The Dark Side of Reality Shows: Manipulation, Drama, and Deception

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Hey Besties! We’re finally done with the love month where we sat down with known personalities and influencers in the dating and relationship realm as they shared tips, guides, and signs to look out for with your next partner.
Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome model, content creator, businesswoman, and reality TV show Francesca Farago. Violetta and Francesca bares all by talking about Francesca’s truth and how she was portrayed as the ‘villain’, the conflicting relationships that stirred negative reactions from the viewers, and what really happened behind-the-scenes of the hit TV show Too Hot to Handle. More tea is about to spill to stay tuned to find out more!
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What to Listen For:
00:00 Intro
01:32 Are reality shows heavily edited?
02:27 On and off relationship
05:20 Mental health issues in reality shows
06:45 What are commonly asked questions?
09:17 Why was I lied to?
11:17 The secret big player on the show
16:24 Relationship with Dom
27:41 What’s one thing you wish you didn’t do on the show?
30:12 “I thought we were on better terms…”
32:25 I used to drink heavily
35:21 The Kissing Challenge
36:56 Too much honesty can be negative sometimes
40:31 What's up with Damian?
42:28 Watching you and your ex
45:12 It wasn’t just for me
51:47 Taking care of your mental health
54:37 Are you friends now?
59:46 “I’m actually really nice.”
01:01:03 What are you currently working on?
Connect with Francesca on:
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/ @francesca.farago
/ francescafarago
faragothelabel.com/
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@daddyissues Жыл бұрын

FOR ANYONE CONFUSED 🥰 THIS IS NORMALLY A MENTAL HEALTH PODCAST. Everything I discuss is from reading books and research written by professionals. I am doing my best to show everyone’s side. I never sit and attack anyone. I hope the people watching this would take the time to listen to some of my solo episodes, I promise you will benefit greatly from them. This podcast is to help you become your best self!!! I have Frankie on because we’re friends and old roommates and she asked to show her side. 🫶🏼🤍

@jacee877 Жыл бұрын

It's okay babes 😘 we all human and a work in progress. So you know you good gorgeous 🙂 .......And you got some cool realistic fans, who calls a spade a spade and not beat around the Bush. But it's all good 👍🏽

@jacee877 Жыл бұрын

@@SuperCuttie2011 let it rest bruh 😴

@miracleadiakpan6093 Жыл бұрын

You can use your knowledge on psych to try and understand people’s behavior but the way you approached the topic, you were discussing things like it’s a fact. and you are not being as kind as you think you are towards dom ngl calling him clingy etc justifying Fran’s actions.

@blackice3661 Жыл бұрын

I have no hate for Frankie bc I think we as humans are a working progress and never reach the moment where we can achieve perfection. But I’ll be honest with you, I got REALLY BAD VIBES from Frankie watching the show. She literally uses ppl and the moment they are with someone else (Dom being with Georgia) she can’t handle it because she has to be in control, she has to be the TOP FEMALE who “gets” all the guys. Frankie, you are not every guy’s #1 priority.

@blackice3661 Жыл бұрын

Frankie, your intro in Perfect Match was also really condescending. Not sure if that was also “bad editing”. Just really bad vibes or like what Dom said “red flags” from watching you.

@gabbyc3975 Жыл бұрын

I don’t think Dom saying he loves Francesca is a result of family issues and a “parent rejecting him in the past,” I think that’s really inappropriate for you to say. Unless he personally told you this fact you shouldn’t have the right to air something out like that. Also not sure if you’re a psychologist but going straight to those conclusions is something no professional psychologist or coach would do. Dom could have been scared to leave and said it to Francesca for her to match with him that night to not get kicked but again that’s an assumption…

@aloof8429 Жыл бұрын

exactly sooooo it seems like we’re all making assumptions. including you. not that serious. the host is entitled to interpret the situation based on her own life experiences / knowledge

@gabbyc3975 Жыл бұрын

@@aloof8429 she can mention her own life experiences but it’s 1000% wrong for her to say these things about someone she doesn’t know and her backup is that she’s gone through it with exes- so his “parents rejecting him” is an extremely inappropriate comment to make especially if it’s not the case. If that’s his story he should be the one saying it not her guessing this is true. Also unfortunately ppl can clip this part of the vid and a bunch of people on social media can believe something now that may be false. My assumption has nothing to do about his past and personal life and trauma the host accused him of having.

