“All your closets of backlogged dreams and how you left them all to me” and her grandmothers voice singing as taylor lives out those dreams gives me chills every time

The way she's able to make grief specific enough to be meaningful to her, and yet generic enough to be meaningful for nearly everyone else. This song also gets to me because of my fathers passing. I still have one of his handwritten grocery shopping lists that he wrote on a post-it note, so when she says "shouldve kept every grocery store receipt, because every scrap of you would be taken from me" I cry like a baby.

I adore this song. And I love how her grandmother’s voice sounds echoing throughout stadiums across the world. What a lovely tribute. I really do believe there’s been a few times her grandmother s spirit has visited with Taylor on stage. When her piano played itself, and when Taylor’s hair was being played with (on one side only) while at the piano straight after this song, I feel like Marjorie was making her presence felt.

The voice singing near the end is her grandmother who was an opera singer.. Kills me every time

Bigger than the whole sky and this one gut me every time.

As a 57 year old male I can tell you this song hits me every time. Besides my grandmother I have lost both my parents and this song always has me thinking of all the saying they would tell me growing up. I became a Swiftie because my daughter is close to Taylor's age so I had to listen to the music and I would take her to the concerts every time she came to town on tour.

"Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go." Jamie Anderson This always helps me when the love overwhelms me and the person I want to give it to is no longer here. 2:22

Fun fact - the lights in the stadium is something the fans started during one of the shows and it continued on since then. 😊

Please do tolerate it live at eras! It’s AMAZING

I hope you watch the lyric video of this song, so moving! And you will see how her grandma influenced Taylor's love for music, letting her sit on Marjories lap as a toddler just banging away at the piano.

Experiencing this live is something I will never forget. It was such a touching,moving moment 😭

I'm sorry for your losses. My granddaughters watch this concert at my house all the time and when this song comes on the 8 yr old gets teary eyed and tells me I can never leave her. It just breaks me ❤

Thank you for your vulnerability and strength- sending you love and care.

Hugs and condolences to you.❤ I lost my daughter to Covid and this song is comforting to me. The words "If I didn't know better I'd think you were listening to me now" and "you're alive in my head" is so meaningful.❤ Stay safe

From what I’ve gathered, during the first or second show of the tour, the crowd lit up their phones without being prompted when she sang this song and it brought her to tears.

Marjorie is one of the most relatable to me too! I always cry because I remember my grandmother, she always had a song to any word we speak to her, so when Taylor sings “I think you’re singing to me now” It’s like me going in ruins!! Love the reaction as always!

I've read that the audience turns on their phone lights when Marjorie is being played. ❤

Another song from her that gets me every time I listen is Soon You'll Get Better about her mom. I cry every time just like in Marjory. 😞

I’ve lost all of my grandparents and even my husband’s grandparents and they just can’t ever be replaced by anyone. Losing them means losing pieces of ourselves.

I sobbed my way through this song when i saw the Eras Tour in Minneapolis. My grandmother passed a few years ago, also named Marjorie, and unfortunately when we lost her, we lost a lot of the familial get-togethers with my dad's 6 older siblings and their broods. Add to that, my show date was a week shy of the 3 year anniversary of my mother's passing, and i was a mess. But in the best, most "i feel so understood" kind of way (and i didnt make a scene).

My brother, my niece and I went to see the movie and when this came on we both looked at each other and cried. I didn't ask who he was thinking of (we had different relationships with different relatives) but either way, we knew we were missing someone and understood each other.

That's a great beautiful song Taylor is amazing. My father and grandmother passed 14 hours apart when I was 21. Great reaction

I hadn’t seen that the crowd lights up during this song, before I saw it last year, and when I looked around and saw 70k in a room lighting up for Taylor and this beautiful, it was one of the best moments of the night for me. This song already hits because I’ve lost all of my grandparents by the time I was 9, so it was extra special live.

You needed this after they made you do Stay, Stay, Stay. Marjorie is such a great song!

One of my favorites. I cry every time. I lost my mom 10 yrs ago and many other loved ones. It is beautiful and painful to listen to . And her singing it on Eras tour destroyed my soul 😭 oooh I like Carolina. Also I am very sorry you loss🙏

Beautiful commentary. My heart is with you. Have a Swift day.

This song is so 🤍

Thanks for sharing your personal story about how you related to this song. Anyone who's lost someone important can relate. I really enjoy your Taylor Swift reactions and think you are the best one out there because of your genuine reactions.

