You Don’t Actually Know What Your Future Self Wants | Shankar Vedantam | TED

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"You are constantly becoming a new person," says journalist Shankar Vendantam. In a talk full of beautiful storytelling, he explains the profound impact of something he calls the "illusion of continuity" -- the belief that our future selves will share the same views, perspectives and hopes as our current selves -- and shows how we can more proactively craft the people we are to become.
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@gurmeetsliet
@gurmeetsliet Жыл бұрын
Things to do for future self: 1. Stay Curious: Expand your horizon 2. Practice Humility 3. To be Brave: You don't have the capability to do things today, but your future self will have different capabilities.
@achmadfariz9219
@achmadfariz9219 Жыл бұрын
Thanks fyi
@evanscooper3780
@evanscooper3780 Жыл бұрын
thanks for this summary. But how to understand "practice humility"?
@ashmitapoudel9719
@ashmitapoudel9719 Жыл бұрын
Just Stay curious Practice humility Be brave Make your future self proud
@mikester314
@mikester314 3 ай бұрын
I wish I could get the last 14 minutes of my life back.
@miteshladani4040
@miteshladani4040 Жыл бұрын
Everyday we become a new person.
@liltunafish1471
@liltunafish1471 Жыл бұрын
Everyday I’m shuffling
@sakxa1964
@sakxa1964 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same every morning.
@LarsonFilms2
@LarsonFilms2 Жыл бұрын
Except my parents, they never change.
@user-mq8sj8ky2q
@user-mq8sj8ky2q Жыл бұрын
如果一个人可能不是以前的你,那信上帝还有意义吗?如何证明现在的你还是从前的你?
@marcosrivera9709
@marcosrivera9709 Жыл бұрын
@glorytogod7738 d77trt
@tobarragl
@tobarragl Жыл бұрын
I discovered Hidden Brain podcast few weeks ago and I can’t stop listening to it. I truly recommend it. Great content.
@taofeekat2619
@taofeekat2619 Жыл бұрын
Who's she? , who made profits for you, am really looking for a pro who can manage my account and make me huge profit
@tobarragl
@tobarragl Жыл бұрын
I don’t know much about this investment guru that triggered all these responses to my initial message. However, Hidden Brain… I do recommend it.
@JohnVincentCMata
@JohnVincentCMata Жыл бұрын
Where I can see this
@gnobre
@gnobre Жыл бұрын
wtf is this thread
@harperho9158
@harperho9158 Жыл бұрын
I like the concept of the illusion of continuity. Although my problem is that when I think of my future self, I have trouble imagining what she would end up being. I know there are so many possibilities. But the advice provided in the video - stay curious, be brave - can apply to the fear of uncertainty of my future self too
@timrichmond5226
@timrichmond5226 Жыл бұрын
Never look back and wish yourself there, only realise your future self will feel the same way about your now.
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 Жыл бұрын
My future self will not wish to be here. *wait...*
@AreebIrshadHindi
@AreebIrshadHindi Жыл бұрын
One of the most thought-provoking, well-presented and well-crafted TED talks out there!
@nikitampmaurya
@nikitampmaurya 7 ай бұрын
Completely agree!
@AreebIrshadSimplifies
@AreebIrshadSimplifies 7 ай бұрын
Nice @AreebIrshadHindi
@theoneandonly9298
@theoneandonly9298 6 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!
@Areeb_Irshad
@Areeb_Irshad 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@exethanter6124
@exethanter6124 Жыл бұрын
Captivating story: ✅ Compelling problem statement: ✅ Backed by science: ✅ Actionable insights: ✅ "You're going to be a different person sooner than you think. So you might as well be in charge of who you're going to be." Not often do I find a TED talk that gave me chills and lit a fire inside of me at the same time. Saved this in the hope that my future selves will go back to it from time to time.
@ilikepineapple8579
@ilikepineapple8579 Жыл бұрын
Well said!
