How forgiving my father liberated me | Agon Hare | TEDxNTU

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4 жыл бұрын

The act of forgiveness is more powerful than we appreciate. When we hold onto the hurt caused by others, in the form of anger, resentment and pride, we discredit ourselves and deny ourselves the peace that comes from letting go. Without the cleansing power of forgiveness, we continue to suffer beyond the actual moment of pain. So, when we forgive, we make a powerful and liberating choice to deny the hurt to linger. Agon Hare is a singer, video creator, and world-traveler from Poland. As a member of the Nas Daily team, he is an open-hearted story teller. His videos have been seen by over 160 million people. Agon is on a mission to create a more compassionate and brighter world through his initiative Project Nightfall. He empowers individuals to embrace themselves and change the way they think about global issues such as racism, environment and immigration through his innovative video content. He also aims to change the music industry and bring it back to its honest and authentic roots. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@MangiferaIndica918
@MangiferaIndica918 3 жыл бұрын
Agon is really underrated.
@valeriasandoval9839
@valeriasandoval9839 3 жыл бұрын
@Chunnu-Punnu Michki-Chichki he diserves more! His predicate is amazing!
@haziqsalman517
@haziqsalman517 3 жыл бұрын
Yes he is
@uswahefatima104
@uswahefatima104 3 жыл бұрын
No he is not
@TeacherJayvee
@TeacherJayvee 3 жыл бұрын
He is so Inspiring, he reach million views on FB ok
@Vbjoctiz64739
@Vbjoctiz64739 3 жыл бұрын
True
@ProjectNightfallSHORTS
@ProjectNightfallSHORTS Жыл бұрын
Wow watching it after two years, this truly was one of the most important moments of my life. The journey of forgiveness changed everything. I hope you find strength to be on your own journey. You deserve it!
@fonsie_games
@fonsie_games Жыл бұрын
Oh hi!
@fordee.alternative
@fordee.alternative Жыл бұрын
you are one of my favourites!
@ZuroPL
@ZuroPL Жыл бұрын
Wstrząsające. Szczególnie końcówka. Jesteś postacią strasznie inspirującą. I pomyśleć że człowiek z zapyziałej mieściny w jakiejś Polsce, mógł zrobić naprawdę wielką karierę w anglojęzycznym internecie, będąc jednocześnie anonimowy w swoim kraju, wow.
@imberrysandy
@imberrysandy Жыл бұрын
love project nightfall :) thanks for being an inspiration and a messenger for ethical beliefs
@sandraburgos5590
@sandraburgos5590 Жыл бұрын
I am so proud of you! Life is so hard I lost my dad to covid and my health but I am in recovery and falling in love with myself. Thank you so much!
@StanzinPadmaSelakui
@StanzinPadmaSelakui 4 жыл бұрын
He has deep emotions in his voice 😭
@hendhanooda1926
@hendhanooda1926 4 жыл бұрын
You are right 💔
@herbertant4096
@herbertant4096 3 жыл бұрын
Because he had a bad past life and i realized that too
@javarare1769
@javarare1769 3 жыл бұрын
ok bomer
@AbdulRahman-om2kf
@AbdulRahman-om2kf 2 жыл бұрын
Yes because he has gone through bad times
@xeta5200
@xeta5200 2 жыл бұрын
@@javarare1769 what?
@isqueakifyousqueeze4714
@isqueakifyousqueeze4714 3 жыл бұрын
I forgave my parents not for their sake but for my own, so that I could move forward with my own life. And I understand now more than ever that they were just people who were abused too.
@ablan8801
@ablan8801 2 жыл бұрын
God Bless You Brother ♥️♥️
@tochie-ugorji2021
@tochie-ugorji2021 2 жыл бұрын
That's true. Forgiving actually says and does more about you than the person who wronged you.
@joannasun9921
@joannasun9921 2 жыл бұрын
im happy for you but them being abused doesn't excuse abusing their own child
@AKILABOSE
@AKILABOSE 3 жыл бұрын
In my case my parents don't talk to each other since my birth and now I'm 22, still I haven't seen my parents talking to each other by living in same house. This hurts a lot. They have ruined my happy childhood n teen also. But Agon ur video changed my perspective towards them. It's hard feeling, that having parents and feeling like an orphan. Proud of you and hats off Agon.
