You are contagious | Vanessa Van Edwards | TEDxLondon

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7 жыл бұрын

Vanessa reveals that our behaviour, from hand gestures to how we say 'hello', changes the way others perceive our confidence,
Vanessa Van Edwards is an interpersonal intelligence expert and public speaker. Her behaviour research lab ‘The Science of People’ has been featured in Fast Company, Inc, Men’s Health, Forbes, and on Fox News. She is a monthly columnist for Entrepreneur; the leading instructor in people skills on Udemy and CreativeLive; and has led training sessions at a number of Fortune 500 companies around the world. She lives in Portland, Oregon.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@rossjeffries4639
@rossjeffries4639 6 жыл бұрын
That's my niece!!!! Uncle is sooooo proud!
@toddwatts1963
@toddwatts1963 6 жыл бұрын
yes, she is amazing!
@brianmyers9989
@brianmyers9989 6 жыл бұрын
Can I use SS?
@MysterCannabis
@MysterCannabis 6 жыл бұрын
You have a reeeeeeaaallyyyyy cute niece...
@luis8650
@luis8650 6 жыл бұрын
Dont look at me Vanessa..look at him! Im ur uncle! U remember that?
@lmuhoja
@lmuhoja 6 жыл бұрын
Wow... I find it mindblowing that she's related to one of the pioneers of pick up. Lovely.
@JB-rl4ik
@JB-rl4ik 6 жыл бұрын
I really hate it when someone politely asks you a question and you can tell by their dead eyes and posture they really don't care what the answer is, even before you've started speaking.
@freddyvonrabenau1
@freddyvonrabenau1 5 жыл бұрын
Jay, yes, it is like shaking hands with someone and they look at someone else while they are shaking your hand. This happened to me once and I kicked the person in the shin, he looked at me right quick after that. Another one that gets me going is if someone asks you how you are and you say "not that well" and they distractedly say "that's great". Since that happened to me I always ask back if they are really interested in hearing the full story. That usually makes them stop and think as well.
@princessrockz1000
@princessrockz1000 5 жыл бұрын
They may have their own insecurities. The fact that they are trying to be nice, you have to appreciate. People need to stop being judgemental towards each other.
@SilentTrip
@SilentTrip 5 жыл бұрын
Why do you think they don't care? Maybe they are anxious to talk or ask you because you are not welcoming?
@observer698
@observer698 5 жыл бұрын
@@Endrance450 but that's so meaningless if you want to say hello more personally then mean it with your gestures or tone of your voice. I still can't get used to being asked how I am and consider it as a "hello"
@cherine3229
@cherine3229 5 жыл бұрын
J B Hehe me😏 I mostly ask things for the purpose of asking something😄😄
@witty-M
@witty-M 2 жыл бұрын
"Anxiety and excitement are very similar emotions, the only difference is the mindset" this is gold ❤️
@ringolennon4836
@ringolennon4836 2 жыл бұрын
Right!? I thought, “wow” I’ve never heard that perspective before. I love it
@Sbannmarie
@Sbannmarie 2 жыл бұрын
yes right? fascinating :-)
@beppobarrendero74
@beppobarrendero74 2 жыл бұрын
Why is this gold? How can I apply that fact to improve my life?
@user-re4pk7by8k
@user-re4pk7by8k Жыл бұрын
@@beppobarrendero74 You can try to start changing your mindset)))
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you. Great message 🥰🥰❤❤
@thetechpmm
@thetechpmm 5 жыл бұрын
instead of: 1. what do you do? 2. where are you from? 3. how are you? try: 1. working on anything exciting these days? 2. have any vacations coming up? 3. anything good happen today. this is gold.
