I just got inspired of one thing that dont marry a man to fulfill ur dreams marry a man just to be you🔥💯

Her voice was so fragile. I was feeling all the while that she might cry very next second. She kept me captivated.

best line *"the biggest nightmare for a girl is to be married or divorce"*

ALLAH is true source of hope !! MashaAllah

I loved the fact that she gave her talk in Urdu, props to her❤️

Her voice is so mesmerizing.. and her experiences built her.. of what she is proud today 👏

she is so graceful and her pronunciation is so elegant...😍

You r an inspiration for women she thinks that she have nothing.😞.!.. love from INDIA...❣️❤️

I really didn't care whether she was from a middle class family or upper class and nor I care where she studied she just made me realize that no matter how hard it is never ever give up

I can understand that her problems are too small for many people but we can never understand what she has been through. Sometimes even the smallest problems can tear us apart.

Her voice, way to present and poise to carry herself is so graceful!

The only massage i understand from this story is :do not marry someone to escape from some situation . It would only end up in in divorce (the same thing happened to me)😫

She is just telling her story guys just relax !!! It takes alot of courage to share ur life story

I belong to a middle class family and now I am going for a conference with Bill Gates (Microsoft owner) ;-)

Such an adorable actress.....her acting has really improved over the years...

I just listened this coz of her attractive mesmerizing voice.. otherwise my experiences and skills are far beyond :)

Why ppl are criticizing her about her middle or ellite class... Problems are same for all people...

Why is everybody criticising her? I found her ted talk so real and inspiring.

Awesome courage, faith, guts, standing tall in the dark days !! Worth watching it like literally !!

This really was an inspirational story.🖤♥️ Ignore haters zara.♥️🖤

مڈل کلاس لڑکی یا لڑکا کہہ کر اب ہر کامیاب انسان بہت زیادہ ہمدردیاں سمیٹ لیتا ہے۔ یہ ایک success symbol بن گیا ہے۔

Such a sweet lady and a powerful speech regarding being yourself and being labelled as a divorcee. Lovely to see that you married a man who loves and respects you for who you are are. All the best from the U.K.

I like your boldness to accept your life's truth

She went to America and iran bt still she was frm the middle-class family 😂,mujhe abhi aaisa middleclass bnna hai

Daughter of Asma Abbas a well known actress, niece of Bushra Ansari the most influential actress of Pakistan. Still she is saying she had to struggle to get permission for acting. She studied in BNU, where one semester's fee is more then fee of a whole degree in a Public university.

Agar yeh log middle class hai toh phir hum toh bohat he ghareeb hai.

You are lucky that u managed to turn your life around by making a difficult decision while still being in the middle of the biggest turmoil of your life..... Not everyone is that lucky Allah pak bless u all the way

I Wwatch and rewatch this talk so many times...Zara's voice is so frail and expressive..her expressions and her personality is equally graceful...and this experience of hers is really eye-opening and inspiring..always feel like showing this to my family

This is an extremely emotional story,that is based on the moral values of life and our so.called"society"which is always trying to pressurize us down in every aspect of our life,her message to make the right decision on time by the help of your family and it's importance is shown here,Zara has given us a meaning and told us our power of decision,that it's our life and we have the right to make our own choices on free will and privacy from the society and people in it😊😊😊

No words can explain, what I'm feeling now. Just I wanna thank her for such a positive vibes, thank you so much ma'am ❤️🥀

Lady you made me understand something which I didn't even knew I lacked... Thank you so much for putting your story out there.

She is daughter of a professional actress and she had to struggle for becoming an actress. That’s odd.

