Try to interview this woman again. She’s a strong willed and hardworking woman. Some men don’t know how to love and appreciate these type of women. She’s fantastic woman who can give a man so many ideas to be successful in life and marriage.

If she doesn't want to teach her children the Ghanaian language it's her choice and we all have to respect that.

Strong woman 😊. I like how she keeps a straight face when the host is laughing 😃

Well spoken Sis ! l was in London for thirty yrs I never had any party or bought any car but I have now moved back to Ghana doing very well.

This lady is 100% about Ghanaians in abroad . When I came to The U S , I mingled with many Ghanaians and I had a big problem . Gossip is food for Ghanaians in abroad . If you are not careful you can be depressed out of gossip .

It is her way, her experience and her life! Let's live our life and allow others to live their life in a way they like without judgment. Strong woman, ambitious and a go getter. Hate her or love her!

There's absolutely no downside to you or your kids learning their native language whether twi, ga, ewe, dagbani or other languages. It MAY (emphasis on the may) actually make them feel isolated from Ghanaians when they grow up. They also might resent the parent for not teaching them. This not a good thing at all in my opinion but to each their own I guess 🤷🏿‍♂️

This Beautiful lady or a woman is speaking through experience but she has a lot of Pain in her heart,Lord have mercy on us 🙏 🙏🙏😭😭she Loves her peoples Ghanaian ❤️ that's why she speaking like that ❤️

My people the lady is telling us the truth trust me , we Ghanaians are somehow Hatred is our hallmark 😢 We don’t wanna see our natives growing in life It’s better u get away from them or be very wise with them coz it’s not easy among us out here

I don't know what to say to this woman. She is soooooooo power power power powerful!!!!!!!

My son is 6yrs and he’s very brilliant in school and he loves to speak Twi even in front of his American friends. It’s not bad to teach your kids an African language.

This is nonsense we all have kids here in Europe am not an Akan but my kids do speak than me am an hausa everywhere they goes they will say they are Ghanaians show the proofs they speak the language Name does not matter

This woman make sense on some of the issues,but others enko yie koraaaa. The stress syndrome is over displayed. Hmmm God have mercy

Thank you DJ Nyame for bringing us these interviews it makes us hear what others have been through.

I salute this lady 👏, if you have seen hunger before, you don't fear any obstacles, you will do it for survival, not in a bad way but the good way.

I wish I can have Ghanaian friends but my experience with them hasn’t been good, so I’m scared 😢

What she’s saying is very true about Ghanaians. The percentage she gave kraa she’s done well mpo. They are very quick to judge. Am also in Belgium,gent to be precise

A case of lost cause. Self hate is real. Ashamed of her identity and just giving excuses to mask it.

My cousin and her family live in Austria. All the four children were born in Austria and the kids were taught and speak impeccable Fante. Thus, they feel at home when they come down for holidays. There are some Ghanaian children born and living in Ghana who can only speak English. We shouldn't make mistakes that we may regret in future. As our children grow their perspective about life changes and they would wish their parents had taught them their native language.

Nice interview and I really second his views and opinions

I meet a lot of people in Europe with African parents who now wish they were more connected to their roots but they feel lost. Most of them don’t feel fully accepted by the Europeans even if they were born there . It’s only our people who have this mentality, I’ve never met a German, French, Chinese (whatever) living in another country who will say they won’t speak their language with their kids . It’s not something to be proud of in my opinion

I love this interview and love what she said

My dear, it’s good to teach your children how to speak your local language. Even if they can’t speak , let them understand the language when someone speaks it One day they’ll blame you for not teaching them

Some of them are abroad ask them the fun places in that city they don't know, they give birth to their children there but they will never take them to Chuckie cheese,sesame park,dorney, and Disney, all they know is building 2,3,4 houses in Ghana at the expense of their children happiness so when they see your children happy because you make life fun for them then they will start asking, do you have a house in Ghana if you say No then know that you going to be the topic for discussion, and if you say I have one they will tell you one is not enough, why? don't you have family back home who are living in there so you have to build another,so most of our children are miserable like ourselves and jealous like their parents, sometimes even when I take my children to fun places I have to warn them not discuss it with their cousins at church because their moms will start gossiping, that all she knows (won bo bra) even when I go to the salon someone intentionally come and ask you how much you spent ,woe onto you if you tell them the price,hmmmmm ,one thing they don't realize is that not every one comes from a poor family in Ghana is not everyone who is desperate, some of us just want to be happy and enjoy life, and the little we can we do.God is also Blessing me.and very content I don't need 5 houses to prove anything to anybody.

This lady is excellence, bold focus and determined

I love this woman. She is honest.

In my opinion there's no way I will give my children to nursery and return back to work in 3 months in abroad. There's more to life than chasing money. I remember working 8am-10pm every day until I realised my son knows his nanny more than me and paying expensive nursery fees using the same money, that's when I said never again. Not to be rude but she looks older than 36 and I believe it all down to running around and having so many children within short spaces of time. Our body needs to recover as women. I have met some Amazing Ghanaians in UK, same as worse ones. Sometimes it get lonely and you need your little community to be by your side. I remember when my mum died, although I live in all white community, my Ghanaian folks drove almost 3 hours to come and see me.

I keep on watching this video over and over. She is very very very GREAT !!!!

Deze dame heeft meer dan gelijk over het omgaan met onze eigen landgenoten. Ik hou van haar mentaliteit en opvoeding van haar kinderen.👍😃

You are 💯 right and truthful sister 👍 stay bless (mooi dag )

This lady is 💯 correct. God bless her sister for the sacrifice. I thank God for my brother to ❤.

