"all your idols are dating...each other." Me: *I KNEW IT*

“Shit, I drank water” that’s the saddest shit I’ve heard in a while.

sorry but if i was in an industry filled with pretty and talented people, i would date them too. i don’t know y’all expect idols not to date, they’re humans too

everyone talking about dating but them making her lose 2 lbs in 2 days is literally abuse thats insane

It's so ironic that kpop companies expect their idols (idol groups) to sing about love and dating without ever being allowed to experience it in the first place xD

the fact that some people think idols are not dating....I feel bad for them tbh

Why is no one talking about the fact that she just casually said she shared a dorm with IU??? 👀👀👀

praying that dating in the industry becomes normal. it’s so sad how they can’t show off their partner because of fans. it makes me feel so bad.

OMG YOU CAN'T JUST SAY IDOLS DATE WITH OTHER MEMBERS OF THE SAME GROUP AND LEAVE IT AT THAT??? MA'AM WE WANT TEA

tbh i'm glad they are dating, i don't know how they can handle all the pressure to be perfect and insecurities, happy to know that most of them have someone supporting them, yk at the end of the day, idols are humans like us

i find it insane that itzy had to go through all this and then jype makes them go on stage to sing about self acceptance and non conformity.. i love the girls but that seems so cruel on the companys behalf

the obsession with being skinny is soo unhealthy, eating disorders must be the norm among idols :(

alot of comments talk about dating, but i'm super curious how backstage look like. is there a lot of male idol who looking down at female idols? is there subtle sexual harrasment/assault? what unexpected wild thing u ever heard or happen infront of you? is the tension between idols group quite high? do they drink a lot and is there any female idols who smoking publicly or among them? and what crossed your mind when you see the fans cheered their fav group but have ill mannered but acting nice infront of their fans? also did any of them joined cult or suspicious faith that went rumour among u guys? ps wtf its 1.2k likes

"they're dating" Me: 😴 "Eachother within the same group" Me: 😳 Spill bestie 😂

It's just weird fans and companies pressure idols to stay single like wtf it's their private life they don't own idols

Ofc every idol is dating...Like EVERY idol. I mean look at them, they’re hot af they’re talented they’re cool, people need to wake up from their dreams

some questions i have in mind: - what did your diet consist of in a typical day as a trainee and how did this differ as an idol? - how is it like backstage at music shows? do boy groups and girl groups mix easily? - how easy is it for idols to exchange numbers? - how can so many idols get away with dating??? how do they do it? - are idols aware of ships? (this includes ships with their fellow members, as well as ships with the opposite sex) do they know about all the edits and fanfics etc? - realistically how much time do idols have to call/video call/hang out with each other outside of their schedules? - do female idols have to be on the pill...? incase they end up pregnant lol - how much do idols gossip between eachother? like does everyone know who’s dating who and what the tea is lool

Is fanservice legit? ex. when a ship is popular, do some idols really get told in their in-ear to hug them, or just generally get told to be more chummy or act a certain way with members? Are there any idols who do this voluntarily to try and increase their popularity?

“they’re dating... each other” skz and txt: moa and stays : * acting surprised *

Honestly I’m glad idols are dating, and I feel like it should be normalized. There’s nothing wrong with having feelings for someone, or wanting to spend your life with someone.

how different are idols from the image the company makes?

Imagine all these beautiful fully grown idols who are constantly seeing each other at award shows, music shows, any type of entertainment gig etc. and believing that most of them aren't dating 💀💀

"All your fav idols.....are dating" me; YESSS IM GLAD TO HEAR THATTTTTTT!!!!!!

Fun fact; Rosé of BLACKPINK actually tries to gain weight. Many times she mentioned how she is on a diet to gain weight and Lisa as well. Jisoo confirmed this she said "I'm not like my members. I need to be more careful about what I eat, but Lisa and Rosé are actually trying to gain weight" Rosé's sister and mom are also super thin, so I think it's about the genes

"they're dating... eachother." it makes sense idols would date other idols because they get the lifestyle but at the same time the lifestyle is super busy and chaotic which makes it hard to date altogether.

