Prayers for your family.

❤️

Thank you and your family for allowing us to be part of your journey...you were all so brave.

I lost my mom in September 2019. Your mom reminds me so much of my mothers soul. 😇 bless you as they bless us from above.

@@meredithadams5495 I'm so sorry about your mom don't forget your mom still look down and smile at you I go thru I lost my mom I lost my nov 13 2018

FACTSSS 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Reading your comment made me ball my eyes out. This is so true.

Man that’s so true. I lost My mom in 07 when I was 20yo and I’m 33 still hadn’t figured it out

Teresa Sisson , that is so true. Funny how as humans, we avoid all the hard conversations with our loved ones. But, it’s all part of life, and avoidance only causes misery. 👍♥️

That is the truest statement I have ever heard..... I lost both of my parents and my brother, sister and I are so so so lost without them..... My mom passed in 2006 of brain cancer at the age of 53 and my father passed 2017 of a hemorrhagic stroke at the age of 66.... We were such a close family.... It hurts so bad..... I miss them so much....

Hi Sarah I hope your doing well :)

I’m so sorry you had to watch your mother die in your arms. I can only imagine how loved she felt when she left this world. ❤

Thank you for sharing your journey through your Mother's illness and how hard it is to lose them. Your father is an amazing,kind loving man...this is a beautiful testament to her.

Thank you for sharing. I'm in tears.

Thank you. I lost my mother to this same thing. This was like a flashback to all the things i have seen and felt. Now i see more clearly what was my mothers behavior and what was the disease part of action. It was hard to understand when there was no other case to relate to. We dont talk about this much in finland. I have some desire in my heart im going to speak about this some day and tell the journey. When I feel better. I feel like the pain and my mothers pain is stuck in me but i hope it will settle some day.

Thank you for sharing something so personal. The love shines through.

CraigOfilm Thankyou for your sharing your dearest Mum's story. Such a strong woman with a wonderful husband and two loving son's. 💗 I lost my precious Mam to this evil illness. A brain tumour the size of a grapefruit before we found out what was wrong with her. 😢 14 year's on, on the 24th of this month. Her passing was awful and part of me went with her that terrible morning. My heart is broken. 😢💔 My love to your Dad and you both and of course the rest of your family. With love from me in Scotland. 💗

It's also such a surreal feeling, as your mind tries to slowly process what has just happened. I thought it was very normal for them to act that way. It hadn't "sunk in" yet.

Yes that's how I felt when my mom passed.,no more pain,,,and going home to her Maker

God bless you I lost four family members to cancer in last 17 yrs god bless u again

Exactly and instead of dying sudden and unexpected they had time to prepare for that(as much as one can prepare), in a sense they knew it was coming but there is always hope even if only a little bit, just because we can't see their emotion does not mean that they are not devastated. Of course they are not happy however the relief it gave them to know she no longer had to suffer and they no longer had to watch her suffer and not be able to do anything about it as she was no longer living but existing.

I totally relate

Yes, should be a choice, but then a person could just go into the woods at twenty below, just like the old dogs do😢

* Miss Luca * she had 2 wonderful sons.

She *endured*. What other choice did she have??? Heartbreaking.

Gloria Mary Haywood yes she went through hell. And the noise of that motorway must have been horrific and lack of palliative care.

Yes she did! And she was sweet as pie, so heartbreaking!

@@01chittock thank you it was horrible

Andrea Huff yes Jane did. But there was one thing wrong with it she didn’t read the bible enough although I think she tried to look into other options. And then was dismissed. God put all plants for every cure. And cannabis cures cancer with the right diet. People put their trust in the thugs in suits of big pharmaceuticals. Chemo and radiation causes more cancer. There are cures out there. Just follow the money and you will see when the dots all join together. The 13 trillion dollar killer profit machine.

Andrea Huff )

@@01chittock You are a wretched woman who has no clue what your talking about. How dare you say she didn't trust in the bible enough. Did you know her? Do you know her family? You should have just kept your stupid delusional comments to yourself.

