Uncommon Sense: Moving from a Problem-Focused to Solution-Focused Mindset | Mel Gill

Uncommon Sense: Moving from a Problem-Focused to Solution-Focused Mindset | Mel Gill | TEDxVarna

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7 жыл бұрын

In Mel Gill's inspirational talk there are self-experience stories, giving you the chance to change your mindset, your point of view about the problems in your life and focus on taking action and responsibility for your mind, happiness and life.
Legendary Psychotherapist Dr Mel Gill is one of the world's leading experts in Personal Development and a Mentor to countless other Speakers and Trainers around the world. He is an internationally-recognized Training Consultant and is also Corporate Advisor to CEOs of Fortune 500 Companies.
He has been recognized by the Business Times and The Sentinel as one of the Top Asian American Motivational Speakers. He was invited by the Napoleon Hill Foundation to speak as one of the Top 17 Speakers in the World in their Inaugural World Convention.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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@hasnhan Жыл бұрын

''Possibility thinking means never accepting failure as your final destination. Failure is a means to success.''

@DrMelGill 6 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed this talk! I hope to see you all again soon!

@surveenc6265 4 жыл бұрын

Dr Mel Gill maybe a year too late but great talk!

@mannmadantilak489 4 жыл бұрын

Dr Mel Gill, Your inspiring talks will surely bring out many Rain Makers from their old tribes & dense forests to explore new possible deserts, where their dance will succeed to bring much needed rains. Many Thanks to You for being there to motivate us with your single-handed Enthusiasm. Be Always Happy Be Blessed Lots LoVE

@kurthao3011 2 жыл бұрын

Dr. Mel Gill, i enjoyed your talk alot. 🇵🇭💓💓

@dericflairmultiverse4952 2 жыл бұрын

I couldn't HANDle your jokes but thank you for the inspiring talk

@ngqabuthomafu8559 2 жыл бұрын

That was a good talk you are gifted sir!

@stevec404 Жыл бұрын

"He keeps dancing until it rains!" I am laughing and crying at the same time. From one who has given up on himself way too many times...thank you for this inspiring message.

@nellymorales1635 Жыл бұрын

Me too...same emotion

@aju3842 Жыл бұрын

Hahaha hahahaha dance until it rains hahaha

@jonathandenis5249 Жыл бұрын

Keep trying bro

@stevec404 Жыл бұрын

@@jonathandenis5249 - Absolutely! Thanks, J.D.

@dianamuringo3998 Жыл бұрын

👏👏 This guy is amazing

@theroadtoamillion Жыл бұрын

Watching this in September 2022 and it’s such a breathe of fresh air. I love this guy! He’s funny 😆 “no problem mon, you have a situation mon” 💯

@manifestationwithsami 2 жыл бұрын

You CANNOT solve the problem if you are still fighting against it. If you are still struggling with the issue that dejected you or the problem that stuck in your life, let it go. Do not fight against it. Sometimes accepting and letting go can give you the highest peace. Isn’t? Some problems are not solvable by our power; they are out of our control. Fighting against them destroys our mindset and energy level. Let it go and take a breath

@jcjlove Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@raphaelwalker19 Жыл бұрын

I am actually from Jamaica, 🇯🇲, perfect description, we have no problem ❤

@haaste_mies Жыл бұрын

No problem, no woman, no cry🇯🇲

@adulis73 Жыл бұрын

No problem man!

@Hotelsonfire Жыл бұрын

The “nobody makes it out of this life alive” bit and the “he keeps dancing until it rains” part really spoke to me.

@Always.2020 Жыл бұрын

What a sense of humor combined with serious ideas!!!

