The Dating and Singleness Struggle for Men| Marriage Pressure, Sexual Purity, Marriage Prep

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Men also get the marriage pressure and go through so many dating and singleness challenges that Denis Mugume candidly shared to help women understand but most importantly to help men go through the single season as God intended.
0:00 - Intro
1:37 - Dating journey for men
2:34 - Dating fails
5:25 - Dating requirements
7:30 - Do men face society marriage pressure
10:48 - Sexual purity as a Man
15:00 - The joy of Singleness
16:50 - Self awareness as a Single man
19:36 - Finding the One
21:41 - How to Prepare Men better for Marriage
22:50 - The Dating model
25:08 - Why men struggle to participate in church activities
29:05 - The Good about being Single
32:39 - Advice to the singles
#lisakusiima #singleness #datingstruggles

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@brendaowomugisha4150 5 ай бұрын

"Your not going to be happy outside of God's holiness...."very true

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@kstephen88694 5 ай бұрын

As a single man the pressure is present I have a lot faced backlash from society People always point to the fact that am not yet a fully grown man because I haven't fathered a child. There have been moments and things haven't worked relationship wise. Meanwhile I see some men who leave behind single mothers and these people generally get away with it because they meet "society expectations". All the same I am not giving up yet . Thanks for the show

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Don’t give up🎉

@yvonnewinfreyug 5 ай бұрын

Its great you are not letting societal norms lead you otherwise, keep pushing on and thanks for sharing it here as a man.

@zindukakids 4 ай бұрын

Giving up isn't your thing I like the vibe keep thriving

@Kshanice25 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, ❤this is real in our society today even for the guys. Be focused on who you are and what you want and don't settle for anything less, it is your life.

@estherkwamboka4890 3 ай бұрын

It's great to hear from men with standards hang on there

@sheilawavamunno9372 5 ай бұрын

"Do not say of marriage what you should be saying of God." 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 Indeed, only God can fix us. Not marriage. Nor singleness!! Thank you very much for this Lisa & Dennis 😊

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Yess👏🏾👏🏾 that also got me

@blessedray1040 4 ай бұрын

Our beloved Pastor Denis, yes you have nurtured our youths in godly ways and the Lord will surely bless you. Thank you for giving to the Lord

@carolynebalungi9720 5 ай бұрын

What an intelligent man…God bless you

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Surely👏🏾👏🏾

@gloriassali3367 4 ай бұрын

Lisa, I'd like to hear from over 50+ single people and how they find dating.

@LisaKusiima 4 ай бұрын

Noted

@tariromachingauta9294 5 ай бұрын

Wow, such a calibre of man in this generation. Thank you!

@EmanziYaKamugyene 4 ай бұрын

I will keep saying this, intelligent men still exist. Kingdom men are still there

@matamabrenda8427 4 ай бұрын

For sure Dennis wowed me I kept thinking pardon did he just think out like this 😊totally loved this episode

@samuelkalungi2651 5 ай бұрын

“We must be careful not to say about marriage what we should be saying of God" 💯 Thanks Lisa and Denis 👏

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

You are welcome

@kamimaduka7339 5 ай бұрын

The message we didn't even know we needed! So much wisdom for free!!! Guys share this video with your friends you never know, also subscribe if you haven't!!

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Yess thank you so much

@balambamary10 5 ай бұрын

Wisdom, Wisdom, Wisdom! The Fear of The Lord is The beginning of wisdom Indeed!

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

🎉🎉🎉

@brianonganga2636 5 ай бұрын

This conversation was rich and empowering for a man like me. Hopefully for other men too in the same season. Thank you for the great work, God bless!

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

I hope so too!

@akotclare2133 5 ай бұрын

Full of wisdom. I can listen to him the whole day. I admire his maturity and humility alot. May God continue to bless you more Denis.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Surely

@tariromachingauta9294 4 ай бұрын

So i just watched this for the third time after listening twice to your discussion with Cerinah and this thing about " my brand of christian person" or my tribe is standing out. I have always felt that yes, within the christian community there is a certain tribe and brand for me and when you say it to some people they look at you weirdly. Thank you for these discussions they are so valuable. When you find your tribe, you thrive!

