Tea blablabla - deal with depression and anxiety, asmr

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Tea blablabla - deal with depression and anxiety, asmr

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Күн бұрын

This is the complete video. Last night I uploaded a shorter version without knowing that I missed the main part. I got a lot of heartfelt comment from that video so I will not delete it. The following link is the shorter video. You may find lot of inspiring comments there.
• Tea blablabla - teenag...
Some young friends asked my thoughts on some touchy topics such as teenager depression, anxiety of going outdoor and living with an abusive family member. I did not know the entirety of their situations. In stead of going to details, I do a blablabla empty talk on these topics.
Here is a resume of this video:
1. Set goal and make achievable, visible landmarks to secure its execution.
2. Accept or create pressures and benefit from the stress.
3. Nurture a hobby, interest or specialty into passion and chase it.
4. Make effort and work it.
5. Your homework: Comment here on how to improve my youtube channel, increase view count, expand subscriber base etc.
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@GaryTheGray 6 жыл бұрын

It isn't your makeup videos that make you beautiful...it's the caring and empathy you have for others.

@1Sunrose 6 жыл бұрын

I am drinking mint tea as I watch this. I feel like I am at the table with you. I have been inspired by you to set some goals and work at them. Thank you. I know this will help me.

@SapphireMcCalla 6 жыл бұрын

Just received my first troll comment on Instagram and I must admit, it got to me. On top of that, I’m going through my “bad time”. My boyfriend tried to console me but it wasn’t working. I ran to your channel ASAP because I knew you could help me feel better. The calmness of your videos, the positive energy & the way you care is amazing. I feel like my mind has reset & I feel nothing when I think about the troll comment now. Thank you so much for everything you do, you are a blessing in the youtube world 😘🙏🏾 Time to set some goals first thing tomorrow, so I have things to focus on, to look forward to & to achieve one by one 💪🏾

@yanghaiying 6 жыл бұрын

Congratulation. Having troll is a sign that your made your name.

@Maggie2183 6 жыл бұрын

Don't listen to the idiot troll. I have an fb page and I used to get this weirdo a few years back contradicting me on anything I posted or criticising and disagreeing - some people just can't help themselves. It got to me at first but the best thing was - lots of my other followers used to jump in and stick up for me! So out of this one negative moron making stupid comments, I discovered I'd got about another fifty followers who valued me enough that they were ready to have my back! Plus i realised that if someone has to make shitty comments to make them feel better about themselves, then they're obviously quite a sorry individual. I bet your Instagram is great - keep going!! ✌🏻☀️✌🏻☀️✌🏻

@JaneDoe-zr4px 6 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY! No matter what you do you're gonna have haters. The only way to avoid it is to never do anything - and that's not an option . Love your videos - please keep them coming!

@tammeypotter9515 6 жыл бұрын

" you have great value" I know so many who need to hear this. I also know this touched many of your viewers. You are a remarkable speaker ...your voice is calm but your words are strong ❤

@yanghaiying 6 жыл бұрын

This is so encouraging. Thank you.

@tammeypotter9515 6 жыл бұрын

yanghaiying Thank YOU !

@terryross5619 6 жыл бұрын

My 15 year old son has been listening to you with me for months and your advice really helps him and this message was great! He has an anxiety disorder which makes it almost impossible for him to speak unless he is talking to someone he knows well.. He freezes up when talking to classmates and teachers even. Listening to you helps him to achieve his goals and make some progress with speaking and you have helped him with setting goals for physics and algebra.. With setting achievable goals. Thanks very much!

@spacely123 6 жыл бұрын

Hi Terry, saw your comment and just wanted to share that I was once where your son is, but am so much better now. It sounds like your son is on the right path to feeling better, and with a supportive parent like you, he’ll get there quicker. Hang in there!

@terryross5619 6 жыл бұрын

spacely123 thanks very much for your kind and supportive words 😊

@peacefulasmr3036 5 жыл бұрын

Have u read about selective mutism? My daughter has selective mutism, read all u can about it. It is an anxiety disorder that so few know about. Just knowing what it is and some tips have helped us so much!

