There's a difference between failing as a stand alone and learning from failure so it becomes useful and instructional.
@agnesluyiga54393 жыл бұрын
Hahaha Hahaha
@ambika37245 ай бұрын
Haha😂😂😂
@letsthink42814 жыл бұрын
In nutshell: 1: Picture yourself for future 2: Believe in yourself to improve 3: Keep trying
@marieshorter694 жыл бұрын
Good
@marieshorter694 жыл бұрын
🙈🙉
@ksksdjjd22544 жыл бұрын
Growth mindset
@angelgray88994 жыл бұрын
The third step is most importante. Only thing worse than failing is giving up
@wilfredv19304 жыл бұрын
indeed
@iraqpestcontrol3 жыл бұрын
*Dear stranger whoever reads this: I hope all your dreams come true!.* 💙
@ForteExpresso3 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@theoneandonlyking49113 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I appreciate that!
@hperm47043 жыл бұрын
how do u become a unicorn?
@kid64173 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@Anonymous_-tz6cw3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, you too
@claudekingstan40843 жыл бұрын
I have a learning disability called Dyslexia. It is so severe that when I was finally diagnosed post graduating from medical school that my doctors said I should not have been able to pass high school, let alone medical school. I have suffered from a lifelong academic failure and have failed more than anyone I have ever known in a university or medical school. I have been told my teachers, advisors and colleagues that I am a failure, a waste of time, and I can never make it. Somehow I graduated without disability accommodations. Even the government for the disabled refused to grant me accommodations because they do not believe someone with my condition could have ever passed high school, so I must have cheated. The government department for the disabled refused to accommodate a disabled. And after all this, now I get to help save lives during the world’s Covid-19 pandemic, so do not ever let anyone talk you out of your dream. My dream started when I was 5 and people are alive because this 5 yr old boy never knew how to quit. And I am now a new father and my son was born during the year of the pandemic 2020. I will teach him how to never quit.
@afrahkhan18353 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!
@melo83882 жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of u
@Sasha-md8qx2 жыл бұрын
dang good job
@Ap_code2 жыл бұрын
Aww keep going sweetheart💓🤍
@KingSavage158072 жыл бұрын
Legend👑
@MrYass247 жыл бұрын
Confidence is when you walk into a room assuming everyone already likes you! This quote helps every time I want to talk to strangers or have a presentation in class.
@samumohacsi7 жыл бұрын
TheMaster-Y nope, that's called over-confidence or in other words, narcissism.
@landenhord61556 жыл бұрын
Lord Bumbo it is unless you have really low self esteem
@aletaris6 жыл бұрын
Good thing, all should try
@SuperKronas6 жыл бұрын
Nope confidence is if they dont like me I'll still be fine!
@nawalalware58825 жыл бұрын
Hmm good way to remind ourselves.....thanx
@novii228 жыл бұрын
Don't think of "FAIL" as "FAIL", think of it as "F.A.I.L." = First Attempt In Learning.
@RobinOnYew7 жыл бұрын
i think of success as a series of fails intill you success cause it uselly is that way and if you think its either going to be success or failure then you will more likely grow to be a loser because you start something fail and then start something else
@RobinOnYew7 жыл бұрын
english please and did you noiced i didnt write it as eeennnglishpleasse
@bideev7 жыл бұрын
That is NOT what i think of it as...
@think_fool7 жыл бұрын
what if i failed the same course 4 times?
@novii227 жыл бұрын
Damian Small Well, just check back and think about what you could've done better. Don't look back and think, "Wow. I'm stupid", because you're not. It's just there's one or two things you didn't understand, or misunderstood.
@luzivannagaraycocheaavila3 жыл бұрын
"Confidence is when we think we are valuable, capable, optimistic and after a failure, we have come great knowledge and understanding". "It turns doubts into action" Thanks for this fantastic video :) Regards from Peru.
@kimito75213 жыл бұрын
I like the last part that says "Whatever the results... you'll have gained greater knowledge and understanding." Learning to appreciate the growth journey and reframing outcomes that seem different from our expected results may really help in taking on unfamiliar challenges we find uncomfortable with. It's like 'playing the game, for the game itself'.
@goldbristow72398 жыл бұрын
I feel like alot of people don't give you time to fail and improve. Especially with how school goes. There's only so much time. But I'll keep trying.
@bethpitcher30798 жыл бұрын
Everyone around you at school is trying to convince you that every grade, every quiz, every competition is the be all and end all of your life and that school is everything and means so much but that's really not true. Its hard in that environment like the vid says, but honestly believe me when I say school is the time to mess up and no one will even look at your school results once you have a higher qualification etc, there's always another chance, just go one step at a time. :)
@krhodes028 жыл бұрын
+Beth Pitcher thanks for opening my eyes to that
@timmyturner75228 жыл бұрын
+Beth Pitcher OMG you just blew up my mind
@queeneva96598 жыл бұрын
ikr!!! I was thinking the exact same thing!!!
@richardshibu84527 жыл бұрын
Kokoro cala
@rumaisa35945 жыл бұрын
i don’t think i can fix social anxiety with videos like these but i’ll try
@michellematsuoka17385 жыл бұрын
Lmao same here
@rxeey5 жыл бұрын
same
@1nternetg1rl935 жыл бұрын
literally my first thought lmao
@arrzee66764 жыл бұрын
You have to believe bro
@danielmcgibbon82004 жыл бұрын
It’s not about being not anxious
@shimaradata43923 жыл бұрын
Growing up, I didn't know this "You can improve mindset" that's why I was always afraid of taking risks. Now I am trying to change for the better. Fighting to all the people that are in the same situation as me.
@damonm4156 Жыл бұрын
For someone who has lacked confidence all my life i am 40 now and i thought we can not keep repeating that lack of. I am grateful for the internet and videos like this that really give so much value on how to boost your confidence. Not to put anyone down but i think alot of society can gain from learning to be more confident.
@xxtravisxxify5 жыл бұрын
Lol I remember everyone laughed at me at school because I couldn't speak English but did some gestures instead. Now I can speak English better than any of my friends and I went abroad alone. This is how we get succeed after failing lots of times.
