Why You Procrastinate - and How to Stop it for Good | Elyssa Smith | TEDxBabsonCollege

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Elyssa dives deeper into the factors that trap individuals from unlocking their full potential and guides you on the path to self-reflection and becoming a better version of yourself. Elyssa Smith is a trauma-informed life strategist who specializes in empowering women to overcome self-sabotage and trauma, enabling them to break free from procrastination, people-pleasing, and overwhelm. Her expertise lies in reprogramming the effects of trauma, unlocking increased productivity and inner calm. Her innovative self-compassionate time management model has been featured by Forbes Magazine, Thrive Global, and Fox59 Morning News. Elyssa has also shared her knowledge with audiences worldwide through speaking engagements. When not working, she enjoys spending time with her family on their Indiana farm, where she keeps up with her energetic nine-year-old and her furry loyal small-but-mighty companion. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@clemencebertoli1591
@clemencebertoli1591 Ай бұрын
Watching this video while procrastinating... Who's with me?
@garylake1497
@garylake1497 17 күн бұрын
Yeah,😫🥴 and I hate myself for it 😞
@arashbabadinoroozi5262
@arashbabadinoroozi5262 6 күн бұрын
😂
@NoGreatLoss24
@NoGreatLoss24 5 күн бұрын
I mean if you’re trying to learn to overcome procrastination then it’s not procrastinating.
@Mr.Dario_P
@Mr.Dario_P 4 күн бұрын
Actually I put this on as I was clearing up stuff from a room I’ll be moving out of next October. I was getting stuff done, but I kept on thinking “You’re late on schedule and you’re procrastinating.” Does this count?
@CoachKiki-qs5en
@CoachKiki-qs5en 3 ай бұрын
The regulating exercise was my aha moment. I started doing this exercise and my to-do list is becoming my ta-dah list. I'm grateful.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
I'm so so happy you found the exercise helpful! YAY for a ta-dah list! So great! Thanks for watching!
@m.shawky2044
@m.shawky2044 Ай бұрын
​@@Elyssa-Smith5-5 ) 😅ppl
@hijlkemarketing
@hijlkemarketing 3 ай бұрын
This is amazing. Imagine a world of people who don't procrastinate?! How much better the world would be because of it.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Isn't that an amazing thing to think about? Such an inspiration to work for! Thank you for watching!
@MariaAdeleRosenfeld
@MariaAdeleRosenfeld 3 ай бұрын
I love how the speaker breaks down this information to make it accessible and practical to apply to my daily life! So many good takeaways!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you found it helpful and practical! Thank you so much for watching!
@bluwng
@bluwng Күн бұрын
Mel Robbin’s gave a solution in 2 minutes
@roxanneking-clark270
@roxanneking-clark270 3 ай бұрын
The world needs more of Elyssa 💓💓
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Ah thank you so much, friend!!!
@trueblue8179
@trueblue8179 3 ай бұрын
This beautiful person is amazing! Her message will change the world! 💜
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
This is so kind! Thank you so much for watching - I hope you found it helpful!
@CoachKiki-qs5en
@CoachKiki-qs5en 3 ай бұрын
Elyssa is phenomenal. I can truly relate with procrastinating. It was a coping mechanism that I’ve embraced. Thank you Elyssa for this most helpful and inspiring talk.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
So many people just call themselves "procrastinators" and feel ashamed...but we can regulate ourselves and let go of it!
@rebeccalomax3398
@rebeccalomax3398 3 ай бұрын
Wow! What a groundbreaking subject. I’m excited to see more on this topic especially as scientists continue to uncover the capabilities of the brain.The possibilities are endless.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
The brain is amazing! Thank you so much for watching! I hope it was helpful!
@kateycooper23
@kateycooper23 3 ай бұрын
Wow what a powerful message with real life practical tools to use to get us started! I wish everyone could see this video- this is awesome stuff! I need to hear more from her!!!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm so glad you found it helpful. Thank you for your support and for watching!
@hanta4682
@hanta4682 3 ай бұрын
Love how she influences others This is amazing definitely apply all those rules Thank you
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! Thank you so much for watching!
@treena3651
@treena3651 3 ай бұрын
I can totally relate, thank you for breaking down the why and telling us how to begin overcoming old procrastination patterns. This talk is gold 🙌
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome ! Thank you so much for watching!
@sarahferguson6479
@sarahferguson6479 3 ай бұрын
Great information! I appreciate these obtainable steps toward stopping procrastination. I especially liked at about 12 minutes in the vagus nerve calming exercise. What a sense of calmness and clarity I felt after a short 1 minute exercise.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you found this helpful! The vagus nerve exercise is so powerful. Thank you so much for watching!