@jacee877 Жыл бұрын

Damn yall comments keeps getting better☺ Francesca should rest, everything she keeps saying makes the incident look more bad for her. Homeboy Dom, knew the show was called perfect match and played his role to keep tight what he thought was his match. How is that a crazy and boring thing to do? I hope the whole incident don't turn him into one of these heartless dudes. Cause Dom is sweet and very passionate about love ❤ We need guys like that.

@sweetembrace6706 Жыл бұрын

attachment theory is one single google search away. stop embarrassing yourself.

@Yeodoongiiie Жыл бұрын

1000! %

@wheathusk2499 Жыл бұрын

Francesca is not the person to discuss someone's mental health except her own.

@aSHYNEscion Жыл бұрын

You don’t know for sure that Dom has struggles stemming from his parents. That’s something that was never mentioned in the show. And yes, while attachment disorders do typically stem from parents and upbringing, we also have absolutely no evidence that Dom is experiencing any of this. Is it a possibility? Sure. And based on the crying and “I love you”, I can see how the host arrived at anxious attachment style. But viewing everything through an attachment lens without a full client assessment is negligent. And since this is reality tv, and Dom is not a client, it does not make sense to make definitive statements that Dom’s actions stem from childhood neglect and/or trauma. And EVEN IF that was a disclosure that someone received FROM Dom, I’m not sure how I feel about that being public on this podcast, if Dom did not consent to it, considering the host is a life coach which also creates a power dynamic. I also recognize that life coaches do not have a governing body, but I am sure there are ethics that life coaches have to abide by, like in any helping profession. I feel like there’s a lot of grey area here, and if there is a way to edit that bit out, it may make sense to do so.

@KelsyGmz Жыл бұрын

Diagnosing someone that you don’t know is crazy

@kayokaylol Жыл бұрын

Right… Diagnosing someone based on what you see on a reality show is crazy

@sweetembrace6706 Жыл бұрын

what was diagnosed?

@kayokaylol Жыл бұрын

@@sweetembrace6706 attachment disorder

@daddyissues Жыл бұрын

@@kayokaylol attachments styles are not DIAGNOSES OR DISEASES. I can't with the comments im literally laughing out loud reading them.

@kayokaylol Жыл бұрын

@@daddyissues certainly no one said it was a disease 💀 attachment disorder exists. You acted like you knew Dom’s personal upbringing and exactly what caused him to be emotional on a reality show. That’s laughable.

@oraytasdurmaz8430 Жыл бұрын

im sorry, with all respect, but you shouldnt analyze people (like you were doing dom), in such a deterministic way when you are not a professional clinician, but a life coach...

@joymoor4342 Жыл бұрын

i absolutely agree, just types a comment but you worded this much better

@aloof8429 Жыл бұрын

it’s just speculation. we are allowed to make educated guesses without certifications. that’s the beauty of free choice and freedom of speech. you guys will find anyway to defend dom lol, get your head out of the gutter.

@swatithapa3222 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!! Its Basically that cancers are sensitive and they fall hard and fast, and they definitely express when they feel they want to

@kimd3423 Жыл бұрын

That was sooo out of line

@misscarebear1000 Жыл бұрын

Agreed! Totally assumptive of her to assume issues are related to his parents, how does she know? So wrong.

@kimkraus688 Жыл бұрын

Francesca “I think I was the only actual real and genuine person on the show” are you joking me??

@Roger5R Жыл бұрын

Delusional...

@alan5496 Жыл бұрын

that's actually a bad thing, she wasn't pleasant

@canefan17 Жыл бұрын

Lol

@ulllahayesha Жыл бұрын

i love how you say theres a double standard of men being praised for being emotional but multiple times you made dom sound weird for crying, this is why they rarely act emotional lol

@trippyeliz7944 Жыл бұрын

This!!! He’s a human. He felt what he felt.

@karleighhurt Жыл бұрын

dom was crying over francesca and saying he loved her after knowing her for a couple days. they were in the house for a month like that is irrational behavior.

@sweetembrace6706 Жыл бұрын

no actually its because of the patriarchy but very cool to blame women for things that existed 10 milennia before we were even born! :)

@sweetembrace6706 Жыл бұрын

also its very funny to pretend like women are ‘allowed’ to be emotional or being shamed for emotions is exclusive to men. women breathe and get called hysterical. bitchy. angry. just for not smiling. yall live in a fantasy world, genuinely.

