Did you meet her here? If so, believing she was traditional is your biggest mistake. Even if you meet them elsewhere, if you bring them back they'll conform to the feminist society.

@@marcel3942 I met her here. Exposed her to the manosphere content in its full totality. She even became outraged at feminism & the state of union. Once she got in the marriage & pregnant it all went sour, quickly.

@@docdoll2583 damn my man, you fell for the ole okey doke. She def gonna put ur azz on child support & find ways to bring family members from Africa here 😮

Damn…

Where in SA is she from also what tribe. there are tribes within SA and the continent that are known to be chameleons, and others known for their loyalty. also is she was only here for 3 weeks was she a student or visiting cause that can tell a lot

Prenup aint enough now a days, look at all these ppl getting divorced with them n still getting rocked

Prenup will NOT save you.

Prenup is a contract and it does what you negotiate. You can't get rocked if you agree to the terms.

Don’t get no prenup if you work at McDonalds…. You have nothing of value nor can you afford the lawyer to put it together.

@@5GTelevision put it together yourself, also just because someone works at mcdonalds doesn’t mean they have nothing of value or doesn’t own anything. No man rich or poor wants to give up half a million or half of two dollars to a woman who is trying to ruin his life n still have you pay for her life.

Exactly

100%.

Lies.

5%

You also have to be everything, all the time. Because if you fall off after being great for years, she has high chances of divorcing based off how she feels at that moment.

@The Marathon Continues facts, the last woman I dated - I was literally the best thing since sliced bread one month, the next month she had changed her feelings and felt we weren't progressing and therefore ended things. We just can't win. I don't crave a woman, relationship, however I do like the idea of a family unit. Unfortunately it does just seem like that now - an idea

@@kingtchala6832 I hear u bro. Since this convo/channel is on BM/BW specifically, im curious - what’s your experience with BW in the UK?

@The Marathon Continues The UK is the US lil brother so we tend to follow what you do. Therefore with the increased conversation about high value man, 6 figures etc, 6 inch (uno what) this is now the narrative amongst modern black women. I live in London, the biggest city in the UK. The average salary in London is around £41k, yet cost of living is through the roof. Obviously depending on their industry, not every black man will be making this amount, nor will they be 6ft, or have their own place etc. However it seems all of this is now the minimum requirement, whether or nor a women is making more or less, it doesn't matter. Plus your not considered a real man if you don't have these things. There are good BW out there but its so hard to tell. Like a viral video so eloquently put it, "the good women are standing too close to the hoes, we can't tell the difference"

@@kingtchala6832 that’s a messed up situation g. I’m sure a lot of those standards go out of the window for brad/non-BM, this is saddest part. Some of these women are truly keeping the black family from functioning at this point

“Work in a marriage” for blk women married to blk men usually involves the woman having to forgive or overlook some form of disrespect or struggle. I’m sorry but women are starting our own businesses, getting degrees and are on pace to be the only female demographic who will out earn our male counterparts. Blk men aren’t offering anything to sweeten the deal to make us want to be with you. Usually when I hear a blk man discuss relationships or marriage it’s always from a selfish perspective. They never mention anything that they bring to the table. It’s all abt them. Ain’t nobody got time for that 🤷🏽‍♀️

@@TrangPakbaby We don’t care about your money or useless degrees. Yet we get shamed on how we view marriage for men and get screwed in divorce court and get took to the cleaners so that’s why most men View marriage as a overrated mistake because we not gonna work and build up ourselves for years just for someone can take half if the woman with all these “degrees” that end up with a bunch of student loan debt and decides to leave us.

@@TrangPakbaby Yet, we are getting married in higher percentages than bw are. I think the narrative of bm are the ones who are the ones lacking is disingenuous and supports this delusion that bw are great at relationships and have a moral high ground. Most Western women are not raised to be wives....and earlier in life tend to choose poorly and then try to act like all BM are bad and defective....when are our sisters going to take accountability for their choices and for how they contribute to the downfall of relationships?

@TheIgnorance and that’s an indictment against blk males, y’all don’t provide and create anchors for these women by creating babies that y’all don’t stick around to raise. Again you are costing the government 50 billion a year due to your CHRONIC unemployment, a woman is twice as likely to be a left a single mom if she mates with you, y’all are currently causing a blk femicide and you will soon be the only group of males who are outpaced by your female counterparts. Do better. Ur laughable

that's not true. prenups come with prearranged agreements and terms. yes they can be contested, just like wills. it doesnt make them bad. it means there are tons of other circumstances at play.

@@JM-ps6le that's not true and you just proved it.

I didn’t necessarily look at her differently. But I knew instantly she rarely dealt with men that genuinely wanted to get to know her for her. She equated the fact that most men wanting to get with her quickly as a means of validation. Me not rushing, didn’t validate her at all so it instantly felt like there was an issue or problem. In reality, I was just trying to catch a vibe and get to know her before taking it there. Trust, I would have taken it there but I needed to see who she was outside of just her beauty.

@@CoreyMJones3 this was really helpful and eye opening - thank you 🫶🏽

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Terrible advice. The archipelago is quite modern as well. Not to mention, that foreign men MUST support the whole family including extended family.

@@kingmelanin7468 who cares. That's why I also said marry your girl in the Philippines. She can be from here. Just marry her in the Philippines. She can't divorce you. 🤷‍♂️

@@josephwhite3486 Men who want stable families, lacking feuds and extortion CARE. Besides, how is no divorce here a good thing with so many chameleons out there?

@@kingmelanin7468 that's why I say find a black woman anywhere other than America. Marry her in the Philippines. Of you bring her back and she get brainwashed by feminist it don't matter. She can't divorce you and take half your stuff.

Yea we definitely take the “imma make the best of this approach”. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t.

He's vague

Women claim men everyday with kids. You sound really dumb, he’s introspective and has not bad mouthed his ex. You come off real bitter for no reason. Go play in traffic.

He left because she cheated. Also, he’ll be fine.

She cheated on him and he still tried to work it out, check his story out. It paints the picture of what a lot of men go through but don’t speak about. He spoke his truth

Notice the tones/assumptions in this woman’s comment. This is the exact issue. “Times have changed” 😂😂😂😂

Right these men always talking about single mothers but think women especially young women want to deal with them and their baby mama/children drama. Straight delusion 😂