@taniyabhasin52833 жыл бұрын
How did you improve?
@xxtravisxxify3 жыл бұрын
@@taniyabhasin5283 online pc games and movies at first, was trying to listen well and copy. I also started to think in English, then I've visited European countries and was speaking to people. It's important to be exposed that foreign language you try to learn, and then you actually master how to learn a new language.
@nagendran25913 жыл бұрын
How to think in English for native speakers
@Poetry4Peace3 жыл бұрын
@@xxtravisxxify where u originally from?
@Poetry4Peace3 жыл бұрын
@@katekiti yh its always good to have some light heartedness with funny/imperfect grammar its jus pure life as its not perfect and amplifies chill
@s-ohno-phia7 жыл бұрын
When I face a challenge I: 1. Panic 2. Wonder how I can overcome this challenge 3. Ask for help 4. Ignore everything they said 5. Do it my way 6. Fail 7. Wonder why I do these things
@smiththedankmyth70097 жыл бұрын
Sophia Dula how to be good at life 101
@htdjc13417 жыл бұрын
Hellо рlaуеrs ! I Find rеliablеd plасе thаt рrоvide the StаrFruit & Juiсе. Haрру to share it with you guуs! twitter.com/bb4b7c102480a3c0d/status/779265144543076352 3 tips tоо bоооst уоur cоnfidеncе ТЕD Еd
@s-ohno-phia7 жыл бұрын
Madskill Pro I'm passing with an A+
@kiraknight29517 жыл бұрын
right.
@jam.lob.7 жыл бұрын
i ask for advice, follow it and then they say "no youre doing it wrong"
@arizleidapetunia57533 жыл бұрын
00:04 - 00:45 What is confidence? 00:46 - 01:33 Where does confidence come from and what factors impact confidence? 01:34 - 01:57 Tip #1. 01:58 - 02:56 Tip #2. 02:57 - 03:58 Tip #3. 03:59 - 04:16 Ending.
@donovanwilson46722 жыл бұрын
This helps!!🗣🎯💯
@rusttynail772 жыл бұрын
Lol I've never seen a timestamp breakdown for a 4 minute video. Are peoples attention spans that short?
@arizleidapetunia57532 жыл бұрын
@@rusttynail77 Yeah, also I did it to help out people if they were assigned this for classwork ( I was ) and they didn't have time or didn't want to watch the whole thing
@05.tranthanhbinh952 жыл бұрын
may work for exercise
@boomboone47 Жыл бұрын
Thx m8
@Yourfavladybugs Жыл бұрын
1:35 is the best part of the video, it starts off with tips and i just listened to those tips and went through my day feeling *+confident+*.
@narwhalicorn9348 жыл бұрын
I wanna learn how to talk to someone without having a brain spasm
@sammyt51968 жыл бұрын
me too ;-;
@maniwayyyy8 жыл бұрын
same
@allcookies4me5348 жыл бұрын
What I came for.
@stickmanymickmany8 жыл бұрын
Gotta keep talking to new people all the time. You'll get calmer and more confidence with each new person. :) Might not feel like anything's happening sometimes, but it eventually will.
@andrewpotapenkoff77238 жыл бұрын
Try read more and also try writing complex thoughts or esses. That will teach you how to automaticaly construct phrases in interesting and useful way. I did it for myself and now everyone tells me that i am an interesting person to talk to. Also you'll benefit from increasing ability to manipulate people (in good or bad way - your choice), tell 100% proof lies and so on.
@Cheetosboy123544 жыл бұрын
Girl:“Hey” Confidence: *BYE*
@ramennoodlesooup_41474 жыл бұрын
Same lmao 😂
@warrior52154 жыл бұрын
On the contrary
@shrimigaurav46354 жыл бұрын
Lol🤣🤣🤣
@codmobilemodmenu4 жыл бұрын
@mustache wizard. I always see you in the comments section below 😂
@berry20394 жыл бұрын
Umm a little bit of change Boy: "Hey" Confidence: Gone
@mrbabypig10193 жыл бұрын
When I was little, I would get yelled at every day for no reason and I went mute in public. After a few years since then, I have boost my confidence but still don’t talk. I am looking for something to help me because in middle school you need to talk a lot. My biggest insecurity is my voice. It is very hard to understand me so that is another reason I don’t talk. I have been in speech from kindergarten up to third grade and it helped me talk but didn’t change how people understand me.
@Noika3 жыл бұрын
I have an amazon code to get a book that helps against anxiety. I can give it to you if you want
@tiemi1303 жыл бұрын
i am NOT an expert or smth, but what if you try to read some books you like out loud, or find something that you really like, for example some music or a show and talk about it with your friends or family? you can also try to record your voice, so you can like get comfortable with it while hearing it more and more and also when you hear you can get better at your pronunciation if that's what makes the others don't understand what you are talking! :) i hope i could help you in some way, and i wish you the best! good luck! i know you can! i believe you!
@mrbabypig10193 жыл бұрын
@@tiemi130 I will definitely try this thank you so much
@AdventuresInReach3 жыл бұрын
Trauma is tricky and going mute sounds like it was a coping mechanism. For that I would look up "resiliency steps" and "resiliency assets". If you don't use or practice anything it won't improve...so make sure you do speak (I like the suggestion of reading out loud), sing, seriously schedule and practice the exercises your speech teacher gives you, and talk with the closest people who have been encouraging you to speak the most. If there's one teacher who seems genuinely interested, maybe ask them to meet individually to talk and tutor.
@rizz04102 жыл бұрын
It's six years after the video released, still love how to be more confident, thanks for your tips
@GraceJones17 жыл бұрын
Anything is possible, once you start to understand the power of the human mind. I overcame my dad molesting me, being drugged and raped, amongst many other challenges, by understanding Neuroplasticity. And how we can rewire our neurons, to change the way we think. Once you start to understand the power of the human mind, you can overcome PTSD, depression, addiction and so much more ❤
@_ahmir_6 жыл бұрын
wtf
@jasonmatthews44496 жыл бұрын
Tell us your secret please.
