The Casey Crew Podcast Episode 162: Cluster F@

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The Casey Crew

The Casey Crew

4 жыл бұрын

“Cluster Fuck...”
The title speaks for itself... Have you ever had a conversation with a group of friends and it went left? 😳 We all can use a friendly gathering to get outside perspectives and advice about our relationships. Two weeks ago, Gia had a “Ladies Night”. Last week, Envy had the “Man Cave”. This week, let’s just say things got interesting. 😅 Welcome to the co-ed edition. Let’s talk about it....🗣🗣🗣 (Don’t judge us...😩)

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@Mimi-pi9yt
@Mimi-pi9yt 4 жыл бұрын
ingrid's guy does not seem happy at all with her. the disconnect is very clear
@Marvelousdash
@Marvelousdash 4 жыл бұрын
Mimi M we all have been an Ingrid before but I agree if she wants to keep her man she needs to change soon especially if she wants him to pay the house mortgage... and she only have to pay for groceries and cable lol he gon be tired sis
@Mimi-pi9yt
@Mimi-pi9yt 4 жыл бұрын
@@Marvelousdash yes, you are so correct. and i know i have been an ingrid before and i got called out on it and saw that i needed to grow up. im in my mid-40's now so i can certainly look back on my own mess. but...does she have some type of employment? It would be really hard for me to allow myself to depend on my boyfriend completely. He would have to be my husband. this has always been a huge fear for me because of my own family situation as a kid
@Incognito4113
@Incognito4113 4 жыл бұрын
That's unfortunate too especially with a new baby. I could tell in the first few seconds before words were spoken
@Jasmineshante3
@Jasmineshante3 4 жыл бұрын
Has nothing to do with Ingrid, he’s done some dirt , and doesn’t really like the topic of conversation that’s why he’s quite
@fendiflavours2402
@fendiflavours2402 4 жыл бұрын
I thought it was weird that in this video he has a girlfriend. In the Man Cave episode, he said he was single. Hmmm...
@nessmonae
@nessmonae 4 жыл бұрын
Casey Crew, can we please get a zoom in with the camera please!? It will make it more interesting. Maybe a few camera angles
@TVFan2023
@TVFan2023 4 жыл бұрын
So no one else found it alarming that AFTER having a child with Jason, Ingrid wanted him to show her that he was all in and was invested in the relationship? Sometimes we really need to slow down and get to know people. It would save us so much disappointment and heartache.
@shiloh4184
@shiloh4184 4 жыл бұрын
What woman yearns to be single or its complicated, babys momma, shack up honey? I think its human nature to try to fix it and put a bow on it after you realize playtime with boo thang went too far. Im even willing to bet that from the moment she took thepositive pregnancy test, her 1st thought was my life was not supposed to go like this. Pregnant, unwed, unfulfilling relationship, but forever connected via this child inside me. What to do , what to do?? Well, make it work. Im going tonmake it work. I can force this square peg into this round hole by trying my best to make the square peg round. Good luck with that.
@Drawblue1
@Drawblue1 8 ай бұрын
Also getting to know yourself, healing inner trauma, not turning a blind eye to red flags, patterns and behaviors and going into a relationship with clear intentions.
@signedblaiir7037
@signedblaiir7037 4 жыл бұрын
Wow. This was painful to watch. PAINFUL.
@ssexybetty22
@ssexybetty22 4 жыл бұрын
Girl extremely 🥵🤦🏾‍♀️
@brownskinlikegodiva9276
@brownskinlikegodiva9276 4 жыл бұрын
Omg it was liking looking at so many past relationships and how toxic men are and try to not answer questions or blame you.... his friends even knew he was wrong that’s why they were so quiet
@megabkny
@megabkny 3 жыл бұрын
Brown skin Like Godiva she’s wrong too Jason mention a lot of things. This was cringe worthy 😮😐😮😮They should seek couples therapy or counseling.
@tammycraig7635
@tammycraig7635 4 жыл бұрын
Jason and Ingrid need to go to therapy, but in the end I just don't think they are a good match.
@chibuzorokpala6717
@chibuzorokpala6717 4 жыл бұрын
Benz over der like a Monalisa Portrait😘🥰🥰🥰 you are so Beautiful Benzo 😍😍
@mamabisa
@mamabisa 4 жыл бұрын
Pls bring Lil Shawn wife on next time 😂😂😂
@Katomusicgroup
@Katomusicgroup 4 жыл бұрын
This would be very entertaining but I'm not sure how it would end
@janaef3222
@janaef3222 4 жыл бұрын
I was so mad his wife wasn’t there because lil Shawn was talking the most shit
@arsnphnx44
@arsnphnx44 4 жыл бұрын
Got a feeling he might pipe down all that a bit in his wife's presence
@skyexmonique
@skyexmonique 4 жыл бұрын
Lord if my relationship ever gets to Jason's and Ingrids stage just take me the hell out of it. This is just sad 😕 That man fell out of love with her a longtime ago, that's why he wouldn't care if she was talking to dudes on social media, he's emotionally checked out.
