What has helped you get out of a depressive state as an INFJ?

To all my fellow INFJs that have been tormented by a narcissist, there is hope and peace, when there seems to be none in sight.

I am a 56 INFJ. My best advice is to learn to say "no", create boundries and you do not owe anyone an explaination.

Dear INFJ - This can be the most important video you ever watch. -Fellow INFJ

INFJ is the rarest personality type, it's amazing that you dedicated a whole channel for a select few people like us.

If your success hurts people, start hurting people today 😂. No one will live your life for you, yet people will tell you "how to". Becoming a Phoenix will require getting rid of old belief systems within you. YOLO doesn't mean party hard, it means live well. 😊❤

As I get older, I never worry about dreaming too big. It makes me feel motivated to work towards the goals with as much determination as possible.

1:42 #1 Face judgment head on 2:04 We have the capacity to get ourselves out of really dark phases 3:49 We have to get out of our comfort zone without overwhelming ourselves 4:30 The more often you face judgment, the easier it's going to get 4:59 #2 Set outrageous goals 6:01 *It's more important to be on the right trajectory than to achieve it* (this is for me....) 7:07 The idea is to not give up on myself and my dreams 7:45 #3 Focus on who you're becoming 8:56 *but that doesn't mean that you have to settle with a life that doesn't excite you* (this is for me...) 9:36 #4 Don't stop yourself for others (make others look bad) 12:50 *You're tapping into your light doesn't mean you're taking it from others* 13:04 *I'm so full of joy for life* (this is for me...) 13:13 #5 Create a fighter soundtrack for your life

Your perspectives are so close to what true heroism really means

Be a legend to yourself, you will be legendary to others. We are the heroes, own it.❤

Fighting - Asserting my emotions - Saying No - Doing the things that fill my cup - Doing the Se activities that Show the World I have boundaries And I will bite back if you cross them - This frees up so much space in my mind and heart because I have less regrets on what I "should" "coulda" did - Instead I respond now and apologize if necessary later - What a freeing feeling ❤

Oh wow, Wenzes, you are truly gifted in your encyclopedic knowledge of infj. I marvel at your ease in delivering a mass of insight with such poise & pure intentions; only wishing to encourage and enlighten. Your joy, enthusiasm and passion for your subject is incredibly impressive & so inspiring for me, ty❣️ I’ve been binging your videos and feel fortunate that you exist and decided to claim& live your EPIC infj life.🌸

MUSIC. it's the eternal timeless one and only factor that signal the Eternal Phoenix WITHIN to bring forth and go beyond life-death. Bring out the MUSIC IN YOU !!!

I feel like I am at this exact point in my life right now and finally putting these things into action. The hardest part for me right now is having the patience for strategic timing, both for when to do things and when to take a step back and allow things to percolate. Especially since one of the goals I've finally committed to actually doing something about has been a huge desire for a long time, but I know if I act too soon/quickly then I will only destroy it. Thank you for sharing this information. Even though they are things I've pretty much already discovered on my own, every time I hear it is another boost in motivation and confidence. Thank you for assuring me that I have power of my own and there is nothing wrong with using it - properly of course.

for many many years i have always thought that i wouldn't be able to go to university and study law, although it has always been a dream of mine. i have never talked about it with my family members until a few months ago after my graduation when they asked me what i want to do after school. i actually pulled myself together and made the steps of enrolling and searching for a room i can rent during my time in university (really difficult in germany :')). my parents still don't think i can make it because they think i'm too weak, but i'm really glad i made the steps instead of listening to them. i mean, if i fail, i fail - then i can search for other paths to take, but first i want to listen to my intuition.

It’s funny you should mention this because I was going through a bad patch at the end of last year and I saw the word Phoenix everywhere. Lovely video, thank you.

I'm INFJ and recently find out to how to easly connect to Ni, what I do is 3 simple steps. 1- Result: think about what outcome or solution u want. 2- Question: As Scott Morgan said, Ni expresses easily when questioning, so question yourself how to get to that Outcome u want. 3- Bloom: Be a Chameleon, Think about categories, data, actions, steps, pros and cons, etc. I hope this is useful for someone... If it worked for u let me know and share.

Everything in this video is resonating with me. I feel powerful. Thank you Wenzes!

