Some married women always says "am doing it for the sake of kids" yet there's no love
@andititigo45764 жыл бұрын
Benjamin you are a very wise man and I like listening to you. Thank you for the hard truths and very helpful advice.
@sylvialungu59724 жыл бұрын
Benjamin you are good
@balancedviewpoint74184 жыл бұрын
A time waster has some noticeable characteristics or traits. They have very little time with you, careless about your feelings or emotions and often they annoy you easily. A time waster is violent, nagging, overly jealous, doesn't spend money on you or so often call you. Than discussing the tome wasters traits since they are many and varied, its imperative that we discuss the causes of time wasting. To get a solution for an anomaly, the best thing to do is understand the cause. 1. Almost nil chemistry 2. Nagging 3. Loving his/her money rather than the heart 4. Immediate connection after heartbreak 5. Call for marriage from day one when you hardly know each other 6. Revenge mission 7. Sex interest 8. Temporary shoulder to lean on 9. Child support mission 10. The X factor
@wendymkhwanazi98624 жыл бұрын
My life will never be the same after discovering this talk show. l am learning alot.May you kindly make some subtitles in english so that we don't miss out on important points.
@pileshongwe78274 жыл бұрын
Please put subtitles for us who don't understand your language we get lost in the conversations 😂 when you switch languages. Thank you
@bulelwacewu66994 жыл бұрын
I agree with you,you have a very interesting show but please add subtitles when you decide to speak in your language.Remember you have invited people of different languages,please accommodate them
@rashidagh35304 жыл бұрын
Correct
@eneali83084 жыл бұрын
Yes please!!!
@valeriemmani50834 жыл бұрын
So true 😃
@cholachisimba70744 жыл бұрын
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
@Nafula_Ste4 жыл бұрын
I wasted 6 years! I look back and thank God for opening my eyes.
I cannot judge you I wasted more than, and I still regret...and red flags were there
@positivesoul.94903 жыл бұрын
As for me it's not wastage... It's a learning process... I did 5 years dating. I initiated the break up because we were stagnating no way to move forward as her mom was against our union and marriage plan... At some point it seemed too much to bear that i abandoned. If i didn't do so i would have still been there... And during those 5 years i learned a loooot about dating you can't imagine... In fact the guy was truly committed.
@wanjirukarago93084 жыл бұрын
Mimi i wasn't even being allowed to watch wedding shows 😂😂😂 he couldn't stand such shows that was a red flag that i ignored fir the longest time ...as if that's not enough he told me point blank he doesn't believe in marriage and weddings still stayed there😂😂... sometimes i ask myself what was i doing hapo ...I think we were just friends with benefits for a long time ...glad reality hit me finally
@kholisaable4 жыл бұрын
Hakuna matata dada, don’t blame yourself over that. Be glad you’re now out of it. 🤛🏾🇿🇦
@marymaureen3 жыл бұрын
Am happy for you
@annirunguofficial46254 жыл бұрын
Sure, having both parents doesn't guarantee peace.....some homes turn to be hell...reminds me a lot!!
@leenloreen4 жыл бұрын
It's true that's what I'm dealing with now, 7 wasted yrs and a third innocent person involved
@learningequalsliving25674 жыл бұрын
Joyce that outfit is FIRE!
@joannembaja60533 жыл бұрын
Nothing but the Truth..benjamin ur wisdom is Godly
@VMasaku4 жыл бұрын
Hi Joyce & Switch Kindly start using subtitles for our brothers and sisters from other countries to get the most out of your amazing content. Some are from South Africa and could not dig the Swahili parts. Thank you
@cholachisimba70744 жыл бұрын
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
@clotildachamhuna14484 жыл бұрын
Benjamin is so straight n I liked that infact I love it
@tinachristine45734 жыл бұрын
Or those engagements that run for 7 years and we have no wedding date set. Kwani you are the Lord of the rings?
@slindokuhleslindoh92284 жыл бұрын
Im all the way from South Africa nd im missing out guys i love listening to you both if you can please use subtitles.