@mdjubayerhossen4120
@mdjubayerhossen4120 Жыл бұрын
Captivating story: Compelling problem statement: Backed by science: Actionable insights: "You are going to be a different person sooner than you think .So you might as well as be in charge of who you are going to be " Not offend do I find a TED talk gave me chills and lit a fire inside of me at the same time .Saved this in the hope that my future selves will go back to it from time to time
@nooder0ni
@nooder0ni Жыл бұрын
This one genuinely deserves more traction. That last note, even on its own, was particularly worthy of applause. Kudos. 👏
@fuzzygreen3634
@fuzzygreen3634 Жыл бұрын
That was a good one. If you have ever come across comments you wrote on youtube, or in a journal, or elsewhere from 10+ years ago, you know exactly what this guy is talking about. I sometimes stumble on such previously written messages, that no longer align with my thinking at all. It's a strange thing, that my digital ghost and I are not the same, or at least we have significant differences psychologically.
@DavidOrtiz-jy3co
@DavidOrtiz-jy3co Жыл бұрын
Very strange indeed. Also weird to think that my future self will have a different way of thinking than the current me.
@aphra9625
@aphra9625 Жыл бұрын
It is precisely for this reason that I’m going to actively leave comments on YT videos.. just so that I can come back years later and see how much I’ve changed. Also I like your “digital ghost” phrase, it made me come back to your comment to read it once more.
@KrinchiD
@KrinchiD Жыл бұрын
Very true. I have noticed the same thing with my old comments.
@CarlosC0311
@CarlosC0311 Жыл бұрын
@@KrinchiD hey man, just saw a comment from U like was from 3 years ago saying you couldn’t move on from a relationship that happen a long time ago. How you feeling today? Hope you’re doing ok!
@KrinchiD
@KrinchiD Жыл бұрын
@Carlos C Hi. Thank you for reaching out. I am doing a lot better today. I recently started dating a really kind and understanding gentleman. It's amazing being able to trust again. He lives far away, so things are going nice and slow, and we are taking the time to really get to know each other. It's really nice.
@sophieblooming8555
@sophieblooming8555 Жыл бұрын
Whenever I revisited the timestamped entries I wrote years ago in my diary, I would do an air hug to my younger self for making many choices along the way to pave the road to me today. I know my current self will do the same for the future me. I learned to draw at 31, calculus and coding at 39, belly dance at over 40. I know a lady started taking piano lesson after retirement and she played beautifully in her 80s. So definitely the key to the future is in your hands.
@brianmillerspeaks
@brianmillerspeaks Жыл бұрын
I love this so much, on two levels. One, as a speaker and consultant on human connection. Most of my work centers on helping people understand other perspectives. But there's a perspective I never really consider - your own, in the future. And two, as a speaking coach for TED-style presentations. This talk is masterfully crafted and delivered. Perfect example of how to tell stories as a vehicle for an idea, not merely for story's sake.
@nethmisenadheera4919
@nethmisenadheera4919 Жыл бұрын
Correct!
@MoonCrab00
@MoonCrab00 10 ай бұрын
Stoicism talks about this. Essentially instead of religions devil and angel on your shoulders decided what’s “good” and “bad” based on present culture you ground yourself in reality. Instead you place your 10yr self and your 90yr self on your shoulders. What perspectives do they offer?
@gregraj
@gregraj 3 ай бұрын
​@@MoonCrab00excellent point 👌🏻
@thelifeofahuman3666
@thelifeofahuman3666 Жыл бұрын
the fact that I am also a 22-year-old electronics engineer who just left her job and now has no idea what the future will look like this talk is like a universe's sign that one is just supposed to move in life with passion and love And one day we will reach a place where we belong.
@ArchitectingHappiness
@ArchitectingHappiness Жыл бұрын
I gave you a standing ovation from my living room. 🙂 Amazing insightful talk and ideas. Both my current, and future self thank you for sharing your wisdom and perspective with us.
