“Men are intimidated” then proceeds to reject all the men in the Tech industry just to prove a point. This conversation is just pointless coping. Good luck tho.

As an educated woman with a global corporate role in a Fortune 100 company, developing a business on the side, driven, but also loving, caring, fit, supportive, understanding and family oriented, and fulfilled in a relationship with an amazing "tall, fit, high earning" man, I can notice how delusional these women are. They're not intimidating in any way. It's more that they have unrealistic standards, and are not taking accountability of their choices and their unwelcoming personalities. The kind of men they seem to want aren't attracted to these types of "masculine and combative" personalities, women who define who they are by their careers and financial "achievements", and not their emotional intelligence or romance skills. Even more if these men are on a very high income, good looking, and have plethora of options, they wouldn't want to come home to a competitive someone, instead of the peace and the love they deserve. Hopefully these women will understand this some day.

For women claiming to be so happy being strong, independent and all that y'all sure as hell talk a whole lot about how badly you want a man but can't get one.

Society, please stop lying to women. We're already heading towards a bleak future. Maybe we still have time to steer the ship back on course. 😂😂😂

Men are NOT intimidated by a woman’s success. Men just want a woman who can respect them. My current partner makes 4 times more than me but is never disrespectful and still cooks for me even tho I don’t require it. Men want respect. That’s all. You can be as successful as you want but if you can’t respect a man and make him feel like he’s important and needed, you won’t be able to keep him. Just my $0.02.

"Men are intimidated" 😂 women and the lies they tell themselves to feel good

men an women are DIFFRENT. Here are 4 traits men value overwhelmingly on women: selfLESS, humble, unpromiscuous and YOUNG.

Men settle ALL THE TIME....especially financially

EVERYBODY ON THIS PANEL IS DELUSIONAL. EVEN THE RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST. However I can tell that she is holding back truths to appeal to sensitivities

Modern women seem to not understand the difference between Intimidated and turned off.

A man gets rich and successful he looks for a woman to take care of. She could be flipping burgers. A woman get rich she don't need no man unless he on her level.

Oh no, women are complaining about being successful.

Let's have a 10 year follow up to see how many cats they have

I just wish women would like this would be honest. They struggle with dating because they are too picky. Which is fine. Just own it and dont complain about it.

When she read the stats that showed inequality in home ownership and education in favor of women, the entire crowd applauded. Like what?! Granted it’s a show… But If this was inequality against women, there would be protests, rallies, and social changes to figure out why that is happening.

3:58 "One would think, this would make a woman more desirable". To whom? The men don't care what the women make. They want a pretty, friendly woman who is a better cook than they are, and who can have kids. An uber successful woman is less likely to have time to have and raise kids and cook for the man, so the men don't want that. Plus, women earning 120k won't date a man earning 45k, but a man earning 120k will date a woman earning 45k. It's like, if you're going to play a new non traditional game, don't expect traditional results.

This video and the comments are RP gold mine

Cat and dog food company stocks will be at the moon in a few years 🤣🤣. Invest early gentlemen

Intimidated? I have never heard another man say they are afraid of a woman with a degree, career, home or big bank account. IT'S NOT INTIMIDATION, IT'S INDIFFERENCE!!!! MEN DON'T CARE ABOUT ANY OF THAT BECAUSE IT'S NOT WHAT WE LOOK. Men and women are wired completely differently so we look for different things in a partner. Women care about a man having those things but us men we could care less.

Ever noticed how when Ladies talk about dating or Men, they never seem to include Men or Men's opinions in these *Panels* ? Successful Men are not interested in some *Boss-B* who looks well into her 40's that looks ' OK at Best ' . Men do not care about your success or money. It literally means nothing to us, Men are *NOT* intimidated, we are turned off by you. You ladies are high as a kite, Good Luck, you need it.

Im really surprised these 3 fine gentlemen are finding it hard to date.