@herbertant4096
@herbertant4096 3 жыл бұрын
God Bless you and your family 😇
@ViktorCaine
@ViktorCaine 3 жыл бұрын
They haven't talked even once!? How do they even do the groceries??
@3rdassassin50
@3rdassassin50 3 жыл бұрын
@@ViktorCaine yeah ikr
@tanishqsuryawanshi1276
@tanishqsuryawanshi1276 3 жыл бұрын
@@ViktorCaine and you thought about making a joke on this😑
@ilove6x673
@ilove6x673 3 жыл бұрын
I really good know how it fells.Just stay strong.
@udas_aayush_
@udas_aayush_ 3 жыл бұрын
"Everything changes the moment when you start seeing forgiveness as not just something for the other person, but also something for you" -Agon Hare
@ttttttttttttttt5525
@ttttttttttttttt5525 4 жыл бұрын
Agon! U r really an amazing person...I love ur accent...I learned a lot from ur video... those videos are very inspiring...may Allah bless u
@jawwadahmed9713
@jawwadahmed9713 3 жыл бұрын
Ameen! he trulyis a an influencer a real life changer.
@weym5369
@weym5369 3 жыл бұрын
may god be with Agon!
@haziqsalman517
@haziqsalman517 3 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@pap_playz3044
@pap_playz3044 3 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@tasfiatasnim6035
@tasfiatasnim6035 3 жыл бұрын
Ameen❤️
@ulooketmeh9961
@ulooketmeh9961 3 жыл бұрын
the man who made Project Nightfall.
@joshua_dlima
@joshua_dlima 3 жыл бұрын
He deserves some more attention on KZfaq
@joshua_dlima
@joshua_dlima 3 жыл бұрын
@Carlos Basulto he had like 150k that time... he deserves much more popularity on this platform... and he's growing exponentially too
@f1ybo1
@f1ybo1 2 жыл бұрын
He reached 2M+
@murderthemassacre
@murderthemassacre 2 жыл бұрын
I was drowned,beaten,severely abused and maltreated by my father. Physical child abuse really hits different to be honest,it ruins you but im glad you had your grandparents.
@patrickhamilton7849
@patrickhamilton7849 7 ай бұрын
You should forgive him still if he is alive.
@soulpure8663
@soulpure8663 4 жыл бұрын
I cried a lot of reflecting your words. Your truly an amazing...with a pure heart. Same here. I was so cruel and hard headed child...but when I realized that I have to use my intellect and compassion I was changed of it...itself....
@timothybanks7689
@timothybanks7689 3 жыл бұрын
This message helped me call my father and forgive him. Man keep doing this. I don’t know your beliefs bro, but you are doing Godly work. Christ preached forgiveness, because it’s so important to moving forward in a healthy way. I pray God continues to shower you with blessings. Thank you,
@brentcenencalong1165
@brentcenencalong1165 3 жыл бұрын
"If you want to forgive somebody the best way of doing that is understanding them"
@murderthemassacre
@murderthemassacre 2 жыл бұрын
This
@sonalpatel7741
@sonalpatel7741 3 жыл бұрын
Yes forgiveness is the hardest thing to give
@cookingworldworld3405
@cookingworldworld3405 4 жыл бұрын
This was hard to watch 😢.I had to pause a couple of times to cry my eyes out.But I am glad I watched it.
@UlmOst92
@UlmOst92 3 жыл бұрын
I wished I could forgive father, but he died in 2010 😔 So please, forgive your parents no matter what you experienced. Even if they will not accept it. Just for your inner peace. May god bless you all. And thanks to Agon for the words, which touched me deeply.
@LowkeyKai_
@LowkeyKai_ 2 жыл бұрын
NO! Im not forgiving my mother for abusing me since age 7!
