October 7, 2020 at 1:10 am I will have travelled 24 years since my last drink.......i was a bad alcoholic years ago........im very grateful for my sobriety.
@wendyli93393 жыл бұрын
I watch this over and over, and it touches me every time. I hope this give others hope as much as it gives me 🙏
@SushilSingh3 жыл бұрын
nothing with achieve bcz all we need action
@justnothing70803 жыл бұрын
Where exactly on your body does it touch you every time?
@justnothing70803 жыл бұрын
@@SushilSingh that's just in case of you having no money. Money can free you from thinking and taking action. So in short, in the ideal condition, all we need is money.
@susanjonesnow3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@SenseiEli3 жыл бұрын
We can all change and have a better life. Even if the past was "not so good"... The change is not only possible for some of us it is a must.
@simonrodriguez46854 жыл бұрын
Deep Insights into Mindfulness Navigation Study Guide 5:19 Adverse Childhood Events (ACE) Study 7:44 Drug Abuse vs ACE 8:35 Suicide vs ACE 9:42 Grim Prognosis 11:34 Hippocampus neurogenesis 12:30 Encoding new life experiences 13:36 Epigenetic Adapting 14:05 Depriving rats of maternal care (cont...) 14:19 Shutting off Stress Control 14:35 Stress as a toxin 15:08 PTSD Configuration 15:20 Maternal Care Restoration 15:55 Applying it to Recovery Patients 16:28 Time required for changes to stick 16:40 Quick recap 17:30 Shortcomings of Objectivity 18:05 Buddhist Technologies 18:18 Sorting out, understanding and use mental events for growth 18:53 Integrating Mindfulness into Recovery Programs 20:45 Meditation Brain Imaging 21:51 Power of sustained attention. After 4 and after 11 non continuous hours. 22:39 Brain repair 22:50 How it works 23:19 Enumerating and naming mental functions 23:34 Meaningful order 23:40 Morally weighing them 23:54 Bifurcated Categorization 24:22 Mind Modulation 26:36 Affect Ions 27:17 Normal circuitry functionality: Sobriety 28:55 Mind is everything
@TROMBELE4 жыл бұрын
Simón Rodríguez Thanks great comment
@sundhukumar4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making life easy
@bhaskarkothala51694 жыл бұрын
Thanks man
@katwild7773 жыл бұрын
thank youu 👉👈
@katiemarte53543 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@imaknotafrayed81364 жыл бұрын
There is a hope for those who suffered and that’s the most important point of that lecture. Life can be fixed, turned around. Thank you for work you’ve done.
@justnothing70803 жыл бұрын
Turning around is just a way of accepting to continue living even without your works, your wants, your wishes being satisfied. Sadly speaking, it's really hard to accept the truth that you permanently lose something really important to you but you still pretend to be happy and continue to live.
@annahadden23112 жыл бұрын
😊
@shrabonibabu4 жыл бұрын
It is such a pleasure to know that people like you really exist. I suffered from severe depression in last 20 years and on prolonged medication, and for last ten years practicing meditation. Only for last one year I could stop all my medication as I made absolutely sure of meditating for an hour every morning. It was absolutely enlightening to listen from such a passionate practitioner explaining the power and science of meditation. Salute.
@klh933 жыл бұрын
I hope you're still doing well. You are inspiring. ♥️
@SharonRiver2 жыл бұрын
A gentle loving wise presenter. I was soothed by his words. He has given me hope. "It's never too late to have a happy childhood" I have often said. Now I know why. Thank you David. Much gratitude.
@spemper2 жыл бұрын
Hello. I always say that "the first 50 years of childhood are the toughest". Ofcourse that started out with 30 then 40 and now 50. Thanks for sharing 🙃🙃
@vidusha1236 жыл бұрын
As a Buddhist and a medical student I can say that... This talk is BRILLIANT
@markdemell80564 жыл бұрын
I love the sermon on the mount.
@debrapickering79654 жыл бұрын
vidusha123 was a
@geraldmartin81954 жыл бұрын
@@markdemell8056 Yes, it is priceless...
