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4 ай бұрынAdjusting to mom life is a big change I love it sooo much, but it definitely comes with its challenges. Currently trying to find a good routine for me & baby. Let me know down below what has worked for you!! 🤍
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@Sshayyla 4 ай бұрын
I 100% feel you when you say depressed and haven’t been able to clean . Ughhh it’s hard for us moms . Especially when your baby just wants to be with you ..
@CristinaVillegas 4 ай бұрын
Yes it’s like no matter what you pick you feel guilty :(
@jenniferl8967 4 ай бұрын
You can always try putting your baby in a highchair close to you so they can see what you’re doing while also having your hands free ☺️just an idea that helped me a lot with my SUPER needy baby girl lol also putting random stuff on the tray for them to play with is great. My baby use to go wild for a spoon or measuring cups lol
@celinacantu2109 4 ай бұрын
I wash dishes with my baby in high chair that’s how I get the kitchen dinning area done then I put her in the bouncer when I do the cleaning in the living room and the. I take a break in between both when I clean my room I put her in a carrier or in her mini crib . I have 4 2 are young so it’s really hard. I miss me time sometimes but I don’t regret it . 😅it will get better once he’s older ❤
@RosieMilann 4 ай бұрын
Girl so true I don’t have a baby and feel the same way
@adriannegallegos7721 4 ай бұрын
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@wthhybl 4 ай бұрын
I would def suggest getting him on a 7-8 pm bedtime schedule that way you have time for yourself after he goes to bed! Another suggestion is to limit screen time, retire the playpen and get him moving around as much as you can. It tires them out for naps and at the end of the day. Also going on walks around the neighborhood or even just taking a drive can give you both a breather. You are doing great Mama!!
@2bbbcc 4 ай бұрын
This!! Let him roam around the house with safety ofc
@olivialayla6916 4 ай бұрын
I know it must be hard when the Dad takes the baby some nights and doesn’t stick to the same routine she has…she is doing great with it
@pamelam.3404 4 ай бұрын
Yess!! I did this and it changed things for me i felt like i could actually do more things 😊
@s.r6331 4 ай бұрын
Im not a mom, but WE ARE ALL ROOTING FOR YOU! And its ok to ask your family for support. Thats what they are there for. ❤️❤️
@maricruz3131 4 ай бұрын
Girl…. You have no idea how much I praise you for being so transparent… so many other content creators literally never really show what it’s like to be a full time Stay at home mommy. You just always show the reality of life as a mother. I am of a mother of 3 girls under 3 and it definitely takes a toll. It also takes me a week to get everything clean and organized. I just wanna tell you you’re doing an amazing job! You’re a great mother and motherhood looks good on you! I give you props . It ain’t easy but you’re doing great. My advice on getting anything done around the house would be to give him some Lego’s or some other building blocks and music on for him, that definitely has helped me with my girls. Love you doll!! Thanks for being transparent ❤❤❤
@kristincunningham1253 4 ай бұрын
One thing about our girl, she's always gonna be transparent and honest with us ❤❤❤❤
@lgxxgmz218 4 ай бұрын
You are right! I used to think I had a difficult baby or mom life wasn’t for me but I guess it’s like that for everybody
@Yikes124 4 ай бұрын
Are you a single mom now?
@jessadri1 4 ай бұрын
After having 3 kids at a pretty young age my best advice is to try to put your baby on a schedule. I am flexible with the schedule but having my baby in bed by 8:30 the latest on most nights is sooo refreshing and I have me time. Also, if you have help make your pamper appointments on one day and get it all day. I promise you will feel better
@estreyuhh 4 ай бұрын
omg cristina i haven’t seen you on my youtube in so long 😢i’m so happy to see how much progress you’ve made and how beautiful and healthy your baby boy is 🩵
@CristinaVillegas 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much love I feel like I’ve been going through so much lately I haven’t been able to post
@aoifekelly-cooney2181 4 ай бұрын
@@CristinaVillegashope you’re doing ok girl 🩷🩷
@SadFloweGarden 4 ай бұрын
I'm sorry everyone attacked your relationship on your last video. It must have hurt. We know he loves you! You're both so young and you will change as you grow and learn. No worries! Hugs.
@YalitzaC 4 ай бұрын
It’s okay to feel that way I’m a stay at home mom of 3 and I’m almost to 30 wondering what’s my purpose in life. I don’t mean that in a depressing way I love being a mom. My partner does what he loves for a living and I’m blessed I don’t have to work but I feel like I don’t do anything I’m passionate for, I’m just a mom it takes a toll on me mentally sometimes.