@karl817
@karl817 2 жыл бұрын
Condolence
@tanvikittur7352
@tanvikittur7352 Жыл бұрын
@@LowkeyKai_ Exactly
@Jay-pc2fp
@Jay-pc2fp 3 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you've gone through that pain. but you're only hurting yourself by holding onto that.@@tanvikittur7352
@judedevera5137
@judedevera5137 3 жыл бұрын
Agon is indeed an inspiration to out generation. All of his videos are worthy to get viewed and shared.😘😘😘❤❤❤
@stellamaryjose5794
@stellamaryjose5794 4 жыл бұрын
My dad left me wen i was 5 he was lyk a nightmare in my lyf a person tortured me nd my mom later he married another women he never tried to contact us never helped us other side he took care of his new family well my mom raised me alone later I fell in love my luvlyf turns to be another nightmare in my lyf I left everything now happy being myself I never heard sorry from both of them not even once they never felt sorry fr der actions my forgiveness doesn't matter fr them maybe I will be able to forgive my dad nd my ex in future whatever lyf goes on
@dvnajoy
@dvnajoy 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like crying while watching him. Not because I feel bad about what happened to him but because of happiness. He found the courage to forgive and now he is free from the baggage that he was carrying from his childhood. I hope that someday I will have the heart to be as forgiving as Agon. 💙
@CedricKarlFonk
@CedricKarlFonk 3 жыл бұрын
Me too. I agree with you. I'm not that forgiving. I'm struggling to find it in me to forgive those who hurt me both mentally, emotionally and physically.
@atiyamina1922
@atiyamina1922 3 жыл бұрын
How is it POSSIBLE for a person to be this much inspiring to you even though you're only hearing his beautiful words through a screen! I mean this is the definition of Legendary to me! ❤️
@diaaa1309
@diaaa1309 3 жыл бұрын
this guy is a legend
@soulpure8663
@soulpure8663 4 жыл бұрын
When you Forgive, First you Forgive and liberate yourself....then, things around changes into positive..clear understanding and wisdom goes into your inner dept..and change the way who you are.
@wenkroy2dc72
@wenkroy2dc72 4 жыл бұрын
“Agon count on me as one of your avid viewer/follower/liker/sharer & subscriber etc.” ‘💙 your Positivity & Productivities”!🙏GBU🙏
@ErenYeager-vk1hz
@ErenYeager-vk1hz 2 жыл бұрын
His mom will be proud of him, seeing him from heaven. Even his father.
@JB-pk4ck
@JB-pk4ck 2 ай бұрын
People who have hurt you either dont know or they dont care. They don;t care about yoru forgiveness. That is why enlightened forgiveness to release yourself from bitterness or anger is so important. Believe me. i had so much anger in me towards someone i had loved and who betrayed me. it gave me a hiatus hernia. The solar plexus is where you feel it. This guy is very wise.
@virginiacajano1507
@virginiacajano1507 4 жыл бұрын
I love you Agon! ❤ I'm inspired by your story and I love all your videos on Project Nightfall..👍 Your power of forgiveness will take you to much brighter future and Godbless you Agon.. 😊❤❤❤👐
@eanwood
@eanwood 2 жыл бұрын
"Forgiveness is something I deserved." GOLD. Great talk.
@roseh1132
@roseh1132 3 жыл бұрын
The wisdom & kindness you have at such a young age is other-worldly. 💓 expanding!
@jubaerahmed1992
@jubaerahmed1992 3 жыл бұрын
Agon, you're an icon ❤️
@rier7998
@rier7998 3 жыл бұрын
Agon's story is so inspiring. It can touch many hearts and enlighten lots of people about making yourself free from all the heartaches and pain because you forgive.
@yabourtaipodiatatin9724
@yabourtaipodiatatin9724 3 жыл бұрын
Lotus bloomed amongst dirt.beautiful man 👍❤️
@cartman7570
@cartman7570 3 жыл бұрын
Forgive people not because they deserve it, but because you deserve peace.
@kat9587
@kat9587 2 жыл бұрын
You have truly taken your power back 🙏🏻
@starclone4
@starclone4 3 жыл бұрын
Your words... Truly must come from God, speaking to your heart !!!! You're a wonderful young man, thank you .
@cg.man_aka_kevin
@cg.man_aka_kevin 2 жыл бұрын
He has a lot of pearls of wisdom... Love from Indonesia!!! ❤️❤️❤️🇮🇩🇮🇩🇮🇩
@riceball4047
@riceball4047 3 жыл бұрын
This lesson going to my mind forever,AGON.
@kahinaharrache5026
@kahinaharrache5026 3 жыл бұрын
Hi cracked voice made me cry from the beginning till the end and i'm quite surprised because my tears don't flow easily ..
@shahdaniel741
@shahdaniel741 4 жыл бұрын
Agon is a very great person. I love how he could forgive himself. Now it changed my point of view to this world, Im happy to see the outside world, people smiling. And that could make me even happier than what I would have now. Thanks Argon, thanks people. 😊 love from Malaysia
@riamichellequiliope3725
@riamichellequiliope3725 3 жыл бұрын
I've already watch this video but I'm watching it again, he's accent and the way he tells story has always amaze me.