@ZalewskiKamil3 жыл бұрын
As neither Buddhist nor medical student myself I can say exactly the same thing.
@joanneeriksson19174 жыл бұрын
This speech is impacted and opened my eyes to the healing that can be done and to never give up on anyone, thank you
@braedotson34653 жыл бұрын
I second that 🤝🏾💚 with abundance of love
@LinaLeyda2 жыл бұрын
01.30.22 Thank you KZfaq for if not for your intelligent programming, I would not have seen this talk from six years ago. Huge thank you to Dr. David Hendricks for this share and I hope millions of lives will be forever changed. I've always believed that those who experienced adversities are the best to share their experiences and influenced change because of what they've gone through and how they've risen above their adversities. I've been blessed with what I would say minor adversities in my life and I've chosen to help influenced young kids because they have so much to offer to themselves and others. To everyone of us who comes across this incredibly wonderful talk, let's share.
@ramilurazmanov4 жыл бұрын
It's an amazing and underestimated TED talks video. I hope millions of people will be able to watch this.
@aubijoanna36233 жыл бұрын
🙌
@JustASmallTownGirl854 жыл бұрын
Anyone else had 8 out 8 on the chart..you are my people.. we did it..we got through the pain..we are warriors and I love you❤
@sweetmissypetuniawilson92064 жыл бұрын
Close, I think it was 5/8 but haven't gotten thru the pain as my brother mostly & mom sometimes still abuse me emotionally & verbally AND we all have our addictions mostly from my dad's abuse who finally died about 10 years ago. I'm a mess!!!
@daniellewieners47504 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful, intelligent man.
@SpaceWormMark3 жыл бұрын
You can tell he's been through so much, but has turned into such a caring, empathetic, smart human being. A person who is actually helping other people.
@maritaalisjahbana45513 жыл бұрын
Yes agree..
@robertdulaney25893 жыл бұрын
Awesome
@sheyda223 жыл бұрын
Thank You and Thank You, Universe, for leading me here. 2nd day of meditation and the magic is REAL!
@slaughterhousecry3 жыл бұрын
Thoughts become perception, perception becomes reality. - William James This was an awesome talk. Thank you!
@violetblacksmith2 жыл бұрын
I wish there was a "love" button, because this talk deserves more than a thumbs up! So very interesting; this talk was a treat! Thank you. :)
@starlightdamour42974 жыл бұрын
Many are all looking for relief from something. This eloquent heartfelt share brings much value pointing to Clinical Hypnosis as a route to that life changing relief a possibility when all other attempts lead to disappointment. Thank you for your strength and paying your discovery forward!
@christianmairodrigues20864 жыл бұрын
It certainly wasn't a coincidence that I came upon this TED talk!! Thanks a lot for that! Namaste
@ytflix43 жыл бұрын
Are u from India??
@CrybKeeper4 жыл бұрын
You're correct David! ACE: I have all eight, before the age 14. I suffered for years after, with all the negative results, until I went to college and took two years of psychology, while also embracing faith and spirituality. Such as your experience, I rewired my own brain. I found compassion - I cry for others, but never for myself. As you might see, I am very self oriented and wanted to talk about me. However, I felt it was important to tell my story, which is similar to yours. Married 30 years, my wife had the same experience in her life. We have two mentally healthy children - We were very careful to keep traumatic events from our children, but when the time was right, we educated them on many things. We prepared them.
@romanr79484 жыл бұрын
What kind of things did you prepare them for? And what is the right time?
@CrybKeeper4 жыл бұрын
@Roman R: The right time is called, "The Age of Reasoning" - When a child can not only, tell right from wrong, but can also understand the "why",... it is right or wrong and appreciate consequences of their actions. it can be complex and guidance for parents may be required.
@adriangganja26394 жыл бұрын
@@romanr7948 right and wrong is subjective based on your social and cultural upbringing, it's really a combination of the collective experience of your immediate surroundings, how does one determine the age of reasoning out of curiosity, cuz that brain is adoptable that's why you get kids that a super geniuses perform high functionaly through society but if you flip the coin of super genius and transfer that same child in an environment where " parents or cares" are presenting a veiw of the world that's not functionally realistic when the child then moves to open world where there are no set rules that I think innately creates trauma in children, let me know you thoughts this could be gold or bin material 🤠
@romanr79484 жыл бұрын
@@adriangganja2639, I haven't encountered "an open world where there are no set rules".
