Oh she started me crying when she talked about it. He seems like a sweet guy as well.

I must be evil, but the way she tells it made me laugh.

I needed subtitles for those 2.

@@peterpiper831 really??

@@OCEM2003 Not all words.

Yes his awesome !!! He seems like awesome company

I’m neither single nor a cheap date 😂

@@laurenmassey73 sadly she had no plans to see him again I think..

exactly

Especially knowing he has 10 kids

Well, if you're concerned about finances for children then don't date. His whole demeanor changed in a moment. It was a red flag.

Wow , well said spot on 👏👏👏

maybe he should stop leaving it in

I think it should be discussed from the start, that way the bill is out of the way.

I felt like that was a bit scabby of her, quickly changing the subject too! Sneaky. I couldn’t not offer to even split it, I would feel embarrassed. Oh dear. Some people.

Well, guys who are anti- feminism wouldn't agree with you. Maybe she was just old-fashioned 2😁👌

Yesss I love the way you put this. I feel the same about the show the undateables when there are moments that just melt my heart to soup. I've never even seen a full episode of either show but thank goodness for yt clip compilations

He should have known that he might have to pay for the meal, it’s not rocket science !!?😂

@@marthastrayton not in my opinion and it's the principle, I mean she's not a bloody child no matter how much she acts like one.

Martha: agreed, like does he think that giving a sob story about your kids and not having disposable $$ is gonna make a lady want to keep getting to know him? And he wasn’t even embarrassed about not wanting to pay, like what do you expect when you are on a DATE at a nice place, with a woman who seems very pleasant and put together

Good to see a woman that thinks wisely. Unlike the gold digging types all over the comment sections looking down on the guy just because he wanted her to contribute.

Yep correct agree!!!!!!! Well said

Absolutely agree with you

Funnily enough, she looks exactly like the type of person that would lecture with rants about feminism and equal rights, but then she goes and behaves in such a disgustingly old fashioned self deprecating misogynist way by acting like she is incapable of paying her equal share. Pathetic!

Princess Pumpkin whoever asks the other out should pay. This is obviously a different thing so it’s just normal to offer to go dutch of course.

Especially since she clearly had no intention of seeing him again. Ugh! Gross woman

I'm 💯 agree with you that is what me and Friends do all the time one time I remember I guy asked me out and when we finished he just stands up and left that was my first and last date I have ever been in my life🤷‍♀️😑

I agree! I don’t even like dinner as a first date because it’s just you guys trying to talk to each other with a mouth full of food and it’s so... awkward. I’d prefer an evening coffee/tea date but that’s just me

@Nenethegreat W that's not the point, she knows that he might be struggling financially and she could pay half because she does not want to see him again. She was already turned off that he had 10 kids you could tell when she went to the lavatory and told her friend on the phone, inferring that she thought that's unattractive to date a man with that many kids. The point is, she should at least offer and pay her half since she doesn't even want to see him again. She just wants special treatment and is a total noncompassionate person. She's not a high value woman, it's obvious how she treats people!

@@billDgundam817DFW then he shouldn’t be out dating looking to get another person knocked up.

@@gripitl6878 Who said he was out trying to knock up another woman? What if he genuinely is looking for companionship?

@J H is there a law that says a man with 10 kids or any amount of kids is not allowed to look for companionship?

What, offer a pity payment! He chose to have 10 kids!

Probably he was to cheap to pay for protection to not to get his wife pregnant. It's crazy to have 10 children if he can not afford it. It's definitely something wrong with him. His date definitely was not interested to rise his children specially seeing him getting upset for paying the bill. He is looking for free cook, cleaner, babysitter and sex godes at night for himself to make more kids with her.

Honestly, could you think of ANYTHING more rewarding & fulfilling to do with your time or money than raise a family? I honestly don't know what 'freedom' people are after.

Thanks for the welfare state

Legend!! LOL

The bartender must be psychic, cause she most certainly screwed that poor bloke!

🤣🤣🤣yep dat what i said

🤣😂🤣😂

We live in Australia and we even watch EastEnders ,,,,laughed straight away exactly

He’s Sickly sweet isn’t he. And that voice OMG!🙄

And you could see she tried so hard to avoid paying it. She saw how he gave her an opportunity to offer and she avoided it by all means. I'm so disappointed

Such a selfish and entitled woman...he deserves much better than her...hope he decided not to meet her again. At least she sowed her true colours on TV, gentlemen stay away of this inconsiderate woman. I wonder why the video asking to meet each other didn’t show at the end.

