Struggles of Dating a Non-Latino
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5 жыл бұрынMy mom doesn't really speak English...
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@vidiesel 5 жыл бұрын
I like when Curly calls us French fries.
@michellemarquez8010 5 жыл бұрын
vidiesel me too i feel special
@Nanil0v34 5 жыл бұрын
Me too 😁
@kengaminbro 5 жыл бұрын
vidiesel 🤣🤣🤣
@kengaminbro 5 жыл бұрын
Michelle Marquez you are special
@hatedbymanylovedbyfew3567 3 жыл бұрын
He does that makes me hungry for 🍟 French Fries
@TheSF04 5 жыл бұрын
"Listen up, vegetarianism isn't really a thing, you can probably eat some rice....but even then its cooked with f***** lard" 🤣🤣🤣
@RandomPerson-tw8mn 5 жыл бұрын
There's always beans!
@Pollo.a.la.crema. 5 жыл бұрын
That’s the truth. Vegetarianism and veganism is kind of a silly way to live for most traditional Latinos
@JuaniqueVerde 5 жыл бұрын
I type random comments. Which is also cooked in lard or with some pork product.
@RandomPerson-tw8mn 5 жыл бұрын
JuaniqueVerde Well everyone has different ways, I suppose. I don't cook it that way. I'll try it.
@angelicavences9357 5 жыл бұрын
@@Pollo.a.la.crema. nopales tostones platano maduro frijoles calabazas mango mangu raspas pulparindos macepanes sopes.... guey hay muchos y eso es solo vegano Vegetarianos tienen un chingo de comida
@yarely6869 5 жыл бұрын
1:00 My boyfriend: why is there skeletons everywhere? Me: Go watch the movie "Coco"
@ogechiuradu8807 5 жыл бұрын
Or the Book of Life
@myeesha3752 5 жыл бұрын
I took Spanish and we learned about dia de los muertos
@regantreece2240 5 жыл бұрын
@@myeesha3752 MMMHMMM I know a lot about the day of the dead because of my pre k and kindergarten Spanish teacher.
@slayeulgi 4 жыл бұрын
@@ogechiuradu8807 book of Life really ain't about day of the dead
@carmelabourgeois1332 5 жыл бұрын
I married a caucasian male who was a traditionally trained chef. After both of my parents' passed away I have always been blessed that my Gutemalan mom passed along her recipes to him. He may not be able to pronounce most words but cooking transcends language barriers.
@manager-nim2623 5 жыл бұрын
That's very sweet of him, it's like feeling like your parents are still with you but through him that's so beautiful ❤️
@sammy69831 5 жыл бұрын
Sí, que es tan hermoso💖😭
@ST-tv5wg Жыл бұрын
What tf is traditional trained chef? Was there an old way to cook vs now?
@nishikidokeii 5 жыл бұрын
I'm Mexican dating an African for 3 years. It's been challenging learning each other culture and Language but it's all worth it. We're expecting our 2nd child and we're trying to teach them how to embrace both cultures.
@jessicamompoint1849 5 жыл бұрын
Congrats!
@Rabidanti 5 жыл бұрын
African from which country btw?
@nishikidokeii 5 жыл бұрын
@@Rabidanti Togo
@Rabidanti 5 жыл бұрын
@@nishikidokeii 🇹🇬🇹🇬😎😎 I'm sure he/she can speak Spanish though. (Or at least know some words hahaha)
@Rabidanti 5 жыл бұрын
Oh, and are you learning your partners Native language (most likely Ewe or Kabiyé I suppose) or French language?
@lunaaiden2569 5 жыл бұрын
I am a Native American (Navajo). Natives hate to see other Natives date outside their race but my family are a mix (They married a different race). Myself I never dated within my tribe (You ask fir their clan and they are related) so I ended up dating a guy from a different tribe. 😂 People think Natives eat the same food, speak the same but no it's different. I never knew that until I met him and we started learning eachothers language/culture/foods. 💖 Haha love the video. 💖
@missgoddess4392 5 жыл бұрын
I'm black and I've only dated latinos. My bf family is amazing! They welcomed me. I just love the culture and the food. I'm def struggling to learn spanish but I'm trying my best. lol
@HeflinEstelle 5 жыл бұрын
Latina here. Dating a Latino, but he’s like third gen and doesn’t speak Spanish. So this is still verryyyy relatable!!! Lol
@dukekenny9340 5 жыл бұрын
Heflin Estelle Its ok to Know English in America
@HeflinEstelle 5 жыл бұрын
Ken93 What’s to know English in America?
@JS-0- 5 жыл бұрын
That’s sad
@kyradanielle755 5 жыл бұрын
im 3rd gen and ion speak spanish🤷♀️
@JS-0- 5 жыл бұрын
@@kyradanielle755 that's sad
@thehopeofeden597 5 жыл бұрын
Someone please get Maya some sancocho and Vivaporu. Chica's been sick since forever.
@mypanexogamouslineage965 5 жыл бұрын
She also needs syrup, tablets, te caliente, mate y sopa de pollo.
