Life is very precious. I lost my husband of 37 years 10 months ago unexpectedly. My whole world has changed, living a new life I never wanted.😢

My 79 year old hubby was recently diagnosed with Afib and through testing found out he had a PFO that normally closes at birth (always knew he acted like a baby and now I have proof!). Cardiac ablation is a common treatment for WPW. He just had an ablation on Wednesday and did awesome. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband’s age is with him for successful treatment.

All my love to you and your family. I can tell from this video that you are still pretty shaken. Know that your reactions are pretty honest and understandable. Keep us updated on Ian's Health Journey. Again hugs go with this message.

I’m glad you stand firm to make him go to ER and got the right diagnosis to take care of it immediately before it’s too late. God is good and watching over you and your family 🙌🏼🙏🏼

Thank you so much for this video. My mom was a hoarder or I guess I should say an "electic collector." It took my sister and I one huge dumpster, an estate company with several sales, Many trips to charities and give a ways. It took us a year to get rid of her belongings. We were exhausted. My sister and I are minimalists so this was so stressful to us knowing we were going to have to deal with it one day. Please do NOT do this to your children. There is no Uhaul behind the hearse!. I am so thankful I did the swedish death cleaning years ago. I knew my kids did not want my stuff or great grandmas christmas dishes. Let it go! Call your local Senior living centers and donate your crocheted tablecloths. They have teas and would love to share these memories with the residents. My mom had 30 Dickens villages. They were in tears of joy when we showed up with boxes of these to share with the residents. The main living room was gorgeous at Christmas time. Your activity directors can be your greatest friends to share moms items. Just my thoughts.

My Dad has the same heart condition. He was diagnosed in his early 20s and now in his mid-70s in perfect health. Everything will be absolutely fine.

You did a really great job. Unfortunately I lost my husband many years ago. So I started decluttering in 2020 after seeing a vid on minimalism I also fell in love with the tiny house movement. After my car accident last year. I got rid of my bulky bed as I couldn’t sleep with the constant neck and back pain. I bought a futon instead which I can roll up and put away during the day giving me extra room in my space. I decided it was time to get rid of all the other bulky furniture so that my daughter doesn’t have to deal with it later. Now I only have my tiny house which is moveable and manageable along with some savings and some gold and that’s it. Stress free for her and for me.

I am 73 and have been working on Swedish Death Cleaning for awhile. I wish I had done this in my 30s, I would have been living with less things. Having such a traumatic event, stays with you for awhile. Be kind to yourself and know that many of us are thinking of you and praying for you.

Love and prayers Danni - this is treatable but we can see the stress on your face - they can go in and laser the spot that is causing the issues - I see Gods Grace in that they caught it while he is young-life is very fragile and enjoy every minute - life can change in an instant ❤- this kind of stuff refocuses our attention to the only things that matter

You did the right thing. When I was in my 40s I started having pain in my chest, down my left arm, and felt like a elephant setting on my chest. This was actually my second heart attack. Then my husband and I started planning on maybe me dieing of a heart attack. Then when he was 55, he had a heart attack and died, I lost my better half, my best friend, the love of my life, I'd been with him and married to him 34 years. Talk about having a hard time with life, I did. I just wanted to die and go be with him. I had to learn to do a lot of men things, on my own. Prayer for your family.

Our son-in-law had Wolff Parkinson White Syndrome & our daughter, his wife, had Supraventricular Tachycardia. Both had a Cardiac Ablation & are doing fine.

Oh Dani you made me cry in your intro!! I know how hard family health scares can be! I am glad Ian is ok! You will figure this out! I am pretty sure they can go in and laser that extra spot off and he won’t have any more issues!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Best wishes to your family. My kids are in their 40's. My mom kept a bunch of junk and papers, we tossed them. My in-laws had some furniture we use, and a few things my kids use. I own things I like and use, we give bags of stuff away each week. We visit and talk to family, our memories are precious. Things are just things. Tina, Al's wife

I had a cardiac ablation in 2016 for SVT and everything went smooth and has been great since. The scariest part was they do what they call mapping the heart to find the issue and to do that they need the heart to go into a fast rhythm they give you an injection to induce the rhythm... That part was scary but as soon as the issue is found they completely put you under and repair the issue. The entire ordeal leading up to the surgery, the episodes and doctors and not knowing what's happening is so scary. I'm praying for your husband, for your family and for you. 🙏🙏🙏

Danni, I hope you get to do something fun and lighthearted this week. It sounds like you had a pretty heavy emotional week this past week. Chin up, friend. You’re doing a good job! I’m glad Ian is doing okay and hopefully he’ll be feeling better soon.

