How to break out of your social bubble | Beate Volker | TEDxHaarlem

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Ай бұрын

From more than 50 years of research on social networks, we know that social cohesion - the cement that keeps us together - is not based on strong ties but on weaker ties. In a world where everyone has only strong ties, only islands or bubbles exist, social cohesion is low, and society is fragmented. In a fragmented world, we see only those whom we know already and who are like us. How can we escape from such bubbles? Do we need contacts and access to other social circles? Contact to worlds that are totally different from our own one?
I am a sociologist and the director of the Netherland’s Institute for the Study of Crime and Law Enforcement (NSCR). My interest in social cohesion includes the study of failures of social order and social institutions, hence, this is a wonderful place to work on these themes and related research questions. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@triciamyles7258
@triciamyles7258 Ай бұрын
Definitely noticed a lack of smiles during Covid! It still isn’t really back, but the other day, I shared a smile with a stranger over a cute dog who went by in a car! It felt wonderful!❤
@CoughitsKath
@CoughitsKath Ай бұрын
probably cuz of all the masks covering them up 😉
@valmacclinchy
@valmacclinchy Ай бұрын
​@@CoughitsKatha person's eyes and upper part of their cheeks look different when they smile
@CoughitsKath
@CoughitsKath Ай бұрын
@@valmacclinchy please note the winky face emoji in previous comment
@MeanOldLady
@MeanOldLady Ай бұрын
@@CoughitsKath Try some actual humor in your next comment.
@Damiancates12
@Damiancates12 Ай бұрын
@@MeanOldLady i thought it was funny. not rofl funny but it was aight.
@brokenlink921
@brokenlink921 Ай бұрын
I've been practicing exactly this in a highly insular Haredi community for a few years. Some of them are still terrified of me and that's okay. Despite everything that's going on in the world, all the hate, they will now even wave and smile back at me. I've even had them make small talk and I do now feel very connected to them. Now I just need to be not socially anxious and do this more with more Non-Haredi. I say all this because I'll go sit in a coffee shop and not make eye contact or smile with anyone, but I will try my best now.
@jennyatmodus
@jennyatmodus Ай бұрын
oh this is so interesting and also so lovely! just what I needed to hear this evening! thanks Beate
@chandrashekarh.m.3576
@chandrashekarh.m.3576 Ай бұрын
Smile at a stranger.. help a stranger .. Be a stranger !
@carolbon007
@carolbon007 Ай бұрын
😊 me smiling at whoever reads this comment
@MeRia035
@MeRia035 Ай бұрын
🙂 smiles for you & anyone else... 🙂
@Allanchan-nel
@Allanchan-nel Ай бұрын
I've been saying this for about 16 years....and a certain group of people have said "no one owes you anything" in response, accusing me of entitlement based on my demographic characteristics. And yet here, this woman is saying my suggestion is the key to solving our societal disconnection, and I bet people from the group that criticised me are lapping it up because this woman (ironically) shares more in common with them than me.
@user-if1dj7fy2y
@user-if1dj7fy2y Ай бұрын
Enchanting speech
@kyracheera9007
@kyracheera9007 25 күн бұрын
Lovely!
@jeffreypiek
@jeffreypiek Ай бұрын
We see this with confirmation bias. Most ppl only watch the news that agrees with our views.
@bukurie6861
@bukurie6861 Ай бұрын
Thank you share with us beautiful talk❤😍Okay then
@tango942
@tango942 Ай бұрын
Yeah 👍
@AliMohammed-wk2hf
@AliMohammed-wk2hf Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@genevaelyse1918
@genevaelyse1918 Ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@TorKanone
@TorKanone Ай бұрын
Nice Video. What is the Name of the intro jingle?
@kipkoechmike1442
@kipkoechmike1442 Ай бұрын
👍
@LAZY_PHILOMATH
@LAZY_PHILOMATH Ай бұрын
Don't be a Stranger, just be Strange...;p
@jesse_kihara
@jesse_kihara Ай бұрын
Smile
@chaserandazzo3738
@chaserandazzo3738 Ай бұрын
🙏✨💜🍀💐
@armandocastillorodriguez1731
@armandocastillorodriguez1731 Ай бұрын
No 😢 Gabriel se fue a mis azules
@MoSadik-pj5yw
@MoSadik-pj5yw Ай бұрын
Second😔 Can I get 1 like....🥺🥺
@triciamyles7258
@triciamyles7258 Ай бұрын
There you go!
@JanetteIrene
@JanetteIrene Ай бұрын
❤️🤎💛🖤🤍
@JasonTroy
@JasonTroy Ай бұрын
💜
@zaidhajju2804
@zaidhajju2804 Ай бұрын
I'm First 🥇🏆
@ABCD-eg2zj
@ABCD-eg2zj Ай бұрын
I am 2nd❤😂😂❤
@gorkemgenc344
@gorkemgenc344 Ай бұрын
congratz, what a well-done job!
@triciamyles7258
@triciamyles7258 Ай бұрын
I am smiling at your brilliance! There! A smile from a stranger for you
@LAZY_PHILOMATH
@LAZY_PHILOMATH Ай бұрын
I got you a star that your mom can hang on the fridge ;)⭐
@mynameisalam9084
@mynameisalam9084 Ай бұрын
I need English partner
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