@lovinghatredOXY 5 жыл бұрын
Yo for real what’s up with her voice it’s been two months almost. Necesita un té de jengibre.
@elvisantoniodislapujols9980 5 жыл бұрын
Is that you mama?
@frostbite4806 3 жыл бұрын
@@lovinghatredOXY tambien necesita té de limon con ajo
@cuka2cool_748 5 жыл бұрын
Imagine being a Dominican vegan 😭 shit is hard man. I’m married to a half Puerto Rican half American man who can understand Spanish doesn’t speak it too much. But he confuses people since he looks like a pure Gringo. I gotta warn my Dominican family like don’t talk shit he’ll understand you 😂🤣😂🤣
@lailahernandez1659 5 жыл бұрын
Jisselly Diaz I’m Dominican and have a cousin who’s vegan but it’s very rare
@bekind7313 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Jisselly, just wanted to say that one can't be half American it's better to say half caucasian (if he is that). Americans are mix of different ethnicities and cultural backgrounds :)
@thehopeofeden597 5 жыл бұрын
American isn't an ethnicity my guy. Cuz Puerto Ricans are Americans lmao
@perlzwazhere3 5 жыл бұрын
I'm Dominican and I tried going vegetarian and when I tell you it was a struggle, ITS A STRUGGLE. Like they laughed at me sometimes 😂😂😂😂
@genahxoxo_ 5 жыл бұрын
Jisselly Diaz just say half white lmao, Americans can be any color
@Katsune_Kiya 5 жыл бұрын
Yo soy vegana... y Argentina, imaginense como vivo 😂
@Katsune_Kiya 5 жыл бұрын
😂 Creo que para mi es mas facil porque de chica nunca me gusto la carne, igual en mi familia todos me tienen bronca 😂
@Indrea13 5 жыл бұрын
La única razón por la que no dejo la carne es porque me matarían de hambre en mi casa JAJA
@DLo-eh1ul 5 жыл бұрын
Pero boss puedes tomar vino!!!
@FrenchSpleen09 5 жыл бұрын
Sameeee
@soucriant3035 5 жыл бұрын
Igual, pero colombiana jajaja
@Bigfan762 5 жыл бұрын
I dated a white Jewish girl for almost a year, and whenever I had dinner with her family the food was so bland omg. I made dinner for them a couple times and one time her dad told me my tacos were restaurant quality lmao ps I’m Nicaraguan-American🇳🇮
@MatchaJazmin 5 жыл бұрын
danipshoe ayyy 🇳🇮. Wonder if they’d like nacatamales
@desireepolloreno1069 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I am Mexican and italian and my boyfriend is white. The food has not a lot of flavor and is bland.
@abrahamdominguez5517 4 жыл бұрын
Desiree Polloreno same here. I’m Mexitalian. My husband is white American. Girl, the food....issa no
@heraldomedrano6993 4 жыл бұрын
Jewish people are not white.
@mayolish2977 4 жыл бұрын
You should make for them fritanga, they would probably love it. I'm from Nicaragua btw
@PDro11 5 жыл бұрын
What's funny is, as much as 'latinos' love to talk about our similarities, there are a lot of differences between us as well. Dating outside ones culture is one thing, but cover the topic of dating OTHER Latin people from other parts of Latin America. Some groups aren't that accepting or open minded to other groups, even within the Latin community. Overall, even when you ARE Latin, there are still cultural differences to consider, because we don't all function the same.
@0StrawberryBlossom0 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true. I'm Nicaraguan and I've had Mexican people look at me weird when I describe some of our traditions or food. Even Latinos can be real ignorant or rude about other Latinos.
@jasminflowerz1710 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! Very different mindsets. When I realized the difference in the way they view things, it was such a culture shock to me...as a child of Hispanic Caribbean parents, ,, dealing with men of south America,,, Argentina, Mexico...Or maybe was just my luck with those very few 2, lol.
@shiararuiz5171 5 жыл бұрын
I dated before I got married others Hispanic guys from Mexico , Ecuador Guatemala and Honduras very nice people but I never date a gringo because my English was not great before then after married ny Puerto Rican /American husband my English is much better so I don’t have esperiencia dating outside Latino culture
@Charlierose214 5 жыл бұрын
I'm hispanic, & I feel awkward going to a latino party & hugging & kissing everyone, I literally just wave & say hi to the whole table, but I would say I grew up much more American in that way, don’t get me wrong if it’s a friend/family I’m the cuddliest but having to do that with a whole damn room of people I’m so deathly awkward that doesn’t come naturally to me
@ivyrivera8081 5 жыл бұрын
I wish i could just wave n say hi. The people around me would totally freak out!
@0StrawberryBlossom0 5 жыл бұрын
It's fine. I'm hispanic too but I just love my personal space. I'll hug and kiss a couple people but the whole damn room? :/
@tequil00meter 5 жыл бұрын
Uh oh! The old ladies probably talk shit later about how maleducada you are. Chismosas lol
@ivyrivera8081 5 жыл бұрын
@@tequil00meter yesssss ❣️
@anthonyrivera-medina 5 жыл бұрын
charlierose214 damn don’t lose your culture now!