@BonkersBerserk875 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry for everything you had to go through. But that's why you are strong today. I wish you the best in life, you deserve nothing less.
@BonkersBerserk875 жыл бұрын
Prince Hans No sir, I mean it from the bottom of my heart
@ax93025 жыл бұрын
Kyung Jones Wow your a beautiful person xx
@ReddoX306 жыл бұрын
For me, fear of failure is stopping me from achieving what I want. If you have this problem too, keep on trying! Most of the times, you learn more from failure than from success! And with that newfound knowledge you can do better next time!
@alyrainnee49395 жыл бұрын
aww same
@hik2254 жыл бұрын
For me, fear of failure motivates me every single day.
@emery60494 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I’m struggling in basketball because I get rid of the ball the second I get it and I’m a good ball handler and a shooter but I don’t do any of it because I’m afraid I’m gonna embarrass myself or make a mistake
@ksksdjjd22544 жыл бұрын
id say ppl fear success more
@thewormybookworm4214 жыл бұрын
The problem for me is that I don't like trying and my mind doesn't believe me when I say I can do it and the more I try and fail, the more I'm convinced I can't do it
@mzee340 Жыл бұрын
Fantastic video 👏 3:17 "Studies show that those who fail regularly and keep trying anyway are better equipped to respond to challenges and setbacks"
@sejucreampie92463 жыл бұрын
this is actually one of the most inspiring Ted Ed I've watched so far. thank you
@franciscozattoni9 жыл бұрын
Oh man I was needing that, because recently I accepted the challenge of learning Japanese within a year ahahaha
@franciscozattoni9 жыл бұрын
+lizzy_ Thank you bro!
@OwNeD059 жыл бұрын
+Francisco Zattoni Good luck with that.
@GraverFILMS9 жыл бұрын
Duolingo is a pretty decent app for that I learned a bit of Italian within a few weeks but then I stopped because I'm lazy. Maybe you'll have better motivation
@Coxy0026059 жыл бұрын
+Francisco Zattoni Spaced repetition is really useful, especially because Japanese doesn't have an alphabet.
@franciscozattoni9 жыл бұрын
+lizzy_ Yeahhh I think I have to! Focusing all my brain's intellectual capacity into it, live with it, dream with it, being it, no kidding lol. But for sure I have to put a lot of effort on it.
@thewormybookworm4214 жыл бұрын
When I face a challenge I: 1. Panic 2. Overthink 3. Panic some more 4. Go to the bathroom and wipe my tears 5. Play soothing nature sounds to relax 6. Meditate 7. Give up and ask my mom for help
@sossyflakes4 жыл бұрын
Same. :(
@sammyp19334 жыл бұрын
ITS OKAY BABE ME TOO
@arifkhan-fb6nx4 жыл бұрын
Same..... Except last step.....
@yalikebagguettes51784 жыл бұрын
Man the bathroom one is sadly relatable
@Doublehelix_4 жыл бұрын
well..asking for help isn't bad🤨
@yatharthvyas3 жыл бұрын
Hands down, this is one of the top Ted-Ed videos which I will save and definitely rewatch multiple times throughout my life
@AdventuresInReach3 жыл бұрын
Have you implemented it yet?
@yatharthvyas3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@DrJonTam3 жыл бұрын
Timestamps 1:38 Tip 1: Try a quick fix 1:59 Tip 2: Believe in your ability to improve 2:58 Tip 3: Practice failure
@milladd5 жыл бұрын
A champion is not defined by the amount of wins they have achieved, rather it is the amount of times they had recovered when they fell.
@samruddhi72624 жыл бұрын
Wow
@pjbtw4 жыл бұрын
Motivational
@2bhonest5594 жыл бұрын
Leon would like to know your location
@colilaobalioca4 жыл бұрын
This come from Serena Williams's quote
@robin_birdie_4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, you bet
@rolfathan8 жыл бұрын
So I actually tend to just open a new tab and listen to these TED-ed videos because, while the animation is pretty, I'm multi-tasking here. All the advice was entirely valid and logical. Well, I scroll down to the comment, and I see all these guys saying "Why is this for GIRLS ONLY?" and I had no idea what they were talking about. Scrubbed the timeline and saw that the artwork was of girls. How daft is my fellow man that just having the avatar be a woman means that it does not apply to him just the same?
@cyrus59588 жыл бұрын
I wasn't angered by just the girls, I was more annoyed by the bit at 0:14 where all the things laughing at the girl where the gender symbol for men (they changed them to Failure now)
@rolfathan8 жыл бұрын
Oh, what? That's really odd.
@theotryhard86518 жыл бұрын
DID YOU JUST ASSUME THE GENDER OF THAT CHARACTER??!?!?!?!?
@joeBivren8 жыл бұрын
shut the fuck up
@rolfathan8 жыл бұрын
I did, until you responded to my message, which brought my attention back to this video. Are you happy with yourself now? I think I'm ~[TRIGGERED]~ someone, call the internet police, someone said fuck.
@asmakpoo16053 жыл бұрын
I failed many times and I am still okay because I know It's a part of growing. Thanks TED ☺️ I feel more confidence after watching this video, I really love the message xoxoxo Keep trying, keep fighting keep & praying 💪💪
@abdullahaljubaer3382 жыл бұрын
The combination of music,editing, animation and that perfect voice in the intro is just mind boggling
@QuestionEverythingButWHY4 жыл бұрын
“The greater the obstacle, the more glory in overcoming it.” ― Molière
@Pharaoh_Tutankhamen2 жыл бұрын
Who that?
@Randomperson-dj8yu Жыл бұрын
@@Pharaoh_Tutankhamen answering late but its a very well known french author in the 1600s who has written some of the most famous theatrical works in french history . French people know him very well 😁
@morningawesome4 жыл бұрын
Short-term help: Picture your success when you’re beginning a difficult task Listening to music with deep bass can promote power Give yourself a pep talk Make a power pose Long-term help: Believe in your ability to improve Don’t have a fixed mindset, thinking that if you’re not good at something you’ll never be good at it. Have a growth mindset. Keep growing. Those who fail regularly and keep trying anyway are better equipped to respond to challenges and setbacks in a constructive way. Realise it’s not gonna be easy. Accept that you’ll make mistakes.