@pretinha718 Жыл бұрын

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@pretinha718 Жыл бұрын

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@pretinha718 Жыл бұрын

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@pretinha718 Жыл бұрын

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@user-vq5ff6mv4n Жыл бұрын

Ironically, I lived a life that centered on the feelings of others. Instead of expressing my feelings frankly, I thought I had to live a happy life that would require suppressing my feelings to avoid making problems. At the same time, I firmly believed that my inner anxiety or nervousness should not be revealed. I tried to think positively or forced a smile on my face, hiding my unease and pretending not to know. Some feelings discomforted me, which I knew I should not be feeling, yet whenever those feelings arose, I would deny myself and suffer. I thought this was the right way, but reality told me the contrary. I became more vulnerable. I started to use the "Intended mindfulness playlist' and got much better. It really works 🙂

@mothiurNCL Жыл бұрын

I don't usually have much time to watch anything more than 3 or 4 minutes, 6 maximum. This man is inspirational and 22 minutes wasn't long enough.

@wrsk.7014 Жыл бұрын

‘Because he keep dancing until it rains’ Such a beautiful and motivated ending.

@amamamamamama97 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely LOVED this TedX talk! Love the positivity he gave out and how he made people laugh throughout! An absolute gem! 👏🏼

@fayeburke7732 Жыл бұрын

We need more laughter in this world today love this talk

@pammiesingkho1786 Жыл бұрын

Oyeee!!! 💞💞💞💞💞😃😃😃

@nooraisyah6655 2 жыл бұрын

Massive failure lead to massive success. Love this !

@jensonalex9610 Жыл бұрын

He's got a very strong mind to loose his hand and still say boldly and with a smile as well.... "I did everything Single-handedly"

@Camille-pg1xw 3 жыл бұрын

CRAZY SPEAKER. What a guy filled with bright ideas! Thank you, Doc Mel!!

@sepidehpakmehr2650 Жыл бұрын

He was full of energy and that made the talk really enjoyable. 🥰

@ABC-du6yz 5 ай бұрын

how beautiful you look ma'am. amazing.

@timothyroberts2103 Жыл бұрын

As a solution focused psychotherapist i really enjoyed this.

@fashionlove 7 жыл бұрын

Such a wonderful character! Such an amazing personality! So much laugh, so much life, so much energy in him. Such inspiring talk, thank you!

@mikeytobago 6 жыл бұрын

i must put a like to your insanity lol

@DrMelGill 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@ninjuhnin Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad I got to watch this talk just before new year. So inspiring! Let's all keep dancing until it rains!

@london8737 3 жыл бұрын

This was brilliant. Light hearted truth. Made me laugh. A good way to learn with laugher

@Chikathegreatman Жыл бұрын

Amazing! How the things that appear as shortcomings could become our badge of honor. Just like the great apostle Paul, said three times have I asked the Lord to remove this infirmity but he said my Grace is sufficient for you.

@kutitub7220 Жыл бұрын

dynamic speaker...full of life. 🤣🤣♥️♥️

@andrewacton5095 Ай бұрын

Fabulous talk. Love that we have situations! We should definitely all keep dancing until it rains. Thanks for the wisdom Dr Gill.

@charlesadah5929 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful, love his energy

@chinthakasml9934 Жыл бұрын

"Tomorrow never dark" Absolutely love your speach. Long life!

@preparingminds-silamsharif1957 Жыл бұрын

Dancing until it rains is very powerful ..Need such a confidence and conviction..👏👏👏👏👏Enjoyed with great message 👍👍👍

@manoyjayrpacistv Жыл бұрын

If all english speakers talk so clear like this then i think learning it is enjoyable and easy. Love his accent..

@thenavigator582 2 жыл бұрын

Can’t thank you enough for the magic you did with just few words. You have restored my confidence that i lost after few consecutive failures. I was sooo depressed and then i came up with this video. I feel like this 20 mins session that i have listened is the most useful thing i have ever done in my life with my mobile phone😂 Thank you again!

@kaksbaby Жыл бұрын

Not the most useful thing you’ve done on a mobile phone 😂😂😂😂

@camillac.s.279 Жыл бұрын

🙏🏻❤️🙌🏻

@DJ-sv7xf Жыл бұрын

If you learned something from your failures then it wasn't a waste of time - it was an expensive lesson. They taught us in college that the person who fails and stops trying is the only failure. Look for the lesson and change your angle of attack.