@nabreu7035 5 жыл бұрын
As long as both parties are able to accept each other cultures. It becomes a struggle if someone is not willing to learn, or think their culture is better or right. Date a person who can accept and embrace the beauty of latinos (and can dance some merengue) ❤️❤️
@dukekenny9340 5 жыл бұрын
E R It ok to Anglo-Saxon and Westerner
@loofahsswanson559 5 жыл бұрын
I know this is meant to be a lighthearted video, but I think a more serious video would be helpful as well! I know that my biggest struggle with my non-Latino boyfriend is trying to help him understand my view of the world. Being a white male is really different than being a Mexican woman in the USA, and I we’ve spent a lot of time discussing why situations he is comfortable in makes me feel almost in danger.
@mypanexogamouslineage965 5 жыл бұрын
I had that happen to me too when I dated a white American girl, she would expose me to aggression, beration and danger.
@jules9747 5 жыл бұрын
Yes girl! I recently broke up with my white boyfriend because he refused to try to understand and the racist things he would say sometimes! Girllll
@crazyowlgirlcncowner 5 жыл бұрын
Can I get some examples? I'm curious
@jenniferashburn7037 5 жыл бұрын
Okay so I'm totally in love with Latino culture. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years but his family is very hesitant about him dating we are both almost 17. I respect that part of this may be culture but are there things I could do to help his family be more open minded towards us? Also is it because we are of different culture?
@taopanda98 5 жыл бұрын
Loida Guajardo My boyfriend is Indian and I am Mexican. Being an Asian male is really different than being a Mexican woman in the USA, and we have been discussing the differences of Asian vs Latino privileges in the Western world. It took a WHILE for my boyfriend to understand me especially he grew up/dated among Desi/Indian and White culture and I am the FIRST Latina friend and girlfriend to even top it off. But we have 9 months together so far, and we are learning everyday from our lens and sharing them. It DOES take hard work, but I think it is paying off.
@marisolaguilar7361 5 жыл бұрын
I've never dated someone, but dating a non-latin@, while being latin@ is probably a struggle, but if there's love, then it's better.❤
@WoeJee 5 жыл бұрын
TØP/ FOB/ P!ATD/SHEPPARD/ PARAMORE/ AJR what does the @ mean?
@marisolaguilar7361 5 жыл бұрын
@@WoeJee latinos or latinas, it's like saying "latinx"
@WoeJee 5 жыл бұрын
TØP/ FOB/ P!ATD/SHEPPARD/ PARAMORE/ AJR got it 👍
@marisolaguilar7361 5 жыл бұрын
@@WoeJee Where I live it's common to say it like that.
@marisolaguilar7361 5 жыл бұрын
@@hinatablake3189 Thanks! Didn't know some people would like it.
@Evyann305 5 жыл бұрын
It's not even just a struggle dating a non latino because within the latino community most nationalities are very different. As someone who is half Cuban and half Puerto Rican I don't have much in common with some other latinos Mexicans, Colombians, Dominicans ... Most places have their own way of speaking, their own music, their own style of dancing, their own foods, the way they're raised, and their own traditions, it's not that simple. Lol
@remhenshaw4313 5 жыл бұрын
Bahaha wtf is caveman Spanish???
@abriltyler7828 5 жыл бұрын
Annette 1 Exactly! My family is Nicaragua, but all of our church friends are Mexican. So for events at church or just hanging out their houses, it’s still so different; the way the talk, cook, and other customs. We still have to adjust
@hambone4984 5 жыл бұрын
Dude!! Lol I'm Cuban and my man is Puerto Rican, and the fucking differences is astounding. We legit got into an argument when we first started dating about what empanadas were called. Even the dialect is so different
@Evyann305 5 жыл бұрын
@@hambone4984 I actually think that Cubans and Puerto Ricans are very similar. I have alot of friends from both nationalities and they have so much in common. Also in my own family the Cuban side and Puerto Rican side get along great. The names of some foods are different though empandas versus empanadillas, and pastelillos. Lol
@dominicanbrian 5 жыл бұрын
Annette 1 why do you say Dominicans don’t have much in common with you? I don’t think that Dominicans, Boricuas and Cubans have that many differences. We are the same people tbh, we just talk different dialect but we eat the same foods basically and have happy and outgoing cultures in the Spanish Caribbean lol
@yeseniahay5308 5 жыл бұрын
I am married to a Scottish Irish man with blond hair and blue eyes. Our daughter is a blonde blue eyed baby. My Mexican parents will never stop calling us the güeros. BUT my white boy now understands and speaks a little Spanish. He loves our food. He appreciates our language and culture.
@manny1up 5 жыл бұрын
So you married a man with blond hair and blue eyes? Congratulations!!! Your hatred toward your OWN people it's quite evident is not normal for a human being to lack melanin, having blond hair and blue eyes is a genetic defect, your husband and daughter are both mutants.
@frankiegarcia2119 5 жыл бұрын
manny1up youre very ignorant.
