Artur Macedo even if that's true, can't NENE & the rest of them, do something else? Do they really have to stay with these Companies? I don't think their being forced to be somewhere where they don't want to be. They're grown. Shouldn't that be a choice?!🤷

But this is the image and Alter egos they created. Then get mad when they have to play it all the time. I say be your true self at all times

Stop taking them CHECKS! IT'S NOT ABOUT WE TV, IT'S ABOUT Y'ALL TRYING TO SERVE 2 MASTERS!!!

Have to disagree with this comment. 1. Nene was messy from the start, even though I love her. She didn't have to be that way. She was even like that on Celebrity Apprentice--MESSY! Her messiness made RHOA a thing, however she attempted an acting career but for some reason went right back to reality television being MESSY. 2. Monique was the same way. Although she was successful, she was messy. When it was time to promote Precious, she didn't do her job and left her for her family. She also talked mad shit and her mouth got her in trouble. She body-shamed thin women and then overtime her ability to get booked shriveled up. She may have won the awards and had her own show and everything else but after so many years, NO ONE was checking for Monique except her fans. Netflix bets on which show will be a hit and they couldn't afford someone like Monique who has been so controversial, so they went with the other female comedian who is more hot and popping. Monique self-sabotaged herself and then when Steve Harvey tried to help her, she started fighting him 3. The company has nothing to do with Tamar's antics. She, like everyone else, has been messy from the START and she has ultimately ruined her career bc of it. The frequent spats and erratic behavior...you can't blame networks for that. If it really was the networks fault, then the other four sister would be spiraling out of control as well....and they aren't. So Tamar's downfall is her own fault.

Let's not forget Mariah Carey. She holds no secrets to the industry.

i feel like she 50% there...1/2 truths 1/2 pretence still blaming some...throwing out there that she created the the Braxton family...crying with no tears

Exactly

Asha Makeny , there we go with judgment again!

@@zanguiza I agree with Asha! WE always need answers from hurting people and they should forget about US and heal FIRST! Tamar, has unhealed trauma that needs time to be dealt with properly!

@@LADYDIVAful Thankyou! I just feel like all this was too soon. Also tamron called it out perfectly! Is it “for attention “. Cos why would you unfollow your family and in the same sentence claim that u speak to your mum everyday and everything is all peachy sweet. She just does and say things that don’t add up

All the Reality Shows started out funny now they are getting toxic

I am, her body language is way off. This is part of some press release, THATS IT. NO REAL TEARS + DUPING DELIGHT- WHEN THERE ARE ACTUAL PEOPLE ACTUALLY KILLING THEMSELVES, RIGHT NOW. She sick

@@MattGalter Did you see their mother's duping-delight in the BFV trailer, when she was recounting hearing the news of the suicide attempt? They are all so...😑

What’s sad is people are judging her. They are eating her up online almost gloating at what happen. People don’t see the trauma they just see her persona. It’s sad.

Growing up in a super religious household without any real spiritual values or beliefs and the actions of the adults do not align with spirituality will "EFF" children up. You get accustomed to being fake. It's a must to have a public persona to keep up the facade of perfection. You just don't understand unless you've lived it. This grown woman has no idea who she is. She needs intense therapy.

@@Bloooooooooooppp I agree its really hard to watch. Sometimes it's better to love some family members from a distance.

This is such an insightful comment Kevin. Thank you for your compassion.

I have been and I dont act like Tamar...no one I know does and I know many who have been molested, some by their own parents and they dont act like Tamar.

@@LisaLisaCJ we are all different. We all respond to trama differently

@@kelifacharles4075 being nasty and hateful has nothing to do with being molested. Period.

@@LisaLisaCJ I won’t try to convince you of my perspective. Trauma isn’t easy to diagnose or treat. It’s ALWAYS our responsibility how we act or respond to life however, it’s irresponsible to say what isn’t the case because of her trauma. There are so many factors at play when abuse happens. What we can agree on is that she needs help and healing. We are eligible for and responsible for compassion.

Same here. I think she's holding some things back.

@@pansysgarden Why should she have to tell everything what she told was enough.. She doesn't owe anyone everything... Does anyone here? feel like they owe everything... That's crazy as you can see what she's giving to us the public is hard enough..