@Sobriety_3510 ай бұрын
Tqqq😊
@geeayejoe24113 жыл бұрын
I so love this video. Even though I have achieved here and there, I still suffer from self-doubts and debilitating thoughts. Growth mindset and small wins help me a lot!
@squime42893 жыл бұрын
The fact that i searched this is kinda sad..
@llcooll75614 ай бұрын
I've joined your confidence club 😅❤
@mnt72274 ай бұрын
@@llcooll7561same here❤
@Hammadisteachingchemistry3 ай бұрын
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@RTMonitor2 ай бұрын
Some people are down when searching for this video, but no matter how much pain we're going, we get up. Getting up from yourself shows you that you still want to keep doing. Don't give up, y'all, keep it up ❤️❤️❤️
@ScriptSavvy-dw4rk22 күн бұрын
The fact it was send toe😂💔
@nikki13397 жыл бұрын
Tbh, idk why I'm watching this because I honestly do these things everyday. I just have low self esteem, but not low confidence. Like, I think I'm ugly or awkward, but I don't care that much if I fail.
@danielkhan17 жыл бұрын
same
@vibodhj3497 жыл бұрын
I think they are interconnected. I had a low self esteem but high confidence in the first place but the habit of having a inferior complex gradually resulted in a false understanding that others will always be better than me and an internal conflict started. The tussle between the two concepts led to a realization that- Others are better than me because they do better than me. And I lost the confidence as well.
@breadgenie96407 жыл бұрын
Vibodh Jadhav same here 😔
@vibodhj3497 жыл бұрын
I have realized that confidence is gained by experience and it isn't related to self esteem. I think confidence is more closely related to curiosity, the habit of trying out stuff because We are CURIOUS!
@primonter62156 жыл бұрын
Me too ):
@Willpower3607 жыл бұрын
That moment when I am confident that I can do a back flip, I break my neck and go to the emergency room.
@Amber-me2wz7 жыл бұрын
xDD
@Mom-gd4fn7 жыл бұрын
William Xu try it in water
@MrElectricVibration7 жыл бұрын
Oh how i love the internet, i burst out laughing ! Have my up-vote good Sir.
@monsieurbernoulli81017 жыл бұрын
Try it again and I'm impressed
@antonigiannistheprogamer27107 жыл бұрын
This is not confidence. Its called arogance
@rocket86813 жыл бұрын
Notes; WHAT IS CONFIDENCE? Take a belief that you're capable,worth while and valuable,also known as self esteem. Act courageously to face a challenge head on. This is confidence. It turns thoughts into actions SEVERAL FACTORS THAT IMPACT CONFIDENCE; 1,what you're born ,with such as genes which will impact things like balance of neuro chemicals in your brain 2,How you're treated 3,The part you have control over - choices you make ,risks you take and how you think about and respond to challenges and setbacks. TIPS TO THOSE; 1,Try a quick fix(short term relief from problem) - dance 2,Believe in you're ability to improve - having a growth mindset will definitely boost your confidence. 3,Practice failures(First attempt in learning) - Fail + Fail + Fail + identifying why we fail = success. So,whoever reading this boost your confidence with these tips.My hearty wishes for your future success. Do click the like button👍👍, if u start practicing those today! Now! This second of your reading! Just take decision. If you want more motivation watch almost everything , chetchat channel because i am using those 2 channels for my motivation.🏹📔📕📘📗📖📃🖊🖋✒✏📝learn and acquire knowledge
@Panacea95 ай бұрын
It is not just confidence. It modifies focus and thinking even making obscure thoughts seem plausible. It could work much more subtly but very modifying in behaviors such as feeling dread when when thinking of attacks or many other things causing you to lose confidence, have fears created or lose directions.
@NerdSyncProductions9 жыл бұрын
This comment section is really disappointing.
@skykawano32779 жыл бұрын
+NerdSync 1:00 in what way is this comment section "disappointing"? If people are commenting about the clear sexism towards a group of individuals which is based out of misguided and outdated feminist generalizations, then it's positive. Sexism should not be tolerated in our modern society. Equality is what we all strive towards.
@henryj77259 жыл бұрын
yep
@henryj77259 жыл бұрын
+Henry J welcome to KZfaq
@NerdSyncProductions9 жыл бұрын
Sky Alderson The message of this video applies to everyone.
@Tyronejizz9 жыл бұрын
+NerdSync yeah it does. so why only focus on women? why only show one guy in the video who is one of the obstacles the main caracter has to pass? why let her be attacked by male gender symbols? the message does apply to all so the sexism the depiction of man as obstacles and destroyers of confidence is wrong, and it should be pointed out.
@PencilFull0fLead8 жыл бұрын
GUYS CALM DOWN. the reason the vid only features girls is because - as it says in the description - it was "Made in partnership with the Always #LikeAGirl campaign." .......
@PencilFull0fLead8 жыл бұрын
because it happens that they're the ones who actually helped make it. on this occasion. this video.
@pennydimedime8 жыл бұрын
DO we really need a 'reason'? Let's try focusing on the message.
@GrandmaCathy2 ай бұрын
Girls watch lessons featuring boys all day long. We’re expected to just assume everything applies to us too. Guys can’t do that?? I think they can.
@aiwaii.111x3 жыл бұрын
Some of my advice: 1. Listen to some music, make your own baddie, confidence boosting playlist. 2. Try and say yes to a challenge, even if its just going outside. Its best to try and enjoy life to its limit ♡ 3. Try and connect with some old friends, or some family. Having some conversations with anyone really helps boosting social skills.
@AdventuresInReach3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. I like the new challenge and personally try to get people doing outdoor adventures at whatever level is appropriate for them. Rappel down a stairway, get "lost" in a small section of woods, tip a canoe over in shallow water... Seems to be a fast track to confidence and a building block to more adventure...and more confidence.