@JustASmallTownGirl854 жыл бұрын
8 out of 8 for myself also at too young of an age. It is so sad how many of us grew up in agony..never knowing we were never truly alone in our pain. Someone somewhere was being treated the same or worse. Breaking the cycle for your children is incredibly brave and will effect the dynamice of your family line for generations to come. Sending love❤
@zawya1173 жыл бұрын
Intelligent guy with a decent understanding of buddhist philosophy.Thanks.
@3tp4 жыл бұрын
Fantastic! He eloquently verbalizes so many things that have worked for me in 12 step recovery. The importance of helping others is paramount to learning and reinforcing that I have value!
@krisg39842 жыл бұрын
Such a service ! Being a support system for anybody for those 5 years, as love and direction & Commitment. Respect to you and your wife !
@MannyDaza Жыл бұрын
What a masterclass ♥️ there are true angels out there in the world, watching this video while feeling hopeless about life was a tremendous input towards a better perspective! Thank you deeply Dr David Hendricks and everyone who participated in the making of this presentation!
@lindapanggabean75674 жыл бұрын
My heart goes to all adults living with such painful scars.. God, thru friends and His creations, will heal you, especially when you allow them too. Let us not do our very best NOT to perpetuate these crimes to our future generations but instead instill the legacy of LOVE.
@JustASmallTownGirl854 жыл бұрын
Thank you❤
@nixodian3 жыл бұрын
Luke 14:26 'if anyone come to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes their own lives, such a person cannot be my disciple' such loving expressed. Amen
@fabricesioul33972 жыл бұрын
So well said 🙏🏾 @linda
@SolarTTauri4 жыл бұрын
Your talk has had an immense impact on me. Thank you.
@beren12234 жыл бұрын
I wish I could find more youtube talks by Doctor Dr. David Hendricks.
@j-fit6774 жыл бұрын
Fantastic talk, i spent 2 years practicing meditation, regularly going to church (Parent?) and prayer. It really helped heal my child hood trauma. His explanation of the science behind it has really crystallized what i was unconciously doing. I would recommend John Bradshaw too. It seems i've still got a lot more work to do. Fantastic talk👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Thank you!
@sannaryles Жыл бұрын
grdhrdh123
@murraycowie92343 жыл бұрын
I am inspired! Not like we haven't heard it before, but presented in this fashion it stuck... Gonna listen again to reinforce.!
@mirelladlima52783 жыл бұрын
Truly Intelligent and also a true humanitarian sincerely helping trauma victims. Kudos to him. May he infect more people with this charisma 🙏
@bethharbaugh21403 жыл бұрын
Beautiful! I have studied this extensively and I so appreciate your complete and educational presentation
@markdemell80564 жыл бұрын
Meditation is good of course , it is a part of the healing process .I am usually good after a short 10-15 minute meditation.I need stimulation to satiate my brain, to keep him oiled and functioning. I also talk to GOD daily just like I would talk to a person but of course with reverence, through Yeshua . I trust the wisdom of the BIBLE , The wisdom of GOD. I just love the Proverbs. So be it!
@J8sonJ4 жыл бұрын
I think of what Paul said about physical exercise, "For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come." I have used meditation and found some benefit in it. But, my life, heart, and brain were transformed by the love of Christ.
@MsHumble43 жыл бұрын
Keep going that way... and the very best time to do it is: at about 3 to 4 am. Some will tell you that the spirit hour any time after midnight. I ended up having a Spiritual experience that changed my life for the better. And at that time, I would just pray as learnt in my religion. But that night, I decided to go straight to God with my own words... and it all began to happen. After that, I learnt TM and I managed to Transcend...and I have experienced a place I can not describe. I also began to stop feeling my arms and I was told not to do it anymore, but someone told me more recently that it actually is a good thing... Not sure, but I have been tempted to do TM again.