@canefan17 Жыл бұрын

@@sweetembrace6706 women mostly get called that by other women. My girlfriends are far more critical of other women than I’ve ever been.

@theonlynatasha Жыл бұрын

Francesca hurt his feelings and basically said she gave him character development?😭😂😂nahhh the lack of accountability? Also her friend (podcast host) making all of those conclusions about Dom and his parents knowing absolutely nothing about his personal life is baffling especially when she’s not a practicing clinician, literally just projecting the whole time. Also them saying savanna only liked Dom cause he matched with fran is weird cause dom is attractive and not everything revolves around her not to mention the gaslighting she did with abbey about that kiss and then saying it was because she was new to her sexuality?💀 like I do think she has some redeeming qualities but the host was just trying to make it seem like fran was misunderstood when she was really not instead just not a good person at the time

@candysweet434 Жыл бұрын

it’s funny because she admits she’s projecting onto dom at 44:55

@claragaleati2988 Жыл бұрын

YESSS WHY IS NOBODY TALKINC ABOUT FRANCESCAS GASLIGHTING WITH ABBEY

@shianneallin9276 Жыл бұрын

Agreed!!!

@jacee877 Жыл бұрын

My goodness I don't even wanna watch the podcast after seeing yall comment's. Thanks guys for saving my time. I didn't even know this girl cares this much to talk about those incidents. That means she not that stony hearted girl after all, even though that's the vibe I got from her on the show.

@candysweet434 Жыл бұрын

@@jacee877 i would watch it anyway. the host does call out francesca on some stuff like the whole making out with kariselle thing, the host says she wouldn't like if someone did that either and also she calls her out on how she treated savannah.

@SameShirtDifferentDay Жыл бұрын

This was like watching a Jane Austen love letter between two women: one who is impressively fucked up and selfish and essentially nothing applies to her, and the other who is agreeable and elegant and tries to give her entitled friend the benefit of the doubt, thus enabling her further.

@oshing9 Жыл бұрын

Yep💯

@astralogique Жыл бұрын

Francesca has her flaws but I genuinely don't think she's thaaat horrible. I really believe Netflix used her and typecasted her as the villain; cuz there were a lot of other questionable people on that show as well that aren't receiving as much heat as Francesca LOL

@blairlindsly7952 11 ай бұрын

Thought she was awful

@kalinokada Жыл бұрын

You guys are so right about Nick for the 1 night. It is so awkward and it makes me sick to see how aggressive he was

@karleighhurt Жыл бұрын

this person is not diagnosing dom, she is explaining basic attachment style lmao everybody has one. and it has to do with the people who raised you

@daddyissues Жыл бұрын

FFS THANK YOU. It’s been painful reading the uneducated comments including from someone that claimed to be some type of therapist but clearly never opened a book about basic attachment styles 😖😖😖😖

@karleighhurt Жыл бұрын

@@daddyissues they are just itching for a reason to not like fran or anybody else that likes her 😭

@luisawarwick Жыл бұрын

Its wrong to publicly comment on him and his childhood then diagnosis it without even talking to him or knowing him.

@karleighhurt Жыл бұрын

@@luisawarwick it's not wrong to publicly comment on anyone that is on a public reality show, showcasing their personality and the way they form relationships with people for others entertainment. like that is why they go on the shows: for attention, so people will talk about them. get real

@luisawarwick Жыл бұрын

@@karleighhurt we can agree to disagree

@levlev25 Жыл бұрын

Nobody is a “villain” some people just really suck

@ashleyclayton997 Жыл бұрын

I love everything about this!!! Thank you for saying all of this!

@roxygory4286 Жыл бұрын

I just finished the last episodes, I couldn’t believe that NO ONE stayed together. But.. they definitely did you dirty.

@idefkatp Жыл бұрын

calling people shady lmfao when she acting like she didnt get pissed at sav for trying pursing dom then literally dump dom for someone else

@lela1464 Жыл бұрын

genuinely asking if you watched the whole podcast because she addressed that exact comment like twice lmfao

@AFFTFOMSICHTS Жыл бұрын

Dom gave me the ick when he told colony he would be ok being a stay at home dad while she was the breadwinner and kept praising her for being a strong independent BW. BW have been saying for years they are sick of that portrayal and narrative.

@briannacrawford2239 Жыл бұрын

The whole “black independent Queen” trope he played when he got set up on dates irked me so bad. The way he code switched and everything with them made me wanna punch him. I don’t know why woman were so obsessed with him. He just a walking red flag!!

