Let's Talk About Sex: The Reality of the Sexual Pleasure Disparity | Grace Wetzel

Let's Talk About Sex: The Reality of the Sexual Pleasure Disparity | Grace Wetzel | TEDxStLawrenceU

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6 жыл бұрын

The claim that the female orgasm is just as natural and should be just as expected as the male orgasm is a controversial one, because society conditions us to regard the female orgasm as something extra. Grace Wetzel, a junior at St. Lawrence University, explains the phenomenon known as the orgasm gap and explores the straight woman's sexual experience. Grace Wetzel is a junior at St. Lawrence University with a Psychology major, a Biology Minor, and a Gender & Sexuality Studies Minor. She is a member of the ODK Leadership Honor Society and of Psi Chi, the Honor Society in Psychology. She is a member of two dance groups on campus, Dance Ensemble and Graceful Movements, and is a house member of the Women's Resource Center. Grace has a passion for intersectional feminism and social justice. Her long-term dream is to change the stigmas and inequalities surrounding the female sexual experience. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@jessicaascano9381 3 жыл бұрын

When you're single and still watch this.

@yogeshreddy6002 3 жыл бұрын

Lol 😂

@sintymckeating7015 3 жыл бұрын

Glad to know I'm not alone

@mubangachisha3041 3 жыл бұрын

I feel attacked 😅🤦‍♂️

@jessicaascano9381 3 жыл бұрын

So you guys are single?

@jessicaascano9381 3 жыл бұрын

@@mubangachisha3041 why?

@dsmay6404 3 жыл бұрын

One moment of silence for those who came with their parents to this tedx without knowing topic

@munnabhaiyya9515 3 жыл бұрын

lol

@amrt7755 3 жыл бұрын

See, that's the problem.

@arahan_dixit 3 жыл бұрын

@@amrt7755 you are samjhdaar👍

@danial3192 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 Khatam

@arahan_dixit 3 жыл бұрын

@@danial3192 finish😂 satyaanaas hui gayo

@carmenbalko1372 11 ай бұрын

I AM an 89 year old Granny and by golly never in my Life did I ever believe Woman would finally Hear THE TRUTH…OMG SO GRATEFUL…ALL WOMAN SHOULD HEAR THIS…I MEAN ALL …I SO APPRECIATE THIS VALUABLE INFORMATION…❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.

@Africa96tv 3 жыл бұрын

Yho, the silence in this room was of another level.

@michaelmelamed9103 2 жыл бұрын

IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO DO CLAPPING WITH ONE HAND

@asandax6 4 жыл бұрын

The reason people are quiet is because They are so so focused in taking mental notes

@somiproductions 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, like what's the point of this

@thethird2334 3 жыл бұрын

ARE you from south africa

@aidanrezvani9295 3 жыл бұрын

I'm going to single handedly fix this problem.

@JaiHind-tl7zt 3 жыл бұрын

Till when ??

@idig7345 3 жыл бұрын

😂

@jacksummer4041 3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@podareofficial 3 жыл бұрын

you might want to use both buddy

@mikeoxlong6851 3 жыл бұрын

Nice one lol

@kimmin275 3 жыл бұрын

Singles give attendance here

@jyotiprakash9774 3 жыл бұрын

😁

@fahimislam2414 3 жыл бұрын

😛😛

@ishwindersinghwalia6769 3 жыл бұрын

This was much needed! Thank you for opening up a conversation about it!

@tylerdurden2832 5 жыл бұрын

Ok KZfaq, I've watched it. You happy?

@tianqihu4756 4 жыл бұрын

you dog，me too

@aadityaacharya5902 4 жыл бұрын

The first rule of fight club ...............

@kartikeyatiwari8661 4 жыл бұрын

@@aadityaacharya5902 is you don't talk about fight club

@jayantchaudhary177 3 жыл бұрын

@@kartikeyatiwari8661 you just talked about fight club

@notgayatall5454 3 жыл бұрын

@@jayantchaudhary177 You just talked about them talking about fight club. Which is technically talking about fight club.

@rohitk2390 3 жыл бұрын

Dear youtube, i am single,why am i being recommended this? Is universe sending me some type of signal?