Holy $hit this show is so mess 😂😂🤣LMAO

Women are dating with the 3 Ps too, Tamron literally opened the segment with these women looking to date men at or above their level and wen the therapist tried to explain this she initially pushed back with "shouldn't the onus be on men? ugh! Also, reorienting your mind around the 3-Ps doesn't men you dim your light, it means you adjust your expectations in the men you are willing to bond with. there are men out there that these women are completely blind to, who would make them happy.

Try asking men what they want and doing it!

Guys just want a nice, easy-going woman who they find physically attractive. They don't care that she's crushing it in her profession. That's a secondary concern.

Women keep your standards up. Don’t settle.

The biggest thing is that sometimes these women put up a huge wall, and they make themselves unapproachable

Like with anything in life, you have to prioritize what it is you want and do the necessary things needed to acquire them in that order. If work, travel, and money is more important to you, then you will likely never find a husband because the type of man most women want is not a fan of a woman with the aggressive traits needed to become an overwhelming success.

“I don’t date men in tech.” Translation: “I’m not attracted to these short nerds that I work with 😂”

Not really. Its the attitude. Men aren't looking for partnership, not competition. You can get someone who might have less but complements you. But they don't want that. And don't care about families until life passes them by

In a relationship we need to be able to trust and depend on each other. If you choose to be “strong and independent” and not participate in that interdependency, it is going to be difficult to form a successful relationship with somebody else. This goes for both men and women

Mid looking women with some money aren't intimidating but manly. Why would heterosexual men date this mess? Indepndent? Pay half or pay the check yourself? No.

No matter the level of independence, a woman WILL need a man at some point. A leader will never be intimated by a woman's success.

Not scared of any woman. Never have been, never will be. Won’t have children without marriage. Would not consider a woman for marriage who does not have a gaping hole in her life for a provider, a protector -aka a husband- and derive her purpose from serving me and our children. Without that she is actually of negative value to me outside of a business relationship or a hook up situation. Don’t really care to be in love in the way you guys talk about it, don’t really care about “partners” that means next to nothing. Husband and wife producing children who all have the same last name means everything.

I think the therapist had some good points, and I think Tameron didn't take in all of what she was saying. I don't think it's terrible for women to be financially successful and have careers. But a lot of those women may not realize how it can almost oppose what attracts them to men. In other words, they can lose attraction to most men because what they're attracted to, they have in themselves. I see the therapist insuiating that those women must change how they are attracted to men and let their success make them lose interest in someone who would be good for them. Also, they need to heed the therapist because instead of self-reflection, many try to reconcile the contradiction, so to speak, and go for rich man that could give them the lifestyle they want while having a successful career. The problem is that men aren't sexually turned on by success in a woman. In other words, a guy isn't going to turn a woman down because she's doesn't have money if she's nice, kind, beautiful, and affectionate. Women do that, not men. So when these women see the successful men marrying women without money, they are flabbergasted and ask why. It's because we don't care about her money over her being kind, peaceful, affectionate and helping us out. I would much rather marry a girl who's nice, kind, considerate, affectionate and wants to help me who works at McDonald's, than a woman who is a jerk, brags a lot and inconsiderate, but is financially successful. And I'm sure I'm not the only one.

"Waited for a while trying to find the right person but decided I going to live the life I want NOW" I felt that, pretty much sums it up on my side as well.

For the "ladies" that are strong and independent. I'm 74 and married to Old What's Her Name for 50 years. She worked with what I brought in and we now have an income 150% of my best year on the job. Most people have jobs and not careers. I'm a professional pilot. The only thing important in life is my woman and daughters. Memory fades of the flights of kotex and eggs to Elmendorf Airbase Alaska. The little woman was hot and interesting for the first 25 years. I've grown to love her in the last 25. Young adults do not know what love is.

Black women in particular are suffering from this viewpoint.

