Why we need to understand cults better | Sarah Edmondson

Why we need to understand cults better | Sarah Edmondson | TEDxPortland

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9 ай бұрын

Sarah Edmondson is a survivor and a fearless advocate with cult awareness. She courageously shares her idea of how to “seek safely” when deciding to join a group and why cult literacy matters.
Sarah Edmondson is an actress who gained notoriety for her role in exposing the NXIVM cult. In 2019, Sarah published Scarred: The True Story of How I Escaped NXIVM, the Cult that Bound My Life, an acclaimed memoir chronicling her harrowing experience. Alongside her husband, she hosts the A Little Bit Culty podcast, which has become a powerful platform for cult survivors and recovery advocates. Sarah also attends conferences and events around the world as a speaker and cult-recovery advocate, as well as continuing her work as an actress and podcaster.
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@KevinBWilson1983 8 ай бұрын

Sarah has done great work to bring awareness to others about cultic behavior and abuse. Someone commented saying she should leave it all behind to heal herself. I don’t think you ever really heal from something like this. Her mission to help others avoid similar situations is not only healing to her but can save so many people from abuse, financial ruin, and familial separation. It’s sad to me that some people can’t see that.

@wookiedogz4082 5 ай бұрын

preach!

@raymondnethengwe7364 4 ай бұрын

@lindapevac9590 8 ай бұрын

This is just the kind of straightforward information that our society needs to be aware and to be able to protect themselves. Coercive control, power differential, and how a cult can even be a cultic one-on-one abusive relationship. Thank you, Sarah, for your courage and determination to be an advocate helping others.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 8 ай бұрын

I agree! I hope this helps get the info out there!

@EdsCollegeLife 9 ай бұрын

Great talk Sarah! Thank you! Your story helped me wake up and leave the Jehovah’s Witnesses.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

So happy to hear i could help in some way- welcome to freedom!

@Bri4nG 7 ай бұрын

Ok JINN. You left Jehovah's witnesses to go join the gang stalking devil's rejects.

@catie5195 8 ай бұрын

Everyone listen to her and her husband's awesome podcast A Little Bit Culty. So impactful and really well done with all kinds of cult survivors and experts to get this message out there in long form.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! so glad you like it!

@CazzJonesAutry 9 ай бұрын

What a scary wake up moment. PTSD to contend with now, trying to overshadow a beautiful life. Thank you for warning others, a very brave thing to do. You are a good person who like many others with similar experiences from many different situations know the weird trauma that's combined with the exhilaration and deep gratitude of having dodged a bullet.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

Yes. So many feelings 😅

@jessicaluth2929 8 ай бұрын

Virtual air hugs, Sara. Thank you for being so vulnerable.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 8 ай бұрын

Aw thanks Jessica!

@maggieo6672 9 ай бұрын

You are so brave, thank you for your honesty and for being you. Your words help me heal too. ❤️🎶 Sending love to you from Ontario Canada. 🌹

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

So happy to hear! Sending love back !

@nicoleashlei1504 8 ай бұрын

Great talk Sarah. Your ability to take accountability and ownership of your decisions that led you ro be controlled and coerced must be an extremely difficult task under these circumstances. Your dedication to informing, warning and helping others in similar situations is so comendable. Wishing happiness and health to you and your family.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 8 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊it’s been a journey. ❤

@lorenzodossantos1111 6 ай бұрын

if you can't leave a group without creating tension then it is a cult.

@jessicahutwelker3030 8 ай бұрын

What a moment of reclamation. It’s an honor to witness. Thank you for using your voice and being courageous. I fall asleep most nights listening to ALBC podcast episodes. Your voice and sentiment are soothing balm for our healing souls.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 8 ай бұрын

Honoured to be part of your healing !❤

@Youalleatmuffins 8 ай бұрын

Wow. She really is such a beautiful soul to share so much to help prevent others falling into the same traps 👏👏 This information should be on every school syllabus! 💯

@LichenAndMoss 9 ай бұрын

This is a wonderful talk. Edmondson is a great spokesperson for what should become a mainstream movement of cult awareness. The world has never needed it more than it does now.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

What a compliment - thank you 😊

@freeyourmindlove-4e 9 ай бұрын

Well done, Sarah! You've worked so hard on yourself and to help others see the signs of high control groups. I've listened to ALBC since Day 1 -- one of the best sources of information on cults and cult abuse! (For those who don't know, ALBC = A Little Bit Culty podcast)

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! Super appreciate you supporting our journey

@brandiehadfield7118 8 ай бұрын

Excellent talk Sarah! I can’t believe how much you were able to cover in one succinct talk. I’m positive this will help many fellow seekers/joiners and anyone who is trying to tune into their inner wisdom again 🙏

@SarahEdmondsonActor 8 ай бұрын

Thank you Brandie! appreciate that...and I hope so too!

