Swedish Death Cleaning: Power Question to Add to YOUR Decluttering Toolbox!

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The Life Tidy

The Life Tidy

Күн бұрын

When you realize that what you've been doing is "a thing" and that that thing has a name...!!
In this video I'm sharing my main takeaway from the Swedish Death Cleaning method of decluttering! Maybe this power question will become as effective a tool in YOUR decluttering toolbox as it has been in mine!
Thank you so much for joining me on this adventure!!
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@lindabyers4557
@lindabyers4557 Жыл бұрын
Hi. Please keep the nutcracker. You obviously want it. The other pieces that match are picks to dig out nut pieces from the shells. I think the problem is because its in your utility drawer and you're seeing it all the time. This is really a holiday item. Put this nutcracker set with your Christmas decorations. At Christmas buy a bag of whole nuts, put in a lovely bowl with the nutcracker and picks. Set out on your coffee. If everyone enjoys it winner- winner. If not bye- bye. Good luck.😊🤶🎄
@TheLifeTidy
@TheLifeTidy Жыл бұрын
It could become a new Christmas tradition for my grandchildren! Love it! Thank you!!
@janecusicscheller9784
@janecusicscheller9784 Жыл бұрын
What a wonderful idea for a Christmas tradition to begin! Your grandchildren will learn how to use it, as well as your children, and that precious nutcracker set will become a precious family heirloom to be enjoyed for generations to come!!❤️❤️
@lindabyers4557
@lindabyers4557 Жыл бұрын
@@TheLifeTidy You're very welcome. 😊
@cpearl8403
@cpearl8403 Жыл бұрын
I agree. Keep the nutcracker.
@neonsky5429
@neonsky5429 Жыл бұрын
I grew up with the exact set. My mom always put them out at Thanksgiving near the Horn of Plenty with a variety of nuts. It was fun to unearth the nuts from the shells. Maybe that is part of slow living - you had to work for your nut. I too have kept the set and am now inspired to put them out and use them :)
@ScrapdashICT
@ScrapdashICT Жыл бұрын
I have a nut cracker like yours, as well as the picks that dig the nut meats out of the shell. One of my grandmothers always had a dish of whole walnuts, pecans, and almonds around Christmas. The dish itself was wood and had a recess to keep the cracker and picks. After cracking several nuts, one's hand would acquire a faint metallic smell from the cracker.
@katherinepace7369
@katherinepace7369 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother always had that wooden bowl and whole nuts with the cracker set! I doubt young people now know how to identify nuts in the shell or appreciate how hard it is to open walnut and Brazil nut shells!
@raevelanonesuch4157
@raevelanonesuch4157 Жыл бұрын
My grandparents also had the wooden bowl with the nutcracker and picks, but we rarely used it, usually around Christmastime.
@annboles9900
@annboles9900 Жыл бұрын
The nutcracker and picks were brought out at Christmas as that was the time of year we could enjoy nuts. Didn't have any at any other time . We've kept a set and use it and the grandkids are learning how to use. A healthier treat to enjoy.
@fyjjkj
@fyjjkj Жыл бұрын
Keep the nutcracker. Put a tag on it so your kids will know the story behind it. It takes up precious little room and it obviously brings you joy!❤
@charmingintrovert3240
@charmingintrovert3240 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you, Catherine should keep the nut cracker. I would put it in my small Fall decorating box and put it on top of a bowl of walnuts every October and November. As I mindfully used the nut cracker, I would smile when I remember my parents and my childhood home.🌰🧡
@geraldmcmullon2465
@geraldmcmullon2465 Жыл бұрын
It is a bad design and requires more strength than better alternatives. Pass it on.
@pamsunderland6095
@pamsunderland6095 Жыл бұрын
Very useful video thanks so much
@DeannaPiercy
@DeannaPiercy Жыл бұрын
I have a set just like that. It belonged to my grandmother and I recently found it in the mobile home she lived in on my parents' property until her death in 2009. We recently bought the mobile home to move elsewhere and started going through the relatively small amount of items left there. I'm allergic to nuts so it's not like I'm going to use it but I did rescue the set from a kitchen drawer and brought it home. I remember my grandpa cracking nuts with it. It's small, and as you said, well-made. I'm keeping it.
@georgiacorey954
@georgiacorey954 Жыл бұрын
My Mom lived thru The Great Depression & made me aware & to appreciate what we have. Yes I do agree to decluttering. Keeping warm clothes that fit is smart. You haven't pitch the nutcracker all this time, keep it. To be honest, I think u have a sentimental attachment to it deep down. Just keep it.
@tammycrookshanks4112
@tammycrookshanks4112 Жыл бұрын
Those are the picks you use to get all the nutmeat out of the shell. My parents had them also.❤️😊
@crystalm8365
@crystalm8365 Жыл бұрын
The nut picks are also great for various cleaning tasks. I use mine at least a few times each month, either wrapped in a dishcloth or bare, to get into hard to clean areas (around the faucet, Tupperware lid rims, etc). Also good for crab legs. Definitely keep!