@Mimi-pi9yt
@Mimi-pi9yt 4 жыл бұрын
i wonder if his friends see this. you hit the nail on the head
@shiloh4184
@shiloh4184 4 жыл бұрын
Im with jason on how he sees her social media. It aint real. Its a distraction. The real is that Jasons prob spending so much of his mental effort and physical effort trying to become something in real life, that he doesnt have time, energy, or desire to react to her wanderings in a social media reality. Liking a page or comment or pic doesn't mean anything. Taking it from liking a dude pic to cheating with that dude, now you have some character flaws. Desire aint behavior. How do you punish anyone for a "you didnt do it but you wanted to punk". Cmon. Jason loves that girl. I feel like he believes in her. And now they got a kid and a whole slew of responsibilities. But sometimes the hot chick hits a wall bc shes gotta work now on being a good woman. Dudes let girls slide bc theyre fine. But eventually that same dude realizes that the fat ugly chick he cared nothing for was a better woman than the hot chick who never learn to be a woman bc shes so pretty. Jasons like enough already girl. Master the basics. Handle that and shell have whatever she wants from him. But youre fooling yourself if you dont remember that men are provoked to good behavior by good behavior. Looks can breed desire but behavior of girl has a ton to do with the reactionary behavior of the man.
@Mimi-pi9yt
@Mimi-pi9yt 4 жыл бұрын
@@shiloh4184 I don't wanna leave a negative comment about looks because as a woman I know it can be hurtful...however, some women are only average but may think they are fine because they pulled a black dude but quickly realize that they are only average at best
@shiloh4184
@shiloh4184 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mimi-pi9yt that definitely has merit. For me though, his behavior is telling the tale. 1st-I dont know too many dudes moving in girls they dont care for and paying the bills. Kid or no kid. I know dudes that are quick to remind a chick she wasnt wanted , especially when the kid arrives bc now life got real. 2nd- he tolerates her mouth. Thats gotta be taxing. And im of the belief that she is a strong woman. But point that gun where its needed. Why fire off that AK47 of a mouth on the person you love thats holding you down? What sense does that make. But love..is..patient and not easily provoked , right? So to him, she must still be a prize. To him, theres still love there. His mouth aint saying it. His bday card unsigned atop the fridge surely was a flop. But low key, hes in love with that girl. To him, shes beautiful. She just cant see it bc his shortcomings are at the forefront of her mind. At least in these convos.
@Mimi-pi9yt
@Mimi-pi9yt 4 жыл бұрын
@@shiloh4184 okay I see your perspective. however, dude does not seem to be in love by no stretch. i would say that he just doesn't want to leave because he probably feels like 'damn I don't wanna have two kids out here that i am not in the household with' my brother went through the same thing and told me privately that he did not want to raise his son out of the household like he did his other kids. I just don't see the love. all i see is him tolerating. which is horrible on the spirit by the way
@corkeymarie625
@corkeymarie625 4 жыл бұрын
Jason and Ingrid don’t seem like a good match.. such a shame
@ahmadblack5347
@ahmadblack5347 4 жыл бұрын
AT ALL . Somebody needs to break it to them .
@mizzyfit_334
@mizzyfit_334 4 жыл бұрын
I feel for him lol they got a child only reason why they together
@isabelpichinte439
@isabelpichinte439 4 жыл бұрын
Ingrid, a man will go above and beyond for a woman he loves without her having to tell him anything. I’ve been in your shoes with a newborn as well. It’s hard and you feel like you need him but you deserve peace and happiness. He isn’t going to give you that at least not now. You deserve to be treated the way you want to be.
@cburston3653
@cburston3653 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@jamieweir645
@jamieweir645 4 жыл бұрын
" You deserve to be treated the way you want to without having to even mention it " - lmfao
@tony2tone70
@tony2tone70 4 жыл бұрын
Which man wants to be with an abusive woman. If my woman ever talk to me like the way she did to Jason it would be over.
@universalask
@universalask 4 жыл бұрын
tony2 tone fax
@jaymilk103
@jaymilk103 4 жыл бұрын
Jamie Weir right? Wtf she talking about? Ingrid needs help with herself
@AlwaysaLady365
@AlwaysaLady365 4 жыл бұрын
This podcast was a waste of time. I don't want to hear about their relationship. Ingrid is too over the top. Jason is right. This conversation is for them to talk amoug themselves.
@manii8397
@manii8397 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed it
@banksabthizbizz5865
@banksabthizbizz5865 4 жыл бұрын
lol lil Shawn need to lower his voice talking to Gia like that but I know it’s all love 😂
@Kdjdnsksksmsksks
@Kdjdnsksksmsksks 4 жыл бұрын
For real lol, I was shocked at his Tone but I guess they have that kind of relationship lol
@Kidnplay824
@Kidnplay824 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure why she allows that. Dude is disrespectful
@faithmitchell7933
@faithmitchell7933 4 жыл бұрын
Envy says those two fight like brother and sister. Its all love.
@tricyloft
@tricyloft 4 жыл бұрын
@@faithmitchell7933 He did say that that's why he didn't even get into it when the started
@srianna0416
@srianna0416 4 жыл бұрын
They are just as good as friends as him and eny.
@Hausofgab
@Hausofgab 4 жыл бұрын
Whew Chile I feel sorry for Ingrid and Jason both. They should probably get counseling or go their separate ways but let’s not bring them and their relationship drama back to the podcast 🥴
@ebonywagner4221
@ebonywagner4221 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s very cringeworthy
@Hausofgab
@Hausofgab 4 жыл бұрын
Ebony Wagner For sure!
@foreverblessed2020
@foreverblessed2020 4 жыл бұрын
Yas!!! Hands down was thinking the same thing! Annnddd this podcast was “ the Ingrid and Jason show”!!!! 🙄
@Loveloveme20
@Loveloveme20 4 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. That’s called TOXIC! Therapy is the best route
@brownskinlikegodiva9276
@brownskinlikegodiva9276 4 жыл бұрын
I agree about the counseling but I think this is good to put on here! I think there are so many men and women in this situation who are going to see themselves i this couple and want to change bc this is awful!