@tlw202 8 ай бұрын

This was so emotional. Such good information for all of us and such vulnerability about your journey. ❤❤❤

@margaretbrice7082 7 ай бұрын

Great talk Sarah, and thank you for the awareness very much needed in this times to all. New parents also kids to be aware of the red flags. Thank you for making the difference.❤

@MattCurney 8 ай бұрын

This is so powerful 💗 “You’re already whole” No cult leader can pray on you if you truly believe that. I lost my mother and sister to a cult 10 years ago that appears as an innocent self help group. The power of gaslighting is boundless. Like someone with Alzheimer’s, they are now mentally gone forever. Heed Sarah’s advice. You are already whole and NO ONE has all the answers. No one.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 8 ай бұрын

Matt- thank you! Appreciate these words. Truly ❤

@perryevatt5151 9 ай бұрын

Sarah makes this topic approachable and easy to understand. Surely, she’s making a difference for the better by sharing her experiences.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

trying! thank you 🙏

@alexandrospirillis 9 ай бұрын

Such courage and character! Excellent talk.

@Frengladeutschgirl 8 ай бұрын

Amazing talk Sarah. Love your podcast! All the best to you, Nippy and your kiddies ❤

@timothystoytherapy 9 ай бұрын

Amazing advice Sarah! Honestly googling the name of the organisation and cult is an incredible way to find out. I wish I did that earlier when I got involved in the self development group I was in. You are an inspiration. I’m so proud of everything you are doing around cult awareness.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 8 ай бұрын

Appreciate that so much Timothy. And congrats on getting out!

@bootney66 9 ай бұрын

The way she describes herself in the beginning is the complete opposite of how I would describe myself. However, I was raised a Jehovah’s Witness (until age 10 after my mother’s death). I find Sarah and the story of NXVIM compelling. Great Ted Talk❤

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

Thank you! and glad you can celebrate your birthday now!

@bootney66 8 ай бұрын

@@SarahEdmondsonActor me too and I go ALL OUT 😀

@saraheidelmark464 9 ай бұрын

Amazing Sarah! Why did I want to cry the whole time out of pride for you and your journey 🥲.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

😅hugs Sarah

@lesliemariemac387 8 ай бұрын

Very thankful for Sarah and Nippy and all the whistle blowers! I got out of two culty groups because of them!

@Goddybag4Lee 9 ай бұрын

Great speech. Well done 👍 Sarah is awesome!

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@rossbrunson5894 9 ай бұрын

Poor thing seems like she is nearly in tears at times. I cant even imagine how tramatic that must have been.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

That’s kind of you- thank you. I’m ok now ❤

@rossbrunson5894 9 ай бұрын

@@SarahEdmondsonActor thank you for being brave and thinking of others.

@aguilacoors 9 ай бұрын

It's ok to cry. Like it's ok to laugh, etc.

@wholylove 9 ай бұрын

Cults are an imitation of Truth when the end result ends. The original concepts that are attempting to be imitated are Truth, but everything should be done by yourself and self only. Love keeps company with those who Love.

@johngudritz2446 8 ай бұрын

Extraordinary presentation. Sarah gives you insightful information that will keep people from becoming victims of cultish groups that are mentally and emotionally unhealthy. As Sarah said, it can be any group or community that shares many of the characteristics that she spelled out.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 8 ай бұрын

True story! thanks John!

@PreacherBoys 9 ай бұрын

Incredible. Proud to call you a friend, Sarah!

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

Appreciate your support Eric!

@brahmsylove 6 ай бұрын

Had no idea that she was from “that HBO documentary”. What a nice surprise. Fascinating and very inspiring story.

@georgesos 9 ай бұрын

This is a really useful video especially for people in cults who have doubts. I hope it helps them get their freedom back...