@Purple_Neon 3 жыл бұрын

Me too😂😂😂

@raqeebahamedsheikh6634 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@donj2202 3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@enamouredray5818 3 жыл бұрын

Depend upon your activity

@parthlohokare1385 3 жыл бұрын

Elon musk sent you the signal🤣

@asithaperera377 3 жыл бұрын

If this is recommended to you, there is high chance that you are single or long distance relationship 😂😂

@chesslessonswithgaurav7087 3 жыл бұрын

@hopealive3013 3 жыл бұрын

How do you know.? 🙄 i am in long distance

@adityapurohit246 3 жыл бұрын

Hahahhaa

@rajeev4679 3 жыл бұрын

How the f you know

@herman3376 3 жыл бұрын

long distance here

@SreyRc 3 жыл бұрын

Was rather insightful! It takes courage to talk about these topics upfront. Props to her for the lecture!

@infidelheretic923 4 жыл бұрын

I wonder if this was all secretly directed at her boyfriend.

@CL-uf9xw 4 жыл бұрын

@ Infidel Heretic I wonder if you watched this whole thing thinking "She's hot, what did she say?"

@amedina6162 4 жыл бұрын

@Waterlec lol it probably was detected to her boyfriend lol. Good one.

@GypzyJack 4 жыл бұрын

@Waterlec The front row was empty. He must have got embarassed and fled the scene!

@marvickfranca 4 жыл бұрын

Kkkkkkk

@lelandraymaley3 4 жыл бұрын

Infidel Heretic I don’t perceive this girl as straight?

@0669able 3 жыл бұрын

Very well said and very well put . Extremely well delivered on a subject least talked about ,and least demanded by wemen. Hats off to her for making the awareness of equality of this commodity for both sexes. Hurrah to her.

@commonman8582 3 жыл бұрын

3:33 me in every presentation

@shubhamsrivastavapngpsbazb5631 3 жыл бұрын

That damn true for me too

@thatonespecialfanoflana 3 жыл бұрын

😂

@rixseixe 2 жыл бұрын

Talking about equality of pleasure is significant. I think the first barrier to get across this inequality is communication. Speak to your partner - your likes, your dislikes and all that make you feel happy and content. The act is for both to enjoy - that is what all of humanity does.

@since1876 Жыл бұрын

Hey, man, I'll do my best, but if she can't get there in 2.5 minutes, that's why Jesus invented vibrators.... 🥺

@likad.5156 Ай бұрын

What if my partner says "I haven't heard any complaints from others "?

@rixseixe Ай бұрын

@@likad.5156He should be with others. What is your partner doing with you?

@Prodiggy23 6 жыл бұрын

What she did really well in this talk, unlike many other equality discussions in today's day in age, is she was very open about saying that this wasn't all just because of men or a certain group of people. She did an excellent job in pointing out that as a collective society, men and women, we should change how we look at this issue not to take away the benefits that it already gives but rather add more benefits for the other party involved. Greatly worded and put together talk.

@camerondiprose1722 Жыл бұрын

I didn’t see it like that. It’s not ever been something I’ve thought about. If I’m there to have a good time, so is she and if the job doesn’t get done one way you step it up and do something else. To some how insist that there’s a systemic problem of men being lazy goes a bit far. It’s certainly not been my experience.

@glenwaldrop8166 Жыл бұрын

Most of the complaints come from having a bad partner or lack of experience. Don't sleep around with randos that only care about themselves, that's a huge start.

@king.2597 Жыл бұрын

That's how many equality discussions are

@vanhau9674 8 ай бұрын

1st 2nd

@Chad_Thundercock 6 жыл бұрын

She makes a few good points, but there is one glaring issue with her assumptions. Biology and evolution don't give a single, cross eyed, red headed damn about 'social constructs' and 'gender roles'. Men orgasm easier than women becuase if men don't orgasm, they don't reproduce. Women can reproduce without orgasm, so the selective pressure of orgasm is not a factor. So yes, it's absolutely possible, and even probable, that women have a harder time reaching orgasm due to biology. But it's not that women are hard to bring to orgasm, but that it's so comparatively easy to bring a man to orgasm. Want to get off more often? Tell your partner what you like and need. Help out, even. You're adults. Take responsibility for yourself.

@Newstatejournal1 6 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@robertgabuna355 6 жыл бұрын

Rick Cutshall Agree...

@sanjayvasnani4612 6 жыл бұрын

Cannot Agree more!

