Tell the Truth, or at Least Don’t Lie (12 Rules for Life)
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@YoMateo. 2 жыл бұрын
Whoever's reading this, i pray that whatever you're going through gets better and whatever you're struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! Amen
@tinfoilhatter 2 жыл бұрын
it's helpin': just please, do it again, and thanks in advance, my friend: i'll do the same for you and everyone else too~
@gonzales.ump45 2 жыл бұрын
Uhhhhhh i feel so sorry for western world while you are standing aside and destroying second world countries, family morals, religion and everything on its way ... Slava Russia! #PutinGod
@tinfoilhatter 2 жыл бұрын
@@gonzales.ump45 yeah, i do-not-approve of foreign meddling/entanglements or any of that nonsense, thank you very much
@gonzales.ump45 2 жыл бұрын
Who asks for approve? Were you asked for mask shit wearing and all these psyche warfare, russians didnt forhet their people and russian soldiers are heroes, western countries are highly corrupted and they lead do not promote normal life
@skativate3318 Жыл бұрын
Thanks man, you too
@ArchimedesTrajano 2 жыл бұрын
1:35 the key part. A lie is knowing something is not the truth and you say it anyway.
@richardholly4989 2 жыл бұрын
Everything that leaves Jordan Peterson’s Brain and is verbalized is pure Poetry. He speaks the truth
@zenostrixster Жыл бұрын
His truth ,always remember that there is no real truth and no one can really know it all. So while he is speaking the truth. You should always do your own thinking and test it out. I hate blind beleif. So that is why I'm really warning you. The internet is full of advice and most of it is quite useless .
@Maryismymom2 6 ай бұрын
There’s only one truth- there’s no such thing as your truth or my truth-. Stop lying.
@junevandermark952 6 ай бұрын
Just because Jordan is certain that he is giving you truth ... doesn't mean that he is speaking literal truth. I suggest that rather than the words “fact” or “truth” … for human imaginations gone wild … the word “truthiness is far more fitting. Truthiness "act or quality of preferring concepts or facts one wishes to be true, rather than those known to be true," catch word popularized in this sense by U.S. comedian Stephen Colbert, declared by American Dialect Society to be "2005 Word of the Year."
@codyrodriguez1056 4 ай бұрын
@@Maryismymom2 lmao right nobody need to sit here debating right and wrong. And if anyone knows anything to be true. That’s just people trynna deflect responsibility poorly. This topic has nothing to do with people not knowing the truth. Stop bullshitting around with this you’re truth my truth…you know when you’re lying with the intent to deceive regardless of what u believe to be true
@Razorwind7 Ай бұрын
...or at least he doesn't lie 😄
@kurt120032002 2 жыл бұрын
I remember writing a paper in my 2nd year, well knowing it will be against the personal believes and values of the professor. The argument was not logical but presented both sides pro and against and concluded why the pro argument was the best. I was very surprised to get a 9/10, and I do agree it was not a 10/10 paper (yes we do use 1-10 marks), and not only I instantly gain respect for that teacher, but it also stuck with me as beacon of morality, so not lying or not being dishonest is not only not changing you for the worse but it also shifts other people perspective.
@zenostrixster Жыл бұрын
That's a really cool story. I also know that when you speak the truth. You speak much better with much confidence. Because I think there isnt any internal conflict and you know it you don't have to think other than to articulate
@jorjicostava3018 Ай бұрын
i wish i had professors like that.
@welder4life690 3 ай бұрын
People lie in fear of judgement
@blessedforever3325 27 күн бұрын
Yes but they do terrible things that require judgement and won’t own up to them. Instead they lie.
@samuelhass9035 Жыл бұрын
For what it's worth, I will say from experience that there's nothing that should be prioritised more than the truth ( or not lying). I had a mental health crisis lasting over a year during which I felt extremely unsafe and anxious. I was suffering so badly that I was just desperate to make it stop, whatever it took. In elevating it to the top of my hierarchy of values, I said things I knew to be not true. I then went to therapy wherein I was just going through all the knots that were tied in my psyche. Although some of these were consequences of mistreatment from others, the most significant knots were resultant from my own wrongdoings. Therefore, I would say to try and not put so much value on what you want or even what you think you need. No matter the circumstance, don't lie and see what happens next; in my opinion, it'll be the best outcome possible.
@sammywilliam8156 8 ай бұрын
I did a stupid move today putting my cell phone in my swimming trunks pocket for guys they were in there. Welcome to the pool and now stay with it. I called in my dad and I left him a voicemail. I know when he gets home. I'm gonna be in trouble, but you know what? I'm not in trouble for a line and at least if he were to ask anyone in the trailer park. What happened? It's not gonna come back to him that I lied.
