I would have sold that Rwai home and educated the children. May God take you through life with zero regret. All the very best.

Wengi wanasema hangemuachia nyumba but I understand this lady coz hiyo nyumba Haina furaha na Ako alone mzee alioa na kumove on na maisha yake,kukaa Kwa hiyo nyumba n kujifunga coz utafikilia uko na mzee in mind na hakuna pia hasaidii watoi but kutoka na kumove on na life,pia angendelea kukaa one day atakuja kutolewa kimatharau so I support this lady

This lady is beautiful and humble God bless Her simo asante

She is a strong woman,God will pay her back what she lost💯🙏

Mimi nilisema roho yangu ni ya ku pump damu sina time ya kupenda mtu

My sister,you are a beautiful soul. I went through such an odeal. Different country but same negative family members. Toxic sis and brothers in laws . God loves you. This man will never have peace You will watch him fall and pay for all

Symo please don't push or pressurise people to reveal information that they don't want to reveal. That lady doesn't want people to know where she works, but you were pushing her to reveal. Privacy and safety come first.

Heri hungeacha nyumba juu hukuzukuzwa ungeendelea kukaa tu na watoi,aki sometimes you can’t understand men 😢you are a strong lady ❤

A very intelligent young woman. I'm glad she abandoned where the husband left her and started her own new Life. At times we need to let go of the shady past. I also noted men don't like intelligent women. They want airheads that can be treated like shit and still stay put and controlled like a robot.

Quite a touching story and a big lesson to learn, specially for young people. People should note that serious relationships between people who meet in Nairobi (or other economically cosmopolitan environments including majuu) should be taken with a pinch of salt. The likelihood of them surviving are very slim although there are exceptions. The motivation of these relationships is economic survival, hence the failure of the parties to ascertain backgrounds. Once the objective is met, there is little to hold the relationship any more. Only be thorough and cautious.

She's a strong and beautiful woman.. take heart mama and move on. Ulifanya poa kuachilia coz that's the beginning of healing

I know the lady well she was my neighbor to n the story is true and pure. May God remember her.

Mm nko hapa waiting sana

Thanx Symo for bringing this woman to teach us with her story

Mama mashaa unanijua vizuri naitwa kuvuki nimekubeba sana na bodaa ,wewe nimama wa nguvu ukweri dikujua unapita hayo but nisawa mungu aliyajua yote jipe moyo ,,,Mimi Badu Niko stage 26 usijari niliacha mungu ameku bless Hawa wenye walikua hawakutambui ,SEMA kuparara

GOOD ADVICE MAMA, MIMI NILITOKA AFTER 12 YRS,,,ITS NOW ALSO 12 YRS NOW TANGU NIKANYANGE KUBWA KUBWA NO.regrets at all.ileft jamaa na plot but guess what,,saa hii hata kujilisha ni ngori,he married again akapata 2 kids but 😂😂walidivorce....lijibaba limechanganyikiwa ta hiti hutu😁😆

God will always bless the work of your hands with your children, Renee your strength and you will never suffer in Jesus name thx for your story very helpful 🙏

Keep up gal...you are more than a woman,you are the father to your children and a mother at the same tym...I went through the same 4 fifteen years en now I'm ok working in gulf...may God see you through

MUNGU ako na wewe dada jipe nguvu nice job symok

Hii ndunia haina huruma her story is painful Akhi navile mimi nmrpitishiwa Moto najaribu kupea MTU life poa at the end Yuko huku online amenicheat mm natokea gulf napata MTU analal na wanaume wegni Respect to all single mums and all those who went through torture in their marriage..Gof is for us all🙏🙏

We are many struggling with kids,nake Ngai no atuheaga hinya,team ya symo 🙏 Gal kip up

Strong gal may God provides you with everything you need

Pole for what happened to you.but hapo kwa kusema ati nobody is single and happy hio niyako.kunao very single and happy.hakuna kitu poa kama a single woman knowing that nobody is cheating on her weuh.