@Ash-bc8bo
@Ash-bc8bo 4 жыл бұрын
I'm trying that it sound effective and it really might work
@allthatremain5357
@allthatremain5357 4 жыл бұрын
instead of: 1. What do you do? 2. Where are you from? 3. How are you? try: 1. How do you do? 2. What are you from? 3. Where are you? This is going to get a lot of people around you nervous and concerned, unless you talk in a very hippie/hipster sort of way. But if your smooth on the first one, sound genuinely perplexed mixed with time-constrained on the second, and scream the last one whilst looking them dead in the eyes then you've hit maximum effect! or try: 1. Do you do what? 2. Are you from where? 3. You are how?
@flaro38
@flaro38 4 жыл бұрын
If a guy at a party approached me for the first time with one of these sentences I would think he is being weird. If a girl did so, I'd think she's hitting on me
@kailiak4271
@kailiak4271 4 жыл бұрын
Unless the answer is "no" to all three of those questions.
@Rare_Creature_
@Rare_Creature_ 4 жыл бұрын
stop taking her fire, k?
@ShylieKay
@ShylieKay 5 жыл бұрын
Completely remembered why I used to be so confident. I was so much fun! I was unpredictable, funny, goofy and knew it. Anymore, I'm thinking my losses have stolen those things and that's why I'm alone so much. I need to remember myself and be more positive. Thanks for this Vanessa!
@amandalynn8591
@amandalynn8591 5 жыл бұрын
I relate to this so hard.
@GILATRAVEL579
@GILATRAVEL579 5 жыл бұрын
Shannon Feyhl the thing is, we can't fake happiness
@amandalynn8591
@amandalynn8591 5 жыл бұрын
@@GILATRAVEL579 Oh but you can... I did it for years with my ex! 🤣
@GILATRAVEL579
@GILATRAVEL579 5 жыл бұрын
Amanda Burkhart did it work?
@amandalynn8591
@amandalynn8591 5 жыл бұрын
@@GILATRAVEL579 Haha, it did until it didn't. 😉
@zephaudi
@zephaudi 5 жыл бұрын
psychology is soooo interesting and amazingly useful.
@artchap2861
@artchap2861 5 жыл бұрын
thanks me to
@soulmechanics7946
@soulmechanics7946 4 жыл бұрын
☺ Thank you.
@diegocruz2177
@diegocruz2177 4 жыл бұрын
@Chris Jones how is it often wrong? genuinely curious
@musixcs756
@musixcs756 3 жыл бұрын
@Chris Jones I'm genuinely interested in your opinions on this as I'm a high school humanities student. What kinds of ideas or opportunities or information or anything do you think are worth discovering and exploring within the broad field?
@adelopemelissa4409
@adelopemelissa4409 3 жыл бұрын
omg yesss❤️
@jamesraven9985
@jamesraven9985 9 ай бұрын
she's basically teaching everyone how to do ted talk the most effective way on stage. she's amazing!
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@50shadesofbrown25
@50shadesofbrown25 3 жыл бұрын
"you are contagious",the whole of 2020 and 2021 summed up.
@nijansinsuat
@nijansinsuat 6 жыл бұрын
Her presence already made me excited. Her aura her spirit and her enthusiasm, they're definitely contagious. And for those looking for going viral kind of thing, what matters is she did her best and you could see it. Real life events don't look for statistical figures but more on meaningful impact. Love her already.
@peruperaoOo
@peruperaoOo 6 жыл бұрын
she has amazing comedic timing
@anandpatel1074
@anandpatel1074 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah I liked her presentation but I felt like she was slightly over-exaggerating at times. Which is something a lot of Ted talkers do
@bobbobb2322
@bobbobb2322 5 жыл бұрын
Agree much bang bangability
@bjornragnarsson8692
@bjornragnarsson8692 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@TheBana1
@TheBana1 2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@moderndaymedusa82
@moderndaymedusa82 6 жыл бұрын
Totally random, but she is killing this dress. She looks great!
@Supersonic
@Supersonic 5 жыл бұрын
ok good, it wasnt just me
@user-gx6sg4tb9s
@user-gx6sg4tb9s 5 жыл бұрын
Honestly was very hard to listen to her when I glanced at the video. Very distracting 😍
@kefsound
@kefsound 5 жыл бұрын
You mean tearing it apart?