@lisamuir426111 күн бұрын
The last part of Dr Hendricks presentation has me thinking of taking a cry day, which i find quite helpful when things are out of my control around me. This amazed me how thorough his explanations are of brain and mind wiring. It is also shocking I've managed to do some intense mental and emotional strategies while learning ways to implement trauma reversal therapy treatment on myself. I have to admit there is nothing more extroadornary to experience the epidemic changes in your mind and body. What i do not recommend is ever attempting this on your own without any ability of self discipline or internal compassing i suppose i could say. I am listening to this a few more times as Dr Hendricks has a way of words. I of course am having to revise my speach again but only by a few words instead of whole paragraphs. Gained academia and education to help me more.
@moralmarketing3 жыл бұрын
Very interesting! 5 years...same amount of time it takes a child's brain to finish formatting. This gives me so much hope 😁
@deecee97413 жыл бұрын
From the cradle to the grave... all we really need is love.
@aminakishk6571 Жыл бұрын
Love your self, trust yourself, spoil yourself in healthy ways, take you time to enjoy something you like , be not so social unless you want to , realise you have a right to happiness and to get it , respect your self , take loving care of you , you are your own best friend , God does helps profoundly and can be trusted , make good memories , you are what you think you are …you are good and marvellous !
@CrystalSizemore3 жыл бұрын
I am sharing this to everyone I know...this is the answer to understanding so much in life and how to bring change and happiness!!!!
@karenkersten83403 жыл бұрын
An inspiring and hopeful message explained so clearly and eloquently.
@danielmoore40243 жыл бұрын
Karen, I love mindfulness which is why I do meditation and Tai Chi. According to scientific evidence Tai Chi prevents all drug treatments and all diseases and illnesses associated with age. We're often controlled by our thoughts, mindfulness gives us control of our mind instead of our mind controling us.
@jeaninelanza9814 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with this talk! I used to have issues with thinking everyone was thinking negatively towards me or mad at me but I’m getting better towards thinking this way. I still have a lot of anger towards my family but just like he said in this talk I have to rewire my brain and instead of getting angry all the time and thinking negatively about them, I need to get out of the situation and start thinking positively about them. Then I will try to rewire my brain. Also meditation helps a lot! Thank you TED for releasing this and all helpful videos!
@klh933 жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing well ♥️
@yourwedding-yourway1672 жыл бұрын
I am humbled by this man and the support given by his wife and the huge amount of love and effort to research and share with them selvesAnd further dedicate his research to the many people they love and support others out of the darkness they find themselves. Thank you, Your talk was given in a very understandable, loving and personal way. Dr Dave Cleveland also As Dr Dae Shan
@buryanimated10384 жыл бұрын
I love stuff like this bro.. life really is a journey.. don’t give up during those painfully depressing and dreadful moments life brings upon you.. one day at a time.. it does get better, change does come..
@annmariemonahan43287 жыл бұрын
This doctor is right on the money I HAD fibromyalgia until I changed the mind from anger to peace with the help of meditation hard work it is but once you get it IT WORKS free your mind from hate and have positive thoughts and remember to breath this was the thing that started to heal me I was in fight or flight mode forgetting to breath . What you think you become !
@jamesmarcussolzan54906 жыл бұрын
Ann Marie Monahan Congratulations!!!! Great job!!!!!!!!
@hellooutthere89564 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the comment. I have fibro and want to be pill free. I find it telling of our society tht so many now suffer this.
@SDVidPro4 жыл бұрын
Did you use a particular type of meditation? i.e. transcendental, mindfulness? how long before you started to see changes in yourself?
@emmamacgregor7314 жыл бұрын
Congratulations, Ann Marie! I am trying to do the same. How you now in 2019?
@soilmanted4 жыл бұрын
Buddhist thought is not "what you think you become." It is what you become RESULTS from what you think. There is a difference. No matter how much I think I am a tomato, I will not become a tomato. If I think I am a tomato, I will become something different than if I think I am an entertainment professional, but that doesn't mean I will become a tomato..