@cholachisimba70744 жыл бұрын
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
@nairobi-farmfairy76124 жыл бұрын
That outfit girl!!!!
@christinemutisya34374 жыл бұрын
Wow Zulu my favourite all the way from high school Mbitini Girls high school in kitui county have learnt alot
@friedashifotoka65564 жыл бұрын
the accuracy in what he is saying though lol
@wanyinavybes4214 жыл бұрын
My sentiments exactly. Die hard fan from Australia 🎊🇦🇺👍😂
@thebinxesvlog75054 жыл бұрын
Thanks people ...u love us and we appreciate..I now have to stop running for a soulmate..
@pearlepeane86623 жыл бұрын
@Joyce and Benjamin, absolutely love your show and even invited a couple of friends to follow. As a South African national I tend to get lost in between when you change languages. Please be so kind as to add subtitles🙏🏾
@cholachisimba70744 жыл бұрын
He said, "Kempinski and Kibandaski!" Oh, my poor ribs! 🤣😂
@hellenokoto41993 жыл бұрын
Hi Joyce, I hope you are writing a book on relationship. These are good points to be captured on print
@marysoita28914 жыл бұрын
I am loving your show Joyce. I think the topic reasonates with A LOT of couples or ex couples
@abitalchao16424 жыл бұрын
This is healthy talk. 😉👍
@sarahsmrdal70943 жыл бұрын
U r very right BZ. Women r too needy.
@juliettebessebro92044 жыл бұрын
i just love him. love from Ghana. please go easy with the Swahili on us.
@deogratiusnkwanga58543 жыл бұрын
Someone lied to me claiming to be pregnant and after a year, she brought in other issues which really turned me off for this relationship.
@ichaihellen20334 жыл бұрын
Ghaaaai this true i wasted 4yrs wth one guy kumbe he was experimenting ad am there oh being faithful my foot!
@dianaoginga44014 жыл бұрын
Same here my dia but thank God I realised and quit
@sandrakirui81243 жыл бұрын
I feel you😍
@tsvarakadenga224 жыл бұрын
I love those twists 😍🥰🔥
@tinachristine45734 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Sofia-dl9vw4 жыл бұрын
Her hair is beautiful. Looks like crochet braids
@Mr2real2real4 жыл бұрын
it works both ways..some women just waste your time.
@hodanmuktar59803 жыл бұрын
I appreciate Ben Zulu wise words asante sana ...manze napenda smile ya Joyce
@sandrasashaeveta4224 жыл бұрын
His laugh though😂😂
@stellaterrie63784 жыл бұрын
Hallo Joyce, loving your shows with Benjamin. I'm really learning alot. Please discuss on how to deal with long distance relationships #FULLCIRCLEWITHJOYCE
@jamijamie32074 жыл бұрын
Much love from Uganda🇺🇬🇺🇬
@teerashadia47314 жыл бұрын
Love your hair gal.....ni gani hio loo!ing good ..
@peninamwaka56374 жыл бұрын
Benjamin is soooo hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ebbykerubo954 жыл бұрын
Good topic. Mr. Zulu hongera
@bulelwamthembu88394 жыл бұрын
A child has nothing to do with love🙈🙈
@zunaiandre23413 жыл бұрын
Especially e Mzanzi😒
@caramel92443 жыл бұрын
Asante Benjamin! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 I love your sense of humor too 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jege_belebelebaw4 жыл бұрын
I really like the show but I’m noticing that I’m missing alot of important points because I cannot understand swahili ..Can you please try to lay out the points in English 🙏🏽
@ntsoakiconstancemokati59174 жыл бұрын
I agree with you, that's my problem also , hope they can stick to English
@HeAloneIsGod99014 жыл бұрын
Thanks for pinpointing that
@cholachisimba70744 жыл бұрын
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
@maureenavilia12163 жыл бұрын
Click on the video there is a small box written cc it for subtitles.