There are few things about this talk that doesn't inspired me in any way. 1- She belongs to a background which is not anywhere near to a middle class. 2- Half of her family have faces that appear on our television screen off and on. e.g. kapoors of Hindustan. (for reference) 3- She has completed her degree from Beacon house national university (BNU) which cannot be afforded by people belonging to middle class, I reckon. 4- The references that she has mentioned in this talk contradicts her lifestyle. Perhaps her personality, too. Also, I am disappointed that only already privileged woman like her had this chance to deliver a TED talk while there are millions of women in Pakistan who are young entrepreneurs and influencers, I hope someday they'll get a chance too.

Either she is not middle class or we all are just really poor💀😂😂

Bohat openly or khul k apna life ki experience Bata Dia that really makes us motivated...very good ma'am

I much inspired for u that never giveup in any bad situation.We have to face the situations.May god bless u aapi 👍👍👍

I love you sweetheart . N you are so humble to call your self middle class. It makes me feel like we are sisters.😊

Love it! Haters gonna hate but Zara you are an inspiration. Totally relatable

I needed this badly i dunno y i m watching one after one these inspiring talks..seeking for piece of mind

She is very strong girl👍👍 Very talented 💕💕💕

Aik bat to hai she is pretty Gorgeous Talented Actress Mein ne jab Ehd e wafa drama dekha Muje laga mein Indian kajol ko dekh rha hon Bht mazay ka character hai zara ka. ALLAH bless us all.

Learning things : • No one can become responsible by birth. His responsibilities and his failures make him like that. •Mariage is a crucial part of our life journey. So chose it wisely not in influence of present needs . •We most of the youngsters think that we want freedom , we want to goo out from the house . Just to escape from various things we r facing in present. Bt if u can't solve our things in present situation then we will not able in future too. So just try to make ourself more better in present and enjoy present 😊😊

Zara noor Abbas is one of the best actress in Pakistan She is gorgeous

I just love the meditation part..... I also want myself lock in the room and want to cry and think what I want....but I think it is also impossible fr me to lock myself alone in a room....

There is so much to learn from her simple speech, which was as good as story telling!! Stay blessed Zara!!

Amazing speech. Everyone need to understand her concept behind it to make her joke that what she was trying to make us understand. As per my views first she tried to deliver us to take care of your family respect(brothers, mother & father) & always speak truth with family, second she said that "be your ownself" avoid diplomacy or buttering to get the good things. Get every things with efforts and belief in God.

After your drama Ehad e Wafa really i love u sis , after listening these things really proud of you 💖💓

Exactly this happens to me the same enxiety ,the same depression , the same cry ,I am going through the same phase now

Very honestly told- I’m glad she spoke Urdu

Can a middle class family plans for a trip to USA?

She is the girl who thought me something very special which I should do in my life Hatts off you zara noor abbas ❤️ Thank you 😊

Thank you so much for giving us an amazing character in *Ehd e Wafa* ❣ That proves how amazing girl u r..❣

See the smile when it came to her talking about her now husband.... That's love😍😍

In the entire speech, she projected herself as a character of a play.. A lot of self made stories she added in this speech with a smiling gesture...

She nicely explained everything ❤️ much love from India🇮🇳 🙏💕

Dearest zara, Kindly ignore the negative comments.. I am a divorcee and a doctor too...i can very well understand wt u want to convey through ur talk, some people dnt even knw the depth of situation and just troll u cz of ur few lines. Goodluck and congratulations fr ur marriage. I just completed khamoshi series... u r awesome. Love u sister zara❤️❤️

The moral of the story is that , An Actor can only understand an another Actor😂

she got a place in our heart ♥

Who I am and what I want to be... Really a good question should be ask to our self daily and blessingly I got my answer 😊

Hats Off to you ZARA NOOR ABBASS ASAD... A WOMAN WORLD SHOULD BE PROUD OF.

Zara I love you so much and respect your words. I never ever write any comment and say k “Urdu main bol lain English zarori hai kia” etc but to be honest I feel so connect with your words. I connected emotions with language. Now beside that I want to say it’s so sad that hamare zindagi mardon k ird gird he ghumti hai. First father, brother and then husband. Won’t it be so liberating if we can choose whoever we want to be... so happy that you got your calling. Much love ♥️

Very encouraging and inspirational

I want your first husband to listen this so he can understan who you are right now...