I'm so sorry to hear of Ian's condition but that it is treatable, I had a scare years ago with my daughter who had 3 young children and was single we found out she had a brain tumor thankfully not cancerous, it was genetic ,but she had brain surgery it was a horrible time , she's now on disability because it affected her cognitive function and emotions. It is scary when things change that quick with someone's health. I have pictures of ppl that were my Aunts friends or co-workers and I did get rid of them I had no one else that would know them no sense in keeping them I have so many pictures anyway.

Yay! My new favorite KZfaqr! I cried when you said your were holding your husband’s foot. I get it. I have my soulmate- and my mind won’t let me go there. God gives us a powerful strength to handle what we never thought we could. That’s what happened when this happened and you were there for family. The glue that holds a family together is love. And the love is from The Lord.

Im so sorry Danni, I have had heart issues ever since my second poke, and have been to the ER several times. My husband had system overload moments, where he said" I don't know if or when your going die!"it reminded me of that when I saw your emotion 💛😔🙏 Glad they think they know what it is, that is half the battle. Prayers to you both, death cleaning has been a real factor in our house ever since. It puts all into perspective.💛🙏

I wanted to reach out on messenger but I'm not approved to. I'm terribly sorry to hear about your husband but very thankful that he is ok and that he now knows what he has been living with his entire life. This is so smart to imagine a home "filled" with only items you love, will use and have a purpose. Not clutter for your children to have to handle after your home. Death positivity is so important. I'm not necessarily talking about right when a person passes but to live functionally instead of living in a pile of over consumerism. So proud of you for starting strong and being there for your family when they needed you the most. But I hope you have had the time you needed to comprehend what happened. Love this video.

Glad Ian is okay! How scary but bravo for keeping it together Dani! I love that book too! It totally inspired me too and despite the morbid sounding title, it is actually not scary or morbid at all. A very easy and thoughtful read!

That must have been terrifying for Ian, you and your family. You will all be in my prayers. We can see how much you love your husband, Dani. Thank you for sharing real life with us. Praying for a speedy recovery for Ian. Sounds like you did an amazing job keeping it together. We are proud of you. XoXo

Danni, Thank God Ian is ok and that u pushed to go to ER. As a cancer survivor I know how precious life is. You’re so brave to show your vulnerability in sharing your family’s personal story. Keep up the strength within you. Prayers to u Ian and ur family🙏

What an emotional rollercoaster... I laughed, I cried... but not in that order. Feeling guilt when you didn't really do anything wrong stems from anxiety. I have noticed that people who have anxiety also have a lot of empathy. You feel the painstaking work that went into knitting a sweater or completing a painting and that leads to feeling guilt for wanting to get rid of it. Rather than look at things at face value of simply whether you like the item and want it in your life because it adds value to your life, you get hung up on these extra details that cloud your judgment. I'm glad Zoey weighed in on the painting to help make that decision easier!

Sounds simalar to my SVT. SUPRA VENTRICULAR TACHYCARDIA. My heartbeat would go over 200 bpm for hours at a time. I had no insurance. I finally got a doctor who would have me come into the ER when it happened again and I would get a cardiac ablation from him. The hospital would cover it. Only bad part is a year later I was diagnosed with AFIB after I had a stroke. My svt was so off the charts , I didn’t feel the AFIB. praying for your husband.

I am so very sorry to hear what happened! So glad it was not a heart attack and that they were able to find some answers. Ian and you all will be in my prayers for healing and peace of mind. Thank you also for a great video.

Great job! I feel like you had a major breakthrough with sentimental things. I think it gets easier the more we do. I’m sorry you had the scare with Ian and prayers to you for his healing. You are right that we never know what could happen at any age. I think it really gives peace of mind to try to prepare and talk about the inevitable event even though it is hard. There are even checklists etc on line that help because when we are in the situation we are not thinking clearly. I hope this makes sense.