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

Totally! That’s the goal 😊

@peipeitan7557 8 ай бұрын

I'm a huge fan of their podcast, A Little Bit Culty.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 7 ай бұрын

Thanks PEI PEI❤❤❤

@viviennecarter5837 9 ай бұрын

First off, this was fantastic-friggin-tastic! And Sarah’s message is so important. We need to be on the lookout for the red flags that could lead to becoming susceptible to groups that turn out to be cults….or a little bit culty…..all of the thumbs up

@SarahEdmondsonActor 8 ай бұрын

🙏🙏

@missrabbit777 5 ай бұрын

Really appreciate this thank you Sarah 🙏

@williamseagle15 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! Sarah you are a warrior of light in a world of darkness!!!!!!

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

❤🤟

@tygerpurr5345 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for this.......❤

@bfreeume 9 ай бұрын

Lived it as well. I did a short but painful stint in Scientology, which is a deeply insidious cult. There are many cults, some recognized as actual religions which they are not.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

True story!!

@aguilacoors 9 ай бұрын

Thank you very much, Sarah Edmonson.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@SunniSparks 9 ай бұрын

Love you Sarah!!!

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@Diana.DSWMinistries 9 ай бұрын

I love your podcast!

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

So happy to hear!

@Tuumbii 9 ай бұрын

NXIVM was a very interesting rabbit hole so I'm glad to hear her talk :)

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching 🙏

@janetphilbin-showingup7602 9 ай бұрын

What a great talk. Thanks for sharing your journey and helping others. Leaning from you has helped me understand what I went through

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

So happy I could help in some way!

@bilalmanzoor6559 9 ай бұрын

Hi dear

@vman9591 9 ай бұрын

Great talk. Check out “The Burn Zone” by Renee Linnell - a survivor’s story of a different cult. Great read.

@BLACK_....._ROSE 9 ай бұрын

can u share link??

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for the tip! Will add to the list!

@persianprincess90 3 ай бұрын

What a brave lovely lady. 🥰👍Awesome presentation! Wish it was longer though!

@robertdecastro8593 9 ай бұрын

Thank you

@elainebraindrain3174 8 ай бұрын

Keep up the great work🎉

@paulronk9694 4 ай бұрын

Sadly I have experience with such an involvement in my life. This is a fantastic, insightful talk with plenty of details with how it happened. With human nature (including the things that make us each marvelous individuals thank God), bad actors can and will use these features against ourselves. The fundamental is changing one's own mind. There is a scale of re-thinking, cast in mental concrete, unwilling to look, or never being able to make a decision. I have talked to many, and have heard the familiar refrain "oh, I spotted that a mile away and would never fall for something like that." Then there are those that would say "he is just pointing this out to make him feel better about getting duped." We don't live in a world of open-mindedness, do we?

@johneypunnackalantony2747 9 ай бұрын

Really very great speaking well done 👍

@eminemeatingmmswithotherem5879 8 ай бұрын

It's so easy in many cases to be involved in a cult. I am a psychologist and so forth i am interested to learn and exploring psychological and philosophicall aspects. So i saw an add on Instagram about a free seminar about the meaning of life. Turns out that was a neo-theological cult which has as its core values philosophy it's named new acropolis is a designate cult in France.

@jfv26 9 ай бұрын

International Church of Christ and World Mission Church of God tried to recruit me. It was crazy.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

Glad you avoided both! 😊

@CandiceSchutter 8 ай бұрын

Fabulous information! Thanks to Sarah & Nippy for all of their brave and continued hard work. Will definitely share this talk widely.

@shagun1142 9 ай бұрын

First person comes to watch for improving listening

@mikabeIa 9 ай бұрын

🙋

@prachimehta1360 9 ай бұрын

😅

@eyrena479 9 ай бұрын

👋

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 too funny

@reprogram_myself 8 ай бұрын

I think cult is dangerous for people who believe in someone else's "ways" more that in their own inner knowledge. When person is able to surrender some guru, instead of to surrender to your own life. Also it is learning experience for those people who need it for some reason. Everything exist because of the reason.

@Rachnaknowledgehub 9 ай бұрын

Awesome

@sporthealth9470 7 ай бұрын

Who can explain the meaning of the video in short clear way because I am not so good at English and What does cult mean? Thanks in advance whoever helps

@bellablack6937 9 ай бұрын

This is so important - it should be played in schools. Cults are one of the great scourges of our time.