@gabbaalex713
@gabbaalex713 Жыл бұрын
He is a gem. Great man.
@julierobinson8173
@julierobinson8173 4 ай бұрын
Love this ❤❤ the unknown and unknowable 1. Stay Curious 2. Remain humble (humility) 3. Be brave Thank you Shankar...I love this talk and have listened to it many times and sent it to my family and friends to watch also ❤❤🙏🏾
@italoribeiro3746
@italoribeiro3746 4 ай бұрын
The Italo from Jan. 2024 appreciated this video❤
@fernandavofchukmarkus2246
@fernandavofchukmarkus2246 Жыл бұрын
Honestly, one of the best TEDs ever. I'm speechless yet my mind is speeding like crazy.
@piccolaradge8333
@piccolaradge8333 Жыл бұрын
Agreed! And dito
@cuteonlinewaifu
@cuteonlinewaifu 11 ай бұрын
this this thissssss🎉
@Underwhelming_LDN
@Underwhelming_LDN Жыл бұрын
Ted talks are cool because it's someone making a point and then having the platform to explain it WITHOUT being shouted down and disagreed with for likes. I wish more people watched this stuff.
@ShalomSimplified
@ShalomSimplified Жыл бұрын
This makes you wonder about the massive time and money investment into our education when we don't know if our future selves will still want that career. I went to school to become a web developer, and I did learn useful skills, but I never actually worked as one. I didn't even work in the tech industry at all. Little wonder so many people end up feeling "stuck" and having midlife crises. Also wise to rethink any change that would be permanent that your future self may indeed regret. Like permanently altering your body in some way. I enjoyed this presentation and I'll be seriously considering subscribing to his podcast. :)
@alidmo3262
@alidmo3262 Жыл бұрын
haha, I killed myself to study music, only to become a web developer !
@ShalomSimplified
@ShalomSimplified Жыл бұрын
@@alidmo3262 Ha, one never knows! I would love to study music, myself :)
@henrytsao1
@henrytsao1 Жыл бұрын
almost burst out crying when he said your future self will say "thank you"
@user-qi4ll9re4w
@user-qi4ll9re4w 3 ай бұрын
One of my favourite talks. Just as my previous self could not predict my current self, my current self cannot predict my future self. Obvious yet profound. Begs the question: is there even a "true" self? So many of our belief systems and cultural practices rely upon the assumed existence of fixed and immutable characteristics within a person's makeup. It is odd to imagine a world without this assumption, yet in every other aspect of the natural world we easily accept that change is the only certainty.
@centameta8597
@centameta8597 Жыл бұрын
Remarkable coincidence, Hidden Brain is not hidden anymore. Great topic, excellent touch by Shankar Vedantam. Future myself should thank me. Today is our past, let's change it.
@Chepina_tik
@Chepina_tik Жыл бұрын
Shankar Vendantam is elegance personified.
@chandratyler9567
@chandratyler9567 Жыл бұрын
You are one of the most brilliant people I have ever met. I first met you when I picked up your book "The Hidden Brain" by accident and started to read it. Immediately I loved your style of writing and I deduced that you were incredibly brilliant. Today by accident I watched your Ted Talk and was indeed very ecstatic to see you in person, just like I imagined you would look like. Thank you for being the person you are and sharing with us.
@ismaharry
@ismaharry 7 ай бұрын
I'm so excited about my future... The problem is... When I try to be as fun as possible, as ecstatic as possible, some people out there do everything they can just to put me down, to down my mood and etc. It hurts, right? But, I'm never gonna listen to people, cause I know that doing what you truly desire and like is the only way to happiness)) Start listening to your gut, it must become your best friend, who would help you in the toughest times!
@shekarraj1439
@shekarraj1439 5 ай бұрын
Awesome, thanks again for valuable inputs. It really a gift to have you sharing your wisdom & perspectives with us. I'm glad to have actively participated with you in the youth parliament congress (Bangalore) in the 1980s. Best wishes.