@praneetjoshi8541 6 жыл бұрын

Rick Cutshall .. Disagree. The assumption that a guy's orgasm is easier than a girl's is a complete myth. It's exactly the same time. Please listen to the video again.

@raymukhtar6806 6 жыл бұрын

Praneet Joshi TRUST me lady, it does NOT take a man 4 minutes. THAT is not science lmfao

@nellynguma 2 жыл бұрын

Wow, she's so eloquent. Loved the entire Ted talk. Very insightful 👏👏

@PsychPerusal 7 ай бұрын

this topic is not discussed much but it is very very important. thanks for speaking up on this. i really learned a lot today.

@michaelware1649 3 жыл бұрын

Men are not mind readers, generally speaking, women need to speak up, and let men know what they want, different women like different things, I think most men would be happy to oblige!

@likad.5156 Ай бұрын

Most. But some would call it a complaint...

@seangpinyoung2719 5 жыл бұрын

Not me,I never fake anymore! The longer you live the more brave and stay true to yourself always! Just tell him! Lol.

@dbsk06 5 жыл бұрын

IKR lol

@notgayatall5454 3 жыл бұрын

You go girl! Be a part of the solution and not the problem.

@aaronmolinafletcher3756 3 жыл бұрын

Its a matter of educating and listening each other.

@aussiekelamate4609 3 жыл бұрын

I'm waiting for my game to be updated whilst watching this , Wohooo

@huntergaming4264 3 жыл бұрын

CHAD😂

@TheUltrazone23 4 жыл бұрын

Is my girlfriend working at KZfaq secretly? This was recommended to me!

@richymt20 3 жыл бұрын

Lmaoo the best comment ahahah

@desicryptoguy6090 3 жыл бұрын

You just confessed something 😅😂😂😂

@visibleconfusion9513 3 жыл бұрын

Gahaha

@motivatevideo 3 жыл бұрын

Oh, may be fit on this.

@rayana4250 6 жыл бұрын

"Today, I'm gonna be talking to you about sex". I'm genuinely surprised no one in the crowd yelled "YES!" after that bold statment DISCLAIMER: I have no idea why this video was recommended to me. Honest.

@BM-su7kc 6 жыл бұрын

Rayan A, they yelled inside their heads.

@indobekicot5731 6 жыл бұрын

They recommended this to me also, Idk

@Raj-np1sc 5 жыл бұрын

Yeah...recommended to me also...lol...wtf!

@Cheema_jee 5 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@lezysul 5 жыл бұрын

Lmao, same here 😥😥😥😐😐😐

@joeboisselle6856 2 жыл бұрын

I have never been with a woman that didn't have at least one. Most have had many. My wife has no less that 5 on average. I know that I'm alittle different than most guys but it's just that I like to please and the thanks I get. She loves me I love her. It's a way to show her instead of telling her that I love her. And beleave me she shows me too. Good to see someone talk about this. Maybe things will get better for all. Peace to all .

@favourw285 2 жыл бұрын

ur such a wise lady... saving pples relationships.enlighting pples future... I really appreciate you.. may u be rewarded with thenks ,love and peace

@hensuwis2160 4 жыл бұрын

Why I am seeing this ? I don't even have a gf .

@notgayatall5454 3 жыл бұрын

It will be helpful in the future.

@HindiFeynman 3 жыл бұрын

@@notgayatall5454 Might Be. 😂

@RoYal-xz5ch 3 жыл бұрын

Just in case

@PAVN. 3 жыл бұрын

to stay at safer side ; )

@jessicaascano9381 3 жыл бұрын

go get one

@retlaw4003 3 жыл бұрын

Is there anyone single listening to this?

@mubangachisha3041 3 жыл бұрын

🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️Here

@jessicaascano9381 3 жыл бұрын

let's make a group of singles 😂

@moinuddinrehman5539 3 жыл бұрын

😁

@soumil_11 3 жыл бұрын

@@jessicaascano9381 true😂😂

@user-go9kw6wf4m 3 жыл бұрын

Me I'm 16

@keylas3525 3 жыл бұрын

That's a voice that needs to be heard on repeat. Thank you.

@AryanGaming-ox7xn 2 жыл бұрын

Hi keyla

@psurrett1 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this very educational talk Grace!

@markterrazzino7300 3 жыл бұрын

In my opinion, my girlfriend's pleasure is more important than mine. without her, I don't get the pleasure.