I love you from a far Vida . You er my idol as a young woman in Belgium but you don’t knw enpo. Well done mama👌🏾⚡️⚡️😍

The reason why I think people get jealous of others is because others give too much information to other people about themselves esp information about the things they have achieved and other things they are about to achieve. Such information is supposed to be confidential. Otherwise, jealousy and envy.

I like to hear true stories like her story. She's a strong woman. I hope her husband returns and she accepts him back.

She's a pure ❤️ person

Nice interview, very educated. God bless you Mummy

This woman 🌹 is leading the videos . Just 1 day over 13 thousand views. Wowwwww bring her again on. Another topic.

The age got me rolling 😂 ei ewiase y3 hu oooo boi . 14 years pregnant to Europe 😂 ei mama 😂

I like her vibes and confidence😂

It's even worse in the UK.. about 2% Ghanaians are good.

Being able to speak many languages is an advantage, and it opens doors. Her kids might, one day, may blame her for denying them the chance to learn other languages. And it's easier when learned at a younger age. She should not allow her emotions to make her deny her kids the chance to learn. Some white people are learning twi and other African dialects. Imagine your kid getting an international appointment in ghana and not being able to relate to his people. And for their own safety, it's better to understand twi so that they can listen to what's going on around them.

My boss one's advice me ..not to take advice from someone that's in pain or bitter.... let's wisdom speak

Strong and wise lady. Wish the very best for you.

I like how strong she is & hard working 💪. I love hard working & forceful ladies. Eight kids overseas hmmmmmm, she ve done well ooo, cos its definitely not easy. But she ve lots of bitterness in her but is good to becareful though.

Ei Vida you are brave oo. I really like you. God bless you for the hard work.

I know this lady n I seriously respect her. She is really brave

i love her principle and lifestyle

I respect her views

This lady has no bitterness in her heart. God bless her.

She's right. Very wise woman and smart.

The most important thing is, she brings them to Ghana. It's just a matter of time, they will learn the language cos she speaks it. She doesn't need to teach them, they will learn.

Chale Chale I feel this woman waaaa. Brave enough. Hard woman

Does why we will be called slaves in someone's land. You have destroyed their culture and identity. Which german kid doesn't speak his language or which Japanese kids does speak his language. Let wise up blacks

This lady is saying the truth, fear your fellow black man

That’s horrible to bring your kids in to social media fight and to go as far as to give out the children’s phone number is ridiculous. Shame on anyone who called your children

Well noted sister advise Well taken

God bless you Vida ❤❤❤

Wooow…Sexyvida,am proud of you 🥹🥰🤜🏽You are such a strong woman 💪🏾God Bless You And Keep You🙏🏼

I like this woman 👍I have really enjoyed this interview

It’s always advantageous to know many languages. Today Africans and African Americans are visiting and moving to Ghana and many wish they know or understand the language. The more you travel the more knowledgeable you become. But it’s true Ghanaians are quite judgmental and like to gossip too much. Christianity and religion also plays a role in Ghanaians being judgmental.

This is a soul sister

Very deep hmmm..🌿🌺🎄

It’s so true it’s every where

I have always believed that people that run away from their own and speak of such deep resentment hate themselves because they are not happy to be who they are.

She is very eloquent with the Twi language but why is she denying her children the chance to speak Twi?Anyway, she has a reason for doing that

DJ nyaami said nkwae no 😂😂😂😂. Hmmm It’s well Interesting interview

Thank you madam

Interesting ♥♥♥

God bless you

Ghanian pls use the social media to study, to learn to encourage to empower, to support, how to perform ed basic things

Blessed Vida

Imagine working hard, building three houses you'll never live in. Ghanaians and our default thinking, lol. Oh well, she said she bought one where she wants to live, so at least, it's a plus.

Keep up the good dear

What this LADY VIDA is saying is 100% TRUE!!! IF YOU WANT TO GO FAR, SHINE YOUR EYES

She spoke so well of her siblings

Hmmmmm Ey3 as3m There's Mensah in every society (Efie biara Mensah wom) Gossip and jealous every where People will talk about your glory but not your hustling. Tuaaaaa

I like the way she talks

I have watched this video over and over.

She looks 50yrs.Eii madam too many kids for u!

Try and teach them wai ...They are still from Africa

Very true, same in uk Germany jealousy is killing most of them.

All languages belongs to God... Tut zin

My major concern is her failure to teach the kids their mother tongue. These kids are innocent of what she has gone through.

I like her but I think most of her actions are based on childhood trauma... Whatever it is your kids are Ghanaian 100% Father Ghanaian and mother Ghanaian.. What if a time comes where one of them want to come and live in Ghana... People are paying to learn different languages so u shouldn't deprive them

Nice

🔥🔥🔥My GEE 💪🏻

We all the opportunity to make choices. But what we should remember is to what end is that decision gonna be. For we make decisions that benefits us today but not thinking of the future. Please I she should think about when she's dead and gone.🙏🙏🙏

Wow, she is great woman

My sweet vida name baakope she’s strong 💪🏼 like me I like her ❤️❤️❤️

I love this woman ❤

U can not bring a strong woman down

It’s her own cup of tea. 😂

She’s telling the truth paaaa

Sister vida 💓

I love this woman paa

“S3 3kcm ade wo da a” I like that phrase

I rrally like this woma DJ nyame let her know from this side

Sis vida all the way

that's a strong woman

You are a working woman, why do you go to the low level of those who can't do anything on social media apart from insulting others, please don't continue doing that because serious people do not follow such people.