@chatterboxbrands6270
@chatterboxbrands6270 3 ай бұрын
This talk has been so impactful and makes so much sense. It is really making do a deep dive on this internally.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you have found it helpful! Thank you so much for watching!
@lcplaunt8341
@lcplaunt8341 3 ай бұрын
I watched this presentation at the TedX event. I'm glad it's on KZfaq now so I could watch it again, but also so I can share it with friends.If you watched this because I shared it with you, reply and let me know what you think.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching live and on replay! I hope you found it helpful!
@bradleejaymz
@bradleejaymz 3 ай бұрын
I’m definitely going to use this advice. I find myself struggling to start working on a very large project at work. I can definitely see the correlation between procrastination and a related trauma of mine.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you found this helpful! It helps so much to know that it could be related to something prior. Thank you so much for watching!
@shizahmad
@shizahmad 2 ай бұрын
Love this...this actually made me realize a lot of things about my procrastination. I think I know what to do to help myself now.
@inacove9808
@inacove9808 3 ай бұрын
I am so proud of you. You are good enough. You are SO much. You are just perfect. THANK YOU for this.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
THank you soooo much Ina! I literally wouldn't be here without you!
@UnemployMan396-xd7ov
@UnemployMan396-xd7ov 2 ай бұрын
I will definitely use the calming technique here, I have always speculated but am not sure if procrastination is the symptom of a bigger problem in life.
@kristyanderson5475
@kristyanderson5475 3 ай бұрын
I have loved getting to hear from Elyssa about this topic and I'm so excited that she has a Ted talk now that's easy to share! That last line gets me, so powerful!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
AH thank you so much for watching, Kristy!
@Natalie-Abbott
@Natalie-Abbott 3 ай бұрын
NOTES TAKEN 📝Sharing this to all of my friends - we all need to watch this!
@EasyEcoLifeWithKaren
@EasyEcoLifeWithKaren 3 ай бұрын
Yes, I took notes too!😁
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Ah thank you so much for sharing it! And for watching!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
@@EasyEcoLifeWithKaren Fantastic!!
@melissagamarra7611
@melissagamarra7611 3 ай бұрын
So interesting! Crazy to think that just a few easy steps can help rewire how I’m thinking and feeling.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
I'm glad you found it interesting! Thank you so much for watching!
@lisaferguson7223
@lisaferguson7223 3 ай бұрын
A piece of brilliance to inform the way we experience our one day at a time. Thank you Elyssa!
@notvanilladigitals2829
@notvanilladigitals2829 3 ай бұрын
This makes so much sense, really logical! Few easy steps I will now be applying to my life every day - Thank-you Elyssa!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! I hope you find it all useful! Thank you for watching!
@UClyKsv3Bfcvx5VUrQraQlyw
@UClyKsv3Bfcvx5VUrQraQlyw 3 ай бұрын
What an informative talk and method to conquer the monster of procrastination. I can relate.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you found it helpful! Thank you so much for watching!
@EasyEcoLifeWithKaren
@EasyEcoLifeWithKaren 3 ай бұрын
Clear explanation. Effective options for me to change my ways. An opportunity to make such great positive changes in my life. Thank you Elyssa!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! I'm so excited to see how it goes for you! Thanks for watching!
@EasyEcoLifeWithKaren
@EasyEcoLifeWithKaren 3 ай бұрын
A topic that I thought was impossible to understand, I now understand AND know what to do about it. Thank you Elyssa!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
I'm so glad this was helpful! You are so welcome! Thank you for watching!
@TaniaKinsey
@TaniaKinsey 3 ай бұрын
This resonates with me a lot. The vagus nerve exercise is such a quick, but effective, calming activity too. X
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Isn't it such a nice quick reset? I'm so glad you found it helpful! Thank you for watching!
@itsgillean
@itsgillean 3 ай бұрын
Such an important message! Thank you for sharing Elyssa!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! Thank you so much for your comment and for watching!!
@kmcgheecoaching
@kmcgheecoaching 3 ай бұрын
What a thought-provoking idea! Loved the activity at the end. Can't wait to try it out!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you enjoyed the talk! Thank you so much for watching!! 😊
@EasyEcoLifeWithKaren
@EasyEcoLifeWithKaren 3 ай бұрын
The activity really works for me, how did you find it?
@creativecostumeacademy
@creativecostumeacademy 3 ай бұрын
This is so eye opening! Thank you so much for sharing this! It makes so much sense and is such a logical perspective. The more tools we have the better we can all be.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! Thank you so much for watching - I hope you find it useful!
