10 things I learned after losing a lot of money | Dorothée Loorbach | TEDxMünster

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She used to be exceptionally successful in her job and earn a lot of money. And she spent even more, until she was broke, unable even to bake her little daughter a birthday cake. Dorothée Loorbach unmasks our relation to money and reveals her personal life-changing learnings from her six months project of becoming financially carefree again. Trainer This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@Luminitaispas
@Luminitaispas 10 ай бұрын
One of the most articulated conversations about money I've heard: The 10 Lessons: 1. Money is important ( it's all about your mindset about money) 2. Money = Time ( how much money you exchange your time for) 3. Money = Value ( Seeing yourself as a person of value. You & your time are worth all the money) 4. What people say it doesn't matter ( They speak from their own perspective, it's all about them, not about you) 5. What people say it matters when it's your opinion about yourself. What affirmation am I telling myself? What do I define myself? Am I using empowering words? 6. It's really simple - just listen to what Grandma told you. The essence is this: Spend less, earn more, invest wisely & most of all - Value yourself 7. Simple, it's not that easy. Understand Parkinson law - Why most people retire poor. When it comes to spending I'm a 12 year old. To counter it and be successful as soon as the money comes in the account, it goes to special accounts for investments, for tax & for living expenses. 8. Being broke sucks. Everything is urgent. You are a full-time problem solver, and it takes all your thinking space. Breathe, Free your mind, and be successful in the direction of my purpose. Find my purpose and stop sabotaging myself and become successful 9. Stay broke - Epictetus said " Wealth consists not in having many possessions but in having few wants" - the porodox is that the more money you have, the more quiet and no wifi you want. To be present in your own life. Choose to live like you are broke 10. Money is not important - when you have it!
@bruno_freitas_
@bruno_freitas_ 5 жыл бұрын
A quick recap of the video 4:49 #1 Money is important 5:55 #2 Money equals time 7:00 #3 Money equals value 8:03 #4 What people say doesn't matter 9:49 #5 What people say matters 10:58 #6 It's really simple 11:33 #7 It's not that easy 13:05 #8 Being broke sucks 14:35 #9 Stay Broke 15:54 #10 Money is not important Cheers
@agnesa8865
@agnesa8865 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Samyukthrathod
@Samyukthrathod 5 жыл бұрын
Omg thank you, you saved my TIME
@pitter5990
@pitter5990 5 жыл бұрын
This was all I wanted. Thank you.
@mrtwister9002
@mrtwister9002 5 жыл бұрын
Oh, the contradiction.
@rudyredfish8508
@rudyredfish8508 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣😂❤️
@harryschinas4028
@harryschinas4028 5 жыл бұрын
"Wealth consists not in having great possessions but in having few wants." So true. Great talk.
@breakaway2x
@breakaway2x 5 жыл бұрын
And also wanting what you already have - breakaway2x
@leecaste
@leecaste 5 жыл бұрын
Not true if you can't afford those few wants.
@markash12
@markash12 5 жыл бұрын
I want to see a doctor
@balramghimire1634
@balramghimire1634 2 жыл бұрын
Lllll
@marykatty7701
@marykatty7701 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@instinctively_awesome8283
@instinctively_awesome8283 Жыл бұрын
Buffett likes to say "the best thing to invest in is yourself"...meaning upgrading your skills, asking for the raise. It will give you more satisfaction out of life and more disposable income to put in the market sooner to have more compounding in your favor
@Robertgriffinne
@Robertgriffinne Жыл бұрын
The Times of greatest fear in the market more often than not are some of the best recoveries. Why? Because people tend to panic when things go bad and overreact. Stay informed and always have a plan.
@wiebeplatt4749
@wiebeplatt4749 Жыл бұрын
When pondering what will happen in the economy...the most likely direction .gov will go is the direction that will benefit the wealthy, banks etc.... Right now, banks need tangible assets on their books. Real estate is a great tangible asset at this point in time. IMHO
@Patriciacraig599
@Patriciacraig599 Жыл бұрын
I agre, my prof!t have been quite consistent, regardless of market situation, I got in early 2019 and the constant downtrends and losses discouraged me so I sold off, got back in Dec 2020 this time with guidance from a portfolio-adviser that was commended by a popular economist on a subreddit, long stry shot, its been twoyears now and I’ve gained over $85ok following guidance from my investmnt adviser...
@marianparker7502
@marianparker7502 Жыл бұрын
@@Patriciacraig599 Even if you have a humongous income you still need to draw up futuristic plans because anything can happen. Investment cannot be overemphasized. The lady you mentioned how cna i conect with her..
@PhilipMurray251
@PhilipMurray251 Жыл бұрын
In the "Recession Joe Biden" economy local businesses are feeling the pressure from higher food prices - seeing them double, sometimes triple what they used to be. Just another let's go Brandon moment..