@keemstar8007 Жыл бұрын

@@briannacrawford2239 Oh so for being a good husband material, want to take care if children, and hyping a women up to set her up on another date knowing he had new feelings for Georgia is now an “ick” and makes you want to punch him?! More like your personality itself is an ick. Oh look at me Im a women and want a dominant man who takes care of me. Literally, francesca is the one who is the biggest ick. So immature, jealous, and just a plain idiot who likes to manipulate others while being fake.

@tems__30 Жыл бұрын

The interview wasn't as unbiased as it should have been. But I guess its because they are friends.

@Quihisa Жыл бұрын

She clearly felt intimidated by Sav. She is definitely shady/fake. Lol

@luisawarwick Жыл бұрын

Wow. I would hate to meet you in real life or be a friend. You are analysing Dom and talking about childhood drama off of a highly edited tv show?? This aint it girl. So intense and rude to assume so many things and share it on a public platform without even talking to him. Smh

@sarahwilliams1086 Жыл бұрын

I’m not going to lie Francesca and Chase both made the show very entertaining.

@daddyissues Жыл бұрын

Agreed! I got bored when the Francesca drama was over

@Lovelyladykiss Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry for how they portrayed you on this show Frankie. I've been following you online for a while and the vibe I get from you doesn't match the way they made you look on the show. I felt something was off the entire time and to hear this side from you breaks my heart. Being strong and standing for your own opinion should be celebrated and not made to look like you're some sort of villain. In my eyes you are really kind, confident and beatiful! You are an inspiration to me , keep doing what your doing

@BradAaronTaylor Жыл бұрын

_"I noticed you aren't wearing a brace. Is your back okay from carrying the show?"_ I actually love this podcast 😂🤣

@daddyissues Жыл бұрын

hahah

@NinjaTae_ Жыл бұрын

These dating shows be so lame bro like imagine falling in love in a place where your isolated from the public thinking y’all relationship goin last when you leave the island 😂😂

@goldenhope1569 Жыл бұрын

I mean quite honestly the show would’ve been really boring if franscesca wasn’t there 😅 she was the best villain tbh and I dunno how they’re gonna make a season 2 without her. I wish Dom didn’t have to go through that pain though. But hey at least he’s stronger for it. Violet is a sweet friend, I did feel like she was a little bias about the Dom situation, but she clarified later that the reason she was a little hard on him was because she saw herself in him and was kinda giving herself advice about what was going on there. Anyways this interview was entertaining and way better than the Vial Files 😂

@brittanyjessee3600 Жыл бұрын

I felt bad for Fran because I could tell how uncomfortable the men made her… still a fan. Reality show only shows one side

@MariaGarcia-cx4ju Жыл бұрын

I think the whole Savannah thing was petty. She’s going on shows to discuss her time and how she felt from the treatment she got from Francesca. I definitely agree that no one should be bullied. It came off as a mean girl.

@whitneyyahh1 Жыл бұрын

Am I the only one who didn’t think Fran was portrayed as a villain? I really don’t think her edit was that bad. People are so baffled she left dom but they literally had no chemistry? I would have left to! She played the game!

@Yeodoongiiie Жыл бұрын

say what you will about her......... she was THE reason i tuned in every time 💕

@lizzyespo Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this though fran. It makes more sence and glad u regretted the convo with Savannah.

@jennyc5140 Жыл бұрын

We Stan Frankie always! Been following her since THTH and adore her so much. She’s incredibly goofy, genuine, complex and intuitive. Of course people are going to dislike her because of her complexities and honesty. They’ll gravitate toward someone who’s more cheerful and simple and also combat this interview saying she’s trying to “excuse” her behavior due to editing. She’s obviously taking accountability for certain things. It does surprise me how much hate people can have for someone they’ve never met. Be kind!!!

@JB-ln2nx Жыл бұрын

Francesca blinks so much oh my God I've never seen anyone blink so much

@solimeli02 Жыл бұрын

Talks about how reality shows affect mental health. Then proceeds to bash Savannah…. Odd

@sweetembrace6706 Жыл бұрын

this isnt a reality show, its a youtube video. hope that helps.

@oanajwho4561 Жыл бұрын

This is so true and facts!! Love this!!! Agree with everything..!!!!

@kayokaylol Жыл бұрын

The host of this podcast was projecting on dom HEAVILY.