@user-xu9mf8vm2o
@user-xu9mf8vm2o 3 ай бұрын
The person who we are becoming in 10 or 20 years later is different what we think and not have our same views, perspectives. If you accept the idea tat you're going to be a different person in 30 years' time, you should play an active role crafting the person you are going to become. You should be the curator of your future self. You should be the architect of your future self. Most of us don't actually know that our future self are. You might be in charge of deciding who that person is going to be. You have to stay curious to explore yourself and practice humility and be brave to accept change.
@m1sterj
@m1sterj Жыл бұрын
The concept of disliking our past selves hits home hard. Thank you. I needed to hear this.
@ColtonKaplan
@ColtonKaplan Жыл бұрын
Be open to changing. Perspectives change as you grow.
@raymondmutagahywa9991
@raymondmutagahywa9991 Жыл бұрын
This hit me on so many levels. "We imagine that we represent the end of history. That the future is only going to before of the same" Wow.
@ethanchou1123
@ethanchou1123 Жыл бұрын
The problem is what you want and what you thin you want are totally different and many people get confused. What you want comes from heart and it doesn't change, what you thin you want comes from mind and it changes all the time. Look for what you want not what you think you want and it lasts a life time.
@saimanusrat2340
@saimanusrat2340 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful, so much to learn, even about yourself
@vbolt6065
@vbolt6065 Жыл бұрын
There was an urgent need for a such idea in me before! I was afraid of my own ambiguity in the field of interests! Back in a school a dreamed of one thing in college time of another! And that tremendously simple idea of remembering of my future self eliminates that fear and clears up almost everything!
@sinraa
@sinraa 3 ай бұрын
As always - his talks are thought provoking and profound . Thanks Shankar for delving into topics like this.🙂
@serenachen1969
@serenachen1969 Жыл бұрын
I love this TED so much. Believing myself could be the one I wanna be, cause everyday I am changing 💪
@AngDevigne
@AngDevigne Жыл бұрын
Love you Shankar! Your work has been so influential in my life!
@Tuikong
@Tuikong Жыл бұрын
What a message! Spend time crafting what you wanna become. 1. Stay curious by expanding your horizon 2. Practice humility 3. Confront opportunities and be brave in them.
@ivlivs.c3666
@ivlivs.c3666 Жыл бұрын
youtube needs more of this. society needs more of this. beautiful.
@ChristannChanell
@ChristannChanell Жыл бұрын
Beautiful Wisdom. Be Curious. Practice Humility Be Brave! I am grateful! ✨
@yangchengyamu7479
@yangchengyamu7479 Жыл бұрын
I love Shankar it’s been more then 2 years I have been listening to hidden brain his podcast and it really helped to to understand my self and others!
@chitra2647
@chitra2647 Жыл бұрын
This man made me think that the future self of mine is completely a new person whom I'm going to please while I know I will thank my older self. He's making me worried about my relationship of my both the selves.
@rashedrayen
@rashedrayen Жыл бұрын
To the worthwhile person seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤
@wonsunparque
@wonsunparque Жыл бұрын
Wow. One of the best TedTalks I've heard! 1. Curiosity, 2. Humility, 3. Courage.
@sanjanamallya
@sanjanamallya Жыл бұрын
I have had become aware of this about 2 years back at an abstract level. It feels relieving to have someone put this in words. ☺️ Now if I want to express anything about how I'm feeling, I can simply show this video to add clarity.
@JPolanc0
@JPolanc0 Жыл бұрын
Nice to see Shankar on TED, I’m a huge Podcast listener and It’s all because of Hidden Brain, Shankar shape my taste for all the pods I listen to, he delivers thought provoking questions, Hidden Brain is full of good research and amazing guests!