@leavesofdecember
@leavesofdecember 5 жыл бұрын
Sadly I think people in the comments are missing the point. The circular structure of the talk is absolutely beautiful and true. It doesn't end with "money isn't important"-if you have it. Quite the contrary money isn't important once you've realized their importance and adjusted your life to that importance. It only then stops being "important" like that jewish mother's advice "If you spend less than you earn, you will always be rich". and this should be the conclusion from this video that money isn't important when you realize that you can minimize your wants and some "needs" to the point where you can have extra money at the end of the month, and so always live in abundance. In other words, abundance is relative to your behavior towards it, and thus the importance of money is relative to your behavior towards it. If you allow yourself to be stranguled by monetary issues then money becomes more important than yourself, but if you can educate your impulses you can control the magnitude of importance of money in your life, and this goes for any level in society but like she well said, it is almost impossible when you're struggling to make ends meet, to plan ahead. Without planing ahead you are bound to make poor decisions and so not regain control over your finances. On the other end of the spectrum, if you're earning quite well and have increased your comfort and "need" to match your income, which we all do, it will be almost impossible to refrain from spending money you know you have. This discipline is almost the same in both scenarios, with the difference being in the motivation, one is fear driven spending, whereas the other is temptation spending and also fear of missing out maybe. I know because I've been in both situations, and I can confirm it's just as hard.
@OOO-uo9lx
@OOO-uo9lx 5 жыл бұрын
U r absolutely on the money. Thanks for sharing ,man .
@jorbi11
@jorbi11 5 жыл бұрын
whizkid o9
@fropello4353
@fropello4353 5 жыл бұрын
Well said
@SkyGodKing
@SkyGodKing 5 жыл бұрын
Not so sure. The bit about not being able to afford a cake was a complete lie, even poor people know about overdrafts. It felt fake and cringey. When you have that enough experience and education you have a massive asset, money will never matter like it matter to most people. This seemed more like a white rich person problem and is probably misleading for most people. I'm willing to bet that the IRS probably took all her free cash but not her house. It's like those rich celebs who are like I went broke and then came back, so can anyone else. It's completely different. Plus half the talk seemed to just be about how it's ok to be a bad person just ignore all the haters. I didn't see how that fitted in with anything at all. Sure it's great for her and there were some nuggets here and there but not good TED talk and probably more misleading than anything.
@MeAwesome
@MeAwesome 5 жыл бұрын
whizkid Thanks.. right now I’m in a situation that if I have $100 in my account I feel like I’m so rich, I’m on my rock bottom but I’m not gonna be in this situation any long cuz now I know the of money.. thanks to God he been and always be with me..
@raisklose6785
@raisklose6785 2 жыл бұрын
She's a great speaker and you can really feel that it's all coming from experiences. Amazing talk.
@BerbagaiCara89
@BerbagaiCara89 3 ай бұрын
Noooo noooo noooo
@Alexis-hr7lj
@Alexis-hr7lj 5 ай бұрын
Winning is all about risk if you didn't take a risk yiu can make it, winning is about risk.
@Garrett-fz2ur
@Garrett-fz2ur 5 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right, to be a successful in life required not only hard work but awareness and sometime opportunity at the moment, investment remains the best way to start.
@Kendrick-zw1tv
@Kendrick-zw1tv 5 ай бұрын
I agree with you. Investment is the key to sustaining your financial longevity. And not just any investment but an investment with guaranteed return.
@Finnegan-ox6xd
@Finnegan-ox6xd 5 ай бұрын
​@@Kendrick-zw1tvyeah investment is the key to sustaining your financial longevity but venturing into any legit investment or business without a proper guidance of an expert can lead to great loss too.
@EricaWells-vo6vw
@EricaWells-vo6vw 5 ай бұрын
Exactly and many of us don't know where to invest our money so we invest it on wrong place and to the wrong people
@HindaErnest
@HindaErnest 5 ай бұрын
​​@@EricaWells-vo6vwObviously talking about been successful, I know I am blessed if not I wouldn't have met someone who is as spectacular as sativa Hannah
@xfaroutzx3637
@xfaroutzx3637 5 жыл бұрын
I have to agree that financial worries are probably the worst type of worry to have. I have been experiencing lots of financial worries and it’s stressful, causes anxiety and panic BUT it is also the BEST motivator to find a solution.
@jeronimo196
@jeronimo196 5 жыл бұрын
Health issues are probably the worst worries to have. Or growing up in a war zone. Or... actually, I can compile a pretty long list before I get to "I bought a car and a house, and worked my favorite job for almost no money, but the bills showed up. And did I mentioned I had a daughter - yeah, I had a daughter, too..."
@MattPark75
@MattPark75 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, health issues are the worst, no question there.
@RommelTellez
@RommelTellez 5 жыл бұрын
I usually reflect if money scarcity is the healthiest motivator, although I agree with you that it is a very effective one. I am very sure it takes its toll over time.
@jesusbalderas329
@jesusbalderas329 5 жыл бұрын
Abusing money is not healthy. Abusing health is deadly. Abusing time is insane.
@jessithompson4902
@jessithompson4902 2 жыл бұрын
@@jeronimo196 yeah must be nice if rock bottom is 0 and not a negative number like unpayable student loans and no assets to your name.
@victorpeace8187
@victorpeace8187 2 жыл бұрын
Ok but like can we just appreciate Leapnotch for making us smile everyday
@YourCash
@YourCash 2 жыл бұрын
1:40 Only some people truly understand what this feels like. It has nothing to do with bad planning. It has to do with circumstances. Keep pushing forward, don't give up, things will get better!