Every idol is dating.... The delulus be like ..."Our Oppar can't date"

entertainment companies literally traumatize their idols about their weight WHEN THEY ARE LITERAL KIDS

"they're dating..." me : nah thats normal. "....each other" me : excuse me whattt👁👄👁

can you talk about how foreigners and half Koreans are treated? like is it different or more sought out because of a more exotic look?

"they're dating...each other" I KNEW IT SHJSJXJSISHDHSJS

I've seen a lot of ex-kpop trainees sharing experiences and stuffs. And something that I found in common when it came to friendship of group members was that, most of the time everyone is good to each other. One member expelling is not usually the case of bad situation between members, but rather between the person and the company. So that put me into relief, knowing that probably behind the camera, all the members are still on good terms. But with the recent uproar of bullying cases in groups, I am starting to doubt. Would love to know if it's just drama (simply not clicking), or is it actual bullying. Also, with the resurfacing of this issue, how do you see the so-called 'closeness' between members have when they are in public?

I'm so glad to know that our idols are dating like the delulu fans are the real problem here. the company would let them date if that kind of fans will stop living in their fantasies and accept that their idols CAN date.

Loving the quality and the truth thank you for being brave and honest

You know I can totally understand the whole dating thing. I mean really imagine being an Idol, who else could better understand and bond with you than another idol, and even from the same company. ofc not everybody is like that, but it is much easier to bond with someone if they have been through the same struggles and experience similar problems. I mean maybe in the beginning before you debut it‘s easier to date outside, but I am sure it is weird if you are famous and finding someone who isn‘t famous to date you, because i‘m sorry but it‘s very cringy to date a fan. Like If I were famous I would not want to date someone who knows a lot about me and idolizes me instead of treating me as a normal human being, and potentially getting disappointed because idols are real people and they don‘t live up to every projection you have put onto them how ‚perfect‘ they are. So really it‘s all understandable. But it would be nice for you to make a video to go more indepth, as I find it really interessting how it‘s all done since it‘s so secretive. And I don‘t know about other people but I honestly really support the idols and them having relationships. I mean that‘s how they grow, it‘s a part of life, they are just human and should also be able to have their experiences just like other people do too.

It’s pretty obvious majority of idols are dating even though they hide it. I mean some are single, but you expect me to believe majority of idols are single (especially the ones in their 20s-30s) and that they won’t find love? Lol Let’s be realistic. No matter how busy you are, if you fall in love, you fall in love. There will always be those bashers/delulus, but I hope idols dating can be normalized and be supported by the majority more. If we can date and fall in love, then so can they.

Idols are obligated by their companies to have the "single" image bc that way more albums sell and stock price rises. Think about it, when fans think about an idol, they might think of the idols as their "bf","gf", "bff", "lover". For some fans, it's uncomfortable when you want to think that way about a "taken" or "non single" idol. So they stop stanning that idol and move on to another. Don't believe me? After it was found out that chen of exo has a non celeb gf who's pregnant and that's why they're getting married, "fans" literally protested on the streets to kick him out of exo. What do they do when it's their birthdays? They spend almost thousands of dollars to send gifts. It's like " you can be ours and when you're not, we're throwing you out" This is so so sad bc it's literally materializing and objectifying idols. They're not thought as humans. The more we normalize dating, the more cute couples like edawn and hyuna we get.

Maybe you could talk about bullying in kpop more? Have you ever witnessed it?