@kayokaylol Жыл бұрын

I commented this before she literally said it lol

@sweetembrace6706 Жыл бұрын

yall learned the word projected and havent had a single critical thought since

@kayokaylol Жыл бұрын

@@sweetembrace6706 pointless comment.

@NurseParis Жыл бұрын

After watching the interview with Georgia I have to say this. I like Georgia and Fran BUT wow Francesca takes so much accountability and it’s truly admirable I almost feel like if Georgia just took accountability this whole thing wouldn’t even be a thing

@lunaramanda952 Жыл бұрын

Ill say I'm glad I watched this because I did think Francesca was the villain but this shed a different light on her my mind is changed ❤️ I also think Georgia and Harry are great together though sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with❤️❤️

@moonlitgemsco3733 Жыл бұрын

Honestly, you were right when you said we all watched both shows because of HER. I’ve never watched another season of Too Hot 😂

@emelliaharris8780 Жыл бұрын

Was going to try to do a video on how Fran was shown in a bad light... but this interview didn't serve her justice like yall thought...

@safiyahab7212 Жыл бұрын

The perfect match was so boring, I still love Francesca. She’s honestly so real. Maybe she has some toxic traits but we all do so whatever

@jacee877 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 Very funny comment Key word, toxic traits. That's all you needed to say, period 💯 😄😄 you smart

@joymoor4342 Жыл бұрын

I agree with what you’re saying about Dom and love bombing, but saying you know why Dom does what he does without truly knowing him is ehhh

@daddyissues Жыл бұрын

I do this for a living and read a lot about it. I was doing this to try to better understand him not to attack him. I can tell the people who are commenting this, have never listened to my actual podcast

@FLYLiNDS11 Жыл бұрын

I’m pretty intuitive … I don’t know these people personally, but to be honest with you, Dom seems like a simple minded man… der Der derrrrr vibes … Nothing against him… but that’s what we saw on TV… And the people villainizing Francesca are the simple minded people that would love to have a simple minded man. Georgia knew this and went for a ride knowing that she would be mom vibes and could control him easily … that’s why there was a forced chemistry with those two…..I also noticed he had kind of a cult following starting for him… Very interesting to watch this unfold… And why do I feel like Joey did not give a shit about karisell and was acting the whole time…. I knew he was playin 😂

@nika6384 Жыл бұрын

How can an interviewer call her "enemy no. 1" when the show was not out yet? 🤔

@soultaex8080 Жыл бұрын

yall can comment the part where she talks about people on the show but pass over the fact that they literally just explained how dangerous it is to leave hateful comments of any kind for people who have been exposed on mainstream platforms. Sickening fucking world. Do a fucking conscience examination.

@kayokaylol Жыл бұрын

Diamond? Homophobia? Is she saying that based on her personal experience or what was shown on love is blind? (Which was NOT homophobia) those are pretty serious accusations to put on someone’s character I wish she elaborated on that.

@SuperCuttie2011 Жыл бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking. She’s weird for that

@Ali-ru9vx Жыл бұрын

It is homophobic though. Not dating someone after finding out he’s bi is biphobia…

@kayokaylol Жыл бұрын

@@Ali-ru9vx no it’s not. But in this scenario, They were engaged and he never disclosed his sexuality. That’s a big deal to keep from your fiancée. If you watch the show that is not even why they broke up, it was his lack of communication skills when she wanted to talk about it. Can’t believe people really think like this

@robertar954 Жыл бұрын

@@asib69 i’ll say this in a nicest way STFU

@asib69 Жыл бұрын

@@robertar954 ok Robert

@moonlitgemsco3733 Жыл бұрын

There are so many comments about how you analyzed Dom, but I’m guessing those same people maybe didn’t get get to the part where you openly admit to projecting onto him. 🤷‍♀️

@caitlynchetty8830 Жыл бұрын

This entire podcast is you defending your friend. It’s biased and very very petty. You diagnosed Dom- which is SO uncalled for, you have no right to assume and or speak on someone’s trauma and neither does Francessca. Also, Francessca fails to realize that sticking herself to someone right from the beginning of the show is what she also did on too hot to handle. I used to love her and think she was so unapologetically herself now, she just comes across as the mean girl in teen movies who has nothing to offer other than her looks. Her coming on this podcast and speaking so ill of everyone in the show, bringing other women down and just overall attitude screams insecure 30 year old.

@faimwende Жыл бұрын

i couldn't have said it any better

@jackieuzamukunda3422 Жыл бұрын

Yeah she is wrong for that!!