@Brandonforever21608
@Brandonforever21608 4 жыл бұрын
I would slap Envy for calling me the dumb friend all the time. These are grown ass men
@shiloh4184
@shiloh4184 4 жыл бұрын
New day. New thought. Jason had made a comment saying, "..its not that i dont do anything for you. Its that you always..want..more.". Envy and Gia have done very well for themselves. Id be lying if I said his endless grind doesnt inspire me. And the way Gia loves that dude is fire. But then i sit and think. Theyve been together for decades. They built that together. Grind after grind after grind together. The thought enters my mind that Gias friends see Gias life and Envys love for her and want that type of material recognition, devotion, affection, and wealth. So, i, a gf, see Gia/Envy and now that becomes the measuring stick for my relationship. My man bought me a bbq sandwich. Wasnt enough though bc Envy bough Gia filet mignon. I threw a party for your birthday. Wasnt enough though bc Envy rented out the club for Gia. Eh we bought our 1st condo together. Wasnt enough though bc Gia and Envy got a mansion in the burbs. And make no mistake, i have zero probs with Gia/Envy winning at life. But i do think its unproductive for someone else to think they are winning, losing, appreciated or valued adequately based on Gia/Envys level of success and subsequent ability to display/afford such luxuries and affections. How would you feel as a man if your girl said just give me what ole boy gave his chick and im good? How would you feel as a woman if your man said step your game up to her level and ill be satisfied. Now of course most ppl wouldnt say that out loud. But are we thinking it? Are we feeling it? Are we consciously or subconsciously projecting it onto our bfs, gfs, husbands, and wives?
@Nallisn
@Nallisn 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah that’s definitely wrong to feel that way. But you’re assuming she does. That’s a big assumption to make that Ingrid is jealous of her bff and that she wants her man to be like Envy. All of the examples you gave of Envy and Gia are material things. I don’t think that’s what Ingrid is thinking about if she wants more. Maybe more of his time, more consideration of her, more passion, etc
@brownskinlikegodiva9276
@brownskinlikegodiva9276 4 жыл бұрын
It probably had to be around a couple like them but why not make them goals? It’s like you have a couple that has been through shit and made it together it her man can’t even post her? And the guys know he’s wrong bc none of them are saying anything!! And they speak up any other time!
@bacheera1
@bacheera1 3 жыл бұрын
They addressed this comment in the following podcast
@lelegeo7204
@lelegeo7204 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t like Jason energy he’s not into her. Prime example find a man that love you more than you love him.
@jcallwood25
@jcallwood25 3 жыл бұрын
Lele Geo AMEN.
@erikas211
@erikas211 4 жыл бұрын
Jason is constantly told he needs to be more communicative yet it seems he’s often being talked over or given minimal space to express himself. I can see how he shuts down because of Ingrids style of communication. I also disagree with the notion of intentions mattering more than action. Intentions without action doesn’t add up to much in my opinion. And intentions do don’t absolve someone of their actions/inactions.
@PickJ
@PickJ 4 жыл бұрын
Erika S this!!!!
@InTheirClosetPodcast
@InTheirClosetPodcast 3 жыл бұрын
I AGREE. Don't INTEND to do anything for me. Its not the thought that counts, its the action for me.
@SoRealSoReal23
@SoRealSoReal23 4 жыл бұрын
I ain’t gone lie this was tough one to watch. Once Ingrid and Jason got serious and started airing out their personal issues, the podcast should have ended. To be honest I don’t see them lasting. It’s clear neither of them wants to budge on giving each other what they want because of their resentment towards each other for not getting what they want. Also, I gotta keep it another buck. Gia didn’t make it better because for every valid issue Jason had she had a “Maybe...” or a “but...” to excuse away Ingrid’s behavior and allow her to avoid accountability. That only fuels the “I’m not going to do better.” or “I don’t feel motived to do better until my partner does better.” mindset.
@Drawblue1
@Drawblue1 8 ай бұрын
It's an open and transparent conversation, healing takes place when you address issues rather than sweeping them under the rug.
@BillionaireMarket
@BillionaireMarket 3 жыл бұрын
Envy ain't tryna get caught in the crossfire .. The cup is empty Envy put it down 😭😭
@kam5755
@kam5755 2 жыл бұрын
Omm 😂
@tammycraig7635
@tammycraig7635 4 жыл бұрын
If Jason has to hear Ingrid like this on most days, I don't know who he stands it.
@brittneywade3200
@brittneywade3200 4 жыл бұрын
This is so bad. Their need for counseling took over the podcast.
@LA1212
@LA1212 4 жыл бұрын
Shell never see that she’s the problem though 👌🏾
@Soopaflhi1
@Soopaflhi1 4 жыл бұрын
Seriously.. although he is wrong in many ways her loud, boisterous attitude is A LOT I could barely take her this hour.. I was like girl shut up & pass the mic!
@cTRudeboy
@cTRudeboy 4 жыл бұрын
She was being extra but I feel like it was for a reason. I honestly side with Ingrid at the end of the day.
@shayseymour2131
@shayseymour2131 4 жыл бұрын
lmao!!!! deadass
@sagresham94
@sagresham94 4 жыл бұрын
Ingrid seems a lil irrational with the gender roles and Jason seem like he could be very cold & disrespectfully nonchalant. He may never call her a name but his actions can be just as disrespectful. Not answering and ignoring is a trigger. Women about to jump in his DMs now frfr lol
@LOLAandOLA
@LOLAandOLA 4 жыл бұрын
Jason doesn’t want her. She doesn’t want him either but rejection breeds obsession. This is what “right vs wrong” conversations does to relationships. It gets you no where.