@emceefreedomnoorbunnylove51474 жыл бұрын
Wow. My lord have mercy; that has got to be the best Ted talk I have ever heard! Deeply and splendidly profound in its transcendence, relevance and sagacity. How Buddha-ful! I feel truly blessed for having heard this; unlike any other; this is something else. Cheers.
@johnmariano474 жыл бұрын
Thanks. If you feel meditation is not working out for you, you may be quitting so soon. Just try to sit still each day especially when you are tired or has something on your mind. Have faith which means let whatever may come in these sessions come in. Meditation creates a bridge from your mind to your subconscious mind. You’ll know it when meditation is starting to affect your old habits and emotions.
@athenac26963 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your much needed information that will help many people heal their lives!
@chrischris47884 жыл бұрын
Thank you, David, for some peaceful thoughts at the end my day, I look forward to my following day.
@MayankSinghDodiya3 жыл бұрын
The good doctor is speaking about the "Vipassana" technique that Buddha taught. I hope this information helps all the people who want to know.
@bobjary93824 күн бұрын
Vipassana originates in Burma brought to india and the rest of the world by Goenkaji . Its not Tibetan despite being taught in Tibetan monasteries alongside other forms of meditation. The Dr and his wife wouldnt have had to go to all the trouble of translating works in sanskrit for Vipassana , they could just do 10 days in an ashram
@vernabarnes20794 жыл бұрын
She hit the nail on the head , I must listen again, because that is exactly how I feel, and I know deep within that’s exactly so, thank you.
@MsFaulk3 жыл бұрын
May everyone be well.
@alexfrank51217 жыл бұрын
As one who has suffered for the effects of major childhood trauma and whom has an intermediate background in the field of Psychology, I just want to say IT'S ABOUT FUCKING TIME SOMEONE SAID PUBLICLY THAT THIS SHIT WORKS!!! (I know it's been known for awhile among scholars but it's still hardly the mainstream theory/treatment method). I've been trying to explain this theory I've had to the medical persons who have treated me for addiction, but many simply refer me to AA or NA with NO mention of seeking mental health treatment for my trauma. This was an amazing video, Dr. Hendricks I commend you and admire your intellect and the transformation you have gone through. Furthermore I want to thank you for doing what I've wanted to do for so long: educating people on the nature of trauma, it's correlation with addiction to chemicals and other negative vices, and attempting to convince others of a better treatment method than I've received in the over 20 institutions I've been in. I truly believe that a massive amount of pain and suffering is caused due to childhood trauma, not just for the victim, but for everyone who interacts with him or her until they heal; because what most people don't know is that just because it happened so long ago, doesn't mean the victim is over it. The victims will often cause pain to others, commit crimes, etc. not because they are bad, but because they were conditioned in a manner that leaves them in a constant state of fear, pain, sadness, anger, or otherwise. Anyways thanks. Peace!
@rositameniano60084 жыл бұрын
Very informative. Love you TED. Please Keep going to educate us more.
@mutugiwanjohiii74854 жыл бұрын
I had never put thought or consideration for meditation at any point once until i adopted it recently in my self seeking journey. Listening to the academic interpretation of this brings an extreme sense of understanding to exactly what I have been meaning to know. Mindful meditation has been a thrilling experience such that I may not need to seek alcohol or any other form of substance to help as a coping mechanism. It is better to spend some good blissful time in the present moment in my own head than outside distractions. Thank you for this timely insight. Getting that safe spot while meditating takes a while and has been a struggle. Time takes time too I will get there eventually.
@famouspork4 жыл бұрын
I have never believed in meditation until this doctor showed how it interferes with the brain on a physical level. I'm not a man of blind faith and thisvideo just switched my lights on. By the way, the pork roast I'm cooking right now smells amazing.
@rblightchild4 жыл бұрын
you will
@mewebtoob7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. It has the potential to lead to the healing of anyone who views it. What a beautiful gift! I think it's also worth while taking a look at the work of Gabor Mate, Rupert Spira, Peter Gerlach, Tom Campbell. Their findings and methods fit well with this understanding of epigenetics. I wish you all great success!
@steviegarcia934 жыл бұрын
@@MyLivingJournal let me speak to your manager
@webe61704 жыл бұрын
Mahayana Buddhism is helpful.