@Shadow-bx8ri 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful, brave and benevolent. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Good

@abinothayyilsanoj4182 3 жыл бұрын

👍

@stphnmaunsell89 3 жыл бұрын

On ya

@ravikiran-os4ik 3 жыл бұрын

That's what a hero do

@stallionshark1726 3 жыл бұрын

Simp

@frankmeintjes5012 3 жыл бұрын

Bottom line ladies take control and tell your partner what you want. If he listens he is a wise guy.

@hamzamoussaid4347 3 жыл бұрын

Haha if the women take control of her man she will never have orgasm from him

@seradin8029 3 жыл бұрын

@@hamzamoussaid4347 what?

@Mia199603 3 жыл бұрын

They often don't so that's that.

@Nimrodel84 3 жыл бұрын

It's not very easy to say what you want when everything in your life told you that you are not allowed to ask those things.

@frankmeintjes5012 3 жыл бұрын

@@Nimrodel84 You must realize that it's your life your needs your body. You have the right to speak your mind. It is not sinful or wrong but it's your right.

@janhvinarayan1633 10 ай бұрын

This was so well thought and spoken, not everyone likes to talk on these subjects but she did and she did it quite well, hats off to her and I hope she or other speakers will come up with more videos like this 🙌🏼🙌🏼

@20MinutesCZ 3 жыл бұрын

Loved it. So true. So on point. And the confidence on stage is amazing to watch.

@kmijanakter154 Жыл бұрын

@TNTsundar 5 жыл бұрын

People don’t quite understand when someone says “It’s hard to satisfy a woman”. I only ask them to watch this video - just once.

@fluttersheesh8884 3 жыл бұрын

She actually quotet, that by themselves women and men need approx. equal time amount to reach orgasm. So what are you saying ?

@puppypi9668 3 жыл бұрын

@@fluttersheesh8884 I think he's agreeing and saying that he shows people this video to set them straight :')

@rajibdhungana 3 жыл бұрын

I don't have interest in the video but now since KZfaq has recommended me 10 th time. The universe is wanting me to watch this video.

@GutsXGriffith 3 жыл бұрын

Nepali jasto xau ta

@rajibdhungana 3 жыл бұрын

@@GutsXGriffith Haha without doubt

@munnabhaiyya9515 3 жыл бұрын

same

@jonnymcgrath4816 3 жыл бұрын

You know you got recommended this cuz you’re watching something similar to it. 😅

@munnabhaiyya9515 3 жыл бұрын

@@jonnymcgrath4816 no i watch ted talks sometimes that's why this got recommended to me

@SullenDaiz 10 ай бұрын

I hope it's ok to share, because more people need to hear this.

@debjitghosh7622 2 жыл бұрын

I am amazed at the way how she presents on this topic! Just amazing

@Pikachu-cv4ju 4 жыл бұрын

Nice session of SEDx...😅

@sauravsuman9384 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂👍

@BIKASHKUMAR-gh7cz 3 жыл бұрын

Creativity level 💯🤣

@ahmedfathi1488 3 жыл бұрын

@ABHISHEK AWASTHI Simp 😂🤣

@saidamin4510 3 жыл бұрын

She has put out all her anger to her husband in this presentation 😂

@JackJack-sc2od 3 жыл бұрын

GODD

@th3b0yg 6 жыл бұрын

I'm so tired of hearing about how we're victims of ideas that exist. Take responsibility for your own life and fulfillment. It's not a competition, it's a collaboration. Collaborate with someone who's good to you and it's probably going to be good.

@pladselsker8340 6 жыл бұрын

Couldn't say it any better

@MrRedwingsfan16 6 жыл бұрын

All she is saying is for people to be more aware of others, if you really care for a person this should be instinctive. Yes we should take responsibility for our own happiness, and like she said, a woman should feel empowered enough to ask, but the reality is, a lot of women feel awkward. We don't live in a perfect world, and it takes communication and a little bit of empathy to move in that direction

@th3b0yg 6 жыл бұрын

MrRedwingsfan16 or to hit the same idea from the other direction, buck up and stop thinking of yourself as a victim. It's incumbent upon you to pursue the happiness you desire. It's not incumbent upon others to provide it. But they might provide it if you ask.

@emmanuelp.8730 6 жыл бұрын

Robert Johnson women dont get it.. Somehow they believe that men are mindreaders..