@LisaKusiima 4 ай бұрын

Exactly thank you

@ankundasheillah6543 5 ай бұрын

"Do not say of marriage what you would say of God". That's so profound. Thank you Lisa, Thank you Minister Mugume. I am so blessed that I listened in

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

🎉🎉🎉🎉

@AraoVICKYCHRISTINE 4 ай бұрын

Lisa and Denis thanks for your time, it's a blessing to many

@connieahebwa4211 4 ай бұрын

Academic Rigor in church. We highly need it. Beautiful episode

@LisaKusiima 4 ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾

@fortheyoung1320 5 ай бұрын

Eeh, the Holy Ghost is doing great things in Uganda. From Apostle Mulinde to the guest on this episode.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Thank you

@phoebenaamala4016 5 ай бұрын

Single people are not sick! Put that on a T-shirt💥

@SweettoothMarie77 5 ай бұрын

And print many shirts

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Yaaaasss👏🏾👏🏾

@anonnona6433 5 ай бұрын

They are not cursed either. Banaye. The stigma. And if one celebrates their singlehood, they will say it is the devil making them celebrate it. Eih.

@kulokolakevin 5 ай бұрын

Singleness is a gift...the independence it comes with

@Bootstrapsmediaandcommunicatio 5 ай бұрын

Lol....my sister only when ur in those younger years,when u get oldooooo....chaiiiii...u start thinking imbanou...something is wrong na... Lol

@kayanjabrianemmanuel5541 4 ай бұрын

You are as much happy as you are holy. Thank you musumba Denis and Lisa

@oltegasmith846 4 ай бұрын

Lisa bring back Mr mugume again. Wise words right there.

@LisaKusiima 4 ай бұрын

Noted

@kaganziesther 5 ай бұрын

Thank you Lisa❤ A big WOW to Pastor Denis❤

@carolinemayende7917 5 ай бұрын

thank you musumba mugume ,i was proud to learn from your father and you as well as my youth pastor.

@janekabagenyi1969 5 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor Denis...Soo much wisdom shared here😊

@renembongn.5877 5 ай бұрын

Wisdom was laid out here. Brilliant insights! Wishing him & hers a fulfilling marriage journey🙏🏾 I feel sometimes the “singles conferences “ in churches is meant for visibility and pairing up, to let potential partners mingle🤷🏽‍♀️(I undercover feel so, just my guess)

@nakamatte.brenda.blessed 5 ай бұрын

Episode full of wisdom 🙏🙏

@CuriosityJunction-global 5 ай бұрын

I love the content and thats how you get a new subscriber from Kenya

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Welcome here!💃🏾

@kigongowinnie4014 5 ай бұрын

Lisa Lisa , just what I needed. Girl always filling our souls

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Wow

@faithbyanjeru6971 5 ай бұрын

Marriage is a place to serve one another not to consume one another......thank you for sharing pastor Dennis

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching

@brendakyokusiima817 5 ай бұрын

At St Francis Chapel makerere...we are blessed with a good intelligent youth pastor

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

🎉🎉

@IAMTHATIAM2024 Ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@marthanamara4380 5 ай бұрын

My brother in Christ....Happy to see you here....now let me listen in 😊

@agenofavour1866 5 ай бұрын

Pastor Denis 🎉, thanks Lisa for the show ❤

@petermafabi7148 5 ай бұрын

This is by far the best class I have attended on this channel. Thank you

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you!

@missfabidia 4 ай бұрын

Amazing interview.

@AyebareKagina 5 ай бұрын

Excellent stuff here, thanks Lisa & Mugume

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching

@siphokaziluzipho4197 5 ай бұрын

You are where God wants you...thank you Pst.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Indeed

@justinenansimbe3341 5 ай бұрын

Thanks Lisa. This show was so educative.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

You are welcome

@isaacmangeni3573 4 ай бұрын

Wow wow wow Thank you very much

@akellogloria7971 5 ай бұрын

Deep deep conversation here,amazing amazing ,have been so blessed. Thank you Lisa and thank you Mugume for allowing God to use you.God bless you sir.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Amen amen

@ikirizaelizabeth3187 5 ай бұрын

I am where God wants me to be 😊😊

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Yes yes you are👏🏾👏🏾

@godsfavoritechild3187 5 ай бұрын

The “WOW” factor here is on 💯. So much WISDOM packed in one video👏🏽Pastor Mugume Thank you! The boys you mentor are indeed in good hands 🙌🏾 . Such a huge BLESSING ! & to you Lisa your channel is an absolute inspiration. This is truly your calling. Well done 👍🏽

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Our pleasure!