@dianedehart
@dianedehart 5 жыл бұрын
Meh, I thought the vest was on point..
@Zippy-dj8ev
@Zippy-dj8ev 5 жыл бұрын
Definitely!
@kirtidagautam6786
@kirtidagautam6786 2 ай бұрын
"If we show up to events we are ambivalent about, interact with people we don't really like, we become less memorable." This sentence will stay with me. Exceptionally good talk.
@oriolowogideon5129
@oriolowogideon5129 11 ай бұрын
This woman's clarity kills me! Her words are so clear..
@kuwandak
@kuwandak 11 ай бұрын
You know what else is clear?
@oriolowogideon5129
@oriolowogideon5129 11 ай бұрын
@@kuwandak what? 😂
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 8 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@CaliBabyCooks
@CaliBabyCooks 6 жыл бұрын
She’s awesome. The “looking at nothing” study was hilarious. I’m going to try that.
@vues-cf7zl
@vues-cf7zl 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's better to study the others things
@K.fonzmama
@K.fonzmama 3 жыл бұрын
@@vues-cf7zl yusuhaa i
@daviddroxler8534
@daviddroxler8534 2 жыл бұрын
I saw an old movie where one person looked to the sky and he attracted a multitude of people doing the same thing. They had no idea what they were looking for but they just following his actions.
@1TheShawnster
@1TheShawnster Жыл бұрын
I'm surprised that people aren't familiar with this. When I was a child (late 1960s), my father related a story about how he was in town and decided to see if he could get other people to do something, just because he was. In front of a movie theater, just as people were leaving, he looked intently at a point in the sky. Soon, a whole crowd began looking. He said that after enough people were looking, he stopped and walked a short way, so he could watch and listen. Humorously enough, eventually someone asked "what are we looking at?" There were a number of responses, that included "an airplane," and someone even mentioned that a man was staring into the sky and they looked, hoping to see what had caught his attention. As a result, I have repeated this experiment and it's always a lot of fun!
@g.cosper8306
@g.cosper8306 Жыл бұрын
@@1TheShawnster Agree! as a teen in the early 70's a group of us band geeks would do this in downtown Milwaukee just to see what would happen. Always brought a smile to us but most of the time when someone would ask what we were all looking at, we'd say 'nothing, just stopping to enjoy the sky'. They would smile and walk away. Great feeling!
@jpjp9111
@jpjp9111 6 жыл бұрын
I saw her in real life before she released her book. She's has a very genuine personality.
@CnithTheOnliestOne
@CnithTheOnliestOne 3 жыл бұрын
But does she? Or did she just infect you into thinking that?
@barbiegirl5657
@barbiegirl5657 3 жыл бұрын
psychology is soooo interesting and amazingly useful.
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын
Really? You are so lucky. I hope I can meet with her
@Its_vickkiii_
@Its_vickkiii_ 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve never seen anyone that looked and presented themselves so genuine that not once did I feel a negative or an uncomfortable emotion while watching this!! I REALLY like her energy:)
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын
Me too. She is perfect
@chrispasson1940
@chrispasson1940 4 ай бұрын
she is positive and charming
@thesider9377
@thesider9377 Ай бұрын
This might be one of the best TED talks I've watched so far
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 9 күн бұрын
That means so much to me! Thank you! 💛💛
@leshreddur
@leshreddur 5 жыл бұрын
Awkward girl blossomed into a brilliant, beautiful, sincere lady 😉
@bobbobb2322
@bobbobb2322 5 жыл бұрын
And in ten years will meet the Wall.
@creamy6680
@creamy6680 5 жыл бұрын
Bob Bobb oh Bob, bad Bob what have they done to, for you to be so cynical? Thankfully your unhappyness is not contagious.
