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I think the reverse of this discussion is also true. A man with big dreams should not allow himself to be with women with low dreams..otherwise they will be dragged down

Benjamin needs his own KZfaq channel where we can interact with him.

hahaha this man just touched my situation I was with a guy giving me stress for so long and the day I decided to leave him a friend of mine proposed it was like he was waiting for me to realise that I deserved better I am lucky to have him seriously! great show

I spoke with a man and he told me I am intimidating. I guess that was because I was frank. 😊

This young girls you are lucky...he is speaking to you before you get into this things...

I feel attacked 😂😂😂😂 weuh.. Am so self driven and focused I cant tolerate an average man cmon you either style up or leave. Thanks for this Zulu.

Yaaani this zulu person, who gave birth to you? That womb is gold from heaven not earth😆

I just made a decision today to stop talking to someone because of the company he keeps...just got encouraged even more

Listening to this video the second time it hits differently than before. Very True don't lower your standards for anyone.

Benjamin deserves a hug from me, I wish this reaches some peoples ears

Once a guy is said to me ' I can't believe I am with you' ....it pissed me off and knew I needed someone with confidence and some sense of worth 😏

I click soo fast when I see Benjamin in the thumbnail featured by Joyce .... I LOVE Y’ALL .

Preach it 💪 1.Provide leadership. 2.Be truthful and trustworthy.

Waaaaa! For once I've met a Kenyan man who has spoken like 5 men combined. Kindly start a serious men's conference...

Mr Benjamin you are too wise. Please if there is a way you can have a forum to teach and encourage our brothers. I'm a big fan 100%

Benjamin Zulu always bringing Wisdom with Full cup of Energy...Never disappoints 👍👍

Discovering you earlier would have saved me a lot of heartache. But all is not lost. Blessings

Are we going to ignore how flowless Joyce`s skin is?

I have always had a hard time in my life relating to people since most don't understand me. I thought I was the problem but you sir (Dr. Benjamin Zulu), made it crystal clear. I want to go to "Mombasa" but my inner circle is made of "Tuktuks" and "Bicycles". This has sadly been evident to my relationships and family. I really need a chance to speak to you, I need such great wisdom and advice

I just recently discovered this Benjamin Zulu and I must say I am impressed. Tons of wisdom and truths! Keep it up!

All Queens out here don't pluck jewels from your crown trying to come down to a level of undecided man... Wow I love that

Listen up ladies, when dating learn to weed out dusties from men with focus. As long as you don’t learn that early enough, you will always keep on falling for the dusties; they always know the game, they’ve played it for so long and they will make you fall so hard for them

Seriously this is true, I got married on my 20 now worked out on it on 30s, am happily single, nine years online, your God's sent saving our lives, talking realities , big up guys

Next time discuss on submission of women in relationships cz some confuse it with "bullying "

Woow...!!! I daamn love this talk👌. Benjamin calls a spade a spade n not a big spoon! The red duvet part killed me lol!

"its not a red flag,its a red duvet," Ben Zulu ahahahaha God uses this platform and as a young man just 22 ,i have learnt a lot.

Mr Benjamin, thank you for the knowledge, experience, charisma and clarity you bring to these important issues. We appreciate you from Nigeria ,💪✌️

A man’s loyalty is measured when they have a lot of money, however a woman’s loyalty is measured when her man has no money. That means women don’t get changed by money, love is all a woman needs with or without money a woman will submit. I love this lessons it’s very helpful

Yes i ended up with a parasite that never started in life,keeping the least and worst company ,u pay every bill,he is everywhere u disapprove,10 good years in depression n failure, n u know what am here starting at 40 n looking for the right man now,talk about never giving up,i must succeed,God has given me life as a second chance,kudos Benjamin n Joyce

The gentlemen is on point. When you want a successful woman act like you are riding the horse with her also provide support.

I'm loving this conversation, true talk. I just love Benjamin 😍

These kind of women we are so truly rare, unique and it takes us quite sometime,trials and tests to truly grow into thick skinned glorious beings that can take the blows that come with greatness so gracefully our mare presence illuminates the whole building 😊😊. With greatness comes great responsibility y'all

This's both motivation and entertainment. I like it

THIS GUY IS AMAZING. REALLY AMAZING, BENJAMIN, I CAN'T WAIT FOR YOUR OFFICIAL KZfaq CHANNEL

success is not only financial dear ladies, is he mentally stable, emotionally matured and physically fit,a man of good character or does he have a vision and plan he is working on. support his struggles and RESPECT him.

such interesting topic and so many of the things said I've experienced. Frieda, from Namibia

I wish I heard Benjamin Nzulu before,I would not be broken the way I am now

I would like to talk to Benjamin. He is a living human encyclopedia. Sheer Brilliance

Not a red flag...Red duvet! Lol!

She came with her own power - that's very profound

I was in such relationship just stepped out..I tried my best investing businesses so we upgrade but nothing...I wish I heard this before I got in.....now I know what to look for and i know my person is out there...its fire

Eishhhhhh!!!!! Tx u Mr.Zulu🤗👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏.... I always say this: successful women don't go for a broke uneducated men in the name of love!!!! Nooo!!!