@Vewyo Жыл бұрын

I know this comment will be deleted

@hikaliakiba8183 Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@berfin9454 Жыл бұрын

Agreee

@Shalyssabeth Жыл бұрын

Throughout the whole show I KNEW they were badly editing Frankie’s scenes. I still loved her while watching the whole show bc I know that reality show isn’t real. LOVE U FANCESCA ALWAYS 🤍

@ebruozoral4204 Жыл бұрын

I love her.I enjoy to watching her so no matter how her character is ,I will always watch her where she is in and which show she is filming

@karinapirela6213 Жыл бұрын

Dom has been having her back. He has defended her on IG

@Roger5R Жыл бұрын

The interview should not be taking sides, it's not that Professional but I suppose because they're friends that's what friends are for right. :)

@DaPunk99 Жыл бұрын

I don’t understand why is this woman being hated. This is a reality show where things are completely scripted and edited. These people were paid to act like this but to bash and bully someone in real life is really messy. Leave her alone guys. Hate can really mess up someone’s mental health. Just take the show for what it is - Entertainment and stop with hating Francesca.

@kinokodze Жыл бұрын

the comments are wild for people crying about it lol love Виолетта as always 🥰

@seraphinalewin8012 Жыл бұрын

THe little fluffs on benson's two piece is sending me. love this show tho!!!

@daddyissues Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 CAT HAIR FOR LYFE

@diyapillai7485 Жыл бұрын

please wtf is this, just because you “study” psychology, doesn’t mean you have the right to make false allegations against someone else and say his emotions stems from “parental abandonment” i’m so confused. like you went on a whole rant for no reason 😂

@dannasandoval9351 Жыл бұрын

I would have loved to see this interview without you picking a side and being more neutral. It feels like you did this interview just to clear Francesca's name instead of being honest

@isabellarp3303 Жыл бұрын

15:25 YES! Diamond passed me this vibe of homophobia since love is blind, when she dumped (i forgot his name, sorry), when he said he was bi. like??

@Go.Nathalie Жыл бұрын

She didn’t dump him for being bi. She dumped him for not disclosing such a vital piece of who he is, to her, someone he was going to marry.

@isabellarp3303 Жыл бұрын

@@Go.Nathalie okay but not everyone is ready to come out, don’t matter to who it is. I understand him completely, and I wish she was more understanding too

@BeautyBarbie011 Жыл бұрын

@@isabellarp3303 but the thing is you can not be homophobic and not want to date someone who is bi. Omg Ik , people have their preferences and we should respect them, like I want to marry a black man not a white man but does that make me racist? No

@vonvon333 Жыл бұрын

@@isabellarp3303 Not everyone want to date a bi person I personally have no problem with (I think it's hot 😆) but it doesn't make someone transphobic or against the community if they don't like that.

@kimkraus688 Жыл бұрын

@@Go.Nathalie thank youuuu!! I was like wait what’d I miss cause I remember diamond trying to sit and talk to that man child and then him started to yell and scream and call her a bitch and everyone is like she’s biphobic, like where? And then Fran who doesn’t know her shut your dumb ass up

@seachelsss Жыл бұрын

💛💛💛

@larissaborges7464 Жыл бұрын

The problem wasnt she not chose him. She Plays with your feelings, not be true

@cheyennewoonsam Жыл бұрын

This was great I love Fran from tiktok but wasn’t a fan of how she was portrayed I’m glad you gave her a chance to redeem I think this is the best podcast she’s been on post show!

@daddyissues Жыл бұрын

thank you!

@lindamam2641 4 ай бұрын

Violeta I absolutely love your podcast, you have a fan here from France ! I like how street smart, emotionally mature and yet silly you are. BUT I will say that this episode with Francesca was the only one which did disappoint - i don't think she matches what you represent... I don't personally know her but I'm quite sure there are a billion women out there that would inspire me more than she does...

@Kulu12345 Жыл бұрын

This podcast isnt biased at all lol

@missladynikka Жыл бұрын

I am not 100% sure about this, although I remember having conversations with a member from the Indigenous community, and she reminded me that using the word “savage” is offensive. That always stuck with me, and again I could be wrong, although I think it would be good practice to take that word out of your vocabulary.