@estherkwamboka4890 3 ай бұрын

Great convo, great to know there some real genuine men out there🎉

@LisaKusiima 3 ай бұрын

Yes there are

@kemitominoreen822 5 ай бұрын

Wow wonderful dialogue. I love you Lisa for what you doing, may God bless you mummie

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Amen amen

@rytamwaibale8908 5 ай бұрын

This message has greatly rebuked me. Thank you Lisa for such beautiful conversations

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Amen

@jeremypeterandruda3946 5 ай бұрын

Pr.Denis wow, so much wisdom soooooo much and a lot learnt

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@Beneth91 4 ай бұрын

Wow! I have always wondered why most young men are single yet God privileged them with power to choose and I was kinda led to think they're avoiding responsibility but this gentleman has really enlightened me and most especially from a Godly mind point of view. Now I know single men could be having all the good reasons. Thanks for the talk Lisa ...for always putting in your resources to help us understand society better.

@marionsenkomago8269 5 ай бұрын

You are where God wants you! Deep conversation..Thankyou!

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching

@parlindah 5 ай бұрын

Wow, this has blessed me. The more we chase Holiness, the happier we are. Thanks Lisa and Pastor Mugume 🎉🎉

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾

@daisyasiimwe3094 4 ай бұрын

Well said 👏 👌

@jackiewadulo 5 ай бұрын

❤ this episode!!!

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

🎉

@Tuongeemediahub 5 ай бұрын

Our Youth pastor 🎉🎉🎉

@beth5993 5 ай бұрын

This guy has spoken my mind. No Addition and subtraction.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Hahah that’s nice to hear

@mugisharobert6473 5 ай бұрын

This is very granular! Rich conversation here 😊

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Glad you think so!

@1865martha 5 ай бұрын

Yes, we need to get back to apologetics. I completely agree with Pastor Denis. We need to talk about what we are experiencing in our world. Our Lord did not shy away or fear or worry about difficult topics - He went to the difficult and challenging areas we face trusting that the Father will guide and provide everything we need. And He invites us to bring them to Him. We are safe in Him. Thank you for bringing Pastor Denis.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

You are welcome 🙏🏽

@StevenWaswa 5 ай бұрын

Awesomely rich🥰 conversation

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

🤗

@barbraayesiga2036 5 ай бұрын

eehh wow! I have loved this conversation

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed it as well

@The_life_garage 5 ай бұрын

Everyone has a Divine schedule this hit differently. Thank you Lisa for this amazing content. Let us see your channel grow to more than 500k subs just like @LNN’s Lyn channel she is Kenyan and holds the same line of thought in terms of content just like you!!!

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Amen amen let’s get those subs in

@murungiatusasiire9904 5 ай бұрын

Wooow wow very well preached 🎉

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for listening

@brendamarunga 5 ай бұрын

Pastor Denis always with the gems👏

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching

@ahuriratracy5831 5 ай бұрын

Auuuh pastor Denis🥰🤗🤗

@mwebazacharity1240 4 ай бұрын

Hi Lisa Thank you for such vital and deep discussions from such a mature man; i hope he returns on the channel; would be a good combo with Rinaldi and Rev Muhima...this thing of most men not wanting to go to Church/related activities...the modern dating expectations..eh

@LisaKusiima 4 ай бұрын

He really would ☺️☺️

@ayebamos 5 ай бұрын

Rich conversation here.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Glad you think so👏🏾

@AcklynJamie 4 ай бұрын

Very intelligent man

@samuelkalekezi8962 5 ай бұрын

Awesome conversation all the way around. Christianity is symbolised by the cross which is the death of Christ for our sake and to fulfill the will of God. So we need to embrace the need to die to self if we are going to obey the will and word of God. Thanks Lisa for having this gentleman to share with us this lovely wisdom.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

You are so welcome

@kaliisakaita5831 5 ай бұрын

Youth minister❤

@DamaryAmpaire 5 ай бұрын

Thanks my own Pastor🎉 come alive mininstry

@zindukakids 4 ай бұрын

Ñuggets of wisdom flowing here to God be the glory now we know

@LisaKusiima 4 ай бұрын

Amen

@Bootstrapsmediaandcommunicatio 5 ай бұрын

Ehhhhh....this gentleman...pastor ....chaaiiiii....