@anitabowers7020
@anitabowers7020 Жыл бұрын
I'm giving you a standing ovation. This was very well done.
@shreyabapat
@shreyabapat Жыл бұрын
This is a masterpiece! The best TED Talk I have heard so far..I could completely relate to it.
@nhathan233
@nhathan233 Жыл бұрын
This speech inspires me a lot . When watching most of TED topics, they are almost derived from excellent achievements. But this topic is very different. It could wake up our recognition about matters in life by simple explanation about the aspects of life. Only one thing that will never change is "Change" . So, be positive about your future creation as an architect of your life.
@deilismartinez9234
@deilismartinez9234 Жыл бұрын
This was so insightful and well put together. Im so glad I watched this video today. It just popped up randomly on my feed. And thankful for Shankar for putting this together - definitely looking forward to listening to his podcast now. This has really motivated me to continue doing the work that I’m doing. Most days I feel like I’m pushing a boulder uphill mentally. It’s hard doing things on a day to day basis that don’t really align with what your current self wants. But this has helped to reinforce why it’s important to stay consistent, and continue doing the work. On bad days I used to tell myself that my future self will thank me, but I’ve lost sight of that recently. So I’m thanking the universe for this video finding me. Stay grateful and blessed y’all. But most importantly, stay curious, practice humility, and be brave 😊
@andyctzh
@andyctzh Жыл бұрын
It is one of the most inspiring video I watched. It tells us how reality is and how we can do better in live, but we aren’t doing it consistently. Thx for the advice
@alidmo3262
@alidmo3262 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful speech in the craft of presenting, bravo Shankar !
@RaceBannonChannel
@RaceBannonChannel Жыл бұрын
I watch a lot of TED Talks. This is now among my favorites. Thank you.
@nurmohammadhridoy9799
@nurmohammadhridoy9799 8 ай бұрын
One of the most alluring and well presented Ted talks. Lots of new perspective just opened to me. I really need time to process these new views!!!!!!
@annadobysh1420
@annadobysh1420 Жыл бұрын
Wow, it's such a gripping speach. I heard lots of others advice, but yours are the most thought-provoking. To expand our horizon we should be curious, convey humility and be brave. Actually, it doesn't sound so difficult, we can change our lifestyle in accordance with you piece of advice. Let's see what happens after 5 years. Thank you!
@soundm3d
@soundm3d Жыл бұрын
geniius speech, thank you.
@stefanosbilis1496
@stefanosbilis1496 22 күн бұрын
his podcast is truly phenomenal, it has such captivating stories that help teach some of lifes most valuable lessons. It helps listeners acctually be able to grasp what some of these old sayings truly mean.
@bigd4561
@bigd4561 Жыл бұрын
I do not know if I should smile or shed a tear. Deep.
@levivavap
@levivavap Жыл бұрын
Love this presentation. Thank you, Shankar Vedantam.
@user-jn7fe2zd8d
@user-jn7fe2zd8d 6 ай бұрын
Mind-blown after watching this TED talk on understanding our future selves. The exploration of how our present choices may not align with what our future selves truly want was eye-opening. The psychological insights shared make me rethink decision-making and long-term goals. Kudos to Shankar for shedding light on this fascinating aspect of human behavior. Can't wait to apply these insights in shaping a more intentional future.
@megchristensen7667
@megchristensen7667 Жыл бұрын
this is one of the best TED talks i've seen
@KBISTranThiMinhChau
@KBISTranThiMinhChau Жыл бұрын
this is the second time i watch this speech. Stay curious, practice humility and be brave. I'm on my way to build my new self. Thanks so much!
@abhishekagrawal3405
@abhishekagrawal3405 Жыл бұрын
Amazing talk & amazing thaught. I always used to think that, the things that I wanted in the past, why don't I want them now. You have answered that question wonderfully.
