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We introverts tend to need to shut away the world from time to time. While we do like being around people (at least small groups of close friends and family), it can be draining of energy after a while, and shutting ourselves away and taking alone time is necessary for us to recharge. So, I understand what you mean about the open/closed states you experience. And yes, as we come to realize these things about ourselves, we can make those decisions to be open or closed, depending on our needs.

Omg PLEASE do these more often. It's so refreshing to see someone you look up to talk about REAL things

that, my friend, makes so much sense

Why do Lisa always hace the best words for literally E V E R Y T H I N G

Lisa, you're my inspiration and I'm so freaking proud of you!!! You've helped me so much and I can't thank you enough! I love you so much!💗

This makes SO MUCH sense. In fact, you actually put my emotions and feelings into words. I've been so closed off the past few years and recently I met a guy who I really like but my internal struggle is opening up myself because he's deserving. I'm just SO afraid of getting hurt again. Sometimes it seems easier to be alone and a hermit so people don't hurt you but it's important to get out of my comfort zone and experience new things, whether it's heartbreak, whether it's love.... I FEEL BECAUSE IM ALIVE. Holy Cow.... Thank you Lisa! ❤

that mango looks so good.lol

I love this impromptu, casual, authentic ramble.

You are SO good with words, I love your metaphors.I do relate with everything u said, every time I fell alone, which is most of the time, it's my fault bc I keep pushing ppl away. And when I try open myself a little bit ppl coming and I feel happy again lol.Love u! U r truly an inspiration.💜💜

You're so deep Lisa. And real and authentic. You're a breathe of fresh air.

I love you pretty girl!!! You have the right to open up and close whenever you want to, as long as it does not affect you. I hope you can deal with your feelings soon. I THINK WE ALL NEED TO DEAL WITH OUR FEELINGS. We're here for you

Makes perfect sense, Lisa. I agree with every word. I was feeling so closed for the last months (sorta depressed and had just got out of a relationship) and now I'm feeling better and more open and things just naturally are happening. It's like your energy attracts people and new experiences to your life. And sometimes it really is necessary to shut down a bit to find yourself or rediscover some things. Just be true to how you are feeling is amazing. Btw: You look more and more beautiful everyday, not just in appearance.

Love that you are saying this out loud :)

thank you for sharing lisa! this defnitely does make sense. I've been shutting out people for a long time now, tbf I feel like I have never been fully open, but I am so sick of it by now. I am turning 19 in a fiew days and I don't even have someone close enough to me (besides my boyfriend lol) that I can consider a best friend. In fact I have a lot of people I interact with, but there is only 1 person I could actually consider as a friend and this made me realise that it might just be that way, because I have kept my blinds at least half shut for kinda all my life. Maybe I will try to open them a little more, step by step, to let some bugs in. thanks lise ♡

proof Lisa is Isolation in the Alive music video

this is actually what i struggled with lately. so thank you for sharing your thoughts :)

That makes sense. You're right too. That's going to be nice to remember when I graduate high school and I'm out on my own in the world. Also, Open your blinds lisa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I would like to have a deep conversation with you :) bc I like (way too much) when you talk this way :'( I understand every word you say or I try to find the sense of it haha love you💜

Anyone else think her voice sounds so much like Dani's here!?!

yes I totally relate. I'm naturally very introverted and I can live pretty happily without talking to people (lol... kind of sad but true). however, for awhile now I've been feeling disconnected to the people and places around me because I'm keeping to myself toooooo much. I like how you were saying "is your state of being open?" because I'm now realizing I think that's a big part of it for me. I'm not putting that "open vibe" out there for people. thanks for being so open lisa!!

Yes! As an introvert I 100% get what you mean, it's really hard sometimes when you're in the closed state to realise that you can open up any time and you don't have to wait for someone to open the window for you. Also, I really love this new format for sharing your thoughts with us. I love reading your tumblr posts, but I find this far more engaging 😄

im so glad you shared this with us and im rly grateful !!!

I resonate so much with everything you just said. Opening up has always been a struggle for me and now more than ever. You are truly an inspiration as is your album Alive. Keep up the wonderful work girly 😁 Ima give this opening up thing a try now

woahh.. I'm close to cry hahaha that's totally make sense. I'm just open to listen people I love... like you. And sometimes we feel like ughh I hate my life, I have no one here with me. but the fact is that we make our choices. .. if I'm open to have friends I will... if I'm open to have some help I will too. you are awesome Lisa!! That's right! Thank you so much to share this!!!!!!

such a good realization!! nice to note tho, letting light and fresh air in after a long time being closed off can be SCARY AS FRICK

Yeah that totally makes sense. I go through that on a daily basis and you talking about it really helps me. Thanks!! :)

This just rocked my world. Such a real, and dead on perspective. Thank you so much for sharing.