@geckoing 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I have depression and anxiety and this really made me smile. You are the best KZfaqr! ❤ xoxo

@martinw.1538 6 жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this, and I am sure many others had to as well. In truth, I’ve told myself, time and time again, almost everything you’ve spoken about. However, when you speak it’s with such a purity, and clarity, that for the first time I’d truly heard the words, absorbed them into myself. There’s something almost magnetic about your videos, how they are so completely authentic and without palaver. I’ve intermittently watched since about 13 years old. I’m now turning 19, and standing, for the first time, at a crossroad in life; this little video couldn’t have come at a better time- thank you.

@jmurray01 6 жыл бұрын

You are such a thoughtful and wise woman Haiying. No matter what is going on in my life your videos always manage to calm me down and provide good advice.

@jballs5434 6 жыл бұрын

You're amazing. 😄🍫 I struggle with depression and I'm trying to fight through. I enjoy your blablablas so at least something cheers me up. 😃

@cjgeminitarot6836 3 жыл бұрын

I have a playlist of these “advice” videos and I listen to them when I work on art projects...it brings me so much happiness 😍

@terryross5619 6 жыл бұрын

I find your videos more enduring because they are not like many of the asmr videos. I love the laid back atmosphere and the realness. I would never want you to change. You may not have as many subscribers as some but the ones you do have love you very much! Better to have a thousand quality sunscribers who appreciate and adore you than a million aloof uncaring strangers. I see a trend in young people starting to listen and that's great! My son and I recommend your videos to everyone.. Haiying for president! 😀😁😊 You would have my vote!

@IamHeather23 6 жыл бұрын

I love you. Your are very down to earth and touch on alot of issues i am having right now. Great advice. Thank you ❤️

@jennieanderson971 6 жыл бұрын

My Dear Haiying,So much comfort and kindness to unhappy and suffering people ✨🌹 You are helping many by making life worthwhile by keeping a goal ! Thank you Dear Friend 🌺

@amandakindt3614 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this beautiful message. It really touched me, this video meant a lot.

@vvcc1450 3 жыл бұрын

I found your channel yesterday and this is the second video I watch. I appreciate your message and your work. Thank you 🎈

@elizabethbrown3016 6 жыл бұрын

You are such a wonderful human 😊🌟

@asabovesobelow7981 6 жыл бұрын

so enjoyed.. took alot of what you said to heart.. ty angel ty my goals list is growing..

@pri22v11 5 жыл бұрын

Yang hiaying! I bought three gongbi brushes from you when I was studying in Glasgow. These three brushes now sit in a liuli gongfang brush pot and remind me of the joy of painting and serve as a positive reminder that hard work reaps benefits and can be fun. You video help me fight my own anxiety and depression! Stay strong you fabulous soul! Many blessing your way!

@SemiLunar1 3 жыл бұрын

I have the same problem having conversations with people, especially at a party. I hate small talk but I’ve felt driven to get better at it to form connections. I think what helped me was like you said “have a goal” so my “goal” during conversation has become to learn more about a person and/or to make a person feel warm and welcome(because I know what feeling left out is like) -I tend to just keep asking questions about things and let them do the talking and most people love that ! 😊 eventually I have thoughts or comical observations I can share. if you feel like your initial questions are dumb I would say you’re being too critical of yourself and most people will not even focus on that. Conversation is definitely an art, and it’s hard.

@Jameszhangdude 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Haiying, you have helped me so much in this video! You're absolutely right, we need goals and discipline to have purpose.

@yanghaiying 5 жыл бұрын

Can not be more true at this moment. Your comment comes right on time, precisely. Thank you.

@Maggie2183 6 жыл бұрын

This is such an inspiring video, I think you're a legend!! Great advice, you're so wise and have such great perspectives on things!! 😘

@Samanthapants0077 6 жыл бұрын

You are a beautiful work of art

@nicaylap6402 8 ай бұрын

I love making a cup of tea before your videos, it makes me feel like we’re having tea together ❤

@taylorposuniak3258 6 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love this video! I wanna see you do a inaudible whisper video so bad! Thank you!

@betweenXtheXstars 6 жыл бұрын

Great move putting "asmr" in the description; that will get you a lot more views! Perhaps cleaning up the audio quality of your videos will also help. Other than that, I hope you do not change much at all. I love the casual authenticity of your videos!

