10 Lies That Become A Narcissist's Alternate Reality

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The narcissistic pattern is built upon illogic, but instead of confronting their lack of reasoning, narcissists concoct numerous falsehoods to prop up their self serving agenda. Dr. Les Carter identifies ten of the most common lies that narcissists actually embrace as truth.
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@elizabethsigmon Жыл бұрын

The saddest conclusion I have come to about the narcissist in my life (who has been in my life for over forty years) is that they would rather CONTROL me than have a real RELATIONSHIP with me. As long as this person feels they are in control, that's all that matters. Any kind of depth, emotion, closeness, or vulnerability will be thrown under the bus in a heartbeat in exchange for the fierce hand of dictating and controlling everything.

@douaa1934 Жыл бұрын

My biological father wanted others to think that his dysfunctional life should be accepted as a norm. Narcissists want others to accept their way of thinking as everyone's reality. All for selfish motives

@optical-illusion9996 Жыл бұрын

Im increasingly convinced they actually 'Demons', call me crazy but i actually do believe they are!

@tbunnyshy1 Жыл бұрын

“You are the problem. Our family doesn’t have problems! Its just you!!” In other words, they don’t want to address or fix anything. There is no “team”, just the team against you.

@margaretgrace5902 Жыл бұрын

Q: How can you tell a narcissist is lying? A: His/her lips are moving. I had to conclude almost everything my narcissistic partner told me was at least in part, untruthful.

@WisconsinWanderer Жыл бұрын

My ex-narc wife would remind me every now and again “you don’t have to worry about me honey I’m the most honest person you’ll ever have in your life” well we all know how that turned out! Narcissism is so toxic and dangerous it boggles the mind! Be safe my friends 😊

@janpressler1491 Жыл бұрын

Been going through this Narcissistic bull s**t for over 33 yrs with my husband....I've been so unhappy every day with this problem because I never knew what Narisstic people were like....come to find out that I've been living with this ALL my LIFE until I came upon your videos. What a life saver you are!!!! I can't even stand being in the same room with my husband. I now see who he really is. Every word you speak is HIM to a tee. My feelings for him are gone...totally.!!!! It's hard living with someone you HATE to be around...so I'm off doing my own thing with like minded people and starting to enjoy my life without my husband being around. I'm 71 and enjoying the things I love to do.....Excersize, staring a Garden, playing Pickleball, Painting and just finding PEACE of Mind. Gray Rock sure does help ALOT!!!!!!!

@eagle7757 Жыл бұрын

For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him shall not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16, Ephesians 2:8-9, Romans 4:5, Jesus Christ is the only way, KJV.

@nancytwigg4631 Жыл бұрын

Before he abruptly discarded me, the covert narcissist in my life, said "Love shouldn't be this hard". That's an outright LIE if ever I heard one. He rationalized his alternate reality. A truly loving and supportive relationship does take effort, and at times, hard work and nuturing care. You can't help but feel sorry for the narcissist's immature reality made up of lies, lies, and more lies. The truth is they suffer with an extremely fragile ego. I will continue with my choice, the reality that says "True unconditional Love is so worth the hard work!"

@BK-qp8zp Жыл бұрын

My narcissist lied even when he didn't need to. And to show how stupid he was, he destroyed and discarded the love that was standing right in front of him.

@panfried7566 Жыл бұрын

if there's one word to describe narcissists it's they're severely delusional.

@Lemana28021989 Жыл бұрын

My guess:

@KM-nq7ez Жыл бұрын

Self Centered and Self Serving to the point of Disgustingness.

@shaundavey5938 Жыл бұрын

Projection,projection,projection.

@andy.hello.6602

If somebody makes you feel like you're walking on egg shells...leave them

@henkmeiring01 Жыл бұрын

They think they are emphatic,can read people.While it is obvious they dont have a clue.Have seen so many times irritation in eyes of people whom they try to impress/influence.Most of time they think when people dont say a word,it is in awe of their "wisdom".They misread silent politeness totally.

@raygarafano3633 Жыл бұрын

Being honest won't just blow their cover, it will blow their fragile mind to bits.

@kathleenbristol6747 Жыл бұрын

My husband narc. is a compulsive lier.I catch him lying quite a bit,and half truths!

@griff791 Жыл бұрын

So envious of Gus. He doesn’t have to deal with any narcissists

@TC-gx3qn Жыл бұрын

Another pearl of wisdom, Dr C. The delusion knows no bounds. One narcissist in my life told me, "I have never been anything but sweet to you your whole life." The only thing more nauseating than hearing that bold faced lie was looking into their eyes and seeing that they actually believed it. Blessings to you both and Gus from California. 🐕