@@SCRIPTED33 I know right! Greedy nosy people!

Great suggestion

She should, but you know when it comes to this media stuff. When you sign a contract it means you are owned by someone. Whether you want to work or not, it’s not up to you.

@@lp604 exactly! Adrienne's KZfaq channel is run by a company called Kin. It's not really on their terms. Living in the public eye and on social media may be Tamar's job, but it's obviously not good for her mental wellbeing.

She did Tamar takes .... but then she added David 😑

She has a channel already and i actually use to watch it

She needs more time away but I think she is doing this because she wants the narratives about her to be from her mouth only. I pray she gets the healing and love that she deserves.

She keep saying she don’t want to put herself out there but she is doing that. She is not talking the time to heal herself.

Shes not forced shes being paid and gets views which leads to endorsements. This is all Hollywood bs

That may be for you. Everybody's different. Talking about it and helping others can take your mind off you . it helped me alot by speaking and helping others.

This is Tamar job how she makes money is on tv. It’s easy for you to say it’s too soon. She doesn’t work at Walmart can’t just quit and call it a day.

She doesn’t need to let y’all know everything damn. Can she at least keep somethings to herself you don’t know what she going through in her own mind.

thing is with mental illness you feel fine for a moment then you get triggered you just fall to that dark hole again

@@bluesky1685 yuppp you can be fine for weeks or months and then boom !

Tamar is a problem to herself. She's speaking about the botched suicide to promote her podcast. She is a chronic attention-seeker who is the lead in her own demise. I don't believe David nor Tamar, and the way that she answers questions is evident. She's still lying and promoting herself.

How do you know if she is being honest with herself. You don’t even know her personally. You sound judgmental. Why say that? Would you want someone to say that about you?

Very true, she’s not ready. Tamron asked the same question (why did you attempted to end your life) several different ways... She never really answered or I missed the answer

It was Tamar choice to do it .

So very true, I don’t think she is ready to come out and talk about the events that have happened , yes , Tamron did very well trying to be gentle , maybe Tamar needed to rest before doing any more interviews .

Crazy Victim

I just wrote that I'm so sad to hear her neglect accountability in the areas that were her fault.

If she truly do the work, I don't think she will ever do reality TV again. Maybe she should self produce her own music while working a "somewhat" 9-5 JOB for a regular paycheck with benefits and until she can do this musically full time on her terms.

ESPECIALLY Nene.

I Agree With You 100%

Hello dear Marsha How You Doing tkoday?

She needs to find another industry...Fame isnt for everyone and she cant take being called out on her bullstuff! She did three shows for WE-Tv and participated in a strike but resigned for more with WE-TV! SHE IS IN AN INDUSTRY THAT DOESNT ALLOW FOR ARTISTS TO MAKE $ LIKE THE PAST! SORRY SAY WHAT YOU WANT BUT SHE WONT EVER SURPASS TONI! SHE ISNT HONEST AND SAID ON HER SHOW THAT HER FAMILY HASNT SPOKE TO HER SINCE THE NAPA VALLEY SCENE BUT HER SISTER TOLD CLAUDIA JORDAN SHE UNFOLLOWED THEM BUT SPEAKS TO THEM! WHO TOLD IYLANA THAT WAS SEXUALLY MOLESTED SHE ONLY SHE AND ANOTHER PERSON WHO WASNT HER FAMILY KNEW ABOUT MOLESTATION NOT EVEN HER MOTHER KNEW???

She doesn’t take rejection well

Yes I wondered how she was going to deal with that. That had to be highly humiliating being pushed from the table. That was a part of her identity. But other woman celebrities were talking about her. She can be fabolous without being their focus of resentment. Fabolous doesn't mean catty.

On top of not being divorced for long

She was struggling before then. Her ex husband treated her so bad. I would cringe when I watched Tamar and Vince sometimes.

all of that is why I have zero sympathy and I dont believe her story. Mental illness and being mean are two different things. If thats the case all of us are mentally ill. She is just a mean spirited person.

Wow...she actually said that?

@@LisaLisaCJ I think she both!

@@LisaLisaCJ wowww I can't believe she said that!

Toni is a living legend....and Tamar is not even the shadow of Toni

Agreed. She just needs to stop!!!!

