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When the Dalai Lama first heard of self-hatred, he was confounded by it. I'll look at his encounter with Sharon Salzberg and other eminent scholars and scientists, and consider their thoughts about where low self esteem arises from. I'll then turn to four practices that came up in the Dalai Lama's dialogue to counter self-hatred.
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✅ Book:
The Dalai Lama, Healing Emotions -- amzn.to/3fLMahT
✅ Video mentioned:
The Buddha's Ten Recollections - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/otaleq56vKfJpJs.html
✅ Various descriptions of the Dalai Lama’s interaction with the idea of self-hatred:
www.sharonsalzberg.com/sit/
onbeing.org/blog/the-self-hatred-within-us/
jackkornfield.com/self-hatred/
www.readingistherapy.com/roots_of_self_esteem_dalai_lama/ (Includes long excerpts from their discussion).
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Francisco Varela photo courtesy Joan Halifax (Upaya) from Wikimedia Commons commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Francisco_Varela.jpg
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00:00 Intro
01:57 The text of the encounter with the Dalai Lama
04:05 Where and why do we find this self-hatred?
05:21 The US and low self-esteem
06:27 Tocqueville’s account of early America
09:56 Practices to reduce self-hatred: Brown’s cognitive therapy
15:11 Salzberg on ethical living
17:02 Kabat-Zinn’s mindfulness practice
19:15 Salzberg and the Dalai Lama on metta
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