@brownskinlikegodiva9276
@brownskinlikegodiva9276 4 жыл бұрын
That was a whole sermon “rejection breeds obsession”
@NilsaNY
@NilsaNY 3 жыл бұрын
It feels like she is vindictive and looks like he’s over it
@lookatleah
@lookatleah 4 жыл бұрын
It’s hard to be loving and affectionate when your partner is constantly pissing you off 🤷🏻‍♀️
@Soopaflhi1
@Soopaflhi1 4 жыл бұрын
Then leave!
@Kdjdnsksksmsksks
@Kdjdnsksksmsksks 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely a cluster but also very entertaining. We need more group discussions! These last few episodes have been very entertaining.
@imanix94
@imanix94 4 жыл бұрын
Gia tried to help Jason out by implying that the reason he was entertaining the women in his dm’s May have been in response to Ingrid allowing the man in the club to touch the small of her back. Jason disagreed and said “to each is own” I see why she gets mad about him being nonchalant. He doesn’t even have a valid reason for disrespecting her and he doesn’t care about having a valid reason. He blatantly demonstrates that he doesn’t care about her feelings. This is honestly disheartening to watch and I truly feel bad for Ingrid. There are way better men out there that will treat her with more respect. I think it’s just about her believing that and believing that that’s what she deserves.
@manii8397
@manii8397 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, she was giving him an out and he didn’t take it
@angelalvarez7085
@angelalvarez7085 4 жыл бұрын
If she rags on him like this in public imagine what he deals with in private... nah Ingrid is not a victim...her energy is all wrong...mad corny energy...they just need to go their separate ways. You gotta give respect to get it.
@ingridcrossman6993
@ingridcrossman6993 3 жыл бұрын
Angel Alvarez ... You don’t know what you’re talking about!!!
@angelalvarez7085
@angelalvarez7085 3 жыл бұрын
Ingrid Crossman okay... lol 😂👍🏽
@Aja.l_
@Aja.l_ 4 жыл бұрын
I would have liked to have heard from Benz more.
@cristiwilliams03
@cristiwilliams03 4 жыл бұрын
Ingrid never needed the mic, she yelled the whole time!! I can see why Jason checks out...Overall, I hope their relationship works out. I know he didn’t think this episode was going to be focused on their issues. Geesh!
@melag94
@melag94 4 жыл бұрын
Another great episode my heart goes out to Ingrid and Jason. Relationships are never easy and go through different phases. Communication is very important It’s not what you say but how you say it. They both have different love languages in what fulfills them as a spouse and couples therapy would definitely benefit them.
@tricyloft
@tricyloft 4 жыл бұрын
After watching this and really processing it, Ingrid and Jason need to get some counseling or leave each other alone and coparent.. This is some toxic ish and they have a baby. Lord help them and the baby. In the ladies episode she indicated that's she wanted to bring a third party into the relationship because her sex drive has gone down. I can see why...however that is a DIASTER waiting to happen. They need to work on each other before that happens. I applaud Gia for trying to mediate things on her friend's behalf. I guess she sees a side to this relationship that we don't see and is worth saving. Ps those girls that were in Jason's DM will be back heavy now, after watching this episode because they now know his home life isn't peaches and cream.
@tierramoody5648
@tierramoody5648 4 жыл бұрын
I have never called a man out of his name... im in a relationship with... is super disrespectful...
@kec01bla
@kec01bla 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, the women would be going crazy if it was the other way.
@PickJ
@PickJ 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! Soooo disrespectful! And I wouldn’t tolerate my significant other calling me out of my name.
@ladyschatze9159
@ladyschatze9159 4 жыл бұрын
This podcast suppose to include all of them, not Ingrid & Jason relationship. I wanted to get everybody intake on a relationships. No, they are not gonna last cause Ingrid wants to wear the pants , men don't like dominar women and she don't trust him if she's hacking his phone.
@cTRudeboy
@cTRudeboy 4 жыл бұрын
You say men don’t like dominant women well... she’s saying she doesn’t want to be dominant and she’s asking HIM to be dominant. He doesn’t want to be the dominant one. “The alpha” if you will.
@OnlyGlenCoCo
@OnlyGlenCoCo 4 жыл бұрын
This episode was a lot. I’ve been rocking with y’all from the beginning and so happy to see the evolution of the Casey Crew podcast. It’s a lot of comments and opinions on Ingrid and Jason but I really do appreciate the transparency of displayed. It takes a a lot to bare this much on a public platform. I wish them the best. Please continue to bring everybody back throughout. The past three episodes have been really dope, women’s prospective, men’s perspective and all together.
@SuperBoxer54
@SuperBoxer54 4 жыл бұрын
Iam here for lil shawn!!!!
@angiemcb82
@angiemcb82 4 жыл бұрын
That was a lot...A wise married woman of 50yrs+ once told me, " You can catch more bees with honey than with vinegar." There is a way to get want from your man, it just depends on if he wants to give it to you. #peace&blessings
@Nallisn
@Nallisn 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve heard that before. I might sound dumb, but can you explain what that saying means?
@angiemcb82
@angiemcb82 4 жыл бұрын
@@Nallisn pick your battles...most times its how you ask your man for something or getting him to do something by your tone and approach...Men need their egos stroke & its ok...remember you want what you want (old school game) married 23+yrs
@tmhanker100
@tmhanker100 4 жыл бұрын
@@angiemcb82 This sounds like really good advice. But I'm assuming this only works if you're partnered with someone who really loves you and wants to be with you. Is that correct? Because if it's one thing I know, men will go all out for something or someone that they really want.