She need a better acting coach lol... its not funny, there are actually depressed & suicidal people out there: Tamar is NOT 1 of them

Yes! And she needs to focus on God. Social media is killing these celebs

Maybe..but she wanted to be bigger than her sister then she couldn't stop wanting more and more..but more is not always good. She made some very bad choices and like to point the finger..

All she has to do is stop doing the show 🙄

💯🗣️💭📣📢👏 remember it happening to deshawn on real housewives, they wrote her off because she was too boring and with her husband being a pastor he wasn't involved in any scandels.

Me either... maybe they edited it out and she spoke too soon. Sad though!

I'm also confused about that. Especially, since she said no one in her family knew about her being abused.

I think iyanla was right to call Tamar out and she didn’t like it and her mother didn’t like. If she told iyanla that I’m confidence and iyanla didn’t air it then she kept her secret....if Tamar didn’t tell but another family member did maybe they thought she need to have that info to truly understand tamars ridiculousness. But I’m still confused on the truth with that one. But Tamar acting like at 40 or whatever age her going on iyanla was the breaking point highlights the fact that Iyanla was correct about Tamar abs her behavior. Tamar is hyper focus on that show because she got her ass checked in a way that nobody has done or those that have done so Tamar gets into a fight with and iyanla wasn’t having no parts of it. When Tamar finally got fame and true notoriety it was on the bfv and she was dramatic, disrespectful, self absorbed, cruel and never took accountability instead covered it with funny verbiage, lip smacks and eye rolls. Naw, iyanla wasn’t what cause anything. She has been allowed to be horrible to others and highlighted that for further fame and didn’t like being called out. How as a person with all those negative feelings about reality tv did you sign yet another contract to do more reality tv? Your not new to the game so how did they dupe you? If you’re feeling suicidal, who is worried about going to work? I wish no normal person harm but she a regular person just like the dramatic asshole type person we all know in our real lives. We all know someone like Tamar. We may say “ohh girl I can only take so much of ____” or “___ is always doing the most. Thinkin she can treat people any old kinda way”...I know someone who did a dramatic pretend suicide in my family. Literally wanted sympathy for yet another f up that she couldn’t hide so she created a narrative that she was suicidal. It’s sad. It is really sad because there are people who are truly struggling with suicidal thoughts And depression. I agree with another commentator, if she’s really concerned with her mental health she needs to take time off from all media including social media and remove herself from the entire Hollywood life and work on herself. She is blessed an lucky enough to not need to work for survival because financial she should be in a strong space and if she’s Not Logan’s dad should be. She’s needs to stop and accept the hard truths about her character and behavior and focus on becoming a better her.

it was said behind the scenes to her family w out tamar’s consent

Someone on the show shared it with a producer during that taping... and Tamar felt that Vanzant crossed the line with that knowledge whether she flat out mentioned it or implied it during taping. I didn’t see her mention it though. We wouldn’t have known at all if Tamar hadn’t publicly acknowledged the abuse after that show aired.

She’s not well. When one beefs with everyone then it’s that person. She lost husband, co workers at The Real, new boyfriend, Employer at WETv, her sisters. She’s into it with everyone. She needs help.

@@klimaxxx06 all of that is not just her fault there is other ppl that have had a hand in it.... like why she get blames for everything 🙄🙄

@@daniellesteele6328 It’s her! It’s not all these different people, she’s the common link to all the drama. I hope she gets the help she needs

@@klimaxxx06 I’m glad we all close to her so we know what’s really going on in her life I don’t know why ppl wanna be in the business that much like just leave her alone stop blaming everything on her it’s not just her 👍🏾 GOD BLESS

@@daniellesteele6328 I’m glad to have common sense and can see that those around her for her whole life have concerns with her. It’s not everyone else in her life...it’s her.

stop staring at people...just weird

I live in LA, too. I see celebrities all the time and you are so right! A lot of them look so sad, even the really rich ones. And to think this is the business I'm steady trying to break into ironically... SMH

@@Peace-lt8bc 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@@Peace-lt8bcthat would be you as you’d likely had ran up to her begging for an autograph. THAT is weird. The commenter gave the celebrity space. Star struck and all. That was considerate.