@ecjdferguson
@ecjdferguson 3 ай бұрын
Excellent advice on how to calm the nervous system in order to help stop procrastination for good.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! I hope you found it useful!
@RachelJaneBoleyn
@RachelJaneBoleyn 3 ай бұрын
What an amazing talk, thank you Elyssa!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
AH thank you so much, lovely! Thanks for watching!
@christianagarza2740
@christianagarza2740 3 ай бұрын
So good Elyssa ❤ Thank you for sharing your message.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! And thanks for all your support!!!
@missjsews
@missjsews 3 ай бұрын
This is was a great talk and I am saving this so I can use the strategy later. I’ve recently adopted a policy of doing the thing I want to do the least, first in the day and that is working greatly so far. I am also trying to respect my mood to some degree by doing the physical tasks when I feel strong and the mental tasks when I feel most alert and creative. I’m a work in progress but your calming exercise will be used regularly for sure. Thank you
@virtualtechangel
@virtualtechangel 3 ай бұрын
I really need to figure out what my "tiny t trauma" is! This talk is so interesting and so well explained!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you found it interesting! I hope it was helpful for you. Thanks for watching!!
@roxanneking-clark270
@roxanneking-clark270 3 ай бұрын
Such an inspiring talk!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! And thank you for watching!
@glorywipfli781
@glorywipfli781 3 ай бұрын
This is really helpful info. Thank you.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! Thanks so much for watching!
@adamlewiswalker
@adamlewiswalker 24 күн бұрын
Had me hooked from the start, such an entertaining, insightful and impactful talk. This is how useful information needs to be delivered! Thanks for sharing :)
@hartbeepsbishopsstortfordh1340
@hartbeepsbishopsstortfordh1340 3 ай бұрын
Great watch and easy steps to follow.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! And thanks for watching!
@sarahcooper3476
@sarahcooper3476 3 ай бұрын
This is so good!!!
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! And thank you so much for watching!
@grantwilliams-qn4jg
@grantwilliams-qn4jg 3 ай бұрын
This is great very insightful thanks
@taruniyadav8567
@taruniyadav8567 3 ай бұрын
Tiny T trauma...a new concept for me. This was an amazing episode, and love the way you explained so beautifully.
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! And thanks for watching - I hope this was helpful!
@kalpnaratnani4039
@kalpnaratnani4039 19 күн бұрын
This was really very good and relatable. More people need to see this.
@roxanneking-clark270
@roxanneking-clark270 3 ай бұрын
Smashed this Elyssa! 👏🏽👏🏽
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Ah thank you, friend! Thanks so much for watching!
@roxanneking-clark270
@roxanneking-clark270 3 ай бұрын
Count the lightbulb moments you'll have!!
@EasyEcoLifeWithKaren
@EasyEcoLifeWithKaren 3 ай бұрын
Yes,so many comments and suggestions but the mark 🎯
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@Galaxy_Grenade
@Galaxy_Grenade 12 күн бұрын
I think I really needed this… Every day I find myself doing anything I can instead of my school work (I’m in gr10) whether it be social media to just walking around my room to even thinking of all the excuses to get more time to work.. and when I get more time I procrastinate that!! I feel like I’m wasting my time all my life and that there’s always someone better than me that I’ll never be so why should I bother to even try ? Maybe that’s my tinyT?? I hope one day I’ll make it out of this prison I’ve put myself in
@nnekababy
@nnekababy Ай бұрын
For me…this video starts at 11:26 .
@UnemployMan396-xd7ov
@UnemployMan396-xd7ov 2 ай бұрын
cant believe this talk get flaged, Maybe the speaker are a bit naive about the depth and complex nature of procrastination. But mistake is what it make growth, just like my journey to combat procrastination
@user-lb7mg3xc5v
@user-lb7mg3xc5v 2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@roxanneking-clark270
@roxanneking-clark270 3 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@sheyonglearntoletgo9714
@sheyonglearntoletgo9714 3 ай бұрын
0:32
@MatlalaLeahMbondo-fl8vx
@MatlalaLeahMbondo-fl8vx Күн бұрын
@komiljonovmuhammadzohid
@komiljonovmuhammadzohid Ай бұрын
Pls sister next your videos Speak little beacuse our techer give your sentence Write word by word
@reya..4668
@reya..4668 9 күн бұрын
11:45
@MandaMoniumMUA
@MandaMoniumMUA 3 ай бұрын
Elyssa is truly a gift to the world and will help make it a better place to exist. Thank you for giving her a stage to help in that process. 🩷
@Elyssa-Smith
@Elyssa-Smith 3 ай бұрын
Ah thank you so much! I hope this was helpful for you -thank you so much for your support and for watching!
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