@Thepoetjewel 4 ай бұрын
You will be fine, god has that role for you in life and pray so that your holy spirit can sustain you, you will always be a mom and as far as society and being perfect don't fret, the mess someday will be no more and you will remember those messy days and it will bring you a smile that you actually put effort and strength to do all you could those are gods gifts effort and strength. Bless you.
@aavela 4 ай бұрын
You just described me! Mom of two, my partner is the only one that works. They say that being a stay at home mom is a tough job but there are times when I feel like I don’t do much because I don’t bring any income home.
@CristinaVillegas 4 ай бұрын
Reading all the comments make me feel way less alone I felt bad even admitting it because I do love being a mom but also find myself missing my old life sometimes too it’s like you want both haha
@l.s.u35 4 ай бұрын
I feel the same... I'm grateful for my man but I feel lonely and so distant and although do so much at home I still feel useless...
@Thepoetjewel 4 ай бұрын
Lovely, don't give up, the job of a mom is a valuable treasure. When we decided to partner with a man that would cherish us and protect us, is when the nature of our other passions changes. Because then comes the nature of having beautiful children, because the reality of true life is that, it does not come with all the other things that are not part of that nature. Take this job as important as any other job, validate yourself, because who will be the teacher of that little angels you have, you! Who will teach them to walk, you! Who will guide them the right direction when things seem wrong in their lives, You! Do you see how important you are in life. Besides raising kids you can coexist with things you like, humbly, like cooking small meals, walking, listening to your fav-music, joining a group of moms in your community for playdates, shopping, or seasonal gatherings. Prayers to you.
@Richh.lieey4L 4 ай бұрын
Girl STOP saying your life is boring don’t speak that into your life ! We love watching you , gain new audience , mommy audience rant to us tell us how you feel we are your BESTIES lol . Much live Christina ❤
@lordweneedu8217 3 ай бұрын
Yes your life is a blessing ❤ watch what we say into existence. Your never alone get into relationship with Jesus ❤and other believers especially mommy’s
@dripelz291 4 ай бұрын
Lesson to be learned for all girls in their 20s: STOP RUSHING!!! Live your life and travel, date, live alone, sleep in lateeeeeeeeee, do all the things you couldnt do in your teens because you werent legal!!! Then in your 30s settle down. Cristina had an ideal life and was living it! Shes literally showing you how all that lifestyle is gone, its now all about her son, but if you can WAIT, then DO!
@xoxo2026 4 ай бұрын
Ok but waiting till 35-45 is not good either. You will be an older parents and less time with them. Plus who’s to know if you wait till them if you will find someone who wants that at some point. Idk. There should be a time . I think by 25 kids are good to start having.
@allmypeachesareruined2778 4 ай бұрын
@@xoxo2026you could literally die tomorrow… the age you have kids doesn’t determine how much time you have with them everyone has a different timeline and what they want to achieve 25 is young
@paigemathews2291 4 ай бұрын
My husband and I are 35 have been together for 11 years and married for 9 and are having our first baby in April. Im all for doing it whichever way you want! We did enjoy our 20’s and have done lots of things, but I think you can still enjoy with kids!
@icebearcookies 4 ай бұрын
You’re not wrong but Christina really wanted to be a mom. She’s talked about it in past videos. Her man also seems to be a good provider for them and I doubt she would have settled with him and had his child if he couldn’t provide. She had her own businesses and I think she still owns that townhouse and her sisters townhouse and what not before him,… but the dancing life is a fast life and the best thing to do when living that lifestyle is to get in, make your money and get out before you get stuck.
@julinhar4095 4 ай бұрын
@@xoxo2026the majority of people are more stable financially, emotionally and mentally when they’re in their 30’s. Saying people should start having kids at 25 is weird but hey if you want to keep encouraging people to be young, unmarried parents and bring children into broken homes thats your choice.
@lauracanedo1446 4 ай бұрын
Girl I’m a stay at home mom and let me tell you, it definitely comes with its challenges. Our whole life changes. Sleep patterns change, hormones are crazy, our bodies feel crazy, and our focus is always on the baby and the house. And oh gosh, the mom guilt I swear. It is so real. When the formula drop to the group, I could relate. I dropped a whole CAN when my son was a newborn! I cried in the rocking chair for the longest. You are doing great. You are great. You are doing the best that you can and if I can give you any advice, take it one day at a time. I’m sure you have heard that said before, but it will save you so much stress. It’s a huge change and we learn as we go. Thank you for your transparency!