@sisla_
@sisla_ Жыл бұрын
Every thing he said about the topic hits so personal
@user-um1zo7bp1t
@user-um1zo7bp1t 11 ай бұрын
I like the moment he was smiling and said "thank you" at the end of the presentation.
@rashaal7954
@rashaal7954 Жыл бұрын
That is JUST AMAZING!! Thank you so much for sharing ❤
@markmelon3529
@markmelon3529 Жыл бұрын
One of THE most enlightening talks ever.
@mohamedelfatih9826
@mohamedelfatih9826 Жыл бұрын
I think he means perseverance in doing what you are doing. I can easily relate bravery, curiousity with being open minded to life. This is highly characteristic with japanese society
@adspence
@adspence Жыл бұрын
Great TED Tak Shankar! I love your podcast!
@araynajoy5608
@araynajoy5608 Жыл бұрын
I used nearly constantly preoccupied with how my future self would look back at me. I agree with what is said here. Stay curious, practice humility, and be brave are good goals. However, when this idea became a brainworm for me, it hurt so bad. I am a people-pleaser, and my future self just became another person to please. It's like I was looking up to my future self and constantly criticizing my past self. It helped immensely with my confidence to stop looking down on my past self, and to worry less about the opinion of my future self. I guess how I take this is to do what I can to make sure my future self has a good life, but not worry about what she thinks of me.
@toucheguy
@toucheguy Жыл бұрын
So simple, so true. Great talk!
@zevhinnyumburoga4774
@zevhinnyumburoga4774 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! It gives me a new perspective of what I really want in life and how I portray myself in the future🔥
@raymondereh1296
@raymondereh1296 Жыл бұрын
This is apt. Thanks for your presentation.
@luanbui6921
@luanbui6921 Жыл бұрын
Thank Mr.Shankar for this speech, I'm really appreciated about this, you made me more confident about my decision : improving everyday like all of your detail in video. I hope one day I don't look back and feel a lot of regrets. Thanks
@dott.fabiomobilia7736
@dott.fabiomobilia7736 Жыл бұрын
Wonderfull presentation and great message to pass. Greetings from Italy
@ronnianabalos4627
@ronnianabalos4627 10 ай бұрын
Wow, this TED talk really made me reflect on how our future selves are often a mystery to us. It's fascinating to see how our interests and perspectives can change so drastically over time. The story of John and Stephanie Rinka was truly thought-provoking, highlighting the challenges of predicting our own desires and decisions in life and death situations. The concept of the 'ship of Theseus' and the illusion of continuity were eye-opening. The speaker's advice to stay curious, approach our views with humility, and embrace bravery resonated with me. A powerful and insightful talk that reminds us to actively shape our future selves. Thank you for sharing!
@ErdaDz
@ErdaDz Жыл бұрын
So relatable & i felt touched😢❤ Thank you to my old self for not giving up❤❤
@thedavisdimension
@thedavisdimension Жыл бұрын
The power of Reflection is something that taught me much in Life. In other words Hindsight is 20/20.
@michaelyang4883
@michaelyang4883 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful. Great noble thought gifts in simple words.
@dindazahidah9492
@dindazahidah9492 Жыл бұрын
Really inspiring and great talk
@aynoapamplona4158
@aynoapamplona4158 Жыл бұрын
One of the best TED Talks I've ever seen! It was amazing! Thank you sp much for these words
@kundhavair5205
@kundhavair5205 Жыл бұрын
Mind blowing talk. Love the way of narration.
@shuqb8988
@shuqb8988 Жыл бұрын
Oh, man! Great talk. I just begin to listen to podcast. And it's a surprise that the man I listen to most frequently delivered such a wonderful talk!
@BerCanUSA
@BerCanUSA 7 ай бұрын
Thank you! Such a powerful perspective!
@vanavetisyan5703
@vanavetisyan5703 4 ай бұрын
One of the best TED talks that I have ever listen to!