I'm so glad your Ian is ok. 💐

I am sending you all my love and my meditative thought and blessings Danni and all of Ian’s and your family at this difficult time. 🤗 I truly hope that everything with Ian’s health stabilises as soon as possible and everything to improve his condition that can be done goes ahead to get him back to a better place. 🙏 Make your family your priority, your KZfaq community will understand if you need to step back a little and concentrate on what’s important. Thank you for still posting your video, we appreciate you so much.

wishing i could give you and ian comforting hugs 🧸 isn’t it amazing how women can be strong and fierce as lionesses when in crisis? there’s always time to cry and fall apart afterwards. so proud of you for taking care of your heart and soul mate ♥️

Glad everyone is ok yes you have got to calm down I can still see it in you my mom has been through breast cancer and now my dad is going through a lot of medical issues so just stay calm my dad also goes to a cardiologist if you don’t stay calm then you are going to have health problems pain could be one of those problems for you and believe me you don’t want that take deep breath’s and stay calm you got a family to take care of

Glad your husband will be OK. I can't even imagine how scary that must have been for you both. It takes a lot for a guy to admit he needs to go to the emergency room. Praying he gets the answers he needs. ❤️

I had wpw myself. Yes they said I was born with it. I had an ablation. That's what the surgery is. They went through my artery in my groin area like they do when they check for blockage. They give you meds through an iv to speed up your heart so they can see where the problem is. And they abate the area that is causing the problem. It closes off that extra electrical path. You will be sedated so don't be scared. I didn't need medication afterward. I had this done in 2012.

I’m so glad Ian is ok!! I was diagnosed with colon c--- 2 weeks ago! I have to have surgery in November. It’s slow moving, run of the mill type. The surgeon said I should be ok but I’m scated shitless!😳 Good job Danielle!

Prayers and love to you and your family 🙏

So glad Ian is going to be okay and that it wasn’t a worse diagnosis. Could make a quilt (or get a quilt made) out of the baby clothes for each kid. I wish I lived near you, I’d snatch that poster up!

Im so happy that Ian is ok. We go thru alot here because my youngest son, who is almost 18, was born with heart problems. Last year he had to have 2 open heart surgeries. When you were talking about how your body just went hot and you felt light headed, I know that feeling all too well. My prayers are with you guys and sending you much love from Kentucky!!

I fly home Monday(OCT 23rd) after being in Istanbul, Turkey for 6 weeks. You've got me wanting to clean out more and more when I get home on Tuesday. I think, I'm going to get this book and read it. You're my favorite KZfaqr!!! God in the name of Jesus, PLEASE let the doctors find out exactly what's wrong with Ian and let them with YOUR GUIDANCE, fix the problem with his heart. Please Lord, let the doctors find the right medication so that this problem won't happen again. We BELIEVE, RECEIVE and TRUST ONLY IN YOU JESUS TO BE WITH HIM AND ALL of his family! Amen & Amen.

Von meinem Herzen alles Liebe und Gute für euch ❤

Love to you and family Danielle 💕 frightening stuff for Ian xx

I am glad your husband is going to be ok. I also have been trying to do Swedish death cleaning.

As I watch this I am decluttering my upstairs that is full of items from my husband and daughter. He passed 2 years ago and my daughter is almost 32 with her own family. Your intro took me back to the ER in my own situation. I’ll read the book and hopefully it will help me let go. I would hate to leave my daughter this home full of “stuff” that would be a burden to her. Also, I was first widowed at age 25, so it can happen at any age.I still have all his guitars and a few other items all these years later. I’ll be sure to read the book and I hope it will help me too. Thanks so much.

I LOVE this video!!!! THANK YOU SOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!! We are moving, downsizing, and I've BEEN "ruthless" as I 'was' calling it! NO!!! It's NOT ruthless, it ALL makes sense! Yes, I am older than you are, 56, my kids are married and have kids of their own, and I have given them ALL the photos and scrapbooks OR anything of value! My ex who I still live with, we get along great and will continue to, HE told me about Swedish Death Cleaning TODAY!! I never heard of this before! I HAVE BEEN doing this very thing but didn't know it!!!! Wowowow!!!! The points you brought up today about EVERYTHING, especially PHOTOS, OMG!!!! You hit the nail on the head!!! OUT they go! I feel LIGHTER, less on my shoulders, lighter emotionally as well! Even for the sentimental items, they MAY have meant something at the 'time given', but that can and often changes over time, and if it does, OUT it goes! I've gotten rid of the EXACT cookbooks you have in THIS video as well! I was also saving them 'for sentimental reasons'. but you are correct again! It's ALL online!!!! NO NEED to keep them! I am amazed I have been doing this all along for this move and never knew it OR that it had a name! I just decided I did NOT WANT OR DESIRE to be carrying and moving these 'things' with me any longer! WOW!!!! I DO feel like a NEW person having gotten rid of them! One thing I will admit - some of the things I have spent the amount of money on, no I'm farrrrrr from having ANY money, in fact I am disabled due to a rare neurological muscle disease and unable to work, so I have used that LITTLE money I get every month ONLY to be throwing it away....NOW!! I will say moving forward, that will be first and foremost on my mind BEFORE I ever spend another dime, ohhhh yes!!!! Thank you, dearly, for hitting on every important topic as you have! I am so happy to have found you/your videos!!! I subscribed, oh for sure!!!!