Waaaw what areal talk,,plz Zulu u need to have a conference meeting with youths,,u point is just wonderful

this guy is just talking the truth i love this its educative

😂😂😂😂that guy who can't buy credit to call the lady....sounds so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣anyway people are different

Yes yes n yes!!!!! This man has it. He’s so right!

Benjamin I have been following you but on this topic am completely impressed coz it's me you are talking about. I HATE lazy men I just feel like vomiting

Most good women are in a wrong relationship or in marriage very true my brother

I wish this was available a few years ago. God, I can't wait! Please match me.

Benjamin ur gifted....l wonder if anyone has been keeping an eye on me whilst l was in my FUNNY relationship😂😂

Always love to hear from Benjamin. Wise insights everytime 👌

Very informative. Its hard for great ladies out here.

I'm watching this some days later and well this is amazing. I think this is what successful and ambitious ladies need to hear. Keeping it Full Circle with Joyce.

Very true.. men learn how to make your women feel good... Oooh my

Joyce's heels are on point! Zulu is on point as usual!

Aaah ..Benja always coming through with the wisdom.

Just found this channel and programme. I have been blessed watching this.Thank God I found you guys,this is exactly what I needed at this point in my life.

Wow, I do watch shows but this one, sir Zulu you're speaking the truth. Thank you guys for this show. Everyone should definitely watch this.

I just bumped into this show or channel l love it..... watching from Nigeria

Benjamin thanks so much for sharing this ideas ,am taking notes and you guy am shaped lady kuja pole pole hii maisha haitaki makasiriko,

It's hard for a great successful woman to date if you don't accommodate lazy men. Many men want to use your success to succeed.

This is so eye opening ....

Thanks so much for stating the truth and not sugarcoating anything. Learnt alot.

15:30 that sounds like the first Date I had with the man that is now my husband... I'm glad I passed the interview...😊👌

Aki Benjamin you just a great motivator,,,when you date a low minded guy you finished......

Benjamin is a very wise Man.

Joyce am Simon Patrick from Kampala. I love the show.

I wish Benjamin would talk more on these two topics: Proactive Dating and Dating for Single Moms

Right on point!!! She values your character

Wow what a great show...I can't regret landing here....ni meguzwa

Wow this such an amazing topic, a real eye opener, Good job Mr Zulu please Joyce bring him back with part 2

Much love from +254! Oh wow this man is fact!

Wow! This man has really mentored me in a organization called Compassion : Riachina CDC,I really miss you Zulu

So many truths Sir! ❤️🇧🇼

A focused successful man should be with a driven strong woman👍 stick with yours own kind🙏

Wow just fascinating speech, love from Muscat' 😍😍😍😍 proud to be single. Men u can't separate a woman en the future.

I just found myself starting over to attentively review this episode 👌🙏 like Benjamin is describing me and my plans to be a BILLIONAIRE but can't find my guy...

My type of mentor jokes aside Wisdom garole....twende brother

Only a childish man who thinks money changes a woman😃

😂😂😂from the title buana,very indulging

Is my first time to meet u on media n am glad that wil now b learning n put on action where necessary .thanks🙏

My goodness this is eye opening.ive received so much hate from people but I with time realized my go getter nature burns almost everyone I get in contact with(not all) Thank you for this video.

I looooooooooove this show. Great content as usual👌👌

A great minded man is the one that looks for pple to give more info about things not going to hang around with egg vendors!!! or chewing mirras.! Wow!! Hio nayo imenikwamua such great topic there thenx Mr. Zulu👏🏾🙌🏾

You nailed this topic Ben Zulu 👏 👏 I will say my no 1 key is to be truthful and trustworthy and no 2 key is leadership ...

Jesus!!!, may all my wishes be granted. Thank you Benjamin.

Its not a red flag...issa red duvet😂😂

Very correct, i have been in a such rlnxhp, being a hard working lady but jamaa wasnt positive to tat hard work, i decided to go, en make mi own

Haaa... Not only are you on point but also very hilarious. You nailed it!!!

Oooh My God Ben you are now just speaking from my heart so so true every bit of it I would give you a big hug right now! And yes let the successful men hang around up here too😅😂😂😂🤣👍🏾👌🏾

This guy is a true mentor

Mr.Benjamn you are among those who should be awarded highly. God bless

But most successful Ladies fall in wrong relationship.

Benjamin you are good stuff.You excellent at what you do.Am a lawyer too hoping to transition into another field.Maybe some day soon you would share in your journey from law to what you do currently.👍

Am in that category. currently in a good self business Niko 31, my guy is what we call hustle now nimeelevuka.

Benjamin Zulu.........heiyaaaaa.he is on point...

I can listen to this over and over

Awesome show as always, Full circle with Joyce it is..He mentioned that he would love to come back to teach these great women how to date. On the lookout for that. ;)

Wow Benjamin! Asante sana👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾 Much love from Uganda 🇺🇬😍