@daddyissues Жыл бұрын

Respectfully STOP

@121broadwayGirl Жыл бұрын

Love Jessie for so long literally like 8 years and have loved Francesca since seeing her on too hot and even Love is Blind like always got your back girl I see you and great choice in a guy! 💕💕🕺

@sarissarizo Жыл бұрын

I feel the same way about Savanah, she gave off the vibes she doesn’t like Fran just because she was getting attention.

@mayyamihaylova1123 Жыл бұрын

Honestly, I get the personal relationship between the two of you, but …. If I knew that Francesca was your roommate, I would’ve skipped the episode of the podcast all together. You didn’t start well with the way you spoke about Savannah …

@fancygirlxo806 Жыл бұрын

also you guys are such cute friends like down to earth, honest & humble girlies here for the genuine vibes

@daddyissues Жыл бұрын

@maddiedumas-rd2bs Жыл бұрын

When someone says kill yourself or hurt yourself remember your giving them what they want you want them to feel not happy the best thing to do is stay alive that will make them not happy. Bc your not doing what there saying you think hurting or killing your self will make them guilty they etjier will fake that guilt or have it but not for years or even weeks or months a week if your lucky. Staying alive will make them unhappy bc your not giving them what they’re any and it tends to make them feel more guilty for ever saying it. So do not do what haters say ever.

@user-ye5qh4jg8y Жыл бұрын

can u stop psychologically examining dom and let francesca talk about her feelings about him and the relationship sheee had with him

@harrylederman1679 Жыл бұрын

She lies and doesn't say that she made out with Karosel right in front of Abby and Abby could not take that blatant demonstration of disrespect...... She lied in this interview and said that Abby went to bed however she did see Francesca kissing Karousel....... Diamond didn't have to tell Abby anything..... So when Violet says she understands Abby and why that would bother her Francesca just tried to make excuses and minimise the situation by saying they were playing birds spitting games with alcohol which was a continuation....... From what we saw of that episode Abby was looking on and it was a betrayal and nothing related to a game.... Francesca is just too selfish to emphasise with Abby

@Yeodoongiiie Жыл бұрын

Dom did not love her. it was just so weird when he said he did 😭

@seraphinalewin8012 Жыл бұрын

Frankie your followers know who you truly are. You care about animal wellness and started the first ethical swim wear brand. I really hope more influences used ethical production. Dont feel sad, at the end of the day, we ALL know how reality TV works, and nobody with any substance actually accounts a show like that as someone's entire personality. Keep doing what you're doing and #freeKiska

@rosex4207 Жыл бұрын

there’s so many diff sides w the georgia thing ,, idek who to believe at this point

@its_maya_hee Жыл бұрын

Glad Francesca called out Diamond’s homophobia. But you guys were wrong about Dom. it is normal for him to cry and I don’t think people would shame Francesca if the roles were reversed

@harrylederman1679 Жыл бұрын

George's stopped going out with Dom because she's going out with Harry jowsey..... And Francesca really hates this.... Because she really betrayed Georgia who was a good friend to her] after she got with Dom on that show because Francesco was going to let him go out of The Experiment completely..... After Georgia saves Dom Francesca spend the rest of her time trying to separate them and getting them kicked off

@kathleenwhitlow7820 Жыл бұрын

When were they roommates?

@harrylederman1679 Жыл бұрын

You could see the words coming out of francesca's mouth on on perfect match and she was talking s*** about Georgia so why is she denying it and saying it was just producers..... Francesca tried to spoil George's relationship at every opportunity...... And at this stage the interviewer threw her too many soft ball questions especially considering that Violet had watched all the show bar last episode

@ummeyibra2720 Жыл бұрын

Woman! A podcast is not supposed to be one sided! You're praising her views instead of being neutral! Modasuka

@sweetembrace6706 Жыл бұрын

where are yall pulling this definition of podcasts from? your ass?

@ummeyibra2720 Жыл бұрын

@@sweetembrace6706 no your butt crack!!

@aidenhesters9809 Жыл бұрын

You CAN NOT blame it all on editing. Like, if you’re “so real” TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY

@clarissaa900 Жыл бұрын

Francesca, you rock ❤

@KelsyGmz Жыл бұрын

But she was mad about Georgia and Dom too so I’m confused?

@jclyntoledo Жыл бұрын

No I don't think so I think she was more annoyed she had to keep seeing Dom's face and how he said he loved her but then it was obviously either a lie or he was downplaying his feelings to then say he was all in for Georgia 2 episodes later.