@sharpcanines3347
@sharpcanines3347 Жыл бұрын
that's why we had so many, crab cracking!
@wingabouts
@wingabouts Жыл бұрын
Yes, keep that nut cracker in your box of Christmas decorations and buy a bowl full of un-cracked mixed nuts every Thanksgiving. Then teach the young ones the joy of getting the whole nut out without breaking it! 😊 It can be your new holiday tradition. 💞
@jyllchase5174
@jyllchase5174 Жыл бұрын
I remember it from childhood and used it growing up. And I didn't question my dad keeping it. What I questioned was him keeping 5 sets!
@sharpcanines3347
@sharpcanines3347 Жыл бұрын
crab feast, everyone needs one
@janebell7111
@janebell7111 Жыл бұрын
I have that exact nutcracker set and I still use mine, but usually for another purpose. First the pointy tools are to dig out the nut meat from the shell. We used them all the time as kids. Now I use my nut cracker primarily to open small jar lids that are on too tight. Keep it and find new ways to use them. I also have a back buddy and I’m sure my daughter will be happy I have mine. I think if I told her now that I had it and what it was for it might walk right out the door when my back was turned. 😊 I have been death cleaning for years and still have a long way to go to perfect the art. We recently moved and even though I have downsized my life’s inventory there is still too much excess so I’m on a quest to double down and free up my life this year. I threw out and donated boxes of stuff just today. It feels great!!! Love your channel. You always provide sound and doable insights.
@renaepetersen2393
@renaepetersen2393 Жыл бұрын
I'm keeping mine. The stabby things are for prying out stubborn nuts😊 also it works as a bottle opener for small screw on lids.
@janecusicscheller9784
@janecusicscheller9784 Жыл бұрын
Never thought about using it for a small bottle opener. Thank you for sharing that tidbit!
@srking1183
@srking1183 Жыл бұрын
I use mine as a bottle opener also. I also have a larger one for larger lids.
@margarethawk3073
@margarethawk3073 Жыл бұрын
I also have a nutcracker set and the wooden tree bowl that goes with the nutcracker set. I use it when I buy the whole unshelled nuts around Christmas time. It reminds me when I was a kid and is a pleasant happy nostalgic memory for me. My kids grew up with it so they know what it is. Also… I keep 19:55 things that I don’t love because they are functional and I use them and can’t afford to just buy new. I was taught not to be wasteful. By the way, I think you should keep the nutcracker.😊
@margarethawk3073
@margarethawk3073 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know why the 19:55 went on my comment!?
@rachelmontgomery3889
@rachelmontgomery3889 Жыл бұрын
I haven’t started Swedish death cleaning, but would like to help my parents if they’re open to it. The consideration of quality is something I don’t hear many minimalists mention, but SO many things produced today just do not stand the test of time like items did in the past. Minimalism has completely reformed how I now shop and helped me avoid things that are not necessary or that would not bring long term function or enjoyment. That has freed up our finances in great ways. But I still often keep old, well-made things even if I’m not actively using them now. I would love to hear your thoughts on minimalism in a time of economic uncertainty. I’m finding it hard to balance knowing that it is God who ultimately provides what we need but wanting to be responsible in how I use the resources He’s given and possibly prepare more for challenging times.
@TheLifeTidy
@TheLifeTidy Жыл бұрын
I literally just created a list of 15 tips regarding minimalism when the economy is sketch for what will probably be my next video! Glad to see there is an interest in that! For me it definitely has been something to think about. 😊
@wingabouts
@wingabouts Жыл бұрын
I've heard Christian preppers say Noah was the first prepper! Lol ☺ But truly, I too share your concern. I want to be a good steward of what God has given me. For me, it is a LOT of needless things as I'm the oldest living in both my and my husband's families. I am on a fixed income and don't have a lot of flexibility to run out and replace that thing I gave away or tossed last month. Holding garage sales has become a way around that. They reduce the clutter AND increase my income so I can replace something I should have kept. ☺
@Sheri...
@Sheri... Жыл бұрын
I just love listening to you. You're so down to earth.
@TheLifeTidy
@TheLifeTidy Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that! Thank you! 😊
@carlasamuels479
@carlasamuels479 Жыл бұрын
😊I'm listening while decluttering.....it's really good for motivation.....it's helping me a lot to think do my kids want /need to deal with my stuff 🙏
@sandrajohnson926
@sandrajohnson926 Жыл бұрын
My daughter inherited hers from her grandmother she uses it for crab legs and the picks are helpful too. I still have mine from my mother and I haven’t used it for a while but I have lent it to my daughter for extras if she needs them.