Sending big hugs to you and your family. Please keep us updated about Ian

Very sorry about your husbands health scare. Glad it is something fixable. This video was needed for me as i keep sentimental stuff that i know my daughter will not want. It will be easier to let those things find a new home. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

Dani, thank you for sharing. I hope that talking about it brought you some comfort. We love you!

I do find decluttering baby items the very hardest. Of course you probably have photos of your child wearing the clothes especially if they were your favourite. I recently found several bins of my son’s baby clothes. I would declutter them but he recently got married and my daughter-in-law wants to keep them for my future grandchildren. This worked out for me thankfully. Regarding other adult clothes, shoes, etc., it really is better to declutter them as soon as you’re done with them. Most likely no one in the future is going to want them. New subscriber here. Also wishing the very best for your hubby.❤️🙏

My heart hoes out to you, Ian and your kids. How very frightening for everyone. Sending prayers for Ian's healing!

OMG! 😢 My sister was born with this.. I'm sending prayers to your family.. I'm here and open to chat. God bless you all.

You all are in my prayers. Yes, everything will be fine. Hes young and healthy. Thank God it was found now. Your doing great on your journey. Ive been following you since practically, if not...day 1. You still remind me so much of myself. Even going on 6 years in here....i keep myself on a 3 .onth schedule to reassess where the home is in its organzation/accumulations lol are. I have had to pace myself with sentimentals still to this day. Thats why the 3 month cycles have helped so much. Each time Ive been able to let go more and more. Watching everyone else on their journey holds me accountable on mine and Ive been playing at documenting some of mine here too just for the sheer benefit of accountability. Like ive slways said...ITS SO FREEING!!! Everything has a place and purpose and cleaning is so much easier. My home is open to anyone to come and visit at anytime, with no hestitations from me. I love my space! Im so happy for you that you are achieving that too. Keep us updated on Ian dear. 🙏💜❤️

Danni listening to you tell us about your husband really resonated with me. June 6 of this year my husband went in for a colonoscopy and endoscopy cause he was anemic prior to this and we found blood in his stool (these symptoms had been showing for over a year prior). So afterwards the doctor pulls me aside while my husband is slowly waking up from anesthetic (Our son was in the room with his dad). Tells me the procedure went well but they found a malignant tumor on his ascending colon. I felt like i was hit in the face, our whole relationship flashed before my eyes and all i could do was stare at the doctor. My husband of 13 years, together for 16 years had colon cancer and i didn't know how to tell him, our kids and family. I knew i had to keep it together and like you said it was the hardest thig in my life to have to do. We are only in our 40's (hes 41 and im 43). A month later on July 7th he went in for surgery and when i tell you it was 3 hours it felt like eternity. He came through no issues and they removed a foot and a half of his ascending colon and his appendix. We had a series of medical visits and happy to say he needed no chemo or radiation. He is doing good but he is still very fatigued which we are doing more tests to rule out his heart. You are so right when you say life can change at any moment and like you, my husband is my other half, soulmate and love of my life. I cant see life without him and its so hard when we have kids and were trying to be strong for them and our husbands, but falling apart ourselves. Its a journey that you both will get through together, and your family. Life is precious so take in each day, hour and moment cause we are not promised tomorrow. Sending you love and hugs Danni XoXo

I used to keep every card and gift, now I throw out the cards shortly after I receive them. I have a small 1 bedroom apt. at the moment and I don't want the clutter. If I don't want or like the gift I toss or donate shortly after, too. I was such a sentimental hoarder until about 50 - you move enough times, you realize dragging the stuff with you that stays in bins is ridiculous and expensive. Taking photos of the sentimental has helped so much - and when you look at the photos later, it's easy to delete some of those too! I still have too much sentimental stuff I inherited in my closet, but am slowly purging. That is a good purging you accomplished. Old clothes smell, get holes, yellow - photos are best if they are never going to be worn again. Your hubby will fly through the treatment for the heart issue!