@christianajoe8563
@christianajoe8563 2 жыл бұрын
When you invest, you're buying a day you don't have to work
@thomasdooley3702
@thomasdooley3702 2 жыл бұрын
Assets that can make you rich Bitcoin Stocks Real estate
@loydriley9221
@loydriley9221 2 жыл бұрын
@@thomasdooley3702 You're right Sir, it's obvious a lot of people remain poor due to ignorance, it's better to take risks and make sacrifices than to remain poor
@kingbush9328
@kingbush9328 2 жыл бұрын
@@loydriley9221 It's not ignorance but due to some unprofessional broker in the market
@lukeben1596
@lukeben1596 2 жыл бұрын
Bitcoin is the most profitable investment online of only you trade with the help of a professional expert
@leahmolly9150
@leahmolly9150 2 жыл бұрын
I recently got into forex trading and im already marveling over the profits I'm making
@saifuimaono9132
@saifuimaono9132 Жыл бұрын
In order to be successful.. you have to lose everything.. it is the drive of not giving up that is the halfway mark. This is the last lesson you must learn to the next level 🧐
@suryahr307
@suryahr307 5 жыл бұрын
"The way other people treat you is not a reflection of who you are, it's a reflection of who they are"
@zionpraises6286
@zionpraises6286 5 жыл бұрын
Yes that was my favourite bit.
@fengquanliao4686
@fengquanliao4686 5 жыл бұрын
I can't agree with you more!
@dionysusnow
@dionysusnow 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it is about you, this is a common rationalization.
@babybirdhome
@babybirdhome 5 жыл бұрын
dionysusnow It's about both, actually. If I ask ten people who live in the same city to tell me about where they live, I'll get ten different answers even though they're all describing the same place. Why is that? Because they're ten different people with ten different sets of experience and values. Those things filter and color everything in their lives uniquely. So yes, sometimes what someone says about you is about you, but it's still about them because 9 other people will say something different. Even when two people say the same thing about the same person, they'll still say it in different ways. So it's still about them.
@mietonen
@mietonen 2 жыл бұрын
@@dionysusnow, it's always about you - people, - humans - are hierarchic creatures - we place the hierarchies in every situation & try to calculate others value - compare to the situation. It's not about them - it's really you - in real life. In internet - there are trolls - and people 'letting out the gas'. But in real life - what you get is what you get. By improving yourself the quality of transactions probably qualifies too.
@ramblingrahema2125
@ramblingrahema2125 Жыл бұрын
I can't explain how much I needed that...whew...that got me back in the game. Thank you so so much for sharing, seriously. I used to unconsciously have negative thoughts about having a lot of money (probably related to poverty trauma) I'd work for almost nothing and give money away when I barely had enough. It takes a mindset shift to realize, that I am allowed to help others but also take care of and value myself.
@Derik-fk2bu
@Derik-fk2bu 2 ай бұрын
I’m in Australia, and very new to this. I’ve been trying to find a broker . that has good customer services and is the commission through them expensive? love some clarification or guidance, please from MR SAM DEYMON.
@wiktoriabartek999
@wiktoriabartek999 2 ай бұрын
I want my money to work for me with sam deymon, I’d like to learn from someone with experience.
@Derik-fk2bu
@Derik-fk2bu 2 ай бұрын
@samdeymon53 💯💯....that's it = 4 advise
@Derik-fk2bu
@Derik-fk2bu 2 ай бұрын
He's GOOGLE account AND TE LEG RAM...
@MichaelOCanno
@MichaelOCanno 2 ай бұрын
Famous last words - “We just need to break through this major resistance level…”All thanks to Mr Sam Deymon.
@MarieMathilda456
@MarieMathilda456 2 ай бұрын
Yes!!!!! After watching so many KZfaq tutorial videos about trading was still making losses until Mr Sam started managing my investments now make $10,567 weekly.
@77777aol
@77777aol 5 жыл бұрын
Oscar Wilde “Nowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing”
@rdrdrd7777
@rdrdrd7777 5 жыл бұрын
77777aol I think the quote is A cynic is a man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing.
@rblaze2379
@rblaze2379 5 жыл бұрын
What is the utility of my happiness.
@jankalfus42
@jankalfus42 5 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best TED talks. Ever. Very inspirational.
@user-gn3zr5uj9w
@user-gn3zr5uj9w Жыл бұрын
I have never seen a man so genuine as this guy, he's really a man of his words..
@Fanrui-cs3ww
@Fanrui-cs3ww 13 күн бұрын
The thing I regret the most is I didn’t start saving early, when i had the luxury of easily extra money and no pressure of making more. This talk is so precious that it should be shown to all young people so that they cultivate a healthy and realistic money habit as early as they can. For most people in normal circumstances, money is not important only when you have it. Control your desire and lower it compared to the amount you earn. Well delivered message thanks to the speaker.