@Jblah
@Jblah 4 жыл бұрын
@@bobbobb2322 lmfao
@shawntco
@shawntco 4 жыл бұрын
I initially read "sincere lady" as "science lady" and hey it's technically true
@sumedhu123
@sumedhu123 4 жыл бұрын
Pokémon
@paintpink7300
@paintpink7300 5 жыл бұрын
I think Vanessa Van Edwards is one of the best TED speakers. The content is great for sure, but as far as delivery and confidence, I haven't seen better. She is a pleasure to listen and watch.
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын
She is really great person. She is my idol
@PneumaNoose
@PneumaNoose Жыл бұрын
Brené Brown is my #1, but this lady is a super close second! She’s fabulous!
@gonzaloenrique8741
@gonzaloenrique8741 11 ай бұрын
Have you seen simón sinek? He's muy number 1 still
@burntreynoldz7885
@burntreynoldz7885 9 ай бұрын
3:00 4:04 D fake
@paintpink7300
@paintpink7300 9 ай бұрын
@@gonzaloenrique8741 He is really awesome too. Great choice!
@restymacalisang
@restymacalisang 7 ай бұрын
Did she just teach me PEOPLE skills in 3 simple ways? OMG!!! I am going to start asking those questions!!!!!
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 3 ай бұрын
❤😍
@PRonYouTube
@PRonYouTube 11 ай бұрын
Such an entertaining and informative talk! My takeaways: - our emotions are contagious, so others will pick up on how we feel - facial expressions + body language can be THE TRIGGER for your emotional reality, instead of just vice versa! - frame dialogue/questions in terms of positive words instead of negative or empty ones. - all this makes me realize, I need to do power poses + affirmations more!
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 11 ай бұрын
Excellent takeaways! I'm so glad you enjoyed ❤
@cherine3229
@cherine3229 5 жыл бұрын
It makes sense, like when me or my friends are laughing and smiling, somehow everyone just gets into the mood and we’re all happy and giggling, even when we dunno what’s happening.
@vues-cf7zl
@vues-cf7zl 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah also she looks shy anything or no
@jyotibatham8449
@jyotibatham8449 10 ай бұрын
Ccxx
@jyotibatham8449
@jyotibatham8449 10 ай бұрын
Ccxxx
@gea303
@gea303 6 жыл бұрын
she's so beautiful and charismatic
@dmn.23
@dmn.23 3 жыл бұрын
fact
@leilaelotmani5261
@leilaelotmani5261 4 жыл бұрын
Guys, while reading the comments you will notice something : There's no hateful comments. At all. And I know it because I've read them all. So this is true : This lady has increased our dopamine, we all feel happy and excited ! Let's show this to the whole world 😉💪🏻
@damn_its_salin
@damn_its_salin 2 жыл бұрын
Takeaway: open hands, dopamine-worthy conversation and authentic smile makes your more memorable and viral for sure..☺️
@sebastianloratv
@sebastianloratv 6 жыл бұрын
"I'm excited" too! Great talk! Congratulations. I'm now listening to your audiobook and am getting so much of it. Big fan!
@AnnaPugacova
@AnnaPugacova 6 жыл бұрын
Sebastián Lora which audiobook? :)
@olashalaby5082
@olashalaby5082 5 жыл бұрын
Who cares 😋
@monicayvonne5995
@monicayvonne5995 5 жыл бұрын
I loved it and on the hunt for more from you Vanessa. Super inspired and excited 😊Best TED talk ever!!!
@zakariyaabdelwahhab5665
@zakariyaabdelwahhab5665 5 жыл бұрын
@@olashalaby5082 Hiii how are you??
@TheMaan2008
@TheMaan2008 5 жыл бұрын
Sebastián Lora I have the book (not audio)!
@deboyskyswuzzz
@deboyskyswuzzz 6 жыл бұрын
Lol so people are smelling my social anxieties
@krool1648
@krool1648 6 жыл бұрын
Your anxiety is creating a chain reaction of anxiety in others. It is a chaos theory, one individual can destabilize entire community.
@krool1648
@krool1648 6 жыл бұрын
We know that emotions are contagious.