@Mrs_Lalajp
@Mrs_Lalajp 4 жыл бұрын
😩😂😂🤣 Lil shawn is a mess 😩
@vlogsbysha
@vlogsbysha 4 жыл бұрын
Jason and Ingrid need therapy separately and together. Then make a decision. Their energy as a couple is triggering me.
@mj6541
@mj6541 4 жыл бұрын
I love this with everyone, different couples, different perspective, different struggles, and growth. Black love 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@tjadams1177
@tjadams1177 4 жыл бұрын
Jason WILD! Nah, he needs to be single. Ingrid needs to be single and focus on herself.
@ZillennialLatina
@ZillennialLatina 4 жыл бұрын
All the yelling got my head like 🤯 I’m a calm person too but that nonchalant attitude with Ingrid’s man ain’t it. It’s okay to show some passion from time to time.
@brittneywade3200
@brittneywade3200 4 жыл бұрын
Ugh her voice and getting so loud. Gia never gets like this... break up please
@alihahgaspard8097
@alihahgaspard8097 4 жыл бұрын
@@brittneywade3200 Gia never gets like that bc her man treats her like a queen. that's the difference.
@ZillennialLatina
@ZillennialLatina 4 жыл бұрын
Brittney Wade but Gia was yelling too 😩
@nayaforbes8700
@nayaforbes8700 4 жыл бұрын
I understand both Ingrid and Jason. I’m glad they had a Gia to breakdown their feelings, we all need a Gia . This all comes down to issues that they haven’t deal with before they were in a relationship. Ingrid seems like a woman who wants to be affectionate however, she not comfortable in the relationship as she doesn’t trust Jason. She pops off cus she wants to see if he cares, because she wants to feel something. You can tell with Jason, that he doesn’t know what to do anymore. He not an overly emotional person however, I feel that nonchalant people are emotional but don’t know how to express it and rather keep it to themselves. I hope they figure things out because their child can feel negative energy and in the long run it will affect them.
@Genie2386
@Genie2386 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you completely
@imanix94
@imanix94 4 жыл бұрын
I would’ve broke up with Jason a long time ago.
@djohnslive
@djohnslive 4 жыл бұрын
The production value keeps getting better. I’m sure the motive started out pure, but the conversation did what it did. God bless em.
@benola5977
@benola5977 4 жыл бұрын
Ok I love lil Shaun this episode He’s over the top but also seems to know when to take a back seat He is hilarious
@PickJ
@PickJ 4 жыл бұрын
Ben Ola Lol Lil Shawn and June’s nonverbal communication towards the end was hilarious.
@LA1212
@LA1212 4 жыл бұрын
Relationships are sometimes an even trade. Jason wants affection, submission, patience and sex (maybe even for her to drop 20lbs tbh). Ingrid wants emotional commitment, dialogue that secures her, open displays of attachment and to feel valued Ingrid is trying to force Jason to meet her needs without any effort to meet his. Jason has shut down about trying to get his needs met and is probably regretting being in that relationship
@desireerobinson6226
@desireerobinson6226 4 жыл бұрын
Jason wasn’t expecting this sit down to turn out like this and looked hella uncomfortable. Ingrid is hurt and he comes off dismissive.... Does he want the relationship? Is he happy?
@shanicevasser9233
@shanicevasser9233 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I don’t think Jason and Ingrid are a good match.
@culture8490
@culture8490 4 жыл бұрын
Jason is water, he needs a woman that is a bit more air, someone who also flows...And Ingrid...she needs someone who need a mother.
@fendiflavours2402
@fendiflavours2402 4 жыл бұрын
She is a Gemini & he is a Cancer. They are not a good match.
@ingridcrossman6993
@ingridcrossman6993 3 жыл бұрын
Culture Club 1984 ... Ya’ll take these zodiac signs too literal.
@ingridcrossman6993
@ingridcrossman6993 3 жыл бұрын
FENDI Flavours ... So please tell me what sign I’m compatible please. Clearly too many ppl take these zodiac signs to heart.
@Drawblue1
@Drawblue1 8 ай бұрын
​@@ingridcrossman6993planets make up our entire existence, they play a part in our emotional, physical, financial spiritual and mental aspects
@gabrielchiquito5444
@gabrielchiquito5444 3 жыл бұрын
Home girl did not need no microphone. They should have snatched that away with the quickness
@joneacharles4314
@joneacharles4314 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman and I get where Ingrid is coming from to a certain extent. HOWEVER.........she doing way too much, and if she gotta do all that she needs to be single. I was listening to the episode like yooooooo she doing way too much and she seems a little insecure. HOWEVER, her man job is to make her feel secure in her position
@abrinker79
@abrinker79 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@ingridcrossman6993
@ingridcrossman6993 3 жыл бұрын
Jonea Charles ... it’s a man’s job to not only make the woman feel secure but support her, help her, care & love her. I may have been loud and obnoxious but I’ve had my fair share of disrespect that I chose to keep quiet and not air ALL THE FUCKERY OUT. So please believe half of what you see.
@penelopetiburcio4909
@penelopetiburcio4909 4 жыл бұрын
I just knew this was going to be a bad idea. Knowing Gia and how much she like to deep dive in a convo. I just KNEW y’all were going to get past the second question 😂. Another great episode!