@MrRedwingsfan16 6 жыл бұрын

Robert Johnson that's a very good realization, but unfortunately not everyone's brain works the same way. That's why people like you that have realized that, can only do the best they can to help others realize that. Hence my point of empathy and awareness go a long way.

@NoJeansBob 2 жыл бұрын

I thought this was incredibly well presented. I was impressed by the arguments made for aiming for equity in pleasure shared, but also by her grammar. These days, it's ever more difficult to listen to anyone speak who doesn't say "like" 500 times, but this woman did the English language proud. Very eloquent, very articulate, and indeed I would agree that irrespective of the observable truth that it is easier in general for a man to reach orgasm than a woman, the intention to please each other should be equal to intention of taking pleasure. The tryst should not be wholly satisfying to a man who only cares about his own orgasm, and vice-versa.

@carolgeorge6409 2 жыл бұрын

Agree about the “like”

@kumarsuresh1972 Жыл бұрын

I thought this 10 day enjoy funny tests no tests u yes pleasure Inquiry

@akiragrant8243 Жыл бұрын

This lady is absolutely first class. She really is.

@sajjadahmad9792 Жыл бұрын

Hi Akira how are you

@xavierson795 11 ай бұрын

@@sajjadahmad9792Ola hu Uber

@thinkingape7655 6 жыл бұрын

I’d be curious to see how Grace’s presentation evolves over the 40+ years. Hopefully she keeps her notes.

@h.fenrus2405 3 жыл бұрын

Teach your partner & offer positive yet constructive criticism so that you can help each other. Be vocal & if something isn't happening in real time be respectful to one another & let them know what's happening.

@alanbhattarai 3 жыл бұрын

I need these types of students(Audience) when i teach about reporoductive system

@moodymusic7717 3 жыл бұрын

An artist must not imitate but get inspired to inspire others.

@johnnyandrew4515 3 жыл бұрын

this video's especially recommanded to singles -youtube

@danial3192 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@macklin15yearsago73 3 жыл бұрын

Nice one Johnny ..nice one 👌👌 😂😂

@unstoppablezone4980 4 жыл бұрын

Asking for what you want is a great way to get it. :)

@scaptcha9522 3 жыл бұрын

Really apprecitable step , we must accept the reality and support to the upcoming generation 👍👍

@vishwamylapur5194 Жыл бұрын

Good to listen about being open minded and everyone need to be real n practical . Knowledgable speech.😊

@Mr.Coldfire421 5 жыл бұрын

I'm just here because I'm looking for my pet garry, anyone see him?

@tubbysza 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I found him in this video suprisingly at 9:11

@user-pm6uq3nc4s 4 жыл бұрын

Spongebob, It has been one year you wrote this comment, I'm worried, have you found your Garry? Lemme know, Thanks.

@christislord7003 4 жыл бұрын

Hes in the third row and he said this was his problem for a long time coz you were negecting his needs. 🤣

@ramiro94g 4 жыл бұрын

He’s under a rock

@Ozen-eu8wb 4 жыл бұрын

Did you find it mate?

@mihills4168 4 жыл бұрын

three words, stamina excitement and the "magic touch" finding the fulfillment satisfaction point.

@bhaveshkhandelwal575 Жыл бұрын

Your explanation is so good and open minded. Love it👍👍👍

@catkeys6911 3 жыл бұрын

I don't know about anyone else, but for me, the woman's pleasure was always the main goal. They deserve all the pleasure we can give them.

@red_Sun24 3 жыл бұрын

Simp

@coogarathanase4219 3 жыл бұрын

Of course shes wrong

@johnjohnson5814 3 жыл бұрын

Simp

@kushal6065 3 жыл бұрын

Simp

@generalginger7804 3 жыл бұрын

Simp

@sh0gun98 6 жыл бұрын

She's been dating the wrong men.

@FranCambeyro 6 жыл бұрын

Jason G no doubt about it! 😉

@melindabota1201 6 жыл бұрын

Jason G she is not talking about herself. Have you missed all the statistics she mentioned?

@rilist23 6 жыл бұрын

She wasn’t talking about herself

@RAG718 6 жыл бұрын

then why do so much research and spend the time talking like this,, some how someway her wrong men affected her...