@yulichineseclass3666
@yulichineseclass3666 5 жыл бұрын
she was an entrepreneur and broke, and could be back to success soon is because that she has qualities of an entrepreneur: to reflect on mistakes and to really take actions
@fookufookmi4237
@fookufookmi4237 5 жыл бұрын
Yuli Chinese class and baby daddy checks
@KellsSmith1244
@KellsSmith1244 5 жыл бұрын
True. Her story is condensed but clearly she did what she had to do. My answer to a life setback was to move back home and play with the dogs all day.
@BerbagaiCara89
@BerbagaiCara89 3 ай бұрын
Noooo noooo nooooo
@jawbrace
@jawbrace 5 жыл бұрын
Money is like oxygen. You take it for granted when you have it but when you don't, it's all you think about.
@ricomajestic
@ricomajestic 5 жыл бұрын
You can live without money but you can't live without oxygen!
@098anime
@098anime 5 жыл бұрын
@@ricomajestic how can you live without money? food is not free, shelter is not free, medical care is not free
@ricomajestic
@ricomajestic 5 жыл бұрын
You can always steal food and in warm areas you can live anywhere! In the US, Medical care is free if you go to the emergency room! Take oxygen away for more than 1 minute and most people die right away!
@vccesilva
@vccesilva 5 жыл бұрын
@@ricomajestic and you can steal oxigen too
@33none42
@33none42 5 жыл бұрын
@@098anime yes,a resourceful person can absolutely live without any money of his own. A politician
@mamboferido4741
@mamboferido4741 4 жыл бұрын
Watching this after I got scammed from a small business deal. I will count this failure an essential experience towards my journey to success.
@jayatipatell
@jayatipatell 7 ай бұрын
I would really like to confess that I have lost so much money and I'm 18. I was broke a few days ago. But this really motivated me and that incident have taught me a lot. I am pretty confident that I will built everything I have lost. Whoever has gone through this just don't loose hopes amd don't quit.
@janibathala1893
@janibathala1893 3 жыл бұрын
My parents love me I am a single child They spent lot of money for me Now i cant stop crying I know the value of money
@funnelworks119
@funnelworks119 5 жыл бұрын
Isn't it interesting? The most valuable lessons we learn in life come from the challenges of life itself (more than YEARS of classroom study). Fortunately, we can save time by benefiting and learning from the lessons ("failures") of other people who are willing to share them. This is the kind of stuff I wish children in school got more exposure to. Stuff that would really help them deal with the challenges of REAL LIFE that awaits them. Thanks Dorothée!
@johnstenlund472
@johnstenlund472 5 жыл бұрын
So writing did arrive automatically?
@garyhost1830
@garyhost1830 5 жыл бұрын
Great comment, so true. In the motorcycle community there's a saying: YOU SHOULD LEARN FROM OTHERS MISTAKES AS YOU MIGHT NOT LIVE TO MAKE ALL OF THEM YOURSELF. Great speech, great comment
@richygambs321
@richygambs321 5 жыл бұрын
@@KrisVango Extremely true Kris. That is what I am realising myself just starting a few months ago. You have to Fail and Falter in many of life's challenges to realise how you need to improve yourself to get better and pass the second time around. Even if it is not a challenge that you would not like to do, when you know that you have to do it, or that it would improve your life later on, you will find the discipline to pull through, and you will be proud of yourself. Saying that "you should do this because if you dont X will happen" wont always work. You have to go thru X to understand.
@erdem1956erol
@erdem1956erol 3 жыл бұрын
@@KrisVango I absolutely agree with you Kris. Comfort never gives you a joy after a little time.
@mh1137
@mh1137 2 жыл бұрын
Just a little caveat to what you say. We can indeed learn from others'lessons but you will really by experiencing it yourself... Only then will you realise what it meant! Before that it's just theory... And that's why success is not that easy despite the books, the confs, the coaching and all the amazing stuff available today on the success... Real life can be tough and only it can teach real lessons which helps everyone grow somehow.
@brooklynchristopher7261
@brooklynchristopher7261 2 жыл бұрын
I will continue singing praises to *Leapnotch* NO BODY IS BETTER
@ratelhoneybadger
@ratelhoneybadger 2 жыл бұрын
It really is comforting to know that you can change your life in 6 months.
@shaquaviousjackson4892
@shaquaviousjackson4892 2 жыл бұрын
U can a little not by much...
@Auxillia
@Auxillia 5 жыл бұрын
Why so much hate? I think this is priceless, someone sharing her experience of going broke and work their way back up from ground zero.
@niousdoxs4026
@niousdoxs4026 2 жыл бұрын
It actually an honor giving the opportunity to prove how good he is ...Thank you for the reactivation
@jerome423
@jerome423 2 жыл бұрын
You should be proud of yourself, not only for your success, but the profound wisdom you discovered, and decided to share with the world. Absolutely amazing! You are worth every penny 😉
@leloofficial9367
@leloofficial9367 5 жыл бұрын
Very strong speech by a very strong woman The truth is this. Money is Not as important as the time that you are missing by chasing it... What a Speaking..well done.
@fannyjacob8535
@fannyjacob8535 2 жыл бұрын
The dude is just not fakeing . The finishes of the goals. Beautiful. Magisterial. Love you *leapnotch!.* .🙏🏼.