Hi friend!!! I wish I could hug you! I started watching this video when it first came out but am finishing it up now. And I hope everything works out for you and the family!!! ❤❤

About 10 or so years ago I started this but didn't know it had a name (granted decluttering is in my cells, been doing it since I was 9 (I know I was a very strange and lonely kid). I started with maybe x10 bins, now I have a small square trunk of sentimental, that's it. This is also fortuitous because yesterday I told no2 child, if I go, there's a certain book, (I decluttered those down to 99) that book has all the genealogy that I have, don't throw it away. I am so so so sorry about your emergency but relieved that it wasn't worse. I was on the edge of my seat and crying when you were holding back. 💖😘💖😘💖😘💖😘💖😘💖😘💖😘

Thank you for sharing with us about your husband. He and all of you are in my prayers. 🙏🙏. I need to get that book. I’m still going through my husband’s things and he passed away over two years ago. Hang in there sweetie and rely on God he will get you through.❤❤

My mom had baby clothes that were so old they got crunchy. So it was a shame they weren’t given away sooner to let someone enjoy. I thought those angels were cute and a nice Christmas decoration. So you’re right you don’t enjoy it so someone will. Again so sorry you guys went through a scare I’m praying for your husband and family. Sending hugs. Enjoy the day.

Oh sweetheart I'm sorry Ian is having trouble. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. I recently went through very similar situation with my husband. We're waiting for tests and yes it's a scary, unsettling time but the Lord will get you through it. I love you so much. You're very blessed for family and support. My husband and I have no one but each other but we'll get through this! I know we've never met but I've followed you for so long I told my husband I feel like you're a true friend. I enjoy your videos so much. You take care of yourself and Ian and the kids you're going to be okay! You're one strong gal!❤️🙏

My prayers and hugs are being sent to you and family. I know Ian will be okay. Life is precious and our stuff is unimportant. Sending you my love and take care. I have done this type of decluttering my kids don’t need to have to do this. Thank you for sharing and just take care of yourself.

My brother has this. This is the first time I have ever heard of anyone else. He had the same experience!

Sorry to hear this news about Ian , hang in there I’m sure this will make you stronger . You are a special lady

Oh my gosh, so scary! Sending prayers and hugs to you and your family! ❤

Gosh that must have been scary seeing ian like that but you are immensely stronger than you think you are. Especially when sudden things happen. You're doing amazing mama ❤❤

Love and prayers!!!

Did anyone notice when Danni said "category"....the cat would appear....loved this video and lived it myself, too!!!...been "decluttering" since 2016.... it's interesting how we change our minds about what's important to us....even when we go through it every year or 2....you go girl with your "swedish death cleaning"!!!...

Danni thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing this with us. I’m keeping Ian in my prayers. This is one of my favorite videos you have ever done, it’s such an important topic ❤

First thanks be to God Ian didn’t have a heart attack but please keep us up to date on his health. I am so proud of you and how well you did with the sentimental items. They are always the hardest, It took me 27 years to get rid of my wedding dress and shoes. I still have a box that I have cards from my husband and children. It’s a wooden box and I never go over what can fit in the box. If I decide I want to keep something else and it doesn’t fit in the box something from the box has to go. Always remember the memories and treasures are in our heart and mind. I lost my dad in 1992 my mom 1993 and my only sister and BIL was killed in a horrible car accident 1996. I can relate to here today gone tomorrow. I still don’t have a lot of sentimental items from them because they knew before they died I was a minimalist so they knew I wasn’t going to be keeping anyone’s stuff. ☺️ They we’re the extreme opposite of me. OMGoodness the stuff they had in their house’s. I will tell you now I had a Treasure Box that I gave to both of my children when they became adults, not big and they could of care less. I was pissed at first because of all the years of saving everything but then I realized what are they going to do with that stuff. I told them to trash it but they have kept it. They actually love their Baby Book that I did more than the Treasure Box. I was one of those mom’s that completed a baby book 💯 percent for each child. Looking forward to your next video! Hugs from Southwest Florida. 🌴🌴🌴

I am praying that Ian is feeling better and that all goes well with the cardiologist. Great job on decluttering. Keep us informed on how he is feeling.