@jege_belebelebaw3 жыл бұрын
@@maureenavilia1216 thank you so much
@keiaflyyass3 жыл бұрын
Here from the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 I love this channel I’ve learned so much ! Please include subtitles my first language is English 💕🌹 great info!
@kayc58043 жыл бұрын
Yes, same here...Please use subtitles in English
@samaramillie87484 жыл бұрын
Thank God I bumped into your channel. Newbie here
@saviournamara73674 жыл бұрын
Much love from ug But please interpretation for us smhow
@cholachisimba70744 жыл бұрын
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
@sanyuable4 жыл бұрын
I really BENJAMIN , I LOVE YOUR IDEAS. PLS !!!!!WOMEN TAKE NOTES.
@paulanissi87913 жыл бұрын
Pls Joyce Omondi kindly take me as a translator people can't understand kiswahili some parts,topic very nice I understand both, I could help many people
@pamellanuwarinda75543 жыл бұрын
Some subtitles for those that don't understand swahili please. You are watched by the whole world. Other wise I like these shows
@juliannesharpe2783 жыл бұрын
I Love You Benjamin Zulu! I Pray you will enjoy a successful, fruitful Marriage!
@faithmwende65474 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭wat this man is talking is the exact characters my man had, we broke up just 31 st of last month but I thank God we were not married neither we were living together, dating for 5 yrs but life has to go on.
@labanmbogo52574 жыл бұрын
Very true
@bigben34624 жыл бұрын
Better broken relationship than broken marriage
@faithmwende65474 жыл бұрын
@@bigben3462 I agree
@Nafula_Ste4 жыл бұрын
We share experience. Mine 6 years!
@edithnafula10064 жыл бұрын
Better broken marriage than suffering
@jacklinepeter8325 Жыл бұрын
About the women instinct that's very true
@TeeStillStanding4 жыл бұрын
That wheezing laugh😩🤦🏽♀️
@ted99213 жыл бұрын
Or stridor laugh
@ted99213 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@fatmanasir66913 жыл бұрын
Rattle the snake by not going with the flow. That always works..
@sybellabella16572 жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful Benjamin for e show I'm touchef
@amanielucy99483 жыл бұрын
I love her hair style
@favouredjoy3944 жыл бұрын
Volume iko sawa. Thank you. I hope I will one day talk to you.........💪
@kambua_Felix3 жыл бұрын
What's the hair on Joyce's head??? It's realy beautiful
@princessjnr.nyathi2 жыл бұрын
He said “ you can trap me only for so long” 😭
@mosesonyango9183 жыл бұрын
Disclaimer! Zulu looks funny in a short sleeved shirt😄
@hagumimanarobert3954 жыл бұрын
Much love from Kampala Uganda
@atarahnethononda19103 жыл бұрын
I am from South Africa and I love this show but I get lost during the show whzn you use Swahili, can you please try and accommodate us by including subtitles or using only English ❤️❤️
Ndi khou ita ndi tshigavha ene mara zwinzwi zwi a mpfuka, asante sana 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@missbee13303 жыл бұрын
Please most of us are not from South Africa , please give us subtitles for the Swahili or better still take it easy on us. Much love from Ghana
@a.muchemi43603 жыл бұрын
This is Kenya isn't south Africa
@nandutujustine50654 жыл бұрын
Much love to this guy.....
@nancymanyara6473 жыл бұрын
Let kids play 🤣😅😆😁😂ihave really laughed you cannot tell aclass 3to sit down🤣
@xeik74823 жыл бұрын
Joyce is just so gorgeous!!!
@farmergirlsophie48704 жыл бұрын
I feel like subscribing but ur using Kiswahili also please some of us we don't understand Kiswahili only English
@MrNoluyolo4 жыл бұрын
Subtitles would be appreciated
@sarahniyel16272 жыл бұрын
Thanks i stopped flowing i knew it was a wastage
@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv4 ай бұрын
How my work this program I get you nice one
@joyceoyedele37053 жыл бұрын
Would have loved to hear more in English, sounds like a good topic!