OMG...you just said a mouth full cause that's exactly how you feel. Speaking from experience.

I was told from a friend that it is like being in a dark hole 🕳 and you cannot get out!!Only through Prayers in Jehovah and through Jesus Jesus.

@ J Sue Amen 🙏 Childhood trauma is real & not only that it shapes and mold you into the adult you are today. I'm a Sexual abuse/physical abuse survivor an til this day still fighting some demons but thank God for Therapy an healing.

I always believed her family never gave her the support she needs

Amen 🙏.

Amen in Jesus name

Amen

Amen God only you can help Tamar.

Allah has no son no partner . Jesus is the messenger of Allah Get your life

Tamar was mean to her sisters because she was abused and lashed out in other ways to her sisters. Her sisters should not give her pass but show her love unconditionally.

Agreedd... she was mean for ratings and this is the result... I do believe she feels bad for it but does she understand it. It seems that she willingly played the villain and the end result was chaos unfortunately

Do y’all think iyanla was right for checking her or calling her out?

So, BFV, Tamar and Vince, Get Ya Life, and The Real - none of them art the REAL Tamar? People always show their true colors eventually. Can't be different to each group of people. Tamar is the common denominator in the breakdown of all her relationships.

@@tb718w If someone really is seeking help, they would not behave the way Tamar does.

It's like you read my mind🤞

Best comment lol

@@tokelomalatji803 you're south african 😂😂😂🤞🏾

@@user-br7qc3fv4o thwii

clearly, you must've of missed her accountability part ... this isn't the full interview. it's longer. she already owned up to the fact that she was rude and she owned up to her being the problem. y'all just refuse to see it ...

She does look beautiful and I hope she finds the peace and happiness she deserves!

LOLOLOLOL NICE

She defined "good" as being better than she was yesterday.

@@egyptscott4801 why is that nice?

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Sounds like its HER FAULT. So was desperate to be in the spotlight. Thought it was cute to be all over the top...wanted the fame. I dont feel sorry for her. At all!!

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I agree! She will be in complete control. I have seen the other girls of the real doing it well

Not a bad idea

Absolutely right!

She sounds like she's rehearsed her answers so much that nothing comes across as genuine. It seems scripted if that makes sense.

@@ladys5289 her representative showed up. Cute for the cameras.

You hit the nail on the hid w/ this comment.

Very well said..WE LOVE YOU TAMAR❤

Meds... you know how those ppl become puppets

what does it take for her to be authentic . I am curious to know since we all behave the same during stress and hurt...

I think she had tears in her eyes at one point and had to look up.. but we all knows she has key points to hit

She is authentication. You obviously don't know her🤦🏽‍♂️ she wanted to kill herself SHE IS SERIOUSLY HURTING

When did Iyanla say she was sexually abused?

Yeah she asked like 4 different ways, Tamar never answered

She sold her soul for fame

Agreed

Nailed it 🔨

They aren’t torn apart, they don’t fool with her. Vincent said she had a problem long before

That's what reality tv does to people and their families.

Bingo!!

I feel that too

Not one ounce of accountability....this interview was a waste of time

Tamar is still acting... Her being a dramatic brat has cause the disfunction in her family... She has to grow up and take accountability.... This fake crying is killing me... I can't...

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Nope. Not nan one! 😂

That’s what I was LITERALLY just thinking

I feel. Tamar is lying. She seems very desperate for attention. Any kind of attention. Very sad.

She's such a drama queen. I'm sorry about her being molested. She can be verbally abusive to people and I believe David when he says she attacked him. She needs to stay off 📺. She's crying and not tear

All these comments are so true...im watching this like Girl Bye.. Its too early she needs to be off camera and take a break. Smh

@@shayk9227 she loves the camera and attention, good or bad, so she will never take a break 🤦🏽‍♀️

@@nawal10 right

Facts so I didn't understand why they blame David for something they never really addressed thier issues

Yessssss...she mos def hv to heal & be honest b4 she can encourage & inspire any1 else

No change in eye color even

Botox will do that for you.

Glad you said it first. Didn't want folks coming for me in the comments. Its difficult to take her serious because she's such a character. I like her and hope she gets the help she needs

she is the latter...