@sbkalatage1042 Жыл бұрын

My salutes sir

@joshuaesoko7712 2 жыл бұрын

This just made my day.... I'm glad I watched this

@mollypinto4666 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this all inspiring talks Mel....wish I had someone like you to help my son who is diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Some even confused called it Schizophrenia 😕 Hope you're doing well wherever you may be. God bless you and yours🙏

@user-fb1ys2lj9c Жыл бұрын

Thank for the hope and inspiration. Now I will find my next solution to my procrastination and fears ♥🙏🏽

@ganbatte1260 11 ай бұрын

How is it? Im in it now :(

@tdannichols Жыл бұрын

Perspective is Everything.

@idamurry6611 Жыл бұрын

BRILLIANT! BRILLIANT ! BRILLIANT🦜

@sueharper581 Жыл бұрын

He keeps dancing till it rains. Love it

@laurenalvarez4302 2 ай бұрын

I watch at least 2 Ted Talks every day & this one is by far the best !!! Thank you for sharing your story

@mojcahenigman5310 Жыл бұрын

So much fun to listen, laughed out loud a few times, and underpinned by really solid, encouraging ideas.

@williamwaugh8987 Жыл бұрын

This guy is on point!

@divyanshuji6879 Жыл бұрын

Omg😂😂😂..,the best Ted talk i watched till now......he made me so laugh 🤓🤓🤣 thank you 😘..........he has only 1 hand😥 and he is so energetic and happy..... and we are complaining about life...... i got new perspective about problems in life by you sir...... thank you so much for sharing.... take care sir ❤️....salute you 🙏💗💗

@tayybasvoice590 Жыл бұрын

Gosh, his way of speaking is so magnetic

@yayrabernicebatse8911 Жыл бұрын

Massive success is the end product of some failures. Great talk.

@thusspokeshabistari Жыл бұрын

this guy always give the commentary at the end of “Incredible Tales” episodes . Legend siol

@noora6909 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely my favorite Ted Talk, such a beautiful inspiring person! 🙌🏼

@MnMcancook Жыл бұрын

Talking about this is extremely important! Schizophrenia and Bipolar disorders are not understood very well by doctors, much less the general public. I congratulate you for having the confidence and determination to inform people of these disorders and the fact that you are functional. Keep it up, and good luck!

@camiloalejandroquirozcaste9852 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent TedXTalk! I would dare to say that is the best I´ve watched!!

@mugambiharmaton2091 Жыл бұрын

This is pure greatness. I love his energy

@TakedownmanLive 6 жыл бұрын

Mel is awesome!

@mannmadantilak489 4 жыл бұрын

@rsalanspeaks Жыл бұрын

Added to my Fav Ted Talks ❤️ A Good Start of my Day 2 Feb 2023

@laarawilliamsen Жыл бұрын

Yes! Wow~ You got it right all through the talk! Thank you so much for sharing! We need many more talks like this!

@dingling2645 Жыл бұрын

So if you just take a inventory of where you are right now understand where you are what resources you have how much money you have what education level you have what connections you have and then think about where it is you want to go what is it you want to be don't think five years think two years just two years something that's within vision and then notice what it will take for you to get from here to there what is the path between here and there and if you don't know the path find someone who has taken that path find someone who has already done it and if you cannot meet them directly find it out in books you've got the internet you've got all of these resources and this is the step that no one takes. Love it.

@johnfillmed5909 3 жыл бұрын

Love this talk....

@shalinikumar4203 3 жыл бұрын

Thoroughly enjoyed the talk!! 👍💞

@LifeonaHigh Жыл бұрын

Thank you Dr Mel.

@rehemankisi3413 Жыл бұрын

Great presenter great presentation. Thank you so kindly for sharing.

@queennefertarimerytmut4336 Жыл бұрын

Thank You MEL… Absolutely stunning 🤗

@mochamollybradbury247 2 жыл бұрын

I love this guy!