@@01chittock oh wow I cant believe you said she didn't read the Bible enough....tht dnt make sense what abt kids and babies tht dies babies can't read...the mind state we in its sad

Exactly pepole we really love deserved to be grieved a little ever day ......she is definitely love u from somewhere upthere

Wow, I’m a widow and this blew me away….so incredibly stated. Bless you beloved. ♥️

I'm sorry GOD bless you ❤❤❤❤

I am reading your comment here from Germany. I absolutely agree with your opinion. We grant our animals to die with dignity, but humans have to go through such terrible ordeal. I live here in Germany,, and also here it‘s Hard to be granted physically assissted dying. Hopefully this is going to change soon. Praying for politicians who are really human beings in creating new laws and no longer robots in human disguise. Greetings from Germany.

She was also getting tube feeding and oxygen and nebulizers which extended her suffering and dying process. Best to you. I wish I lived in a state where that was allowed. I am a hospice nurse and I support everyone's choice to leave on their own terms when dealing with a terminal illness.

​@@Fiona-sg9whyou are a nurse, keeping people comfortable should not mean encouraging them to take their lives when they did not decide to be conceive and birthed. Don't push to suicide, whatever you call it. Pain and joy, happiness and suffering by yourself or by family members are part of Life. Thx.

@@Joliebebe2001❤❤❤ you clearly don’t understand her comment

@@Boricua..4 i hope i misunderstood her " I am a nurse I support everyone's choice to leave ON THEIR OWN TERMS...". Death with dignity allows a person to end their life by taking a death pill. She wishes to live in a state like that.. so i put 2 and 2 together... I can understand not supporting Therapeutic obstinacy which doesn t help but not supporting suicide either. Thank you ❤️

That’s the moment I lost it and never got it back. Beautifully hard.

I'm so sorry for your loss Cassie💔🙏

GOD BLESS YOU CASSIE MAY GOD SEND YOU PEACE AND COMFORT, Very tragic esp at a age you need her the most

Same 😢

You sound like a very sweet and caring person. So sorry about your mom, but I do believe she knows what an awesome person you are. Many blessings. ❤❤❤

Reading your words on New Years Eve 23 and hope this love finds you❤... your beloved Mum❤ is still very present in this world Cassie and I am thinking of you both (((❤)))

I agree some might say it looks as if you are detached but you have to be brave in a situation like this, i went through a similar process with my grandmother about 5 years ago and had to stay positive and act like things were normal for her sake.

@@tiaancloete7301 and you are a better person for not bringing your negative emotions to a dying person.😘

Soraya Nasser Love it. ❤❤❤❤

ABSOLUTELY!❤️

What really are some people saying that? No one would put such an effekt to make a beautiful film about their mother if they didn't love their mother very much, not everyone shows their emotions in the same way, maybe they wanted to be strong for her.

I'm so sorry. Can I ask if they were feeding her and giving oxygen?

Thank you Neny! It's true, my parents weren't always smiling and laughing, but there love was strong. And the way my Dad instantly stepped up to take care of my Mom when she got sick says so much about him.

Neny Lily Ching she was not old she looked much older than she was she died at 58 which isn't old

I was a widow at 38. My family, my friends and colleagues would tell me, “Your marriage is the exception, not the rule!” I’d just laugh and say, “I know! I have an exceptional partner!” It is a mercy, a gift that we can not see the future. When we learned he was dying, hospice was just getting started in this remote, geographically huge area and to further complicate the situation, he was finally diagnosed at a major medical center out of state. Little did I know getting him home was just the beginning of the journey. I cared for him until he died. It was an honor, a privilege and the fulfillment of those words I spoke on another day-the happiest of my life-in another October, “In sickness and in health, till death do we part.” The last words he spoke to me were, “TW, you *are* the love of my life.” He slipped into a coma and died at sunrise the next morning. That was decades ago. No one speaks his name anymore. Even though I am now old and grey, I still do-every day. It seems sometimes the older I get, the less I understand but this I do know: Love really never does end. I have been such a fortunate woman and I remain so deeply grateful for one last opportunity to say “And you *are* the love of mine.” The pain of his death has been worth every moment of our lives together: I think it is the price we pay for having loved and been loved so very, very well.