@carnation_cat
@carnation_cat Жыл бұрын
Thanks, I was trying to remember what else I use the nutcracker for...it was crab legs which are seldom served but I don't know what else you would use!
@jeannebowes2898
@jeannebowes2898 Жыл бұрын
I began this path after a near death experience thirty years ago. I have a notebook of final affairs , everyone has a copy. I declutter on a daily basis and live rather minimally. We have hubs childhood nutcracker and picks on a bowl of nuts every Christmas. .The nuts in shell go to the squirrels after the holiday.
@jackiefields1607
@jackiefields1607 Жыл бұрын
I keep my nutcracker in my utility drawer and use it frequently to open bottle tops and lids on cream cartons. I keep one of the picks near my shoes to pick dried mud out of the tread of my shoes. I have at times used the other pick to loosen a knot.
@TheLifeTidy
@TheLifeTidy Жыл бұрын
Those are great repurposes!!!
@plainspokenJane
@plainspokenJane Жыл бұрын
You answered your own question. You currently treasure the well-made and lovely little tool. It cannot be replaced only mimicked by something not worth buying. I'm not going to tell you to keep it or toss it. I will say that it's not clutter.
@sandrafrederick4923
@sandrafrederick4923 Жыл бұрын
That nutcracker would have Christmas memories for me. The pick is for getting the bits of nut that catch in the crevices of the shell. We also had a cracker that was shaped like half a walnut shell, with a screw type rod that one twists until the pressure cracks the shell of the nut inside. Yours does not take up a lot of room. You think it is pretty. It is high quality. Yes, one can crack nuts between two flat stones. I would keep both. Yes, show the kids how to use them.
@vb2219
@vb2219 Жыл бұрын
We use our nutcracker for eating crab or lobster. The other items are for removing the nut meat (or crab/lobster) from the shells.
@RedRubyFarm
@RedRubyFarm Жыл бұрын
Everything you said about our generation being used to acquiring things is so true! And just everything you said is so true, I am 61 & I don’t want to keep a bunch of stuff that that my kids don’t want!
@galemathews2793
@galemathews2793 Жыл бұрын
Swedish Death Cleaning opens the door for some discussion with our children. I am getting to where I don’t want to bring in anything that occupies space or needs dusting. I really enjoy your videos and how you present in such a practical way. Thank you for sharing your insight.
@sarah3941
@sarah3941 Жыл бұрын
You definitely should keep the nutcracker, you should take a picture and put it into a folder or note book and write about the joy and memories you have attached to it. You could then write about memories with other items and keep the folder/ book along with your will and important documents. When you are gone it is something they can share and tell their children.
@lindascull6327
@lindascull6327 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!!!Loved this video!!!❤ I know what the picks are for they are to dislodge nuts that won't come out of the shell after you crack them they were my father's I will never throw them away❤
@vra6759
@vra6759 Жыл бұрын
Great video. I’ve always been scared of having a loved one wade through my stuff after- it was nice to discover it had a label. I literally worked like a maniac in the last 4 months and decluttered 50 percent of the stuff in the house and it’s fabulous. I’ve always been a somewhat minimalist but my DH hates both the M(minimalism)and the D(decluttering)words and wants to keep everything. First hand I heard from my young DS that he didn’t want my style of cookware and it was an eye opener. The younger generation only wants functionality and style, expensive or not. I now either declutter or use everything I have. Nothing is too sacred or too nice to save.
@tamarap387
@tamarap387 Жыл бұрын
We had the same type of nutcracker and tools for removing the nuts from the shells....They ARE beautiful and I have no idea where these items went. I certainly don't think about it every day! haha
@shellyaubey7347
@shellyaubey7347 Жыл бұрын
Preface to say I am a nearly 60 year old who has been on a path to minimalism for several decades. (We homeschooled, which is why it's taking me so long!) I'm very familiar with Swedish Death Cleaning. That, along with decluttering are two of my favorite hobbies. 😆 I have several items from my childhood on my kitchen walls: a board with flatware my family used curved into hangers, e.g. Since it is beautiful, I might consider finding a space to display the nutcracker/sharps on one of your kitchen walls. More opportunity to enjoy it for yourself and others rather than in the drawer. 🥰 Just a thought. :) Appreciating your channel! ETA: I have a nutcracker like yours and I have memories of my dad using it to crack mixed nuts during Christmas season. :)
@jodironey9814
@jodironey9814 Жыл бұрын
Could also hang during the holidays on wall or tree with pretty ribbons!
@park2756
@park2756 Жыл бұрын
Those are used to pick the pieces of walnuts out of the walnut halves, after the whole walnut is cracked open.
@TheresaPittman-cy3qh
@TheresaPittman-cy3qh 3 ай бұрын
Definitely keep the nutcracker! It is beautiful & rare & very small. The two little stick things are for digging small pieces of the nut that may be stuck in the little grooves. It’s a piece of history that will be lost forever♥️ Keep it!
