Self control: Dan Ariely at TEDxDuke

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Behavioral economist Dan Ariely talks about self control and the difference between our long term goals and our short term actions. Dan Ariely is an renowned professor of psychology and behavioral economics. He teaches at Duke University and is the founder of The Center for Advanced Hindsight and also the co-founder of BEworks.

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@winargilang3243
@winargilang3243 6 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this while I'm procrastinating
@musicmann7891
@musicmann7891 6 жыл бұрын
Winar Gilang 😂😂😂 lol W for you
@valindajewell3270
@valindajewell3270 3 жыл бұрын
😅
@priya-zk1eg
@priya-zk1eg 3 жыл бұрын
Lol😂
@Ra-kt1yk
@Ra-kt1yk 3 жыл бұрын
Procrastination is the ultimate act of self control !
@notagain3732
@notagain3732 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@potatorepublic6673
@potatorepublic6673 8 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this Tedx. Recently gave up tobacco, porn, junk food, and hot showers to become more disciplined and now my long term goals seem more attainable than ever. I feel like a good person in the present, not just the future. Thanks for the talk.
@stop08it
@stop08it 8 жыл бұрын
congrats!!!
@johnthangminlun
@johnthangminlun 5 жыл бұрын
Yo Champ, how's it goin'?
@billyrabago8968
@billyrabago8968 5 жыл бұрын
why would you give up hot showers?
@ingredi8409
@ingredi8409 5 жыл бұрын
HOW
@veganlifechange
@veganlifechange 5 жыл бұрын
Wowowwowow AMAZING!
@edoist16
@edoist16 11 жыл бұрын
"In the future we are wonderful people" Great saying
@BharathNatarajancitisanyasi
@BharathNatarajancitisanyasi 9 жыл бұрын
Worth watching, mostly different way of talking and so sharp on points and deep in thoughts... Great talk Dan
@andrewcampbell7889
@andrewcampbell7889 5 жыл бұрын
This is GENIUS. Thank you Sir. And can I say to anyone reading this comment that this is one of the most productive ways I have spent any 15 minutes of my 50 year old life.
@gaeb-hd4lf
@gaeb-hd4lf 9 жыл бұрын
GENIUS talk, i presonally think this is the only way to achieve flawless discipline
@nutella5936
@nutella5936 6 жыл бұрын
Wow. For me, this has been the best TED talk I've heard so far. I am very inspired to try his ideas and would love to hear him speak again.
@2079karen
@2079karen 10 жыл бұрын
Brilliant man and he has made me think about self control a lot , Thank you
@jsarratt1
@jsarratt1 10 жыл бұрын
Yes. Thinking and above all, being present in the moment is the first step.
@jagadeeshchenna6518
@jagadeeshchenna6518 5 жыл бұрын
Hiii after 5 years !
@hiba.abdullah
@hiba.abdullah Жыл бұрын
Hi after 8 yrs
@twopaddles1
@twopaddles1 8 жыл бұрын
my favorite TED talk for sure
@ScrappyXGC
@ScrappyXGC 8 жыл бұрын
I can still be the dick I was, but I'm just a little bit nicer now. :D
@Chillermushroom
@Chillermushroom 8 жыл бұрын
"It's connected to your bank account, and to a charity you hate." Glorious^^
@costanzauk
@costanzauk 5 жыл бұрын
Chillermushroom then you just turn off the alarm and go back to sleep lol
@LateButGreat
@LateButGreat 5 жыл бұрын
​@@costanzauk Each 10 minutes snooze $10
@Adbee123
@Adbee123 10 жыл бұрын
One of the most impressive ted talks I've seen in a while.
@Bekahdot2000
@Bekahdot2000 8 жыл бұрын
I have found this talk extremely inspirational! Thank you!
@MissVelvetElle
@MissVelvetElle 11 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk! I always enjoy his presentations. He is also such an inspiration because he has been through so much! If he can make it through with such a great attitude, we all can.