everything you just said I just took into consideration and it really helped I've come to the realization that I needed. So thank you

I'm in the almost same situation.. I was very closed for several months , I was in my room all the time but.. now I'm trying to be opened. I think that we are humans and we have our ups and our downs.Its completely normal and I think that when you have time with yourself you help yourself to be more mature.Thank you for sharing Lisa. I like these videos because you are one year older than me and I feel so close to you when you are talking.

woooow. now, im craving mangoes

super helpful video

I like the metaphor you're using! In that case I've been closed for way to long but it's kinda hard to rlly open up even if I want to bc I feel so insecure & it's hard for me to just meet new ppl & make new friends, I like to stick to my "old" friends but I think it would be rlly good for me to get to know new ppl...I can't even rlly open up with my best friends sometimes soo

Thank you so much Lisa, I really needed this❤

Thank you for posting this!!!

love videos like these. so real and relatable

I think this all make sense. Feelings are sometimes the craziest. It is good to let them out. I am really closed and I really want to change but it is not the easiest. But I try every day. No matter what is happening in my life. And I am so grateful that you share this with us. This is a opening thing. This is so real and I am so thankful for that Lisa! You will get this and become a open person angain I swear ❤ Thank you for all the sharing and the endless love ❤ Love to you ❤

It really does makes sense. For what I've noticed in the past years and especially months, it really depends on your choice. In any case or state of life. As you said, sometimes we need time to be alone and closed off to get new energy and connection and feel good about ourselves but then there's the time that we could talk to many people maybe about our feelings and life and whatever deep stuff we feel like :) So yeah but I believe it's really all a choice overall, our feelings are leading our choices I think :) love you Lisa!!!

I needed this thank you!

Thank you so much for saying this. It's just what I needed. I've been feeling down lately and what you said all makes sense. I do have a choice and I can change that choice at any time. ❤️

I am SOO the same. I'm so closed off to the world most of the time. I used to be so open and now that I'm closed off I'm super hard on myself. It makes so much sense what you're saying. Maybe I need this time to better myself before I let other people in.

This makes complete sense. I finally found a way to describe how I feel to people who think I'm too much of an introvert or think I don't like being social because that's not true. I like making friends, I like meeting new people, but when I'm going through something, I want to be alone. I want time to think. I'm not meaning to be rude, but I just need my space. It may take a large amount of time to be more of an extrovert again, but people can't rush me. In conclusion, what you are saying makes complete sense to me.

wow that really made me think. So inspirational. Thanks!

Oh, my gosh. Everything you said just made sense. I've been shutting people out for a week now and my leader keeps asking me why I haven't been around. I don't know what to tell her although I know I am really emotionally and spiritually drained right now.

The thing about opportunities though is I strongly believe it's a conjunction of elements such as the time in your own life when good/bad things happen. The choices you've made about simple daily life things. When it comes to timing, for instance if you had the worst year in a long time, you definitely attract people which are not good influences because unconsciously you seek the people who are alike or who can relate to your experiences somehow. I guess this is not always a choice you make to appear closed off when you're overwhelmed. Sometimes you really want to get up and move your situation around but the wrong people still walk into your life. Obviously I totally agree with the impact of your attitude, the way you dress or even the mask you put, on the behavior of others but it can be so even trickier! Because someone who's presenting well to everybody and putting a brave face on can definitely not be that okay with their own personal life and choices. As you said it's definitely saner to close off when you feel like you have to deal with your own internal battles and struggles, this is a very healthy way of dealing with your life choices.

yes my girl it makes sense i love u for always being honest with us

I love u so much!❤️ Lisa you inspire me so much❤️

ITS CALLED HAVING AN INTERNAL LOCUS OF CONTROL HAHA BIT OF PSYCH

Thank you for sharing! That's always appreciated because I do feel similar a lot of times. And hearing that someone else is processing the same kind of thoughts makes it easier to take a step back and get enough space/ distance to look at it from a new/other perspective! And that change in your state of mind is often the key part of overcoming an issue, sorting it out and rearranging yourself! So thank you💓✌ Greets from Stuttgart

this perfectly describes what I've been going through all of 2016-17, I'm trying to be more open in 2018, but it's hard. friendly, talkative, I can do all that, upload to youtube? heck yeah. but being truly open and vulnerable is so hard!! I love you Lisa, this video is gold I love it. take care queen xx

You're so beautiful inside and out, it hurts 😭

this is why I LOVE YOU. I miss you!! (was at the pizza event) hope to see you again, you're so strong ❤️

you are inspirational , wise and awesome

Yessss🙌 needed this😭

I love u so much 💖 but it's not easy to me talk with people about myself. I preffer stay alone.

its always cool that you want to speak up about whats on your mind and it doesnt matter how you look, the platform you use, the time you do it..you just go for it!!! 👏

wow wow wow lisa!! like I REALLY REALLY REALLY NEEDED THIS RIGHT NOW, IN THIS MOMENT OF MY LIFE. Maybe is a sign hahahaha. WOW THANK U SO MUCH

Watching this realised just how I have been so closed off these past 4 years and I remembered how happy I was when I was opened. I didn't know the reason for it, I thought that it just needed it to happen, and just realised how lonely I have been these past 4 years when I could have enjoyed myself in every opportunity I get.