@tjasat344 4 ай бұрын
Imagine the single mothers that also have to work and do all this
@princesssakuraxo 4 ай бұрын
Cristina you are not talking too much, you can talk to us any time you want! We will listen and watch all the way thru. I'm happy that you are enjoying raising your baby even though I know it can be hard. Hang in there mama
@arianajo40 4 ай бұрын
Advice from a mom with a 3 year old, I stay at home as well. It’s ok for them to fuss when you’re getting stuff done. It’s hard to hear them cry for you, but they have to learn they can entertain themselves in the crib while mommy cleans for 15- 30mins(within eyesight of course)🤣and try not to put pressure on yourself to get everything done at once. I cleaned my house in sections lol Try putting on a favorite show with some toys and he’ll adapt. My son is still very much attached( which is normal) but he knows when mommy needs to clean the house, and he doesn’t cry anymore. When he’s napping you should just make time for YOURSELF. Shower, hair, listen to music, etc whatever makes you happy because you need you need a break too. Blessings to you and your family ❤️
@lamandaf1050 4 ай бұрын
Great advice! So spot on ❤
@brieestar0307 4 ай бұрын
As a stay at home mom , with a husband with a business I felt this. Feel like my identity is gone & im not even a person anymore . I just live for my kid & do the same routine every single daya
@CristinaVillegas 4 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!
@Prettystasi 4 ай бұрын
girl I felt this I'm a stay home mom as well I just try to stay positive through it all lol♥
@lupitahaussmann 4 ай бұрын
Best advice as a mom of three. First off, I struggled tremendously with my role as a mom. I even had thoughts that I wasn't meant to be a mom...I probably suffered from postnatal depression but never sought help. My first baby was "needy" but now that I look back he needed more stimulation and me. The TV (although I also tried it) was not the solution. Try baby wearing around the house, that will help get a few things done. And consider going on daily walks. Fresh air works wonders for the mom and child and everyone tends to sleep better. AND if financially possible, pay someone to clean your house. It's the best thing ever.
@azawms 4 ай бұрын
Love seeing this Cristina! Just like others are suggesting, highly recommend getting him on a schedule. At his age he should be able to do 2 naps in the day and go down at 7-8 PM latest. It'll give you some time for yourself. Also, if you baby wear.. that helps me a lot with getting stuff done around the house and helped me a ton with my 3 kids! Also, try looking for baby gyms in the area (Try the little gym) to socialize or get out with the baby. You can also do mommy and me swim classes at his age too. Good luck!
@Xoxo.baby94 4 ай бұрын
I think getting him on a 7-7 schedule can work. He can take a first nap at 10am then at 2pm then bed at 7pm. I’m a SAHM I fit the gym, reading, cleaning, journaling, cooking, taking him outside and walking my dog and then have the entire evening to myself with a bedtime at 10pm 🙏🏽 Hope this helps!
@jacindafriend3606 4 ай бұрын
Literally have done this since my son was a baby. He’s 6 now and still follows this. Minus the naps
@lavi5100 4 ай бұрын
Omg hahah I didn’t realize I do this!
@relaxationoasis2753 4 ай бұрын
Both my kids under 3years sleep at 7pm and wake up between 7-8am with a 2-3 hour nap after lunch. It helps to get things done/me time (reading, face mask)
@Xoxo.baby94 4 ай бұрын
@@jacindafriend3606 I did this at 3 months no training just put him on a decent schedule and did research with sleep consultants! Hes now 8 months and has slept at 7 since ! As STAHM we need time to ourselves 🙏🏽
@Xoxo.baby94 4 ай бұрын
@@lavi5100 isn’t it amazing??
@Chellooo__ 4 ай бұрын
My husband is a trucker. It was so hard for me when it was a new born stage and the stage your in. Honestly every stage is difficult and different. Sacrifices we have to make tho to make it work for our family. You got this mama! 🙏🏼
@SM-bv7wh 4 ай бұрын
Awe you’re doing amazing girly! You accomplished a lot so young and now you’re accomplishing one more huge thing in life. Take it one day at a time and remember you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. Maybe make a little planner and spread out the chores for the week and then you can plan for small things after that like go for walks or take the baby to random places and get him seeing other people around etc. maybe book him for a baby class to socialize with other babies too! Don’t let yourself go, get up, get dressed in your favorite clothes, take pictures etc etc ❤ you got this!
@CristinaVillegas 4 ай бұрын
Yes this is my new years resolution I feel like I have lived in pjs the past year and a half and not really left the house
@dammnnmel 4 ай бұрын
@@CristinaVillegasyes girl u should take the baby to diff parks , baby swim classes, reading time etc !
@bellamarie6868 4 ай бұрын
That’s super normal to have the feeling of missing ur old life and loving being a mom at the same time
@HarleyHavoc828 4 ай бұрын
Love how this video is so relatable and real. My sons around the same age and I am definitely a fan of a 7-7 schedule. Gives me time to get stuff done or do something for myself like watch a Netflix show or shower haha. It’s tough to hear him cry at nap/bed time, but I give him 5 minute intervals to help him self soothe. If he’s really worked up I’ll go in and rock him or rub his back. But now he is used to the schedule and barely fusses. Also try looking for mom groups in your area, even mom fitness/ play groups where you can bring him with you. You are doing a great job mama!! You got this!!