@MissECE7
@MissECE7 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I think she hit a key point. You cant wake up one day and decide you’re going to start your own business. You need to downsize your entire life for atleast 5 years. Because thats how long it takes for the average business to become profitable. And if you think you can keep your current expenses - that are based on your current income, you are already setting yourself up for failure.
@iwasright9686
@iwasright9686 2 жыл бұрын
Such an awesome speech. I was tearing by the end. Good lessons to live by.
@Ahmad.3rabi
@Ahmad.3rabi Ай бұрын
She explained "the happiness equation" and "think and grow rich" I highly recommend those two books ❤
@dahliahardie
@dahliahardie Жыл бұрын
Goodness gracious I almost cry watching this. I too now have to deal with "failure", and everyday I wake up trying my best to best strong and remind myself that the only way is to go up. I refuse to be weak even tho there are some days that I feel really really down. Thanks to this problem now I have motivation to wake up early at 4am in the morning, praying to God, doing anything I could to exit this dark hole. Financial problem is one of the worst but one the best "tools" for us to grow. I learn a lot, a hard way. But I am grateful. Thank you Dorothée for this reminder that I can rise and shine again :) even better
@pottacoola
@pottacoola 2 жыл бұрын
A great video, this is what i tell my colleagues at work as they are mostly young students and this is what i learned myself also after my own life shocking moment. I feel happier now working multiple jobs and spending almost nothing then i did when i was younger and buying everything i could afford with the little money i had. By the way i like working so i work more but i dont NEED to work, big difference to someone that needs to work for money and are unhappy.
@DisobedientSpaceWhale
@DisobedientSpaceWhale 2 жыл бұрын
What if you hate work
@liubomirwm
@liubomirwm Жыл бұрын
@@DisobedientSpaceWhale You don't hate work, you're just not working something that is good and interesting for you and you hate that specific work. Find another work.
@DisobedientSpaceWhale
@DisobedientSpaceWhale Жыл бұрын
@@liubomirwm I'm pretty lazy tbh
@amineben3370
@amineben3370 5 жыл бұрын
Only entrepreneurs Who failed can feel every single Word you said. I was listening religiously to your speech and i 100% relate to it. 10 years after my failure, I'm still struggling to find my way back to success. I hear the ticking bomb in my head for 10 years now! Can you imagine the stress ?
@Ofirsen
@Ofirsen 5 жыл бұрын
You are living in a bubble, newb. You didn't understand one single word of what she said.
@dominostimes2119
@dominostimes2119 5 жыл бұрын
Trust me but I’m not one of them... I can tell you in the last 2 years my aim was to be one and understand everything and step before entering. Now it’s confirmed thanks to this 👆 And this speech should be tought to EVERY SINGLE ENTREPRENEUR to come in before.
@user-ke7ot7ep2b
@user-ke7ot7ep2b Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I've been broke for 1 year now, and after watching this video it gave me hope to start over again, not to STOP. Thank you!
@Bashar3A
@Bashar3A 2 жыл бұрын
I can truly attest to the last point about quiet time with your child. Before the pandemic, I would take my daughter at last of day of school and we would go out somewhere to an expo, event, fun place, the beach. Random place of my choice each week, and we would spend all day out without any rules or time to go home. Usually ends up being very cheap day out, and it would be our favorite time of the week. Beats hanging with friends or going to movie.
@iamzulkaif
@iamzulkaif 5 жыл бұрын
I have never seen such calm, composed and collected presentation in my entire life.
@33none42
@33none42 5 жыл бұрын
yeah,it was a little boring.I can tell you from doing the 'talk' circuit. This gal got on here because she was white,educated and well spoken. if she was less well spoken,or with a browner color,or a not so attractive career....these egg heads will rarely give you any perspective on those struggling against much deeper odds,with zero chance at ' having a voice' in society..and surviving.. NPR ,PRI mainstream media...glam whores.
@33none42
@33none42 5 жыл бұрын
Sandy Haussman...very dishonest interviewer and journalist.
@patrickmorgan4006
@patrickmorgan4006 5 жыл бұрын
@@33none42 Very boring. I lost interest very quickly. She had nothing interesting to say. Just BS motivational speech that will last about 48 hours in everyone's consciousness.
@33none42
@33none42 5 жыл бұрын
yeah...a snooze for sure.
@nastyamastereng1893
@nastyamastereng1893 2 жыл бұрын
Great talk! It does encourage! Money is important, but when you have enough money, you may feel broke and then money is not important. Brilliant!
@vanessaspatty
@vanessaspatty 2 жыл бұрын
we need more people like her to talk on ted talk... people who have experienced the dark days and their worst moments and then got up and fought for their life
@embracingnormality1988
@embracingnormality1988 2 жыл бұрын
If I knew how to get on ted talks I’d add something along these lines
@revarants
@revarants Жыл бұрын
These are the only people that get up there to talk
@sepehrAmirkiaee
@sepehrAmirkiaee 2 жыл бұрын
What a thought-provoking talk 🤔
@natashaentrenadora1
@natashaentrenadora1 5 жыл бұрын
I like when you said:"You can do this! And then whatever it took I would do it." Great! Thank you @Dorothée Loorbach
@gamze5934
@gamze5934 5 жыл бұрын
"My impulse purchases included a car and a house" -- when will these people stop exaggerating at TED talks to impress the audience?!? A house is a purchase of investment or necessasity, not of impulse! And when she was broke, had 3 euros and change; why would she not look for a marketing job to buy her daughter that birthday cake she keeps refering to for exploiting the audience's emotions; after all she starts her talk telling that she had a successful marketing career...