@VanessaLennox
@VanessaLennox 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I was waiting for this and y’all delivered. 😍😍
@israfil1534
@israfil1534 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t y’all see how Jason exposed Gia about talking crazy for years ? I feel like envy tolerate some shits cuz he cheated before
@Drawblue1
@Drawblue1 8 ай бұрын
He does and she holds that over his head to get what she wants but don't get it twisted Envy knows how to get under her skin as well. And I guess that's why it works for them.
@portialand1858
@portialand1858 3 жыл бұрын
Benz is GORGEOUS!!
@angelalvarez7085
@angelalvarez7085 4 жыл бұрын
Yea sorry Ingrid and Jason... you guys ultimate goal should be marriage and THIS AINT IT. He does not want to marry her and it’s painfully clear....
@erynd.9911
@erynd.9911 4 жыл бұрын
Girl on the first episode i could have sworn i heard him say he was single when they were discussing open relationships 🥴
@angelalvarez7085
@angelalvarez7085 4 жыл бұрын
Eryn D. ME TOO!!! Lmao! 😂 I thought maybe I’m trippin!
@AS-eq2qm
@AS-eq2qm 4 жыл бұрын
I particularly like this episode. It came off as very therapeutic. Something everyone can learn from
@Katomusicgroup
@Katomusicgroup 4 жыл бұрын
This was a good conversation Yal deff.....need to do PT2
@melissacampbell957
@melissacampbell957 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like that couple need a little counseling
@XOMsMo
@XOMsMo 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@sandybby_
@sandybby_ 4 жыл бұрын
And quit playing games...tit for tat etc. lmao 😂 they still a mess
@brittneywade3200
@brittneywade3200 4 жыл бұрын
All of em lowkey lol
@mizzyfit_334
@mizzyfit_334 4 жыл бұрын
He might as well leave
@Soopaflhi1
@Soopaflhi1 4 жыл бұрын
I would say A LOT of counseling!
@Ohhcynthiaa
@Ohhcynthiaa 4 жыл бұрын
She said “I’m so into him” Ingrid let’s finish the year being more into you. Get some therapy, self love is important... XOXO ❤️
@brittneywade3200
@brittneywade3200 4 жыл бұрын
She’s terrible!!! I pray she seek help.
@ssexybetty22
@ssexybetty22 4 жыл бұрын
Yess 🙌🏾🙌🏾omg she said it and he had no reaction 😢
@megabkny
@megabkny 3 жыл бұрын
Carline Love cringeworthy moment
@Drawblue1
@Drawblue1 8 ай бұрын
A word 👏
@shiloh4184
@shiloh4184 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes that gut feeling... is just gas
@gbemisowunmi879
@gbemisowunmi879 4 жыл бұрын
We need part 2! Ingrid needs to slow her role and chill she’s way too aggy for a guy like him ... meet him halfway your man is cool calm and collected meet him at least near his level he’s deaf to her cause she’s no where near his level it’s like background noise ... ingrid is super strong and has a overpowering presence if she don’t chill she’s gonna lose her man ... I get how annoying it can be not receiving nothing back when you so passionate about the things you speak on but if your relationship means the world to you ... you have to find a better avenue ... Wish you guys the best x
@trendafernandez2378
@trendafernandez2378 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah he's way too chill for her
@ILoveLivinLifeOG
@ILoveLivinLifeOG 4 жыл бұрын
Damn I feel bad for Jason. He can't speak because she keeps trying to control the conversation. He doesn't even expect it to change, look at his body language.
@lham6578
@lham6578 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t think their friendship will be as strong after this one 😂
@dianewitherspoon5682
@dianewitherspoon5682 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t know how old Ingrid and Jason are, but this was my relationship in our early twenties. I really feel like they should get counseling or call it quits. Life is too short to be unhappy.
@brownskinlikegodiva9276
@brownskinlikegodiva9276 4 жыл бұрын
I hope this the only comment she sees cause lord this was sad to watch I have been here
@imaniebone8903
@imaniebone8903 3 жыл бұрын
Ppl from New York are so aggressive and extreme lol I love the New York accent, swag, vibe etc 😍😍😂😂
@nosaiyare2151
@nosaiyare2151 4 жыл бұрын
This episode should be archived in the podcast Hall of Fame
@shiloh4184
@shiloh4184 4 жыл бұрын
Jason!!! WHEW. master being my girlfriend 1st. Thats a whole episode right there. Heres another . All jokes aside. Why do girls come to another girls rescue when the girl is in the wrong? When Jason was finally like , "enough! Boom! Heres whats really going on!!". And then here comes her gf rescuing her from the truth . All that talking Ingrid did and yet Gia felt like she needed a bailout when Jason spoke up.
@katherinegarcia3918
@katherinegarcia3918 4 жыл бұрын
This episode was great and so relatable. I enjoyed every moment of it and am looking forward to the next group convo you guys have.
@keishaw3825
@keishaw3825 4 жыл бұрын
I think Ingrid and Jason are speaking different love languages and neither are hearing each other. Yes, Jason is a man of less words but something about that made Ingrid want him. Yes, Ingrid is a woman who has many words but something made Jason want Ingrid. Then came a baby. I want them to work because there is love there, each of them does not know how to portray it in the matter that the other wants and needs. They have to start by listening to hear and not to respond. I wish them luck.
@tricyloft
@tricyloft 4 жыл бұрын
I have such mix feelings about this relationship but Gia seems to see and know somethings we dont know. For her to even encouraging this relationship there must be some form of love present..I hope they work out but I dont see it.....
@christineowori750
@christineowori750 4 жыл бұрын
I agree, there is love there, I feel that too. They really need to work on their communication though.
@taroane8609
@taroane8609 4 жыл бұрын
Lol! Love this episode! Shoutout to y’all. Y’all feel like FAMILY.