@MegaARYARAJ 6 жыл бұрын

Frustrations u know

@ShortfaceBear 3 жыл бұрын

First 3 minutes sounded like a lawyer's disclaimer

@ellismartiskainen7729 3 жыл бұрын

yes

@Purple_Neon 3 жыл бұрын

True

@dzfattnutz 3 жыл бұрын

Sadly you pretty much have to do this before you speak about pretty much anything nowadays..

@just83542 2 жыл бұрын

@@dzfattnutz woke, cancelled, social justice, yadda yadda...

@faisalshahx 2 жыл бұрын

She didn't want to be attacked by the lgbt community

@oldsalt8011 2 жыл бұрын

Can't wait to try some of the tips this gal had to share!!!!

@gym_bob 2 жыл бұрын

This young woman is very brave! God Bless her.

@WorldofFusion360 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the clear explanation . From this I got to what it is? and why it is?

@ekanshmaithil2087 6 жыл бұрын

Everything aside, Quite a thoughtful and wonderful theory put up by her! Excellent!

@hollycolotta9859 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent! Well said. We need more people to talk about this subject! Thank you

@drmuralidharacharya.4167 Жыл бұрын

Yes ur right

@mzmudy 2 жыл бұрын

Bravo! Love this topic and the wonderful approach to tackling it. For me, my life partner's pleasure and her feeling safe is always the highest priority. The only small thing that didn't get addressed is men that feel embarrassed or ashamed when their female partner does not have an orgasm.. As she talked about, to me this may highlight the need for open and vulnerable communication as a key piece of orgasms for all - i.e. being able to openly tell your partner your needs and carefully listen to theirs.

@martinamitchell7612 Жыл бұрын

Mark, truly enjoyed your commentary re this Ted Talk. Agree as well that there should be open and honest communication between partners without judgment, disdain or disrespect. I was fortunate enough to have a boyfriend many, many years ago a truly great listener when it came to all things in our relationship. My only regret was it only lasted 2 years. He was offered a teaching position in the UK he could not pass up. He had many great ideas, thoughts etc. that we discussed on this very subject before we were intimately involved with one another. I can remember the conversation as though it happened yesterday. The 1st thing he asked was," What did I like in a man?" I was at first surprised by this, confused by this, because no one had ever asked me before. My 1st answer to him was a man that goes out of his was to make me feel safe. 2nd was a man that goes out of his way to make me feel special. 3rd was a man that was attentive. 4th was a man that was very thoughtful. 5th a man that was filled with chivalry. I got all of the above and so very much more with this amazing man. And my now partner (of 15 +) years does the same.

@MA-gu2up 10 ай бұрын

@@martinamitchell7612 Sorry to bother you I just want to ask, about your past boyfriend, it seems you loved him very much, you said your regret is that it didn't last more than two years, so, would you have liked to stay with him till now if you had the chance?

@martinamitchell7612 10 ай бұрын

@@MA-gu2up Yes

@MA-gu2up 10 ай бұрын

@@martinamitchell7612 Okay, so will you leave your current boyfriend for him? And if you love him this much, why didn't you try to pursue the continuation of the relationship with him?

@martinamitchell7612 10 ай бұрын

@@MA-gu2up No, he has found a different life, a different love. I have done the same. We have each moved on, no regrets for either of us.

@ramona.vargas7298 6 жыл бұрын

It's a simple case of lack of communication & understanding of the the men & women involved.

@christianschwalbach7561 6 жыл бұрын

Ramon Vargas pretty much

@amberkosterewa7029 6 жыл бұрын

Or lack of concern by the male party

@oscarl.3563 6 жыл бұрын

Sounds terrible, maybe you need to treat them better.

@SanVB 6 жыл бұрын

You said it! I don't see this as a Big social problem as she puts it, like if you and your partner communicate properly then this doesn't exist. I still find the talk interesting and very useful.

@sirgrotto8714 6 жыл бұрын

Jac Debaires I agree as long as everyone communicates and properly then things should be fine.

@tambell6270 5 жыл бұрын

She reminded me of the young girl in “ The Incredibles” movie. 🤗🤗

@thomaswhite4231 4 жыл бұрын

Violet. Oddly enough, her parents first super suits were red and blue... which makes violet.

@Userykp 4 жыл бұрын

Haha 😂

@josephyoung1803 4 жыл бұрын

@@thomaswhite4231 hey Googleqqaqa~~￦

@radityomuhamad2526 4 жыл бұрын

Damn bro! That's right

@cutiejoy12 3 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha

@nakulkathare3556 Жыл бұрын

FANTASTIC VIDEO … I did understand everything but here I am still SINGLE 😂

@snehabhat4876 3 жыл бұрын

We need more discussions like this 🔥

@viper4793 3 жыл бұрын

yes!