@butch843 2 жыл бұрын
Silence is golden.
@harrietgloria8792 Жыл бұрын
Yes yes
@BTParent 11 ай бұрын
Depends when. As at times we have stand up for someone /some virtues and use words.....
@lynnmoniz5753 7 ай бұрын
Go through the motions.
@jasotpatakasu8673 7 ай бұрын
In response to truth yes, in response to a lie silence is hell
@NoelleknowsMusicPortal 5 ай бұрын
Writing is powerful Learning and changing your brain love this man
@krystilynn3403 4 ай бұрын
I have so many light bulb moments after listening to Dr. Jordan Peterson. Which is why I listen to him regularly. He helps me so much I cannot even express in words. We need more people like him in the world. Best wishes to you and your family.
@42069luna 8 ай бұрын
Don’t beat around the bush and keep it real. Every action comes with a consequence period. Learn from it and never do bad so that you won’t have to explain your self ever again. Be better be trustworthy and be clear about everything even tho it hurts your ego you will finally be free !
@blue_shiner 3 ай бұрын
I remember when I first started college, I'd discovered this on my own in writing papers. At first, I was writing what I thought others wanted to hear; my professors, whoever. I had begun writing my final essay for the year when I realized that what I was doing... sucked. It was uninpsired, plain-as-tofu, and was like beating my soul into submission. So I started to let loose on the paper, writing exactly what I thought about the school's policy (both the upsides and the downsides). This was the greatest joy I ever felt in academia up to that point. It was the moment I realized; "What I have to say is not only singular, but it's real". There's no greater revelation in the world.
@travelmusic1113 Жыл бұрын
This has been the most important rule for me since JP entered my life in 2017. It has made so much difference in my day to day life. Clarity and trust in myself and my words.
@kentandersson2048 Жыл бұрын
I choose to live like this. Telling The truth, be transparant even If it shows something bad about me or weakness or embarrasing. Because I consider it for The greater good and to be as good, up right, virtue, honarable, right forward morally convinced man. And pay The price. The price of not Hiding. It may cost but what is the price of lying, hiding, dont speak what you want and need and no will to sacrifice?
@jeffbowers2979 4 ай бұрын
"if you're not organized, you're disorganized"...facts
@talmadhoun 2 жыл бұрын
May God guide you, protect you and bless you Dr. Peterson. These are the type of messages everyone should be listening to and living by. Thank you for your faith, honesty, depth and eloquence. Thank God for you! I still support your core teachings although the DW and Ben Shapiro are starting to influence your ideas in some specific domains. Not in this video, but in other ones.
@stopdropnroll 6 ай бұрын
Stop lying, there is no god.
@Angel-sc3go 2 жыл бұрын
I can't stand a liar. A person that lies is fake. And very untrustworthy. It's no better than a thief. Than when you lie it always ends up showing your true character.
@zenostrixster Жыл бұрын
But everyone lies? Do you not see the problem with your statement. It is by no means an excuse to lie but I would say that hating liers is really useless.
@harrietgloria8792 Жыл бұрын
@@zenostrixster I think Angel thinks she is an angel.
@stopdropnroll 6 ай бұрын
If you need to choose between a liar and thief, choose the latter, you can get to the bottom of a thief.
@belogical3961 3 ай бұрын
Do not deny yourself, which is equivalent to a lie because it's not how you really truly feel inside. I love that Dr Peterson says when you tell the truth, that's when the real adventure begins And it has to be Real because you are now walking in the truth as far as you know it. That has been the greatest motivator to tell the truth for me personally. I have tested it out and it is truly a more fruitful life and I am excited and curious where sometimes the truth will take me because I have some rather embarrassing truths about myself. With life has been rendered so beautiful because of it. I love my Father in Heaven and all the things He has done, and had me do, in order to be so so much closer to Him like he craves all of us could be like.
@jinglebob4382 Жыл бұрын
Ive Been Accused Of Telling The Truth
@alexanderdejarnette874 2 жыл бұрын
That's a start
@Criwindustries Жыл бұрын
I've never considered this but there are levels if lying. 1. To repeat an known untruth. 2. To make it up concerning your own actions. 3. To lie about others. The last one is by far to me the worse.
@quinntech7254 4 ай бұрын
Sometimes you can lie by remaining silent...or at least someone with a false impression or idea.
@julietamariamorena127 11 ай бұрын
I love you! ❤
@joedavis4150 2 жыл бұрын
... Be very brave. Risk it All for Love.... Go listen to Harry Nilsson performing the song, Jump Into the Fire.