We need an entire eras tour movie reaction on Patreon…. Just sayin 😜

This song unexpectedly gave me chills at the tour. It is so effortlessly beautiful and moving

This song reminds me of my mom. She passed when I was 21. Every scrap of you was taken from me. Hits me

I took my husband to her show last year he had never heard this song. He had to sit down and take a moment when he heard this without even knowing what the song was about. His grandmother had passed away few months before and it hit him so hard.

It’s so special that her grandmother was an opera singer & how they put her vocals in the background of this song. I know this song is really poignant for those who have lost loved ones. Plus I don’t blame you for wanting to continue watching😅you need to do the entire eras tour movie in one sitting!!!

Christmas tree market by TS is so cozy and so about those family moments

❤❤❤Nick you are just a big softie...that is why I enjoy your reactions soooo much...your thoughts, your voice...your feelings are real, that says so much about who you are...I appreciate your opinions so much, thanks...

I JUST lost my grandpa, just earlier today, and I've had this song (unwillingly) in my head since I got the news. I was actually scared to watch this when it popped up in my feed because I knew this song was going to hurt but hearing your perspectives on it is honestly so helpful. I still haven't fully processed the news but your thoughts help me realize it'll be okay in the end..even if it doesn't feel like it quite yet...I guess I don't fully know how to phrase what it eased in my heart.

Thank you for being so real and honest about how this song personally touches you. I’m so sorry for your loss.

I love that "marjorie" is in the set list so she can bring her grandmother on tour with her.

-hugs- Loss is hard. And this song paints it beautifully. “ every scrap of you would be taken from me” hurts me the most I think. My mom died in 2018. My dad died in 2021 and my Grandmama who was my best friend died and 2023. I clung to their personal items and things. Especially my grandmother. I found actual scraps of paper that I didn’t want to part with where it just had her handwriting or something she thought was funny or a prayer or recipe. over time I’ve been able to let go of some of the things that I’ve kept, but only when my heart felt ready to let go a little bit more. I pray for comfort and peace and healing for your heart.

Finally lol. I've been waiting for you to do this song. Beautiful song. I've sadly lost all my grandparents. And when she said should've asked you to right it down for me or kept every grocery store receipt. You just don't know how true that feeling is until you lose someone. Cherish every second you have with them.

I absolutely love your gradual appreciation of Taylor Swift talent. I know you hate the song, but I became a Swiftie after "Shake it off" and then "Blank Space", because I realised she is this talented dork who has no problems making fun of her image. I'm not really a "pop" person but Shake it off is an amazing song to sing to myself when I'm feeling stressed from other people's actions and attitude and there's nothing I can do about it. The chorus is a perfect 30 second dance party song to remind myself that I am not responsible for other people's actions. Since folklore and evermore, I've been astounded my the songs which are not given the airtime they deserve. Her lyrics and phrases are so fucking beautiful, and so powerful. She has an amazing poetic way of writing and I literally am blown away by her

I lost my mom 7 year ago. We went to Taylor concerts together when I was in high school. She loved hearing me sing her songs. When she played this at the Eras Tour I completely lost it and bawled my eyes out. The energy in the stadium was incredible. It’s like you could feel everyone’s loved ones there 💕

I just love that her grandmother gets to sing or be heard at her shows everytime she sings this song. I’m sure she would’ve loved to see tay perform or perform with her in shows as big as this.

I absolutely love this song. Being there in person and hearing how her grandmother’s voice echoed thru the stadium was unforgettable and haunting in the best of ways. Please please please review the entire ERAS tour!!!

Im a middle aged asian man in asia, definitely not a swifty but this is one of my favourite songs ever

The opera singing In the background is her grandma, marjorie

I can't get through this song without tears or a lump in my throat. I think of my sweet feisty mamaw, my tiny spit-fire grandma, and my every single day pearls and heels 👠 wearing Great Gram. It also doesn't help that since December I have lost my dad, a cousin my age, and an aunt. Tay knows how to land a gut punch. ❤ So, I feel your, my friend. Losing parents, grandparents, family, and loved ones is so hard. I'll be praying for you. 🙏

I took my 76 yo mom to the movie and she didn’t know half the songs. This one, she grabbed my hand and cried all the way though. She misses her mommy still. 😢

im sorry for your loss. Youre so brave 🙏sending you love

You know what song gets to me is "Soon You'll Get Better"... 😢

One of my favourites 🥹

I saw this live on my best friend’s birthday ( she passed away in 2019) and when I tell you I was bawling… this song is healing to me 💓

This is so wholesome 🤍🤍

Thank you so much for sharing these reactions! I got the chills everywhere also!