Honestly if Men only dated women who brought something to the table or who in some how added value to that man..Men would have a hard time dating as well lol..The double standard is...A broke woman with no value or nothing to add..Expects a Successful Man to be interested in her..However that same broke Woman once she becomes Successful..She refuses to date a broke Man who has no value in her eyes lol..The bottom line is Women rather Unsuccessful or Successful no matter what their situation is..They expect to be courted and pursued by someone Successful

I do better by myself. I would prefer to have a man. But I'm not dumbing myself down to have one.

I work hard everyday, I simply want a woman that loves me and I can love her. A woman who takes care of herself physically, mentally, and spiritually.

Expectation imbalance is the root and it can be resolved. You can be matched appropriately and it may take longer than expected; that is okay. Stop making excuses for non-contributory and underperforming men and women that have no desire to evolve. Anything that lacks evolution withers away.

Great video: I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times I cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

Ask them how they got it via divorce

50yo Black single homeowning career-having graduate degreeS having woman who also wants to know where the men are who aren't ashamed of not having the same kinds of outward achievements...*grabs pen and paper*

A while back, I had this conversation with my boys and observed that men are not intimated by such kinds of women. At least, men who have some financial stability. They just do not want to deal with the attitude that most of these women have. Men just want peace, period. The world is so hard enough for them in almost every stage of life as such, they do not want problems they can avoid.

lol don’t forget that there are more women than there are men, very important fact. They seem to always overlook that fact.

I dimmed my light once for a guy and it still wasn’t good enough for him. Never again

😂 A real man is not intimidated by any women.

She's so proud to be an entrepreneur, I looked up her company to see if it's been funder ever... Nothing.... These are companies that get funded so big investors can say they have esg initiatives.

10:41 Exactly. Modern women who are self sufficient breadwinners need to take their mindset out of the traditional paradigm of expecting a man who meets them on their level to protect, provide.

What do the men YOU want, WANT?

Kevin Samuels is turning over in his grave! 😂😂😂

It is also important to recognize that men and women value different things in a relationship. I don't always believe that it is intimidation as much as it is traditional values. As a successful woman, I understand that what I bring to the table may not be what someone wants and vise versa. That lady spoke truth. I would rather be alone. And that is OK. Also men with resources have access to more women who need them the way they want to be needed. Women are changing but most men are not. I hope that makes sense.

men attain success and they marry down- women attain success and they end up alone childless and consumed with anxiety, depression and loneliness

My grandmother used to tell me to never dim my light to be accepted by others. I didn’t understand it but now that I’m older with a masters degree…I do now. If a man can’t accept you at 100% proof, then leave him alone. ✌🏽

Why would any Man be intimidated by any Woman, for what? Degrees part they are more Women with degree’s because Men don’t like debt. Makes no sense to accumulate 60-100K of degrees debt to only make 40-60K coming out of College, That’s a bad deal. We chase the money. We go after careers that pay very well. 3 -10K Trade School to make 80-100K salary that’s a good deal. 30K engineering or medical degree to make 100-200K is a good deal. 30K teachers degree to make 40-50K is a bad deal who is paying that off? Not me. Graduating College will not make you a good Wife or good Mother. I’m looking for a help meet not opponent or competition. No one gets there on their own. One day when that brand new car breaks down, needs tires, that new house need a roof. You need police assistance or firefighters no woman want another Woman to show up. She needs masculine testosterone to save the day. Not estrogen. Could it be the one looking for a Wife the buyer just don’t find “them” or you attractive? I mean it can’t just be that? They need strong Men on panels like this to laugh in their face tell them point blank respectfully the truth. We’re designed by God to work together. In the end the one that is the buyer always finds the mate he is looking for. I can have a child in my 50’s. Keep believing the lie ladies. This gets ratings the truth doesn’t. The Man is the head of the house. You must be what he is looking for, share my values.

I'm seeing a lot of cats and boxed wine in the future for these strong independent boss babes

Best part about women having good paying jobs and owning their own homes, is they can finally loose half of everything they worked for in a divorce 😂😂

Lol they still don't get it.