@janmccorison1688
@janmccorison1688 Жыл бұрын
I'm originally from New England and transplanted to the Pacific Northwest. The "nutcracker" is a staple in the utensil drawer. It is used to crack the shells of crabs and lobsters!
@karinhart489
@karinhart489 Жыл бұрын
We had a nut bowl that had all sorts of nuts still in the shell, and we had a nut cracker with 2 spears/picks like those. Not sure what the picks are supposed to be used for. However, when we crack walnuts or Brazil nuts we used the picks to get pieces of nut trapped inside the shell out to eat.
@debwareham9892
@debwareham9892 Жыл бұрын
The straight sticks with a little curve on the end are for pulling little pieces of stuck nut out of the shell, also good to pry open the occasional reluctant walnut shell!
@lormor460
@lormor460 Жыл бұрын
The nutcracker is good for crab, too. I have one, and we never use it but I keep it, anyway. 😊. I think you should keep it and treasure it. I believe the picks are to help get the broken pieces of nuts out of the shell. Or to help get crab meat out of the shells. Love your videos 😊
@janecusicscheller9784
@janecusicscheller9784 Жыл бұрын
Treasure the nutcracker! Don't toss it. Show your kids and grandkids how to use it.
@bernetajohnson3296
@bernetajohnson3296 Жыл бұрын
Oh my!! The Nutcracker! Don't toss it! I wish I could find my mom's nutcracker. The two sharp pieces are for picking pieces of nuts out of the walnut or pecan shells.
@user-it7ul1ov8f
@user-it7ul1ov8f Жыл бұрын
I have several of those nut crackers and picks, and you're right. The new ones are flimsy and bend. The old ones are sturdy and last! I think you should keep it. It obviously fits the H in your HUNT method. Its beauty and quality speak to you and honor your values and your past. There are other uses for it, too! We use both the crackers and picks to help us eat whole lobster and crabs. They are very useful for that!
@carolpoltorak9334
@carolpoltorak9334 Жыл бұрын
I have a set too and I/we always used it for cleaning crabs. My parents still have their set, and I literally bought a vintage set for myself because it not only brought back memories as a child when my father taught all of us the proper way to eat/clean crabs. I still use mine.
@cindynielson4231
@cindynielson4231 Жыл бұрын
Treasure this set, it doesn't take up that much space. I have read a lot and watched a lot about this "Swedish Death Cleaning" and I feel you will make the right choices for yourself. TFS 👍
@kayakgirl4445
@kayakgirl4445 Жыл бұрын
After my mother died and I was sorting through all her stuff, I wondered about the story behind many items. If I’d known the significance they had to her, I might have kept some of them. But mostly I just kept the things I liked. So I decided to label some of my own treasures with the story behind them e.g. sticking a note at the back of a piece of art, tucking a little card inside the box that contains a family piece of jewellery. In that way, I hope that one day my children will be able to make a more informed choice about what to keep after I die.
@kathleenborsch1312
@kathleenborsch1312 Жыл бұрын
Treasure the pick set! My family in New Orleans had them, one per person, to eat the crabs we had caught and cooked. Then, growing up in California, we used them for cracking nuts of all kinds. The picks were essential to extracting every luscious tidbit. Eating fresh food like these is so much better than processed stuff! Worth trying even now. These cracker/pick sets can teach the value of our food, like eating mindfully. Treasure!
@Candywarhol
@Candywarhol Жыл бұрын
When I was a small kid, my parents and grandparents used nutcrackers (as well as the pointy picking tool) so lots of memories for me. I've heard my folks (aged 86 & 92) talk about memories with other things and their own ancestors. Sometimes I feel their vibe; other times not as much.
@katalbo
@katalbo Жыл бұрын
I was just going through my utensils the other day and came across my mom's nut cracker too!! And thought the same 😂 I'm pretty sure the other things are to pull the nut out of the shell .
@SpeakTruthBeKind
@SpeakTruthBeKind Жыл бұрын
HUNT = Honoring?, Useful?, Necessary? Treasure (keep) or Toss (donate, sell, recycle, trash) These questions when it comes to making a purchase, cover that you don’t need to ask yourself the 4th question “Will anyone else be glad that I purchased this item - affect my current shopping habits.” I have to smile and gently shake my head at this one as you have already chosen to immensely downsize your accumulated belongings to only keep that which you find honoring/gives you joy, helpful/useful, necessary and only make purchases of same - should they be unhappy it won’t be about your purchase but will be because they miss you - ❤ Numerous others have commented on the metal nut cracker and picks, so here’s my 2 cents - if you don’t want to use them - get rid of them. As I watch this video I notice you are waving your hands around - a lot - and I would like to make the suggestion that you set up an area with a comfortable chair to sit in and visit with us like an friend having a cup of tea/coffee together. It is more relaxing and I don’t believe you would be waving your hands around if we were just visiting. 🙂 One thing I’m noticing about videos of people who have gotten rid if many items (Minimalized) the video has the voices echoing in a larger room, so do more items absorb sound? Is there a way to counter the echoing or just a smaller room? I understand that wall to wall carpet does help as does window drapes… Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. ❤
@C7557
@C7557 Жыл бұрын
I say put the nutcracker set in your Christmas box with the intentions of buying a bag of whole nuts at Christmas and putting them out, tell the story of the nutcracker and make new memories of using it. BTW, I posted under your 3 things video I was going to clean out under my kitchen sink. It is done and I found 5 unopened bottles of Meyers soap!! 😱I got rid of a lot of things, have a box of donate and it feels terrific! I started a pantry in my back bedroom so I can actually SEE what I have!