I'm so sorry for your loss. 💔 Not a massive Swiftie, but I think everyone going down this rabbit hole finds at least one song that just speaks to their soul. She's so good at being specific with her own experience whilst somehow summing up the same experience for everyone else (grief, break-ups). Marjorie, Tolerate It and All Too Well all do this for me. P.S. I know you've done All Too Well, but watching the short film or better, the Eras live version will maybe make you see it in a new way. It would be interesting to see if there's a difference for you. Because it's like this, where it's not so much about the vocals, it's the journey.

Out of EVERYTHING I've seen on the Internet about the Eras tour over the past year... why is Tolerate It never mentioned? It's a beautiful and heartbreaking performance. 💔

I always get emotional listening to this song, it really hits home, I can't help but thinking about my mother and grandmother who have already pasted away. Just beautiful.

I’m so sorry about your dad and grandma. I lost my dad 17 years ago and I still wish I’d “asked him questions” and “kept receipts” like Taylor sings. Never gets easier. But your dad would be proud of you, I know it.

This song is so special. Especially for those of us that have experienced loss. A highlight of the tour for me. ❤❤

This one gets me in the feels too. My grandpa my mom and dad have passed but miss them every single day. Hold onto the memories and don’t ever forget those who have passed. 💗

Every time I watch the video I cry because it reminds me of my grandma

I cried when this song was played in Tokyo .. beautiful song

Please watch the music video to this song. It’s an amazing and shows video clips of her and her grandmother ❤ also, the opera voice you hear is her actual grandmother’s voice.

They are still with us... regardless of what our minds might tell us about "I know better" listen to what the heart knows...

5:53 all the chills! Tears. Music helps us heal. ❤

Sending you love and hugs. 💔💕

It breaks me when she says, "because every last scrap of you would be taken from me...."

During her performance everyone turns their flashlights on and I definitely cried

My condolences!!

Brilliant reaction ❤I felt your emotions 🙏🏽

The lights in the crowd are the phone flashlights that we Swifties turn on to honor Marjorie

I know what you’re saying lost my dad in 2012 and almost to the date a year later we lost our mom it’s been really hard and I heard this song the first time I started bawling

❤❤❤ sending you love

So sorry for your loss. I’ve had those feelings related to losing my mom.

Her grandmother was an opera singer, it’s her we can hear in the back

Love this song!

❤❤ this one hits so hard

I’m sorry for your loss 😔

Your family members are resting in peace

I get it. We lost my sister 2 years ago and got nothing of hers. Her husband sold or gave away everything of hers within just a few months, so it’s like she vanished and we got no closure.

She really left me inheritance and family thought they could take it and I would never know. Well this song alone helped me find it.. you'll be real shocked when I get to share what that inheritance is

That is her Grandma singing Opera in the background.

I'm sorry for your losses ❤❤

Im glad Carolina is stuck in your head, your mother would be so happy about

Can we please watch the Era's tour. I think you would loveeeee it. Can do a video for each era in order🥹

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nice

I love that last part. How the hell you don’t like Marjorie? Lol 😂

if this song means a lot to you, i’d recommend reacting to “soon you’ll get better” from the lover album. one of the most amazing songs i’ve ever heard.

Thats whats she does

PLZZZZZ DO TOLERATE IT. ERAS TOUR VERSION. YOULL SEE WHY.

So sorry about your dad and grandmother.

This song absolutely destroys me. "I should've asked you questions I should've asked you how to be Asked you to write it down for me Should've kept every grocery store receipt *'Cause every scrap of you would be taken from me."* My beloved uncle was murdered in February 2023. That last line is BRUTAL. 😔 (Sidenote: another one is'Soon You'll Get Better.' it makes me think of my sweet son after I told him I was diagnosed with Melanoma. I got incredibly lucky and I assured him I would be okay. In that moment I saw my son have the realization, in real time, that I won't be around forever. It was devastating but also incredibly beautiful.)

Does anyone know when he’s reacting to 1989

Did i missed your first reaction to marjorie or it wasn't on YT?

Her real name is actually Marilyn

Your actually moving