Wambui you are a very strong woman huyu madam ni wa kwetu amepitia mengi

May God continues to give you peace and u will go far watarudi kukuomba msamaha blev me

Waiting,, leo nimefika mapema

When people leave you. Move on and forget about them all.. You come from a family go back to your people forget about them.

My sister mungu ni mungu natakua mungu barikiwa 🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Ulikuwa umewekwa, hukuoleawa, mwezi mumoja ulijioza, hakukuolewa, hata hukutambulishwa, kwa familia, wala hakujijulisha kwenu,lakini kakupa watoto Shakur MUNGU laparotomy, wako hana haki kugawa ndoa YA nje ya sheria, na utamaduni, haina haki.

I don't advocate someone to remain in a toxic relationship but one mistake this lady made is leaving her home that she had contributed to and opting to go and rent. Her husband took advantage of her and benefited himself and another woman. Anyway God knows you and your children and He'll come through for you but your husband will never find peace as long as his children are suffering out there. A sad story but God has the answer,take heart Symo thank you for your kind words God bless you 😭😭🙏🏿🙏🏿🔥🔥✝️✝️💜💜

my primary school classmates you had a clean heart from when we were young keep on being strong esp for you kids..

U have encouraged many souls... Mungu akupee nguvu na uwezo wa kulea watoto wako.

That house was for your children,why shift and go to rent???? That's the mistake you did.i wish angeachia watoto wako hiyo nyumba.

My dear siz im proud of dear

Well done girl

Ukufanya poa kuacha nyumba,Tena Ulundi hapa ATI umefungiwa nyumba huna food

Very true. No single and happy as she says. Singleness is lonely and burdensome especially when bringing up some kids. It doesn't happen by choice. It's circumstances that lead people to live single. A marriage with happiness is the will of God for us.

Girl is so beautiful, ata huwezi sema. Hugs mamaz

They say kieru nikiiraga so take heart my dear

Mimi wangu aliusa shamba ma million akatoroka. Mimi sijawahi mutafute miaka sasa 16 years na sijawahi mutafute. Family walimu, support nikawaweka block list. I don't care whether the exist I even forgot the way to there home. Move on girl trusting God. Life is too short to depress yourself. Iam happy without them. My children are happy too.

As for me am single and happy. Have never been married before I have a son and I totally don't like marriage

Waiting sana

Motor bike ni ya andu Eric the third ni WA mwiringiririo sister inlaws kaeni kado much game but maripo ni hapa hapa

Man should tell us the side of story

God will bless you

Hi Symo show us that Hotel we want to see please. Stella Germany

Uweeh kwenye niliolewa,eti everything ni sister in law,nilimwambia my ex amuoe huyo dadake,she came and confronted me,nikamwambia Hilo Hilo akoelewe na nduguye awe akijipangia yeye sio kunipangia na nkaondoka.i was pregnant and my son is 7yrs now without them.red flags r real

🤣🤣🤣 Symo ati waku ndangitumwo.

Mundu agatee minjii teno maa

Story is so similar to mine. I was surprised too during mother in-laws burial. The worst thing is that everyone else knows apart from you.

Sorry gal for wat you went through God will make evrythng well,my story is similar to yours n till today 8yrs n I hated men n marriage I take care of my children but ogopa inlaws they are like monitoring spirits n they want to take control over you n wat you HV may God hv mercy aki

And God has been soo faithful to you. One day they will all be ashamed.

Tondu wimurathime dukianje kunyiterera iheyo symo k na Jehova aguitirerie irathimo ta mbura

Hugs dear. I can relate. kesho yeti ya ng'aaa

Wenye wanasema hangeacha nyumba ingeuzwa tu akiwa huko alifanya poa kutoka cz she started healing from that time

Mume kama hajakutoa kwa nyumba hungetoka.When the pain is too much,one doesn't think straight that's why you need sober pple to advice you,

Uuiii maa kai twagereire maundu mamwe no.nikuri Ghai wa ihinda ringi ati turi omuoyo

What he is reaping he will sow one day one time, your children will grow up and become responsible men.