So sorry to hear about Ian glad to hear he is ok, I understand the reason behind Swedish death cleaner it’s so your family doesn’t have to deal with your things when u pass, it has been even more evident recently when I lost my brother two months ago how people are more important and things are just that things, we come into this world with nothing and that’s how we are going to leave it with nothing

Best video ever! I really needed to hear this and realize it is the memories. It isn't the stuff. Thank you for sharing and being so vulnerable with us.

Danielle, u’ve started your minimalism journey aug2020 from what I remember. Go back and look at your first video. I’ve started april 2020 so since i’ve started to watch your first video and so on , it has truly helped me with my minimalist journey

Blessings to the family. Feel better to your hubby

My brother has this also. We found out 20 years ago while he was in college. He passed out while throwing the ball with some friends. Had to have heart surgery. Perfectly healthy since then. What a scary time for your family, but he will be ok. God bless you guys!

I know exactly how you feel. The third time my husband passed out the ER couldnt get his pressure back up and I really thought it was the end. I've known him 41 years and I just couldnt imagine him not being there any more. Im so glad Ian is okay. Sending hugs! You are one of my absolute favorite people on YT.

Im so sorry you and your family had to go through what was going on with Ian. Im glad the doctors at least found the main issue so now it can be prevented and working on his health going forward

Sorry for your heart break but happy to hear your husband recovering well and getting the help he requires, 😊 great job decluttering today 👏🏻👏🏻

I’m so sorry about Ian’s health scare. I hope everything goes well for him moving forward. Big hugs to you all.❤ I use to take photos of my kids wearing the clothes as babies. Every new outfit got a photo. It helps because we think they’re adorable but I’m sure by the time our kids have kids there will be cuter stuff. 😊 Time, is always the best help in decluttering sentimental. The painting is beautiful and wonderfully executed. Maybe there’s a woman’s club in the area where your great grandmother grew up that might want it. It needs a new frame but the artwork inside still looks good.

Oh Danni, As soon as I saw your face on the video I knew you had been through some trauma. I’m so glad you were with Ian when this happened. You powered through for his sake and for your children. So glad his medical issue is something that can be treated🙏🏼. When these things happen it does change our perspective on how unimportant so many of our possessions really are. Love your decluttering journey. Love your vulnerability. Love your precious family 🥰

So glad that Ian is ok! About cookbooks, I think it’s a different thing if it’s a personal collection like a binder with your familys collected favourites, or ”grandmas christmas cookies” etc. I have one general cookbook ( all from butchering a chicken, to classics and pie crust etc that my mom give me as a kid. So I have bought my kids each a similar one. You know a ”goto” for anything kitchen related. Otherwise I just Keep those that interest me.

I'm so glad Ian is ok Danni! Life can be so scary at times...and when things turn out to be livable or just a scare etc it is indeed a good reminder to keep percpective for when we find ourselves letting the small stuff mess with us...right? We are all stronger than we even realize & these situations let us know that as well ❣It's good to let your emotions out - doesn't mean you're not strong either - that is the healthy thing to do - to let our bodies, minds & spirits process the way they need to. You have a beautiful family Danni! You are lucky to have them & they are absolutely lucky to have YOU!!! Be gentle to yourself & Well My Friend....

Im sending all the loves and vibes to Salsa 🤴 and family. Danni you are always in my thoughts. Love seeing your videos. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.

Danni, I wish I could give you a huge hug. You were so smart to go straight to the hospital. You and Ian are strong together and will get through this together. 💕

I'm so sorry you an Ian had to go through that. This really hit close to home because in May I took my husband to the hospital for the same symptoms and he needed open heart surgery for a quintuple bypass. I've never been so scared in my whole life. One moment he was fine and the next he's feeling weird and had pain in his arm. It's such a horrible feeling and I 100% get it. I'm so glad you all are ok

Oh my goodness Danielle, I'm so sorry to hear about Ian, but with God on your side you all will get through this. Isn't it interesting how you were reading a book on decluttering sentimental items and that happened!!! It was a wake up call. I'm glad to hear Ian is doing better, I will definitely keep your family in my prayers. I've heard about the swedish death book, however I'm not a book person. But it seems to be the thing that you and other channels are doing. Good for you for doing this.