@GirlyLoves2Laugh 4 ай бұрын
Yes! 100% recommend a schedule for him! Most babies thrive on routine and it’s predictable for you to get things done! Also create a good sleeping environment (black out the room & sound machine) and have him sleep there every time once he gets use to his sleep will improve trust me! My daughter was a horrible sleeper till now! Your doing great mama not only is he learning but so are you ❤
@gladisyma2588 4 ай бұрын
I was 34 when I had my first baby (I’m 35 now) and totally relate to you. We’re just so used to our little lives and doing everything and anything whenever we want. 😅 Cleaning became a little hard for me as well so I decided to get help. I call someone to come clean my home once every 4 weeks and it’s helped so much! I felt a little guilty at first but I feel me spending all the time I can with my baby right now and my mental sanity of having the house clean is more important than anything. ♥️ you’re doing a great job! ❤
@marvelfan1013 4 ай бұрын
As a first time mom of a little girl, schedules are key. My baby use to do the same, I would clean when she sleeps. Bedtime at 6-7pm, she’s up at 6 am. One nap a day around 11-2 and that’s enough time for me to clean sometimes. And don’t worry about him wanting to be with you, it’s normal. In a couple of months, he will learn to play by himself. My baby rotates between books, toys, a learning pad and the tv.
@felishalove4525 4 ай бұрын
Tbh I so love you ranting about everything frfr bc I can tell you’re just being real. Love how much of a great mommy you are! And just how open you are from your club days to now I still love watching you!!!
@Ramirez10000 4 ай бұрын
Him tipping the bottle over is ACCCURRATE!!! Mom LIFE!!!! 😂❤❤❤ much love from a fellow momma!!
@_Sabrina999 4 ай бұрын
I was thinking!! Babies do that on purpose, they calculate their every move 😂 and then diabolically looking at the mess too😮💨
@Prettystasi 4 ай бұрын
girl yes!!!! my son won't stop 😂
@elizabethm3281 4 ай бұрын
I love how you don’t hide anything 😊 you’re straight up with things ! I have an 11 year old and 1year old baby and a full time career . So sometimes I feel Like I don’t have time for myself but it gets better as they older and they are able to play with toys by themselves.
@shalishapate 4 ай бұрын
I feel you 1000% I’m 2 years in & I still feel like everything rotates around my kid. It’s super hard but I said this year I’m making myself a priority. We need our time too mom. Sending love and positivity 🤍
@kbkellzworld1405 4 ай бұрын
You’re doing AMAZING 💕 when I was a SAHM with 2 under 2, I felt the same but to help you cope just realize it won’t last long and you’ll be able to do more soon!
@Hello_itsready 4 ай бұрын
This is real life of what a parent is. I appreciate the realness. It’s a reality check for me - thank you for being so transparent
@kimlam8344 4 ай бұрын
Mama of a 2 year old here, I can say it will certainly get easier has he grows up. Before it was definitely tough and frustrating getting anything done but now my son “helps” me while I fold laundry or is just a very interested bystander when I do the dishes lol Being a mama is surely a selfless job and definitely hard to adjust after being independent for most of your life, it will get easier mama! You are doing amazing!
@keyrilarios4732 3 ай бұрын
Wow, the way you are so patient with your son really shows how good of a mother you are. Such an inspiration! I loved the video and how real you keep it with us
@staceycastano4594 4 ай бұрын
This video was so relatable! ❤️I work from home and stay home with my 12 month twin boys and getting anything done can be very hard and frustrating. What’s helped me out is when they go down for their naps I get as much as I can done and when they’re being clingy I put one on a carrier and I’m able to get some stuff done. Give yourself some grace though, you’re an amazing mommy!
@MeMe-pj8ve 4 ай бұрын
12 month… 1 year?
@nicoledudek316 4 ай бұрын
girl its actually really good to talk with your baby, even when theyre sleeping bc itll help them sleep when theyre order in loud spaces
@Noemitowers23 4 ай бұрын
Totally feel this ❤️ motherhood feels like a weird balancing act 😅 My baby is now 5 and how I kept my sanity is going out to Libraries! & my parents house lol All. The . Time. Kids museums are also amazing! I got to a local one in IL, that’s got lots of locations and it’s $225 for a whole year! 😃 the more you go to these places, the more parents you meet and mom friends you make. Mom friends are essential and honestly life saving. You’d be surprised how many moms are doing this alone and having even one mom friend makes all the difference. You’re a great mom and there is a light at the end of the tunnel, it won’t always feel like this 🙏
@idanygard7755 4 ай бұрын
I love following your journey😍 you’re such a great mom already and I hope you get more time for yourself soon!