@taralilarose14 жыл бұрын
And Bessel van der kolk
@annasan4513 жыл бұрын
Bruce Lipton. ..first wrote about epigenetics in 2008.. The Biology of Belief.
@JMSsssssss2 жыл бұрын
Gabor Mate is epic.
@joannthomases93043 жыл бұрын
Not boaring. Pure intuition knowledge adding the other. Love the compassion for truth !! You care. This is how talks get my attention !!!! Sadly we are sinners all day at church. Think about that one. This guy is more on the ball than medical, due to $$$.
@todydn4 жыл бұрын
I am this man all I got is depression and absolutely unfettered rage and now that I realise that I've found genuine sadness
@brandiveh4 жыл бұрын
Me too, so glad I found this. I tried meditation and everything this dr said has been true for me. I wish i could get others I know to try it for their addictions addictions
@betha98982 жыл бұрын
It was great to hear this. I'm only familiar with a ten point scale of ACEs, of which I have nine. I wholly agree with the helpfulness of meditation.
@kimkimhmida65564 жыл бұрын
what a GREAT MAN! I am waiting for your book avidly. many thanks for your lecture.and the BUDDHIST GIFT TO HUMANITY... that's we need right here right now in this troubled world that reached its impasse.
@alwaysbeeurself4 жыл бұрын
The only one so far that I've heard applying scientific evidence in regards to philosophy and spirituality.
@klh933 жыл бұрын
Fantastic video and talk. Meditating definitely helps. I send love to you all out there. ♥️
@athenac26963 жыл бұрын
It is amazing though how strong and flexible a person can become when they use meditation instead of medication to heal their childhood wounds! After a tremendously painful childhood, I became very grateful to have experienced the huge wisdom builder of childhood abuse by a parent and an uncle! If I hadn't gone through that and survived, I never would have been strong enough to get through the experience of one of my son's assisted suicide. It's really true that "what doesn't kill us makes us stronger!"
@AmandaSiobhanLyons4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Hendricks! This type of lecture should be taught as some sort of school curriculum basics.
@NEHAKUMARI-qb9ef4 жыл бұрын
He is so humble. 🤗
@bluesideup0077 жыл бұрын
Tashi delek! Good to see you again, even if only in a virtual/digital way.~ a friend and colleague from Madison.
@jorgevillegas53212 жыл бұрын
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@jorgevillegas53212 жыл бұрын
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@kitschmygrits48363 жыл бұрын
Dr Hendricks is very knowledgeable and in touch with what we need to become whole and content as abused, neglected, and addicted souls. I wish I could've held onto something at my 5 years of sobriety because I relapsed due to an avalanche of very unfortunate circumstances back in 2010. I had a disc that had an annular tear which caused immense pain and 12 weeks of immobility which led to a disc removal in 2013, a massive financial crisis that led to me closing my business of 10 years, my move from my home state to a strange state, my son moving to college, my divorce, and 4 major deaths in my family. And those were the main unbearably traumatic events. There were many more on top of those. When in the throws of so many things at once in a society that doesn't have the resources or knowledge that it requires to help people that come from abuse and have to face catastrophic events, it's almost impossible to stay sober or maintain any clarity. Even those who have thousands of dollars to spend on treatment don't get adequate care. No wonder so many fall through the massive cracks of a society that blames the addict. No wonder people give up. They never stand a chance.
@bluewater37833 жыл бұрын
What's up, now? Are you being treated somehow?
@tritalpariwar39754 жыл бұрын
Great application of Buddhist philosophy in mental health .... Brilliant idea...
@inimacam39454 жыл бұрын
Good Doctor and a very good teacher . Thank you .
@bluechakraascension1263 жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking about this. This is so helpful and interesting.
@barbaralopez41284 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!! Just what I need to be hear at this moment!
@josephrapa86574 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr Hendricks.
@joanarcher98604 жыл бұрын
Brilliant. Thank you.
@n.d80016 жыл бұрын
admirable. good work. Your research is bringing hope and power to all those who have been affected by childhood trauma.