@michelleleg7741 5 жыл бұрын
manny1up manny1up You do know Mexican is a nationality right. You can be any race and be Mexican. Majority of Mexicans happen to be a mix of white and indigenous blood(mestizo). She can marry who ever she wants. And her husband is open minded and appreciates Mexico’s many cultures which thrives of Indigenous, South European, West African, and Arab migration to Mexico
@xopandasiiox6415 5 жыл бұрын
They just wanted a reaction. Probably not happy with themself.
@mocha1886 5 жыл бұрын
manny1up lmao, you sound like a straight up hater! FYI there are white Mexicans, Latinos come in every shade. Dating or marrying a white guy doesn’t mean you hate yourself, it could be a preference. You’re a damn racist 🙄
@Lexi1320 5 жыл бұрын
I’m a Latina (Mexican/Ecuadorian) and currently dating a lovely Russian guy. I guess thing the biggest challenge that face us is our families’ language barrier, while we’re fluent in English, each of our parents are not, so communicating with them requires one of us to translate. Recently my boyfriend surprised me by taking a Spanish course at his university, which in turn prompted me to start learning Russian. It’s been lot of fun learning each other’s native language and has brought us closer!
@joshuabuchanan1141 6 ай бұрын
That's hispanic not Latina, there's a difference between those 2 ethnicities
@fivestarplaying3553 17 сағат бұрын
@@joshuabuchanan1141 Mexicans and Ecuadorians are Hispanic because they are Spanish speaking countries, and also Latino because they are in Latin America.
@llovemaya 5 жыл бұрын
Im black, all of my boyfriends have been Mexican. None of them or their families cared (except one)
@Angie-et5gq 5 жыл бұрын
Maya Burris where I live a lot of Mexicans and black people end up together. It’s beautiful and it’s nice to see how it’s just normal around here.
@miguelaperezjrrr 5 жыл бұрын
@@Angie-et5gq same. I'm Mexican an I dated a light skin an it was pretty unexpected of her to start speaking/texting me in Spanish but I liked it lol
@miguelaperezjrrr 5 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry about that. Almost the whole majority of Mexican families care for one another, including people of different races an they love to jus include everyone in everything. Cookouts, birthday parties, etc. If you still date Mexicans, then I hope one day you get experience that ♥️♥️♥️
@juliem6840 5 жыл бұрын
I'm Dominican and I grew up in a predominantly Dominican town in Jersey. Its what I grew up around and what I knew and felt comfortable with...I never would have thought that the love of my life would be a extremely patriotic Mexican man...and even though we both speak Spanish, in the beginning I thought he was speaking another language and vise versa...our cultures are so different and it was very rough in the beginning, but 10 years of marriage and 2 beautiful baby boys later, I know that love conquers all including ethnicity, language and skin color...he loves my big round booty and kinky hair and I love his flat booty and stereotypical Mexican Chicano accent. 🇩🇴♥️🇲🇽 And FYI, tostones with guacamole is the bomb!
@frostbites1613 5 жыл бұрын
there's a dominican town in jersey? WHERE?!
@juliem6840 5 жыл бұрын
@@frostbites1613 oh yeah, Perth Amboy...
@Angie-et5gq 5 жыл бұрын
Tostones and guacamole sounds pretty damn good. I’ma have get on that.
@Callebravo 5 жыл бұрын
FrostBites You must not be from North Jersey. Paterson NJ is like a little Dominican Republic. Also it’s pretty rare to see a Mexican with Dominican 😩
@lelechim 4 жыл бұрын
@@juliem6840 Haha my first guess was gonna be Perth Amboy. My second and third were gonna be Paterson and Passaic.
@npeliroja89 5 жыл бұрын
My family is Puerto Rican & my brother in law is an american country boy from the South. He has learned some key phrases, dances merengue, dances salsa, eats everything, & his family came to our Noche buena party complete with lechon & una parranda.
@clia10892 5 жыл бұрын
I once dated a Korean American guy and we learned a lot about each other’s cultures. I currently live in South Korea and I’ve realized that there are a couple of foods that are similar to Dominican food but with a different name. Like for example, con con (crust of the rice) is eaten here as a snack whereas in DR it’s eaten with a meal. And there’s something here that’s kind of like moro (rice mixed with beans) but it has no flavor haha
@MsSelAce 5 жыл бұрын
My mexican parents were extremely ignorant, would not allow me to date anyone who isn't latino because culture and language was different. Over the years as i got older they got used to my filipino amor, they speak caveman spanish to eachother. It's beautiful.
@shiararuiz5171 5 жыл бұрын
linaтнεs̾p̾o̾o̾k̾y̾무무 but filipinos have Spanish influence like us so I don’t see it as too much different i don’t know I dated before married Italians guys but they speak Spanish and watch novelas
@MsSelAce 5 жыл бұрын
@@shiararuiz5171 I'm talking about the language barrier, they do not speak Spanish they speak Tagalog.