@elisabettamoretti-mx5hk 4 ай бұрын
I completely understand what you are going through. Hang in there girl. I love all your content!!
@TheeGinger433 4 ай бұрын
I totally get it girl. I have been through what you are feeling, and it is temporary! You won’t always feel stuck, trust me. You will actually miss him being that small and regret not just embracing those moments. Being a mom is a lot of sacrifice, that’s just the job but it’s all worth it! The hardest most rewarding job!
@amymcclain1701 4 ай бұрын
I’m a SAHM, I think getting on a schedule would be very good for both of you, I used “taking Cara babies” and it has helped me a lot! ❤
@Lorna1118 3 ай бұрын
4pm is so late for a nap, it will interfere with night time sleep, I would recommend a short cat nap in the morning then one lunchtime nap aiming for 1-3 hours. Also giving him plenty of fresh air and places to explore.
@Anonymous-ds2ol 4 ай бұрын
GIRL it’s gonna get better I promise ❤️ I am the same I always stayed home so I thought it would be the same too but my baby is turning 2 in April and I am pregnant with my second and they just become your little buddy , I always try to leave the house atleast once a day no matter how small it will help I promise. Even for a drive through coffee , leave the mess behind it won’t go anywhere . You’re doing amazing !
@L_Lawlieeettttt 4 ай бұрын
Cristina please do not feel down~We have ur back at all times!! I understand how hard it is to balance mom life and work life but please stay strong!! You can get through this because ur this wonder woman that I admire so much!!!love u and ur baby angel!!!!
@joclynnnunez2712 4 ай бұрын
I love how real this is! 😩❤️ this motivates me to reset MYSELF 🥰
@raylew311 4 ай бұрын
I just have to say you're amazing for following your intuition and not letting him cry. That builds healthy attachment and will help him be more independent as he gets older. I know it's super hard and everything you feel is valid. Is there any way to get cleaning help? Either way you are doing great and just remember the house doesn't have to be perfect😊
@lexx9621 4 ай бұрын
I've watched you forever and I'm so happy to see what an amazing mama you've become! You're killing it❤
@elizabethgranados6976 4 ай бұрын
Girl you’re doing amazing don’t even worry about the little things. You’ve gotten a lot of great advice so far. I feel like for me the most important thing would have to be putting him on a schedule. I was home alone for the whole first year after my son was born and I felt like I had NO life at all, I was always home doing nothing and I regret that. Take him on walks, go to the mall, get out of the house. I know how it feels to all of a sudden have someone being super dependent on you. It’s hard but trust me it gets easier and it’s totally worth it. I wish I would’ve put my son on a consistent schedule around that time too it would’ve helped SO SO much. You’ll get it girl don’t worry, you’re doing amazing and your son is adorable 🥰
@jsuter8890 4 ай бұрын
You look amazing! I watch your videos from time to time. I was just thinking about you today and you dropped a video at that exact moment. Thanks for sharing your life ups and down. Bring a full time mom is tough. Kids need constant attention. You will love when they can go to daycare or school for a few hours a day. It definitely gets easier as they get older. I hired a nanny a few hours a day when he was a baby so I could get work done and have some self care. She also helped clean and taught the baby. Maybe you should look into that if you can afford it.
@djp900 4 ай бұрын
You’re doing great mama, really appreciate how transparent you are!
@tayloramanda2011 4 ай бұрын
You’re doing GREAT! 👏🏼 When you want to clean and Aziz is in his walker, try bringing some of his toys in the room with you (even bath toys) and/or let him play with plastic spoons, spatulas and cups on the little table of the walker. You will be able to clean, cook, have time for self care and just plain old alone time very soon…they grow way TOO fast! Merry Christmas & Happy New Year! ❤️
@jaedanrose7939 4 ай бұрын
I think every mom, especially New moms and moms with little toddlers, felt the exact way Christina feels, I know I have! 🙌🏼
@Moshmellows 4 ай бұрын
Awww the way he sits up after his nap. Too cute!!
@blessedxbby624 4 ай бұрын
LOVE YOU CRISTINA💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗so proud of you🩵🩵🩵🥹🥹🥹look how far you’ve made it, and now you’re a beautiful mom🩵🩵🩵🩵bless you and your family ❤
@RG-iu2up 4 ай бұрын
I love the talks & updates❤️ you’re doing great mama. It’s your time do what makes you comfortable if that means cuddling with baby more it’s ok! I think as mothers we go through an identity crisis at first, but keep having faith you’ll find your groove. As long as you are both eating and at peace the house will just be what it has to be.