@sitti_dove5476
@sitti_dove5476 5 жыл бұрын
You won't know other people's reality until you get there yourself. Beware of conclusive minds, one day, people will have their conclusion on you as well.... Peace!
@gamze5934
@gamze5934 5 жыл бұрын
sitti fatima balunan i do not need to know. I am refering to her speech, not to her reality. How about thinking before writing Ms Peace?
@sitti_dove5476
@sitti_dove5476 5 жыл бұрын
@@gamze5934 , hmmm how do you separate your judgment on her from her speech when her speech is about her?
@Lonlon8801
@Lonlon8801 2 жыл бұрын
This has to be the most inspiring video I've watched this year, if not, all time! Thank you so very much for your motivational presentation.
@bernardbarbour
@bernardbarbour 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you, thank you, thank you! I've been preaching this for years. Live below your means, not suffering or anything like that. Just not the new cars, the big house and keeping up with the Jones. Cheers!
@baraknoamhaviv
@baraknoamhaviv 2 жыл бұрын
Great talk, I feel much more happy and positive after watching this video. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
@dakamary9506
@dakamary9506 Жыл бұрын
This lady is wise, need more women like her
@shannon2748
@shannon2748 3 жыл бұрын
I just got another job after losing my last job 4 months ago. Someone I know brags about having 45k saved, and yesterday she told me oh my, all your savings gone. She thinks my situation is funny. She may lose her savings someday, too. We both work on one year contracts teaching English in Korea. She brags about how her job has kept her almost 5 years. Mine kept me just one year and before that I was unemployed 7 months.
@mariavanderschalie3081
@mariavanderschalie3081 5 жыл бұрын
Great talk and so true! Within 17 minutes you have taught the listeners the most important spiritual rules of success. Thank you. If people react negatively is because they don't get it.
@vladimirmoquete5695
@vladimirmoquete5695 5 жыл бұрын
Wow almost cry with this video at the end.
@fredrikscoaching9343
@fredrikscoaching9343 2 жыл бұрын
The wonderful thing about life is that you can do everything for free (be a volunteer in every part of your life)
@bobbarrett2631
@bobbarrett2631 2 жыл бұрын
Nicely put Dorothee x Having been involved in four businesses; and enjoyed mostly, all, I feel that the experiences gathered are what is important. Appreciation, balance (something that I seldom achieve) and having fun; yes even in business has to be vital keywords. Success has to include one of the most important (jobs?) ............. That of being a Mum. More of the above please Dorothee. Be Happy x
@haojiang4882
@haojiang4882 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like I am invincible after listening to this speech.
@MrPrimoPR
@MrPrimoPR 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent theme . Time can be your stock and trade so be careful with it. Money even if you have it may not give you independence if you feel guilty. So the best thing to learn is that the money you have is nobody’s business except your own, and probably when you do have money and independence, the most joyful moment you live will not cost you a lot of money if any. It is very true that being constantly wanting more makes you poor. Appreciate what you have, fix what breaks, do without does things you don’t need. Have compassion with others but appreciate yourself also.
@twinsoultarot473
@twinsoultarot473 3 жыл бұрын
I lost all but a slice of my inheritance and my husband died (who I divorced and remarried) and my daughter disowned me. I HAVE WANTED TO DIE MORE THAN LIVE. Then I realized that I had always quit everything I have tried and it is no time to quit now on my family - and my life purpose.
@tyyi
@tyyi 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing. This speech touched my heart.
@steveweippert6170
@steveweippert6170 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You’re genuinely appreciated. Wonderfully informative presentation. Cheers
@stayatohm
@stayatohm 4 жыл бұрын
1 4:50 MONEY IS IMPORTANT 2 5:54 MONEY EQUALS TIME 3 6:57 MONEY EQUALS VALUE 4 8:03 WHAT PEOPLE SAY DOESN'T MATTER 5 9:48 WHAT PEOPLE SAY MATTERS 6 10:58 IT'S REALLY SIMPLE 7 11:34 IT'S NOT THAT EASY 8 10:03 BEING BROKE SUCKS 9 14:33 STAY BROKE 10 15:54 MONEY IS NOT IMPORTANT
@shakiraasfoor7599
@shakiraasfoor7599 2 жыл бұрын
الف رحمه على والديك
@Dansteindler
@Dansteindler 2 жыл бұрын
I love your message. Thank you so much for sharing this.
@muhammadmuhagam6054
@muhammadmuhagam6054 3 жыл бұрын
last point is what makes this video, thank you dorothee for sharing
@elimatei127
@elimatei127 5 жыл бұрын
really deep. I've really enjoy it. she looks like she's been through a lot and she survived. she's an inspiration that at this time in my life I have financial problems for the first time.
@janethockey9070
@janethockey9070 5 жыл бұрын
Eli Mate Good luck!