🤣🤣🤣its phil mitchell

She'd be in the reject pile, anyway. It was rotten of her - but I guess he could look at it as a fee to have her heart and personal morals tested. Far cheaper and better not to waste any more time on her.

It's staged.

How the 2 daters react to paying the bill is part of the storyline. It can say a lot about a person.

Both daters get a stipend but rarely stay within their budget, plus it’s an expensive restaurant. It’s true though: they should pay for the daters’ meals, but i guess it’s interesting to see how they deal with getting that check.

How has this comment so many likes :( it’s an important part to see the person + it be this way if they want on a date without the show... lol

Yes where's the extra sides I was thinking the same, or something lol

Thank you… couldn’t agree more. He has no shame in trying to be cheap, he is clueless about dating, like does he think that attempting to brag about how he has to be a dad (his choice) and no dating $$ is gonna make a nice woman want to keep seeing him?? Hope she finds a gentleman someday

Thats a great one cause you automatically tell her that you want to see/know more of her

Agreed! It’s shocking to me that people think she should pay half on a first date?!? I don’t know any decent men who would even question not paying (on a first date at least when trying to impress)

Agreed! Felt bad for the very pleasant woman for the way he tried guilting her into paying, glad she didn’t.

Jojo Bee This situation should be dutch, but in real life, the one who asked the other out should pay. It’s decent to offer but they should still pay.

@@llddau but why

XJokermanX Because it’s just the right thing to do “Can I take you out?” means that. Even “Do you want to go for dinner?” means the same thing, when it is obviously a date it is different to saying it to a mate.

@@llddau ye true

The man with the 10 kids, yes there's lots of information out there and he could have made it clear at the beginning. He's also on a date, so he would know there's going to be money spent. It's interesting how people love to pretend that every woman is a feminist. Which is an absolute lie. Beware of the men that promote this propaganda as if it's all women. I guess father of 10 so much about equality that his ex- wife gave birth to 5 of the children & he gave birth to 5 of the children. Maybe they should have given a care to how many children that they can afford. You could also see him himself up a little bit about having 10 children and he was condescending towards her about having one. As if he's the one who gave birth to all of them. Of course that doesn't mean that he's not a good father. Instead of a first date dinner, then how about a first date coffee/tea. To see if you even like someone enough to buy them dinner. Even for a Dutch dinner maybe no one wants to spend time with someone they only kind of sort of like. The daytime coffee/tea date will also the guy to communicate that he wants her to pay for the whole meal or to go Dutch. And if she's not okay with that she has the right to decline. This will help him find the right lady for him with very little money spent. That being said he at least knows that this isn't the woman for him. And maybe next time he can clarify what he wants. So he wants a woman who will pay her own way, and a woman who will take care of his children.

:/ i think she was really brave and vulnerable in sharing her story

Yes. So common on here. First dates should never be therapy sessions.

First dates should exactly be therapy (somewhat). There is a real bond to be made when two people open themselves up and can communicate and help each other on things they normally keep hidden. It can make for a very deep connection even at the beginning of a relationship. If he had wanted a shallow smash then he would have used tinder and not a show meant for long-term dating.

Exactly! And yet it's patriarchy 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️ some of these responses are disgusting, really ASHAMED of these women. Did you miss the part where his wife cheated on him?? As if he just chose to be alone with 10 kids! And he's taking great care of them, he's clearly a loving father and a great person. I hope none of these female supremacists breed EVER, their poor children would suffer from such narcissistic parenting.

@@EasyMac813 - Well said 👏👏👏❤️❤️ Beautifully put. Had this been some feckless father than ran away from his 10 kids, I bet the women in the comment section would have been more sympathetic. I applaud him because most cases men run from responsibility. This man has rolled up his sleeves and took care of his kids.

I think she maybe hearing impaired not completely deaf but it's similar to friends I have had that are

I saw she's got a hearing aid, so perhaps she is hearing impaired.

Stephen free is she hearing impaired, maybe was deaf now had an operation, or just has a speech impediment I wonder.

She revealed on the show that she has a hearing impairment and lip reads.

H A Oh I missed that! Makes sense now :)

Not the loudness it is the tone, the squarking and the hysterical reaction,that has nothing to do with hearing issues

Stephen free not true, many people who cannot hear themselves have a very distinct way of talking, not all the same but there is a particular sound, tone, enunciation, about it. Definitely.