Good for these successful ladies! I think every woman on this panel is attractive, youthful and feminine. I'm reading a lot of the comments; it's so sad and cruel. This gender war has to end. A successful loving woman would be a great asset to a man. Not a threat. We don't all want to be tradwives. I know some women choose that life. That's okay. But, many of us want to work and build something for ourselves. And, what's with the cat comments? I love cats! They're absolutely amazing, loving creatures. A guy who is a cat person is a huge win for me. The only suggestion I disagree with is a woman asking a man out. Man pursues woman. A woman can be a boss and still be soft, feminine and receiving.

It makes you wonder if there was some force that knew the nature of women, and said if we create dynamics where they make so much money and men didn’t have that ability to match her that it would cause problems via resentment. It’s a shame honestly. This was opened by you know who

I like they are talking about men in no men on the show. I am not Intimidated by women Success.

"I purposely don't date men in tech because i want to stand on my own two feet and know i didn't need some man to help me" Okay? Whether a man helped you build it or not, im still taking 50% if we get a divorce. That's how it works, usually right? 😂😂

Lol, yeah is simple coz they all want Chad but Chad dont want them Brace for the wall ladies it will hit u hard 🤣🤣

The look on their faces when the therapist was talking….. I don’t think she was saying what they wanted to hear 😂

Buying a home intimidates men? Hmmm, who came up with this logic?

I am in my 40's single, alone and childless because men are intimidated by my success... that sure sounds like a lot of cope.

Having an education doesnt make you intelligent. It just means you can regurgitate the ideas a professor taught you. The same previous life experiences just means you both only know the same boring stuff. We arre meant to compliment each other. Not be the same. We arent intimidated by these women. But the way they talk we know they have no desire to make room for a man in their lives thats why we respond with a metaphorical "alright bro, you do you then"

Becoming woman boss and independent it's not the issue for not finding a partner, the reason is you are not looking for a good man but looking for the right man.

It's almost as if all of that effort was wasted on stuff that makes you anxious and depressed. Are you winning yet girls?! Loool😂

Lots of masculine energy

1. Its a little odd how women just recently started being successful and now look down on men, but when men are and were successful that wasn’t the case. 2. When is it going to be enough almost every decade women demand more from men and we give it, when will they start giving some leeway to us?

This is not a new phenomenon. At 27y, in 1992, I bought my own home. 2 coworkers and a cousin of mine ended up doing the same shortly after. 3 years later, I met my now husband who ended up MOVING IN WITH ME. I do have to say that it was an ex who told me never to rent, always buy because it becomes an investment. Always do you. The rest will fall into place when it's suppose to

Do these women even ask what men want? Have you ever seen a seller shaming the buyer for not buying their product when the buyer believes the quality of the product is not good enough. The seller improves the quality or goes bankrupt . These women do not understand the laws of demand and supply and yet they consider themselves successful and intimidating hahahaha

Zero men are "intimidated." Most men don't care what you do for a living, if you have a degree, or how much money you earn. Putting off this "all men are intimidated" vibe is just unattractive and makes us uninterested. It's not intimidating. It's just unattractive.

All these women BELONG TO THE STREETS

Wow men have been 'dating down' since the dawn of time, do you ever hear us complain? No.. we just provide and protect. But now since you are 'succesful' you can't date down or provide ? Wow 😂

Question: does the man have to match what the woman has? Can he love you, be a gentleman an hardworking but not have all the material things noted?

This psychiatrist said admire all her accomplishments?? NO!! they won't. Men are not interested in a woman who makes more money than them, in fact, that is a turn off... because men want to be able to do for the woman, they want to give her a nice life, And let's not forget women date hypergamous... meaning he has to be tall. he has to make a lot of money. he has to have status... So don't go around telling men to lose his traditional idea for a mate, but women keep their traditional ideas, in fact, these women have no problem finding men, it's the type of men that they want that they can't find... and they want a man with high status, with high income......... and really really tall!