@ANGIESWORLD
@ANGIESWORLD 4 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this episode, thank you for sharing. I’m rooting for a Ingrid and Jason. Also Lil Shawn needs to pipe down speaking to Gia like that even tho it’s all love lol
@tammycraig7635
@tammycraig7635 4 жыл бұрын
You go to couple therapy and if the person continues to be verbally, physciall and emotionally abusive, you leave.
@stepshow21
@stepshow21 4 жыл бұрын
Geeze Louise i need a freaking Aleve after this one 💆🏽‍♀️
@kianan2635
@kianan2635 4 жыл бұрын
Jason looks pissed 50% of the time 😂
@kianan2635
@kianan2635 4 жыл бұрын
Correction 90%
@GiveMeTruth92
@GiveMeTruth92 4 жыл бұрын
So, let me get this straight. She said he cooked and they had a good dinner at home, but she seen a blank birthday card that was supposed to go with a plan that didn’t happen. Now she mad because he didn’t explain what it was..... I’m confused lol
@kec01bla
@kec01bla 4 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@angiemcb82
@angiemcb82 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I'm like you knew how he was when you got that first nut...Now, the baby is here...you want you want...like what...Ingrid, Go back to what you fell in love with about him and move forward. You CANNOT change people. But peace & blessings to them.
@TVFan2023
@TVFan2023 4 жыл бұрын
Angie McB doesn’t seem like she got to know him much less fall in love with him. She has an idea in her head and wants him to be that person. He tried to celebrate her birthday the best way he knew how and it wasn’t enough for her. She was upset about the card because she wanted a gift.
@wildrosephotobooth4253
@wildrosephotobooth4253 4 жыл бұрын
He lied about the card and his plans. This man is obviously cheating on her. He's a terrible boyfriend. I seriously feel bad for Ingrid. This episode was painful to listen to, so painful I pulled up the video to see their faces.
@TVFan2023
@TVFan2023 4 жыл бұрын
Rosemary Washington I’m curious why you think he was lying about his plans and the card. It’s possible that the card was supposed to accompany a gift and since that didn’t work out, he didn’t want to just give her the card by itself. He could have decided not to share what the other gift was going to be because he plans to surprise her later. Or maybe he was just upset it didn’t work out and didn’t want to talk about it. Either way, I don’t see why she cared that much to be this upset. She had a nice dinner and eventually had a get-together with her family. Seems to me she was focused on the gift and wanted to gush to her girlfriends about what he did for her. She expected a grande gesture and got disappointed. Like he said, what he did wasn’t enough for her. She got with a simple guy and that’s not her speed. They don’t seem compatible.
@stephaniejohnson2430
@stephaniejohnson2430 4 жыл бұрын
Yes this was hard to watch. Can totally see the disconnect from Jason, he said "when I met this individual" didn't say Ingrid's name.
@miawilliams1615
@miawilliams1615 4 жыл бұрын
Yooo shoutout to all involved in this episode. The realness and transparency is much appreciated. I hope this was therapeutic for Ingrid and her man. I’m here for more group convos!
@christineowori750
@christineowori750 4 жыл бұрын
I love the group discussions, but Envy and Gia, I feel there should be a moderator who none of you know. That way, we don't dwell on one thing too long and we get to hear everyone's opinion. I really wanted to hear Benz speak... I really did. Or perhaps we alternate the number of people per group discussion.... June was pretty quiet too....There's so much potential here but it needs to be moderated better. I suggest a moderator who nobody here knows. Someone who's impartial.
@BiggzPackinThaHeat
@BiggzPackinThaHeat 4 жыл бұрын
Ingrid is wild. The fact she calls her man out his name and y'all saw the reaction of the room plus she seems very loud and arguementive.....If thats a word
@nikondon9
@nikondon9 4 жыл бұрын
The level of toxicity is crazy this turned into group therapy for Jason and Ingrid and Jason looks like he does not want to be there... This why Charlamagne always stresses healing and mental health.. we all have to heal mentally and emotionally before we get into relationships
@AlexaAnaiis
@AlexaAnaiis 4 жыл бұрын
Man Jason looks so disinterested. I’m thinking that he does not feed into her the way he needs to. Which is why she does and says the things she does. A happy woman who is being treated right by her man has no reason to do anything “crazy”. I hope they either have a major change in their relationship or they just go their separate ways.
@EbnyGem
@EbnyGem 4 жыл бұрын
Dead @ DJ Envy face when Shawn and Gia start arguing
@laetitiannyoung6545
@laetitiannyoung6545 4 жыл бұрын
Jason and Ingrid need to hang it up. Jason is not emotionally invested at all, he is not nonchalant he just don’t care about HER. He barely listens to what she says and she screams too much, she keeps wanting more ... more of what? Maybe she has postpartum and her sex drive is low, maybe she feels disrespected because Of all the girls In his DM’s ... the coming home drunk story is just sad like you told her you were coming home 20 minutes after but he comes home drunk 2 hours later.... then the dm’s story and the birthday... why would I want sex from you. But at the same time, she is very nagging and demanding and confusing because she has turned from gf to Jason mom.
@ingridcrossman6993
@ingridcrossman6993 3 жыл бұрын
Jackie Nnyoung ... You would nag & complain as well if you’ve dealt with half the shit I’ve dealt with. So many opinions about me but when is enough enough!! Clearly Love don’t conquer all. Hope your love life is better!