@CedricKarlFonk
@CedricKarlFonk 3 жыл бұрын
What an amazingly powerful and beautiful speech! He touches millions. Agon, you are a hero!
@Gyanwdshorts
@Gyanwdshorts 3 жыл бұрын
Life teaches us everything and you carried it really well. Proud of you
@Bhavya_2000
@Bhavya_2000 Жыл бұрын
You're such an amazing person Agon❤️you never fail to inspire me⭐
@galaxystudios5822
@galaxystudios5822 2 жыл бұрын
Watching this as part of the nightfam, I'm so proud
@EnglisholicExpressions
@EnglisholicExpressions 3 жыл бұрын
He gives me good vibes nice kind hearted guy God bless him..
@farismohamed7897
@farismohamed7897 3 жыл бұрын
Agon ....you are so great.....forgiven to a person who spoiled your beautiful childhood....you are a little batman❤️
@pennibarnett1222
@pennibarnett1222 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful and full of truth.
@borsharahman6879
@borsharahman6879 3 жыл бұрын
Agon you are amazing. You have a pure beautiful heart...!! I love your videos it has change many peoples life's.. you are a real superhero...!!
@trollnehru8102
@trollnehru8102 3 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful too.😘😘
@manuelraposo1405
@manuelraposo1405 3 жыл бұрын
Agon you are a true kind human being,you changing so many peoples lives and making a world a better place, love your videos,keep up with your great deeds in serving the world community...❤️😊🌏
@sprakleec5404
@sprakleec5404 3 жыл бұрын
The story is so touching and sad. I can feel you.
@mariafilipinawrites4384
@mariafilipinawrites4384 3 жыл бұрын
Agon, you’re really a blessing ❤️
@ayanakhtar5226
@ayanakhtar5226 3 жыл бұрын
@Project Nightfall ❣️❣️❣️
@highagain4278
@highagain4278 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Agon♥️♥️
@tanishaafneen3233
@tanishaafneen3233 3 жыл бұрын
Love you Agon, more power to you
@anthonysturdivant2971
@anthonysturdivant2971 2 жыл бұрын
Mr. Hare, your videos are making a huge difference. Wishing you prosperous success & happiness.
@muhammedalsabith6030
@muhammedalsabith6030 3 жыл бұрын
We appreciate you Agon! You have set a beautiful example for every one of us! God willing, you will get more recognition worldwide and God Willing, You will become a very busy man, May God Help you through this journey You have been a very inspiring person always, May God lighten your path to success, With so much love, Your Biggest Fan
@sonyrhr
@sonyrhr 3 жыл бұрын
every human should hear this. he will help a lot of people and get them out of their hardest times. he should be more recognized in the eyes of the world.
@yusvarietytv6876
@yusvarietytv6876 2 жыл бұрын
Agon you really made my day and change my whole life, you are truly an example and inspiration of young people.! keep up a good work...! love
@MuhammadAli-jd2ut
@MuhammadAli-jd2ut 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't know these things about him. He has such a strong personality. More people should watch this.
@SabrinaWazien
@SabrinaWazien 2 жыл бұрын
I love Agon so much! thanks for sharing this!!!
@yhivl
@yhivl 2 жыл бұрын
I love how Agon talks!
@boosuartistry4080
@boosuartistry4080 3 жыл бұрын
His accent make him and his works unique and more intriguing i love it.😊
@sanjidameem2737
@sanjidameem2737 3 жыл бұрын
Agon your voice almost made my cry!
@utuberhere
@utuberhere 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! You are the real deal, Agon!
@mrdevil848
@mrdevil848 2 жыл бұрын
this is the project nightfall guy
@andnowthesunisupimcomingdo1045
@andnowthesunisupimcomingdo1045 2 жыл бұрын
just recently discovered this guy. now i’m addicted to his videos
@anusharanjana
@anusharanjana 3 жыл бұрын
He is such an amazing person omg i want to be like him man its so damn amazing agon u r a hero❤️❤️❤️❤️
@VarshaSharma-nn7sq
@VarshaSharma-nn7sq 3 жыл бұрын
You're truly amazing, Agon....Love from India
@MMtnzs
@MMtnzs 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@peterreed8595
@peterreed8595 3 жыл бұрын
You're such a good hearted person with lovely accent!
@anitaramchandani7838
@anitaramchandani7838 3 жыл бұрын
You are amazing!