@OblivionOdditiesProjectStudios
@OblivionOdditiesProjectStudios Жыл бұрын
Every time I have to ask myself what should I do I think what the person I'm trying to become would do. That future of myself that I see, that person I WANT to be, that person I HAVE to become. I know what my future self wants cause I have been thinking like him since I was 12. I knew that he was going to be a combination of people and personality traits. So, I picked out what those would be and started practicing to become that person. My goals haven't changed once since, the only thing that's changed is the roadmap to achieve them. It's easier to know what your future self wants when your future self is standing beside you being the role model you need to become that future self.
@LinhNguyen-xd9tc
@LinhNguyen-xd9tc Жыл бұрын
Truly appreciated this powerful and mind-awaken video. it gave me the strength to keep in my journal in self-improving. Thank you
@zdarovful
@zdarovful Жыл бұрын
What an excellent topic, thanks very much!
@johnbee7729
@johnbee7729 Жыл бұрын
A very interesting talk. And a talk that makes one think. I love it. I have long tried to not fix time and space, for those two things are constantly changing. I did not consider that it was also myself that would be a different person in the future - thank you ever so much for opening my mind further.
@basilb8178
@basilb8178 Жыл бұрын
Great TED Talk, I hope our future selves are proud of us.
@Md_Imrn
@Md_Imrn Жыл бұрын
Things that we can do for our future self: 1. Stay curious: expand our horizon (try as many things as we can) 2. Practice humility: don't too overconfident but put into mediocrity in our words or promises. 3. Be brave: maybe you don't have the capability to do the thing today, but your future self will.
@BusinessFinancialNetwork
@BusinessFinancialNetwork Жыл бұрын
Curious engagement is 🔑 to adapting to change. Thanks for this.
@_DarkneZzx
@_DarkneZzx Жыл бұрын
Such a profound talk .. wow
@afafmohammed4721
@afafmohammed4721 Жыл бұрын
such deep ! thank you 🌷
@stix1496
@stix1496 Жыл бұрын
Love listening to Shankar.
@berryberrybear2395
@berryberrybear2395 Жыл бұрын
Really inspiring and mindful talk👌
@laughdao
@laughdao Жыл бұрын
Thought provoking talk. But, do we really become that different over time? Some say the more we age, the more we stay the same. I think there's some truth to that. I've always been creative, but had these unrealistic expectations and vanity hopes/dreams when younger. As I got older, I started shaking these things off to pursue creative endeavors that seemed to come easier for me. I become truer to myself. The example raised in the talk -- with the woman changing her mind about prolonging her life twenty years later -- seemed less like a fundamental transformation, but more like a change of attitude, as she transitioned from being a mere observer to the protagonist. What I mean is this: as a young nurse, she was constantly exposed to dying patients and felt they were struggling with living and dying without dignity. And she had planned on dying easy if similar fate would befall her. But after contracting ALS in her old age, she completely changed her mind about euthanasia. It's a bit like saying, oh, divorces suck because look how much damage it's inflicting on the divorcees. But the divorcees might have a different perspective despite vindicating some of the concerns. Anyway, the point is, I feel the example is more about changes in ways of thinking as a passenger vs a driver, rather than some unforeseen and unknowable metamorphosis we all might go through. Interestingly though, the conclusions remain valid: stay curious, practice humility, be brave. But rather than thinking about how I will be different (if I'm truly going to be unknowably different, then why bother thinking about it at all), I'd rather think about what might stay the same. And plan my life on that consistency. And capitalize on that immutability.
@drppcreations
@drppcreations Жыл бұрын
Great talk ... really motivated..
@raftal08
@raftal08 Жыл бұрын
a brilliant talk ,one of the best i have ever listened to .
@marystar9510
@marystar9510 2 ай бұрын
Actually, I'm crying at the end of it ❤🙏
@jahstandedios7
@jahstandedios7 Жыл бұрын
as an intp, a person with extreme levels of anxiety, this is of great help. love this ted episode❤
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