@killboi207
@killboi207 5 жыл бұрын
Pheromones ya?
@Kinobambino
@Kinobambino 5 жыл бұрын
Basically yeah. And when you think about that too much then it'll get worse
@alandrian
@alandrian 5 жыл бұрын
Actually yes as an unarmed security officer in Culver city DMV in CA... well the mood at the place was less than positive, in the morning when people are lining up an hr before the DMV opens was the worst that is when i started doing what she was talking about. I was rationalizing to them saying that this is the best time to be here and smiling. I wasnt fake smiling it was real and went around talking to people with that smile the rest of the 8 hrs. The next day i came back with a big smile on my face for another 8. The next day when I was closing I actually had 3 of the DMV associates come up to me after closing and thanked me. And I said for what, they said ever since I started people were treating them better. This was 10 years ago but what she says is 100% accurate.
@rhaenys8706
@rhaenys8706 4 жыл бұрын
My friend says that she can just feel it when im in a room without even seeing me because its just full of joy and positivity - bruh i thought she was going mad: now i dont wow
@yatosgirl2610
@yatosgirl2610 3 жыл бұрын
That's legit the best quality to have! Kudos to you!
@benedetta8001
@benedetta8001 3 жыл бұрын
Key points: use more hand gestures, ask more dopamine worthy questions, make authentic smiles and never pick up the phone in a bad mood. "We are in control of how we feel and what we want to spread." THANK YOU FOR SHARING!
@roddunne
@roddunne 6 жыл бұрын
Love that final line Vanessa - we are in control of how we feel and what we want to spread. Really locks into the internal locus of control in a way that is explainable :)
@hodayapeles9276
@hodayapeles9276 5 жыл бұрын
"Is he gonna jump?" I was laughing so hard in that moment.
@ctto9525
@ctto9525 3 жыл бұрын
This talk is literally a gift to humanity
@jkalm459
@jkalm459 Жыл бұрын
This goes to the top ted talks no doubt, Vanessa you shook the dust out of our heads in an unique way, thank u
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@rodhatanaka9769
@rodhatanaka9769 2 жыл бұрын
You can tell that Vanessa Van Edwards practices what she preaches. She is a very dynamic speaker and engages then captivates you immediately to the end of her speech/message. Mahalos Vanessa!
@Kporterphotography
@Kporterphotography 6 жыл бұрын
So proud of you Vanessa! What a year you're having! Another amazing CreativeLive, a best selling book, and a perfectly delivered (and informative, funny, and inspiring) TEDX talk! You continue to inspire and "infect" us with your work! Keep it up! ❤️Your fan from Key West!
@flintlights
@flintlights 5 жыл бұрын
I love her energy! It is contagious! That’s what make this talk more exciting to watch!
@deutschmitpurple2918
@deutschmitpurple2918 Жыл бұрын
True 😊😊
@theredhottruth2061
@theredhottruth2061 3 жыл бұрын
I've become a memorable communicator over the years and do all the things mentioned in this talk. Love the research to back up what I do. Thank you.
@monkichi13
@monkichi13 5 жыл бұрын
"I am excited !" Such a great advice when I am feeling nervous about upcoming presentation. Awesome!
@SherKhan-gw9mq
@SherKhan-gw9mq 2 жыл бұрын
“The only difference between nervousness and excitement is the mindset.” I pushed myself to try believing in this perspective and can personally attest that my perspective has slowly but surely changed. Now when the adrenaline kicks in, my mind makes note that it is indeed excitement!
@tigerlvr333
@tigerlvr333 4 жыл бұрын
So amazing! A conglomerate of wonderful social psychological research in a coherent, well flowing, and entertaining delivery. Love love love this!
@cremedekhie1982
@cremedekhie1982 2 жыл бұрын
She never failed to show excitement from start to finish of her talk...that's why I was able to completely watched her TED talk. Nice one!!😊
@which_craft
@which_craft 5 жыл бұрын
One of the best TED talks I've seen in a long while. Thank you KZfaq algorithm and thank you Vanessa!
