catalyst for her falling in love with me, and even told me the other day "i miss dancing". i guess her new husband doesn't. go figure.

Thanks. Courtney for the insight! Your wonderful!

I let out some laughter when you were talking about the baseball cap. I used to always wear my cap forward while younger, but I noticed that I started reversing it when I got fitted caps, I think because the bill was much heaver in comparison to a foam cap or light weight cap. It becomes almost a balancing thing where it feels like it was meant to be worn in reverse. I also tend to get more headaches when wearing it forward. It's an anomaly in the matrix.

I was not aware I am subscribed to both your and your husbands' channels :) As a watch guy, I have been following Teddy's channel for years now. All the best for both of you. It is great to see, what you both are doing in completely different subject matters, but with similar unpretentious class. Well done!

Hi Courtney, I ‘ve always thought a woman’s hair pulled through the back of a base ball cap is super cute when appropriate 👍

Things men need to do #7949 Things women need to do #1 to infinity: just exist...

My wife tells me my perceived IQ drops 25 points when I wear a baseball cap backwards (which I NEVER do other than to tease her.)

Courtney your next video could be. "Men reacting to the strange things that women think make men hot or makes them a 10" Now that would be a hoot.

Love your reactions C!❤

“I’m married to the watch guy” 😂

Looking forward to implementing some of these

Very important is when an attractive woman keeps her natural hair color, particularly when she is younger, rather than changes it. It indicates stability and confidence in how God really made her. This confidence alone is attractive. Additionally, it means that the man, when he is attracted, is attracted to the true picture of who she really is, rather than make-believe.

I've been out and about today and havd noticed woman and girls are smilling at me more than usual which does great for my confidence to attract the ladies I want

2050...A Zombie smile makes you more attractive!🤷‍♀️ it never ends

I don't know how many guys feel like I do, but what really impresses me is when a girl casually does small acts of kindness (holding a door, picking something up, etc) or show s sudden display of skills (showing me a program or site she coded, talk about a piece of furniture she fixed, sketches something quickly). Just a quick casual glimpse of who she is or what she's good at, like that momentary over-the-sunglasses eye contact. LOL

Wonder if the attraction of smile lines is just because they imply you're a happy person who has fun and smiles a lot.

Where do you get those backwards caps? All the ones I see at the store have the bill in front. 🤔

Forwards baseball cap: You're a man of focus, drive, determination, career goals. Backwards baseball cap: You like to party, drink, play sports, had many girlfriends, not really focused on your career right now.

I have good hair but I have a thing for wearing hats. I wear a hat almost every waking hour of the day, in fact I'm known for hats. And girls have told me the backwards hat is hot more times than I can count. But it has to be almost organic, like some dudes look great bald and some don't. Same with hats, same with many things. Ya gotta find what makes you comfortable, never dress to make someone else comfortable. Dress for your own comfort and confidence.

I keep thinking of Barry Bee Bensen when she says looking over sunglasses 🤣 Hayden Christiansen also has very defined smile lines

Backwards baseball cap = the white bread version of a durag.

I think the overarching common theme in the things they are saying are hot, is competency. Essentially showing that you are skilled in some way which exudes some amount of subconscious confidence.

having her hand going thru her hair looking like she's in her thoughts, or fiddling with it. the only materialistic thing i can think about would be a personnalized charm that has meaning to her, either in her hair or on her ankle. i can definitely see the sunglasses thing working for women as well 😎🤣

I wear an analog watch sometimes, digital watch sometimes, sunglasses all the time (I’m in SW Florida), no hat sometimes, baseball cap foreword usually, more often a visor, can’t remember when I last dealt a hand of cards, use the lower back nudge effectively and always get a great smile when I put my elbow out for my date to put her arm through when we’re walking in a parking lot or along the street to a restaurant.

These are great, even though I am married and not looking to attract anyone, but I still can try to make the Mrs. happy too I guess. BTW, I find women without makeup/push-up bras etc. most attractive. Athletic clothing is an added bonus (especially if they are actually fit).