@pranavpawar4731
@pranavpawar4731 4 жыл бұрын
Great talk. Loved it
@jyotiyadav-rx5wd
@jyotiyadav-rx5wd 3 жыл бұрын
not now but maybe don't know but your words make me strong. thank you
@justone6407
@justone6407 4 жыл бұрын
good words Agon. urime vlla
@carrenjoylacay7759
@carrenjoylacay7759 3 жыл бұрын
I love your soul Agon
@khrawnam
@khrawnam 4 жыл бұрын
Great speech Agon
@pasqualepalena2556
@pasqualepalena2556 7 ай бұрын
I left home mainly because of the fights between my parents. Insulting each other, never a smile, they hated each other. I hoped that the arrival of my daughter would change them but nothing happened. In my hearth I forgave them both but I know that we cannot recover our relationship (if one ever existed). I would go and hug them both but I know that it's a version of them that exist only inside my head, better than the real one.
@shinihahaha4142
@shinihahaha4142 2 жыл бұрын
He's literally impacting the world ToT so lovely
@kenyanfurnishedrentalsllc2505
@kenyanfurnishedrentalsllc2505 11 ай бұрын
"❤BEST WAY TO FORGIVE SOMEONE IS TO UNDERSTAND THEM!❤ Thank you Agon. I needed to hear this because I need to be truly free! I have been binge watching many videos today trying to understand myself, my family, the dysfunction, the pain and then I thought to myself, why not start searching for videos on "Forgiveness". This touched me, THANK YOU!🙏
@itzme.7389
@itzme.7389 2 жыл бұрын
Love you project nightfall
@chinmayanagesh3634
@chinmayanagesh3634 3 жыл бұрын
Argon, Your video really works. I hope I will be able to do this sometime in life.
@emmaluftie7688
@emmaluftie7688 3 жыл бұрын
This is a necessary talk !!!
@valeriasandoval9839
@valeriasandoval9839 3 жыл бұрын
This helped, I thank God for showing me this video :)
@dianamalfoy4173
@dianamalfoy4173 3 жыл бұрын
Agon is super underrated how is he not on like 10 million????
@edteddysheerios8051
@edteddysheerios8051 3 жыл бұрын
I am a big fan of Agon Hare💜
@mhk9734
@mhk9734 3 жыл бұрын
Forgiveness is very important.. To forgive yourself is the first step and then it carries on
@tinahasanova1589
@tinahasanova1589 4 жыл бұрын
Agon! You have such a pretty soul!!!!
@lostgalaxy7068
@lostgalaxy7068 3 жыл бұрын
Really inspiring story of success.
@mscarolynnigro
@mscarolynnigro 6 ай бұрын
This really touched me ... very inspirational
@swatighosh_9978
@swatighosh_9978 2 жыл бұрын
Good evening! Argon, I have been looking for you, your name as I liked a quite a few videos of yours. Finally, I could place you by searching your video on your grandparents. Also, I am so happy to see this video of yours. Forgiveness actually is a miracle .... It helps us heal our self .... And find a new self and better soul .... mind and heart. Best Wishes
@juneboysen9021
@juneboysen9021 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@foneden8574
@foneden8574 3 жыл бұрын
your the best agon
@TherealdealDava
@TherealdealDava 4 ай бұрын
❤ Love you thanks for sharing
@oneminutemathkomalparoolka6476
@oneminutemathkomalparoolka6476 3 жыл бұрын
Pure soul
@_DivineTruth_is_Home_
@_DivineTruth_is_Home_ 3 жыл бұрын
thank you~
@sherryhtoon
@sherryhtoon 2 жыл бұрын
I love you so much Agon (in an admiring way) and I'm only youthful so I don't know how it feels to hate yet but I am certain that I will always be reminded of your words... You deserve the world.
@himanshu816
@himanshu816 2 жыл бұрын
I am inspired by agon and nussier(NAS) these people are awesome
@enno927
@enno927 2 жыл бұрын
Ayyyy Project nightfall
@cheriomerun
@cheriomerun 2 жыл бұрын
This guy deserves everything
@eunicemanalastas5461
@eunicemanalastas5461 3 жыл бұрын
Night fam hello. ☺️ "I have to leave the past behind to move forward" 🧡
@justbluemartin9346
@justbluemartin9346 3 жыл бұрын
The world needs more Agons😎😎🙌🏾🙌🏾✌🏾
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