@mickeybowmeister1944
@mickeybowmeister1944 5 жыл бұрын
I was on the brink of losing everything, invested in property just before 2009 GFC, got sued and lost $250k of borrowed money - (wasn't mine was the banks). Took 10 years of my life to crawl back all the time supporting my Wife and 2 daughter's. Hard lesson.
@pasokkaren3608
@pasokkaren3608 3 жыл бұрын
plsss help me
@longbeach5045
@longbeach5045 2 жыл бұрын
This is the most valuable tedx I watched... This is what we need to teach our children and adults
@Moony0102
@Moony0102 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dorothee for the insightful talk. As you said in your talk "people will only see things from their point of view", so please don't worry about those who call you a liar; this is just their level of awareness. You have a life experience that's worth sharing and you've helped so many by being bold enough to bring it to us, so thank you for your bravery and thank you for the sharing. Lots of gratitude.
@therespectedlex9794
@therespectedlex9794 Жыл бұрын
Do you ever feel suspicious about people who recite glib self help advice? Of course, no one worked 80 hours a week. Not like she did. Who would want to?
@uk7179
@uk7179 5 жыл бұрын
Literally I'm in shock.....the way she ended it and the way she started it.☀
@AndySouvlakis
@AndySouvlakis 29 күн бұрын
Now that I have money I can finally roleplay as a homeless person and say to everyone that money is not important. How insightful.
@amerbakodah1153
@amerbakodah1153 Жыл бұрын
Best TED talk. Straight to the point.
@albertkimaro1665
@albertkimaro1665 5 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this video every morning as it gives me strength to control my spending habit. Thus I have come to realize that "money is not everything but the only thing"
@delphiguy23
@delphiguy23 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you... learned a lot from this.
@DanielIbeh
@DanielIbeh 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! 🙌🏿
@ATTACK_ACHIEVE
@ATTACK_ACHIEVE 5 жыл бұрын
I think ur speech touched my soul . Thanks mam and bless ur daughter and u .
@kristoff99s
@kristoff99s 5 жыл бұрын
Money doesn’t make you happy but it definitely helps 🙌🏻😂
@site_is_down
@site_is_down 2 жыл бұрын
I hope there's no people watching this video who is financially struggling right now, or if you do, I hope you know that this isn't gonna take long and that this too shall soon pass. Remember to take a lot of lessons from this hardship and to learn from this moment. When you have finally managed to get through this, I hope you would learn to get yourself a good financial back up such as having investment portfolio and income streams.
@therespectedlex9794
@therespectedlex9794 Жыл бұрын
Yeah right, portfolios and income streams.
@phoenixrising4031
@phoenixrising4031 6 ай бұрын
This hit home really hard! I found this so helpful 2 yrs after you did this Ted Talk! And the economy is substancially worse now. Thank you for sharing. I hope you continue to do well.
@Q8Patriot
@Q8Patriot 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dorothee, i’m going into similar situation and this video helped me alot on my situation
@johnthangminlun
@johnthangminlun 5 жыл бұрын
Always great to hear from folks of the same feather!
@elzahraaadel
@elzahraaadel 5 жыл бұрын
One of the most inspirational TEDx talks I have ever heard ❤️
@cosmicdust7098
@cosmicdust7098 5 жыл бұрын
Isis donkey hhhhh
@rajusharma3659
@rajusharma3659 5 жыл бұрын
Yah she is very great
@rkh7904
@rkh7904 2 жыл бұрын
I really got a lot of valuable information out of this talk.
@TheIknowStanShow
@TheIknowStanShow Жыл бұрын
Great presentation. I needed to hear this. I destroyed my life recently and trying to recover. My goal is to get to a point where money doesn’t matter.
@ellenkh4422
@ellenkh4422 Жыл бұрын
I know how much the stress and worry over money and consequences for bad decisions destroys happiness. Best wishes for recovery.
@cynthiastover8870
@cynthiastover8870 5 жыл бұрын
Some of the people here were condemning her for "not paying taxes". The problem is that many small businesses fail... not for want of money... but because they have NO idea how complicated the government makes it for small businesses.. and the filing times are all different.. and you have to pay DOUBLE social security and medicare, and taxes on your business and yourself, and save reciepts for EVERYTHING, and file four times a year..and just when you think you have saved up some money and feeling good about what you have accomplished, it comes tax time and you find out that the state and federal government wants about 40% of what you have made --then you don't have it...then you get fined HUGE and unreasonable fines for not filing taxes you didn't even know existed at deadlines you didn't even know existed.. ---Maybe the really wealthy know all this ahead of time..or those who went to college.for a business degree..or studied super hard first...but many small business startups learn the hard way...no one gives you a book with all the crazy rules and taxes and unending deadlines...so 90% of small businesses fail and I would venture to guess that most of them fail because of the IRS...The U.S . is NOT small business friendly. I learned the hard way but it took me about three years... and two not very helpful $3000 CPA's--and lots of self-study to finally do it right... now I am doing fine. I give anyone Kudo's who got through those first three years and made it!.
@randorguerrero6023
@randorguerrero6023 5 жыл бұрын
Hello,your written is very well, I'm learning english but I don't have anyone who can practice.