@peoplevoices53073 жыл бұрын
Great insights
@zainabaminah41763 жыл бұрын
This lady is so pretty
@thandekabhunu29503 жыл бұрын
Consider using subtitles
@lifecoachwithlina18793 жыл бұрын
Benjamin you're really funny but that's really truth!
@paulinenjerupaulinenjeru51823 жыл бұрын
Benjamin will kill me one daie with laughter
@mercymwende85914 жыл бұрын
wow he's true. its like he's talking about me
@shubharao592 жыл бұрын
I am from India, watching your show. Pl use English sub titles as I barely understand kswahili.
@joskyshams47584 жыл бұрын
How do people date for 6yrs?
@faith_wangare4 жыл бұрын
I also wonder....how on earth?🤔🤔
@lorineomondi43164 жыл бұрын
@@faith_wangare help me ask them 😂😂😂
@tinachristine45734 жыл бұрын
Or get engaged for 7 years. Kwani you are the Lord of the rings?
@lorineomondi43164 жыл бұрын
@@tinachristine4573 hawa ndio huwa engaged at 19 unaachwa 24 they fell like dying
@tomatopaste19363 жыл бұрын
I wonder too😂😂😂
@Barr.JoyO.3 жыл бұрын
Very good show, pls tell Zulu not to speak too fast. I know I speak very fast too, fast thinking too perhaps lol
@quibianca87624 жыл бұрын
Wow thnks for ur tym
@mbuthiabebs11813 жыл бұрын
Benjamin kindly do you know me its like you are talking abt me.😥😥😥😥
@Gomlie19704 жыл бұрын
If he puts you in his will while you are still dating does it mean he sees you as his future wife?????
@birungiphionah58843 жыл бұрын
That depends on how long you have been together. Him adding you in his will could be a trick to keep around him and he continues studying your behaviours. Remember will can be changed at anytime. Get him to commit 😘
@gregorymagalanyana64703 жыл бұрын
The program not exclusive for Kenyeans pls subtitles. Swa... not our indigenous langauge but zulu. Interesting show.
@elizabethharding73603 жыл бұрын
What about us who are over 60s ?
@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv4 ай бұрын
your give me work your give me conversation How
@asavelamfisi71744 жыл бұрын
Joyce is sooo beautiful
@AceHardy4 жыл бұрын
👑🙏
@a.muchemi43603 жыл бұрын
This lady like to speak swahili alot not like the other one .... please everyone request on you to talk in English please do ...
@nyiramahoroannet28754 жыл бұрын
I have dated a man for 6months and this man keep asking me fuel incase he wants to visit me, and he doesn't want me to visit place of residence .should I assume this guy is serious for marriage or?
@sarahnamazzi88554 жыл бұрын
Pls run
@kimmy-rx5xx4 жыл бұрын
Asking you for fuel to see you😳😳😳😳 just love you self a little and run for your life
@doreen.rruvuza5664 жыл бұрын
Ruuuuun for your life if you love yourself!!
@wildahmwanza99694 жыл бұрын
Run away
@sarahkawala4 жыл бұрын
Are you for real? And you are even asking if he is ready for marriage?
@dolphineakoth4 жыл бұрын
I wasted 4 yrs acha tu!
@sellyjon27514 жыл бұрын
pole.. was it a come we stay?
@gracew74603 жыл бұрын
Is it really possible to date for 6 years without sleeping together? Or should we call it fornication for 6yrs??
@juliatakavada44294 жыл бұрын
Use english please i realy wanna follow your hot topics but it gets so annoying wen i dont get your language🤷♀️
@mariamnamwa1884 жыл бұрын
👌👌👌
@lilianasaba98463 жыл бұрын
Nice show but the Kiswahili is too much for some of your online audience
@tinachristine45734 жыл бұрын
Tethering 😄😄🤣🤣🤣
@Kash11134 жыл бұрын
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@tlccode Жыл бұрын
How to propose to her like a gentleman: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gb6Vh8Zylt--epc.html