@brittanyf348 4 ай бұрын
I honestly love the end of you talking and venting. It's like i have a friend and we're going through it together, us SAHM need to stick together. It's hard and can be lonely, and you will feel sad at times but its good to clean get ready take baby boy out with you. Go grab your fav drink or food, even just go out and drive around play some jams it makes you feel so much better. ! The little things matter so much. Doing your hair or getting dressed up. I visit my Mom and we'll laugh, talk, eat lunch, and the my girls love it too lol ! Stay up and continue doing what you're doing. You'll continue to learn and take time for yourself you feel guilty but thats perfectly okay. ❤
@byefelisha3 4 ай бұрын
Aww dw it’ll get better as he gets older and more independent, my kids are 6 and 9 and my youngest son was super needy for the first 3.5 years but it does get better/ easier ❤ hang in there girl, you’re doing great xx
@CookingWithAlphaDior 4 ай бұрын
He is soo adorable❤.. I've always used a schedule and routine which helped alot.
@AZtini602 4 ай бұрын
What helped me was finding playgroups and baby music classes. I think sometimes they are more for the parents getting outside of their house and talking to grownups. It does help with socializing the littles too. Hang in there you are doing great.
@tatt6520 4 ай бұрын
I totally know how you feel. My 12 month old girl is super clingy and would never let me get anything done. It does get better thought she’s becoming more and more independent. Just don’t stress yourself out with cleaning and getting certain things done. I pressured myself so much to get everything done in a small amount of time just for it to get back messy 😭
@Dollydoll2012 4 ай бұрын
I've been spending all my 20's being a stay home mom of three kids. And i have the same thoughts about wanting to have free time and do my own things but at the same time i love my children and I'm amazed at how smart and cute they've become ❤️ currently I'm in the process of finally taking some tests i need to become a teacher, so in a way i can't wait to work but at the same time I'm gonna miss being a stay home mom lol. Just enjoy all his little moments and milestones 😊 God Bless 🙌🏽 🙏🏻
@liyahjene 4 ай бұрын
Love you so much! You’re such a good mommy❤️
@morenomijangos1 4 ай бұрын
Girl LOVE your honesty. Kids are super hard. I had mine young too and it changes your life completely. It’s def a big decision. Really hope you figure out a good schedule for him to have some you time❤
@erikahale8325 4 ай бұрын
Baby boy is growing up so fast 🥹🥹
@jessllo5 4 ай бұрын
Awww love you Christina! 🥺🥺
@Yoursbabyy 4 ай бұрын
I love video’s like this😍😍😍😍 its giving comfy and human reallife vibes 🙌🏽 i would love to see more of this!! You’re such a great mom and doing amazing 💓
@wrzechobecnyhejt1385 4 ай бұрын
I'm a single mom of 18months cute boy. Sometimes I was just crying under the shower. Simetimes we were crying together 😭🩵 Raising a baby alone is so damn hard,but still worth IT!❤❤ Now when he walks by himself, it's much way easier then before!🙏He also can play alone with random stuff( not toys ofc) for a little bit of a time. We have our Daily rutine.❤That's help a lot! You doing great mama. Your nor alone in this journey ❤❤❤
@Fifiandtheflowertots72 4 ай бұрын
He is sooo adorable mashallah!😭❤️
@eleciarobinson2584 4 ай бұрын
Hey sis, i just wanted to say I been watching you for a while and am so proud of where you’ve come for one ❤ secondly, what your dealing with is totally normal. Im a single mom to an 18 month old son, and it’s…difficult trying to maintain anything. Your whole point of self shifts and changes to your little human. Mine follows me around still lol. One tired mama to another, you’re doing great!