@davecullins1606 Жыл бұрын
That animator was VERY creative when it came to transitioning from one topic to another by choosing shapes that could also be used to represent the next topic!
@KnotApps8 жыл бұрын
'keep trying' is what you say, but our current system doesn't really provide much opportunities for that. You fail the uni entrance exams, you are done for. Only a very small limited number of failures are accepted in school before you are expelled. One mistake might kick out of the company just before your idea could have turned you into a millionaire. How. Are. We. Supposed to keep trying?
@pieman89578 жыл бұрын
so what you're saying is that everyone should just not try to better themselves or try to study for tests in subjects that they aren't good at.
@moonbrushdarkkirin60888 жыл бұрын
+Angelisa Hassan *sarcastically* yeah. because I should totally try having the same exact conversation every day with the girl I'm trying to talk to. *rolls eyes* that'll totally work and she won't just think I'm a creepy stalker
@tommytucker54648 жыл бұрын
But that's exactly what you need to do because once you give up you fail. There is no time limit to a degree, you can always resit, what's important is to learn from the mistakes so you can improve yourself. It's only when you blame others or have the victim mindset and stop trying is when you have truly failed. You must control your mindset, stay focused and keep working hard relentlessly. That is how you keep trying.
@danikanutter67497 жыл бұрын
I don't know what country you're in but in the States there isn't time limits for degrees. The credits you do earn stay in the system. My mom finished her two year degree twenty years later. It took a couple times of her trying to go back to school and failing. But now my mom has her degree and I'm really proud of her.
@michelenintricepsi65297 жыл бұрын
Danika Nutter Europe isn't somewhere like states. Get your head out of your ass dude.
@doughnutdevil50797 жыл бұрын
My self esteem is so low I can step on it
@dogelord88507 жыл бұрын
Doughnut Devil why was the characters changing all girls?
@brightlight42127 жыл бұрын
+Doge Lord88 it was made in partnership for a campaign that is about making young girls feel confident in themselves
@lmao23027 жыл бұрын
Tstk tstk my self esteem is so low I can't even see it.
@doratheillegalalien91836 жыл бұрын
my turds are so tall i have to step off them
@Angel-ut6tw2 жыл бұрын
I don't know why but this is comforting. Almost made me cry. Yes, I must cultivate my confidence. KZfaq somehow speaks to me through recommending videos to watch. Thank you so much x
@sunakonakahara41019 ай бұрын
"Those who fail regularly and keep trying anyway are better equipped to respond to challenges and setbacks in a constructive way. They learned to try different strategies, ask others for advice and persevere."
@r34p3r88 жыл бұрын
I love how they show this to be confidence for some physical bullshit, like a sport or some shit like that, whereas what I'm using this for is just talking to people without being awkward as fuck XD
@circleman408 жыл бұрын
😎
@elissammi56968 жыл бұрын
Ikr thts y im here but i guess it didnt help
@sugambhatia99308 жыл бұрын
that confidence will translate into everything you do, it's a lifestyle change.
@notoriouswhitemoth8 жыл бұрын
Confidence comes from experience. The way to develop that experience is to celebrate *effort* instead of *achievement*. The Persians found a way around the blockade at Thermopylae thanks to the help of a spy, and the Spartan defenders were slaughtered to the last man, but their defeat is celebrated while that more successful defense of Athens is mostly forgotten - because success isn't ultimately what's important.
@pointlessmike8 жыл бұрын
Be selfish. Be crude and mean to people. Express the weirdest shit that comes to your mind in any way you wanna. Imitate people who don't give a fuck. These all seem like bad ideas, but they do counter social anxiety. If it becomes a way of life, you won't feel bad. If it doesn't, then it'll just be a phase. The end result should be the same : being comfortable with yourself in social situations.
@HFn438hfgweiuwe98hHnfhjs7 жыл бұрын
I just noticed that none of the Ted-Ed videos have ads! Yay!
@terig89747 жыл бұрын
That's because it is an ad.
@isacibarra18476 жыл бұрын
This one does
@hafezmorshed26206 жыл бұрын
I sometimes get an ad before the video starts
@vjnvisakhАй бұрын
I really liked that part that said Fail more often but be kind to yourself. Most of us give up the first time we encounter a failure.
@divyaneema78882 жыл бұрын
VERY SOON! EVERYTHINGS GONNA BE FINE.JUST DON'T LOOSE THE HOPE♥
@zandrewmorano107 жыл бұрын
i lm always shy... sometimes when im not shy, the next day will be more.shy
@myaccount03075 жыл бұрын
I am like this too I recommend trying to step out of your comfort zone and do new stuff that scares you I recently started wearing clothes I feel awkward in and with in a week I felt proud that I did it even when it scares me and now I feel much more confident
@boy6389 жыл бұрын
what bout physical confidence? what if one is born ugly or misfigured?
@tktktktktk8269 жыл бұрын
Your ancestors looked like you and they all got laid
@rolan6389 жыл бұрын
Ever heard of gene mutation? Radioactivity?
@boy6389 жыл бұрын
exactly, mutation or illness can disfigure a person
@SelectiveStreets9 жыл бұрын
+DankLord420 His ancestors may have been good looking sons of bitches
@writerconsidered9 жыл бұрын
+DankLord420 epigenetics plays a role in gene referencing and face symmetry.
@Kangseoyun633 жыл бұрын
I lost hope yesterday but..today this vid show up and i just watch it..it makes me feel confident..and i feel that i will be able to do what i want and cross the path to my goal
@Ashborne0023 жыл бұрын
I don’t care where i am weather stuck in mental rut or in afternoon lethargy. I have always found this helpful. Watched this many times by now.
@ronborneo19757 жыл бұрын
That part when she was tripping over rocks and kept going is inspirational
@dioncheung58915 жыл бұрын
She might sprain her leg or something
@BLTspace8 жыл бұрын
What if i'm a guy?
@ShermanistDruid8 жыл бұрын
In this day and age we're fucked
@christinakang80998 жыл бұрын
+Aw3someSauce that is not feminism, that's just a misandrist talking crap.