They're making all this money, they're accomplished, and they out earn men, but they still don't want the responsibility of being the provider 🤣🤣🤣

Are counting divorved women as single, because most women keep the house after divorce.

I can’t believe that these women are successful, Rich, and beautiful, yet there’s still complaining about men. You know I have a shaved everything that you could’ve possibly wanted and you still find a way to say “Men are the worst”.

also dont date if they are not kind and a life learner

The look on the men's faces is priceless. They know the deal and are there to be dragged and degraded by the women on the panel and the host. Also gotta love how the only people you talk to are women. Why are men checking out of the dating pool? Let me talk to my feminist female guests and ask them why. Why don't men want to date successful ambitious women? Let me talk to this man hater and see what she has to say.

Wow, fascinating

So stupid.I was a sparky when I married a 2 times PhD 16 years younger than me woman.Now, we are as happy as we can be and we have a15yo high intelligent happy boy. I'm still working my stuff and is as ok as it can be.She was 28 when we were married and I was 46. Don't be stupid and don't believe single stupid people.

You cannot abandon your instinct. Men will always protect, provide and want to procreate and there's nothing wrong with that. Its interesting how women are facing problems dating now that more women are getting careers and climbing the social ladder. But its the men that need therapy and need to change? Men didn't change in the first place, women did and now they're upset they can't find a man that wants them. Sorry, he wants a housewife that he can protect, provide and procreate with, not a woman who will opt to put their kid in daycare. Stop talking about love because before love you use your logic about pursuing someone. These women don't qualify for the men they want but if they want to they need to change their mindset.

It's mental for most men that's very true

Great segment. This is the exact thing I am experiencing. My friends and I often have conversations around this topic.

Men haven't changed or will change but women have, what man wants a strong independent woman who doesn't need a man, that's basically a masculine female dude😂

It’s not hard ladies. We know y’all will probably not date down. But the men you would be interested in probably are willing to.

What in the Blue HELL is this mess???

Translation: Can't find the right opportunity to excersice hypergamy.

Not really OWN a home. More like taking a mortgage... it's definitely a positive step but it's a stretch to say that intimidates men since men have generally been doing this.

It's funny how the psychologist mentions the 3 P's, protects, provides, and procreate being , "manhood." Women today are crying where are the good men? They are around, they do not fit into your life, cause they do not see their purpose. Most have gone their way and taken up hobbies or are on the self improvement treadmill and are not looking for a woman. Women can do everything that man was meant to do do we n to having kids by yourself.

Their point of view was only focusing on what women want. When they talk about men, it was telling them that they need to lower themselves. As men, we were born with these qualities she describes because it's the same all over the world. so, it is not culture, it is biology! The women on the show already said what the problem is, they want men on their level or higher. C. Ronald took a woman from being a cashier and now, she's a supermodel and she makes her own money. Men don't care about your status, it is only important to women.

I feel this way myself when it comes to dating. So many women have 5 or 6-figure student loan debt and black women are #1 in this category. Being in that much debt makes you a financial liability, not an asset, especially for a successful man and or woman to be fair. The term homeowner is misleading because in terms of legality, anybody with their name on the deed is a homeowner but to me, if your house/car is not 100% paid for you down own it the bank or the dealership does. Just like owning shares of the company is different from being the founder/owner of the company. Both are technically owners but those paychecks are different from a founder to an employee. Just facts over feelings. I wish I could have a successful woman that is not weighing down the relationship with her gigantic debt. Any man hating on a woman's success is either unsuccessful, lazy, insecure, immature, lazy or a combination.

Where are these women at??? This is not true! Men would love it if women were not financial burdens and found a way to truly, peacefully balance career, family and relationship. But two out of the 3 usually suffer when you have 2 career driven individuals. But that probably means I am intimidated too? eye roll

This sounds like a recipe for dying alone. Why would a man be interested in a woman who doesn’t need them?