@@adrienneb4009 I feel the same way ... I’ve been rooting for Tamar since the real... but she needs real people to tell her the truth ... let me not say more

fake shit they never cry!!!

IKR, fake...

its extremely difficult to out a family abuser, because even though u are the victim, families don't like dirty secrets aired. they will sweep all the shit under the rug, then what? you've spoken but everyone else has shut up, so who really protects the abusers?? family or victim?

@@vickyserr everything you said about families wanting to keep sexual abuse a secret is true, but Tamar's story is no longer a secret. She was outed by a family member who works on the show; and it was aired for the world to see. It will never be undone.

@@DyanaRozay I wouldn't want to be outed, wasn't their place to do that. its Tamar's story, not theirs. The truth always finds it's way out.

@@vickyserr all of it is true. You out the victim and everyone will turn on you and sweep it under the rug. The only thing you can do is get help for yourself.

@@DyanaRozay this is what I don’t understand. When was she outed? On iyanla or the bfv show?

@everlasting gobstopper is this a trick question? I immediately interpreted that as meaning her mother putting things together that was happening in her house. Chileeeeeer lol 🥴🥴🥴

@Jasmine Dickerson you are overly invested in this comment lol. You should simmer down, relax, and meditate. It’s not that serious love 😂

Sometimes you have to separate from toxic people even if it is your mother ,and sister.

You want to be famous so you got it..

I think her mother didn't know because Tamar hid it for a long time, they probably threatened Tamar not to say anything we don't know the full story

She hasn't healed ONE BIT! And you're right, she's too busy trying to do damage control when really the only way she can fix the damage is to go get therapy for herself. I have never seen this kind of behavior before!

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huh?

Always

@@Litteratuer_Dee she doesn’t but okay…

@@misswinter5329 On the show she did .. a lot. But okay ..

Facts fake asf

stoppppppppppp🤐😖😖

LOL cuz they can't be bothered

No contact allowed social distancing interview

@@samanthacampbell4152 have u ever seen a tissue box on a table u sound dumb

@@vickyserr what are u saying stop about what I did not lie about it

I agree. I feel for her, but she did all that sniffling and didn’t shed not one tear. I feel like it was rehearsed. If you are about to cry, it’s really hard to hold back tears for that long and she did it soooo many times.

I’m not getting a genuine vibe from her either

The woman just attempted suicide. How dare you say she is not genuine. How would you feel if it was you? You are horrible human beings!!

I agree. She could be numb and still think she has to give a certain presentation for the world. Wouldn't surprise me if she is medicated too. She hasn't learned or built up enough courage to be 100% authentic, that will take her some time.

You're right. I know what you mean. She is totally fake here but it doesn't mean she isnt feeling anything. It's just that she is still acting and presenting an image which is unhealthy

That's a very critical statement but then everyone has an opinion.

That’s very disrespectful to someone pain no matter what y’all will still give her back lash she can never win even when she tryna tell her story HER experience we really don’t know what happened all we see is what is on the tv and they edit it so let’s stop judging Folks👍🏾

Her whole life is a show.....Toni Braxton wannabe

Exactly Tracy was treated like a dog especially by Tamar its amazing that she is now crying victim. She's toxic as hell

Tamar is a 10 Brat always looking for Attention. She acts like a Narcissist !!!

I always say this!!! Iyanla is dangerous and to televise these ppl in “therapy” I feel is exploitive. To each its own... I’m sure she’s help some but she has no license in mental health which I think is more than necessary when unpacking certain traumas...

I was thinking the SAME THING!!!! I’m not gna lie, she just does not seem genuine to me. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Damn like being in a depressive mode you go through the motions. These motions are different from people to people. With me I was literally a zombie no emotions whatsoever then I moved into anger (angry at everything & everyone it didn't matter to me). With Tamar acting up it shows that she genuinely has some underlying issues. This is applicable to everyone really, there's always a source. If you're a pathological liar perhaps you were lied to a lot, if you are a bully perhaps you were bullied in some way. I don't think this was an attention seeking stunt by Tamar. & Also it's difficult to stop old habits.b

Oh goodness I don't even think I made any sense. The construction of the entire essay is horrible. Please disregard 🤦🏽‍♀️

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she gives "heartfelt apologies" then sideswipes everyone in her family...this whole interview is manipulation