Heath Ledger as the joker in The Dark Knight is my all time favorite acting performance no cap. However, I don’t use this as a model when I’m around women 🤣

when she puts her hair in a ponytail and looks so damn good it, i swear it gets me baaddd

The bit about shuffling cards hit home. It's all about the hands. I'm no movie star, and although I try to appear polished, I ain't going to be in GQ anytime soon. So I'd mostly be easy to overlook. And then I pick up a tool and go to work on my motorcycle or head out to the backyard where I'm custom building a deck myself. Or I pick up the guitar and strum and sing on key. Those are game changers for a relatively ordinary guy in a dad bod.

Got it! Heath Ledger from the Joker smile lines. 🤣🤣

I love videos that you share with us and take benefits from you ❤👍

I’ll be 37 next month and occasionally wear my black mesh SnapBack hat (not fitted) backwards, I would get a lot of compliments from women about it how it just “does it” for them. It takes a certain personality type to pull it off though I think. It’s the hat of choice for masculine, physically strong and conservative men in my opinion.

Two things I find strangely appealing in women is when they cover their mouth when they giggle, and when they blow their bangs

Great content. With that said, I've concluded that women appreciate pretty much anything and everything, if you can be charming about it.

These might seem strange to some people. Whats stranger is doing or having all this and NOT being tall, handsome, with the appearance of wealth and status. Then expecting any of this to make a woman think you are sexy.

When it comes to things that a woman does that I think is attractive is if she were my partner and say I am cooking or doing something and she just comes up behind me and wraps her arms around me in a warm embrace out of nowhere that is just absolutely amazing! ❤❤❤

Yup size of his bank account 😂😂😂

I've been following Teddy Baldassarre for a while, and love his content. It makes perfect sense to enjoy your content as well

A backwards ball cap is straight 🔥. It speaks confidence, style and athleticism. Hair fixed with product is great also. There's a time and a place for both

I discovered your channel just days ago but I've known of your husband's channel for at least 5 years so imagine my surprise finding out who he is to you! Btw, you have a very nice way about you. Your natural poise and class is refreshing and quite rare these days so I can see why your channel is so successful.

Whenever I've worn a baseball cap forwards or backwards I get the same amount of attention I get when I'm not wearing a baseball cap, None. I can shuffle cards really well even like Gambit from X-Men, still no looks

Cant afford a Rolex. So I stole one.

I always wear a watch and a few years ago got a free gift from a watch dealer who was phasing out a “medium pricey” digital watch brand. It’s the nicest watch I ever owned and I like the look; I’ve even had a few men compliment it! Hey I can tell time with an analog watch but what the hell?

Thank you so much!!! Luv Teddy.

Being gentleman without expecting anything will make you hot, Thanks.

Single for a reason - 1/6

Agree with you on the backwards hat... When I, a man, sees a girl with one of these guys, I just laugh saying to myself: "Poor thing, she had to go with the Doofus bottom feeder!" Just google "backward's baseball hat images" and be prepared to laugh. The one I remember was a photo of a guy with his hat on backwards at the ball park holding a program above his eyes to block the sun from his eyes... That one image alone tells you all you need to know about these sorts of guys. I never wear hats other than a winter knit hat and even then it would need to be real cold. When my hair started thinning in my late thirties, at that point since I cut my hair real short and I love it as who looks better in a rainstorm with no umbrella, people with long hair or the guy who pays no attention to the downpour and just runs his hand across the top of his head to to wipe the water off?

One of the advanatges of a backward baseball cap is that it gives you a wider perception. I was amazed at the difference in archery with my ability to aim with the backward baseball cap versus the forward baseball cap.

G shock watch says you hit the G spot.

A girl that snorts sometimes when she's laughing too hard is attractive. Also, any time they have showy hair accessories like scrunchies or flower pins. Am I the only one?