@docjoei2224 3 ай бұрын
There is a huge cost for telling the plain truth, especially for professors. I am currently being persecuted for the truth, but I must continue to be me or who will I be? Socrates was right - there is nothing more hated than a man who tells the truth 😢
@cheymcloughlin6366 Жыл бұрын
Building a metaphorical net to catch the lies before they leave your lips is a decent start. The only decent long term strategy though, is to craft and shape your thoughts. In each moment, take ownership of the direction of your thoughts, which turns into minutes then hours then days then months then years of essentially good honest thoughts. Which in turn, crafts and shapes your words and actions into ones of truth. In my opinion, your life can't really go in the right direction without doing so. Not speaking lies feels good, not thinking lies at all feels like bliss
@thefinancialreport2663 11 ай бұрын
The video was the idea but this comment gave a perspective or more of less a strategy to implement this rule in the real world. I thank you, and hoping to see how far I could go with a metaphorical net.
@closertothetruth9209 2 жыл бұрын
exactly lying represents fiction , imagination it never happened, telling the truth is beneficial its real you can work with it and make real progress, ofcourse you dont have to reveal things you want to keep to yourself you just say nothing, thou shalt not lie.
@NoelleknowsMusicPortal 5 ай бұрын
Noelle knows music and Noelle’s vocal voodoo loves this man and her principal’s overall support his true core principles
@angiebaby44 4 ай бұрын
Truth ❤
@silasfreeman2856 2 жыл бұрын
Rachel Peterson was my great grandmother
@MirvetteJudeh-ot6oi Ай бұрын
I have been told I am too honest. I always tell people well at least you know where I stand. Life is too short to live in lies. Those who lie are misrepresenting themselves intentionally
@MatthewNGolding 2 ай бұрын
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@TheHumanGibbon Ай бұрын
Telling the truth causing everyone to attack you
@wildflower8425 Жыл бұрын
Be interesting to know what your thoughts are on Scott Morrison the compulsory liar
@user-ff8tp5cr6y 3 ай бұрын
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). Many people prefer Illusion to the Truth because they feel powerless to others truth involves other ppl pretend and Illusion only involves us
@massimoh1408 8 ай бұрын
But if you do it just once? For instance telling a taxi driver that need to come 2 hrs before the flight, and to arrive later you tell him te flight leave at 20:30 instead of 20? It happens just sometime in life
@harrietgloria8792 Жыл бұрын
I am a dangerous person. So I looked for sense in this teaching.
@harmonybhavan Ай бұрын
'There's just too many things to know and they're detailed and difficult...' Why did I laugh so hard here? Maybe because of hoe Dr Jordan does that little stomp at that time. Thank you for this htoguht, Dr Petterson.
@conniehayes4957 Жыл бұрын
I’ve seen a lot of young kids die because they can’t tell the difference between the two. I decided it’s best to be honest. I try not to be hurtful but it can happen
@NoelleknowsMusicPortal 5 ай бұрын
Writing changes you
@lendavidhart9710 Жыл бұрын
Let thy words be few, I read in an ancient book
@Listen_bros Жыл бұрын
Good
@danielrhoades-rt4ok Ай бұрын
Proverbs 18:20-21 King James Version (KJV)A man's belly shall be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth; And with the increase of his lips shall he be filled. Death and life are in the power of the tongue: And they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.
@ameliakoch6045 Жыл бұрын
Like wearing a mask for appearances at work and taking it off when the possible COVID police aren't looking ? It could be an easy way to get sucked into deeper ways of being complicit with tyranny, or an easy way to practice pushing back against tyranny by refusing to wear one.
@firedemon4051 Жыл бұрын
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) You must also repent from your sins and show faith.
@harrietgloria8792 Жыл бұрын
Why are you called fire demon?
@capistrano99 Жыл бұрын
Practice what you preach “Oh Abu Dharr! There will be a day when a group of people of Paradise will be over a group of people of Hell and they will say, “What has made you enter hell-fire? For surely we entered paradise by you teaching us and your disciplining (educating) us!” They will say: We used to bid others to do good while we ourselves didn’t do it.”
@silasfreeman2856 2 жыл бұрын
I know the truth that I'm related to John Herbert Dillinger. Look up St.Ulrich Von Diligen look through German records Ragnar the Viking Is a family descendant tracing back I'm still linking information constantly but I'm on the right path I know God knows it my faith is in him not people
@jazzvids7924 6 ай бұрын
I have a genuine question, can you give details of what constitutes a lie? It's a DEEP question, WHERE EXACTLY IS THE LINE? Can you give a philosophically pragmatic distillation of where speech becomes a lie? I have Asperger's and those lines can be blurred and too much honesty has held me back in life a bit.