Im not crazy on labels but its better than complete ignorance and infjs are like the sun see everything never stop seeing indesructable all knowing but humble I'm very proud to be the sun sigma infj great work sweetheart keep crushing, as our tribe awakes and rises❤️🙏😇

Exactly not all INFJ's are the same first,I'm not even trying to be perfect anymore second,also the third My ESTP side is stronger fourth I'm not afraid of my emotions fifth I gave up on my past self that's it

Fighter soundtrack? Thanks, now I have the theme to “Rocky” stuck in my head. Lol

Sitting here with my gold phoenix necklace 😂

Wow I decided to watch a video of yours as it was suggested to me. Thankyou. My therapist is saying the exact same things. All of it. So many people in my life, all at once pointing to the same thing through many different ways. But all patterns leading back to this. Story of my life. Interesting.

Wow…this video is next level stuff…@7:13 Wenzes says, “If they don’t get it it’s on them,if I don’t bring it it’s on me”. If the essence of an INFJ had a voice it would sound like Wenzes. Thanks 🙏

Dear Wenzes! I have yet to watch this video, but!! My life has improved tremendously by watching your stuff. I am more assertive and sure of myself as I remember the things you told us! I could give you some examples, but my friends and family are getting more truth bombs and I feel much better for doing so. It gets tiresome to be nice to jerks. Feeling less depressed all the time. Yay! Thanks a million. I feel you are in my corner and that is calming too.

I love you Wenzes....so validating. I just hung up on a moron during a phone interview for an Admin Assist job. I can't believe these idiots roam the planet. Unbelievable.

The Phoenix is my symbol.

love your work. dont want to write a whole thesis to explain how I admire the conviction behind each words you usher. just love ya (in a respectful way).

Wow it's like you see in my soul. I'm an INFJ, recently had a vivid dream of a Phoenix and when I saw this video I thought it was meant for me. I really reflect myself in everything you said, even the soundtrack part! Music has a strong power on me, other people normally can't understand. When I find something that really communicate with me, it's like it give me life. It's like through that music I can finally express my excitement for life and focus on my energy. Thank you for your suggestions, soon I will finally be in my new home, a new space where I'll have the opportunity to express myself and be my real me for the first time in more than 2 years, and I will try my best to do what you said. I cannot wait to stop holding back my excitement for life. To create space between me and those who hold me down.

Wenzes, you have taught me so much, things that I never could understand about myself, until I found your channel.

So true! Finding a leading soundtrack for hard situations was crucial for me when I was a student. It happened very intuitively for me but works every time! I highly recommend it! It works for another types also - all my students who used it were successful. It could be everything - my fighting song is an old military march song created 200 years ago. Just think about a melody what brings you in the flow 🙂

Hope this doesn’t sound creepy but u kinda became my soundtrack! I have been doing exponentially better since I started watching your videos. Im on a track I never thought I’d be on. Looking forward to what’s to come!!❤

As always, epic! Many thanks!

“You are tapping into YOUR light. You are not taking away anything from anyone else.” -Yaaaaaaaas! So important. I def resonate with the last section about having a soundtrack for your life. My only caution is, if you have medical conditions, don’t hurt yourself if playing your soundtrack while working out. In my own experience I’ve found it VERY motivational, to the point of overdoing it lol.

I think I've done a lot with #4 in particular because of my experience of teaching piano and later being a full-time school teacher, then becoming a substitute teacher. I always like the idea that I can come up with something that will be able to help the students - maybe for the rest of their lives! ❤️ Deep down, it was about influencing others. I do have a satisfaction that I have helped a lot of people... Maybe even making them them to "look better." 🙂 I've done a lot of these Five Points in the past, but it's great to see them written up into a way to make them easier to remember. It was a lot of encouragement to me to read this. Super video, and very inspiring.

Wenzes, your videos are life savers for me. I thank you with all my heart. ❤❤❤

Wonderfully inspiring! Thank you, Wenzes!

7.10 "If they do not get it, it's on them. If I do not bring it, it's on me." Sometimes you have to play bold or go home. Sometimes you have to ask did you try enough, do enough, created enough. If you do not play the cards, then others can just sit on their deck and go "whatever". But if you play your cards and call their bluff then it is on them. There are some souls who are they should have, would have, could have, if only... Sometimes you have to play the "if only" so that their not doing the should, could, or would is not being given the opportunity but simply choosing to do nothing, even when served to them on a platter. Later, they cannot say they were not forewarned, asked, invited, given a chance for a preview and assessment of information and how to play the game. If you say there is a game going down and give them a chance to look at the game and choose whether or not to play. If they decline to even look at the cards and game plays, that is on them. They end up looking like f*ing idiots.

Learning to know and love ourselves for all the good, bad and indifferent. Working on our shadow self.

Wenze's I enjoyed your talk.Jerome.Wenze's thanks you for your guidance.Jerome❤❤❤

on point 5: i dont need music. all i need is to watch videos like this. thank u so much! 💚

Well Said! 😄 🦋 🌸 🦜😃 😺 Love from Denmark ❤️👍🍀

Powerful message. Thank you.