"dating each other inside the same group" *gulps on my many ships*

"All ur idol are dating... each other" OFCOURSEE THEY AREE💀✋🏻, most of fans know their idol r dating but just close their eyes, and then keep cheering up and love their idol afhjdslkdhf

16:00 "I might be breaking everyone's fantasies." Girl my fantasy is for them to love each other and finally came out as a couple, by the way I'm talking about the "Same group" couples 😂💕😂💕

Hearing all this, I think it's better to admire idols than to be an idol, life is tough for idols especially when fans want to control them and their lives

For those wondering about when Gina said idols date members of the same group, I think they meant an idol dating multiple members within a group they themselves are not apart of. Like if Yeji dated a member in Stray Kids 2020, then in 2021, dated a different member in that same group.

What are the jobs that the let-go trainees or disbanded group members go into mostly?

Are there gay/lesbian/bisexual idols that you guys know about that is still secret or is being gay/bi a discussion you ever dicuss among your members/trainees?

BlackPink Lisa and Rosie have that like blessed metabolism they don't gain weight easily so like they can eat whatever they want But Jisoo nd Jennie gain weight easily so both of them workout a lot

No one’s gonna talk about how cool it is that she stayed with I.U?!! ♥️

why is everyone so obssesed with idols dating like damn its their lives

,,they are dating each other" Sua and Siyeon: We have been exposed

Can idols end up hating each other because of their fandom fights??

they honestly inspire me so much. they did everything they could to chase their dreams and more importantly, knew when to give up when they found out that maybe it just wasn't for them. It's so hard to give up on a dream that you have worked for your entire life and to be able to do that and still not feel dejected but to move on, and to do better things in life is so incredible! You go girls!! :D

“They’re dating...each other” “and with the members of the same group” jevdisgsiehei SPILL MORE 😭🤚

This might be a bit sensitive, but do foreign trainees/idols receive some degree of racism? Or are they treated differently from Korean individuals?

the tea keeps spilling! remember to listen to Coco's new single "Lately" 🎶💖

when she said "all your favorite idols are dating... each other, and then with the members of the same group" i was like *I KNEW ITT*

"He called me ‘돼지.’ He called me fat." The thing is, 돼지 means pig. Not only did he call her fat, but he literally called her a pig.

Gina and Coco are stunning, real and well articulated. This is the first video I watch from them, one of many...

How do idols cover their stretch marks? I’m curious like when female idols are wearing shorts, how do they manage to hide it?

I got so sad when you mentioned the weight issue.. but yeah it’s true unfortunately. I hope there’s a shift about that someday

ommg this is so fun, the behind the scenes of the industry

The chemistry between you two is incredible. More videos pleaseee

OMG gina lived with iu?? that’s so insane wow

thankyou for spitting the truth abt dating. it’s okay to breaking some people fantasies who are selfish dont want their idols dating or get married. they’re human after all.

Nooo I want the sequel right noww!! These videos are so relaxing and fun I feel like I'm right there talking to you two like we're good old friends 😊💕

I really enjoy their dynamic. Coco is so energetic and honest, and Gina is so down to earth and realistic.

When she said that "everyone dates it's just that how well u hide it" oh yes iKONICS know this for a fact BOBBY hid it so well and just announced on insta that he's going to be a dad next month and is getting married lol he's a genius. 😂❤

While you're here, appreciate Coco's voice. Listen to "Lately". It'll be nice if you can check out her music not just her tea.

I’m already loving this channel

i mean, living in kpop industry is like ur life at school. many people. many hot boys u like. boys have crush on girls, vice versa. so.... it's SO NORMAL to have romance relationship 😘 they might know each other and have crush on each other. imagining how my fav idols have romantic lives makes me SO glad ❤️

I’m shocked that you mentioned BP. Thank you for the tea. Btw you’re both beautiful 🥰

I absolutely love you two together! When I saw this was posted I grabbed my mug and wrapped myself in the blankets bc I knew this was gonna be good! I would love to hear more about dating within the group whenever you guys do this again. Also how do trainees feel to leave their families/home countries at 13 years old. Is training a lot of pressure or it is just viewed as an after school activity. How do idols deal with jealousy and feeling like just another back up singer/dancer to another member who gets more opportunities. Take your time, we know you both have different schedules and it might be hard to get together.