@MsSelAce 5 жыл бұрын
@@shiararuiz5171 Byt you are right with the culture bit ❤❤
@rebeccabalthazar 5 жыл бұрын
I'm Haitian and we have to the same thing make sure you greet everyone with a hug and kiss or it'll be considered disrespectful
@anthonyrivera-medina 5 жыл бұрын
CHILDISH.BECCAAA that’s because the French influence on yall
@rebeccabalthazar 5 жыл бұрын
@@anthonyrivera-medina it's a sign of respect is what I said and how it's a similar tradition and I didn't say anything about the "French influence"
@anthonyrivera-medina 5 жыл бұрын
CHILDISH.BECCAAA that’s the reason for it tho, just like the Spainards in our countries, haiti isn’t Hispanic but it is Latino
@rebeccabalthazar 5 жыл бұрын
@@anthonyrivera-medina I'm not even gonna go back in forth with you🤦🏾♀️
@anthonyrivera-medina 5 жыл бұрын
CHILDISH.BECCAAA agreed if your offended sorry that wasn’t the intention but 🤷🏻♂️
@lailabaf 5 жыл бұрын
Hahah a house full of skulls, ma’am that could make so many good jokes out of your dad 😂😂 “It’s the ex’s that broke my heart”
@remhenshaw4313 5 жыл бұрын
Omg i love it ha
@katherinebribi1711 5 жыл бұрын
*_Quien vio que decia latinos y le picaron?_* 😂
@wateriswet1845 5 жыл бұрын
My family Latino but we have vegan/vegetarian options and we embrace that shit.
@fallaciousjinx 5 жыл бұрын
Why does Maya's grandma expects her boyfriends to understand spanish if Maya herself doesn't speak spanish??? I mean, we all saw the videos where she learned the language herself, so grandma wasn't so keen on teaching her? 🤔
@yomidee8302 5 жыл бұрын
The world really needed this video 🙌🏻🙌🏻 also curly calling us papas fritas 💕
@JoseReyes-yn3xj 5 жыл бұрын
I really needed this. Thank you Pero Like!
@anapfahler3162 5 жыл бұрын
I agree. my hubby is white and I'm Guatemalan. we have 2 sons and have been married for 26 years Both boys are familiar with both cultures. Since my hubby is both German and Polish we have exposed our boys to it all. My hubby actually has learned more Spanish than our boys... lol I love you guys' videos keep it up!!! #LatinosUnidos #RightAlongWithEverybodyElse 😉
@irinam2523 5 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t love Curly more if I tried!!! ♥️♥️♥️ he’s so honest, chill and just badass. I feel like he’d be the friend who would ALWAYS give the best advice!
@raszee2224 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this! ❤️❤️❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@_Miixhaell_12 5 жыл бұрын
Is Maya okay? She’s been sick for a long time...
@recoil53 5 жыл бұрын
She probably just popped into a couple videos that week. But each editor is doing their own thing and there isn't a set release schedule. With some BF videos you can tell it sat a while and with others it looks like they just hurried up and did something to have a release (Ladylike, for instance).
@spoton95 5 жыл бұрын
The biggest struggle is that the most people can't handle us Latinas! I have that experience that I'm always too loud, screams so much and my Dominican family it's fucking crazy. So the most gringo are shocked when they visit us. So i think sometimes other latinos understands us a little bit better than Non-Latinos.
@BlueCR055 4 жыл бұрын
Waaay better...greetings from Brazil!
@KawsYT 5 жыл бұрын
Tell the Dominican girl to make more Dominican insult videos or like something with your parents because I’m Dominican and my mom laughs when I show her those videos
@cyborg_siren 5 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS! My fiance is Hmong, and it's been a struggle, but we can relate to ALL OF THIS!!! Were currently planning a Boricua-Hmong wedding and it's going to be very interesting. I love when y'all make relatable content!!! I'm sitting on the couch with him and even he agrees and he especially was like "Thaaaats why you say hello and goodbye to everybody." Like YES FOOL, I have to!
@marcelamarquez8232 5 жыл бұрын
Awwww yay, I suggested this topic. Thanks for listening @perolike 💕
@PRE.. 5 жыл бұрын
“Pelo malo where” right ❗️
@Kpop_Metalhead 5 жыл бұрын
I would say don't do it. Unpopular opinion I know but of all the Spanish / Latino people I've dated 1% of their families have been nice to me. I don't speak Spanish but I understand a lot and every time I would go to their houses they would be talking s*** about me thinking I didn't understand. Or constantly say to the guys why can't you find a nice Spanish girl? Or she's too dark can't you date a light skin black girl? And then didn't have the decency to be ashamed when I called them out on what they said. Yes I may have just met shity people but I'll pass.
@Lilohilo97 5 жыл бұрын
that's so rude, I'm sorry they treated you so badly. That's not normal at all.
@JuaniqueVerde 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment - I was looking for this! The anti-Blackness is *so real* within the Latinx community!! I’ve experienced it too. #hardpass
@Seokjinnnnie 5 жыл бұрын
JuaniqueVerde You have points but at the same time you guys can’t punish other people for the racism that the elders in the latinx community have
@valuna36 5 жыл бұрын
So sorry you had to go through that. Anti-black racism is so insidious in my country, Brazil, and in other Latin countries too. I often wished Latinos would be held just as accountable as white Anglos for their prejudice and mistreatment of others.