@suzirobertson6562
@suzirobertson6562 Жыл бұрын
I have a set exactly like that nutcracker. It lives in my untensil drawer also. The pointy ones are to pick the nut meat from the shell after cracking. Thank you for reminding me that I have that set.
@dianeshaw9061
@dianeshaw9061 Жыл бұрын
You obviously love it, “it’s beautiful” it won’t hurt you to keep it. It makes your heart sing, for whatever reason! We can hear it in your voice. ❤
@aprilhuffstutler1419
@aprilhuffstutler1419 Жыл бұрын
I use my nutcracker to open bottles and small jars. The little things are to pick the pieces out of Brazil nuts. At least that's what we've always used them for. Keep it. Individual water or juice bottles can be hard to open as we age. (70 year old thumbs, here)
@jeanmalnarick5337
@jeanmalnarick5337 Жыл бұрын
I have one from my mother. I’m 75. I’m keeping it. It’s pretty and reminds me of my childhood.
@SherrillLBrill
@SherrillLBrill 9 ай бұрын
The 2 objects with the nut cracker r to pick the empty shells of any meat stuck in them . My parent had the set also. The design on it is beautiful .
@ruth1996
@ruth1996 Жыл бұрын
As far as clothing I have a small amount also I will use the One-in-One out rule on things I want to give me the iconic flair I want at this point in my journey. As for some items once there worn-out they won't be replaced. 16:07 16:07
@donnalusk2866
@donnalusk2866 Жыл бұрын
Treasure the nutcrackers as you have acknowledged you DO find it to be a treasure! We also use ours opening crab legs! You’re far from dead! Plus, it is not our job to relieve our children from all struggles in life. So, in my assessment, your philosophy is being implemented well by minimizing while still holding onto things that interest you! I am only 52 and have also been on a decluttering/minimizing/intentional living journey with your (and others) help! The actual “death cleaning” part should be relatively easy at the point at or near death with implementing the minimalist concept as a lifestyle. You have established an excellent balance in living with things and leaving minimal burden. Thank you for your mentorship on this journey!
@aprilmathews7195
@aprilmathews7195 Жыл бұрын
I'm going to say this. I know why you never de-clutter the nutcracker and it's utensils. Btw, the utensils are for getting small pieces of nut out of the shell.. The reason I know is because you like knowing that that nutcracker resides in your kitchen drawer. It's almost a comfort knowing that it's there, even if you never use it. Yes, it is pretty too. I know this because I have a 30-year-old can of Double Q salmon in the back of my pantry. Surely, I'm never going to try to eat it but every time I clean out my pantry, I put the old can back in there and I smile. I know it's there and oddly its comforting. Even if I never think about it again until the next time I'm cleaning out my pantry. Put your nutcracker back in the kitchen drawer for safe keeping.
@Mrs.G-Claus
@Mrs.G-Claus Жыл бұрын
The picks are for removing nut meat from the shells or shells from the meat. They are especially useful with pecans and walnuts. My parents’ set, a wedding gift in the early 1950s, has a matching bowl that has holes to hold the tools and cracker. It makes an impressive display of nuts and tools. I have many memories of nuts being cracked down through the years. Treasure it.
@denised828
@denised828 Жыл бұрын
Keep that nutcracker! lol I’m sure my family had these long before I was born. We would keep nut bowls during Christmas holidays filled with mixed nuts in the shells with those nutcrackers. When there was company, it was something they could do with their hands while sitting and talking. Down here in the south, we had beau coup pecan trees and those lil stick things were there to dig out the ‘grooves’ in the pecan meat. I hope this explains the whole thing. Take care🥰
@user-th5gi2fv9k
@user-th5gi2fv9k Жыл бұрын
Keep the nutcracker and buy a small bag of nuts in the shell at Christmas to serve with the nutcracker. Your grandchildren will love learning to use it. The other tools are picks to get every bit of nut out of the shell. I have one like yours, love it, and use it every December.
@Freecampingdragon
@Freecampingdragon Жыл бұрын
Treasure it❤. My Mom still has our family set of nut crackers. Real tools that don’t require electricity are becoming a novelty. The story for your kids and grandkids at Christmas of how we used to use them and getting them to crack nuts will give them a sweet memory.