Thank you for giving very resourceful advices😊I appreciate it alot😊I'm honestly looking forward to your next video

this was so good. and thank you for telling people that YES IDOLS DO DATE. also the audition tips about wearing sweats, haven't heard that before and thats so useful.

'they date other members of the same group' then video got cut. I guess when people see chemistry and ship them (from the same group) it isn't too farfetched now xD thanks for the tea ladies ;)

I’m just glad my idols are dating. For my group they just all seems like workaholic so i was scared that they dont have the time to date 😭 but yes plz be dating and HAPPY! oh boy i pray that they dont get into toxic relationships or anything!! If ur reading this, plz choose your partners wisely and think straight even when ur in love!!

In the middle of the video I was so confused with all experience Gina had. Like, it looked she went much deeper into how multiple companies work (I didn't read correctly the thumbnail). So I went to search her and found a video where she explains all her trainee journey. And she mentioned there around 4-5 labels under which she trained or was supposed to debut, calls from survival shows that wanted her as a participant and so on. Her whole journey starting in 2001. This explained why she is so calm and knowledgeable about everything. Highly respect her.

Now this is THE tea I have been waiting for

WE WANT A DETAILED VIDEO ON IDOL DATING THAT'S THE ☕ EVERYONE CARES ABOUT

How do female idols handle periods and shaving etc like it must be so hard, esp if you’re one who experiences cramps and such, and you have to dance in front of a crowd edit: ik some idols don’t experience periods/have irregular periods for various reasons but for the ones that do still get normal cycles how do they handle it

This is a necessary video!! 👏👏👏 Thank you for spilling the tea 🙌💖

can we just appreciate how open Coco is? I love her!

I'm curious if there are any gay/lesbian trainees that became idols (obviously hiding it from the public) and what companies thought about that of what they would do if they find out if a trainee is gay/lesbian

We want more tea about idols dating

Love this so much.. keep them coming, this kind of QnA coffee sessions could be something permanent.👍👍

wow you REALLY spilled all the tea these videos are so good, and the weight/body image part... god that is traumatizing

How often do idols date other idols/people from the industry? Like is that the preference or do idols prefer dating people that are not part of the industry?

Yess to idols dating, I hope my idol is getting some. It burns me out that they have to hide so much.

Loved this! Great vlog video ❤️❤️

I'm excited for the next tea!!!!

I was waiting for this😄 btw I love your new song "Lately" so much Coco😍💖

the most polite idol that you know/seen

I dont know why i love both of u talking each other 😍✨

Thank you for making this video! This has helped me a lot ❤️

Also for the people in the comments trying to force your fantasies/desires on your idols, remember they are people too. You can’t force them to come out or out them! For some of you guys to be apart of the LGBTQ community some of y’all should know better. Y’all knew what it felt like for someone to out you or label you as something that weren’t so why do it to your idols. They will come out when they’re ready. Until then keep it neutral.

I think what she meant by "all of your favourite idols are dating each other and even the members of the same group" refers to, for example a male idol from group A dating a particular female member of group B. But if they split up that same male idol can also be dating other member of group B

I'd love to know more about the dating! Yes spillll. This was such an interesting and fun video i'm excited for more!

Thank you for your honest questions, it was really interesting!

- Is the dating ban only for trainees? - Since you know some idols date, does this mean they are somewhat open with it in the agency? Do the managers know? Can they do something about it? (Same question also applies to the situation below) - Regarding idols dating within their group, how common is it to find LGBTQ+ idols? I know they’re not open to the public, but do managers and other members know?

straight or not im just glad idols are getting some 💀 it’s about TIME

Great job! Looking forward to your future videos! 🌟🌟

this is the first time watching your videos and I can't stop watching!! you two are great omg!! can't wait for more