"All rules and no relationship makes for rebellion." Wow! That really hit deep with me as a parent.

Thankyou for this video. Please pray that my husband and I will raise my daughter right. She is strong-willed, and no matter what I tell her to do, she does not do it. She will sometimes, but it's not consistent. I have messed up alot of times by acting out of anger rather than self control. I see where , as a single mom living with my parents, I was not responsible with her as a toddler. I was scared and was distant. I did do some motherly things but as far as discipline, it needs work. I want to be more submissive to my husband so my daughter can see how she should act and she can see a good example of us. But most importantly I want to raise her right in the Lord. Please pray for us. I really want the spirits guidance in this to do better and to get her on track. Myself as well.

My son is so strong willed. thank you for the biblical insight. I have been struggling. I have been trying to parent on my own. I am so grateful to have the light bulb go off I have to turn being a mother over to God.

This is really good and I’m so thankful I found this video! God bless

Thank you very kindly (I wish the microphone was evenly readied for this) these questions and answers from scripture is excellent! Praise God 😊

Thank you! This is so helpful!

This was so much more helpful than any secular parental teaching. Lightyears difference. thank you for shedding light on this important topic !

Praise God for this interview,really learned a lot.:)

Their wisdom is amazing. Thanks so much for this video. I can't find them anywhere on social media. Do you have a link? Thank you.

God bless you so much for this.

Thank you for this video. As a single mom, I needed this encouraging message that the chastisement is not abuse. I love how you pointed back to the relationship we are modeling to God.

It so important to teach our children self-control in a loving and safe environment is so true and the ramifications of not having this self-control as an adult is so true! Big like from us on this video!

Just for those interested..correction Scripture mentioned is actually found in Hebrews 12:11 (not 1)

Thank you for the video. In it you said that you will add a list of 10 rules somewhere. I can't find them...

What about such a strong will that even after spanking, they continue to be defiant and refuse to obey? Do you continuously spank w/o end? Where does the line between correction and abuse start with such instances? We have a three year old that is incredibly difficult to discipline right now. He simply does not mind. And we spank hard and consistently! It seems to make him worse and more aggressive…

Thank you so much for doing this video and providing instruction for parents so that they help their young get a god-honoring, parent honoring start. I would like to know if you are able to help people like me. I am not the parent, I am a wife to a father of 3 children who are now parents- and I am not their mom. As they started their own family, now with toddlers, my step daughter and her husband, for the first time in 12 years, have acknowledged and consider me to care for her 3 year old. Due to the distance of where they live, they are asking for 2-5 day watch, which include overnight stay for the little one. They do not use the Bible as their guide for parenting, they prefer psychology, and I am forbidden to spank.... Finally, my question is how do I deal with training and correction of a strong willed child, who is use to affirmation to her disobedience. Can you guide me to books or understanding on how to help my grand child, and use the opportunity to minister to the parents. I desire to honor the Lord with my influence and Commision to love others and share the gospel, and make disciples! May the Lord bless your ministry for your faithfulness to His Word.

Very insightful. Can you please share the Counselor's website? Is there anyway we get in touch with them?

My grandson will just sit and laugh at me when I try to get him to listen . He thinks it is hilarious to not listen.

What we're the 10 standards he was going to mention at the end of the video?

What’s the name of the book they are talking about?

Your parents book is called” helping your child become…” by Tim & Kirsten King

Thanks a lot for this video, very helpful! What do you think of sleep training a baby and are there any biblical perspective on this?

Hello thank you for what you do. I have a question. I find myself warning my child to do what is asked or I will spank. Then after spanking one good spank where he starts crying because of it. I always seem to find myself scooping him up into my arms and holding him and talking to him in an embrace. Is this something that should be done or should leave him alone after spanking?

Hello thank you for your video, I just wonder from what age can I start exercising discipline with my toddler ? She is 12 months and sometimes I feel she is too smal but sometimes I do feel she tests my limits. Thank you for your guidance ❤

Chastening doesn’t mean physical assault. And what’s the line for abuse versus “correction” is different for everyone. A lot of very abusive ppl think they’ve done nothing wrong. If a spouse treated another adult that way these same ppl would advocate they go to jail. But we can assault small ppl who can’t do anything about it. This does not mean to be permissive but there is no room for physical assault ever.

I agree completely disturbing 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Jessica Bealer’s son Micah Bealer is an example of how NOT to raise your child. Getting advice from this Karen on anything is a sure fire way to have a kid in the grave from drug use.

You are terrible, abusive people. Please don't have children. I hope the ones you already have will be able to overcome what you've done and continue to do to them. Obedience isn't a virtue. If you make your child do something they don't understand or want to do, they will stop once you look away. If you teach them why we do certain things and they understand that it's right, they will want to do these things, and you only have to help them get the will to do what's right. You're not teaching your children to have self control to be successful, you're ruining them. I know from experience what this does to a child. I remember feeling like I'm not human in the eyes of adults. I remember feeling like nothing, including my own body, belongs to me. I remember being spanked and yelled at and now i shiver when someone makes quick moves around me. And i remember thinking "you're doing this because you're wrong. you can't explain why i should do something and so you just humiliate and hurt me - to shut me up. but you're wrong, and the power you have over me doesn't change that.". Your techniques didn't stop me from being rebellious, they didn't stop me from disobeying and following my own head and heart instead of my parents. They just hurt me so terribly im suicidal till this day. DON'T DO THIS TO YOUR KIDS - UNLESS YOU WANT TO LOSE THEM FOREVER.