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

i would love to speak in schools about this! until then- please share with the teachers you know!

@user-fy4sf7be6x 7 ай бұрын

I met a cult group member who was in college who wore a clean ironed shirt and had a tablet phone in his hand

@fattyz1 9 ай бұрын

Because half the country is in one in the guise of a political party ?

@Anna1721- 5 ай бұрын

Такая малышка, such a sweet heart. Прям хочется обнять и поддержать ❤

@fan3oy 9 ай бұрын

I actually can't believe he's still alive. All those people he manipulated had families and close friends, and I can't imagine that happening to someone I loved and not going full Jason Bourne on that mf✊🏿

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

I hear you! We for sure had that impulse 😂🙈

@kevinwarren1576 9 ай бұрын

Hey., does anyone know if the Jehovahs witnesses are still a thing ? I was told they are sinking like the titanic!!! I don’t even see Kingdom Halls around anymore. Wouldn’t it be lovely if they went away to to see the wizard of oz and never ever came back.😊

@bfreeume 9 ай бұрын

They are still a thing. There is an elderly sweet woman in my neighborhood that is deeply involved with JW. When I lived in NYC they were often parked near the W 72nd Street Broadway Station.

@kevinwarren1576 9 ай бұрын

@@bfreeume I believe you ! I didn’t say that there aren’t some wonderful loving people in the Kingdom Hall, I know a little bit about them. I think that they treat their followers like rubbish. I know they have a huge infestation of peodophiles, and many other bad things happening. The world is now catching up to them, finally! I also know they don’t mix with normal people, they call us worldly.

@user-ye1ow5cj6r 9 ай бұрын

They sure are unfortunately.

@HunderbarDachs 9 ай бұрын

there are Kingdom Halls all over Portland, as well as the rest of the state and Pacific Northwest.

@kevinwarren1576 9 ай бұрын

@@HunderbarDachs oh my Jehovah !!! There must be a lot of very so slow witted ones in that part of the country. Don’t they realize it’s satans one true organization on planet earth ? With a little luck, they’ll soon be out of business !!! Thank you JESUS.🙏🏻

@2LoveChampagne 9 ай бұрын

Wow! Wolf in sheep’s clothing! 😢 poor people! It’s got to be traumatizing 😢

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

Truth 😢

@reemahmed7851 6 ай бұрын

Hi Sara can you do a higher education /scientific project with paper about this your previous personal experience, or, Why, some people try to treat other so bad?

@yarawilde6026 9 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@bilalmanzoor6559 9 ай бұрын

You are special to me.

@SkyRiver1 4 ай бұрын

I bet you that the term "drank the koolaid" came form the use of LSD in koolaid punch that use to be used in parties before LSD was made illegal.

@glauciorigo7353 5 ай бұрын

Sarah, you and Mark V. are still in contact?

@privettoli 9 ай бұрын

Considering that most cults are religious and Portland is one of the least religious population in the US, I wonder how many people in the audience were like "yeah, I went through similar stuff".

@LichenAndMoss 9 ай бұрын

I follow your logic but Portland is HELLA culty

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

Just Culty about different things… 😅

@estherfriedman2075 9 ай бұрын

I don't think most cults are religious, anymore. Cults hijack any number of things--whatever's convenient: yoga, meditation, philosophy, management training, etc, etc, etc.

@carolyncrowner8821 9 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤

@bilalmanzoor6559 9 ай бұрын

Hi dear carolyn...

@user-vk1ve2kv9k 4 ай бұрын

Peace and God's mercy on you. How are you dear dear, share in the channel and do the bell you are very grateful and respectful

@mariterodriguez5349 5 ай бұрын

🥰

@lakeshagadson357 9 ай бұрын

she could be someone you can look up to

@SarahEdmondsonActor 9 ай бұрын

😊❤

@CharleneCTX 8 ай бұрын

The expression "drink the Kool-aid" is associated with the Jim Jones tragedy, but it predates that by 10 years.

@powerslaurae 5 ай бұрын

Who is boss babe? Ugh I’m lost and that’s probably good!

@user-kn2me3mm9d 5 ай бұрын

Please answer . I love your videos❤ Hello , l am kamola and l am 11 years old and l need to get ILETS. When l learned english my teacher send me this videos and l saw , this videos is extremely good ❤🎉😊 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ please doing this video l everyday l ashame every person like my friends,and classmates when l saw my friends there will be stress😢

@boriss.861 9 ай бұрын

Alice Lamb is one such.