@alr9806
@alr9806 5 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love all her work, research​ and the way she shares it with the world. Such an inspiring woman.
@aimeesymington6250
@aimeesymington6250 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely wonderful!!! I've been teaching business etiquette and social skills for years and this is just the information that we all need. Thank you!
@lizzylouisewoo
@lizzylouisewoo 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love how she takes common sense things we don’t really even realize is right in front of our face. And I’ve just started watching her videos and it led me here. Love her!!!
@MysterCannabis
@MysterCannabis 6 жыл бұрын
lol I only realized I listened to her audiobook in the middle of the talk. She's hypnotizing when you actually see her.
@deboranestal9597
@deboranestal9597 5 жыл бұрын
Vanessa has a soft voice. It was such a pleasure to hear her. She is contagious. Congratulations! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@vishnus1107
@vishnus1107 4 жыл бұрын
Exciting, exhilarating and encouraging expressions that serve as an elixir to human spirit. Thanks Vanessa.
@sophiasuerth1964
@sophiasuerth1964 4 жыл бұрын
I love this woman, she’s so beautiful, not just her looks but her confidence and personality. She’s so knowledgeable and I love her videos, they really do help💗
@abigailspruce5557
@abigailspruce5557 Жыл бұрын
This is hands down my favourite Ted talk and I've watched a lot. I use facts from this to start conversations and it's honestly changed how I view and interact with people. Amazing 👏
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to hear this! Thanks for watching 🙏🏻
@p.k.howlett4442
@p.k.howlett4442 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the insight! I never realized some of these tactics. Some of them I've employed throughout my years working customer service, without realizing. Such as asking people if they have any fun or exciting plans. Or asking them to tell me about something they've been really passionate about. I will definitely employ more of these strategies and try to be contagious to my coworkers.
@iwhcyouth1
@iwhcyouth1 Жыл бұрын
She's absolutely phenomenal, specially what she said at the end. You rockTED a truly astounding woman.
@rabbiyarizwan7692
@rabbiyarizwan7692 4 жыл бұрын
I recently met my thesis mentor and I gave her this compliment that her energy is contagious because she is really exciting architect and a great mentor!!😍
@japank6946
@japank6946 9 ай бұрын
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 😄 Vanessa Van Edwards discusses the impact of body language and behavior on perception. 01:32 🤚 When meeting people, the first thing we unconsciously focus on is their hands due to our primal instincts. 03:02 🗣️ Successful TED speakers use numerous hand gestures (465 on average) to engage and emphasize their ideas. 05:02 😨 Emotions are contagious; for instance, smelling sweat from fearful individuals triggered fear responses in others. 08:13 😀 Mimicking facial expressions, such as genuine happiness, influences our emotions and likability. 11:51 🎤 Conversation starters that trigger dopamine (e.g., excitement-focused questions) create more engaging interactions. 16:29 😊 Shifting from nervous to excited mindset improves performance and accuracy in challenging tasks. Made with HARPA AI
@cartergomez5390
@cartergomez5390 9 ай бұрын
Cool!
@terrenceburton4380
@terrenceburton4380 6 жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved it! I have learned so much from Vanessa over the years!
@terrenceburton4380
@terrenceburton4380 6 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@yhtube2094
@yhtube2094 5 жыл бұрын
Terrence Burton &
@DashrathSangle
@DashrathSangle 3 жыл бұрын
Most of the time when I do watch video to learn new things...it helps to improve my self. But here... absolututley next level which is hit me like, this is what I was looking for.....Great Speech...wow...loved it. Vanessa so perfect speaker for me at time of writing.
@Goldenglossify
@Goldenglossify 2 жыл бұрын
One of the best Ted talks I have come across! Very, very IMPACTFUL! Thank you Vanessa.