@ryanbales8116 5 жыл бұрын
It's pretty despicable. Sorry you had to go through all that BS.
@hou989 5 жыл бұрын
I'm Mexican and my husband is Black. Hes been learning Spanish and my mom spoils him rotten bringing him food and sweets. My mom doesn't speak much English but they get along so good.
@dukekenny9340 5 жыл бұрын
Dulce Dogan She can learn English
@hou989 5 жыл бұрын
@@dukekenny9340 she tries but gets shy ☺
@quanamckinney519 5 жыл бұрын
Though I'm half Panamanian I always grew up with Mexican culture from friends and a tiny bit of family. But my American family is a one hug greet like there's no kisses and hugs you get laughed at and pestered about school or what you should be doing with your love life😂😂
@taisvv1284 5 жыл бұрын
Me imagino la sorpresa de ver tantas calaveras en Dia de Muertos💀💀💀
@elizabethsalas4986 5 жыл бұрын
Porque van a creer que eres una bruja oh algo asi
@sunmarsh 5 жыл бұрын
Get well soon Maya. xoxoxo
@winterfigueroa3133 5 жыл бұрын
My husband is Puerto Rican and one thing I promised him is that I would learn about his culture. It’s been one amazing experience for sure from learning the Spanish language (which I’m still working on) to learning how to cook Puerto Rican dishes such as pasteles with his tia, etc. Dating outside of your culture with someone who’s got an open mind and an open heart is beautiful. Love is love is love. :)
@_universul 5 жыл бұрын
I’m from Ecuador and I’ve been dating someone who’s from Guyana & Scotland for 3 years 💛
@jatnnapalen7263 5 жыл бұрын
Julissa’s shirt is giving me life😂 Pelo malo where?
@kgparadise936 5 жыл бұрын
The struggle is real but it keeps a lot interesting & everything’s a learning moment for eachother! Both Pros and cons 🤷🏼♀️ lol Pero Like .. We’re , Nicaraguense and Puertorriquena ova here ! Where you guys from !?
@gemap72 5 жыл бұрын
Yaaaas I feel this because my Husband is black but from California and I'm Cuban-Mexican. He has yet to learn Spanish, non the less he is all about my culture and experience everything that comes with it.
@KC-zb9qd 5 жыл бұрын
I’m Hispanic engaged to someone from Trinidad. Even though he doesn’t speak Spanish, my family is also from the Caribbean and it’s amazing how similar our customs and foods are!
@Skarlett00 5 жыл бұрын
The most challenging thing I’ve encountered is the dancing. I love salsa, bachata, merengue, punta, cumbia etc and they can’t 😭😭😭
@taopanda98 5 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it, my Indian boyfriend is shy when it comes to salsa!
@emmillye.1336 5 жыл бұрын
U guys are soo hilarious ❤️❤️❤️
@nabi0405 4 жыл бұрын
finding this channel has been the best thing
@abriltyler7828 5 жыл бұрын
I love this! My husband (he’s what we call spicy white aka Mexican descendent but not connected to his culture) and I have been together for a year now and it’s been such a funny adventure teaching him about my Nicaraguan culture and all my family’s customs. Especially for the holidays showing him how we typically celebrate and in turn I get to see how a stereotypical American family celebrates too. Culture is so much fun!!!
@lastortaswey07 5 жыл бұрын
@1:47 I would probably be that grandma lol!
@mhernandez1873 5 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is Vietnamese and only knows the basic Spanish words that everyone knows. It’s only a bit difficult when I say cariños to him but he doesn’t understand.
@ehysteffi7640 5 жыл бұрын
m hernandez Latino and Asian couples are the cutest !!!! Best of luck in your significant other’s quest to learn Spanish
@ultragamer4960 5 жыл бұрын
also learn Vietnamese too :p
@poppy-spades 3 жыл бұрын
Cuban here dating a Canadian, she tried to learn spanish for me and it honestly melted my heart 🥺 It's so appreciated to feel like someone cares about my culture and tries to engage themselves with it
@dillonmichaels6037 5 жыл бұрын
2:12 y’all left out the best part of that scene! “It’s okay, I make lamb” 😂😂😂
@summersilvia7843 5 жыл бұрын
Right, stating straight facts🇵🇷🇵🇷🇩🇴
@ljmartinez7715 5 жыл бұрын
I've been married to a Mexican for almost 20 years. I learned to speak Spanish, just like he learned English. I learned how to cook things he likes from his Mom. I know more about his culture than I do my own. He has done much the same. When you love someone that's what you do. Our traditions and how we have raised our kids is a great mix of the both of us. Love is first , everything else was secondary.
@tylerthrift9670 5 жыл бұрын
Yo. I needed this video forreal. Im trying to learn Spanish right now for my girl.