@peerzadaraies4028 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely yes.. Where from u

@volodymyrzakolodyazhny7740 2 жыл бұрын

And, possinly, practice and laboratory works? )

@SaiKiran-en2zm 2 жыл бұрын

Wah re wahhh!!! 🤪😜 Yeah absolutely we're educating ourselves and driven by passion for learning new ideas and deep diving into it ...🤝

@alostacet Жыл бұрын

@@peerzadaraies4028 india from she .

@aliciawei4809 5 жыл бұрын

This is so true. The focus and expectation is that men feel good, and many men are unwilling to put enough effort into learning what gives women true pleasure. Because oftentimes when women feel good, this isn’t as physically stimulating to men. And since women are mostly willing to accept this pleasure disparity, this just renforces the norm.

@ebrimasanyang5277 4 ай бұрын

Your are right dear

@masterofgaming7401 3 жыл бұрын

I like how everyone is so silent.

@Muba7680 3 жыл бұрын

Yaaa i love that

@atmaram1038 Жыл бұрын

Wonderful speech. Highly illuminating

@andreasjunga5642 2 жыл бұрын

I think there is a big difference between "taboo" subjects and private subjects. Just because something is not likely to be discussed in plain public, it doesn't automatically mean, that it's a taboo per se.

@shadowboxing1729 6 жыл бұрын

With my Peter Griffin's voice "Go on..."

@johnnycalvino7490 6 жыл бұрын

LoFi Hiphop Channel With my Quagmire voice "giggidy giggidy giggidy".

@tomterah2566 6 жыл бұрын

I approve of this message.

@nak3dxsnake 5 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha right. I wish she put her email up.

@NewLife-qj9mx 4 жыл бұрын

LOL

@shyambalehosur5903 3 жыл бұрын

You r so brave, thank you sharing information🙌

@rebeccasandlillysadorablebaby 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for putting this out there and looking for something like this for a few years because I have a disability and I have difficulty reading thank you

@alpha_centauri_ 3 жыл бұрын

A must watch video for everyone the day they turn 18 🙏

@brianohamill7236 3 жыл бұрын

Too late

@gohorarsen5938 4 жыл бұрын

*LGBTQ HAS LEFT THE CHAT*

@transfornation3187 4 жыл бұрын

You forgot 50 extra letters.

@kayceeprag 4 жыл бұрын

You forgot to add the I and A. 😂

@tuxmode 4 жыл бұрын

It's LGBTQABCDEFHIJKMNOPRSUVWXYZ

@lelexoxo303 4 жыл бұрын

James Jucutan Keyboard smash doesn't get you anywhere. Just say LGBT+, done. LGBTQIA+ for long. Tadaaaa, magic.

@jaylolo3716 3 жыл бұрын

@@lelexoxo303 it's not keyboard smash..it's alphabetical

@wickedeternity2002 3 жыл бұрын

This can be summed up by the movie "Chasing Amy."

@7minutesofhappiness Жыл бұрын

i would rather say it was a superb topic that was covered the important thing is Woman need to demand what makes her happy as men we do what makes us happy and ask her to do , if she will demand in relationship the realtionship will be more stronger

@Ouhlyh Жыл бұрын

A lot of women are bad at saying what they like. For me, I always focus on the women having a good time too, because I don’t have a good time unless they do too.

@Andre-hm5vo Жыл бұрын

Sir join MGTOW it's for the greater good for true sanity in this dysfunctional world.

@umeshvaid8801 Жыл бұрын

I agree 👍 bro, best of luck 🤠🤞 to everyone, for better Fun

@kirtipurohit1237 4 жыл бұрын

the audience is so dead..I could literally imagine the audience just staring at me with no interactions ,no laughs and nothing .If it would have been me ..I'd literally die out of those glares from people

@myearsgotyouthsystem8802 4 жыл бұрын

That's what you call emotional attention, cause it's all about equality!

@alexv259 4 жыл бұрын

See, because of the subject matter the presenter was talking about, Kirti expected, very incorrectly, to see the audience breathing faster (as not “so dead”) with lots of moaning😧

@alvinzady764 4 жыл бұрын

yeah how are you?