@kulokolakevin 5 ай бұрын

This guy is sooo smart...ehhh ehhh...different mindset what what😂😢

@namugerwajuliet4633 5 ай бұрын

Wow as in wow , Lisa you are such a creative human, i mean how did u think of hosting this guy and he tells how it feels like being a single male cox we have heard enough of female singles 🥰but above everything ,Isaiah 60:22 when time is right I the LORD will make it happen, Isaiah 55:8-9 For my thoughts are nit your thoughts and my ways are not your ways either, declares The LORD🙏

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

I love learning from all angles 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@IAMTHATIAM2024 Ай бұрын

We have the weddings on 24th August 2024

@IAMTHATIAM2024 Ай бұрын

I meant "" they""

@kulokolakevin 5 ай бұрын

Ehh ehh this guy is a real elder bro😂... Thank you Lisa

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Hahahahah

@anonnona6433 5 ай бұрын

Take the fish out of water nanti it needs " freedom" that was a good one. Which reminds me of a statement that said " the word of God is protection not restriction "

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

That’s so true yet sometimes we think God is limiting us

@AkampuriraDenise-ez2jx Ай бұрын

Today is His birthday 1:19 🎈... Happiest birthday Minister Dennis🎉

@LisaKusiima Ай бұрын

Hahah 🥳🥳🥳

@douglasmartinssemaganda 5 ай бұрын

Dennis confronts very pertinent matters in rships,marriage, mindset etc. Let's not pick a leaf and leave the tree😂.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Pretty much!

@preciousakatukunda9869 5 ай бұрын

Wow

@blessingschaile8076 5 ай бұрын

🙌🙌🙌

@estherkkabanda256 5 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@dricirusuzan 5 ай бұрын

Always ask for God's choice of partner for you, because people can really pretend to be whom they are not.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

So true

@kihembodoreen7368 5 ай бұрын

Do something that is not about me. I will definitely purpose to do this at least once a month. Thank you.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

That’s great

@suubilyenina1970 5 ай бұрын

I remember him from Kibuli ss!

@user-gy2pv1tr5u 5 ай бұрын

All I can say is wooooooow

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Wowest

@faithnakitandwe3614 4 ай бұрын

If your driven by your feelings u have no identity ❤@pastor Den

@karibunisafari9827 2 ай бұрын

💗💕💞💓

@kaliisakaita5831 5 ай бұрын

I really miss ST. Francis Chapel.

@namiirojose6824 2 ай бұрын

Clearly this gentleman is not yet married because his singleself has alot to offer to the church/community

@brendaowomugisha4150 5 ай бұрын

Somehow wen you break God's rules ,you break yourself.

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Surely

@faithbyanjeru6971 5 ай бұрын

This time no light bulb moment🙈

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

Hahah next time

@anonnona6433 5 ай бұрын

26:11 Dear, people want prosperity gospel, bufumbo, and things of that nature 😂

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

😂😂

@user-bz8jd6uh5e 5 ай бұрын

I think they should start preaching what can help people to develop instead of preaching these biblical things all the time . Men like to go where they can learn something in terms of development.

@mwesigwapeter8007 5 ай бұрын

hehehe drinking water

@vickyjanicekisakye7731 4 ай бұрын

Play lists😂😂😂

@user-yz8jj2gu7h 5 ай бұрын

Bro, PLEASE take your time. I was married in my mid 30s to a woman who LIED about everything about herself to me so that I can bring her to a western country where I was living and working professionally. The marriage failed and I NO LONGER TRUST WOMEN!!! This woman destroyed my career, my children, etc.

@anitakamagoba8424 5 ай бұрын

Never give up ,The Lord can still get u ure better half

@LisaKusiima 5 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry sir about what you e gone through. However, Generalizing isn’t the way. God is able to

@joannamarie9090 4 ай бұрын

Ooh sorry dear. But forgive yourself

@karibunisafari9827 2 ай бұрын

🤎💜❤️💙💚💛

@ankundasheillah6543 5 ай бұрын

"Do not say of marriage what you would say of God". That's so profound. Thank you Lisa, Thank you Minister Mugume. I am so blessed that I listened in