@michaltakac673
@michaltakac673 5 жыл бұрын
These are very funny arguments. If you don't know what you need to do as a entrepreneur, you should hire an accountant or get a job and don't try to be entrepreneur...
@nicolaichristensen4207
@nicolaichristensen4207 5 жыл бұрын
YES WELL she sounds German, I don't think its very difficult in Germany.. unless they do it in a different way from us, here in DK, the country next to germany :)
@MsSunlight2009
@MsSunlight2009 5 жыл бұрын
Any particular resource that helped you?
@frankdalla
@frankdalla 5 жыл бұрын
I didn't lose my money, I know exactly who took it.
@millertoyal
@millertoyal 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@iamakhonambhele4380
@iamakhonambhele4380 3 жыл бұрын
😹😹😹😹😹😹😹
@greglopez9704
@greglopez9704 5 жыл бұрын
Best talk I heard. Done.focus....stop doing the things that weaken you
@mavisnarh612
@mavisnarh612 3 жыл бұрын
This video is for me.Thank you for being honest .I have learnt a lot
@celticsfangreen
@celticsfangreen 5 жыл бұрын
That was an amazing talk I could feel the her emotion at the end
@janet2375
@janet2375 2 жыл бұрын
With the recent happenings in stock I feel too scared to go in.
@brent6873
@brent6873 2 жыл бұрын
Why do you mention that. ?
@harrywilson850
@harrywilson850 2 жыл бұрын
@@brent6873 Maybe he doesn’t have much knowledge in it. People are scared to invest for their future because they don’t understand it. Not knowing that all you need is guidance.
@harrywilson850
@harrywilson850 2 жыл бұрын
You don’t need to save up for the future. If you wish for financial freedom then you have to invest in order to guarantee financial stability. Do you think Warren Buffet is saving up or Mac is scared to trade stock.
@janet2375
@janet2375 2 жыл бұрын
Actually I don’t know much about stock.
@Albert-yv3hq
@Albert-yv3hq 2 жыл бұрын
@@harrywilson850 Very helpful mate. This is what I needed to hear today. 👍
@tuito5189
@tuito5189 2 жыл бұрын
A very courageous woman, who has also writer skills, her speech is good in: ideas, form, structure, and she manages to put some little surprises in her script. I hope Madame you will write many books in the future.
@SuperWisernow
@SuperWisernow 2 жыл бұрын
“It’s ridiculous how much money rich people spend on going somewhere quiet” 🤫 good point
@jessicasanchez9493
@jessicasanchez9493 2 жыл бұрын
Do you want to make some money this xmas season?
@beknazarsuranchiyev4836
@beknazarsuranchiyev4836 5 жыл бұрын
Great speech! Thank you! Earn more then spend. I will try to use approach when you put money in some secure account after receiving immediately.
@ChiChi-sw5iu
@ChiChi-sw5iu 5 жыл бұрын
This is a valuable speech for my current financial situation. Thank you for imparting this to the world Madame.
@greatemc832
@greatemc832 2 жыл бұрын
After this video, I still have my conviction that "money is important".
@caffienabean
@caffienabean Жыл бұрын
Thank you !!! What a wonderful watch this was.
@karina112
@karina112 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Incredible speech! It had such a powerful impact on me!
@xXtenseXx
@xXtenseXx 5 жыл бұрын
But she didnt hit rock bottom . She had a network of people following her.
@wagr9824
@wagr9824 5 жыл бұрын
Like the 64 folks who gave her 10 euros for a book to be written in the future. A regular Joe wouldn’t have gotten one dollar.
@1ailAlia1
@1ailAlia1 5 жыл бұрын
She did hit rock bottom.... in her mind.... She still had a car (probably the nice one still), the house, internet connection, probably a nice computer or laptop, food everyday, electricity and gas and water bills paid out and so much more.... I find her quite irritating because I hit close to rock bottom (but I wouldn't dare call it that it of respect for people surviving in the street with nothing) while she was probably crying in her warm bubble bath after a nice meal reflecting on how immensely poor she had become. That shows the disconnection between the different social classes.
@nanalychee3457
@nanalychee3457 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you !
@almanibamortezaafzali
@almanibamortezaafzali 2 жыл бұрын
Very nice talk. I appreciate the lessons. Because this personal case helps others to value their own time and energy. Spend less. Earn more. Invest wisely. Value yourself.
@milanmoisov9650
@milanmoisov9650 5 жыл бұрын
Many comments here concentrating on no.10 (money is not important), and ignore the first 9 where she explain why she is saying that.
@BerbagaiCara89
@BerbagaiCara89 3 ай бұрын
Nooooooooooo
@ARrights
@ARrights 5 жыл бұрын
Most of your life u chase money. You thirst for it. You struggle to get it. When you do, you realize it is an illusion. Relationships, health, sanity, and experiences are all WAY more important.
@KellsSmith1244
@KellsSmith1244 5 жыл бұрын
Seriously!
@chrisspiller8653
@chrisspiller8653 5 жыл бұрын
why in the world would i chase and struggle to get money??? I never ever do that, like never
@jesusbalderas329
@jesusbalderas329 5 жыл бұрын
A R People love money and that's the reason they loose it. I have no love for people that don't love humans first.
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