@collinelias57394 жыл бұрын
what a breath of fresh air that presentation was. I would have appreciated a description of their intervention. He explained well the methodology\approach but not exactly how the intervention is carried out.
@deanmindock36803 жыл бұрын
Basically, it is to meditate. After a few weeks of daily meditation, observe your thoughts, especially your reactions to experiences. Accentuate the positive reactions and attenuate the negative ones (Uncle Remus). Never discontinue daily meditation practice. There are several types(methods) of meditation. Mantra Yoga is based on a running a series of sounds thru the mind and is easy to learn. Pranayama is used to prepare the mind for the meditation session. Zen is another method but harder to master but I think it is what Buddhists use. Meditation can make life enjoyable beyond words.
@ginaberrie26084 жыл бұрын
Exceptional information. I think we all have some form of trauma as children, some, if not most more than others. I'm dealing with childhood trauma and the suicide of my brother, who had more trauma than I. But I can't get the memories of his trauma that I witnessed as a child, for many years, out of my head. It's so painful, more so Because I have to live with his suicide. I'm taking away from this video hope. Hope that I can recover and live a normal life. I think the only chance of normalcy is removing my mother from my life. She allowed and sometimes caused the trauma herself. I love her but I don't think she's capable of true love, only love as a matter of convenience.
@donnamariedavidson50654 жыл бұрын
Yes. Anyone who is toxic is no good for our own life. My mother has always put me down constantly all my life. To this day she still talks down to me. I don't allow it anymore. I hang up on her and no longer take her calls.
@webe61704 жыл бұрын
Gina, thank you for sharing your story. I also suffered from the ignorance of others. While it is good advice to distance yourself from those who hurt you, Buddhism offers lasting peace and resilience. May i suggest Mahayana Buddhism? The great vehicle offers enlightenment to all in one lifetime. May peace be yours.
@ginaberrie26084 жыл бұрын
@@webe6170 Thank you so much for your suggestion. I have actually been looking into Mahayana Buddhism as of recently. I really enjoy and have a lot of respect for the spiritual connections I have encountered thus far. Not only with others, but more importantly with myself. It has been very therapeutic for me and I'm just getting myself familiar. I'm looking forward to learning more and growing with the knowledge. Thank you for suggesting this and I'm so grateful for your encouraging words.
@sweetmissypetuniawilson92064 жыл бұрын
You must've had a much better brother...mine took my dad's abuse to a whole new level! He's hated me since I was born. Mom's not much better, she tries sometimes but definitely not unconditional love & she has always favored my brother. I'm a mess & wish I could get away from both of them forever. Unfortunately certain health & financial issues keep me here, for now. Dad fortunately died about 10 years ago...mom & brother got everything, I got nothing. Oh well.
@ginaberrie26084 жыл бұрын
@@webe6170 Thank you for your input, I'm going to look into Mahayana Buddhism. I practice some forms of Buddhism because I just believe in them, and they make sense to me. Thank you again ❤️
@hs5hdrtv3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true that mind is everything. It's the Master of body and even it can bring itself to niverna. 🙏🏼 🙏🏼 🙏🏼 👀
@vb.elaine26453 жыл бұрын
Heal
@Infoseek7774 жыл бұрын
Turns out that having one or more depressed parents is equal to being abused as a child too...
@migrain453 жыл бұрын
I totally agree Steve, and i can say that from experience.:-(
@sole94823 жыл бұрын
@@migrain45 me too :(
@QBert9043 жыл бұрын
It seems like a lot of people blindly have kids without thinking about the lifetime of consequences that come with them.
@lztoria3 жыл бұрын
A great example of what Pr. Sapolsky describes in his book Behave.
@samanthabarron84812 жыл бұрын
What a loving and impactful approach this couple takes to helping their clients. I am helping a friend through PTSD and substance abuse and I agree that the only way to reverse the damage is to provide loving and supportive experiences for an extended time. This is probably why so many treatments are unsuccessful, because it takes intimate social connections to reverse years of emotional abuse and neglect. Maybe we can start by spreading kindness to all we meet, to ease the unknown pain of those around us.