@sharonjohanna7261
@sharonjohanna7261 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much and hopefully your health is a lot better now..Thanks for sharing!!
@Montseroset
@Montseroset 8 жыл бұрын
Here we have the key to success, the key to happiness!!! I want to delve into this speech. I have to raise my children to be able to achieve their long-term goals.
@michaeltoebe5619
@michaeltoebe5619 10 жыл бұрын
He's always a captivating speaker and I enjoy, of course, the subject matter of this presentation.
@LazyChristy
@LazyChristy 9 жыл бұрын
Very logical, and funny. Thank you for laying it out so well. :-) My dilemma is an unhealthy, if not toxic relationship of 18 months. I kept feeling like I wasn't going to be happy in the long run for lots of good reasons. But something always stopped me from leaving, love and the stupidity that comes with it. Now it has recently " ended" from both sides because we have crazy sadistic fights where we're at it to hurt each other and make each other feel worthless to "win" and it hasn't changed. We both want to work on that but feel like we would progress better ( as in in terms of self control) if we weren't around each other to complicate things but it is hard to not just fall back into each other's arms even though we know that those horrible fights would most likely be inevitable then.
@angelicasbestversion3301
@angelicasbestversion3301 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this talk! I relate for sure. Thank you.
@nilimam3498
@nilimam3498 9 жыл бұрын
He is an awesome speaker. Very useful talk.
@solrheat
@solrheat 10 жыл бұрын
The message/idea is not really new, but the presentation is brilliant and that really makes a difference. Cute guy with hilarious sense of humor :)
@ricardogomez3129
@ricardogomez3129 5 жыл бұрын
Can you expand why is it not new? Other authors or texts or talks? Thanks
@deviesaha6523
@deviesaha6523 10 жыл бұрын
Very insightful...really wrapped my brain around things this morning. :) thanks for the ideas Dan!
@EricELT18
@EricELT18 10 жыл бұрын
Witty, insightful, and informative. Thanks for sharing!
@MuhammadAli-iw9jz
@MuhammadAli-iw9jz 5 жыл бұрын
I don't care about likes (given to a video ...) but this is one of the few that deserves it !!
@determinedtoimprove8077
@determinedtoimprove8077 10 жыл бұрын
A very interesting person and wonderful presentation on the subject that we ALL suffer with. Its given me the tools to overcome my temptations. Now I know that I must put a strict, non-tolerant penalty on my temptations.
@rajivagarwal1139
@rajivagarwal1139 4 жыл бұрын
I watched it today. It is most important to maintain our self control and make it a habit. It is an energy which we loose every movement. With lunch time approaching we loose control and focus on what we are doing and start waiting 1 hr before the time. When time comes we are so eager to full fill our desire and hunger we eat what is available instead of choosing the healthy food. Self control comes with practice and planning and keeping the goal in mind. Otherwise we loose control 10 times a day more during later part of the day.
@prasaandh
@prasaandh 5 жыл бұрын
i really needed this video... thank you so much Dan Ariely Bro...
@agirlnameddejanae
@agirlnameddejanae 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely amazing, love to rewatch this.
@nO_d3N1AL
@nO_d3N1AL 7 жыл бұрын
Although a "red button" is a good solution for many people, I think it's more about state of mind and motivation than short-term incentives. Discipline is not easy, but it is definitely rewarding. From a purely rational perspective, we might even argue that time inconsistent behaviour may indicate that the subject doesn't truly care about the long term, and they only say they do to make themselves feel better.
@my_english_faq_
@my_english_faq_ 10 жыл бұрын
He's such an amazing person!
@andytparrott
@andytparrott 10 жыл бұрын
One challenge for reward substitution is thinking of rewards for aversive tasks that require sustained attention. Side effects for medicine are terrible, but they're something that have to be passively endured rather than actively focused on. Work is less aversive, but to do it right you have to pay attention. So what kind of reward can you give yourself to focus on work?