@jenniferl8967 4 ай бұрын
I love how real and honest you are ❤️it’s always been my fav thing about you ☺️ I’m at SAHM and the best thing I’ve done for myself is join a gym with a daycare. You can workout for an hour and still have time to shower/do skincare (my gym offers 2hrs of childcare a day). It’s truly life changing and makes you feel like you are a human being again. It’s also great for your babies social skills too cause they get to be around other babies everyday! ☺️ As far as keeping up with the house, the thing that’s helped me the most is letting my 2 year old “help” me lol. I just give her a rag and spray bottle with water and she goes to town “cleaning” while I actually clean lol she loves it/learns skills and I get things done. Soon he’ll be able to join mama in picking up the house ☺️ P.S you’re doing great! 🖤
@vwisniewski 4 ай бұрын
I wear my baby in a baby carrier or sling so I can pickup the house in the morning and she loves it ☺️ also I go to the chiropractor and it’s helped wonders for my back after the epidural
@nicoledudek316 4 ай бұрын
i cant believe how much youve grown its crazyy , ur fr goals
@kkpriskiee1570 4 ай бұрын
Yessss I remember this stage it’s so hard to get stuff done!!!!! You’re a great mom ❤
@meagenwhitman1292 4 ай бұрын
My youngest baby is alittle younger than yours but I bring her in the kitchen and give her spoons and measure cups to play with while I do the dishes. Or stick her in the high chair and let her have some baby snacks or cut up fruit ❤ she's my 4th and my last, but I promise It does get easier ! I have a home control planner with meal planning/ schedules/cleaning schedules so I can stay on top of everything ! You're doing a wonderful job even on the days you don't feel it !! ❤
@karinb7379 4 ай бұрын
I think what helped me is schedule. I have my son in a 7 am -8pm schedule and that’s how I get time for me and getting things done.
@larrymoorejr8211 4 ай бұрын
I never seen such a positive person in my life. Im late looking at yiur channel but when your videos popped up on youtube i been watching ever since. From 4 yrs ago when you did vids going to work all the way until now. Im now a big fan
@kylielaas 4 ай бұрын
I used a baby carrier, especially when it's close to nap time because then you get some stuff done and the baby is close to you when he wants to fall asleep. Hang in there it does get better.
@saxa-92 4 ай бұрын
Having kids is a full time job. Have you tried wearing a baby carrier and just have him in that and clean up whatever you can until he falls asleep? My son at that age was pretty much the same. Wanting constant attention. You can also try putting him in a highchair strap him in and give him all the plastic utensils, like spatula and stuff and maybe a plastic bowl and let him go wild. Have him close to you so that he can actually still see you, and like that he might let you get some cleaning done.😊 hang in there. It does get better❤
@Stephsglam 4 ай бұрын
Keeping a schedule for a baby is top tier! And having a baby while being ocd can be so hard but you just have too take it day by day 😊
@ceciliaescalante7257 4 ай бұрын
You’re so sweet and down to earth!! We are all gonna watch your videos even If they’re not like the ones you used to make in the past. We all understand your life is changing and you’re such an incredible mom!! My fiancé and I are trying for our first baby and I look forward to seeing your videos and listening to your advice and watching you be a mom! ❤ you’re doing great mama.
@mercedesalvarez4138 4 ай бұрын
Learn to enjoy your new life ❤ you’ll get a routine and get used to your own ways of your household with a child now lol but don’t put too much pressure on yourself bc time goes by so fast being a new mom can be overwhelming but it’s so rewarding 🥰 Good job mama
@Lolabeexo 4 ай бұрын
It’s gonna get easier as they get older 😊 my daughter is 4 years old and she’s so independent now ❤ and now I have a newborn and my 4 year old helps me a lot…don’t worry your life will semi go back to how it was as long as you have family to babysit here and there 😅 #momlife
@08Dimplee 4 ай бұрын
My son is now 2. It is really hard being a mum, you're not alone. Best tip to keep house clean, put things back where they belong once you've used it. Don't leave it and say you'll put it back another time. For eg, you eat, just wash the dishes straight away. Do 1 persons laundry first, dry and fold it, then another day, do yours. Don't do all chores in 1 day, do little everyday. When aziz is having his naps, do something nice for ur self, relax, do some chores here and there. Also you could put aziz cartoons more suited for his age, like miss Rachel or heybear sensory etc sometimes, leave him at your parents house so u can have time to yourself, and make sure to go out on walks everytine you can, or take aziz to the park. Fresh air makes a big difference. You're not alone. You're a great mom to a aziz xx
@peshlakaiadventures7015 4 ай бұрын
Aww girl your doing the best!! I’m a sahm as well with all boys.. i always remind myself they are only tiny for so long so just get all those cuddles.. what helps me the most is a schedule and swim classes.. also I love the comment “I’m just trying to keep him alive” girl keep your joy you are a strong mama bear ❤🎉
@kimberlythompson926 4 ай бұрын
Aww I love seeing you this way in your videos. Yes it will get better. You can always hire someone for light house keeping once a week or so just for a short while.
@thespareroom3509 4 ай бұрын
Dont be afraid to ask for help. Even though you hosted people, they can help you clean up to but sometimes you need to ask. That way you can make sure you aren't always cleaning. You need to take care of yourself too ❤
@nikkinoos82 4 ай бұрын
Omgeez your son is so gorgeous...major baby fever alert!!❤❤
@nikkinoos82 4 ай бұрын
@oksanaBeG92 Awe, congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🥳!!!