@TheThreatenedSwan8 жыл бұрын
+christina kang Some feminists are like that. It gets old hearing feminists, say no real feminist are like that, but the reality is feminism has no single definition
@Tinkeroftime8 жыл бұрын
+BLTspace The same reasons apply to you. I have a lot of guy heroes I idolize. And even though I'm a girl, I still take their awesome traits and try to mimic the traits.
@the_gaming_killer20838 жыл бұрын
+Mical hahahahhahaha fucking sexiest
@Tripledashhh_2 жыл бұрын
I been so mislead my whole life by my parents everytime I felt confident they called me arrogant so now whenever I have to be I just don’t know how. Which is why I searched up what is confidence and I saw this video. Watching this really made me remember that being confident is okay that it’s a good thing and that it’s not an arrogant way of feeling good about myself. I hope everyone who’s been in my situation can find it in themselves to finally be confident to face life head on!
@trevbeats772 жыл бұрын
By you replying to this thread, you have got this, well done. Don't look for blame, maybe your folks had it hard back in the day. My Dad said to me: point a finger at someone and 3 fingers are pointing back at ya!...keep your faith..
@Tripledashhh_2 жыл бұрын
trevbeats77 trust me I’m 24 i know my parents well. And I have nothing against them. But they were just not the model parents I had hoped for, which I seeked elsewhere.
@Youssef-hd5bl Жыл бұрын
arrogance is simply exaggerating in feeling that you're better than people and looking down on them.
@GrandmaCathy2 ай бұрын
People who tell you that just want you to be able to control you, parents included.
@juliam_x3 жыл бұрын
When I feel stressed or anxious I simply talk to myself. For some people it might sound psychopatic to talk to yourself but for me it sooths me and I feel like I've talked it out of myself instead of going to a person. Of course I dont speak loudly, Just under my breath but it helps a lot.
@AdventuresInReach3 жыл бұрын
Self talk, or positive self talk is a technique that is taught by psychologists. As long as you aren't babbling in public it's completely healthy. Another level is to do some self talk while looking in the mirror. I encourage people to self talk out loud before a new challenge such as rock climbing. I can help them pick out and verbalize what they have control of, what skills they have, what safety measures are being taken, what things could "go wrong" but still be safe, and really work on the thought quadrant of "total behavior".
@HassanuddinKasim7 жыл бұрын
i rarely leave a comment, because i always think what other would think. so to practice failure i must comment, hahaha
@renze71337 жыл бұрын
Hassanuddin Kasim Well, because you want too practice failure, I completely disagree with your comment
@sunnymartina9356 жыл бұрын
no one knows who u r and where u from. so why scared then? it is not like face to face conversation.
@user-lc7ku6je1o6 жыл бұрын
So, your comment got to the top. You don't have to be afraid of failure so much.
@dioncheung58915 жыл бұрын
Well now u got a lot of likes
@adrikahaha99545 жыл бұрын
Me too
@jessicawright7017 жыл бұрын
The fact that over 3.4 million people have watched this video means you are not alone! You have the power over your confidence!🎉
@myatthiri25352 жыл бұрын
this was uploaded 7 years ago and still the facts are solid :) I had been struggling to be confident for years but now , i dare to face it. THANKS ALOT TED TALK.
@user-mu3iy8fq3d8 ай бұрын
The emphasis on developing a mindset of gratitude in this video was eye-opening. Cultivating gratitude for the small joys in everyday life has become a crucial aspect of enhancing my self-esteem.
@chainslock_6 жыл бұрын
This helped so much. I was on the verge of giving up, given that I’m uncertain of my own capabilities + the pressure + failure. But this video lifted my spirits. Thank you, Ted Ed!
@Pharaoh_Tutankhamen2 жыл бұрын
Time for it to drop
@AdityaKumar-ij5ok4 жыл бұрын
2:01 that's where people go wrong, it's "believe in your ability to IMPROVE" and not what most of us usually remember "believe that you are the best", it takes practice and time to be the best, you can never know when you become the best.
@carlosruizorasma9676 күн бұрын
Agreed. Also, some people may subconsciously believe that they are not good enough and that if they keep striving ‘to be better,’ they will eventually fill this void once they become ‘good enough.’ This is the trap that some ‘high achievers’ fall into-they aren’t chasing a dream but rather a feeling of self-acceptance that they believe will come once they’ve achieved enough. Personally, I’m working on understanding that even though I work hard every day to improve myself, I am already ‘good enough.’ My value doesn’t come from my achievements but from who I am and the love of Jesus Christ.
@luvforgs86303 жыл бұрын
this made me cry,,, i feel really motivated now thank you
@monique4924 Жыл бұрын
It's so smooth.. AND I ALSO NEEDED THIS VIDEO FRFR
@1212zeek12127 жыл бұрын
This isn't an easy thing to do, huh? For many people, it's not easy to wake up and go to work every day, but they do. For many people, it's not easy to deal with relationship problems, but they do. Sad thing is, many people go through a lot of un-productive pain. Pain that happens, and leads to no improvements. Nothing gets better from the pain. We are all going to experience pain no matter what (unless we literally stay high 24/7, or intensely distract ourselves, in either case we will eventually come down from the high and still have all the same problems we used to have). But there is productive and unproductive pain. There is pain that is worth your time, that will help you create the kind of future *you* want, and unproductive pain, that adds nothing to your life. Since we will all experience pain no matter what, we might as well make sure the pain we do experience is leading us to something better - something that we actually want - in the long run. Whether something is easy or hard rarely goes through my mind, actually. All I care about is what I want to do. When I find something I want to do, it doesn't matter if it's hard, I'm going to do it. Through doing it, I'll learn how to more efficiently do it. Take push ups for example. My form was wrong for a month. Then I learned the right way and now experience less pain and build muscle more efficiently. Working out is now easier. Figure out a goal that really speaks to you (if you don't have one - then make your goal figuring out what your passions are). Set your sights on it. Remove can and can't from your vocabulary. There is only will try or won't try. And start going after it. There was a time where scientists believed it was impossible to run a mile in under 4 minutes. Until a runner did it. Do you think the runner said "I can do this" or "I can't do this"? He can't tell the future, and neither can any of us. Instead he decided "I am going to try." And he kept trying till he made it. Make mistakes. Fuck it up. Try over and over again. Realize it's not what you're passionate about. Go back to the drawing board and figure out another passion. Try again. Make more mistakes. Fuck it up. Learn from it. Change your approach. Keep trying until you win. If you find something you want badly enough, you can decide "Either I'm going to accomplish this, or I'm going to die trying."