@shethevoid9892
@shethevoid9892 6 жыл бұрын
This woman is a genius
@djtoman6875
@djtoman6875 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and drop-dead gorgeous ; )
@jachawkvr
@jachawkvr 6 жыл бұрын
What a cool talk, love how everything she said came together at the end!
@vincent_hall
@vincent_hall 3 жыл бұрын
Vanessa's talks are always superb!
@josephpreciado4338
@josephpreciado4338 5 ай бұрын
My wife sent me this, and she got it from a podcast referral, and I have to admit... this really explains a lot for me. Man, it's time to get to work! Waiting for a part 2 or book or more in-depth information. Appreciate it over all and best wishes
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 3 ай бұрын
So glad this was really helpful for you! 🙏🏻
@LeandroPassosCoach
@LeandroPassosCoach 6 жыл бұрын
Amazing! Vanessa does an excellent work and it's easy to see that she uses what research! Congratulations!
@nandinie9470
@nandinie9470 6 жыл бұрын
Hey, thanks a lot. Looking forward for more such videos. My friend said I had a drastic change in my voice and and sounded more confident and all that was by listening to this one video. It means a lot to me. I'm very grateful. Wish luck and happiness
@subiyaamreen3023
@subiyaamreen3023 2 жыл бұрын
She's amazing, full of energy and enthusiasm
@jamesBlankenship-jr6vh
@jamesBlankenship-jr6vh 5 жыл бұрын
Wow. Vanessa, I loved your part. You gave me something I needed. Simple little hints to amplify every situation. Thanks.
@Mrkamekrazy
@Mrkamekrazy 5 жыл бұрын
16:54 Is a huge moment in this talk; a belief I decoded on my own, simply reframing your mindset can shift, like a panoramic camera, the scope of possibility for one who is faced with a difficult decision. Excitement with comfortable acceptance of un-intended failure and full openness to learn.
@NeonAtary777
@NeonAtary777 5 жыл бұрын
I love Vanessa! I really felt the energy and I enjoyed the talk very much.
@lisacourtney3104
@lisacourtney3104 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Vanessa! I'm so grateful for the material you share. I am an ESL teacher and have used several of your videos to teach my students not only verbal English but other communication mediums as well. Truly great work and best of luck on your continued success! Teacher Lisa :-)
@annc6417
@annc6417 2 жыл бұрын
Right after I listened to your talk a moment ago, I received a phone call from someone I had some tensions with earlier today. So, I did exactly what you recommended. I made my voice gently cheerful. I told him I liked his shirt, which I truly meant, and continued with some additional sincere small talk. The tensions disappeared and we left the conversations smiling. I’m certain my tone of voice at the onset of the conversation set the tone for the positive. Fun to have the experience right after your talk. Thanks Vanessa!
@yuktigupta5029
@yuktigupta5029 6 жыл бұрын
You're the best Vanessa! Have become your fan in such a short time! You're very inspirational. And you rock 😊
@erikplachta
@erikplachta 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent insight. Thank you for your hard work and dedication to your field.
@alancox2347
@alancox2347 4 жыл бұрын
What an amazing lady. She sure did rock it. I didn't know that anxiety and excitement are similar. This makes sense of you are what you think. Thank you Vanessa.
@missentrepreneur50
@missentrepreneur50 4 жыл бұрын
One of the best TED talks I've seen! Perfect!
@AAvfx
@AAvfx 2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting. That's an amazing experiment. Thanks. Patterns are the key to everything.
@haleywagner6595
@haleywagner6595 5 жыл бұрын
I died laughing at the "Is he going to jump?" part.
@KILLE911
@KILLE911 3 жыл бұрын
So happy to watch this! It's hard to unsee these traits once you've learned them.
@amadamarquezsimula5128
@amadamarquezsimula5128 5 жыл бұрын
You did a great job! I will take notes from you and ALL your well-orchestrated hand gestures. Thank you!