@mr.ineedit11
@mr.ineedit11 3 жыл бұрын
@@ingridcrossman6993 don't worry bout what ppl got to say they on the outside looking in
@daniellejohnson1160
@daniellejohnson1160 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah ole dude got his hands full with Ingrid! 🙏🏾. But on the ladies podcast she was in tears about how she treats him. They need counseling
@startaylor1112
@startaylor1112 4 жыл бұрын
Ingrid and Jason have been wanting to get this out. They need therapy if they want to remain in the relationship. Continued listening... Ingrid is a mess. The reason that relationships don't work out is not always the mans fault. They are just not meant to be together
@ingridcrossman6993
@ingridcrossman6993 3 жыл бұрын
Star Taylor ... Oh so it’s my fault? & you got this off of just 1 podcast? Lol Okay 👌🏼
@nyshawn9226
@nyshawn9226 Жыл бұрын
Ugggh I miss this podcast!❤ Just as good rewatching years later lol
@itschrissy2012
@itschrissy2012 4 жыл бұрын
June’s commentary is hilarious
@IAmJasRenee
@IAmJasRenee 4 жыл бұрын
I’m a firm believer that when you look you find. What’s done in the dark always comes to light no need to search for it. Your causing yourself more pain
@Adelbg25
@Adelbg25 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, social media is trivial but it can show peoples true intentions and feelings.
@Drawblue1
@Drawblue1 8 ай бұрын
My point exactly, no man who truly loves his women will be okay with his woman liking another man's post on social media let alone bat an eye at another man. She needs to pull a jason on him! Reverse uno because something has to break that exterior.
@Marvelousdash
@Marvelousdash 4 жыл бұрын
Loved it we need part ll 😂☝🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@HotGACPA
@HotGACPA 3 жыл бұрын
Jason......”flip phone coming soon” 🤣🤣🤣
@brittneywade3200
@brittneywade3200 4 жыл бұрын
The comments got me wanting to scroll To the end 😂 I think they need a counselor in the room during the group chats.
@AnnetteCla
@AnnetteCla 4 жыл бұрын
Love the group discussions. Keep them coming ❤️
@XOMsMo
@XOMsMo 4 жыл бұрын
Eeeeeekkkkk...things got awkward towards the end.
@alricasheppard2636
@alricasheppard2636 4 жыл бұрын
Very
@sexyblackcharlery
@sexyblackcharlery 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! I know this is playful but my man would never let me say this to him. And I like that about him. But I love u guys, Gia is so articulate, wise and intuitive xxx
@shadyzbabii420
@shadyzbabii420 4 жыл бұрын
This is amazing....I need more of these
@shayonnaalexander1466
@shayonnaalexander1466 4 жыл бұрын
I understand what men mean when they say women nag. Personally me, I would not complain multiple times or argue to get someone to treat me how I want to be treated. I’m gone.
@DT-we7tq
@DT-we7tq 4 жыл бұрын
Ingrid I want to suggest the book “The Dance of Anger” to you. It’s a life changer! Please read it!
@DT-we7tq
@DT-we7tq 4 жыл бұрын
The reason he is so relaxed in this relationship is because Ingrid over functions in this relationship. That causes him to shut down and under function. They have to find a balance.
@cTRudeboy
@cTRudeboy 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the book suggestion!
@naje8469
@naje8469 4 жыл бұрын
Another great podcast. I am like Jason....I am a very calm person and I react the same way when my wife confronts me about a situation that bothers her. I just look at her. Not because I want her to be quit. I need time to process what she is saying to me. I am not that type of person that can think at that moment to give you an answer. I am like DJ Envy.....I have NEVER called my wife out her name. And she has Never called me out my name. My wife does get upset with me because I will not discuss the issue at the time it is happening.
@Soopaflhi1
@Soopaflhi1 4 жыл бұрын
Please grow for yourself & ur wife. Communication is two ways you must step outside of yourself & learn!
@christineowori750
@christineowori750 4 жыл бұрын
@@Soopaflhi1 I hear where @Willie Mack Jr is coming from though....sometimes its alright to first calm down and revisit the situation a little later on because nasty mean things can be said in the heat of the moment...feelings get hurt, intentions get misconstrued.....its always better to cool off first. Perhaps Willie you could try asking your wife to talk a little later when you are both calm, but make it clear to her its your intention to solve the issue at hand....just not when emotions are high.
@Soopaflhi1
@Soopaflhi1 4 жыл бұрын
I too agree with calming down if need be however Willie mentioned nothing of reacting to a heated situation, but rather, said he just looks at his wife while she’s speaking & he has no words because he can’t think on his feet right at that moment & to that I say he must grow! Even if he has to ask her for a second while he conjures his thoughts but to just sit there is very frustrating for the other party, in this case his wife as she is seeking to resolve a situation.
@VanessaLennox
@VanessaLennox 4 жыл бұрын
Damn that was a good one! I’m sad it’s over lol
@rickyaarroyo
@rickyaarroyo 3 жыл бұрын
It’s obvious that he feels overwhelmed because of his girl aggressive personality, but at the same time that personality also brought you guys together. Here’s what I will suggest for the girl try to fall back a little on your personality of wanting to do too much, try to give that calm & collective approach kinda like how his personality is so he can feel free, more himself & less overwhelming. Can’t do the same things looking for a different result it will never work, that love will die out. always remember the simple things hits the heart deeply if that’s over looked then your relationship is in jeopardy. This podcast is really cool my first time tuning in, I came across the video scrolling on KZfaq & decided to check it out once I was tune in couldn’t stop watching lol. You guys had me dying laughing It was funny , serious , loving all in one you guys did a great job blessings to all ❤️🙏
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