YES YES YES PREACH PREACH

really don't know how you can share your life with everyone on social media and still keep your sanity, but I give you real props for that girl

I love that you can just speak your feelings ❤️

OMG I just had breakfast & am at school watching before my class your making me hungry ha ha ha! Love you Lisa

It is actually so inspirational

thank you for sharing your thoughts

UMMMM I'm so proud of you

LISA!!!!!!! How do you just come up with these words you're so amazing!!!! Honestly this is really great for you though because you've been so all in 2000% for so long and it's great but I think it's good for you to be a little more closed off even though it can be bad but for you I think it might be better xxxx I love you and so does so many other people 💕💕

im missing ur orange hoodie

What a queen

I actually really enjoyed listening to this. You are like a therapist for a million people HAHA

I found this randomly while listening to Cimorelli music. You should make more early morning videos, because this is really helpful.. I've never thought of it this way. I think some people think when I am Closed, I am depressed, but it's not really like that. Sometimes I have to be closed to recharge. I think if it stops being a choice, that is depression but. When it's right to open up again.. it's good to know it's our choice. Coz it really is. And I think it's easy to be too closed after you've been hurt.. whether that's bullying, traumas, relationship troubles, whatever it is... but at some point I think it's too much and it can become our identity but isn't always who we are at the core and I've sort of been living there too long so I want to change it. Now I'm rambling lol. But this video just really made me think.

Well, makes sense to me. I think this is me but I'm slowly opening up again idk

I love watching videos like this, please make more :)

This makes SO much sense oh my godddd

It is all right to have times of feeling introverted and extroverted. Watching your change in hair style, you are experimenting with low maintenance styling, and that's all right.

Makes perfect sense to me, my problem is I've been closed off for so long I don't know how to let people in.

I habe been really closed in the last weeks too!! I started taking a step away from my real friends because I thought I need a break!! (it is not like your story but i will tell you lol) I started hanging out with positiv people that were soo nice to me! And I Really loved it and My Best Friends wanted to talk to me and stuff and I was so apcent! I felt like i am in the wrong place but I knew that the other people i have been hanging out with lately were just so diffrent than me!! it was a good way but I was feeling sooo empty! I really like writting and writting lyrics poems and stuff but i just couldn't i was blocked!! kind of so I wanted to hang out with my 3 besties and I was so happy even when we fight and they tell me I am ugly (just for fun) I need it! My lesson I've learned is that you can choose your friends!! You can have good friends with only positive vibes and stuff and feel lonely or you can have loser friends #Nerds and be sooo damn happy!! and I love my friends sooo much💕

Somehow found this, 2 years later, and I’m sitting here with my jaw hanging open because I’ve always struggled with feeling isolated and could never figure out how to change it. This is a completely new perspective and it’s blowing my mind.

I love and understand this

I LOVE YOU 💖💖

QUEEN😻😻

I loved this

Queen!!!Love you so so much!!!! Early squad anyone??💕💕

I noticed you've been listening to angsty music lately and I was wondering if everything is alright. I'm feeling the need to listen to that kind of music too because of all the finals stress lol. Also idk how to be open. I'm just shy and I try to make friends to the best of my ability though I feel like it never works. I definitely agree with you though.

‘ There’s a window’ 😂

Wow this was an awesome video thanks!!

Love this

hmm this makes me thinking thanks lisa

god I really needed this assuration lol

this is exactly where i'm going through! this helped me, Lisa! i'm so glad you put this kind of video's on your channel! Do it please more often! xx #14nov-amsterdam

It makes so much sense

this was really good.

My Queen

I'm so glad that I still have my notifications on!!!😉

This is a very insperational video but all I can think about is you eating that mango bc I'm so hungry

you are perfect, I love u so so os so so so much

It definitely makes sense, yes

Good stuff, got me thinking

Yes this makes sense ily lisa

closed blinds. thats me. i dont like talking to new people and i dont like being an introvert like i feel left out. ive been closed blinds off for as long as i can remember. i freak out when someone new or when a boy talks to me. and i hate it. i want to be able to talk to new people without having internal panic attacks and be able to talk or take conpliments from boys without feeling like im gonna have a heart attack. i dislike being a introvert.

You're so inspiring! I love you, Lisa!! #lisa'sbiggestfan