@sillau96 жыл бұрын
Zeek1212 that was beautiful and encouraging..thank you.. 😊🤗
@zellleonheart73556 жыл бұрын
Thank you a fck lot guy !
@saviralarasati95146 жыл бұрын
thank you so so so so much. I believe that you inspire so many people by writing this comment.
@aletaris6 жыл бұрын
Amen
@robluiz48485 жыл бұрын
I loved your aprooach.
@liangyuwu85805 жыл бұрын
when I face a challenge I: 1. think 2. study 3. get confused in some way 4. releave self 5. eat 6. sleep more 7. panic 8. fail 9. think 10. let it go~~~~~~
@iya19895 жыл бұрын
I go from 1-10 in the exact order you've numbered them.
@iya19895 жыл бұрын
I go from 1-10 in the exact order you've numbered them.
About the Wright brothers: although they succesfully flew their aeroplane, it didn't take off on it's own. It needed to be catapulted. The man that actually built the first airplane, an aircraft that could take off and land using it's own means, was Santos Dumont, a Brazilian inventor and visionaire.
@plamen56372 жыл бұрын
i rly like how every1 is so nice in the comments but the thing is that a lot of ppl will compliment you and u will never believe it because u dont see urself the same way others do
@user-yt9wt1xx9z7 жыл бұрын
i dont know why but i got emotional
@armartin00037 жыл бұрын
Same here. Just suffered a set back. This helped, but made me tear up in the process.
@annoyingsubscriber32575 жыл бұрын
I understand I always cry when talking about anxiety and lack of confidence
@jazz4dayz5437 жыл бұрын
Did this animation just tell me I can become a bat?! Awesome!!
@over50iqeq497 жыл бұрын
Yup. A baseball bat.
@jazz4dayz5437 жыл бұрын
Over 50 ^IQ ?EQ *NO* >:(
@over50iqeq497 жыл бұрын
A basketball bat?
@jazz4dayz5437 жыл бұрын
Over 50 ^IQ ?EQ No, a sex bat, duh!!
@over50iqeq497 жыл бұрын
What? An ex-pat? Or maybe you're just batty.
@mrscout123410 ай бұрын
Thank you for giving back my confidence on the pitch
@AhnafAhmaf3 жыл бұрын
I am blessed to be given great amount of confidence in My Self, Great peoples I meet every day. Most importantly in the Big Man in the sky. "I Know he wants all of us to be happy and together." I am blessed glad to be able to forgive from heart by knowing theirs
@eliTUNE7 жыл бұрын
Great video! Another point to add, which I find very useful. Instead of wondering, "Do I have confidence?" or "How to get confidence/be confident?", just don't think about it. You already have confidence inside of you, and whenever you don't feel confident, it's because you are throwing your confidence away. Don't think so much about whether you are confident, or whether you can do it. Just try. Just go for it. JUST DO IT. (not sponsored by Nike)
@silentEnigma09125 жыл бұрын
eli.TUNE hahahaha😂
@annescotts18195 жыл бұрын
May I ask... ·How do I give a speech without panicking? (if it's possible then tell me) ·How do I not be a nervous -wreck? Gosh! confidence is hard especially when you're an Introvert... and now I'm becoming a Pessimist... great! (sarcastic voice)
@reignwest72615 жыл бұрын
I usually look somewhere above the audiences heads to make it look like I’m paying attention but at the same time not. So you need to distract yourself by looking at a different area to make you panic less. If you are very nervous you should try going first if you continue to see people doing good jobs at speeches you may get even more nervous. Remember to practice before hand as well. (I’m aware this is late, I also hope your speech went well even without my tips. >:3)
@ShamsunNahar-nf1ty5 жыл бұрын
Even though I'm introverted I had to give a speech on a group project and I still find it hard to believe but I won the thing coz it was good apparently. What I'm trying to say is if you really believe what you are gonna say and think it's necessary to be told, you can do it. (Also having a supporting teacher is a privilege)
@zeez13755 жыл бұрын
i personally believe that to be confident, you must learn the aspects of it's antonym. That is fear. Fear of what the outcome is. It is always looking at the negatives with the word 'if.' All you gotta do is stay cool and calm. Think about the positives of giving the speech and be comfortable.
@stanbtsblackpinkmonastaxsu385 жыл бұрын
See its really easy . I was reallt nervous even when I wanted to answer a single word . But then I kept comforting myself and I tell myself that it would be okay and it will go well and also tell ur self it's better to explain to a group of people rather than explain to each one of them. Just tell ur self that u are excited to present
@human12585 жыл бұрын
Sorry I'm late and sorry for my poor English First I will offer you something, don't think of a red car don't ever imagine a photo of a red car., Now even tho I asked you not thinking of a red car but you did think of a red car first ! . Well it is the same when it comes to speech and presentation, you probably telling your self don't panic don't panic but then you do CUZ your brain was busy thinking of panic. What you should do is before you do your speech imagine of yourself being confident and tell yourself I'll do it I'll be excellent speaker.
@hannara5663 жыл бұрын
Anything you say! Confidence make me develop myself and callenge me to do better. I think it seems to be something that all of us can attain. I will try not to loosing my confidence!🔥
@esteemity54053 жыл бұрын
I'm really glad you pointed toward optimism. It can be learned and developed.
@milliewarner89118 жыл бұрын
Yes, all of the cartoon people were women but thats because the video wad supported by Always... A female health manufacturer. Its not saying that boys don't need confidence too 😒
@stickmanymickmany8 жыл бұрын
Confidence is more important for boys, definitely!
@GoldenPuppy1O18 жыл бұрын
Most of these confidence videos are for males which is really annoying..