@sianacampbell3028
@sianacampbell3028 10 жыл бұрын
The mechanism is still the same; find something that will make the sustained effort totally worth it. A personal example: in the midst of battling procrastination, I unexpectedly suffered a health crisis that reduced my ability to be productive by about 90% for more than 3 weeks. It was horrible. I'd never been immobilized before; imagine not being able to do anything but lay in bed and deal with pain day in and day out. It put a WHOLE new perspective on my previous struggle with procrastination. Now, when I am faced with temptation to make a short-sighted choice, I quickly remember that life could dramatically change at any second and forever erase the opportunity or ability to do what we SHOULD. Hope this helps.
@Godsgirll4eva
@Godsgirll4eva 9 жыл бұрын
culd keep d reward for a later tym based on if u finish ur wrk...(sum1 myt av to keep u accountable...so dat u dunt reward urself even wen u didnt finish. culd also do sumtin dat does not really distract...like play sootin music..dip ur legs in warm water...mayeb if d wrk is reading go to diff beautiful comfortable locatns(if u luv nature)
@averysays
@averysays 8 жыл бұрын
+Godgirl What is wrong with you?
@kajanthanaero433
@kajanthanaero433 8 жыл бұрын
I love watching his wonderful talks :)
@engineerated5627
@engineerated5627 8 жыл бұрын
Specific, to the point, easy to understand yet having a great idea!
@evonnesutherland9727
@evonnesutherland9727 10 жыл бұрын
Very interesting speech! I love it!
@fantastica9186
@fantastica9186 3 жыл бұрын
Great presentation and a fantastic speaker. I really enjoyed that!
@KarimKadiriMOTIVATOR
@KarimKadiriMOTIVATOR 10 жыл бұрын
I love this man... Bravo!
@lavalizard3
@lavalizard3 11 жыл бұрын
Awesome talk. I'm gonna have to try some of those tricks, because my self control has gone to crap these days.
@andy4an
@andy4an 10 жыл бұрын
That second alarm clock would work on me. But more importantly, the games we can play to force us to be forward thinkers are brilliant.
@darudeSandstorm.
@darudeSandstorm. 4 жыл бұрын
Wow this is so much more practical then anything else ive seen on ted :-) it inspires me a lot :-) :-) thank you :-)
@agreg375
@agreg375 11 жыл бұрын
sometimes going to a library and seeing other people working and motivated, ends up motivating me. Also eventually the library closes so you have to get a certain amount of work done. Set alarms every hour or so to track your progress if youre at home.
@Pathrissia
@Pathrissia 11 жыл бұрын
Really thankful for this! Thank you
@EdwardRockower
@EdwardRockower 8 жыл бұрын
brilliant, funny, profound! "Must see" video about the "human condition".
@BAdventures
@BAdventures 8 жыл бұрын
Poor guy got a bad blood transfusion. Great talk he is a great speaker and teacher =)
@ModMINI
@ModMINI 4 жыл бұрын
Very insightful look at how the human mind actually works. I also just realized that Dr. Ariely basically described the reason religions exist.
@maxczapski9275
@maxczapski9275 8 жыл бұрын
Good talk, but the Ulysses method is absolutely ineffective. In my humble opinion, positive reinforcement is way better than brute forcing your way out of bad habits. And when it comes to addiction... forget it! Nevertheless, his first anecdote reflected a good approach. Connecting unpleasant experiences with good sensations is much more adequate from the neurological point of view. "Fire together, wire together"... remember?
@November378
@November378 10 жыл бұрын
Great presentation, Dan Ariely!