May God give you another house of your own.

Wueeh me I thought I had a cowife the time my husband died. The things I passed through then I can't wish another person going through them.

Ungejuwa hungehama mama pole sana

May the lord bless that lady 🙏

Av gone through alot to but I pray that God will make a way 4me

Ulikosa wisdom mama kutoka kwa hio nyumba

Hajakosea i feel her pain she deserves to be happy if that make her happy peace of mind very important

Mimi singewacha nyumba tumejenga nayeye the guy was only giving you Cold War he never told you to move out 😢

Haukufukuzwa?? Why did you leave your home? Move on God will bless you.

Be strong and believe in God

Anaongea pole pole sana

At least you has a right to access or claim that home you was apart of it

Wah hungetoka kwako aki its painful but ungecheza kama wewe juu hubby hakua anakuja kukusumbua huko anyway God help yu

But how do you leave a property you have developed together and you have kids. The man even though he was not coming you could have held on to the property.

Ndûngîarutire ciana mûciî wao.

Uliacha nyumba yako ukaenda kukomboa kwa sababu haukutambuliwa kwa mazishi dada yangu? Hiyo nyumba ungeachia watoto. Zoea kutopendwa na binadamu and develop a thick skin. Only God will love and support you fully.

Not nenia they are called piles caused by hemorrhoids, it’s swollen vein due to using force

Symo please tuonagie mbica cia mukawa ucio ndaguthaitha.

Oii pole mama those sister in law karma inawangonja.

Very brilliant and strong woman you are. May God open your doors

The only big issue I realize in this story is complex trauma.

Hi bdo ziko,nataka moja

aki for real we've gone thru hell......Mimi Hadi I'd nilichukua na yeye bt sikupenda is just you made decision to be married bt what about your partner bcoz people change.

Mungu atakupeleka mbere Agatha❤

Assume arikufa move on lakini ukipata mutu mwingine uolewe haraka iwezekanavyo take heart

The mistake she did ni kutoka kwa hiyo nyumba despite everything juu hakuwa amefukuzwa

Waiting 🙍🙍🙍

Am in the same precadiment n my view is ningetaka tusikie Man side of the story...enyway so sad kwanza mwanaume kuhama ukikuyuni na kujenga kakamega🙆

Usijali mm myhusbad alipass nikiwa 24 . years... but after mazishi nilinganywa plot and wakasema hawanijui...take it easy

Many women are like her, 3 years still holding dead marriage, utapona mama

Title yenyewe imenichekesha tu.ati agikora mahaanainie nguo na mutumia wake🤣🤣🤣

I wish i heard this story many years ago.😢😢😢😢

Atumia nitwihokei Ngai,makiria nigetha tuhote kurera ciana.

Waah as for me my children r entitled to the property

I would invested while am still there .buy another land build rentals ,build my beautiful home ,then leave .as long as he was not coming or beating .hiyo vita ya baridi ni shadow .huyo pesa ya kurent would have saved it and do something else with it .

Mi ni meolewa na mluhya Ssa issue iko mum yake alisema atki mkikuyu but am happy alisema mama yake hawezi mpangia maisha and to avoid that huwa anani keep far from mum

Hiyo tabia ni ya watu wa nyeri tumewazoea

Wehirie nigutiga mucii waku tondu in-laws niguo mahana na matiihika kuu lakini in-laws mtapata tu in-laws kama nyinyi vile mnasengenya mtu na kusumbua wathi uruhagiruo oo thii niguo nii nderire in-laws aakwa na ndingiuma ndamerire uguo memenyerie kunyonaga na kuiguo ngiaria tondu ndingithamio nio

Nie hakwa ndigugutigira thithino yakwa.

Why did you leave your house is my question?

Women are made strong for real

Move on my dear