@EverythingPlus.101 Ай бұрын

Exactly what happened to me 28 years ago when I fell for mormonism in South America 😢 2020 COVID helped me to realize that our prophet don't talk to any god 😢 I feel ashamed of myself for being so naive for my whole life.

@josephmedhat111 4 ай бұрын

like it

@1994wildchild 2 ай бұрын

This is what is so great about the bible, no one is forcing you to buy it and you can probably find one for free, it's the way to freedom and it's absolutely free

@madlift 6 ай бұрын

This is a valuable talk. However, I think the one-to-one comparisons between a cult leader like Jim Jones who caused the violent deaths of over 900 people and a MLM scam artist and exploiter of women like Keith Raniere do a grave disservice to your mission of informing people about your experiences.

@sparklymoona5437 9 ай бұрын

🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

@KevinStone-bf5ey 8 ай бұрын

Hello Sarah. If you didn't know what it was, and were in a management position, why are you suing people who were way beneath you in the pecking order? Why do you not have the same compassion for them that you have for yourself, or for the Salzmans, who co-owned the company, but who aren't defendants in your suit?

@maxlife9721 9 ай бұрын

Culture

@BLACK_....._ROSE 9 ай бұрын

any malayalis here??

@drkarenbukharibukhari9931 7 ай бұрын

Scientistcult🎉

@ganeshdegala 9 ай бұрын

boom

@drkarenbukharibukhari9931 7 ай бұрын

Iamhighlyqual fieddrlady🎉

@dimitristsoglis9231 9 ай бұрын

Εγώ δεν ξέρω αγκληκα

@Dub_Northside 9 ай бұрын

That's ok. English are good. It's the government that is wrong.

@privettoli 9 ай бұрын

Use translation feature

@e_facestyles8916 4 ай бұрын

peace unto Israel

@foysolahmed121 9 ай бұрын

🎉🖤🇧🇩🇵🇸

@marshalbaek5580 9 ай бұрын

Hopefully she will make this contribution about cult education for a short time only, then completely let it go and leave it all behind her.

@Ivan-td7kb 9 ай бұрын

Why?

@marshalbaek5580 9 ай бұрын

@@Ivan-td7kb For the same reason she had a plastic surgeon remove the brand from her body...

@Ivan-td7kb 9 ай бұрын

@@marshalbaek5580 or is it because you do not like her talking about these things?

@Beautiful_mind.. 9 ай бұрын

@@marshalbaek5580Attempting to heal one's scars is not equivalent to erasing the memory of how they were acquired, just as moving forward in life with the lessons learned is not synonymous with forgetting the past and potentially repeating the same mistakes. What's Inside your head dear ? Why you think this way ?

@marshalbaek5580 9 ай бұрын

@@Ivan-td7kb And to answer your question directly. I think she is heroic for talking about it. I think she is an awesome person for warning others. And I'm thankful she is doing it. It shows how good of a person she is. And it's why I hope she leaves it behind after she's made her contribution to warning others.

@softhotty 3 ай бұрын

Make the world better huh...what world ? The human world ? Or...all other biology on earth ?

@marlismueller4496 8 ай бұрын

Test

@alihaktanelif 8 ай бұрын

Ben cahil bir insanım keşke Türkçe alt Yazı imkanı olsaydı..

@rds6867 6 ай бұрын

I have no idea speak this women in english i am totally Focus in listening english speaking words 😂😂😂😂

@kforest2745 7 ай бұрын

She wasn’t looking to “save the world” that’s ridiculous no such thing who is she kidding she was looking for attention that’s the only reason seekers join anything and that’s nothing but bs for everyone. She didn’t think to keep to simply being kind on her own cause she’s not genuine she was looking for a pyramid.

@maxmanx1294 5 ай бұрын

Get back downstairs in your momma's basement.

@harrybrooks8514 5 ай бұрын

One of these days we’ll abandon the frog/water illustration. True, cults are insidious, but so is other misinformation

@harrybrooks8514 5 ай бұрын

Yeah, it took us nearly 50 years before popular seminar leaders stopped talking about humans using only 10% of their brains. Now we need to work on that 24hrs until a missing person report deal.