@SaraThulin82
@SaraThulin82 11 жыл бұрын
Very good! Thank you for the tips! I will take them with me in my fight to become more self controlled! :)
@LovelyMeCnC
@LovelyMeCnC 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent presentation! Thank you
@shriswamiramanand
@shriswamiramanand 9 жыл бұрын
profound and so true! I can certainly relate to it. During my board exam, I could not control going over facebook every so often, I gave my username and password to my wife, asked her to change the password, and also change the reset email address to her email address, and I did not go on facebook for almost 3 months, which would not be possible for may 3 days if I had choice! Now I have access, but my craving to goto facebook is reduced that I hardly go! but I am afraid again to regularly start going back to it~
@omshankarSah
@omshankarSah 10 жыл бұрын
Great... the way u start... ur confidence... and ofcoz self control technique...☺
@parvbhardwaj1997
@parvbhardwaj1997 4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this speaker!
@Competitiveforlolz
@Competitiveforlolz 9 жыл бұрын
This is key to Games that want to hook their players.
@jonathansmith3081
@jonathansmith3081 9 жыл бұрын
He is so right. We need to create something to stop temptation. Kitchen Safe, I swear. It is everything he is talking about.
@mariacurie1520
@mariacurie1520 9 жыл бұрын
One of the best Ted Talks in my opinion! My much better than the guy who has the highest number of views on Ted channel!
@monsterjesse
@monsterjesse 6 жыл бұрын
... (because in the future we are wonderful people) brilliant!
@_Desiree
@_Desiree 5 жыл бұрын
Ya, this guy is incredibly funny!! Really fun to listen to and watch!!!
@hiimmaca
@hiimmaca 11 жыл бұрын
Excellent video! Thanks for this
@syedashiqurrahman7620
@syedashiqurrahman7620 4 жыл бұрын
Interesting study with the rats and pigeons: reminds me of Conditioning. Now that I am watching the TED talk in a loop to understand Dan better, just curious, has the study taken "color psychology" for rats and pigeons into account? I'm not sure whether certain colors affect them in a certain way but if it affects humans, why not them?
@Stinkyarab0
@Stinkyarab0 10 жыл бұрын
"you are your worst enemy"
@mytimeistoday1
@mytimeistoday1 11 жыл бұрын
as to alarm clocks...when i needed to force myself to get up early, I'd change the time on my clock, for something like 9 or 13 or 17 minutes fast, and set the alarm to 6:02...this way when it went off, by trying to figure out what time it really was, was enough time to wake my sorry ass up! Also helped to put the clock on the other side of the room & keep anything i could use as weapons against that annoying clock far from my reach!
@atheistbyknowledge
@atheistbyknowledge 5 жыл бұрын
Very Helpful. Thank You.
@bhavanjasani315
@bhavanjasani315 5 жыл бұрын
This is so awesome !!!
@TheShabooka
@TheShabooka 11 жыл бұрын
one of the best ive ever read about
@yh2059376
@yh2059376 10 жыл бұрын
Brilliant! I learned a lot
@haleyzo13
@haleyzo13 6 жыл бұрын
This is brilliant and a captivating presentation
@_Desiree
@_Desiree 5 жыл бұрын
Very!!!
@stratoge
@stratoge 11 жыл бұрын
very informative and thought-provoking
@OmbrelloSdegnoso
@OmbrelloSdegnoso 9 жыл бұрын
Great stuff here.
@DarkPuzzle
@DarkPuzzle 6 жыл бұрын
I've been looking for this
@iaJENKA
@iaJENKA 11 жыл бұрын
What a great speaker!
@spinal2650
@spinal2650 12 жыл бұрын
very insightful video! Thanks :) I have learned a lot
@Bladesvideos
@Bladesvideos 10 ай бұрын
Very good ted talk. I will improve from today and will be unstoppable in the long term
@rendermatt
@rendermatt 11 жыл бұрын
log out and make sure "remember me" isn't enabled. Make sure browser, phone, etc. doesn't remember your username or password. Then you have to enter your info every time. That helps me
@ductuslupus87
@ductuslupus87 11 жыл бұрын
Very good talk. I liked it very much.
@josephfernando4867
@josephfernando4867 6 жыл бұрын
Brilliant guy...very informative and valuable.
@_Desiree
@_Desiree 5 жыл бұрын
and funny!!!