@GoldenPuppy1O18 жыл бұрын
Yes she did. Stop shitting yourself
@juliapplefreak7 жыл бұрын
"When you need confidence to talk to the guy you like so you binge watch confidence videos"
@ryancox87177 жыл бұрын
Juliapplefreak Good luck :)
@crossbowcarrol44087 жыл бұрын
thats the cutest thing ive ever heard
@uatafaka7 жыл бұрын
if a guy doesnt notice you, thats already a bad sign, bc men always go after what they like
@arabian29077 жыл бұрын
Wake. P
@Flicka386 жыл бұрын
Girl, just go for it! If he doesn't love you for you then FLIP him. Don't be scared to show him who you are. You can do this and I believe in u!!!! Goodluck fam!!
@debarunkumer20193 жыл бұрын
Certainly this video is going on my watchlist. Vitalizing oneself on the grounds of physical, mental and emotional strengths is how I would like define to define confidence.
@afoxcatartvideos48773 жыл бұрын
This is better than “get your nails done hair done” like that sh*t. This is what I was looking for.
@AdventuresInReach3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. The internal changes are certainly more effective. I teach outdoor adventure skills to help as well. If you can rappel off a small cliff that you were scared to do, you can likely do much more in other areas of life.
@mousanyaltalukdar8285 жыл бұрын
It's so cute how her ponytails droop like a puppy's ears.Very sweet character 🙂😍
@GrandmaCathy2 ай бұрын
❤
@beestarjay9 жыл бұрын
The animation and music in this video were great I love this style
@zsuzsannaszucs4473 Жыл бұрын
I looooove the illustration!!! :D I will make a hero-picture of myself, and will look at it when I feel to hard to practice a harder song on my saxophone.🎷
@memeboy463 жыл бұрын
Thank you , now I am fully confidential to conquer the multiverse.
@spoilthatsong25445 жыл бұрын
25 years old and still trying to be confident in myself, since I know that it's holding myself back and preventing me from being who I know I can be. Hopefully I will be able to turn confidence into a habit instead of self-doubt.
@alykatequevasz43244 жыл бұрын
"Don't call it a failure, call it an education. Some of us are very educated." -Rick Warren We make mistakes but when we believe in ourselves that we can always improve----that's confidence.
@tevin39493 жыл бұрын
-think of a challenge you want to take realise that it's not going to be easy accept that you'll make mistakes and be *kind to yourself when you do*
@irenemilcah3 жыл бұрын
THIS VIDEO IS EXCEPTIONALLY WELL-MADE. THE SCRIPT, THE VOICE OVER, THE ANIMATION. EVERYTHING
@mrfoxman48028 жыл бұрын
how many of you did a back flip and busted their computer
@mrfoxman48028 жыл бұрын
Jimmy De'Souza wow...
@TheGlovesMan218 жыл бұрын
I don't mean to be rude but your comment made my day. (Sorry about your computer XD)
@officialmarkangelo9 жыл бұрын
You forgot something. Money. Money can impact our confidence a lot.
@zeppie_9 жыл бұрын
+Explicit Tech, no. Money is a reward, and if there's no reward, there's no point in doing something
@jprice_9 жыл бұрын
+Zeppelans tel that kids that play computes games
@mencibenci9 жыл бұрын
Well, more like stress over money can decrease confidence. After a certain amount of income, so they say, happiness and confidence don't improve any more. They kind of plateau with financial independence. So yeah, you need money to stay stress-free, thus confident, but only so much to be financially independent.
@Lavl-dq2tk3 жыл бұрын
neuroscience shows that connections between brain neurons do improve when you practice and study, so believe in your ability to improve; studies show that those who fail regularly but still keep trying are more likely to deal with challenges and setbacks in a constructive way
@bumpintheG4 ай бұрын
🏆🏆🏆 in other words no matter what happens paving your own road is one route to confidence.
@irnTincture9 жыл бұрын
Fantastic video! Another great piece of advice that worked for me is to take care of your body. Eat healthier, get good amounts of sleep and drink tons of water and exercise. These things help keeping me feeling great and people around you respond better to you when you are feeling great.
@FreedomKingdom7 жыл бұрын
Love this video. For some reason it keeps showing on my suggested videos...haha
@argirismavrommatis1746 жыл бұрын
Freedom Kingdom oh my god.....I feel strong and ready....thanks ☺😮❤
@najibcasa27456 жыл бұрын
There are several tips to try Work out why you suffer from shyness - the first step in solving a problem is to understand why it is there. Be at ease about yourself - this makes it less difficult when you meet others. Challenge youself - you will become more confident by taking action - especially by doing activities which stretch your boundaries. (I read these and more tips on sebs shyness tactic website )
@trieucao23286 жыл бұрын
Just wonderful, been searching for "confidence builder" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Hanhristian Ganuhammad Blueprint - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my partner got amazing results with it.
@georgiosantonopoulos78936 жыл бұрын
Cheers for this, I've been looking for "how to get confident" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Hanhristian Ganuhammad Blueprint - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my friend got cool success with it.
@kuneeyakanna90416 жыл бұрын
Just wonderful, been searching for "how to gain more confidence" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Hanhristian Ganuhammad Blueprint - (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my colleague got cool success with it.
@arxvee2 жыл бұрын
When i first started riding bmx's i went to a skate park and i fell so much but i didnt give up. Once my tire slipped and when i fell i was in a coma for 2 days and i had a broken finger. 4 weeks after that i forgot completely about bmxing and dust was already on my bike. One day when i failed art class i told myself im not good at anything so i sat down and remembered how i gave up at bmxing. Out of nowhere i stood up, went to the skate park and i trained for weeks and months until i could have confidence in myself. While doing that i also trained for art and had amazing landscape designs and drawings. I was accepted into art class and good at bmxing. I was so proud of everything ive achieved. One tip: No matter what it takes, do it if it brings you to the top 👍
@gurungsandeep1373 жыл бұрын
I was stuck in life, playing games all day and doing nothing, and then a friend introduced me to this program called Forwago. Now I'm on a clear path forward and enjoy every day.