@Akashnow 3 жыл бұрын

They are relating the talk to themselves 😁

@anmolpandey9173 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@dudefckbro 4 жыл бұрын

This is such a well articulated and important talk, thanks Grace!

@jamessunday8915 3 жыл бұрын

We were watching this Tedtalk in our Church, at the same time that my friend was also watching this same Tedtalk in their Mosque!!!!!!!!

@user-hx6eh1fy1e 10 ай бұрын

I really appreciate that you gave us such knowledge.i had only moral and spiritual erspective about the gender equality but now you also gave me a scientific perspective

@marysullivan2884 3 жыл бұрын

Nothing to do with content random rant warning - this college is in the middle of NOWHERE! I used to do their audit when I worked with PWC in the 00s. I spent my entire month of August in this empty college town for four years - needless to say myself and my team spent a great deal of time all alone in the bar at the Best Western. I do not miss you St. Lawerence University. I really needed to get this out I’m sorry everyone.

@dockysalva7846 2 жыл бұрын

M...

@dockysalva7846 2 жыл бұрын

Eomrning

@krishnabasnet7352 3 жыл бұрын

So I am basically collecting theoretical knowledge before practical... 💘💘💘

@sabinbasnet587 3 жыл бұрын

lol

@lucase.crusader1196 2 жыл бұрын

lol

@thavoice6374 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@leandrog2785 2 жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with that

@mandyjacotin8321 2 жыл бұрын

Spot on! This should be required training in high school.

@nitinsonavane6291 Жыл бұрын

VERY INFORMATIVE SESSION @Grace Wetzel😊

@SaleemKhan-uj3tp 6 жыл бұрын

Haven't even thought about this so far, but from now on for sure.

@shubhammotghare8971 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot for motivation ..sounds really knowledge lable proud of you .

@samuelido4235 2 жыл бұрын

I think most of women fear to ask what they want while men always ask for it .

@waraksabalak2500 3 жыл бұрын

I dont care what shes talking about but I like the way she's explain.

@YuvrajSingh-qv8yw 3 жыл бұрын

Simp

@caischcer 3 жыл бұрын

3:36 That was weird. Did she sneeze or something? It appeared to me as if she was laughing for a second

@youareconnectingshivamkumar 3 жыл бұрын

Because No One is Laughing or Cheering. She feels awkward bcoz no one is giving any sign of emotion.

@ivanbreak 3 жыл бұрын

she had an orgasm

@notgayatall5454 3 жыл бұрын

@@ivanbreak Thank you kind sir. For making me laugh.

@hondedtij6761 3 жыл бұрын

She forgot what she was about to say

@freefallwefall 3 жыл бұрын

@@hondedtij6761 Agreed. She panicked on stage for a split second before recovering gracefully.

@kolothepanda 6 жыл бұрын

I believe the disparity lies in communication. As she stated women don't tend to be as vocal about what they want/need to achieve orgasm. While she only provided the side that made the woman out to be the victim (saying they believe it to be an inconvenience, so they don't say anything), she failed to mention a lack of willingness to aid. It's a scenario where either the man is expected to KNOW how to please a woman or just doesn't at all. There are men who don't know and are willing to learn, and there are women who are NOT willing to teach. Obviously, from one side it's hard to view things from the other side. If your partner isn't satisfying you (whether it be long term partner or hookup) HELP THEM satisfy you. TELL THEM what you like. If your desires aren't being met, find someone who will try to meet them.

@vanessaellsworth644 6 жыл бұрын

J.D. Brown that’s literally what she said lol that men and women BOTH need to communicate more. Did you even watch this video?

@KrisWolf4 6 жыл бұрын

J.D. Brown I completely agree!!

@20to1devotchka Жыл бұрын

Women don’t communicate out of fear.. when a woman communicates the man will typically take it as an ego blowing criticism and then his “performance” will suffer. We’ve been taught not only to please men to the point of faking orgasms but to the point where we fear repercussions for expressing our needs.

@user-vw7qe1cf9x Жыл бұрын

Are men vocal enough as to express their needs?

@user-vw7qe1cf9x Жыл бұрын

@@20to1devotchka absolutely correct. Men NEED and crave respect, not love, as women do. So, criticism does nothing to enhance the relationship. I know this to be true, but, I don't know how to fix the problem.