@pamelasmithson4303
@pamelasmithson4303 Жыл бұрын
I so enjoy your videos.Please keep the nutcracker. It has special meaning for you even if it doesn’t seem logical to you. We had one just like that when I was growing up. And yes, the two sharp things are to take the meat of the nut out. I think the sound of the video is just fine.
@lornaoyarce1355
@lornaoyarce1355 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! We had a bunch of those nutcrackers in my childhood home. I even had a few in my home after my parents passed away. About a month ago I really lamented decluttering them because they would also have worked with crab - cracking the shell.
@riostar7604
@riostar7604 Жыл бұрын
Keep it, it sparks joy. The little picks help you clean the nut out of the shell. Thanks, I am enjoying your videos.
@jeanneclark6930
@jeanneclark6930 Жыл бұрын
It’s small enough to not take up much space and it makes you happy/ makes you smile. It sparks sweet memories - for me it’s Christmas as a child!
@jamesarnold883
@jamesarnold883 Жыл бұрын
I Have a nutcracker just like yours. I have many fond memories using the nut cracker plus I do use it from time to time. As a child I used to pick up walnuts from the orchard next to our home. Keep the nut cracker!
@Gayle7362
@Gayle7362 Жыл бұрын
I have my mom’s nutcracker and one of my own. Works great to crack a tough crab claw! I used mine not longs ago to grip the lid on a vanilla extract bottle that would not come off.
@wild_cub_times
@wild_cub_times Жыл бұрын
Oh wow, I needed to change that perspective!! Thank you, the shaping of the sentence made me finally realize the impact on my thinking
@susan3037
@susan3037 Жыл бұрын
Those of us who live on the East Coast use these utensils for cracking lobster shells. The picks are used to dig out lobster meat from the shells once they are cracked open. . I have about a dozen sets of them for summer feasts. Never thought of them as nut crackers, too! Great video!
@zombiemolly9711
@zombiemolly9711 Жыл бұрын
Your nut crackers are pretty!!! Really useful when you need them!!! Those other things are picks, to pick the nut meat stuck in the shell.
@Jo-nm8uk
@Jo-nm8uk Жыл бұрын
Keep it! I have mine and someone asked if I had one they could borrow! I was thrilled! The pick I believe was for lobster and shellfish
@bettymcmenamin
@bettymcmenamin Жыл бұрын
Yes, the other metal hooks are for pulling the nut "pieces" out of their shells. I have a beautiful bowl set as well. Can't seem to get rid of mine either! You really do seem to like it - I would absolutely HANG IT ON THE WALL in the kitchen so you can enjoy looking at it.
@TheLifeTidy
@TheLifeTidy Жыл бұрын
That's a fun idea!
@lORRAINEQUIZAMAN
@lORRAINEQUIZAMAN Жыл бұрын
Nut crackers....I taught my kids how to use them, and I like to have a bowl of nuts with shells over holidays and family dinners. so my grands can learn! Cracking nuts prevents over eating, and it teaches patience. Plus, we talk to each other while we crack!
@zitaayube8578
@zitaayube8578 9 ай бұрын
Please keep the nutcracker. I would get a few whole walnuts with the shell and I would put them in a nice little wooden bowl with the nutcracker, so you can see it all the time and think about your grandparents!❤️ And smile in your heart!❤️
@vickimiller1669
@vickimiller1669 Жыл бұрын
LOL ❤I have my grandparents and I love seeing them in my draw . Don’t toss. Show your grandchildren and the others are pickers for when the nut is stuck in the shell to help get it out
@intherockies
@intherockies Жыл бұрын
My dad always cracked nuts with his and I still have it. I'm 58 yrs old and I am keeping it for myself. I'll let my kids know they can get rid of it after I'm gone because they don't have the same memories. But it brings me joy and reminds me of good times. It's Ok to keep things that only you love. Plus its small and doesn't take up much space.
@katherinebraithwaite3794
@katherinebraithwaite3794 Жыл бұрын
We used to keep a nutcracker and nutpicks in a bowl of nuts at Christmas. I have the family set and I have been promising myself to revisit the tradition but just never have. Part of why I kept them, is because the picks also are great for lobster, and a million other things, and I DO use them - just not often enough to warrant keeping them. I just can't let go of them partly because of the warm glow I feel every time I see them.
@TheLifeTidy
@TheLifeTidy Жыл бұрын
Sounds like we are in the same place regarding the silly nutcracker. 😊. I decided to keep mine for now.
@petuniafuzz9083
@petuniafuzz9083 Жыл бұрын
Those pointed things help you pick out the nut pieces from the shell. My mother brought that set out with an assortment of nuts for snacks around the fall and winter holidays every year. You know, navel oranges and nuts make tasty snacks. Keep it, it doesn't take up a lot of space.