I admire couples who stay together for that long because they want to, not because the alternative isn't any better.

Menu, Jane was diagnosed at age 58. That’s not old.

AMEN ❤❤❤❤ l Agree and she's in heaven ❤❤❤❤

Me too. My mom died in my arms of a awful cancer!! I miss my mom every day!!

Same here

Same here; my mom was diagnosed on May 17, 2020, of pancreatic cancer that spread to her lungs; she died on June 2, 2020. We didn't even know she was sick. Worst yet, she was in the hospital for weeks during Covid19 and we couldn't be with her; I am devastated!

leanlola Grayson ❤❤❤❤

That's how marriage is suppose to be, I love it.

Where was her mom?,??,

Crissy Mohr her mom was in the video. Idiot

She shouldn't have had to.

Kelli Mckinley if you enjoyed this one , you can google dying grace it's good as well. Sad but good , I just lost my mom 3 months ago of lung cancer , and my dad 1 year ago of stomach cancer. I was diagnosed with intestinal cancer about six weeks ago, I hope to draw strength from these videos, and go through this with with a smile on my face. 😊

Billie Rowe take care God bless you must be so strong

Billie, sending you love and strength. Know that there are people out there rooting for you. Cancer can be beaten. I've known people who have. And thank you for watching the film. My Mom is one of the strongest, most amazing people I've ever known... hopefully some of her love and strength will leap through the screen and into you.

Thank you so much Kelli. That means a lot for you to share that. I'm glad my Mom was able to touch you too.

Billie Rowe please...try the best you can to keep your spirit high....send you love...

I hated seeing her suffer and the pain it brought to Bob and her sweet boys just made me weep

Same. I don’t have a family like this either.

I was relieved too. My dad suffered from stroke for years. Getting to the end of his life, he had a final stroke which made him bed ridden for 8 days and even though I cried that night for our loss, it was also knowing it had all ended for him. The shame brought by stroke is something I will not wish on anyone. It takes away your diginity. No loved one should go through this. Thanks for sharing your journey with her with us. Bless you and the family.

No. It wasn't beautifully done. It was horrific. The family was so bloody consumed with themselves they couldn't/wouldn't see the horrible condition she was in. I've said it to several people on these comments. The trip. The wedding. She was CLEARLY suffering. It was a long, drawn out, horrible death. Her hypocopic imbeciles of a family would not let her go. Loud. Obnoxious. Fucking bellowing out gd christmas carols like fools while she's actively dying. Not holding her hand, quietly talking with her, saying the goodbyes they should have said weeks before. Dancing and bellowing songs. Bloody selfish imbeciles. She had a horrible death.

@@ShogoMakishimaxx I don't either

me too Rachel it broke my heart

Incredibly sad...

Hopefully I have love like this in my life.

So hard.

@@dixiedarlin1897 Too much.

Oh beloved, I lost my 43 year old fiancé to the same thing. It’ll be 4 years in April…today is his birthday. I’m so sorry. I’ll toast to them both tonight. Much love and peace to you 🤍🕊️✨

Most doctors won't abide by it...they will keep you alive by hell or by crook, no matter WHAT your suffering is like.

Some people wait for God to take them.

Or live in a state that lets you chose when you want to leave. This is way to much suffering.

My husband passed quickly at the end and it was peaceful. I am so thankful he did not suffer a prolonged death as this woman did. He had cancer for 7 years and was brave to the end but I personally could not have watched him linger as this woman did and I pray my children would never let me linger like this woman did.

great son....but didn't know how to give her her physical needs....