@alejandraamezcua5057 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve thought about this! Being just two adult individuals is ok. But when children are being raised I assume it will be tough to decide religion, where to celebrate the holidays, traditions the family going to be authentic to, traditions are going to be blended if applicable, ... I’m so interested in this topic. Make a video going into detail, please.
@fernplant6816 5 жыл бұрын
The culture is beautiful and hopefully I’ll be almost completely fluent by the time I graduate college! I’m a Spanish translation major hoping to work with migrants! 😊
@mypanexogamouslineage965 5 жыл бұрын
Te quiero como una persona, y por lo que haces.
@dukekenny9340 5 жыл бұрын
Audrey C. You are a traitor to Anglo culture
@jimena8105 5 жыл бұрын
It's so hard to explain "te quiero" and "te amo"
@mistym0rning 5 жыл бұрын
Jimena Cuevas I may be way wrong here, but I always thought: Te quiero = “I love ya” to friends, family, people you care about; Te amo = “I (deeply) love you,” as in, “I’m so in love”, what you say to that one special person.
@quequieresgueyy9140 5 жыл бұрын
2:45 "explore the colors" taste the rainbow😏 ya feel
@js0posh 5 жыл бұрын
Julissa!! Details on your shirt PLEASE!! I need it for my daughter!!!
@LissetGamino 5 жыл бұрын
I tried dating someone non Latino but I could never 😩 I’m Mexican and realized I want to date in my Hispanic culture but not Mexican. My last relationship was with a Puerto Rican 💗
@mocha1886 5 жыл бұрын
Lisset Gamino Puerto Rican men are yummy 🤤
@vianjelos 5 жыл бұрын
Im puerto rican but since I live in Miami there are a lot of Cubans down here so thats what I tend to go for. Culturally there isnt much of a differance anyway except that they have a stronger family foundation that a lot of puerto ricans in the states seem to lack(from my expiance and that of other puerto ricans i know)
@LissetGamino 5 жыл бұрын
Mocha18 agree ! I made my mind up that I will marry a Puerto Rican man
@justice.01997 5 жыл бұрын
Puerto Rican men are 💖💖
@LaBucci 5 жыл бұрын
Lisset Gamino lmao 😂 same here, I love Puerto Rican men or Dominican, I just can’t find any cute Mexican men
@sugartub 5 жыл бұрын
I'm Mexican and my mans is Korean. Luckily, his Spanish is so good.
@vivienvaz1186 5 жыл бұрын
Love you guys 🤗 where is Gadiel?
@jesustorres6428 3 жыл бұрын
Lol their videos are funny but sometimes very hard to relate to. They make it seem like every hispanic follows their traditions, even within a country people have different traditions or people who live in the cities versus people who live in small towns also have different traditions.
@fatmaalshamsi1091 5 жыл бұрын
I can't keep up with Curly's weight loss anymore ! Masha'Allah
@danyelluh 5 жыл бұрын
I've never dated a non-latino,because I've never dated anyone #SingleLife
@johngonzalez4298 5 жыл бұрын
This is so accurate 😂. It's good to keep an open mind and explore other cultures. Proud to be 100% latino 🇨🇴, 🇭🇳.
@leila5646 5 жыл бұрын
Julissas shirt is literally amazing ❤️❤️
@annaliesekerkman7230 5 жыл бұрын
Yay!!!!
@rosalindagalvan406 5 жыл бұрын
bueno pues I’m Mexican and a vegetarian and you don’t know how much crap I got when I first told my family 😂😂
@kmore3712 5 жыл бұрын
Same!! Its been 3 years and my mom still be trippin lol
@lelechim 4 жыл бұрын
Would you say it's harder for a Mexican to come out as a vegetarian to their families than coming out as gay?
@samsoftball77337 5 жыл бұрын
my mom and dad's family met one time (dad is white mom is PR) and my tias were sitting with my cousins and it's normal for us to always be touching and they always put their hands on your thighs and stuff and it made my cousin really uncomfortable because she's not used to it and I had to explain to my aunt's that we don't do that with my dad's family. sometimes it's so hard to mix the two together because you understand and respect both but they don't understand themselves sometimes
@beckieILTL 5 жыл бұрын
What about the struggle of dating IN the latino culture but not the same country. My bf is salvi and Im mexican. He says some thing y me quedo como qu'es eso
@kahanabanana 5 жыл бұрын
Lol I’m the non-Latino my husband married... I learned Spanish just so I could understand everyone, still can’t understand everyone but oh well.
@analuciasamayoa8661 5 жыл бұрын
Kahana Supnet just the fact that you are trying means how much you love your husband! I hope he is willing to try and learn about your culture as well!
@dukekenny9340 5 жыл бұрын
Kahana Supnet and they can’t learn English!!
@kahanabanana 5 жыл бұрын
Ana Samayoa thank you ☺️ and he did try a little bit. I’m Hawaiian Filipino so he tried to learn how to play the drums when I danced Tahititian.
@kahanabanana 5 жыл бұрын
Ken93 lol yeah, I guess it’s harder to learn English after so many years just speaking one language.