Thank you!

Perfect timing

Wenzes thank you. 💙

Perfect timing... I'm about to fly!!

the best video you have ever made i can say!

Awesome call out on the soundtrack, that is at the top of my thrival plan!

I was nodding my head yes through 1 to 4, the ah ha moment was number 5, creating a soundtrack, as motivational, visually and auditory. Made sense, right to the point, simplicity, especially through music vibes, resonates much! Thank you for shining the light, very helpful in the moment.🎯💯⚡️🧲🌐🥳☯️🌞🐬

great content 😍

Your video's help me tons thanks

This is fantastic!!! Thank you for explaining how we heal! 🙌💜❤️

Thank you 💕🙏

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Thank you for the encouragement

Thank You

You have really impacted my life in a positive way. Thank you sooooo much. ❤

Thank you I truly truly appreciate your video and the guidance and the guidance

Thank you

thanks to your channel, I am gradually regaining my strength and finding the confidence that I thought I had lost for good. Thank You.

Hey Wenzes! I was wondering if you had any book suggestions relevant to INFJs (even high level psychology books)? That could make a cool video!

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Sadly I'm at a stage in my life where I not adding people to my life. I'm stuck in hermit mode as I retired last June. My friends have left or I have realized that they aren't who I thought they were. If not for my son I would be alone. This isolation has been healing ina way, but it does leave me with Avery confused direction.

Omg, i have songs that describe my days. Somedays it is between a Rage Against the Machine and 5 Finger Death Punch. I am going to look for some other songs that may be less angry and more motivating 😂

A little dip ? Thad must be an understatement !😊😊😊😊 1:36

It's pleasing to be okowd to be different after all been an INFJ is to be rare and unique ; be exemptional been.🌄🌈🌞🌺

INFJ phoenix my uncle told me that my dreams are never too big and my opinion should be more important than my Mom's even though I'm super Momma's girl

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i have done my utube channell! with photo's, now im gonna try video :)

Hi! Thank you so much for this video! It surely describe some my behavior. Especially dimming my light, so others could feel better. But what should do if my husband can’t stand me shining? Like wearing heels (because I will be taller than him) or being ambitious about my career? Thank you

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Sorry but I have never being depressed ! I had a lack of sleep ….and more … 😊😊😊😊😊 2:52

Lol and that sonng would be walk, By Panthera... And of course I like your SOUL witch i occasionly lke to past for you wenzes. I know I get downvoted a lot but, that never mattered to me, when my comments are removed or that my comments are pushed to the bottom of the feeds, Thats where people should be looking anyway. Ive said it before, and you already knew before that.

Please I need help...Im an INFJ and recently I met another INFJ a girl that I wish and hope we can get to be best friends someday if possible cos she is an amazing girl BUT, I found something about her that annoys me a lot, and I can't understand why , she is not hurting anybody by doing that but everytime, she likes to organize everything for others, if we have a date, she makes herself a reminder for the rest just in case we are enough stupid that we forgot that we have a date , the hour, the place, EVERYTHING detailed in a whatsapp message! If we are going out for dinner, she is the one that will make the reservation , she won't allow you to do it, she has to take the action for you. If we are going to the cinema, before I answer yes she already has bought all the tickets. She LOVES doing this and it irritates me , I can't help it... And I can't understand why, I feel awful about myself, but I feel really annoyed , I don't like this...Does it have an explanation? I dont want anyone to organize stuff for me ...I want to do it myself...And I would love to be the one helping the group too. (I feel like the worst friend and very guilty)

Question to the community: what makes us feel weird and seem weird to others? I know I feel weird at times but can not quite define it concretely.

I recently became an infj Phoenix. Now I'm working on my soundtrack. 😊 The process is so exciting and empowering! 💪

What's the difference between an INFJ and a Heyoka INFJ who has spiritual awakened? I am a combination of these 2. Besides that I found out during a reincarnation session that I never was reincarnated before and that i am a seraph angel that came here to heal people.

is it normal to fall deepy in love w wenzes as a newcomer?

Lol, little dip. I'm experiencing a life crisis like the fewest people (at least in my privilegded country) have experienced. Not to be dramatic or anything....

Thats wierd, howd you know? Oh wait... nvrmnd

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First of all INFJ'S don't toot their horn when it comes to their achievements they are humble people they are conscious of that aspect and they don't want to make people feel bad this is inconsistent with healthy INFJ'S those INFJ'S who are unhealthy will flout their achievements in a person's face and that would make a person feel less competent. this is not how INFJ'S behave .

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Sitting here with my gold phoenix necklace 😂