@daniellefeldhamer Жыл бұрын

Such a biased view of the show. Also diagnosing someone is just insane

@rhdyxn Жыл бұрын

i adore fran😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@aidenhesters9809 Жыл бұрын

Everybody knows that if you get together on any of these shows, it’s not going to last. We know this. You would be doing the same exact thing Fran just salty bc she didn’t win and Dom did. She can’t stand it.

@peonyflowers23 Жыл бұрын

Francesca is an awful person. For one she messed up Damien’s relationship and on perfect match she thought she was the queen bee and tried to control everyone and use them like pawns. She’s a psychopath.

@TheRebeccabonbon Жыл бұрын

I feel like everyone that has come down to watch this video already have a preconceived notion that Fran is a villain and should reprimanded for that. How is DOM becoming obsessed with her and throwing a fit at the thought of her leaving him not a red flag?!?! How is Georgia not getting any hate or being called out for her situation with Dom? How has everyone else gotten away with all the bullshit but FRAN has to answer people for her actions? And the whole SAV situation?!?! Girlll… GOOD ON FRAN FOR PUTTING SAv IN HER PLACE!!! She was OBSESSED with Fran…she wanted the word to go out SO MUCH that she herself kept repeating it -“ I’m glad to know Fran is threatened by me” blah blah. When DOM could be sooo upset with Fran… why couldn’t Fran be upset with someone else for trying to hit on her man?!?! Gtfo here… I’m not a Fran Stan at all. But this shit is too old now. Pick a villain and just go for em…& everyone else gets away unscathed!

@jclyntoledo Жыл бұрын

Idk if Dom was that obsessed but he definitely was very attached. I also don't think Francesa was that much of a villian.

@ramram88xehsa 11 ай бұрын

2 women talking about how difficult it is for women while trash talking other women

@fancygirlxo806 Жыл бұрын

ive actually always really liked francesca but when i was watching this show i thought yeah maybe she is a mean girl so that makes totally sense that it was all editing && yeah you were right about Georgia ... shady !!!!

@myrianthipatsika1726 Жыл бұрын

omg we get it you know fran well, how many times do u have to mention it

@shianneallin9276 Жыл бұрын

I just think she may be jelly of sav. I don’t like her nor sav but I got some jealous girl hate vibes… but this is a good podcast! I love Tea 🍵 lol

@kimkraus688 Жыл бұрын

Literally Sav hasn’t spoken about her since like the first week and here Franchesca is still running her mouth about sav, like she’s obsessed where?

@shianneallin9276 Жыл бұрын

@@kimkraus688 right?? She straight off the bat decided to attack her. I believe she is threatened by her for sure.

@MojenasWorld Жыл бұрын

I've always liked Frankie from jump on THTH. She's very honest about who she is. Perfect Match made her out to be a villain for sure but I feel like no one can top how annoying Nick, Bartise, and Savannah were to me. Bartise and Savannah were always crappy since their separate shows & Nick was always a cocky asshole. I just feel like Perfect Match was intentionally trying to paint her in a bad way.

@aidenhesters9809 Жыл бұрын

TEAM SAVANNAH idk her but I watched the show and the way Fran came at this girl bc Fran was so insecure is DISGUSTING. DEFINITELY NOT a girls girl.

@itsabi4788 Жыл бұрын

great podcast, but i think you should let the guests speak more

@Mindfuljourneywithme111 Жыл бұрын

Too hot to handle Germany is crazy! 😂 Love Francesca, so genuine ❤️

@christinak2443 Жыл бұрын

Love Frankie She’s so cute

@rhear292 Жыл бұрын

You yelled at Sav and treated him like your property ? You literally told him AND Damien not to talk to her ? Even if you hate Savannah you have no right to control someone you’re just talking to ? I love how V was all this is a list of red flags in Dom but totally excused your shady behaviour.

@aloof8429 Жыл бұрын

dear host, your opinions are valid. dom has a cult following and they will condemn you for making speculations, despite the speculations simply being YOUR opinion. thanks for this amazing interview sincerely, someone who sees through bullshit

@bellezaxglam9727 Жыл бұрын

no one is saying her opinions aren’t valid. however given this is a “mental health” podcast she should know better when it comes to stating her personal opinion on someone else’s behavior/mental health and remind the audience that she is not a professional.

@aloof8429 Жыл бұрын

@@bellezaxglam9727 she said it several times that she’s interpreting the situation based on her own perspective/experiences… i’m not sure if you missed that or if you’re just choosing to misunderstand