@arianamelendez5 5 жыл бұрын
My mom and big sis already have this idea witch is true tht I will end up dating a american or another race then a Latino guy lol😂
@laraluisacorrea4375 5 жыл бұрын
Yo amo Pero Like pero xq nunca hay cositas sobre Brasil? :(
@abilenereese3279 3 жыл бұрын
as a Mexican American I married an African American and we have 3 beautiful children. I resonate with alot of these stories when we were dating. its beautiful to meet someone different, makes for a lifetime of learning a different culture.
@allyk5971 5 жыл бұрын
Pues nosotros gringos podemos hablar en español también...
@angelicakzapata 5 жыл бұрын
Chido 😎
@allyk5971 5 жыл бұрын
S DLC solo estuve tratando decir que la gente latina y los gringos pueden llevarse bien y que la diferencia en idioma no es tan enorme de un impedimento. Todos pueden ser amigos ahora, no tenemos que seguir siendo divididos.
@MiMi-jq5sk 5 жыл бұрын
@@allyk5971 tu español es mejor que el mío :) como prácticas tu español?
@allyk5971 5 жыл бұрын
Mi Mi yo leo mucho en español, voy a una clase en mi escuela secundaria, escucho a música y veo las novelas, pero sobre todo esto creo que la cosa que me ayudó más ha estado hablando y escuchando a los hispanohablantes nativos (generalmente mexicanos en mi escuela) en persona no como un video o en clase
@Rabidanti 5 жыл бұрын
Es que me impresiona mucho que en Estados Unidos la gente ve el aprendizaje de idiomas como algo muy difícil y brillante.😂😂 Incluso me han dicho que uno solo logra aprender un idioma hasta los 12 años o algo así. Y en verdad chicos, aprender español no es lo mismo que aprender chino-mandarin 😂😂😂.(incluso si tienes más de 12 años de edad)
@mrkrabs8558 5 жыл бұрын
Yay soy una papita 😃
@booplesnootbunny 5 жыл бұрын
Aww I really love this video lmao. As someone who's crushing hard on who's probably the whitest boy in the world (le exagero, pero ya saben), i'm REALLY nervous about talking to him bc sometimes I'll just say things in Spanish without realizing it, but everything they said is true and I'll definitely take it to heart.
@sasha2384 5 жыл бұрын
Can Maya post a video of her hair routine
@stevengomez8016 5 жыл бұрын
Curly said la idioma...its el idioma.
@cinthiasalazar7946 5 жыл бұрын
Mexican fams do be trolling
@remhenshaw4313 5 жыл бұрын
Haha siii
@squidingly 5 жыл бұрын
Married a Cuban and I have been trying to learn Spanish even though I find it difficult. ♡ Worth it to even have a few words down, although it doesn't help when our friends and my spouse mostly teach me random things or not family appropriate things lol
@MariaGonzalez-ek2pt 5 жыл бұрын
So real!!!! And Julissa’s shirt esta brutallllll
@awesomeirlable 5 жыл бұрын
0:16 ...idioma isnt’ feminine, okay bye...
@brycem1207 5 жыл бұрын
Just a Brazilian passing through the comments 😂🇧🇷
@dukekenny9340 5 жыл бұрын
Bryce Antony Franco da Silva onde são Morenas ?
@Mamacanda 4 жыл бұрын
“We’ll troll you” lmao sooo true
@SkyBorba 5 жыл бұрын
i'm a non catholic latina and I've been with a catholic asian man for over 5 years. The cultural differences are definitely hard sometimes but we make it work and i'm sure others can too.
@serenityq26 5 жыл бұрын
if i can learn chinese, korean, japanese WITHOUT my man saying or forcing anything, then you need to look harder for educated/cultured men/women. its not that deep
@yichen1273 5 жыл бұрын
lol good for you for the effort!!!!
@WotG1 5 жыл бұрын
serenityq26 wait sis what helped you learn those? Spill the tea
@luzaltamirano1618 5 жыл бұрын
Being a first generation Mexican American, I never thought I’d date outside my race. I am currently in a relationship with my high school sweetheart for 5 years who happens to be white. His patience and understanding of my culture is AMAZING. He knows to say hi to EVERYONE in a room when I have family over and it helps that he’s in love with my culture’s cuisine and language! He’s beginning to become fluent in Spanish and is able to speak to my grandparents which means the world to me. I never thought my soulmate would be white! Always have an open mind when dating!
@2709isaiah 5 жыл бұрын
I've had a white boyfriend and a black boyfriend and a 4th generation Mexican american.. I couldn't see myself with them in long term.. I had to get myself a straight up paisa. Lol I love dancing Mexican music. Zapatiadas and corridos are my thing lol.. and I made sure he loved to dance cause I'm not the type of person to sit during the whole family party lol. Yeah I had cousins make fun of me cause my husband doesn't speak English. Pero como tuerzen la boca cuando me seca a bailar.. yup lol
@Lelii321 5 жыл бұрын
Perooo Likeeee where do i get Julisa’s shirt !?!?!???
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