@Joy-jb3dm 2 жыл бұрын

What a wonderful speech

@feraidadeleon2914 Жыл бұрын

Had so much fun listening and learned so much from it. Brilliant speaker!😊

@maryrushlow976 Жыл бұрын

He is amazing speaker and yes definitely inspiring. Yes I read your book. BaRnna is lucky to have you living with them. Amen

@quatran3401 Жыл бұрын

Each. truyen Viet Audial

@suzannemorissette Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this TedX talk. How wonderful in inspiring.

@AnaMaria-zd3sx Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Mel, you're words are exactly what I needed 🙂🙂

@PhuongHoang-rk5uo Жыл бұрын

Amazing speech! Thank you!

@timhardman9386 Жыл бұрын

One of the best Talks ever.

@naylynningit Жыл бұрын

Love this talk!

@monasixtyfive4962 Жыл бұрын

Loved this talk. Please keep it coming🙏

@Shempullen76gmail Жыл бұрын

right on I enjoy and love intelligent people sharing intelligence

@lulekrzulek Жыл бұрын

this is one of the best ted talks i ever watched. Thank you!!!

@kylehall2457 3 ай бұрын

Watched this two times in a row, Great presentation.

@colombianaliel Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this sir it’s exactly what I needed to hear right now!

@Scole23786 Жыл бұрын

He is a dynamic speaker. I watched it twice!

@huntedbyflight 2 ай бұрын

Hi Brian, thank you for this. My current journey is to improve my problem solving skills and communication. Thus, thus was very helpful.

@ramamadhav2198 Жыл бұрын

you have done a wonderful job 👏. thank you for sharing your passion with us. wow really amazed to see your collection. 🙏

@patrickk.lumumba8869 Жыл бұрын

Your talk is so engaging, I didn't notice you don't have your left arm till you mentioned.

@Seli2770 Жыл бұрын

I enjoyed this so much.. Such a great delivery & so informative, I’m defs Implementing all of which you speak on, Thankyou ❤

@billybabu Жыл бұрын

He gets a big Hand from Wolverhampton England 🌹🙏🏆💥

@tholar8826 6 жыл бұрын

marvelous

@akiadanny9091 Жыл бұрын

Keep dancing until it rains!!! What an inspiration

@thanhhueoan9455 Жыл бұрын

wow, I found his speech so interestingggg, rather than considering them as problems, just turn into situations and then you deal with

@erynamour1485 Жыл бұрын

I have watched this over and over again

@PassageOfLove Жыл бұрын

One of the best talk i have listened.

@Rebekah804 Жыл бұрын

I felt this speech great presenter excellent message.

@nabinchaudhary926 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for such a beautiful insight talk. You are phenomenal. The way you have described the solution for problems is unbelievable!

@iwaskyrafirst Жыл бұрын

One of my favorites

@Msichilya Жыл бұрын

Excellently put 👊🏽

@vxnte5576 Жыл бұрын

Thankful for this one ☝️

@vernongrant4710 2 жыл бұрын

Fantastic speaker.

@sundareswarans435 Жыл бұрын

Possibility thinking, Situation for solution, keep on trying are essence of this speech

@mariomurillo714 Жыл бұрын

Damnn Much Love To this Channel.

@ganeshkumarsharma150 Жыл бұрын

Awesome !!!!!! Unlimited salutes to you Mr. Gill Really awesome. Inspiring to deal with situation not problems.. Greatful for your lovely presentation.💯

@narendrasinghthagunna1074 Жыл бұрын

Just fond of his speech❤❤❤

@joseanguiano7938 10 ай бұрын

Dope, I learned that changing your mindset on how you look at problems can help change that stigma. The word "problem " gets such a bad rap that nobody knows how to get out of it. Take inventory of where you are? where you want to go? and how your gonna get there, finally take the first step and try it. Lastly FAIL there is no success if you don't try. Here we go.