@jballs5434 6 жыл бұрын

What? White noise is the most relaxing part. :D

@betweenXtheXstars 6 жыл бұрын

Jordan Scott To be fair, I totally agree. But, if she's looking to grow her channel more, that always seems to be the first thing the really popular asmrtists tend to do... personally I don't want to change a thing!

@LindseyWestbrook333 3 жыл бұрын

I love and appreciate you soooo much - thank you for your videos and advice

@pumpkinmomma155 6 жыл бұрын

Listening to you always lifts my spirits ❤

@JeniferSheppard 6 жыл бұрын

I love all your videos but especially the blabla and story telling comments. Perhaps you should include "unintentional ASMR" and "advice" in the title, this can fall under that category and those videos always have lots of views

@sara_36511 4 жыл бұрын

I noticed you through asmr and stayed for the activities such as being a team, learning about and how to do dishes. I really liked the tea video bc of the history and colors.

@dawnmcfarland7011 3 жыл бұрын

I don't really know how KZfaq works for content creators, you've been making videos forever but only in the past month or so did you appear in my recommended and I clicked to watch and immediately loved your channel. So I don't know how to get seen more in the first place, but beyond that I think if anyone watches one video of yours and doesn't feel like watching more, maybe they just aren't ready or in the right place in their minds or their lives to enjoy this kind of content. You are definitely touching those of us who need you and what you bring to the table. :)

@niyu4218 5 жыл бұрын

I love your voice its so warm hearted

@hannahweatherly4937 4 жыл бұрын

I watch your videos daily. Literally every single day. I hope you continue to make more of these! I will share your links.

@VladimirMorar 6 жыл бұрын

If you want to improve your channel I just wanna say that I watch your channel solely for tea videos. I don't watch anything else and I'm always waiting for the ASMR and I want more. Its good that you post long ASMR videos, I watch them throughout and KZfaq loves it when people watch long videos. That increases the engagement of your channel and youtube will suggest your videos to more people. So I think you could try posting one tea video per week and nothing else. You can also try to gather interesting objects you can show in the video. something you found in a store maybe. and i love your stories and messages. I listen to them and want to hear more thoughts from you like I always have. sometimes you could do paintings of bamboo while drinking tea. I love your old bamboo painting videos

@VladimirMorar 6 жыл бұрын

and You could have a travel/vlogging channel separate from this channel maybe

@terryross5619 6 жыл бұрын

Vladimir Morar personally I love many of haiyings videos through the years.. Not just the tea.. I listen to the magazine ones.. The blablablas.. The yogurt ones & everything in between. Everyone is different and I think the variety in her videos offers something for everyone.

@jennieanderson971 6 жыл бұрын

Vladimir Morar yes I would love to see more blablabla... or maybe maybe trips ...✨🌺

@staceyforrest9931 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I am stuck there. You are correct.

@bupbeinc 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Haiying, I am a youtuber and I think one way to improve the view of your videos is to change the tittles a little bit. Make it so that people who never watch your videos before can understand the tittle. Use words like "How to deal with.." "tea talk" 'how to lose weight.." keep it short and simple, you will gain views! you deserve it. Also notice what your viewers like to watch, they like this video because they can understand the tittle and click on it, they also love when you talk about wisdom, you should in fact make more videos like this one! ^^

@yanghaiying 5 жыл бұрын

That is an honest and thoughtful advice. Thank you very much. I will pay attention on this.

@bupbeinc 5 жыл бұрын

only noobs would dislike this video. I love your wisdom.

@clarekoesters3031 6 жыл бұрын

Idk if you know who Mimi Ikonn is, but I would recommend looking at her videos for her intro and bright lighting. Love your videos Haiying!

@NapoleonBonaparteMAGA 5 жыл бұрын

4:31 genius

@nickl6373 9 ай бұрын

Helpful Thx 🙂

@staceyforrest9931 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@cateb5920 2 ай бұрын

You are such a beautiful person yanghaiying xo

@popliliana739 5 жыл бұрын

👍💖

@joer854 3 жыл бұрын

yanghaiying, i love you i love you. i really do

@suntzu3541 6 жыл бұрын

My dear can you please invest in a nice microphone? Thank you for your wise words! I just wish it wasnt as static sounding..

@rarbiart 5 жыл бұрын

There is so much theory about the style of thumbnails... in order to get more views.... but on the hand it attracts the wrong people... those attracted to click bait.