Evy Courtney yea but he tried thats good enough.

Jaci Bledsoe i lost my dad of the same in 2016 such a sad day.

I'm sorry. No matter what, there is always a void. My heart can't know exactly how you feel but I can and do empathize. Prayers....

I just lost my mom days before Christmas 2022. Pancreatic cancer took her. It’s so hard. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. It’s devastating.

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@@zombiemom6701 🙏❤️

Dr. Kovorkian was what was needed here.

I know what you're going through, it's a very difficult time for everyone. Best wishes as you care for your mum, hope things go as easily as they can. ❤️

Soo nobody was with her???????I'm sick!!!!!

Being on hospice I’m wondering why the didn’t give her more pain relief. 😢

There are alternatives, not sure in the USA but in Europe.

Yes we have Medical Aid and dying physician-assisted dying here in America ​@@sarahmottram3369

I hope I will never suffer that long in that way. I never want my daughter to see me in this state. I’d rather like to be put in a coma. She was aware of this distress. I lost my husband and they gave him something in an IV to relax. I worked as Nurse as well and I don’t understand why it took so long to suction her ? Poor Jane, but she is in peace now, in the arms of Jesus

Yep they completely ignored the end of life path way as they wanted her to die a natural death which there is no need x

Thank you, that means a lot.

@@CraigOfilm How is your father doing? I keep him in my prayers.

I do think of the happy times with her. Still do. She's amazing. And I'm so glad we get to see her in full spirits at the beginning. Thank you for watching.

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@@gwenthames4553 what in the world are u saying in this text ?

@@gwenthames4553, What are you saying?

Who are "Mom and Dad"; his parents?

@@Skeptigal1 ya I assume so. Her mom was there and looked very strong.

Put some ashes in small containers for was family member to enjoy. ❤🌹

I have seen death and this lady was kept far to lucid. She was suffering she wasn’t going to get better. But one does not try and prolong a death by feeding. Jane should have been put on a drive far quicker. Like you said you wasn’t around until your grandmother died. But all the people I know who have been by the sides of their loved ones who have died from cancer would have seen this and been horrified. And been left as it was obvious Jane was going very soon. But yes there is always a part of we didn’t see it all. Brain cancer can be one of the worse due to the damage radiation therapy does. It basically cooks the brain turning it into mush. I wished Jane had more pain relief and had been put on the drive sooner. Just my opinion due to the fact no one really knows how bad it must have been. Just glad she was sedated at the end. There are better ways to go than this.

@@01chittock the better way to go than this is to find a cure. Her family did the best they could do and they loved her until the end which i thought was comforting. We all have to go some way and everyone knows it's not naturally happening like in a fairytail story. Death is death.

Crusae There are cures and when it all comes out I’m not sure what the masses will do. Anyone who has seen and smelled cancer will want to heads to roll. To watch anyone die from cancer is dame right beyond evil when some of us know this is man made. Just like AIDS!

@@Crusae they will never find a cure. Hate to say it, but you know how much money is in the cancer treatments in the world's medicine? 😞

@@01chittock yes there are cures for cancer but that depends on where the cancer is and the type of cancer and how soon it's detected. Also times when people particularly loved ones are dying of cancer and AIDS no matter how distressing it is seeing them die, it's very important that we be by their side making the most of the time we have left with them.

Thank you lost my grandmother when I was 12 to lung cancer. R.l.P to everyone who had died from Cancer.

Your dad was lucky he only had a month to deal with it all. Trully blessed...

@@jasminekoidhis2893 lol

Lisa so did mine. My precious Mam passed in 2004. I am still having nightmares of that morning. Stay safe and take care. 💗⚘🕊 Such a cruel disease. 😔

@@davinastanton3865 Thank you so much for your kind words. I will pray for peace and comfort for you.