@crazyleaf257 4 ай бұрын
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@silasfreeman2856 2 жыл бұрын
Feel like I'm just wandering around the desert here
@cheymcloughlin6366 Жыл бұрын
Take some water with you
@mathieud.4060 9 ай бұрын
When I speak the truth people get offended... So, I try to tell them what they want to hear and that's how bullshit became the standard of my life.
@joejones1162 Жыл бұрын
If you don’t got nothing nice to say, don’t say nothing at all
@magdadrague Жыл бұрын
People writing novels are mental.
@TexasTimeLord Ай бұрын
My philosophy teacher would only give you an A if you went on a protest march with him at least once
@rashibatra4595 4 ай бұрын
TRUTH is very important..but deeply undervalued these days, sadly. People lie or avoid being honest, mostly for money, competition and clout 😕. Their individual and collective karma keeps getting worse and worse, but they are pathological and they can't change and they can't grow. 😂 Oh lordy..
@silasfreeman2856 2 жыл бұрын
My real name is Christopher Aaron URICH
@lendavidhart9710 Жыл бұрын
GO BRICKLAYERS!
@normarosales4229 16 күн бұрын
Do you know the facts with the truth?
@junevandermark952 6 ай бұрын
“Lies are over-rated” … comedian Bassem Youssef As an Atheist ... I believe that all religious myths preached as being literal truth ... "are" lies disguised as truth. I wonder if Jordan preaches Christianity as being his perspective of truth ... or as being literal "truth." “I act as if God exists, and I’m terrified he might.” ~ Jordan Peterson
@elkcalibrium3131 6 ай бұрын
I don't think he does, he never said that and he is humble enough to acknowledge his limits. He admits if he doesn't know something and is continually searching for answers. That's why the answer is worded as "act as if God exists" because he might well be telling a lie if he straight up told everyone "God exists"
@junevandermark952 6 ай бұрын
@@elkcalibrium3131 Do you think that Jordan preaches from the Christian bible because he believes that a god "doesn't" exist? That would be a lie on his part ... wouldn't it?
@elkcalibrium3131 6 ай бұрын
@@junevandermark952 I don't exactly understand the question. It doesn't matter if he fully believes or not, the important thing is to tell the truth about what he has to say about the Bible. And I do think he is examining the Bible for truth in his personal life and he is not preaching it as 'literal truth'. He is not claiming anything either, when he talks about the Bible he is always relating it to some sort of personal experience. In a way he isn't preaching, he is reiterating the truth that has happened to his life, or in the life of others, and the Bible has the ideas that those experience represent.
@junevandermark952 6 ай бұрын
@@elkcalibrium3131 To rely on information from the bible as being a question rather than an answer ... means doubt. Do you think that Jordan doubts that the information in the bible is true?
@junevandermark952 6 ай бұрын
@@elkcalibrium3131 Jordan likes to "play" with people's minds. He could say "I believe that Jesus is my savior" ... or ... "I don't believe that Jesus is a savior" ... but instead ... he keeps people on tenterhooks ... wondering what he really does believe ... if anything.
@user-ip9cm9je7z 4 ай бұрын
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@user-nm8yk9gr7x 4 ай бұрын
You develing into philosophy, which you are hardly qualified as a clinical psychologist to have an expert opinion about. You have zero background in. It is a relative universe. Any description of the "truth" must define the frame of reference the method of observation, the state of the observed in the frame of reference and the state of the observers. With specifying the above, the truth turns out to an opinion that is either shared or not shared by the majority. Since science is no at all interest in the truth, those claiming to have found some scientific truth clearly do not understand science and it's methods. Science seeks to uphold a hypothesis about the nature of a phenomenon. Even if confirmed by numerous observations it only takes one instance of an exception to disconfirm it. 😂
@jippedgamer9723 2 жыл бұрын
"Dont lie?" A lot of your recent videos are lies, so this video is extremely ironic
@tetsuwasabi2546 2 жыл бұрын
What's also ironic is that this video couldn't be more true
@shroomgrizzley464 2 жыл бұрын
Specific lie you refer?
@lawxs9114 Жыл бұрын
Where Peterson lie?
@harrietgloria8792 Жыл бұрын
You liar!!
@normarosales4229 16 күн бұрын
Do you know the facts with the truth?
@firedemon4051 Жыл бұрын
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) You must also repent from your sins and show faith.
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