Dear Danni, thank you for sharing what happened with Ian, my heart goes out to you and all your family. I do understand it was a shock situation for everyone. I am shore that all will be fine and Ian will get medical treatment what is needed. Feel a huge hug from me to you and your family.

Oh, Danni! I wish I was there to give you a big hug! I know what you went thru. I have been through it many times with husbands and boyfriend and family members. When my second husband was ill I knew he wouldn’t be coming back home. I started decluttering then and haven’t quit yet. I had a junk company come and take lots of things to make room for my basement. It helped a lot. Now I have the garage and the rest of the basement to finish off. I am happy to get it out and gone. Please tell Ian I will keep him in my prayers and hope whatever is ahead of him he will come through this. Love you guys! Hugs!🥰👍💜🙏 P.S. the old pictures can be donated to Goodwill or a thrift store. Crafters love old pictures for journaling or scrapbooking. Just a thought!🥰. Good job!👍🥰

I'm so sorry this happened, but I'm glad you all found out what is was and that he's doing okay now. ❤

Prayers for you all and also thanks so much for still putting a video up. Your videos are so great to watch because you are completely yourself and it's always nice to see your process of decluttering too.

Hugs is all I can offer & I'm glad Ian is getting there. Take care of ure selves ❤❤

I kept a lot of baby clothes but my daughters never wanted any of it for their kids! Baby clothes are so much more practical now. They don’t want pretty dresses, knitted things etc!

Oh Danni, all my love to you and your family! ❤ What a shock it must have been. 😢 Life truly is precious and time goes so fast. We do not often in everyday life think about how suddenly everything can change. Lots of blessings, wish I could hug you. ❤

The first video I’ve ever watched of yours. I really enjoyed your honesty and emotion. I’m glad your husband is ok. Sentimental stuff is the hardest for me too. Gonna get her book. Thanks!

This was a hard thing to do! I understand 100 %. If we think back to old times, they were only able to hold on to things they could carry. Or wanted to be buried with. This is a new issue, and maybe that is why it’s so hard. We are just now getting sensible ways to not have too much stuff! I am so glad Ian did not have an actual heart attack! So scary. My husband has health issues that are serious and it is so hard not to just give in to panic! It’s funny, in an actual emergency, I am calm, logical, almost robotic. I get through it. Then I sit down and am hit with all the emotion that I set aside at the time and I’m a mess!😂 Been out of the loop, just now catching up! ✌️♥️

Sending lots of love and prayers to you and your family x

My husband has afib. He had 3 ablations and was on meds for about 3 years. He is fine now. He sees a cardiologist once a year, but just a check up. He had many episodes that we thought was stress. The meds made him feel bad and it was a hard season, but he is fine now. Hang in there and try not to worry. I love your videos and enjoy your quirky sense of humor.

great job !!! I started doing my desk while watching this. Letting go of gifts is my problem, too

Glad Ian is ok! That was quite the haul of stuff. I'm the sane way. I attach a lot of emotion to certain things and paper and books. Omg!

I have never read the book but one of the tips my grandmother gave me growing up is that if there is something you really want to save/keep and especially if there is a story/memory tied to the item to write that down (the story/history of the item) and keep the note/story with the item, because of that I have been able to keep my "Memory Box" down to one plastic bin. Hope Ian is feeling better! Sending love and prayers for all of you! 💜

Hi beautiful, firstly I just want to send you all a big hug and glad Ian is ok and that an upside to this event is that you can find out more about what he has. On a o note I am going through the same journey as you with trying to declutter my house/ life. Let’s keep going and not give up and our goals will be reached. Our way of thinking is so hard to declutter but we are doing it! 🎉 congratulations to our wins. ❤

My problem is I have a bad memory…. Holding an item brings me every detail of the event back fresh as ever. Oy. It’s a struggle… my parents have all passed (and I’m not old yet😉) so I have their things and grandparents things…. I’m loving your videos on your journey. Keep up the good work!!

Bless your heart, Danni, I know that scary, helpless feeling when your other half is in distress. Glad your hubby has some answers and it can be treated. Have your Mom write down her favorite recipes in her own handwriting. My Mom does this each Christmas for me. It's something you can pass down to your kids too. Love you highlighting the idea of not burdening others to have to deal with a bunch of our stuff!

Danielle you did what I did with baby clothes....keep the favourites, coming home clothes and blankets ❤