@marianna6733
@marianna6733 8 ай бұрын
Hi from Italy! The same happened to me: I was decluttering not to leave the burden on to my daughter, and then I found out I was doing Sweedish death clean! My opinion about the nutcracker, or whatever it's called: just toss it. I don't keep things just because they are nice and very small and not in my way. None of them being good reasons, on the contrary: it's how cluttery starts (IMMO)! Second: the question, can anyone be happy if I keep this, is a very dangerous question! It's the reason why I kept for decades all of my pictures from when I was young, and my daughter, fair enough, got bothered after watching just few of them, and so was I, to be honest! And that was the reason I kept also all of my books, having her saying, at the age of seven!, momy, what do I do with all your books, when I have mine?!?!?! Fair enough. And there are public library also. Noy all the books are to keep, only because they're "classic". #freefromclutter #semplifylives
@TheLifeTidy
@TheLifeTidy 8 ай бұрын
That is a very good point about not keeping things to make others happy.. I guess I am at the point in my minimalism adventure that I don't have a lot of stuff left compared to what I had at the beginning.... So I feel pretty safe in asking that question now. But the best bet is to just ask them what they might want and only save that or give it to them now. Thank you so much for watching! I have had the privilege of visiting Italy and it is one of the most beautiful places on the planet! My mother's parents both came to the US when they were children with their parents from Sicily in the early 1900s. Such a beautiful country! ❤️
@linguaphile42
@linguaphile42 Жыл бұрын
My dad was a master at using this, but I never got the hang of it. You got me wondering about the last time I'd seen ours, and, lo and behold, it was at the back of my utensil drawer, which has been decluttered at least once. It made the cut for me, even though ours is nowhere near as cool as yours.
@jennifershaw4756
@jennifershaw4756 Жыл бұрын
My mother-in-law had a nut cracker like that. We let it go when we had to break up her home. My husband says that he used the hook thingy to get the nuts out of the shell if it was a tight fit. But you make a valid point.... they don't make quality items like that anymore. I think you should keep it because you do find it beautiful and appreciate its craftsmanship. I read The Swedish Death Cleaning book a few years back. I loved the concept. My husband and I did a lot of work with the homes of both of our parents after they passed. I totally understand the mindset of that generation having lived through wartime and do not judge them. I don't want to leave a legacy of stuff for my girls to have to go through when I pass. I tell them all the time that they will be so lucky going through my well curated home. haha
@denisemorgan8718
@denisemorgan8718 Жыл бұрын
Treasure your nut cracker. I am in my 70's and keep decluttering every year. My #1 rule is, one in, one out. P.S. I still have my nut cracker and have used it when my sister who has a pecan tree gives me a bag of uncracked nuts. You never know. By the way, the picks are for just that... pick through the shell to get all the pieces out once cracked. Thanks for your lovely channel that I just recently discovered. Good luck.
@jerseygirl4736
@jerseygirl4736 Жыл бұрын
Hi Catherine! Those two spear-like things are used to get nut flesh out of difficult spaces. I'll also bet they could also be useful when eating crabs and lobsters since they are one-piece items. Happy trails and keep the nutcracker. -Pat
@barbcarstens
@barbcarstens Жыл бұрын
I love my back buddy, I use it most days, even in the middle of the night if I’m having a hard time. I keep it under my bed. It’s funny, I’ve had it for years and many times wondered if I should declutter it, but I’m convinced now that it greatly adds to my well being so I will keep it indefinitely. I really enjoy your videos, thanks for sharing your experience!
@aileentoomey9627
@aileentoomey9627 Жыл бұрын
Keep it! You like it! Like you said earlier about keeping your thoughts simple. Something I needed to be reminded of.❤
@katherinestitches
@katherinestitches Жыл бұрын
I have the identical nutcracker it belonged to my mum...she used it every Christmas....I keep it as a memory of her
@angelinanelson7486
@angelinanelson7486 Жыл бұрын
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@virginiagrenier8572
@virginiagrenier8572 Жыл бұрын
The little sticks are used for 2 purposes. 1) For once you've cracked a nut, you can wedge it into the crack to open further. 2) for getting the small pieces that get stuck inside of a nut (for example: a walnut) out of the membrane so you don't waste any of the nut.
@davidmaxey3401
@davidmaxey3401 Жыл бұрын
I have the same nutcracker and picks, I'm 62 and never used them.
@TheLifeTidy
@TheLifeTidy Жыл бұрын
😊 based on all the comments to this effect, I think we can all safely assume that this nutcracker will never be financially valuable due to rareness 🤣🤍
@YvetteODowd
@YvetteODowd Жыл бұрын
My mantra is: Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful. William Morris You believe the nutcracker to be beautiful. Your children might not but then they can pass it on to someone who does, because you have already had the conversation. I am practising Swedish Death Cleaning for the past several years and talk openly with my children about it.