I am an Indian, even I can say that Zara does not belong to middle class. Apke pita, apki Maa ko nhi roke or apko roke. Ye kya logic Hai.

Just LOVE the way Zara speaks, lovely!❤️ Love from India🇮🇳

I really appreciate her thoughts that is amazing ku k hr koi yha negative log bht hn but positivity bht km hain....

How a middle class family can trip to America that sound absolutely illogical. Because a middle class family, nowadays, hardly making ends meet. Well, to some extent it's interesting owing to her confident and body language.

key things to remember for me from Her life, Listen to your parents in all case otherwise you will have more chances of mistakes and only your parents will accept you in all your hard times so respect this blessing of God before they leave you. Life will never give the time back. Take your decision with consultation of expert. considered all aspects when you take your decision and take them right in time for the first time and than dont regret.

Zara ki awaaz bhot pyari h😍

Jazakallah khair Allah aapki tarah har ladki ko strong bnaye..

God bless u ...keep moving in life..dont care about people who lets u down..u cannot please everyone in life..u enjoy ur life

NOT a middle class family... only now i know that she is asma abbas’s daughter. And the legendary bushra ansari’s niece!! So basically she was telling her story, so get to know about her through this talk, because she might not tell this story today.

Absolutely loved this conversation from the heart, resonating the right chords!

This shows whatever we provide our kids in their childhood they naturally get attracted to that as she also told that her mother used to keep them busy in songs & music & this led her interest in media industry ....

I am from India. I love your acting. You are a superb actress. Beleive me, I really appreciate only when I find someone doing a great job. This comment is from a Professor.

So much negativity in the comments.Instead of scrutinising her and the details of her story,just get the point she is trying to convey, which is the reality of our society. 'WE MARRY FOR All THE WRONG REASONS' .

I had to open the TEDx page yo see whether this vid was coming from official TED or someone relukata. Tedx, ideas of elite class worth spreading.

Everyone has problems in life ... So we should not compare our problems with her.... Just motivate from her and we should strong our will problem... As according to some comments...should cancer is little cute problem?🤔

She says im independent woman i can take care of my passport. But she forgets her passport at home what's a miracle!

Please guys encourage her for her decision that she want to live her own life with her dreams.

Though she is a good actress but she never ever remained in "middle class" throughout her life. Instead she was born in an upper class family.

It is quite amazing to see that she is so casual about her divorce.

From 13.30 min and onwards... Life changing prospective...🙏🙏

Zara is soo much amazingg person....just love her🤩🤩🤩

Absolutely love this woman 🙌🙌 Much love ❤️

Such a strong woman MashAllah ❤️

Wow I so like how she makes everyone understand to stand for themselves with the consent of our families

Such a god gifted girl ....ALLAH bless you more and more

Time to realize as a society that it is okay to be a divorcee, and it is okay to make tough decisions and chase your dreams. Absolutely loved your talk, ZNA. Keep being yourself. Cheers!

M speechless. I randomly click on the vedio nd feeling better after watch this ❤️

Lots of love from Germany to Zara Noor ❤️

Awesome & motivational speech by Zara Noor

priority of a person at cancer's last stage was recording the song for film rather than seeking help from Allah.......shocked!

Wow how strong lady she is !!☺️

Wonderful... Feeling awesome after hearing you.. Love from India 👍

A great motivation for us... She was very sad inside still...

There are other women who had more impact on the society than Zara.She is just an actor.We respect it but there are other girls who play a vital role in helping our country and society.These girls are better option for motivation and ted talk to inspire others.

I love this girl very much...expression queen...beauty

Her voice just❤️❤️😍

I've noticed that 90% of negative comments on this video are from girls. Itni jealousy, uff Allah!