@sad_ie1015
@sad_ie1015 4 жыл бұрын
When they said ‘I’m excited’ at the end I actually smiled genuinely
@hectormayoral443
@hectormayoral443 6 жыл бұрын
*puts hand on chest* I truly love your work Vanessa! You're an inspiration to *waves hands in opposite direction* millions of people around the world!
@easportsitsinthegame378
@easportsitsinthegame378 5 жыл бұрын
Hector Mayoral hey listen I know I’m a year late but... Why are you touching her chest?!🤔
@nawelm2340
@nawelm2340 5 жыл бұрын
I am a TedTalk obsessed and I love this one so far, I love her enthousiasme her funny way to explain and her dress! I have already share this video with 4 of my friends to show them that their mood is contagious, « my attitude up to you aptitude » as I always say.
@gloria.R.7286
@gloria.R.7286 Жыл бұрын
this TED talk...is contagious.
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
🙏🏻
@stramwasser
@stramwasser 6 жыл бұрын
So true and insightful! What a remarkable talk!
@ppereza1861
@ppereza1861 6 жыл бұрын
I loved this talk, great content for the golden skill of networking, thanks Vanessa! :)
@jeevanmariadsilva
@jeevanmariadsilva 3 жыл бұрын
One of the most amazing talks I've heard. Well done vanessa
@JasonB95
@JasonB95 3 жыл бұрын
She is fabulous. I loved her from the very first sentence. "Recovering awkward person" is hilarious!
@John_Caldwell
@John_Caldwell 6 жыл бұрын
So much great information in this talk! Thank you, Vanessa!
@Jo71603
@Jo71603 6 жыл бұрын
WOW!, thanks for the information on the hand gestures!
@Baz469
@Baz469 4 жыл бұрын
You are so awesome Vanessa, I super love your talks!!! Learning a lot from you❤️❤️❤️ All the BEST
@Avijit.305
@Avijit.305 2 жыл бұрын
She's indeed contagious to teach us about the matter.
@maureenmomof3
@maureenmomof3 6 жыл бұрын
So fascinating!! Shared ❤️❤️❤️ Love this!
@mart1062
@mart1062 4 жыл бұрын
One of the more better ted talks I've seen. A lot of information that we don't really take into consideration that shape not just our day but the day of others.
@toothlessnightfury1820
@toothlessnightfury1820 4 жыл бұрын
she speaks out Gold and Diamond..Vanessa Edwards , you're the best at this.
@SaeleeSaan
@SaeleeSaan 3 жыл бұрын
Top 10 TED Talks for sure. She was fantastic. What a great presentation.
@silviaraqs
@silviaraqs 6 жыл бұрын
If you are Italian then you don't have to think about how to talk with your hands 🖐🙌
@vues-cf7zl
@vues-cf7zl 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah but I don't think that
@justarnold3
@justarnold3 4 жыл бұрын
One of the best TedTalks!!!
@noriko7426
@noriko7426 2 жыл бұрын
She has my full attention all the time. She is absolutely engaging. I love her style!
@saulnamango2350
@saulnamango2350 7 ай бұрын
This is a great talk Vanessa; thank you very much
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 3 ай бұрын
So glad you enjoyed 🙏🏻
@sgraika127
@sgraika127 Жыл бұрын
Vanessa, this is such a memorable TED talk. Thank you for equipping me with a set of skills that I will use, for the good of all, the rest of my life ❤
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
It’s my absolute pleasure ❤️ thank you for being on this journey with me!
@PapaBen786
@PapaBen786 6 жыл бұрын
I am preparing for my final interview, and I feel nervous about it. But I would rather say, I am excited! Thank you Vanessa! You rock!
@malayalamwriter
@malayalamwriter 4 жыл бұрын
Did you get the job?
@nicogalax
@nicogalax 6 ай бұрын
Well did uuu
@glueyossi
@glueyossi Жыл бұрын
Wow!!! Awesome talk
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! 🙏🏻
@alibeaumont-filder3185
@alibeaumont-filder3185 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant - thank - you ... amazing acknowledgement .. great realisations !
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