Thank you for your comment and for watching

​@@CraigOfilmje suis française. Très touchée par ce reportage cependant je ne comprends pas la langue 😮

Another Bear out there..🤔 it's actually spelled BAER! 🙂

Momma-Bear 1984, well said! I couldn't have said it more perfectly myself

That was very odd! And the first time she visited, she sat far away in a chair saying "hi" instead of being close to her daughter. Maybe that's why Jane was so close to her in-laws!

​@@skeptigal2785pareil. Elle semblait pas attristée, ni câliné avec elle .Pas une larme .bizarre

Jedi Mind Just wished she hadn’t been alone. The breathing is the biggest tell tell and if anyone has seen how a good death can be. I just felt that Jane didn’t stand a chance.

On the other side is a beautiful world I am a near death experience I seen that world I had been in that world I have been in the presence of our lord that world is so wonderful what you see in the beginning when you enter death you will come out of your body di.you will see the white light that white light is a present of our lord you will feel a pearl and a ono of love of you will go to him he will form a beautiful plasma tunnel you will go through that tunnel you will see people going through that tunnel and you will see people that is coming to Earth to be born that channel is beautiful you will go fast millions miles per second and you will follow the light into that other world with is beautiful it's a copy of the earth but 1000 times more better

My dear friend you will see your mum again when she's with a relatives who's gone before us into that other world and also she was still be around you

My dear friend she will see many things yes Angels loved ones she will even see that other world that's that's fine Vale between this world and the next will raise and that world you see you will just not believe it is everything you want everything that you can wish for or it is paradise just like the lord said but he's not told you everything he did say he did say there is a surprise for you the beauty and the colour that is there even Jesus knew where he was going when he was nailed on that Cross he was going home ma to his heavenly father amen god be with you all you are passing away today in passing away tomorrow

Stop trying to keep her alive if you want to do with some help put a pillow over her face she is suffering you put down animals and send animals to the Slaughter race send her own mother she's in pain and she is stressed you humans are stupid you are stupid people sorry for what I say but it makes me really cross

@Jude Dimatteo Wtf is wrong w u

your so right ,there was no dignity in her passing,,her pain went on to long

Donald J Trump they use to do it......but greedy ass family’s started suing to make a quick buck because doctors did the right thing and give enough morphine to put them into a coma. This women suffered far to much. They didn’t even have a bed pan in the room. The whole thing was shocking. That hospice must be a complete joke.

Totally agree. You wouldn't want or let a pet suffer like this but it's ok for a human to have a prolonged death. She definitely should have been helped to pass over

way too much....and was moved around way too much...and forced to eat....omg it was so upsetting

I didn't mention.. my birthday is 8-24 and when I had children, my first born son was born 8-19. I know it's not the "same" day, but it's close. I do think of your sweet mom and your family all these years later. 😊

mommyof3redheadsand1brunette ! Sorry for your loss ❤! I agree with you so much. Amazing family with so much love for eshother. 💞💕❣

NORTH Line thank you!

NORTH Line

Thank you so much for watching and sharing. In truth, I haven't watched my film in years. But think of my mom every day. And she has been reaching out to me in all sorts of interesting ways in the last few weeks. If you tune in, you might realize your Dad is reaching out to you as well, to let you know you are loved and he's watching out for you.

Heart wrenching :(

I hope they are too :) Thank you for watching.

Thank you Boo. I do think they know. There's a story I found out about at a festival screening of the film, where my brother's best friend told me how he finally went and visited her on what turned out to be her last night. I truly think she was waiting for his visit so she could say goodbye to her "3rd son" as she called him... It's one of those things where we think that just because someone can't communicate or respond in the way that seems "normal", doesn't mean that they are not present and aware in their own ways.

Meanwhile millions and millions of children are dying around the world and especially in Africa because they lack the most basic, including medicines. Many writhe and suffer in pain until they are death. Compare that to this old woman who was pumped full of morphine on her ride to oblivion.

@@jimcricket285 😐

Jim Cricket that was lovely Jim, I do wonder what you are doing to help all those who suffer so. I would love to hear about your ministry of help.