@edennis8578
@edennis8578 Жыл бұрын
I talk about it, too. It has surprised me at how many people who don't like me mentioning it even in passing, people who aren't attached to me, but I guess they don't like the mention of death. But I'm nearly 70, and I've already lived longer than my father and one of my brothers by 15 years. I know I'm not going to live forever. I'm just being realistic.
@johilpert9149
@johilpert9149 Жыл бұрын
I understand as we even had a bowl that held those tools and the unshelled nuts. The nutcracker works to unscrew the lids on water bottles, soda ,bottles, etc. when your strength or skin can’t handle the cap to twist it off. So useful. The picks are used to dislodged the nut once it is cracked apart, such as walnuts. I often find I need the picks for cleaning crooks and crannies and lots of other picky things. Keep it.
@susandevine3907
@susandevine3907 3 ай бұрын
Hi, Catherine! I gave my nutcracker away a few years ago and have never missed it 😉. I’m sure there are plenty available at thrift stores, if the need arises. I seriously doubt it! 😄
@pastorcdb4247
@pastorcdb4247 Жыл бұрын
Treasure, it brings you JOY!
@debe1955
@debe1955 Жыл бұрын
You like it…it makes you feel good. Keep it. Those are the picks that go with the nut cracker - to pick out the nut meat.
@leanne7306
@leanne7306 Жыл бұрын
We used to have a nut cracker just like yours when I grew up. I also plan to do the Swedish death cleaning very soon. I think it is a great idea. I will be having my daughter helping me. That way there will be no question as to what she would like to keep. The older I get, the less stuff I need or want. Thanks for sharing your great thoughts and ideas. 😊
@dianamarie9689
@dianamarie9689 Жыл бұрын
We all have nutcrackers in Louisiana. Pecans galore over here. The picks clean out the pieces of wood/shell in between the pecan. Also used to crack open crab legs!
@carolbohrer6620
@carolbohrer6620 6 ай бұрын
I have the same nutcracker too. One Christmas i bought my adult kids the nutcracker along with nuts that were still in their shells
@suzannagrove7259
@suzannagrove7259 Жыл бұрын
I love clutter. I have my kitchen walls and little shelves all filled with little items I love. I smile when I look at them, and the majority were gifts not purchases. I also order jewelry making supplies, and too many beads. Yet, this is a relaxing hobby for me and I am about finished accumulating these sorts of items. I am saving some things that may not be available/affordable in the future. Impulsive buying in general? no way. I am content to replace clothing items at a resale shop. However...I am decluttering, the process is ongoing. And I am organizing what I do have so items are not scattered all over. I welcome giving away purely decorative items that I don't love or find useful. And the process will continue for the foreseeable future. Wish me luck finding the time to organize and sort and say goodbye to too much stuff but in uncertain times = 2 is one and one is none.
@tarat26
@tarat26 Жыл бұрын
I would keep it and leave a label attached to the saying what it is, and when you remember using it. That way thy can decide whether they would want to buy shelled nuts at Christmas and use them. You could add a note saying "I don't mind if you decide to declutter this". I'm sorting my books into boxes with a few people in mind that might be able to use them. That way it just looks like we're moving (we are) but I can put stuff in the garage and if anything happens they can give them the box or items with labels of what they are/were. You can try it out with them for nostalgia. It's not a huge item to hang onto. Thanks for sharing. You've given me a lot of things to think about. Xx
@ravenstormchild6491
@ravenstormchild6491 6 ай бұрын
Usually used for walnuts and the picks dig out the meat. We had the exact same set growing up.
@SharonR1105
@SharonR1105 Жыл бұрын
OMG, I can't live without my nutcracker. Not only do we have nuts, but we use it for crab legs. LOVE it!
@brandijankowski8879
@brandijankowski8879 Жыл бұрын
I'm turning 48 & have already begun the process of minimalizing my home. I want it ALL gone.. love your videos!
@louisecardoza6707
@louisecardoza6707 Жыл бұрын
Keep it! I have one and it’s fun and therapeutic to use!
@kathleenmcclish4709
@kathleenmcclish4709 Жыл бұрын
I have the same exact nutcracker and can’t let go of it either! It’s nostalgic for me. lol in the drawer it will stay!
@gwenj5419
@gwenj5419 Жыл бұрын
We can always imagine some future scenario where an item might be useful. But if that's our criteria, we will keep everything. Just in the way you talk about the nutcracker, itseems it brings you joy. So keep it for that reason. Maybe compromise by getting rid of the picks.
@joyjk5481
@joyjk5481 Жыл бұрын
I've been looking for one of those nutcrackers. DD asked if she could have the one I owned several years ago. I've looked for a replacement ever since. Those two things are nut picks. You use them to pick the nut meat out of the shells.
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@munirasultana2313 Жыл бұрын
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