@weili19634 жыл бұрын
Heal the wounds of the past and restore to be who we choose to be. Learn , practice, meditate/reflect and grow
@TheNimaldez3 жыл бұрын
The Creator, almighty has done all infrastructure for unconditional and ultimate love of mankind. Buddha's philosophy and techniques ascertained, after study by presenter will no doubt help overcome situations of this kind. The application and practice is key. Studies and analysis of mind will bring more positive results to overcome some of the present social issues and crisis faced. Many thanks and appreciations for the Dr for his application and practice for wellbeing of mankind 🙏
@RaviSharma-gd1jw3 жыл бұрын
He is the most articulate speaker I have seen so far. Spellbinding video by the doctor. Wow!
@0ptimal2 жыл бұрын
Very good. Taking control of your brains processes of change.
@monicafrancis48774 жыл бұрын
Brilliant and life changing!
@garyr19344 жыл бұрын
ACES applies to my son However not as the stereotype would imply Women too can and do abuse I have the knowledge first hand Parental alienation is domestic violence as well And more damaging Thank you for such an informative presentation We are blessed to have it here to view
@AngelOne116 жыл бұрын
Can you please please elaborate on how do you provide parenting to those adults in need? My daughter has been abused as a child and she has been on the wrong track for a very long time. I didn't wanted to reach out to her but I think you make a point on the improtace of parenting to those adults who come from broken homes. My question is HOW?
@byronlopez35042 жыл бұрын
Great message Thanks for sharing knowledge Receive many blessings You been like a light
@englishwithsandakelumsir55684 жыл бұрын
I am proud of being a real Buddhist and practice the teaching of lord Buddha and have the benefits of them
@robertatvitalitystar24444 жыл бұрын
Your cutting edge Dr. Hendricks and ty : )
@rsharon45184 жыл бұрын
Very nice. This resonates with me on a personal level because of the suffering of a loved one. However, when one is constantly kept off kilter by the threat of key love and support being withdrawn, change will not occur! I personally had a very uneventful and mostly pleasant childhood - but without proper guidance and care for my own particular personality configuration. Liked this presentation!
Not forgetting Wood the planner and doer...also the seat of anger or assertivenes
@MrOliverTube6 жыл бұрын
fantastic talk thank you very much
@michaelknight85344 жыл бұрын
Proverbs 23:7 For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.
@nixodian3 жыл бұрын
Luke 14:26 'if anyone come to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes their own lives, such a person cannot be my disciple' such loving expressed. Amen
@mohdshahnawaz38643 жыл бұрын
Absolutely loved this video. Thank you so much for this valuable information:)
@veersinghlabasafijiislands43144 жыл бұрын
Very insightful, thanks Dr.David.
@Zain.Basi14 жыл бұрын
Very calming presentation.. easy to follow
@moniquemeneses65036 жыл бұрын
Many many thanks for sharing this with the world. I hope its gonna reach millions of people and that the most of them really start to integrate it. Meditation changed my life in exactly the way you explain it. How is the place called where you and your wife went to in Tibet? Can you recommend places for training mindfulness there? I appreciate any recommendation.
@mehrnooshh.kashani25714 жыл бұрын
Brilliant and insightful
@nikolinesanderson77176 жыл бұрын
As I am searching for a video about Buddhism to teach to my 6th graders and I find this video of you! Joel and I are currently teaching in the Dominican Republic. So good to see your face and to be reminded of your wisdom on this topic.
@sweetmissypetuniawilson92064 жыл бұрын
@Barry Woods I wish I had a dollar for every one of your comments that say the same thing.
@bobcaston90326 жыл бұрын
This is amazingly power stuff.
@ganeshbd1234 жыл бұрын
It’s wonderful to hear tedtalk
@rseyedoc3 жыл бұрын
I would love to know what Sutra or text that they used on the psychology of mind and if translation they made is available?
@douglasbagarry71142 жыл бұрын
Never give up on yourself or anyone else .. nice
@johnquinn63512 жыл бұрын
I was bullied as a child then beaten by schoolteachers Then alcoholic , Went to AA stopped but still suffer I'm in my eighties Thank you Doctor