@AR-jw9io
@AR-jw9io 3 жыл бұрын
Very simple and very nice! Lovely
@rudyvillareal6550
@rudyvillareal6550 10 жыл бұрын
This is great!!!
@mtheaney
@mtheaney 10 жыл бұрын
It's merely a simplified example. There is some value of waiting - the time value of money - but economists' experiments have proven that the price we place on deferring gratification is irrationally too high.
@FABIOLINDOCC
@FABIOLINDOCC 4 жыл бұрын
This was huge!!!
@mar8014
@mar8014 11 жыл бұрын
I really like Dan. He seems like a really nice person.
@binarsobudiono8388
@binarsobudiono8388 5 жыл бұрын
2019 and thans for sharing!
@LaShawnLatera
@LaShawnLatera 9 жыл бұрын
awesome surprisingly!!
@AbuHaddadin56
@AbuHaddadin56 11 жыл бұрын
I need to control how much I watch Ted talk :)
@rasheedameir3770
@rasheedameir3770 9 жыл бұрын
I like that presentation.
@TheDamonDarkChannel
@TheDamonDarkChannel 11 жыл бұрын
That was one of the better ones!
@oxalis4227
@oxalis4227 9 жыл бұрын
Super Talk!
@RedIndra
@RedIndra 11 жыл бұрын
Ha, ha, I was thinking exactly the same.. Will try to watch The Science Of Willpower, as the last one. Hopefully that brings me back to my things. :)
@marekdrzewiecki3780
@marekdrzewiecki3780 11 жыл бұрын
Great!, Thank you!
@JakubPasich
@JakubPasich 11 жыл бұрын
I would like to propose one thing. If everybody would be concious of arising feelings in their bodys and thoughts in our mind, then thouse feelings and thougs would fade away and tamtations with it. All decisions are made in now. All what we have to do is train to live in the moment and embrace consciousness with in.
@yellowstar247
@yellowstar247 11 жыл бұрын
Great speaker!
@TehMezdawg
@TehMezdawg 11 жыл бұрын
this is such an amazing video
@leoceoliveira
@leoceoliveira 11 жыл бұрын
THIS IS SOOO GOOOD!
@Kiwiwanderer
@Kiwiwanderer 4 жыл бұрын
He’s good damn good, And who doesn’t love his accent and humour. Very cool.
@ChoosingMorality
@ChoosingMorality 11 жыл бұрын
Brilliant!!!!! So glad I watched this. Very motivational and informative. I'm going to strive really hard to be like the rats and pigeons! Just don't accidentally set one down at a nuclear launch facility.
@Marobobb
@Marobobb 7 жыл бұрын
GOD THIS VIDEO IS WONDERFUL.
@sarthakmohapatra3738
@sarthakmohapatra3738 6 жыл бұрын
So in short if u want to strike out the vices and add a few virtues to ur life then each time u r tempted to break ur oaths then do something which u hate, loathe or disgust the most. That will keep u in track. AWESOME IDEA by the way.
@EarthlinkRecords7
@EarthlinkRecords7 11 жыл бұрын
Brilliant!!!
@MrPlaid81
@MrPlaid81 11 жыл бұрын
Excellent!
@YoutuwbeJunkie
@YoutuwbeJunkie 12 жыл бұрын
Great Video!
@Thefitty
@Thefitty 7 жыл бұрын
Great tips! One rule I've made for myself is that if I'm going to browse the web I better also be hula hoopin!
@bibichloe
@bibichloe 6 жыл бұрын
OOOPS! Brilliant topic by a brilliant person! Really seminal & inspiring.Thank you so much.
@llilacprince
@llilacprince 2 жыл бұрын
Laughing hysterically at the clock that's connected to a bank account and charity you hate. Phenomenal talk. Lots of knowledge accompanied by great humor.
@mtheaney
@mtheaney 10 жыл бұрын
In the chocolate example (3:45) is it rational to pay a 50% penalty to have it a week sooner? Is your life that risky? Or do you not trust Dan Ariely to deliver?
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