I always come back to this analogy... we often bring junk food people into our lives and then find ourselves unhappy when we're not in a healthy relationship! So a lot of women like junk food men but when they go from unhealthy relationship to unhealthy relationship, they never addressed the fact that they've chosen the people that they want to have in their life. They typically instead just complained that "all men"...

Just subbed to your hubby's channel. I have a gold colored Citizen Eco watch and I love it.

A textbook example of putting the cart before the horse. :) Let an unattractive guy try all of the mentioned things and you will be able to observe no reactions or "he is a creep" reactions by women. Let an attractive guy do all of the mentioned things and you will get positive reactions by women. But also that guy could do anything and it would be sexy for women. This is coming from a decently attractive guy that sometimes tries weird and goofy things around women to test their reactions. You would not believe what women "find attractive". Here are a few random ones: breathe inhale pause look into her eyes before saying anything and prolong the pause until she says anything; plainly saying no with a confident voice; switching gears in a manual transmission car; talking with one of her female friends but in a boderline flirty way; simply being non reactive; ignoring her while repairing something; veins on muscles... Always remember guys: there are things that women say they like and then there things that women react to.

some of us wear baseball caps to cover up our hairlines sadly

1. Have A Watch - I can agree but watch wristbands don’t come easy to find in my area I do have one but I would need to bye a new battery certain watches take certain batteries so I also gotta keep that in mind as well, and I don’t know how common they are to find in stores. 2. The Heath Ledger Smile - I can understand this one completely but on the other hand not every guy can pull this off because we all have different facial structures unlike heath ledger but yes I am sure some men can definitely pull this look off but again it really depends on the face we are given if we can’t do the heath ledger smile we can sure as hell smile the way we normally do with confidence. 3. Shuffling Cards - Now Typically I can do a good job but then other times not as much it really depends on the mood to play a card game, if I am then I will shuffle the cards and do the best I do I know I could practice more but again it depends if someone else wants to play card game or not. 4. Lower Back Touch - Noe I can understand this one but to each their own because not all women are same some are fine with it and others may feel a bit like PDA about it so it really depends so I keep that in mind if my girlfriend tells me PDA, so yeah but for the most part I totally get it. 5. Backwards Baseball Cap - I can understand this one really do I don’t even even find myself wearing I just can’t do it. I’ve tried wearing baseball cap and it does not look good on me. They look absolutely horrible, so I definitely will say this, and would strongly do not recommend men to just wear baseball caps like not unless if it’s still like a baseball game then yeah you can get away with that but when you’re like out and about I I wouldn’t. 6. Sunglasses - okay shades are fine but not everyday only when necessary or needed otherwise we should show our eyes more again my opinion guys, but again.

5 Hot things women do 1. Play with their hair - Weather they are tying their hair into a ponytail or braids, it looks so cute when they are playing with their natural hair. 2. Hugs around the waist -Mostly if the women is just an inch shorter than the man, when she get excited to see you, she will hug you around your waist in place of side hugs or over the shoulders hug. The women is shows more excitement hugging around the waist meaning she wants him to stay with her, shows interest. 3. Head tilt down smile - When a woman tilts her head slightly down and gives a happy smile, exerts such a beauty that is so hot. 4. Winning in games - Its strange but when men play games (board games, arcade games, etc..) with women and she surprises him by beating him in a game, it gives off the sense that she no push over and it makes the games more fun because she is competitive. 5. Makes me laugh, not on purpose - The women may not be funny, however she has a sense of humor and she can end up saying something or doing something by accident and it can makes us laugh uncontrollable. You don't have to be stand up comedian to make jokes

As a bass player, my hands have been noticed more than the rest of me. How I use them is always greatly appreciated.

I actually collect pocket watches and I prefer them over wrist watches

I have a mechanical watch that I just love. It's simple, analog, and goes with everything. Omega Seamaster Terra Aqua. Not too small, not to big.

My experience: When I go out with a baseball cap, people seem to avoid eye contact with me. No one says hi or smiles at me. When I go out with my hair done, people smile at me, say hi to me, and make eye contact with me. These things still happen to me daily.

Hope you’re well Courtney ❤