@LuvBug73098 4 ай бұрын
Awww Max and Ruby was my FAV as a little one and being grown even w no kids of my own yet looking back it’s an amazing show moral and ethic wise 🥺
@satansexwife2 4 ай бұрын
I love uuuuu, you’ve always been so real bby🖤🖤🖤 I’m not a mom but I am rooting for you!!!! I know you are the best mom! Aziz is so lucky to have you!!!😘😘 I’ve been watching you for 5 years and I’m so proud of you and the journey I’ve seen you on!!! Keep going girl you are strong af
@Imsogracie 4 ай бұрын
Don’t let him cry! Spend time with him. The cleaning can wait… it’ll always be there. He won’t always be this little and need you this much. You’re doing a great job ❤ SAHM to a 12 y/o, 6 y/o, 10 month old (all boys) and currently 6 months pregnant with my first girl.
@oralysr5759 4 ай бұрын
Although this is true in the moment it’s not so easy to think “they’ll be this little for a while”
@Miss_christie1217 4 ай бұрын
@@oralysr5759congratulations on baby number 4!!!
@Imsogracie 4 ай бұрын
@@oralysr5759 I agree.
@britneyamatitla5277 4 ай бұрын
It’s also okay to let them cry as well , it’s not like they’re in pain or anything
@nataleeem4989 4 ай бұрын
Being a SAHM can make you go stir crazy! He will eventually start playing independently for short periods of time and it DOES get better but also they start doing more like walking and climbing so that’s a whole different story 😂
@Ninasavag 4 ай бұрын
You’re doing amazing! It gets easier. Promise you will find a good routine that works for you! It’s hard in winter and when they’re so little. I’m a stay at home mom and my tips would be meal prep for you, have easy snacks on hand cause sometimes cooking gets hard so by the time you’re done they’re already awake or need something . When baby eats put him in his high chair and you can clean kitchen while he eats. Do at least one thing for you a day, even if it’s just a facial or watching your own tv show. Also Ms. Rachel on KZfaq is amazing! My baby stays engaged the whole time, shes a God send!
@carmenbanister4917 4 ай бұрын
Your baby is so cute. You are such a good mom. I love how you keep it real you have a beautiful home a baby takes a lot of your time no judgement over here
@Amrfx3 4 ай бұрын
This calmed down my baby fever 😂
@ThereWasABadKittiFromBmore 4 ай бұрын
It's hard being a first time mom. You can't entertain him 100% of the time, and you can't feel guilty about it. He has to get used to entertaining himself in the playpen or walker or you'll never get anything done. You guys will be okay😊😊
@indiallee8 4 ай бұрын
Hi Christina I have a 4 year old and I definitely been there. Just stay strong try still going out just slowly get your life back or have you thought of daycare for maybe 2 hours a day for 2 days that helped me if my mom couldn’t step in ❤❤ you got this mama
@lollipop9200 4 ай бұрын
Omg I used to watch your videos a couple years ago and haven’t seen you since… I can believe you got a baby boyyy now🥺🥺 wishing you abundance every day🩷
@bluefabyfairy 4 ай бұрын
Delicious breakfast ! 😋 You look great ! You look shuper cute !!! Happy 2024 Cristi 🎉 🙏
@villatorojasmine14 4 ай бұрын
As a SAHM I put my son on a schedule as a baby. I used an app to track his daily activity and noticed there was a pattern. I could anticipate when to have a bottle ready and how long the naps would be. I made my chores fun for both of us by turning on some music and having him help. For laundry he’d play with a pile of socks while I folded clothes. If there was one toy that kept him busy I would give it to him and clean up the rest. I meal prep on a day during the weekend when someone could help babysit. I made breakfast the nights before if I knew I didn’t have time the next day. The first year is rough because they are so dependent. I used to put my son in a bouncer right outside the bath so I could take a 10min shower but I didn’t have any time for self care.
@sharanyashivakumar7 4 ай бұрын
That’s amazing Which app is it? Could help me and other moms a ton
@lesliearevalo343 4 ай бұрын
@@sharanyashivakumar7try out huckleberry! I love it! search up wake windows for their age and how much they should sleep and for how long and it’ll help you keep track. If not there’s a subscription option with a personalized plan on a schedule
@LA-dv4uu 4 ай бұрын
Aziz has grown so big already ❤ you’re a wonderful mommy 🫶
@lyndaestrada-tp6dd 4 ай бұрын
You're doing awesome. You are a great mom. Your baby is a star ⭐ & it will get easier. The time you're spending with him now, will reflect the love you will forever share . You're a star mom 💕
@lisvaj7375 4 ай бұрын
When my kids were your babies age, the baby carrier was my best friend to get things done. I would carry the baby on my back, front to get things done.
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